$4 Starbucks coffee every day for a year = $1,440. Cut and color at $150 every 6 weeks = $1,350 Manicure once a month at $25 = $300 Designer purses and shoes = thousands Reclaiming time for yourself that you used to spend on something you hated = priceless
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Didn’t realize the savings!! Not bad to be a DIY woman after all!!! Thank you so much!! I pinned this!❤️
@gatheringmoss5726
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart Thx! Looking at the yearly tally always helps me make better decisions and to look at my impact on the planet.
@paulasmith3577
3 жыл бұрын
Cut and color for $150 isn’t bad. I’m paying $300 a month.
@joannewsome5202
3 жыл бұрын
Paula, $300 ! Wow where do you live ? That’s so high. With tips, for wash, color & set/blow dry, it would cost me around $120. With trim ever 8 weeks, about $160. I live in NJ in the NYC Metro area but 4 years ago, I let my gray go out - retired so don’t need color now. I was rewarded with a beautiful shade of white.. I love it but need a haircut cause of Covid. Cannot cut my own hair. The other thing I really love is a pedicure at my salon. Wonderful person does a great job. Used to get three per year. Have t had one in a year & a half. Only $35 + $10 tip. Really worth it.
@glendamartin21
3 жыл бұрын
I recently retired and have reduced my spending drastically. I am in the process of cleaning out my closets and getting rid of lots of things I no longer need. You are very inspiring. ❤️
@nattojelly8349
3 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful! I am still in my mid-30s but I love watching over-60 age positive channels! Many are so positiv and we younger ones can learn a lot about how to be content with yourself
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Welcome. You are never too young or too old to start working to live a positive and purposeful life. Thank you so much for enjoying my channel. I am so happy that you are here.❤️
@user-hw8yb7vi5q
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and I'm learning so much from older ladies wisdom
@tuberrosa1092
2 жыл бұрын
Learning from those who have been there, allows you not to commit the same mistakes.
@rebeccajones9757
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I just turned 40 but after a minute into this video I subscribed
@Frau44
2 жыл бұрын
I swear, life BEGINS at 40!!
@hilltop9098
3 жыл бұрын
“When I die my kids are just going to come in and throw it all away”. This is exactly what my kids will do with my things so it’s not going to happen. I am slowly reducing what I have and if I don’t want something I will give it to the charity shop.❤️🇬🇧
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I am still trying to downsize. I have the same thing in mine as you do❤️
@madhatter909
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart Sandra sell those purses and go on a cruise!
@rocketmom60
3 жыл бұрын
Charity shops are getting picky about what they accept. I hate the thought of just throwing stuff away but if thrift/charity doesn't accept what else do you do with it?
@galadethlaernis6266
3 жыл бұрын
@@rocketmom60 If charity & resale shops won't take, then Salvation Army & Goodwill take... you literally just drop it off!
@teresastone8418
2 жыл бұрын
My kids as well. They are not interested in anything I have collected over the years. Maybe a couple of things but, not much🤷🏻♀️
@CyndieSebourn
2 жыл бұрын
You really inspire me. I’m 61 and had become really “down in the dumps” lately. I searched for inspiring tips for women growing older. You are classy , beautiful, and so inspiring. I’m becoming a happier, wiser, and better person for watching your channel. Please never stop!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@neesiexneedsxblunts
Жыл бұрын
You're beautiful and bright, Cyndie!
@georgiafrancis9059
Жыл бұрын
Com'on girlfriends, Sandra Hart is the best roll model ever! 💝
@SunshineStateofMind1981
Жыл бұрын
Hope you are feeling better. Everyday I have one goal to achieve and that is "live to celebrate GOD."
@jacquelynkirby1442
Жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@susanmarie2231
3 жыл бұрын
1. I have never had a professional manicure. 2. I will pay to have my thick hair cut properly. 3. I never drink coffee. 4. I don’t have a lot of shoes. 5. I need to get rid of purses I don’t use. I have no designer purses. 6. I still enjoy moving furniture around now and then. Fun! 7. I do not have a dog. Love dogs. 8. I LOVE grocery shopping! Hate to cook. 9. I rarely go out to the movies. 10. I am decluttering and downsizing my closets. Feels great!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Great 10!!❤️
@MC22Scott
3 жыл бұрын
#8 You & me, luv. I don't like ingredients, I like food I can eat right away.
@foxywhitetip7387
2 жыл бұрын
“ Professional “ manicures in nail salons are a major cause of nail fungus * I can’t understand women who want to sober house smelling those deadly chemicals yuck
@itstheengineersdaughter1296
3 жыл бұрын
This woman is beautiful, I love her curly hair and natural colour 😍
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind compliments ❤️
@tl3uncut729
3 жыл бұрын
I love this. Because of this covid i also realized that we don’t need too much things in life to make us happy. Simple life is a happy life.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
It is amazing what a wake up call Covid was to many of us❤️
@roxannetrombly3733
3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful list! You are fabulous.
@bettymarshall615
3 жыл бұрын
True! Because I learn to cook Chinese food..where as I was always buying it..I save my self alot of money n other foods I learn to. Cook.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
@@bettymarshall615 ❤️
@pamchurch63
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart ll
@Roxanne821
2 жыл бұрын
I am 32 and I adore your content!! My dad died during covid. And it made me realize how short life is. And I decided I was going to enjoy every single day. And then if I don't like something I'm not doing it!
@storiesbyperri-fullofphoni4568
3 жыл бұрын
I have natural nails and hair. I cut my own hair with quality professional hair scissors. I eat healthy and simply. I don’t eat out. Drink my own coffee and tea. I’m a minimalist and try to save money. 💕
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Perri, Are you and thank you for sharing that❤️
@valerieobrien5521
3 жыл бұрын
Dear Sandra I 'm over 60, in fact I'm in the 70 s, and what annoys me is this word banded about since Covid labeling elderly people as VUNERABLE. . It has affected how young people view us senior citizens ! You may or may not agree, but I have noticed condescension and avoidance by the general public particularly young person's. , and being totally ignored, which had not happened pre -- Covid. What this has done is to pick out a certain section of society and pointed them out as to be avoided . I wonder if anyone else also resents also Only ten years ago , I swam at leas 3 miles from one beach to another ., And could cycle at least 50 mike's a day. It was suggested by this government that , we elders are vunerable, and if this were true then even the common cold , would finish us off , but that's not the case. I personally think people are being brainwashed and I see all this as a possible agenda !
@DMV8662
3 жыл бұрын
@@valerieobrien5521 I TOTALLY agree with you!!! Im 55 and I have NEVER HAD SUCH A WAKEUP CALL as I have in the past 15 months. I can see the propaganda, and brainwashing from a mile away!!!👍✌️🇺🇲
@judycanales4767
3 жыл бұрын
I just gotta say if u have back or shoulder problems like I do, very difficult to cut back of hair! Can only get one style probably.Btw I've been hairdresser 45+ yrs.And....need my hair thinned too.
@storiesbyperri-fullofphoni4568
3 жыл бұрын
@@judycanales4767 my fabulous hairdresser told me how: bend over. Comb hair down around head. Makes a semicircle. Cut evenly around. Done. A great layered look. Easy to touch up too.
@fredadockrell1862
3 жыл бұрын
I roared with laughter when she said about moving the furniture about all the time. This is something I have always done and don't know why. Once, my husband came home after working late and came to bed - the light was off and he sat on what he thought was the bed, but I had moved it and he sat on the floor!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
LOL! I can see that happening! Hope you didn’t get hurt😊❤️
@RubySlays297
3 жыл бұрын
That’s hilarious!
@judymims8417
3 жыл бұрын
I laughed out loud!
