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@spreadlove2628
4 жыл бұрын
This might be random. But, I subscribe to your channel and have watch a lot of your videos. Do you know the people who are acting in your videos? I think I know that black girl in your videos, it's either she look just like the girl I know or that's her. We grew up going to the same church.
@MikiLund
4 жыл бұрын
A heart broken Infj ?
@spreadlove2628
4 жыл бұрын
@@MikiLund I'm not sure if you're responding to me
@deanhilbig8606
4 жыл бұрын
@@MikiLund Big giant forever hugs!!!
@joyroggenkamp5290
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! And now being on the road to myself for all my life ive finally found the place of me, and i honestly can thank the universe for creating me just the way i am i dont need to belong, dont need validation, ive learnt to love myself now enough to be home to exist quietly, boldly inmy own space or in crowds or small groups or i can dwell on the fringes of society where others fear to tread.
@TheBest-gz9ku
4 жыл бұрын
Everyone always says that INFJs hurt others and are cold... But no one ever talks about the pain that INFJs feel...
@justmevsg1681
3 жыл бұрын
Yasssss. We’re not made of ice!
@bumblebee803
2 жыл бұрын
@@justmevsg1681 Exactly!
@TheMrCougarful
2 жыл бұрын
What pain. If you are allowing people to hurt you, then the truth might be that you aren't doing "introvert" as fluidly as you should be. The shadows are your friend. Learn to not care even a little, and then how to care deeply when required.
@JT-gm4fk
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheMrCougarful Being in the shadows is why you're in pain to begin with. If you stay hidden, you'll never experience growth and strength. Introvert isn't a "thing" ...it's a behavior and staying secluded doesn't disqualify you from pain. But, hiding yourself due to fear will bring more long term pain than any external source ever will
@ay-tj7pj
11 ай бұрын
Introvert is a "thing". We are born quiet, we don't choose to be quiet @@JT-gm4fk
@debbieparenti3998
4 жыл бұрын
It is not easy being an INFJ.
@PhStateOfMind
4 жыл бұрын
Debbie Parenti when you’re a kid, sure. But when you grow and grow more it starts to get fun
@PhStateOfMind
4 жыл бұрын
All For Yahweh yep. Being an INFJ kid is like an accumulation of expectations and then being an adult’s like executing them w/ a lot of disappointments especially when it comes to people. Yknow? It’s like we’re on a lifelong journey of constantly trying to find the perfect ‘place’, ‘friend’ or ‘time’ and still be disappointed that our environment cannot keep up w/ it. And you know what the sad thing is, lots of people can make that ‘perfect’ place possible. They just don’t bother starting it or they won’t listen. People nowadays are becoming too comfortable in conforming to what society says that they’ve forgotten having their own opinions and the importance of it. Nobody told me the truth when I was a child and now I’m the one who accepts things as it is. Why are we the ones who always tries....
@arandomdude8701
4 жыл бұрын
Ya fr
@rockkstah2550
4 жыл бұрын
My wife is an INFJ it’s been a very difficult 15years and am an INTJ, these MBTI stuff is just a recent discovery in our marriage to try to understand each other more. Now that I have some knowledge of who she is, and still continuing to get to know her more for who she is, bright side/dark side, I would never let her go, she is my love and my life...
@TheBest-gz9ku
4 жыл бұрын
yea... It's sad and depressing sometimes...
@LindaCutshaw
3 жыл бұрын
I have been ignored by family, ignored by "friends", and even ignored by 12 step program sponsors. Whatever the situation, it's like they can't treat you the same as others who are in the very same relationship roles as you. I have often wondered if they think I'm not even a human being complete with feelings and needs. The only time they ever think of me is when they want something or need a shoulder on which to cry. But on the bright side animals always notice me, know how I am feeling, and want to spend time with me. Consequently, that is precisely why I would rather spend my time with animals than people.
@darlenegattus8190
2 жыл бұрын
I feel you, it's difficult
@lulakat11236
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I understand exactly what you are expressing. It is deeply hurtful. I have been extremely introverted all of my life. I also find more comfort in the company of animals. ❤Much love to you
@BR2201b
11 ай бұрын
I can relate. I'm the only INFJ in my family, and I'm treated as the outlier. I have to blend into the crowd, and I'm ignored for just being that type of person.
@angelacavon9256
4 жыл бұрын
I’m an INFJ, and I like everything about nature and wildlife. But I don’t like being around people 😂🤦♂️
@james12erby43
4 жыл бұрын
Same over here ..
@angelacavon9256
4 жыл бұрын
James 12 Erby though everyone keeps forcing me to be a social person. I get bullied in every school I go to just because I don’t like being around anyone. 🤷♀️. Same at church peeps keep judging me about it and want me to come out of my shell.
