Tears are a sign of caring Cas. There is nothing wrong with caring. 💝
@suzysmith3776
3 жыл бұрын
♥️
@henriettelinkshanderin1449
3 жыл бұрын
I love seeing that someone cares. It gives me hope.
@RuthLang
2 жыл бұрын
I agree, and in case this makes you feel better, I was crying along with you.
@iheartastrology7877
2 жыл бұрын
I started crying at baby items lol (and continued pretty much straight through) who knew organizing videos could make you cry?
@stowie5790
3 жыл бұрын
At the start of my decluttering journey I had given a shirt away to a local charity (that gives back to our community through their thrift shop sales of donated items). I remember the shirt so well because I had added a special button to the top of the shirt so it would lay right. About 3-4 months later, I saw a women at the grocery store wearing the shirt. I complimented her on the shirt (because it looked so much better on her then it ever did on me). She said “Thank you, I love it!” It made my day! Knowing someone got joy out of wearing something that would have otherwise stayed in my closet. Now when I am cleaning, decluttering or trying to decide if I need to keep something, I think of her and that shirt…it makes letting go of stuff so much easier.
@erint933
2 жыл бұрын
That's so beautiful!❤👍
@karenjohannessen8987
2 жыл бұрын
I needed to see your reply today, @Stowie! Very cool reminder. Blessings to you ~
@BeGoodtoYourselfbyMargo
2 жыл бұрын
That’s an amazing story, thank you for sharing. Such a lovely mindset to have when we Declutter.
@AnimalFarm341
2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@ayahuascaa9455
2 жыл бұрын
💖💖💖💖💖🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@22angd
3 жыл бұрын
Those tears are from compassion, empathy, passion and caring - nothing wrong with that. Thank you for sharing so openly!
@susanmurphy7869
3 жыл бұрын
You’re not a baby..you’re filled with compassion… ❤️
@chivaholmes682
3 жыл бұрын
I so needed this, tears and all. Don't be embarrassed about the fact that you have a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing
@ktrudy1
3 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. I love her more every vid I c.
@karawoods2588
3 жыл бұрын
Completely agree! Makes me love her more for her beautiful heart ❤️
@aliciau86
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, you found the perfect words for this!
@cynthiameinhardt3315
3 жыл бұрын
I agree that Cas has a beautiful soul.♥️
@kristacoker
3 жыл бұрын
You are so loved for the way you are please don’t change!
@barbhenley4692
3 жыл бұрын
Please never apologize for wearing your heart on your sleeve. I love the idea of donating.
@123gorainy
9 ай бұрын
Today I packed up 15 years of my sorrow in the form of tiny hotel shampoos, body lotions & conditioners that I accumulated over the last 15 years of long-distance Eldercare that I did to take care of my dying mother, who lived far away. I bagged them, boxed them, and dropped them off a homeless shelter. I know how grateful someone will be to get these.
@annezehring9006
3 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. 😭 Such a good way of looking at decluttering. I have been the woman at the Salvation Army who was so thankful for the clothes that I was able to get for my children for so much less than retail. ❤️ I like to think that my donations have blessed someone else as well.
@nukhetozmen
3 жыл бұрын
Crying is not embarrassing, it’s an honest expression of feelings 🤗
@dorisnamaste
3 жыл бұрын
You have such a precious heart, Cas. "Decluttering is not taking away from you it's imagining the person who is going to get it.." Now that's a mindset we all need. Thank you Cas, I love you!
@Clutterbug
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@kaleed.7678
3 жыл бұрын
I'd like to add that jigsaw puzzles are great to donate to nursing homes/assisted living. Especially smaller ones (200-500 pieces) that aren't super hard. My grandma has been in assisted living 5 months and has already done every puzzle there that fits on her card table multiple times, plus we have bought several to try to give her something new. She doesn't know how to crochet or knit, but she loves puzzles.
@lj9610
3 жыл бұрын
This is a great idea!
@sinaain
3 жыл бұрын
There is an Australian program where they bring together old people and 4 year olds and one of the old men really loves puzzles and connects with the 4 year olds trough them. Anyway your story reminded me of it kzitem.info/news/bejne/tH2ls4ypcZV2pII
@jenniferd264
3 жыл бұрын
As a Former Activity Director of an Assisted Living Center for Alzheimer’s I’ll shout out in Agreement here! Most of us work with very little budgets! And better yet, donate some time and stay to work those puzzles! I accepted beauty products, books, games and most needed was what Cas said CRAFT SUPPLIES! I’m tearing up typing this too! Many Residents never had a single visit from family. They were literally dropped off with little to nothing! So check with a local center and see what they could use to bring some love to these people in our society who are so often forgotten!