@SaltLifeGypsy68
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@fatumaali6403
3 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂
@Jay-ic5kb
3 жыл бұрын
I bought my dream home by myself at 32 and bought tons of furniture, had whole kitchen redone, parkay floors throughout, georgeous yard with gardner, cleaning service yes I had a great job with 6 figure salary and lost it all. I had to sell everything and start all over but now I bought a cute home got rid of clutter and stuff and do the same thing you do. I bought a keurig, got a frother, stopped rearranging so funny, no more bags and shoes, cut my hair, bought special hangers from Amazon for organizing my closet and rather see the world than buy more things that really are meaningless. Simple is best..
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I am sorry you lost your job at one point, but it could’ve saved your life in a way. You were forced to slow down and downsize and maybe smell the roses. If you know what I mean. I would rather spend my money traveling and seeing the world, also. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. It’s another example of nothing is forever. I’m so happy you’re you are happy now❤️
@sondrablack7912
3 жыл бұрын
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@felicianofamily1745
3 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said.
@vprado1
Жыл бұрын
Wonderful🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
@serenavanboth3599
Жыл бұрын
I’m 28 and adore your videos. My mum passed a few years ago and it’s really nice to have someone that shares such great advice and an awesome mindset 😊 ❤
@mimimoffit8000
3 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree with you more. I’m 66 and feel as if I don’t need another thing. All these things have lost their meaning, and now mean nothing to me. The only thing I really want back is the ability to sit down and eat at restaurants. Meal planning, shopping for ingredients, cooking, and cleaning up have nearly sent me over the edge.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t like to cook that much myself. Arthur does it once in a while and gives me a break❤️
@JanineMJoi
3 жыл бұрын
If your husband is retired as well as you, it's time he learns to cook and you don't! He may find that he likes it. In any case, you cook every other day and Sunday is a free day so you go out to eat or Saturday or Wednesday pick a day. I never cook anymore unless I want to. Ever.
@teresa62ish
2 жыл бұрын
@@JanineMJoi I don't really cook anymore either. I live alone so if I have a craving for something I'll make it.
@hjhsalmalatiff3294
2 жыл бұрын
I am 66 too. And I am already clearing my cupboard recently a d got rid of many things. When my Mum passes away we have to clear so much of her things. So yes, like you, I am minimising too!
@theonyszidat6589
2 жыл бұрын
Also is the question of gifts. I always ask my friends not to buy me gifts.I would rather just go and enjoy a coffee with them as I have everything I need.Do not mean to sound ungrateful, but have enoughh hand creams, ornaments, candles to last for the rest of my life. Just their company and maybe a delicious small piece of cake together is always appreciated.
@d.l.l.6578
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never been a hoarder. I get rid of stuff. I have to see my floor. I’m not a shopper, either. If I need something, I buy it. If I don’t need it, I say, that’s cute, and move on. You don’t have to acquire everything you see.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
You are my idol!❤️
@d.l.l.6578
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart ha
@milankatz9628
3 жыл бұрын
That was a lesson I learned very late in life😏
@melaniej.roberts206
3 жыл бұрын
I agree! Maybe it goes back to growing up in a cluttered, chaotic home but I cannot stand a mess or clutter. I'm always looking at my closet and paring back more and more. I have less clothes than my husband. More stuff just wears you down.
@d.l.l.6578
3 жыл бұрын
@@melaniej.roberts206 Agreed.
@momof2momof2
3 жыл бұрын
You are 81? Wow! You (like my late Mom) look wonderful !!! I need my morning quiet coffee time every day too. I'm 20 years younger than you, but you are the example of what we should be as we get older. I was widowed in 2009, and left to raise our children. But we have been ok. Thank you for the video.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I was a young widow too,with three children. Actually I’m 82. Thanks for being here❤️.
@bonniec1424
3 жыл бұрын
Just dropped in for the first time. Im definitely over 60. I'm so old my kids are senior citizens. Before COVID I watched and agonized over the news. No more. My son and I came up with the saying that doomscrolling only leads to righteous indigestion. I promised I would paint more and I did and finally painted a seascape that I consider puts me in the category of an artist. I've always been active either having people to lunch or going out to lunch, that when it starts back up will be severely curtailed..maybe a coffee but I can't believe the time I've gained and the money I've saved not doing this. Time is a much more important commodity to me than money. At 80, if I live to be 90 like my relatives, I've just got 120 months left to live! That needs to be spent wisely! I'm a retired therapist and always suggested to my clients that they estimate the months left and then be more focussed on how to spend them. I also decided to groom my own little puppy. Most dogs hate going to the groomers. I had no choice with my 110 lb. German Shepherd but a Maxi poo is as you said, a nice bonding time. I'm increasing time spent on the phone with people I love and some meetings now and decreasing meaningless chitchat with acquaintances. Reading more in books and on the computer much less. More time on the porch surrounded with trees and birdsong and like my friend Jerome, just appreciatin! More meditation and I've decided to journal again which I haven't done for a few years more like an old ladies thoughts on the history I've lived and my response to this journey. Anyhow, my heart hurts for 600,000 lost people but I pray for some sort of peace for their families and focus on what we might possibly learn. Enough said!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comments and sharing how you have been spending the time during this Covid lockdown. You and your son have the right attitude about the news and what is going on in the world. Less exposure is more contentment with things we have no control over. I do think it’s a wonderful idea that you are journaling and writing down your thoughts. At 80 you still have a lot of time to enjoy more adventures. ❤️
@gericolgrove380
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the term “doom scrolling”.....I needed that to boost me out of that awful rut. Love your wisdom! ❤️🌹
@barbarak2836
3 жыл бұрын
@@gericolgrove380 I now avoid most "news," and have pretty much always avoided social media. I need to know basic current event, but I do not need or want all the drama and angst.
@debbiehopper5288
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!, so true!!!
@harrietetter9321
3 жыл бұрын
girl! what took you so long??? im 83 -- i gave up all that 30 years ago -- do my own nails, cut my own hair, leave my couch in one place, never go near a grocery store, hate modern movies, dont have a dog, dont drink coffee, one pair of shoes, mix and match wardrobe, have a cleaning lady and a yard guy -- my husband even goes out for the mail! im on utube all day every day -- keeps my mind sharp -- puzzles, crochet, play the piano, walk around the block, telephone friends and my kids -- make one big meal a day -- there you have my day -- my grandmother lived to 102 so ill be around awhile -- jesus in my heart -- its a great life!
@jelizabethpetrie6656
3 жыл бұрын
A life well lived and a mind more creative & active than a 20yr old🙌
@fhlm5645
3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful! Jesus Christ is our all in all.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
You are a Renaissance woman for sure. Blessings your way for continued happiness and good health! ❤️
@wandaarnt234
3 жыл бұрын
Agree retired nurse right before COVID , hubby shops, stopped unnecessarily self driven projects, enjoying a simple life comfort is the reality, living with Jesus in charge
@harrietetter9321
3 жыл бұрын
@@wandaarnt234 now what would unnecesarily self driven projects be? sounds interesting
@pamgevelinger2997
3 жыл бұрын
I'm 60 and just started to play the harp, doing what you always wanted to do but haven't . Just do it. I did my hair myself also, turned out great! Put your money you save and take a river cruise some day. Also, this time of our lives we need to ask ourselves am I ready to meet my maker. And ask Lord Jesus to forgive my sins and take home to him. I have peace now!!! Yeaaaaaa
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve always wanted to take a river cruise. Thanks for that suggestion. The harp has always fascinated me and I love that music. I know it’s really difficult to do so I admire you so very much. Best of luck with all of the exciting things that are going on in your life❤️
@pamgevelinger2997
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart if you can sing a song you can play a harp. There are apps that teach you how to play songs note by note without reading the notes. It's by ear. You can do it! Go to Fireside Harps and get one made for you for $250 or have your husband make your harp for $160. I made mine it's easy. It has a nice sound, the sound box is a strong card board.