@angelacavon9256
4 жыл бұрын
James 12 Erby in fact, I made three animal friends in Antalya 😂. Call me crazy but I’m serious. 😂
@angelous6630
4 жыл бұрын
I tested at a INTP but I feel much like this all the time when I don't speak my mind and suffer because of it. I'm corny of the wall and keep to myself and a hermit.
@kanishka2552
3 жыл бұрын
Haha same I'm tired of being misunderstood
@baetiridwan611
4 жыл бұрын
Being ignored was traumatizing childhood experiences for me. I always jealous why my peer can be friend easily & why they don't want me. As i grew up i'm so used to it. Yes. Being left alone, no one care, being ignored is part of my life now. This make me more intimidating. Now i'm the one who left people alone cause that's my comfortable space. I don't care anymore if my friends or my workmate will think i was antisocial, arrogant or aloof. I do my job well, i help others the way i can, i talk & joke with them the way i can handle it. When i feel drained, i left them, just be in my own world. Too tired to being caring anymore.
@cosmic2096
3 жыл бұрын
🌎♾️🌌😇 we are here together
@chickedeedee292
3 жыл бұрын
I was always the quiet outsider when I was young, cut like a knife at times. Now, I am so used to it and appreciate my down time.
@keithstewart7514
2 жыл бұрын
It's our life's destiny
@ggresham4419
4 жыл бұрын
I often think being invisible is a superpower
@remember6646
4 жыл бұрын
But there's always someone who is excited to talk and listen to you, hold that person, don't let them go. They are precious.
@TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
I think we INFJ types just want to be around, REAL people. If we sense a disturbance in, "The Force" you gotta go lol
@CrimsonGhostNY
2 жыл бұрын
That's a typical trait of an INFJ. We like to get to know the real person and prefer meaningful conversations as opposed to idle chit chat that just feels like a waste of time.
@aliciagc2539
4 жыл бұрын
The point about being easily over stimulated is so true. I don't know that we are ignored so much as we don't inject ourselves into the conversation unless we find it meaningful or worth our time.
@lxf9914
4 жыл бұрын
I always sneek up on people without trying lol
@marcalt26
4 жыл бұрын
I do the same thing all the time without even trying to. I just walk up to people sometimes and they get scared, I guess it's because they don't see me, hear me, or feel me approaching them (energy wise, probably because we don't let off energy that much).
@sunset9729
3 жыл бұрын
When you're invisible the world is yours you can walk through it and nobody will even notice and you can have the world as your playground use your invisibility as an asset
@time_to_sleep12
2 жыл бұрын
what do you mean by that?
@deanhilbig8606
4 жыл бұрын
Quality is never cheap. But a cunning eye, can spot a great value!
@thearchangelmicheal9509
4 жыл бұрын
We should start up an infj get together for each state once or twice a year! Oh how awesomely awkward THAT would be at first!! X,D
@MikiLund
4 жыл бұрын
The awkward thing, 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ohthatwan8559
4 жыл бұрын
It'll be like hyped up halfway about going, but once we're there, we don't know how to socialise and just get awkward instead lol
@correanne5366
4 жыл бұрын
Ya, but I'll worry if i won't connect bcuz I think & do weird, comical things & feel off & then wanna go home or jump in water (i mermaid too)
@MikiLund
4 жыл бұрын
@@ohthatwan8559 👍😂😂
@michellewei7349
4 жыл бұрын
I have no friends. I'm 48. I know NYC has an INFJ / INFP combo meetup group.
@metsrus
4 жыл бұрын
getting ignored is probably not worst thing in the world for an INFJ
@nNicholas626
4 жыл бұрын
People didn't ignore me , I ignore them
@gdyong8824
4 жыл бұрын
all my life i have felt like i was ingnord that most people usually are and now i finally know why. i cant express how much i have question myself about this.
@highplainsdrifter699
3 жыл бұрын
Always ignored..... That is till someone needs something from us. INFJ-t .
@zentient8840
3 жыл бұрын
This is so true.
@mikelazzara7773
4 жыл бұрын
I'm invisible and my family even ignores me when I try to tell them anything that's more than a paragraph long . So I don't say much anymore.
@snoozebutton23
4 жыл бұрын
Do you also get the saying "your the only one who feels that way" or "your being too sensitive or dramatic" list goes on. Id rather be a wallflower than to try and connect with ppl who just dont "get" you. You would be spinning in circles over explaining yourself. Ive dealt woth this my who life and its fill yourself up with things that make you happy and screw everyone else. Your not going to be understood unless you find a like minded tribe. I have one...its small but still good. Ya still good. - lilo and stitch just parapharased. Ive been alone much of my life cuz i see things differently and use to hearing your odd or strange or old soul. Rather be strange than all the same. Rofl got The Doors "strange" popped in my head. Have a good one!