@gladysanderson1351
3 жыл бұрын
Word and number puzzle books are also popular.
@Miss_Annlaug
3 жыл бұрын
This video reminds me how we have been told our whole lives " don't cry "don't be a baby" so many times that we feel shame for showing emotions. It's so toxic and we should all help each other break this down 💕
@christineprettyman2527
3 жыл бұрын
The elderly population NEEDS us. Thank you, thank you for bringing awareness. The little things can mean so much to those who have spent their lives giving to others.
@grandmasewhappyhomestead187
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly I wasn't aware of this one the craft supplies
@kimhouchins1103
4 ай бұрын
Do NOT be embarrassed to "cry in front of" us watching your videos. It shows how passionate AND COMPASSIONATE you are! Love you Cass!!
@RebeccaWife1Mom4
3 жыл бұрын
Best decluttering video... EVER! When you look at it that way; why wouldn't I give what we are not using? I cried too. It's ok, it makes us humans that care. 💛
@olivemaycards
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I learned that men’s jeans are the thing shelters need the most. Men in shelters need hardwearing pants that can stand up to sitting/sleeping rough and infrequent laundry (but when they do get laundered it’s rough too). When I told my husband he donated some pants he would’ve kept forever otherwise. Our local YWCA women’s shelter also takes empty journals - women and their kids appreciate having a place to process everything they’ve been going through and most of us have tons of notebooks and journals lying around, so that’s another easy one.
@lauramedbury5509
3 жыл бұрын
I have so many journals and notebooks that I don’t want to just throw away or take to goodwill. Thank you for this idea!!
@dougandcarrieann
3 жыл бұрын
💗
@HeidiHeredia
2 жыл бұрын
Cass, don't EVER feel embarrassed or ashamed of crying on camera. It's a sign of strength, compassion, and vulnerability. You have such a beautiful heart. Don't ever be afraid to show that. I think a lot of us that watch you can say that we love you more for being so real about how you feel. ❤️ Thank you for what you are constantly pouring into us when it comes to organization, encouragement, and even laughter. You're so wonderful to watch. I've always told my husband, if we met in real life, we'd probably be best friends. He agreed.😂
@logarithmic7
3 жыл бұрын
City of Angels: Why do people cry? Seth: Maybe, maybe emotion becomes so intense your body just can't contain it. Your mind and your feelings become too powerful, and your soul weeps.
@lisajanes1005
3 жыл бұрын
♡♡♡
@michellewanner3921
3 жыл бұрын
This is what we need more of today in this world - humanity and compassion
@novocaine09
3 жыл бұрын
When my mother-in-law passed suddenly in a crash, we found some unopened balls and baby items in the closet. We were not sure what they were for. We finally learned she liked to donate to a program that gave Christmas gifts to children who's parents are incarcerated (her crash was right before Christmas). So that's an idea that always stuck with me.
@kimberleyfrasquillo3684
3 жыл бұрын
M M, I am sorry to hear of the loss of your M.I.L. Obviously, she had a big heart too, for others.💖💝
@novocaine09
3 жыл бұрын
@@kimberleyfrasquillo3684 She really did! She embraced living with less and giving others more 🙂
@lindsayholroyd7477
3 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss & the loss of your Mother in law to the community, she sounded like a lovely caring woman💕 Especially helping a cause/people that maybe get overlooked in the community due to the actions of their loved ones/family members. X
@marilynndesilva7620
3 жыл бұрын
Right before Christmas... must have been extra hard on your family. I hope you found comfort in knowing what a generous soul she was.
@sandysmom100
3 жыл бұрын
Wow !!Sorry about your loss !!
@grammytammy3535
3 жыл бұрын
Don't you ever apologize or call yourself a name because you have a compassionate heart!! 🤗🤩😍
@CarrieVandever
3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I feel. After my husband died nearly 3 years ago, I went through his stuff (clothes, etc) and donated it all within months of his passing. So many of my friends were astonished, but all I could think of was that someone needs this and that all it was gonna do in my house was collect dust. We have volunteered for years at our local CF Storehouse (they give everything away for free) and I know that he would have wanted this. Granted I kept a few things my boys might want later but overall I emptied his side of the closet. Once you work with the homeless, needy, and the elderly your mind shifts to all the "help" this stuff can be. Don't feel too bad about crying. You made me cry with your story because I have those stories too.