@nikooarbabian2245
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you gorgeous Sandra! I am 37, a single girl, and since I was 12, did not have any "motherly" person around, so I was desperately in need of some "worthy and brilliant" advice for a lifetime. Accidentally and my most, fortunately, of course, I found you. You're a true blessing by God! Keep going on stronger and more amazing than ever. Lots of love. Nikoo.A M.D. 🙏😷💐💝
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Nikeo, thank you so very much and I am happy that I can be your motherly person. I am also very pleased that you accidentally found me. I hope that you will benefit from the many conversations we have here on my channel. Love your way❤️
@kaykay1265
3 жыл бұрын
Same for me at 55!! Am starved for all the knowledge I can soak in. I'm so glad I found this site today and I will be a regular! ❤
@nikooarbabian2245
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart Thank you, again and again, my "Queen of inside-out Beauty" 🙏💞🌹
@battfamily435
2 жыл бұрын
Your hair and you look just lovely. I'm still in my late 40's but love how your channel is so full of energy and inspiring us females to accept aging as a gift and beautiful self-learning process that is to be embraced. It's such a shame to see older women competing with 20 and 30 somethings (ie Madonna). It's so much better to love ourselves and embrace where we are on our journey. Young girls need to see more gorgeous, wise, and confident refined woman such as yourself. Thank you for starting this channel. ❤ from Brooklyn NY
@starlightsky655
2 жыл бұрын
Well said, totally agree with you.
@ottie1954
3 жыл бұрын
Being shopping addicted is a sort of modern slavery people accept voluntarily. As for myself, I have adopted a very strict lifestyle and the result in one word is: freedom 🤗
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Feels great doesn’t it?!❤️
@ottie1954
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart ...it does! 🌹🍀
@kathyakamimi4989
3 жыл бұрын
It feels wonderful!!!!
@Marcia-wh8gy
2 жыл бұрын
Sooo right . It’s a modern slavery
@julianajones4022
2 жыл бұрын
Totally and wonderfully empowering. 1. Stop shopping in supermarkets. I go to farmers markets and roadside stalls and trade with the neighbours 2. Buy a pair of haircutting scissors and cut my on hair. (With a few tutorials) Having fun is the new normal 🤣 3. Stop watching tv, mainstream media and all news. Use extra 1000 hours a year to study and read. Delicious 4 Stopped eating out at low grade cafes and pubs . Cooking at home delicious relishing foods and preserves. Etc Etc So liberating
@darinroberts3528
3 жыл бұрын
I always live simple.. Don't need a lot... You happy with the sun.....sky... God... And..just...smile🥰💐❤🌏🌞🌞🌞🌞
@anitafebo4552
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@SonaROX86
Жыл бұрын
I have struggled my entire life with my mental health.I just recently started becoming stable.I take medication, go to therapy, and your videos are my remedy. You have saved me so much!
@nana73carol46
3 жыл бұрын
Yay! I have also went back to: 1. Not getting my nails done (or pedicures) 2. Cutting my own hair again after 5 years of going to the hair salon 3. Not rearranging furniture unless I get something new that makes rearrangement necessary 4. Movies are at home now too, and the popcorn is sooo much cheaper! 5. Got rid of most of the purses that were stacked on a closet shelf and always falling off. And shoes need to be purged even more than I have already during Covid 6. I have not entertained since Covid and really don't miss it, so I decided to give away a set of dishes and extra dinnerware that I figure I may never use again. I am NOT cooking my fool head off anymore either. Lol! There is only me here and I cooked enough before my husband of 51 years passed away as well as when we were raising our 4 hungry boys and our picky eater daughter. I'm sure you have realized great savings doing some things yourself as I have. It is also freeing to have more self maintenance instead of thinking like before that we need others to care for our needs. I don't have a pet anymore and sometimes wish I did, but IF I did I know I would do the grooming myself too. Yay for you! Yay for me!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Yea for us independent women!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@janetamplin7318
3 жыл бұрын
AHH THIS IS THE MATURE LADIES time to BE JUST ME MYSELF and I moment 👵💖
@foxywhitetip7387
2 жыл бұрын
Might be good to save one . MILLIONs are abused and then killed every year in the us alone
@lisamcallister6534
Жыл бұрын
That is all completely joyless!! I'm sorry for you.
@myrnarenoud3056
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I also have made changes in my life since Covid and I’m loving it! I always had a housekeeper come in every two weeks for years. I didn’t feel like she cleaned very deeply or well ...but it kept me from having to spend my weekends cleaning. After retiring I kept her on out of habit until Covid. The pandemic kept her from coming so I had to take it upon myself to do my own house work! I was shocked at how much I enjoyed doing my own cleaning....AND...I did a much better job! I decluttered and organized and deep cleaned my way through Covid and I will not be hiring anyone to clean for me anymore!!!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
For me, cleaning has always been cathartic. I’ve never had a housekeeper. I knew I probably seem strange to all my friends, but I always enjoy doing it myself❤️
@jodabney4358
3 жыл бұрын
I cleared out my closet and just kept what I wear all the time...lots of room in my closet now
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Good for you. I wish that I could do that, too❤️
@barbarak2836
3 жыл бұрын
I really want to do that, too, because like many of us, I wear only a fraction of what I've got. You have helped motivate me; thank you!
@sirenachantal471
3 жыл бұрын
Ten things I won’t do anymore - love this! Giving up: grocery shopping (will continue with Instacart), shopping for vitamins and cat supplies (getting them delivered), trying to fit in old clothes (I donate them), crafts that are more hassle than fun, eating out so much, making the big holiday dinners when it’s just the two of us, lots and lots of holiday decorations, traveling for every holiday to see family (some holidays just not all), buying more than one pair of sandals per year, and having outdoor furniture. We live near the beach and everything turns bad the first year we have it. It rusts, it flies around with the wind, the paint weathers, chimes and flags are gone to heavy winds. My deck will look empty like I just moved in and I don’t care anymore. I’ll keep it clean. Nobody sits out there anyhow.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing the things that you have been doing we’re not doing since lock down. I really enjoyed reading it❤️
@lylianjettar3637
3 жыл бұрын
As I’m watching this, my husband went shopping ten minutes ago. He loves it and I hate it. I only go when I need to buy presents but for groceries, I write a list and he brings some more things he thinks we need. I’m lucky like you, I guess. This is the first time I see you and I don’t know how old you are but you are a very beautiful lady.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Welcome and I’m so happy you found my channel. I’m also happy that your husband loves to do grocery shopping. I am 82 and I’m delighted to have you along with us on this channel❤️
@ggstorm9777
3 жыл бұрын
At 30 I left an office and 3wks vacation. Removed the pager..radio..bra..watch..makeup...let my hair grow and never looked back
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
LOL!! What can I say. Good for you❤️
@savedbygrace777
3 жыл бұрын
I just quit a job I really hated after 30 years, taking my pension and SS at 62. My blood pressure dropped and I am going to be frugal and enjoy myself! 💕
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Gail, I can’t tell you how happy I am for you. You will carve out a wonderful life for yourself. Enjoy every single day❤️
@wendyeskelin8765
3 жыл бұрын
I love hearing this! It's so much easier to be frugal when not having to go into work all the time. Gas, clothing, dry cleaning, eating out, the list goes on.
@beago0810
3 жыл бұрын
I took early retirement in March 2021 at the age of 63.
@debraphillips2993
3 жыл бұрын
I get it!!!!
@patriciajohnsonson8639
3 жыл бұрын
I retired at 60. There was about to be a whole lot of changes at my workplace and I am not good at change. Plus, I babysat for my grandchildren a few days a week and did my work after they went home which made for some really late nights. My husband had taken an apartment where his job was, about an hour from me and I only saw him on weekends when he came home. It was very stressful and we decided I should retire. I have never looked back. I buy less clothes and extras, but we still have our Christmas parties and our daughter’s wedding and we just had a lovely Anniversary party. So it’s all good. I didn’t need extra clothes anyway. 👍
@AndreaAthos
10 ай бұрын
You are such an inspiration! I turned 40 this year and it was a hard year for me but i discovered your videos and they honestly give me so much hope and also entertaiment and inspiration! Thank you!