@mikelazzara7773
4 жыл бұрын
@@snoozebutton23 You're like my twin.Yup I've heard all that. Peace.
@snoozebutton23
4 жыл бұрын
😁
@munima5699
4 жыл бұрын
One thing is i am a chameleon. I have my exciting moments. I know in which social situations i need to get out there and put myself up. But it comes at a cost. After over stimulating, I need a whole day of recharging myself. A cycle.
@SupportKennedyVoteTrump
4 жыл бұрын
When you get older it takes like 3 days.
@akirayoung1101
4 жыл бұрын
For an INFJ I realize that life is the best when you live as wearing a T-shirt inside out to protect its Quality:)
@OnTrack101
4 жыл бұрын
That is so right! So relatable
@GodsGamble
4 жыл бұрын
I am one of the purest of INFJs meaning I have every quality mentioned, good and bad! From experience of living with the personality of an INFJ I tend to enjoy learning about all aspects of any subject that interests me. I am really into human existence, the mind and the anatomy our health. I have zero filter when it comes to expressing myself and I really enjoyed to try to benefit others with my knowledged. A lot of people and personalities are not honest about who they really are in the mistakes they make on their everyday life choices. I can understand it's very hard to take in the truth when it's not something entertaining or pleasant which creates the cause and effect scenario. I caused myself to have them reflect on their life this ultimately affects them and negative ways more than Les thus leading to be ignored.
@katherinefoster5659
3 жыл бұрын
Im infj, I know some people they tell me I don't have friends or im a lonely person, I dont hang around that much with people even i like people because I absorbed people emotions. I see through them. I love the natures and water.
@koelreed8165
3 жыл бұрын
Such a blessing (once you accept it). Was frustrating growing up and even early career. Now it saves me from conflict because of the intimidation factor.
@deepak1987
4 жыл бұрын
The reason I like being ignored is because, I am more interested in the background, I'm more interested in the context, global gestalts, fuzzy overall moods, broad archetypes, correlations, and analogies, Than in the narrow particulars, specifics, details, linear stuff, crystallized stuff etc. So being in the sidelines, lets me soak in everything, and feel the grand-vista of what is happening. And enter into a trance or contemplative mood. Like a person reading between all the lines that are being spoken. Like a person feeling and sensing the entire subterranean vibes and flows. Like hearing the feel, cadence, rhythm, beat, and mood of the music, underneath the lyrics. I actually want to hear the person, through their words. The words are only vehicles to take me to the person. So this takes a lot of processing power. When I have to actively engage, I cannot attend to this background gestalt perception/feels. This would make me feel like I'm losing vision/perspective, And feeling blinded confused and lost without that GPS mapping. Ideally in any environment, it would be great if I knew everything about, Who are the people there, What do they value/care about in their core, What is their life pursuit, What is the context of their gathering, Who is taking up what role and so on, How do they see me? What freedoms do I have or not have? and so on. The more I have clarity on all of that context, the more free I feel to participate.
@princemorningstar6463
4 жыл бұрын
It's true. I remember at one time I was in a group of friends who were jovially chatting and laughing, no one seemed to notice my presence or talk with me, as if I was an invisible spirit. I wasn't trying to get attention, but the kind of treatment was just so not right. Again I wasn't seeking attention, after all, I'm an INFJ. I love peace of mind and quietness instead of staying in a group of noisy people talking nonsense!!!
@user-oe2ph8wl5s
3 жыл бұрын
hey this always happens to me it makes me sad... I think im an infj because I show all the signs of one
@LannyX2
4 жыл бұрын
I am an INFJ and a Scorpio, both which have many traits that run parallel to each other...so I got a double dose of weird. People dont ignore me, they are terrified of me, be it my looks (I have the look of an outlaw biker yet I dont dress like one), or people think I look unintelligent (I can read their eyes)until they talk to me... then most are intimidated by that to the point that they are unable to converse with me on the level that I am responding. One problem of mine that I am aware of is I rarely smile because i have little to smile about...I have been that way since I was a cognizant of my existance, so virtually unapproachable at this point in my life.