@Clutterbug
3 жыл бұрын
Good for you!
@sweetlady6059
2 жыл бұрын
I hope you remembered to check the pockets before donating. My dad is a guru of dumpster diving and came upon some books with total $70.00 in them. Purses with money in them and all kinds of things which are of value that people didn’t think were and tossed them into the garbage. I too went to put something in a donation pile when I thought to look inside and found a pair of earrings and realized that my aunt had given me the item and the earrings together but I had had the items in a box packed away for 6 yrs marked cleaning that ended up having kitchen items not intended to be donated or given away
@LindaOCNJ
2 жыл бұрын
I felt the same way when my husband died. Getting rid of his clothes did not diminish my memories of him.
@annmariearmstrong2901
2 жыл бұрын
My husband and I would go through our closet once a year and get all the old sweatshirts and jackets and make up bags with personal care products, a warm shirt and power bars. After he died I just new he would want me to continue doing this. So I make up bags that I give to my church. I just tell them to say it's from Stan (my husband) I learned to ignore people's comments about how I disposed of his clothes
@cathyjoyce1865
3 жыл бұрын
NOTHING is wrong with you, Cass, except that you are a nice person ! Have a blessed day.
@sharontesi4273
3 жыл бұрын
When my husband passed away a year ago, I donated 26 suits (a few with tags on) and over 40 ties. For me it was therapeutic to know that people would benefit from those. BTW, I'm a person who cries easily and I've reached the point where I realize there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Some of us are just "wobbly-hearted" by nature. ❤
@cindyscrafts9018
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss
@kimedo61
3 жыл бұрын
It took me awhile before I was able to donate my husband’s suits after he died, but I was able to let them go happily when our local high school asked for suits for their career program, Dress for Success. My heart goes out to you in your grief. A big hug.
@lizethfranco6252
3 жыл бұрын
Im sorry for your loss
@sharontesi4273
3 жыл бұрын
@@lizethfranco6252 Thank you! He had been ill for several years with frontotemporal dementia (horrible disease) and was only 61.
@sharontesi4273
3 жыл бұрын
@@kimedo61 Hugs to you, too! That program sounds awesome!
@ducheesi7706
3 жыл бұрын
One thing I would add, hospital break rooms would LOVE your old coffee pots. Nurses and doctors are working non-stop, esp now, and a hot cup of Joe really warms the soul
@Clutterbug
3 жыл бұрын
Great idea!
@carolynnwilliams4600
3 жыл бұрын
Never apologize for your tears, Cas. When your heart gets full-it comes out your eyes. I cried with you through out your video. It was a great. One of the best you've ever done. And, one I needed to hear regarding donating. I think we all need to hear these type things.Thank you.
@WannaBoogieWithYou
3 жыл бұрын
The video made me cry. Then I stopped until I read your comment. "
@wordscrafter
2 жыл бұрын
You're not a baby. You're a compassionate human. The world needs compassionate humans.
@33goodwitch
3 жыл бұрын
Ghaa, this episode really got to me. I am in the "shop at goodwill" category, and can say I am so appreciative of all of the things donated to charity shops and to my family directly. There was a Christmas where we got presents through donation, and then I was able to get a dress and shoes for prom through the Cinderella project, I even got a voucher to get my hair done, which made me feel so special. I still have the dress and it remains one of my dressiest pieces of clothing. So thank you Cas and thank you to everyone who donates and helps others. It is truly appreciated
@Clutterbug
3 жыл бұрын
Love that!
@shirleysmith4614
3 жыл бұрын
It's called compassion. Don't EVER apologize for being real. Sometimes we get so comfortable in our own little world, we forget others that need us. Thank you for reminding us.