@melbarnes3420
2 жыл бұрын
I have grocery store anxiety myself. My ex husband was the same way he would be in there for hours. I am 47 years old and stumbled across your channel today and I just wanted to say that you are inspiring!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Mel.
@queenmidna4998
3 жыл бұрын
I changed my habit of not contacting loved ones unless they contact me first. I have always been nervous about talking to someone at an inconvenient time, but due to Covid, I have grown more accustomed to sending small messages to show I care. I still feel a bit awkward, but it is always nice to hear from my friends and family. I am also staying with my grandfather and learned that I love to tidy up the house! It is quite therapeutic, especially since it is normally just me and my dog in the house while my grandad does some errands. Keeps me busy.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
It’s always good every day to reach out to someone that you think might like hearing from you. Don’t be shy about calling first. I am sure they always enjoy a text or a call from you. Oh nice that you can stay with your grandfather. I’m sure he loves the company❤️
@porkchop0711
3 жыл бұрын
I bet he appreciates it even if he doesn't say it
@christineaygin6701
3 жыл бұрын
Sadly, I realised that some people were not really close friends (I live alone and have health issses) when I was helping with rescue work they would be in touch, not during covid despite being in my vicinity. SOooo as I am ghosted, they are too. I need people who are genuine. Great video Sandra , and I too stopped a lot of those things xx
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Only surround yourself with people that are real and appreciate you for who you are. True friends never leave you no matter what❤️
@ShaeZamm
3 жыл бұрын
I was an essential worker this whole pandemic and treated myself with such disregard that I am now doing a reset! Thx your video has inspired me! Figuring out what to leave in and what to leave out.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I am happy that you’re thinking about that. Please don’t ever forget how important you are. Thank you so much for being an essential worker and whatever field you are in, but please be kind to yourself because you deserve it and you’re worthy of all good things that life can bring❤️
@rach5516
2 жыл бұрын
Yes me too, I worked right the way through at the hospital. I have made the decision to completely reevaluate my life and what I want.
@eileen7466
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you and God bless you
@eileen7466
2 жыл бұрын
@@rach5516 Thank you very much for all you did for us. God bless you
@rach5516
2 жыл бұрын
@@eileen7466 thank you so much. I wouldn't have had it any other way, but it certainly makes you re-evaluate your life xxx
@velesakrutik7939
Жыл бұрын
Your channel is so wonderful! I have no mom or grandmother as an example of such wise and positive thinking. And a good tip from somebody experienced and so positive is such a treasure for me. Thank you ❤️
@Icon_of_Design
3 жыл бұрын
Good for you! I’m 63 and still working so I love being pampered. I still feel like I’m 35 years old and enjoying it all. I get my nails done (both pedi & mani) - only takes an hour and I can work from my phone. I also feel good because I’m putting food on someone else’s table by using a few services I like. I feel sorry for so many businesses and people losing their jobs. We don’t go to the movie theatre that often, and now there’re forced to close. I feel bad for the people losing their jobs. Don’t feel bad that you did these things for yourself in the past. You did what you wanted to do and had fun. Vintage handbags bring a lot of money - your kids won’t be throwing them away!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Annie, we all have our lists and they are unique to our own wants and needs. I’m not saying that this is going to be what I’m doing forever, but now it just seems right. I do still buy products from both my salon and the groomers. But my dog is so much happier now that she doesn’t have to go to the groomers. Thank you so much for being here and sharing your thoughts❤️
@moniquemonique3430
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Sandra; what a liberating video. Thank you! I have started also to do my nails, cut my hair, color my hair, eliminate the coffee outside. I have done some decluttering of my closet and I feel fine with it. For some time I thought to get rid of my multitudes of books to be more minimalist but then I realized that I like my books ; I like to sit on a sofa with a nice cup of coffee and read a book. So they will stay. It's good to have goals but also to be realistic about yourself. Have a good day.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Monique, thank you so much for sharing what you are doing in your life, too. Please don’t get rid of your books. Mine are pleasure to me as well❤️
@wendyeskelin8765
3 жыл бұрын
I did start to give a bunch of my books away that I figured I would never get to, but I still have boatloads. And I still have a lot of kitchen things, but I use them all the time and like to cook. I think it's great to just get rid of what isn't bringing value and keep what is.
@carolwilliams8840
3 жыл бұрын
I truly enjoyed your video. I'm 57 and am also making changes in my life. Watching your video was so peaceful. Thank you for sharing.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Carol❤️
@06Aztecrose
3 жыл бұрын
Loving my retirement so much in my 8th year, so grateful for my health! I choose happiness everyday! I’m 67 next month, I’m decluttering so much & feels like weights lifted...I don’t need much anymore! I roll solo & looking forward to many adventures with the cash I’m saving! I love to travel 🧳 ☮️✝️
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
We love to travel, too! Rolling solo is a good thing and women shouldn’t fear it!! ❤️
@lindamendenhall1797
3 жыл бұрын
Things that I don't do any more (or have cut back on): I cut my own hair, I keep thinking maybe the hairdresser could do a better job, but in reality, it looks just as good, a simple bob cut; I cook most of our own meals: I can buy steaks at the the store, bake my own potatoes, make a salad, why pay for meals I can prepare at home?
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
All things that you said are true. Home is where the heart is for many things❤️
@melaniej.roberts206
3 жыл бұрын
I agree! I'm never happy with how my hair gets done whether I pay $20 or $100 so I'm going to figure out how to cut it. Also, paying money for a meal I could make at home and probably enjoy more doesn't make sense.
@kathyakamimi4989
3 жыл бұрын
@@melaniej.roberts206 Since we started cooking our own meals for the last year, it’s been great. I love trying new recipes and baking. Now that most restrictions are lifted, there are times my hubs ask do I want to go out, and I’d just rather whip something up myself! It’s healthier, and it taste so much better. I’ve mastered grilling a good steak too. These small things make all of us happier. Now if we could just get the rest of the world to get on board!
@californiaglo9666
3 жыл бұрын
Life certainly has changed for many of us. Working indefinitely from home, I don't need a lot of clothes, makeup, shoes and purses. I still get pedicures because of ingrown toenails. During the isolation, my hair grew so long. I like it. Maybe I will get two trims a year, but that is it. I will focus more on enjoying experiences and not material things. I am happier now, though I do miss my co-workers and friends.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I think missing our families and coworkers probably is the hardest thing during this Covid situation. I know it is for me. The positive is it has made me realize that I can do a lot of things for myself that I depended upon others to do and that I love my home. ❤️
@kathyakamimi4989
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart Haven’t the restrictions been lifted there? They are here.
@amcreative3784
2 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful Sandra. Yes, making your own coffee with a hand coffee grinder takes longer yet is so rewarding and tastes so much better.
@debbieshelton8771
3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely adore you! You are such a great role model for all of us who have been seeking " permission " not to do and buy things anymore.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I think Covid has made us think more closely about our lives
@tamb7587
3 жыл бұрын
I am only 60 , after my father died and my mother ended up with dementia Being an only child I inherited their estate . From about 55-65 yrs my mother started just buying STUFF.. Wll I ended with all that Stuff if I wanted it.. Well I didn’t want it , have my own stuff.. made me wake up to the ridiculousness of all the crap we buy !! I dont do it, I haven’t bought STUFF in years..I refuse to spend 5$ on Starbucks , I take my lunch to work .. I realized how ridiculous we are with our spending! Its irresponsible ,especially to our environment.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Tam, isn’t it amazing how much stuff that we accumulate in our lifetime? Downsizing to my house here really made me look at all the things that I had collected throughout my 44 years in my other home. Thank heavens I don’t have room for extra stuff in my house. I don’t ever wanna go through that again❤️
@bunacat1
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! After having to clean out my Grandma's house (and she was a minimalist way before it was a thing) and my father in law's house, I never want to leave a huge amount of stuff for someone else to clean out. In the last few years I have let go of around 1/2 of my stuff and am working on it continuously. It is really hard and I see why peoples stuff can get out of control. From gifts and things from other people and things that relatives are trying to give me. It is hard telling relatives that I don't want their stuff as I don't want to hurt their feelings, but I don't want to keep more things. Covid has really let a lot of people know what they can live without.