@nimcaali3289
3 жыл бұрын
Hello lanny i am nima l am infj female and cancer so i am highly sensitive and misunderstood like you and people avoid me all my life like you that's used to hurt me and made me feel like i am bad person because peopl don't appreciate me for who l am but l learned to love my self dear and i wish you will love you self too because scorpio are amazing people my biggest love of life was scorpio Male and l couldn't be with him so that break my heart so badly but scorpio Males and females are favourite people and my mother is scorpio and lovely human being so please love yourself and just be friends with people that love you for who you are
@LannyX2
3 жыл бұрын
@@nimcaali3289 This is probably one of the kindest responses I have gotten from someone who I have never met. Thank you for that, I am not one who gets compliments often...feels like an eternity between them. Having love for myself might be the greatest challenge I have in my life, i am trying though. Recently I have suffered a great loss and am recovering from it, generally 2 days out of my week for the past 2 years have been hell, and has slowed my progress way down. May your light forever keep bringing light to others in the dark.
@gdyong8824
4 жыл бұрын
this is the most accurate youtube channel on infj i have ever seen. thank you for helping me understand me better.
@justmevsg1681
3 жыл бұрын
I like being a wallflower. Gives me time to do what I love...observing...
@Weeseypoo
4 жыл бұрын
Really tho, i never thought myself as intimidating until i lived with roommates and i asked why they wouldn’t ask me to do a certain task. They said that i’m intimidating or unapproachable for those types of things. And it made me feel bad about it and start to question what makes me so intimidating. I guess like you said, it was the first impression.
@kentkirkland7230
4 жыл бұрын
It's true. I just went to interview a young company official, and I was so serious, he dropped his pencil two times.
@robertjohnson4401
4 жыл бұрын
This is the number one reason why INFJs are ignored.
@maddy4690
2 жыл бұрын
Hey don't feel bad. Even when I was nice, I still got betrayed on. People always have something to say.
@sunset9729
4 жыл бұрын
Always ignored ideas ALWAYS stole. It is like an ecco in my life. Most of the time I'm happy that my idea was used. By the blind. 😵🤔
@Miquinee
4 жыл бұрын
Love your content, but why does it always sounds like you are screaming in a toilet recording with all the echos?
@uckBayNguyen
4 жыл бұрын
Hello everyone. I hope everyone is safe and well during these trying times. I know how anxious and eager we are to assist in times of need and oftentimes without thought to ourselves. We are angels, but we are fragile and not invincible so I would like to ask we safeguard and protect ourselves from what we can't see. It's bad enough we're ignored, but should any of us exit alone will break my heart. Stay safe and hug your love ones
@Eshayter
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this very insightful video. A lot of people have already told me that they didn't want to engage with me because I was intimidating. Do you know what makes us that way to other people?
@time_to_sleep12
3 жыл бұрын
I really wonder this.
@jmontero6281
4 жыл бұрын
People always ignore me
@deborahwolff5651
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds so like myself! I have been called a wallflower before and it hurts. I love my solitude and refuse to get involved with other people; especially if they ignore you and hurts and is uncomfortable.
@Rasheens-Story
4 жыл бұрын
Facts I'd rather not answer the question and give others a chance. I actually love the limelight and hosting a party
@davewalker3873
4 жыл бұрын
That clevage!!!!!
@robertjohnson4401
4 жыл бұрын
I think why we are ignored is a combination of few reasons. One is we give off an aura that we want to be left alone and don't want anyone to acknowledge us. To add to that, we seem intimidating, discerning and highly competent and people feel somewhat inadequate compared to us. The irony is their instincts are accurate. The thing that seals our fate is we do not initiate contact with others, we only respond when initially contacted.
@time_to_sleep12
2 жыл бұрын
how to break that fate then?
@ajjajk
4 жыл бұрын
Video is on-point 100%
@melanie.l6282
4 жыл бұрын
it"s all true but i prefer to be ignored rather than ending in boring superficial conversations!!
@sarahmackeprangesquell6660
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, those are the worst! Better to sit and enjoy the peace, than put up with fake fluff.
@OnTrack101
4 жыл бұрын
There is so little meaningful conversations in this world and those are the most time worthy for INFJs.
@patricioeb
3 жыл бұрын
I've been mistreated (and ignored...) since the last 12 years by being "overqualified" 🤷♂️
@jimmyhuesandthehouserocker1069
3 жыл бұрын
It's not so much I want to stay in the background, it's how I never have anyone to talk to who understands on my level and wants to be friends with me. If I was at a party full of people like me, I'd be anything except a wallflower or in the background. I keep to myself because I have to be this way
@aminahshahid8878
3 жыл бұрын
We don't engage in conversations like others do because firstly we are too caught up in our own thoughts and inner world and secondly we don't like shallow Small talks ، we don't want to hangout with people for long because it drains us، in a nutshell we are not as social as it is desired by most of the people thus they prefer social people over us
@alisontunny9362
4 жыл бұрын
That doesn’t make sense that INFJs don’t engage in small talk because they don’t want to get over stimulated! You mean they don’t find it an essential thing to engage in. They’d prefer to go and think their thoughts elsewhere or go and observe something else.