@Clutterbug
3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@ginamcdonald7854
3 жыл бұрын
I had five boxes of household items I was planning to take to goodwill, then I heard a family had lost everything in a fire and they were finally getting settled in an unfurnished mobile home. I took everything to them to go through intending to take what they didn’t want to goodwill. They needed everything from cups, plates, kitchen utensils, picture frames, sheets, curtains, pots and pans and a few Christmas decorations. It felt wonderful watching them unbox and find things they needed and could use 💖💖💖
@SmallhouseModelsLLC
3 жыл бұрын
For me, the struggle with decluttering is that I want the item to go where it can do the most good. I HATE just dropping things off at Goodwill so that company can turn a profit. I love that you mentioned Women's shelters, daycares, homeless shelters, nursing homes, medical charities, and after school programs as options. I'd love to see more great places to send our stuff. That's truly my biggest hangup. Just like the mom with the baby's foot brace, I can easily and quickly part with my junk if I know it is going to the right place. Please give us more ideas!!
@maryogarvey1
3 жыл бұрын
emergency rooms often have to cut off clothing and people need something to wear home sometimes.
@rocsiali4092
2 жыл бұрын
Yes same! I even have seen thrift shops and shelters throw out perfectly good items (not just due to something like bedbugs) and so when i can hand over an item directly or closer to the new owner, it feels like a safer bet that the item won't be trashed soon...but it also triggers my hoarder mind to hold onto donation items longer. It has helped that i have been more selective and more aware about what charities/shelters/groups that i send items to. Don't give up! ❤❤❤
@girllittlemorbid
2 жыл бұрын
A lot of people who need things go to Goodwill tho & when you find what you need it's like a miracle! :D
@AoKowen
2 жыл бұрын
I completely agree!! I love being able to 'gift' it, not sell it. ❤️
@margiejones1025
2 жыл бұрын
Remember that Goodwill and other thrift stores are most often set up to use the proceeds for job training programs or other charity programs. 💜
@JacquelynSpeaks
3 жыл бұрын
This may just be my all-time favorite video of yours, sweet Cas, because THIS IS WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT! Changing our mindset from "I paid a lot and feel guilty throwing this away" to "I can bless someone else who NEEDS this right now and can't afford it otherwise" is absolutely a life-changing shift. As always, I'm so incredibly grateful for your insight, humility and honesty. You're changing so, so many lives, Cas, and we are on your team to help spread your message that better days ARE ahead! 💪 Big love from San Diego.
@hippo1701
3 жыл бұрын
I, too, was crying for the nursing home and medical equipment. Then when you started talking about your work with people who could not afford basic things like clothes and dishes. I am a crybaby, too. I think "crybabies" are what the world needs. People who are emotionally motivated to help others. Keep it up, and I will cry with you.
@karengreen2437
3 жыл бұрын
At a bath and body supply store I used to manage we would take the returns that were still good and save them up and once a month take them to the womens shelter. I will add that it honestly isn’t just women though-there are women who leave with their kids, including sons. The kids can use the donations too. Also, when we did a large donation to the homeless shelter we got to “tour” it and we met some of the people there. We asked the women what are the things they need most-female supplies and diapers were their top two they listed.
@kpercy9952
3 жыл бұрын
Every charity I have ever volunteered at has stacks of sanitary supplies & diapers because so many women need them. Anyone who has gone through menopause....donate those unused boxes of tampons & pads!
@KristinaHoneyHavenFarm
4 ай бұрын
You being emotional helps the rest of us who also feel sometimes like we are too emotional. It lets us know we are not alone and gives us someone to identify with. Sometimes the things we don't like in ourselves are things that other people are grateful to see in us.
@Clutterbug
4 ай бұрын
I love that.
@Karen-pe6oc
4 ай бұрын
Well said. It is reassuring to tear up with empathy and not be judged as weak or emotional. Who isn't emotional? 🤷♀
@aimeeontheharp
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, Cass, you asked if I'm sitting on old yarn. I'm literally sitting on my bed and my yarn is under my bed. My tears were the opposite of yours. It's hard to let go. Thank you for sharing your emotional plea!
@aimeeontheharp
3 жыл бұрын
My kids and I always talk about how our stuff is going to other people, other kids. Makes it so much easier to part with it...
@suzy1676
2 жыл бұрын
Never put yourself down while you are picking up so many! You are doing a great service by connecting those with more to others who have less. That's moving & and heart felt & the perfect time to cry.
@lisat.2783
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t ever apologize or being a thoughtful, loving and caring person ❤️
@rosemarywilliams9969
3 жыл бұрын
😤You are NOT a baby! Having the ability to set outside of yourself and experience what someone in feeling is a gift that more people should share and not feel embarrassed about. Thank you for not acting like it dose not matter.
@rhondarayburn8603
3 жыл бұрын
A tender heart is a gift from God and he loves it when we care others the way he cares for us. Don’t change , it’s an awesome strength to care for others.