@ianthompson9117
3 жыл бұрын
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@LindaKayHolevas
3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Wayne Dyer used to keep one suit hanging in his closet. It was a suit that he would be buried in one day. He took care that this was a really nice suit, but he also had cut the pockets out of it. He kept it there, in his closet, to remind him that he wasn't taking anything with him when he transitioned back to non- physical. My father used to have a t-shirt that said "He who dies with the most toys, still dies". These are great attitudes to have😊
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
@@LindaKayHolevas So true.😊👍❤️
@AnnMitt
3 жыл бұрын
Only getting my hair cut 2 - 3 times a year, coloring my own hair, and doing my own nails. That's what I changed starting in April 2020. I also cut way back on my mindless shopping. Feels great to save all that money.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
When I think of all the money I saved, it makes me feel good, too.❤️
@chelleward780
3 жыл бұрын
Haven’t been to a salon since November 2019. At first I was so disgruntled but c19 has been a gift for learning what really matters - whole hearted living, gratefulness and doing everything with intention - one of the last things I desire is to declutter and minimize the areas/items that are sentimental or craft supplies that are still daunting me. Any helpful tips would be greatly appreciated thank you
@madhatter909
3 жыл бұрын
@@chelleward780 Take a picture is the new advice...and then donate/trash/give away. Craft supplies to a church.
@daisydukes8252
Жыл бұрын
I love the “mommy & me” time for Sophie! I would never make her go to the groomers if she hates it so much. So happy for both of you.
@deborahs8941
Жыл бұрын
As a professional groomer maybe the place you were taking her wasn’t the place she should be at aside from that there are many how to groom your dog videos on KZitem you may enjoy
@livingauthenticallyonmyownterm
3 жыл бұрын
Sandra, you’re such an inspiration !!! Moving the furniture is one of mine. My friends used to come over and joke with me that they didn’t know if the toilet was going to be moved next because I’d moved everything around almost on a weekly basis. I’m also with you with my closet. When I find the time to donate I will, but I’m going to ignore it more. I don’t need to be perfect, I want to be kinder to myself and expecting myself to be perfect in everything just made me sad. I’m so glad I found your channel. I subbed right away. Love your positivity, inner light, and not being afraid of making changes in your life. Be well. ♥️🔆🧚🏽♀️✨♥️
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Sheila I’m so glad to have you with us on this pro aging journey. As you know we talk about a lot of things that are concerning all of us. So nice to have you here❤️
@hickoryrootfarmstead2700
3 жыл бұрын
I’m 45 and thoroughly NEED the wisdom of my older ladies. Glad I found you!! For me, I was already a happy homebody. I homeschooled my elementary age children long before the virus hit. Grocery pickup has been a gift!! I used it prior to the world shutting down but with guilt. So it’s been a gift to consistently order online and not set foot in the store. I get back to my home and back in my garden instead of spending hours at the grocery store.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I have always thought of homeschooling was available to me when my children were growing up I definitely would have preferred it and done that. It’s so nice to have you here and you get views from younger women in this community. I really value your contribution. Trust me, I would rather be working in my garden and I would be grocery shopping!❤️
@maryfitzpatrick7465
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! I loved this video. You are my hero 😊 I am 59 and I am at this stage in my life where I feel like I need to stop looking for and wanting things to make me happy. The past year has really made me appreciate the life I have around me. I too am enjoying a cup of coffee watching the spring flowers bloom and finding so much joy in simple things. Thank you for making me realize I don't need another purse and I may never get my closet organized.... and that's OK. 😄
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Mary, Join the forget the closet group!!You are in great company😊❤️
@annsowers4591
3 жыл бұрын
My husband buys our groceries. I lost my 32 yr old son, and I can't handle the smallest of things. I tried but I can't especially at the holidays. He is a Christmas baby, so you can imagine. I am so blessed that my husband started doing things immediately without fussing. Lots of marriages don't survive, especially when your child is from a prior marriage like my son. Thank you for sharing your dislike of shopping for groceries.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Ann, my thoughts are with you and I’m so sorry you lost your son. I know how heartbreaking it must be for you to begin to heal and to move on in your life. What a wonderful husband you have took on the responsibility so shopping knowing that you were suffering. Losing a child is especially difficult. My thoughts are with you❤️
@Rebelmusedesign
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been doing most of these things for over ten years or longer and most people have thought it was strange but the after effects of car accidents and a divorce make you very resourceful! ❤️
@dyoung2739
3 жыл бұрын
So true about COVID isolation. I’m not paying another gym fee ever. I’ve realized that I love working out at home. I’ve also committed to donating half of my possessions this year to charity. I have too much stuff.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome. Good for you. Thank you for sharing what you’re doing❤️
@missmayflower
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! No fancy gym outfit, no driving over there and go at your own pace.
@dyoung2739
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart And thank you❤️. Your channel truly inspires me.
@orthodiva7487
2 жыл бұрын
I love working out at home. My son turned our garage into a gym and the entire family uses it. I’m more motivated to work out instead of getting dressed and driving to the gym. I can work out in my pjs. Also, during Covid, I’ve cleaned my closet and got rid in 3 bags of clothes and one bag of purses. I did a big closet cleanup 4 yrs ago and it took me 2 weekends to do it. The chore was daunting at first but I started with purses first, then tried on every shoes and if they’re uncomfortable, they’re out. Then continued on to one side of the closet to make it doable as opposed to tackling the entire closet. It felt good after I finished it.
@francesfisher9653
3 жыл бұрын
Great thing about ageing is when you can start realizing and honing in on what works and what doesn't and decide accordingly. I Agree with your sentiments dear Sandra.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here today❤️
@luirelow
Жыл бұрын
Loved your list!! All great changes especially deciding to not organize your closet. How wonderful to take those four hours and relax and to read rather than get stuff done.
@pcs1120
Жыл бұрын
Sneakers with dresses has to be the most brilliant fashion evolution! So glad I’m here for it.
@loripawlowskireitsma9259
3 жыл бұрын
First time listening to you, you are amazing. I am just a youngster at 63 years young.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
LOL! You are a spring chicken! Thank you so much for being here❤️
@michellehamric6856
3 жыл бұрын
While it's been rough for everyone during COVID, I've learned a lot about myself and my needs and wants. I learned that: 1. Reserve an evening meal out for a special event such as an anniversary. When I was growing up in the late 50's and early 60's eating out WAS a big deal. Usually our family ate out at a very nice sit-down restaurant at Thanksgiving or Christmas. 2. I don't have to have a full face of makeup on each day. Mascara, brows (mine are very sparse), concealer, blush and lip balm are all I need. 3. I don't need more clothes! I've refined my style and am happy with my classic, chic, casual style (Think Jennifer Aniston) 4. I'm not a minimalist, but I am working on ridding my closet of unnecessary and unused clothing. 5. Online shopping for clothing, pet food, groceries, etc saves soooo much time. So, I'm limiting the amount of time and frequency inside stores. 6. I don't rush around in the mornings. I enjoy my cup of tea and meditate. 7. I'm not going to movie theaters any longer. My tv works just fine!! 8. I don't have to get my hair cut by someone every 4 weeks. It sure does save a lot of time and money! 9. I don't need all kinds of outside entertainment. I have board games, puzzles, a book to read, or yard work I can do for enjoyment. 10. It really is HOME SWEET HOME!!!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I really love your comment. Thank you ever so much for sharing how Covid has changed your life and what you are doing now that really makes you happy. I think we all have realized how fortunate we are to be able to enjoy our homes and create an environment that is a happy place where we can be. Thank you ever so much for your very interesting post❤️BTW: Jennifer Aniston is a friend of my son. They went to act in school together when they were in high school ( she sometimes hung out in our NYC apartment) and they have remained friends. My son became noticed for his music and of course Jennifer for her acting. She is such a sweet girl..If you hair is like hers , it must be beautiful. ❤️
@michellehamric6856
3 жыл бұрын
How interesting to know the connection your son has to Jennifer Aniston. She has a style that is appealing to me and easy to achieve at any price point. COVID has taught us so much this year. We are truly blessed!