@lucasernest1867
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I thought I have an abnormality or I am a problem to their Funtimes, thank God I am INFJ minding my own business. Then now they'll smell the smoke
@shinx1387
4 жыл бұрын
Oh, wow, so it's not only me as infj
@emmanuelogaba6579
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I can totally relate to this
@renasanchez2192
4 жыл бұрын
I'm an infj but I can confront anyone if they are being too much. I can speak my mind and argue if I know that you are wrong or being toxic and which I know that arguing is the right thing to do. I'm not a shy person but I always avoid being the center of attention because I know that some people may be jealous and backstab me. I also don't like small talks because I don't like faking myself. I also don't like confrontation because I don't like hurting anyone's feeling and cause a fight. I like being unnoticed because I observed that anyone who likes being the centef of attention have complicated life. Please don't misunderstand, we INFJ can speak bluntly and without filter even if it hurts you, if we know that it will make you a better person. But as much as possible we don't want to argue with anyone because we love our peaceful life. We INFJ stands and will always stand for what is right and we will always seek the truth. We are unbiased people,even if you are our friend and your words and actions are wrong, we will tell you that. But again, we love our peaceful life, we always think the consequences of our action. We will think what is good for us and what is not. We will tell our other friends to talk to that certain friend if we know that that certain friend will not listen to us. It is so complicated, but I hope you understand. We infjs just always calculate our move but it is for the good of everyone. We don't want to be misunderstood of our actions that's why sometimes we resort on being ignored. Because in this way, we can think properly, and we can observe if something is not wrong with anyone. And with that we can help them as soon as possible. Also remember that we are judgemental person. Please don't misunderstand, we know what is right and what is wrong. And if your actions are wrong, we will wonder why did you did it, what's behind your actions or what is your past. We will try to understand you and guide you. However, we being judgemental, we always judge ourselves, we don't like being driven by our emotions when we decide to do things or even when we talk. We also don't like being judge that's why we like being a wallflower. We can't explain ourselves why we did this and why not. And that being said, people always misunderstand our intention. One of the reason why we don't like being emotional is we don't like regretting things. We will be eaten by our guilt if we did something that may hurt anyone and if the main factor of that is our emotion. We also don't like being emotional cause we think nobody can truly understand us or we are too afraid to be judged even though we are always there to understand and comfort anyone. It's not like we don't trust our close friends, it's just we are too sensitive when we have problems, that even the smallest detail feels like a big thing. We are so vulnerable actually, we can get hurt si easily but we don't like being unreasonable, so even though we are hurting inside (we are observant people, and we know when you are doing something behind our back or you have hatred towards us and we know the reason of your hatred towards us) we just act like everything is fine. We know when, why and how did the hatred started, but we will be oblivious until you tell us yourself that something is going on. While you are not telling it to us, we knew already, and by that time we are secretly hurting, because we thought that we just did what's best and what is right but that is the outcome. While you are not telling your hatred toward us, we on the other hand will doubt ourselves and ask if we deserved being hated or we will regret doing what is right and what is best for you cause we think it is not worth it. And when you finally confess to us that for some time now you had these things to us, we will just smile to you and tell you it's fine, we understood (cause we really did understand why you are feeling that way) and tell you that we already knew (even when you ask who told us, we will not answer it, because its weird if we tell you that we are observing your actions). And though you thought that the odd things ends with your confession and us saying it is okay, no, for an INFJ it is never an end, we will continue to think about our actions, and to make sure that it will never happened again so it will not upset you again. Trust me, we deeply cares for everyones well being. And when these incidents happen, we will lose our carefree vibe around you. It is not our intention to make you feel like you are an awful person for talking behind our back when we treasure you as our dear friend, it just we are deeply hurt and we want to avoid any means that may upset you. That is just how we infj think, though we are hurting, we will hide it, thinking our problem or our feelings are no one's business and we will make your feelings our priority because we cared for you and we think that it is our responsibility to care for everyone. And though this mentality is slightly a burden, to disregard our own well being for other people, it is what makes us feel happy and for us, it is a satisfying joy when we knew that we made you happy.