@mindfuljourneys3010
3 жыл бұрын
You are not a baby! You are a wonderful example of how powerful life experiences can change us forever and even the memory of it stays with us in our bodies! Thank you for being so authentic and life giving to so many!!
@sarahamill1793
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for always being so real, not editing out the cry fest was the right choice. Shows us all emotion is part of the process at every stage. I’m always thankful for your advice and videos but just want to also say Thanks for your years helping entertain those stuck “waiting”. The world needs more people like you.
@blackholesun3152
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, her comment on the elderly waiting hit me hard! 😭
@cindybourque2650
3 жыл бұрын
Crying is not you being a baby. It’s human compassion! And that’s not embarrassing, it’s beautiful!
@elizabethdavis5
3 жыл бұрын
My church has a ‘prom dress’ give away each spring. It empties out those things from our closets and gives others a free dress- an older lady chose one for a nieces wedding….all free! Thanks for the tears…
@cynthialugo3401
3 жыл бұрын
I’m in tears, I feel the same way, while I have been blessed, there is people and families struggling every day to survive.
@agneskramer3766
3 жыл бұрын
Someone close to me had to leave a horrible relationship, with one bag and kids. And the generosity that so many people showed, including many complete strangers was so unexpected and heart warming. It allowed that mama to rebuild her life with her kids. In this crazy harsh world there is so much good, sometimes we need to be reminded of it. Thanks for a great video and inspiration.
@elizabethsummermeado
2 жыл бұрын
I have worked in a nursing home for over 2 decades and THANK YOU for sharing about this! I wish more people knew the things you are talking about! I could write a book on this issue. Give anything you can to our elderly!!!❤ Thank you for your genuine heart!!
@iglika20
2 жыл бұрын
How do you go about doing that? Do you just cold call the nursing facilities in the area? Would whoever answers the phone be able to help answer questions or should you ask for someone in a particular position?
@christenmurray7823
Жыл бұрын
Usually they have someone called an activities director
@newwife777
3 жыл бұрын
Cass, you rock. I cry like....all the time. I now just assume it shows I care. I don't have the energy to not cry when I want/need to. Also, these are some great ideas!!! Facing helping my parents downsize, and I knoooooow there will be craft stuff like yarn and fabric that need new homes. I would never have thought of nursing homes. Thank you.
@kristinepope5360
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being "Real!!!" You don't always have to be funny! Sharing what's in your heart is beautiful!
@janetthornsberry7129
3 жыл бұрын
"What is wrong with me?!"...you have a beautiful, vulnerable, warm heart, Cass...NEVER CHANGE ❤️🥰🎊
@elspethdurkin5598
3 жыл бұрын
You are not a baby - you are empathic, and feel the emotions of other people even when you don't know them which is a lovely thing!! If only all the politicians and 'rich' people could be the same!
@RaeC
3 жыл бұрын
So here I am crying with you thinking of all the things I can share with people. Ready to declutter and hopefully put a smile on someone else’s face. Thanks for the reminder that one mans trash is another mans treasure. Enjoy the day.
@RadCenter
2 жыл бұрын
When I was visiting my uncle in a nursing home before he died, I noticed that the playing cards in the recreation room were old and tattered. I knew I had more decks of cards than I use, so after my uncle died, I gifted two gently used decks and two new ones to the nursing home in his memory. (I called the nursing home first so they knew they would be expecting a package.) I like to think my uncle is watching those pinochle games from heaven!
@katiepresby9224
3 жыл бұрын
We have a new "clothing pantry" in our town for homeless/needy people. I was surprised to find out they need more than just clothing. They take (clean) pillows, bedding, pillow cases (I had SO many extra pillow cases)....even a big beach towel. I was told they'd use it for a towel or even a blanket. I also found that a rolling suitcase is considered a real "score" -- some of the homeless get stopped and have their grocery cart taken away (maybe because it was possibly stolen). Also, they can't take a grocery cart inside with them at, say, a warming or cooling shelter...but they can roll a suitcase in. I was so glad to give up my spare one, and I found out when it was given to a homeless woman she exclaimed, "And it's so pretty!". It really does help to know we can help others and ourselves at the same time.
@eternalabundance39
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks will remember that!
@alicejohnson6775
3 жыл бұрын
Cry all you want.....shows the human in you.....I love ya for having the feels!