@shelleyharris4176
3 жыл бұрын
Were do you see and talk to others Most of these people seem to have very little contact with others
@janedavis4793
2 жыл бұрын
I love this video! I’m single in my mid 60’s and live with my 90 year old mom! By some miracle the desire to buy and acquire stuff left me--what a relief! I love my own coffee! I quit wearing a purse! I stopped getting my nails done-I have so much in common with you! I love streaming services also and don’t care if I ever go back to a movie theater! I live in a climate with 4 seasons and I found garment bags work well for me. You’re preaching to the choir here😂😂 I stopped doing my own yard work and snow shoveling-that I do not miss at all and will gladly pay for. I shop for groceries on ‘senior days’ at my store-it’s not as busy (early Tuesday mornings) all these things I do would’ve made my younger self roll her eyes! Also--guilty pleasure--I found a full service gas station-omg it’s the height of luxury for me!😂😂-for some reason I too used to love to radically rearrange the furniture--looking back, I must’ve had an excess of energy or something. These days I love my quiet moments to myself--the furniture is just fine😂😂
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Love your comments and sharing what you are now not doing or doing at this time in your life. I lived in New Jersey for 44 years and they don’t let you pump your own gas. I had never had to fill up my car with gas before I moved to Florida. 😊
@baxter8it
Жыл бұрын
Me, too. Since I don't have a washer, I get the luxury "wash and fold" service, too. She does a better job than I ever could!
@danutashayler34
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my Lord, I thought I was the only one who used move furniture around the front room. My husband would come home from work and wondered where his chair was this time. Unreal. Ten points totally taken. Covid19 I believe will change a lot of habit much of which includes money. At 75 I am realizing what a slave I have been to many thing. One of the things I love is gardening so when I retired I went gung ho I would be out there for hours. My poor husband would stick his head out the window and say "you've been out there for almost four hours". This was not fair to him. I realized I was obsessed with the whole blooming thing. Crazy. No more. I have down sized to a hand full of plants today on the deck. Hope this was not too long. I really enjoyed these "ten not to do things anymore".
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
We do have to consider our habits, don’t we? I’m careful I don’t spend too much time doing what I do here because of my husband. Thanks fir that wise comment.❤️
@BA-yo3vz
3 жыл бұрын
OMG I have a life time of moving furniture around lol. If anyone can explain why that would be super cool. :)
@private755
2 жыл бұрын
If you’re enjoying nurturing a garden who cares if it takes 4 hours. He can’t find something to do? I assume you live with him and see him all the time? Do what makes you happy. Especially something as wholesome as gardening what a thing to feel guilty about
@emeljurd3231
3 жыл бұрын
Love your energy and style! I’ve always done my own nails, and cut and dye my own hair. I find going to the hairdresser annoying, not to mention stupidly expensive.😂 I thrift most of my clothes ( we call it op shopping in Australia) a lot of them are brand new with tags! I find I discover so much more interesting clothes at op shops than in retail stores. I save an absolute mint! Which has allowed me and my family to have experiences, rather than just buy stuff.👍🌸😊
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Emel, if I could pick up all of my clothes, that would be my first choice. I love what you call op shopping!! When I was in Australia the last time I bought a beautiful silk blouse at at an op store. ❤️
@Gdji5fv
2 жыл бұрын
We call it the boutique shop. We find real good brand new bargains 🤑
@lanashewmaker3114
3 жыл бұрын
I love this video so much! Isn’t it delightful to be authentic and do what feels right for you?
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
It truly is. It is Happiness❤️
@serenitynow8021
2 жыл бұрын
I still love rearranging my furniture! It makes everything feel new again!
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
I miss that!! It made everything new!
@shesunfoolishone4052
2 жыл бұрын
New subscriber. I’m not sure how you ended up on my recommended videos but I really enjoy them. I’m 47 years old and I love your wisdom and find your videos so peaceful and informative💕
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Welcome and thank you so much for subscribing. I’m so happy to have you here. Thank you again
@janettehunt6831
3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you Sandra. Good for you. Apart from not cutting my own hair, I’m saving money on facials, manicures and not needing all the clothes I buy and don’t wear! My wardrobe was bursting at the seams and my poor husbands reduced to having the smaller wardrobe so I got rid of the stuff I haven’t worn for years and have decided to keep the classics and just add smaller items when needed. 😘🇬🇧
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly what I’m doing. The freedom of not having to worry about things I don’t really need to do has been wonderful❤️
@evechavez2089
3 жыл бұрын
Love your video, thank you. I donated everything I have not used in two years. Dishes, clothes, shoes, purses. I gave most of my stuff away and I feel liberated. I cut my son and my hair. We have been praying a lot more.
@wildgypsywomen2340
Жыл бұрын
I am so glad I found your videos. I’m almost 45 and as I enter this part of my life I have become so much more aware of getting older. I love listening to your advice! Thank you!
@JeMy569
3 жыл бұрын
I love your new philosophy! Enjoy the simple little things in life! I’m happy to be at home, petting my cat, working in my garden, reading a book, drinking a delicious cup of coffee! These are the WONDERFUL things in life! One day, after being super busy & running around, I realized( light bulb moment) that I’m EXTREMELY happy just where I am, at home! What’s out there that I don’t have right here at home, NOTHING! I didn’t but much at all during the pandemic & was just as content & happy... people sometimes don’t realize what wonderful things they have right where they are & are always out looking for “something else”. I think I learned this after I had a deadly battle with cancer & almost lost my battle. When u come that close to losing “life” it makes you realize how precious life is, ( what you have right here, right now!)
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Jennifer, thank you so much for your wonderful comment. Everything that you said is so very true. So many times we never appreciate what we have. Congratulations on being a cancer survivor and I pray for many years of wellness ahead for you. You are a courageous and a survivor. I hope everyone will read your comment and be inspired❤️
@2legit2Kwit
3 жыл бұрын
When I underwent a financial awakening, I read the book “automatic millionaire” and it helped me get everything on automation. One of the tips was to make you own coffee. I have paired down my wardrobe to only have items I truly wear and are well made. This year I went without buying clothing, getting my nails done. I only had my hair done once. I make all my food at home and eat use instacart for groceries. Good tips and thank you!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Grace, I think we’ve all reevaluated how we were living during this pandemic.❤️
@barbarak2836
3 жыл бұрын
I started having my groceries delivered in 2015 when I sprained my ankle, and continued it, because it saves so much money in the long run since you can't impulse shop. I was NEVER a person who could just stick to my shopping list.
@jenniferorr5170
3 жыл бұрын
My husband is an airline captain. Before covid he would eat all of his meals at airports and hotels. Costing a lot of money. Then most restaurants closed down and the crew had to bring their own food. He ended up liking eating more simply, healthy and saving a ton of money! He has decided to keep that routine up for himself even though a lot of the hotel and airport restaurants are open again!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
My daughter just retired as a flight attendant and she used to always take food with her in a little container with ice packs. At least she would have one or two good meals while she was working. Food is a big expense in the airport or when you’re out flying❤️
@annetnedelec1313
3 жыл бұрын
Hats off! Must be much healthier!