@renasanchez2192
4 жыл бұрын
And if you think that it is natural for infjs to be selfless, no, it was and will never be easy for us, we are just human too, just like everybody we have our own wants in life. And even though we really like a certain things, if you ask us to give it to you, we will surely give it, why? Because we will be eaten by our guilt if not. Even if you all just think that it is just right for us to have it, because we had it first, no, we will continue to think about it and find reasons why we should'nt have it (we may sometimes fool ourselves that it is not very important and that we should just give it to you) we will not be happy having things when we know that there is someone who is sad not having it. It is a mental torture for us. We infjs are so soft-hearted person. That's why we always look so distant, cold, awkward or shy. We are just protecting ourselves because we know that we are just too soft-hearted for our own good. We are not just using our emotions (being emphatetic and kind-hearted) but also our head. We knew when someone is manipulating us and by that time we look so cold because we don't like being used. Although we are soft-hearted, we knew a lot of things and we use our brain to protect our emphaty. We are just aware of things and we can't be easily be fooled. We don't like having insincere, fake or user friends because we know that those person spoils our goodness. We infjs look unapproachable, strict or badass to outsiders, because when we do something, even if our intention is right, it will look bad to them and plainly, we don't care. Because they don't know us and they're opinion simply didn't matter. It is fine for us to look bad to them and we just don't put effort in explaining things to them because their opinion doesn't bother us. But don't misunderstand, though some people may judge us, we will still continue do good things to them but while doing it, we don't take off our distant vibe or emotionless expression. And though other people opinion does'nt hurt us, we still have the need to protect ourselves in case some people wants to turn everyone against us (which is almost always the case) and no, we don't fight back, this shows our cool vibes to everyone, because we will just genuinely laugh about it and shrug it off but if we are opening up to you and starting to trust, and you somewhat betray us, we will be hurt alot( what i mean is big time) we will forgive you but if you don't reflect in your actions and your not sincerely sorry, congrats, you will see our cool side. If you're hurting us over and over again and we will just it's fine over and over again and we will come to our limit, that we're done, we don't need you in our life anymore( doorslam) you will think that it everything is ok at first and we will totally agree to you cause even if it's actually not, because we may feel like distant or casual or odd, no, it is just us saying that you don't matter anymore. But don't worry all your secrets are safe to us even if the friendship is broken. Just don't bother us anymore because our casualness can have also limit. We may get annoyed with your presence or we don't go anywhere near you. And as much as we can, we will avoid everything that is related to you (either persons or things) cause we don't want to remember our good old days with you. We can't accept that we spent it with someone like you. But if, you will sincerely apologize to us (we can sense it, just remember that no one can fool us and we can read your darkest thoughts in mind) we will give you a chance, we might make our friendship stronger. But just remember that when you have a misunderstanding with an infj, talk to the infjs about what you felt, even if they are actually wrong or right on that part they will understand, because infjs also seek personal growth and they are reflecting on their actions every seconds. Just please mind your words cause infjs are sensitive even if they don't look like they are (and well, they know your intention and your thoughts very well especially when you are close to them) It may be sound weird but when you are close to an infj, don't be shock when they knew what exactly will you thought, act and say in a given situation. It is a fact that infjs are gifted in some areas in life, but they will try to hide it because of so many reasons. 1. They want to feel normal 2. They don't want to be the center of attention ( though infjs wants to be appreciated, they don't want to arouse jealuosy) 3. Don't want to look arrogant (infjs are factual persons but everytime they are telling the truth, it just looks they are bragging, because everytime they talk, they mean it and they look so serious everytime and for some people it does not feel good. They may feel inferior and it may arouse insecurity. And we all know that insecurity does not bring good to anyone) 4. They don't want to make their close friends that they are too much (Even if it is a fact that they feel and think deeply, their actions will contradict it. They will act like easygoing even if their mind and emotions are battling, because they don't want to be a burden and a bother (this is what infjs feared)
@CJ-gu4dj
Жыл бұрын
I am understanding that my understanding or experience is out of the realm most people exist on. It's hard to be yourself and lower your energy to " fit in". Sometimes you find "that person ". Who needs a quiet deep conversation. Yet to converse deeply in a mixed crowd, makes you seem kind of arrogant. People are intimidated by our intellectual dept. They think you are trying to take over or be invasive, when really we have seen the situation from an eagles view, or an every possible outcome situation. This to everyone else is intimidating. We function on higher frequency and higher plains then the world we are stuffed into.
@darlenegattus8190
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, this is 100 percent. Small talk is really difficult to deal with.
@w8what575
4 жыл бұрын
It’s funny to think I learned this term and personality type definition from a psychopath pretending to be an INFJ personality type ...only to find out that this is describing the way I am to a “T” ....needless to say I told the sadistic freak to kick rocks
@johnwehunt4305
4 жыл бұрын
I can make others unconformable or completely open up to me. One on one relationships with many people.
@joyroggenkamp5290
4 жыл бұрын
I remember reading about the traits of hypersensitivity 4% of population. It fits here with most comments. Consider an infj with a borderline personality or other such can make for acting out as well. I just lov feeling connected with the annonimity of this platform, and read all yr comments. Makes me feel really connectedvwith uall. Australian but quiet citizen of the new world.