@stephaniewarmink655
3 жыл бұрын
Love it!! This is so true! I try to target my donations in this manner. I just moved from Alaska to Washington last year (3200 so house, 2 large storage unit and a double car garage full) and purged about half of my crafts, and have since purged another 1/3 of my yarn and fabric... I knit, crochet, sew, bead, you name it... I gave my yarn and fantasy-self scrapbooking materials to a community center that has a special needs adult outreach. They were just beside themselves. The guilt i had for not creating baby books for my now 4 daughters... turned into such a blessing for all of them. I donate all the mini shampoos and such to women's shelters, baby items to pregnancy outreach locations, old towels and unfit bedding to an animal shelter and a highlander full to the brim of general items to a family that was fundraising for adoption. It does in deed feel good to get the stuff out of the house knowing it will be used, loved and appreciated. Granted there have been times i have drug my feet trying to find the right type of place to donate to... now im able to just get it moved instead of hold onto it until.... And yes, it is worthy of emotions! Awesome video!
@jejrstans
3 жыл бұрын
Cas, I hope someday you can be present with yourself and your tears when you share with us. It is a gift. Thank you! ♥
@sydneykasmar
3 жыл бұрын
Let the tears flows. I see it as emotional decluttering and frees space within us. And thank you for reminding us of the whole picture of donating by including the people who receive our donations.
@BSWVI
3 жыл бұрын
Emotional decluttering. I 💖 this!
@moonan1215
3 жыл бұрын
Don't apologize, Cas. Your tears inspire us all. Now I know what to do with an old back brace I've had for years!
@cynthiaromero4441
3 жыл бұрын
I love your heart. This should be a series DECLUTTERING WITH PURPOSE
@elizabethsokol2545
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds great! Decluttering to help others and recycling to save the planet.
@loriolsen5785
3 жыл бұрын
Awww, Cass, you aren't a baby. Our eyes simply spill over when we are full of emotion. That comes from a heart filled with kindness!
@wendyh4417
3 жыл бұрын
I have to say this is my favourite video of any I have seen We all need to think of others ♥️
@THsWife
3 жыл бұрын
You’re not a baby; you’re a kind hearted, compassionate and caring human. I love your heart.
@Clutterbug
3 жыл бұрын
Aw, thanks!
@caleeola
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video ! God used you to speak truth in my life. I called our local nursing home and the day I called was the first day they officially had hired an activity director ! I talked with her and we worked up a list. Now there's a tote at my church and although its only been there for a little over a week, one lady shared that she has a lot of crochet items she's bringing to our box :) so excited to partner with our nursing home - maybe every few months to try and keep them stocked ! I also learned that they are happy to have churches sponsor a number of residents and the residents pick out a gift for their exchange friend out of what is there 😍😍😍 excited to get involved more. Thank you. God bless you.
@Clutterbug
2 жыл бұрын
I love it!!!
@rhondaharrison5709
2 жыл бұрын
Those tears are why people watch and follow you and you inspire God Bless You
@melindaolaughlin2885
3 жыл бұрын
Cas, your not a baby, your a person with a big HEART! Your encouraging others to follow you lead to help others! ❤️
@nemo7782
3 жыл бұрын
You are crying because you have a heart, a conscience, and compassion. Do NOT apologize for such beautiful traits about you. 😀 ❤
@alikigeorgiou8499
3 жыл бұрын
I cried too!! I've given sooo much stuff to my local charity stores and the gift of giving to those who truly need essential things is worth so much than buying yet another unnecessary thing for myself. My parents brought us up with the same values and I'm grateful every day for everything that I have and will help others wherever I can. Great tips from your video today and you keep being yourself - we love you! 🥰
@mondfalkin3781
3 жыл бұрын
that you cried makes you so adorable, it shows that you care, because you have a big heart 💟
@terrilynthompson3308
3 жыл бұрын
Oh man!!! So glad I’m not the only one that feels that ways about the elderly. I’m Navajo and we have a game we play only during the winter. A group of people from our community would get together to play with the elderly. To see their happy faces and sing the songs was the best memories of my life.
@loriunderwood3734
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t ever be ashamed of crying, because in my opinion that shows you care deeply about what you are speaking and that alone is touching! Thank you for caring and sharing your life experiences with us. You are appreciated!