@starlightsky655
2 жыл бұрын
That was so good, really love listening to you, you are a beautiful lady. Great pearl of wisdom for us. I’ve decided to not spend on things like clothes, hair and shoes but to put the money aside for days out, experiences etc instead of more cupboard clutter. Thanks again 😘🙏🏼✨
@nataliesoutlet
2 жыл бұрын
Sandra haha I’m totally adding the closet one to my list 😅 it’s been on my to do list for YEARS! Lol sayonara baby
@karenanderson6443
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your lovely realizations that bring peace and grace into your life! This pause in my life has given me time to reflect and be more intentional! Sending love and kindness to all💕.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Karen❤️
@rablount
3 жыл бұрын
I truly love this post...I have fabulous clothes, shoes purses...I thank you God not in need for anything. I worship a King but I married a prince. I’m approaching 70....there is joy in contentment. My prince brings me coffee every morning to bed. Has from 40 plus years. He loves going grocery shopping. He’s discovered ebay and a brand new way of loving shopping. I did the same to my closet...I let go of things I love but don’t swear....why? I have a beautiful challenge son now 41 years old. What a great joy. Life IS crazy but much more relaxed and laughing a lot more. 3 Grands that has added a beautiful layer of total joy. You Sweet One, as many others as well as me, have found that the real joy in life is how we now enjoy it. Great post Missy .....Lovely💕
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I so enjoyed your comment. You worship a King but you married a prince. Priceless. There comes a time when we really have to decide what things are priorities in our lives. I think you have made that decision blessings your way to you and your family and your wonderful son. Thank you for sharing some time with me today.❤️
@thecarjacful
3 жыл бұрын
Love it! So refreshing and positive. Can't believe you're 81 gorgeous lady x
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Actually, I hate to admit it, but I’m 82😊❤️
@thecarjacful
3 жыл бұрын
It's only a number 💕🌈
@cubbyoharaclose4562
3 жыл бұрын
Feeling exhausted and low; Sandra, you are a great, grounding remedy for me. I have just sold my home of 40 years. My youngest was born here in the now dining room, I raised my 5 children here, and one of my 7 babies is buried here. I have collected old, beautiful things, hoarded possessions to comfort myself over the loss of both sets of grandparents and my beloved father. I've inherited pieces, collected any and everything that has reminded me of my childhood, my grandparents and father. I also had a shop that when I shut, I kept almost everything. Crazy hey? My mother is an artist and we were very close to a famous Australian artist whom we adopted into our family, so I have many of his artworks and furniture in my home too. So, I've been absolutely bursting at the seams and the sheer weight of this responsibility has been literally suffocating me. So from here on; No more collecting old, beautiful things. No more inheriting things I don't need. No more hoarding. It's a new dawn as I've just turned 60, and a new life awaits me. I rarely ever eat out, buy coffee, go to the movies or go out period. We purchased clippers for our rescue cat who's a Chinchilla Persian as I wouldn't have her go under a general anaesthetic just to be clipped! I go to the hairdresser twice a year, never visit nail salons and I love what you are doing with and in your life. So thankyou for comforting my heart as I donate car loads to the local Animal Rescue folk, sell my pieces cheaply, throw out and cleanse. What a timely video. I wish we lived closer and were friends. I think we'd get on like a House on Fire 🔥. Much love and blessings 💕🌷🙏🌸
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I think we probably would be best friends, too. I inherited so many antiques from my mother and father that have been in the family for generations and I didn’t know what to do with it when we downsized. Luckily my son has a beautiful home and he loves antiques so he took all the good places. My daughter took a few but he took most of them. I donate to charity clothes and things on a regular basis. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us❤️
@Stellra52
3 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be 37 in June, and I have not once gone out to get my nails or my hair done, with the exception of my mom taking me to a salon on prom day, and a friend's mom acting as my stylist at my wedding. I've never once gone out for a spa day. I've never felt like I was missing anything either. 😊👍
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Hey, guess what. You’re really not missing anything if you ask me. Some people really enjoy it and that’s OK, but for what it costs I’d rather do something else. But that’s just me!❤️
@wellhello1603
Жыл бұрын
Giving up nail designing made my life so much easier and happier. I like colorful nails on others, but I never liked it on myself for some reason and I hated painting nails, so I always walked around with chipped polish, which made me self conscious. Then I just stopped painting nails and it made me so much happier, no more headaches about what polish to use, hating the process, no more money spent on something that I dislike so much just because others do it.. I threw away all the polishes and only kept clear one for glossy look. I realized I can admire other peoples nails without feeling I need to have it too, just because I like it on others. And it freed so much space, I had a big container of all the colors I thought I liked in the store and would imagine all the nice designs I could make with them.. now it’s very simple!
@victoriawebster8816
3 жыл бұрын
Me too I’ve been like this for years. As I got older I didn’t need as much stuff but kinda always been that way. I only shop for groceries & whatever when I NEED something Never did the Starbucks thing - I don’t drink coffee- I enjoy going to happy hour with friends I do get my hair cut by a professional but at a less expensive place & color my own hair. I hate shopping! I get rid of things whenever I move or once a year Want only what I need & when I leave this earth my daughter won’t have to go through all my stuff & wonder what to get rid of.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
You are so smart Victoria. I keep scaling down too. I don’t want my children to have a mess when I die❤️
@ejsimms
2 жыл бұрын
Your daughter will bless you for it.
@laduke4324
3 жыл бұрын
Good morning beautiful Sandra, I so enjoyed this subject and YOU❣️ I couldn’t agree more with choices, Covid was an eye opener in so many ways and the sudden death of our youngest son in December changes so much in our lives, even the material “stuff” we were leaving to him and of course the will, our older son lives in a small place and doesn’t need much. My husband and I had just moved into this lovely townhome (downsizing) last November and dealing with deceased son’s belongings, wheels and condo to sell, death and covid has been a tough time but we are trying, husband still works so that helps him to cope. Sandra, I so enjoy your topics but especially you and even in my grief you so brighten my day, thank you dear and have a wonderful weekend with Arthur and the pups! 💕
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Good morning Latresa, you don’t know how much you have been on my mind these past few months. I know the loss of your son has been so hard. When I knew you were downsizing, that alone is a big task, but to add your grief on top of it sometimes it must seem overwhelming. You will survive and get through with this but I know it’s not something that you ever wanted to go through. Thank you so much for sharing and being here when you can. Much love and blessings your way.❤️
@laduke4324
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart Sandra I really appreciate your thought felt comments. 🙏🏻♥️
@melizabeth908
3 жыл бұрын
Covid taught me the difference between want and need. I’m self employed and took a big hit to my paycheque this year so I chose to stop all purchases other than food and essentials (utilities, insurance, car etc). Now I will question everything I buy. I plan meals around what is on sale at the grocery store. Enjoyed your video.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I think most of us are all home can you check on services and material things. A lot of us have revisited the way we were spending our lives.❤️
@gathercreatelivewithleslie8340
3 жыл бұрын
That's a great idea, sometimes I feel like a bully to my husband because I'm always asking "what was this for" on our online banking. But, living this way makes you realize all the waste. I tend to be rather frugal and a huge DIYer and that helps a lot. I love the slogan "use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without". One thing we did was get a freezer. Anytime our favorite meat was on sale I'd buy extra. Now because of the freezer we only buy when it's on sale.
@wendyeskelin8765
3 жыл бұрын
We did too! We ended up going through about 4-5 cuts as time continued and nothing was rebounding. I even cut things that I did use but just not that much. And we've found other ways around it. I do try to shop the store circulars but with food allergy issues our groceries are still pretty high, but less than before and that includes not eating out, so more eating at home. It's amazing what you can cut and not even miss. I hope your business is picking up again!