@melonitha6531
2 жыл бұрын
Same me as INFJ and borderline too,
@jasminreber1442
2 жыл бұрын
Ignored as a kid and from time to time forgotten as an adult. 😑
@bassovereign200
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, these points are true, yes, BUT, I would say that as a general-rule, none of these points are actually the solution to the topic at-hand. That said: Sensors tend to resonate within the typical ranges of the natural/physical world. This means, they are more used to using lower ranges of frequencies. More "earthly" frequencies. Intuitives tend to resonate within the typical ranges of the spiritual/metaphysical world & existence itself. This means, they are more used to using higher ranges of frequencies. More "ethereal" frequencies. And so, the reason INFJs are "ignored" isn't BECAUSE they are being "ignored", BUT rather it is that sensors employ different language than Intuitives do. And vice versa. In other-words: Sensors dwell on the ground and rarely notice or even "sense" the Intuitives "flying-around" high in the sky. When Sensors do look into the sky using their "ground-level" preferred frequencies, they tend not to see anything. And the Intuitives notice whats going-on, on the ground, but rarely do they land long enough to make a direct, sensor-based impact; for the Intuitive does land on the ground long enough to do what they feel they need or want to get done, but then they go back into the skies shortly-thereafter! The Intuitive knows that in-order to touch ground, they must use "heavier", "ground-level"/lower frequencies; and this is not something that they feel comfortable doing for any great length of time. It's kind of like when astronauts return from being in space for a while: their bodies feel heavy and weigh them down until they re-acclimate to being back on the ground. Though, with Intuitives, being on the ground is not too pleasant for any great length of time. As soon as an Intuitive's "weighted-shoes" become too much for them, they kick-off those "weighted-shoes" and fly back up into the atmosphere where they can breathe and be themselves! :-D
@christinemccoy4471
4 жыл бұрын
Bass s Thank you explaining this so clearly. I am way older now, I knew about me , yet you put it into words. Thank you
@bassovereign200
4 жыл бұрын
@@christinemccoy4471 , You're welcome! :-D
@jodisherland5335
3 жыл бұрын
I was kicking my shoes off right as I got to the "will kick their shoes off 😆! Thanks for making a fun lil moment for me :)
@samarmalik1198
4 жыл бұрын
Brill video brother. Thumbs up Someone might like a tried & true solution/suggestion: Choose a safe topic/idea/notion and spill your guts out when with people/another person.. remember to stop when they want to say something (turn-taking). Regards
@mkjihyepangilinan4754
4 жыл бұрын
Me is infj and i hate in some confrontation, it gives me anxiety
@robertgotschall1246
Жыл бұрын
I was once asked if I would prefer being able to fly or be invisible.
@shahadi8483
4 жыл бұрын
I DO WISH can show these to my friends so that they understand me but- UGH!!
@jamielake-boyd3600
3 жыл бұрын
That's why we sound like a broken record. No one usually listens.
@henipusbintari
4 жыл бұрын
Infj, enfj n others are "just" another type of personality.it can be a problem or not, depends on how you deal with it. I mean, it's true i didnt like small talk before, but then i try to enjoy it if i meet people who "only" can have small talk. Why not? not all people like deep talk right? N this world isnt only about us. We're just one of billion people around the world.If we're just willing to figure out what's the meaning of life, then we can 'adjust' ourselves n enjoy the life with its happiness n sadness. Dont make infj as a reason to feel uncomfort or struggling with your life.the problem is your mindset afterall
@justmevsg1681
3 жыл бұрын
I hate when people try to understand me...like yooooo *I* don’t even understand me!! Just love me #weirdandwonderful
@RoseyRoseyugh
3 жыл бұрын
i like being in the background but i still want to be hurd and loved
@myfriendscallmek2745
3 жыл бұрын
They blend in the background, they don't like to make waves. They like to observe their surroundings so they are passive about them.
@zaitunkeji5990
4 жыл бұрын
Yes I did that a lot in classroom. When question being, asked I may know it but choose not to say anything. One people in classroom will be looking at me ro the may want be to explain more about the topic so it's better for someone to say it.
@darkhorse7460
4 жыл бұрын
Whaa? Who told you we won't debate?
@tiffanydeg4262
4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same. things that I'm passionate about or considered right in my eyes I find myself in a debate. Leaving others in shock lol
@darkhorse7460
4 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanydeg4262 Yeah, too many people are making INFJ videos/inaccurate, non factual content. You have to vet your resources for information.
@cosmic2096
3 жыл бұрын
Explained my life . 👽🌎🌌 Oneness is freedom to the Universe assignment.