@li-ly-li
3 жыл бұрын
The more we normalise talking about older people, let alone caring about older people, the better 👍💞
@maryloadholt6726
Жыл бұрын
Don't call yourself a cry baby, you have a kind, gentle heart, and things touch you deeply and you allow yourself to feel. I got teary about the people in the nursing home and the yarn, the woman with cancer who left in the middle of the night. Please don't ever allow your heart to harden. We need more people in this world that are touched by what people are going through!
@daynad8104
3 жыл бұрын
Here in the US, we have a charity called “Dress for Success” that you can donate “career wear”. They help women with finding jobs, writing a resume, handling an interview, and outfitting them for it. It’s a wonderful organization, and I encourage anyone that’s retired, or just letting go of old work clothing to donate them, and help someone else. I’m so glad that you mentioned battered women’s shelters. There are so many women in terrible relationships with no hope, until they take this step.
@margaretdurfey1210
Жыл бұрын
During the peek of the Covid pandemic a couple of our Little Libraries filled up with canned and packaged food people wanted to share with their neighbors.
@Yveswife
3 жыл бұрын
Tears show what a caring person you are. I was crying as you told the story of the club feet braces. I too am so emotional. My husband and son think I am crazy, I cry watching commercials and tv shows all the time. Sometimes even reading a book. A big ole softy I am.
@gentremblay869
3 жыл бұрын
I’m the same... I call myself a real marshmallow! Crying reading the news, especially when too good and moving, watching tv add, etc.
@209tami
3 жыл бұрын
Cas that’s why we LOVE you, because you are so real and we all see that❤️ Keep crying we’re crying with you !!!
@HR-re6mr
3 жыл бұрын
No need to apologize for tears. In such a divisive time, it’s nice to see ppl who actually care about others!
@KatieMae1229
3 жыл бұрын
This is why donating is so easy for me AND often times far better than trying to sell every last thing. Just give it away. Someone else needs it more than I do.
@4mandysake
2 жыл бұрын
PLEASE DON'T EVER hide your raw emotion....I appreciate genuineness. 💗🤗
@CheriJ11
3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t cry through this video - I SOBBED! (I’m a crybaby, too.). It started with the poor sweet puppy lying on the cold, hard cage and went right to the last minute of the video. So, thanks, Cas, now my eyes will be swollen at work tomorrow morning! But seriously, thank you. There some things I hadn’t thought of, like balls of yarn to retirement homes. I will look at decluttering and donating in a whole new way now. And you, my friend, are a treasure. ❤️
@Clutterbug
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@kimberlyperrotis8962
3 жыл бұрын
Never be ashamed of your tears of compassion.
@EJBruin
3 жыл бұрын
I live in a large apartment building with many low-income hoyseholds. With permission from the housing cooperation, we've set up a set of shelves in one of the elevator lobbies where people can leave unused items for others to pick up. A lot of my de-cluttering ends up there. The things that aren't taken by fellow residents within a couple of weeks, are brought to local thrift stores.
@Clutterbug
3 жыл бұрын
Love it!
@paulahall6398
3 жыл бұрын
Never EVER EVER apologize for your heart and your compassion. If it makes you feel better just know that I had tears flowing at your description of what you had witnessed. I think sometimes when we are SO BLESSED, we just can't imagine people such as what you described. Thanks to you, I'm going to be able to look at .y decluttering in an ENTIRELY new light! Thank you, Cass.
@Clutterbug
3 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@bellec7893
3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this video!!! Of all the ways you and Dawn and Dana have presented things over the years/videos this one is THE ONE that made the most sense and made me want to get rid of it all! Thanks SO much Cas!!!
@Clutterbug
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@sweetlady6059
2 жыл бұрын
@@Clutterbug I wish I could convince my dad who is a collector of dumpster finds about donating. His and my mum’s house is so full of stuff he has found in garbage (I am so embarrassed telling ppl this) but he won’t donate or give it away because he expects to get money for it except covid put a stop to donating and yard sales so he couldn’t even have a yard or garage sale so again he waited yet stuff kept coming in He has found cutlery in its cutlery container, classes, mugs, storage containers, (he has about 15 to 20 storage rubber maid containers ppl have thrown out, he has found curling irons, brand new stuff not even out of the package, also cleaning supplies, cds, jewelry, eye glasses, chairs, lamps, blankets, clothing, DVD players, you name it he has it in his place. It has filled up my parents home so badly they can’t use or access their living room or dining room, stuff lines the stairwell and the hallways. He has found shelving units, medicine cabinets, shower items, shampoos, etc. It takes me 15 mins to step over things to get upstairs to the bathroom. But he doesn’t pack it up What he should have done this summer since we had such a Marvelous summer and had me come and help sort like items together then I could have taken a van or car and taken it away and helped the declutter but my parents unfortunately only seem to want to do it at a slow pace and their own and not get help to move things.