@wendyeskelin8765
3 жыл бұрын
@@gathercreatelivewithleslie8340 We definitely buy when meat hits the sales. It makes a huge difference. I wanted to get another freezer but I figured we could make do until more money was coming in again.
@valangstatolbert8807
2 жыл бұрын
You’re such a beautiful, blessed woman. You love for life radiate. Thank you for sharing.
@yvonneamos9677
2 жыл бұрын
You made me laugh when you confessed that you will never organise your wardrobe. I too have been torturing myself for about 5 years over the same thing, and I’m in my 60's. I haven’t yet given up but will keep my guilt at bay a little longer now! Great video Sandra, you are a beacon of wisdom. 💜
@lifewithsandrahart
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Yvonne! I am still looking at my unorganized closet!
@kayerains3513
3 жыл бұрын
Sandra, I am so right there with you! After 20 years, I happily turned the grocery shopping over to my husband! I couldn't be happier with that decision, and he loves it, too. Also, goodbye to hair and nail salons. I love cutting my own hair, and I can have a new hairdo whenever I want! I also make my own wall art, so I can change that whenever I want, and my closet is the same as yours...unless I somehow get an acre-sized closet, it will always be what it is, and that's ok! No one else's business! Enjoy life, and rock on!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Kaye, LOL! Sisters! Thanks for sharing. It’s about time we let go of the things we don’t like doing and never will do! ❤️Sandra
@DVines-sz4nn
3 жыл бұрын
🙏🌼🍃 The realness coming through here just makes life easier all around Sandra! I sometimes wonder just how much of the suffering people encounter is from the anxiety and depression of not living authentically? You bring such ease to my life. Ty so much!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I often wonder that, too. We have to be true to who we are an order to achieve happiness and contentment❤️
@ItsMeAnn628
3 жыл бұрын
My mother used to move the furniture around between the living room, den and sunroom! I think she did it because she would get bored with life, couldn’t travel as much as she wanted with 5 kids and wanted a change. She passed away in Feb ‘21 at 76… I miss her
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that your mother passed away. It probably was that she was bored and she felt trapped some days. This made her feel fresh and like she had something to do in life❤️
@Songs-ls2pr
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t need designer purses anymore!! The emails I get from coche, gochi etc, “click” I delete them. They’re gone! I love you! You’re so cute!
@annecaulder9495
3 жыл бұрын
When my son and I moved across the country, we lived in my cargo van for six weeks, and I was going to a new professional job every day. That hugely changed my mindset about how much "stuff" I truly need, because I was so happy during that time! I've been trying hard to get rid of things I don't need and as I wear out shoes I'm not going to replace them until I get down to one pair of each type.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Anne, isn’t it amazing when we’re forced to live with little how much we realize that it’s possible. Thank you for sharing what you are doing.❤️
@veganne6909
3 жыл бұрын
What great advice for anyone at any age! Think through the things you do on a regular basis and dump the excess baggage which isn't serving you anymore. Love it.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Less is more is my mantra. I think it’s serve all of us no matter how young or old we are❤️
@christineboydstrongtower
2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely concur with everything you say!!’ Purses nails hair etc etc!! Boy am I ever glad and happy I found your channel ‼️👍….a story on my purses‼️✨✨✨later. Cheers to you‼️❣️❣️❣️
@martaorta7775
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sixty two and I stll deeply enjoy the following ; 1. Having my hair dyed and cut. 2. Having my manicure done. 3. Sharing a coffee with someone at a cozy coffee shop. 4. Dining out with my husband or friends. However, I do agree with you that I don't need any other purse so far! Thanks for your video. I
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Marta!❤️
@dresser6135
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. I enjoy all those things & I'm not about to give them up!
@BA-yo3vz
3 жыл бұрын
Well said. To each their own for personal happiness, but I finally reached an age that I can pamper myself and will continue to have pedicures, haircuts and love a visit to Starbucks. I do live with less now for sure and have enjoyed minimizing. Love these conversations with all points of views. So amazing.
@joannewsome5202
2 жыл бұрын
Marta, a lot depends on one’s health. I have serious heart disease so I stopped all those things for fear of catching Covid. But I decided at my age it was time to stop coloring my hair & go grey/white. That alone has save me both time & money. My son goes to my favorite restaurants & picks up my “take out” orders. So, I’m still eating the food from my favorite restaurant. What state are you in? No Covid restrictions ?
@ucanleaveyourhaton
2 жыл бұрын
I would never begrudge anybody their own personal ways that they utilise to practice self care and compassion. Here’s the ‘but’ though… why can’t us humans think about how we could help less fortunate ppl get their needs met too ? Millions of ppl don’t get their fundamental need for things like buying basic food to keep themselves alive, let alone nails, coffee, entertainment etc ! Think about it. That’s all I’m saying.
@barcalonga
3 жыл бұрын
Yes - the closet one was the best. We need to stop feeling guilty about our closets! We know what we need and have what we have and that should be just fine!
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I feel a burden off my shoulders!😊❤️
@sheilamahood1562
3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithsandrahart I'm so glad you have convinced me I don't have to have a guilt trip over my stuffed closet. I love my stuff and have been struggling to let some of it go. So I've decided as far as my closet goes it's better to have it and not need it. Than to need it and not have it!!! 😁
@TheStubbornStitcher
3 жыл бұрын
I learned rearranging furniture from my mom - we were too poor to buy new furniture. So it was her way of redecorating. But I suffer for it now pushing furniture around. I also got rid of most of my heavy furniture.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
I think for me, too, it was a feel good thing. I always felt so much better and refreshed when I had a new furniture arrangement. Thanks for sharing your story❤️
@tianiemitchell5692
Жыл бұрын
Yes it's like redecorating by moving things around makes things fresh it's like cleaning the draperies after the winter
@paularubina3778
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Sandra for unburdening my mind from thinking I’ll organize my clothes closet. I also want to TRY to emulate Sandra and stop rearranging furniture, wall mirrors, and pictures, to free up time for other things.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
LOL! Paula, you are the best! Thank you❤️
@mthivier
3 жыл бұрын
It this last year has taught us anything, it's that all we REALLY need is our health and to have our loved ones with us (if not geographically, then at least a phone or Zoom call away). Shoes, bags, eyeliner, expensive dinners, etc....who cares? Glad that you and Arthur are both healthy and doing well.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Mar, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us today. I agree with everything that you said❤️
@annchee1329
3 жыл бұрын
Well said, and so true!
@pattyblevins2765
3 жыл бұрын
They say rearranging the furniture and pictures and knickknacks etc changes the energy. They say shop your home. I think it makes you appreciate what you already have. Bringing things back into focus.
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Patty, All so true. Thank you❤️
@sylviagray4206
3 жыл бұрын
Hello Sandra you haven’t been showing up in my feed lately so I was very glad to see this one pop up. Hope you and the hubby are doing well. I agree with you 100% on your 10 items. Covid has taught us all what we can do for ourselves. I have saved money and paid off several bills. What a weight lifted. However like you I will pamper myself on a special occasion. Great to see you - Stay well stay safe and enjoy life
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Hummm? I’ve been putting out videos every week, I wonder why I’m not showing up on your feed. I upload a video every Tuesday morning so please look for me I hate to see you not in on our conversations here❤️
@summerday3172
3 жыл бұрын
I stopped buying shoes and purses when I realized I have many that I've never used or worn..same with some clothes. Hair, I have fine thin hair and just found the best stylist in decades, can't give that up 🤷🏻♀️
@lifewithsandrahart
3 жыл бұрын
Please don’t give up your stylist. If you find someone you love keep them for sure❤️
@ddeaae
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely I'm with you & I'm just tired of being tired & wore out! I need a change my mind & wardrobe ❤🕶👡🐾
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