@tahiraovais8914
4 жыл бұрын
,yes pure INFJ
@annmowatt7547
Жыл бұрын
We are very unassuming and hide from the spotlight but at times, I do wonder if I am invisible when I have something positive to contribute. I know that we are chameleons and can fit in every situation but it is so draining that this is a trait I am reluctant to use unless it is to help someone else feel better. I say little and prefer the old Chinese proverb that it is better to say nothing and appear stupid than to speak and confirm it. Listening to limelight hoggers, I usually find them inane and with nothing sensible or worthwhile to say so I just switch off. We are never ignored however when people need help!
@Michel-ov1sv
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video as well as for the other videos you make. I am an INFJ. I do like and sometimes have difficulties holding myself from helping others and give them advice when asked but over the past year I find myself giving unsolicited advices. This bothers me. I prefer to be more reserved and quiet. However, I am not involved nor am an activist in climate change or animal or environmental protection.I do not oppose these goals and I recycle trash. In my work I am very much interested in advancing knowledge for the benefit of humanity.
@nochu9753
4 жыл бұрын
When talking about infj people always say the contradicting behavior welp I'm an infj and a Leo 🙃 the paradox lmao
@michaelmallal9101
3 жыл бұрын
I'm ignored because people know I'm useless and helpless. I prefer quite so I can think.
@Taurusboy07
2 жыл бұрын
I am always ignored. I feel so empty within. How can I live in this world without any connections or being understood?
@me.i_0vrokma398
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you on track i always hear you when i want to hear something good about myself....i always come to your channel at the end of the day to hear something about myself after dealing with all the stupidity......thank you so much this mean alot to me i can most of the time relate easly to what your saying...... now i Don't have my own in come cuz I'm highschooler but when i do I'll join in any of you do.....you give alot to us infj i think i should also do something for you 💖🌺
@myfriendscallmek2745
3 жыл бұрын
This guy's voice is the same as the one who backs for that narc survivor channel lol
@rennetrinidad
3 жыл бұрын
Reading the comments makes me feel less alone.
@kennyfrench4701
3 жыл бұрын
Most people do not like seeing themselves in the mirror for they see themselves for who they truly are , this is the intimidation . I like to think of it this way when it comes to work , I will follow procedure and protocol better than the person who implemented and endorses it . Very hard to talk to someone (reprimand ) when they as superiors are blind to they're own faults .
@malonneentertainment5301
3 жыл бұрын
I think this video is just explaining what an introvert life looks like not infj
@caffeineaddicto7534
4 жыл бұрын
Is it possible that my personality type might have changed with time??
@zerodevour
4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@correanne5366
4 жыл бұрын
I'll just be a journalist
@AtamDardon
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFJ and have a question to ask, to those willing to answer. Am I the only one that gets a lot out of these videos, while feeling like self-centered asshole for watching so many videos about yourself?
@rishkaismail6619
4 жыл бұрын
That's so me cause I'm complicated but it's jus ppl is sometimes to much, I like to laugh yes but don't irratate me and I don't like the embarrassing moments infront of others
@rocko3622
3 жыл бұрын
I like the troll groupies lol comical
@orrisjeremiahkapukali2731
2 жыл бұрын
I have a funny idea hw to create a game about the personalities and their combos
@CrimsonGhostNY
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like this video was meant to be more of a joke than serious and informative...
@itz_nathael3977
3 жыл бұрын
Yes 🤗🤗
@coralhahn5406
3 жыл бұрын
Why then when we are vocal do people ignore us or depreciate?
@ceciliaguevarra8851
4 жыл бұрын
That’s what I Like most...
@justmevsg1681
3 жыл бұрын
Host of a party!!! 😫😫😫😫
@michaelmallal9101
3 жыл бұрын
Is that the train to Auschwitz at 8:18? I'm not avoiding girl at 8:45. My wife takes me for granted and ignores me.
@PatriceBoivin
3 жыл бұрын
Is it safe to say INFJs and ESFJs are a bit like oil and water?
@thelmnt1185
2 жыл бұрын
Ignored, or set apart? 🤔
@josephmaganja650
3 жыл бұрын
The house 🕸️🏥
@TopperPenquin
3 жыл бұрын
Fing Oath
@atread1001
4 жыл бұрын
And the 11 reasons we don’t care
@junierousseau6124
4 жыл бұрын
Infj get together in west palm beach is a good idea
@vanessajeffcoat1686
4 жыл бұрын
What does INFJ stand for?
@OnTrack101
4 жыл бұрын
Introverted, intuitive, feeling and judging personality type by MBTI
@josephmaganja650
3 жыл бұрын
save Babies🎚️ and children. ) The Twhat's & coks house ,are old enough to look after themselves?🤬😤😡
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