@candyharrington5777
2 жыл бұрын
@@sweetlady6059 I'll pray for them & you. That would be a tough problem to solve. Maybe they are embarrassed to have someone see it. If they are older sometimes people are afraid of losing their indepentence. I'm just guessing, That would be very hard for you. 🙏🙏💖🙏🙏
@KelliOlson79
3 жыл бұрын
You are not a cry baby, you’re an empathetic, caring person. Don’t be embarrassed by your caring heart and emotions. We all have them. ♥️🥰
@staceylynch9751
3 жыл бұрын
Cas, you are an empathetic soul. There's no need to apologize for being a good person. It makes my heart hurt as well. Everyone deserves dignity and even small things really do mean so much to people with nothing and give them their dignity back. You're a good egg. ❤
@candyharrington5777
2 жыл бұрын
I haven't heard that saying in a very long time. "Your a good egg." Thank you for making me think of my sweet dad, gone since 2003.
@Dedendwight
3 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE AN ANGEL!!!!! Don't EVER be down on yourself for your compassionate, loving, caring heart! YOU are a GIFT to us all! You are blessing us, and we in turn can bless others with this great work you're doing and by following these wonderful tips with us all! Bless you sweetest girl!
@kimneves5578
3 жыл бұрын
I recently found that a nearby church is collecting things to take to coal mining communities. All you have to do is drop it off. The rest of the year they help their local community with these donations. I prefer to not give to Goodwill and other places because the people who wish to buy these items have to have money. Most don’t have any money to spare. Thank you Cas for all you do!!
@deeoflion166
4 ай бұрын
From a woman who finally chose myself and my children, left and am free...your tears are precious to me.
@kathyomlor920
3 жыл бұрын
Cass don’t be ashamed of your emotions. It makes you special and shows how much you care for people. Most of us are crying right along with you. We have caring hearts and souls. I love you for being so open! Hugs!!
@KatieCornell
2 жыл бұрын
Cas, you aren’t a cry baby. You are a loving, caring person with a HUGE heart! Your tears and emotion have moved me. Thank you.
@sabatham
3 жыл бұрын
Decluttering in the barn we found a hard plastic leg brace and 2 back braces from my husband and father in law. Found a place that accepts these as donations and I was so excited to give them over! It always feels so much better to give to someone who will be able to use it!
@sherrywiley4817
3 жыл бұрын
Don't ever apologize for crying, it shows that you have a big heart! 💗
@findingaway5512
3 жыл бұрын
I have been truly blessed by the gifts of others passing along their things. Never underestimate how something small can make a huge impact on someone else.
@Cherylsgirls
3 жыл бұрын
Compassionate people cry….not embarrassing, it’s endearing. ❤️
@PoeticBostonian
3 жыл бұрын
You’re not a baby. You’re amazing for how much you care! I was homeless for 3 months in the middle of Boston winter. It was hell, I snuck into abandoned vehicles…and Harvard university but that’s another story lol. An 18 year old kid…I was so scared. I think back in those times now and always donate items to the homeless. But sheets, towels….the animal shelters. I’m such an animal lover and I didn’t even think of it! Thank you for making this video. I hope for all those people it’s just a small portion of their lives before they can find a house of their own and make it a home like I did. ❤️ ty Cassie
@kimberleyfrasquillo3684
3 жыл бұрын
🤗🤩🥰, Lindsay Brooke, I hope things have gotten better in your life!🙏
@fionabowey323
3 жыл бұрын
I cried with you.. its wonderful to see someone who has a loving heart. So you should be proud of your heart for people
@gigicathy7030
3 жыл бұрын
Cass, Tears are the heart shining on the outside. Embrace your heart. It is beautiful!
@andreasmith8213
3 жыл бұрын
If you think you're emotional you should see the huge teary, snotty mess I am sitting here in my bath robe. LOL You may be empathetic, which is a fantastic thing. Enjoy that part of yourself because it gives love and takes lessons that end up changing not only you but others. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You are a wonderful human and we are blessed to have you leading this community.
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