After highschool finished for the summer, I was so excited and determined to go move four hours away for university. My parents and siblings left today and the only thing I want/can do right now is cry in my bed. I look at food we bought together for my place, and I cry because I start thinking about them. I hope I start building a routine and move on because I know I'm an emotional person.
@manallibya7121
7 жыл бұрын
Roaa Ramadan so what happend ? I'm at the same place wright now 😔 did you over come it?
@voxxandy6136
5 жыл бұрын
THIS IS ME rn djsjbs im trying to find something to help me cope
@_dimy_
5 жыл бұрын
Thats me right now..
@WonderfullyRandom
4 жыл бұрын
That’s happening to me rn I’m balling in my bed
@nathaliens72
4 жыл бұрын
This is so me
@mimo4856
9 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one sheding a tear cuz I'm going through the exact thing. Sitting in a lecture theatre thinking to myself that university isn't for me. Yet during high school I was the most determined student ever. Thank you for uploading this!! I want to hug you through the screen for talking about this. By the way, those sleepless nights are the worst though 😳
@thatslows197
7 жыл бұрын
MiBeforeChelle Its night right now and my parents are in New York City. I miss them so much. I have grown closer to them over the summer
@brileyballard4218
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah I go to a week camp every summer or I used to but I can't have my phone so it's like legit so baddd
@darrel2945
4 жыл бұрын
Hi, I'm going through the exact same thing. It's hard to go to class and motivate myself to study, because of this anxiety and homesickness. I'm also struggling to get new friends cause I'm socially awkward. I've been trying to push myself and be positive but it's not easy at all. I really want to hug all of the people that experiencing this, we should be friends lmao.
@chloefrogz
4 жыл бұрын
@@darrel2945 how are you doing now? I’m on my first day alone and it’s so hard to see things getting better
@hayleyamanda4493
8 жыл бұрын
I've just moved away from home about a week ago and the homesickness has been horrendous. I couldn't stop crying all week, I feel depressed, anxious and lonely. This video has really helped though as I can relate to it a lot, thank you
@Alphabear32
8 жыл бұрын
Hang in there! You're strong and you will make it! :)
@hayleyamanda4493
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@erikasanchez7972
8 жыл бұрын
+Hayley Amanda I have relocated also and miss my son and his girl terribly. Although I am with family I feel out of place and so stressed out. Looking for a job and everything else. Have no one to talk to out here. I try everyday to get out and walk at least one hour, it hopes me reconnect and be grateful for everything GOD has created for us, I feel more grounded and happy by the time I get back.
@hayleyamanda4493
8 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that, it must be hard for you. You are not alone though even if it feels like you are, someone out there cares including me. I hope you are able to find a job soon and that it is something you enjoy and it brings you happiness. Yes walking can defiantly help which is good, I'm glad it helps you feel happier. I have been here a month now and the homesickness has passed, I feel a lot more settled now and starting to love this place.
@erikasanchez7972
8 жыл бұрын
Hayley Amanda Thank you Amanda, blessings to you as well
@lalalovesyou4820
8 жыл бұрын
I suffer from really bad homesickness and anxiety, I am 13 and I never go to sleepovers because I would start getting panic attacks and my mind would go "your family is dead or in trouble" just crazy stuff like that and all I feel is alone and depressed and it's really horrible, thank you so much for this video xx it has helped me heaps
@lalalovesyou4820
8 жыл бұрын
And if I am homesick, I can never call my parents because it just makes me more upset and I just burst out crying coz I miss them.... What really helps me is deep breaths and thinking happily
@letitiakiu
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I hope that you're able to overcome your anxiety as you get older and experience more things! I know I used to be anxious about many things but had to slowly experience it to get over it.
@randommsp2979
6 жыл бұрын
I have the same situation as you have. I'm 11 years old and I can't sleep in a room without my parents. I've tried but I always end up sleeping in my parents room. I can't go to sleepovers not even with my cousin who lives 1 minute away. I just can't sleep in a place other than my house. I went to a school camp once and I cried myself to sleep untill the night I knew I was leaving tommorow. It was for 3 night's and 4 days. I'm leaving to mexico for the first time today. I'm so nervous. I couldn't sleep at all last night. I woke up at 5:24 AM and it's 6:38 AM right now
@alulacamm6174
5 жыл бұрын
Same :/ it sucks because staying at friends places is so fun but I always get anxiety :/
@brileyballard4218
5 жыл бұрын
Oml I feel you I'm the same age but I have to go to a camp and it's a decision but my advice is don't let it ruin your life just breatheee
@qq671
8 жыл бұрын
Omg, I feel you. I think I'm feeling extremely homesick right now. I am in USA Miami for an exchange programme and I'm from Singapore (SG). So the time difference between here and home is 12 hours. USA is 12 hours behind SG. It's like when I'm awake my friends and family are sleeping and vice versa. And I'm just crying everyday in my room because I miss everyone. I'm staying off campus because its too expensive to live on campus and I wanna save money for travelling around USA. All of my exchange friends are living on campus which makes me very lonely cause I have no one to talk to when I get back home. Even when I go to Asian Groceries market I would be like reminded of home and will be fighting back my tears. And everytime I mentioned them to my friends I'll be fighting the tears back too. This morning after FaceTiming my family I miss them even more. :( I'm just feeling so depress and sad everyday right now. I'm just hoping that when school starts I'll get more close friends to talk to.
@letitiakiu
8 жыл бұрын
You're not alone! I also welled up when I went to Chinatown. Even the smell of rotten produce made me so bittersweet. I hope reading the comments in this video will help you, as it really helped me. Sending lots of love
@user-th7sn9ov9g
7 жыл бұрын
Zhen Qi Wong a
@ella.travels
5 жыл бұрын
I’m going to Singapore in a few days and I get homesick so I’m nervous for it 😢
@shuenko
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I just moved to a new country to my dream college but I am feeling so homesick and disappointed. My parents have spent so much money on me but I feel so guilty for not being happy and they'll definitely be worried if I tell them how I feel. It's really comforting to know that I'm not alone in this :)
@Verifierabfi
7 жыл бұрын
We should do a WhatsApp group for everyone who's feeling this so we can help each other
@justanothersomeone0121
6 жыл бұрын
Luis Enrique Maccapa Sellerico good idea😢
@saoirselynne1776
6 жыл бұрын
Luis Enrique Maccapa Sellerico yeee
@khouloudachaib3903
6 жыл бұрын
Yes please !!!
@aarushisharma9177
5 жыл бұрын
when?
@MariaLopez-jn9xw
5 жыл бұрын
Yessss!!!!
@yuyugo62
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Letitia, you are a brave girl!! Im studying abroad for 5 years, but last year I finallly felt "comfortable" with the enviroment and myself. Things I learned:1. I dont need a BFF to survive, just a group of people who makes me laugh, or to talk to. 2. enjoy my own company, dont fear the awkward silence with other people XD(its not that bad) 3. its important to challenge myself and find new places, new friends, new hobbies, be better BUT dont forget to enjoy every phase, every feeling, do things when I feel ready, dont push myself too hard :) I wish you the best in your new journey! and you are not alone :) XO
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
yuyugo62 Thank you for sharing your story! That's very inspiring (:
@FabienneFearless
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I am 19 years old and I've been dealing with anxiety especially homesickness for as long as I remember. I used to be so ashamed of it when I was younger but now I know that there is nothing to be ashamed of. I find that reading helps me overcome panic attack. When reading, you can escape your mind a little while and it prevents you from getting lost in thoughts.
@Embly99
9 жыл бұрын
I don't think I could ever need this more than I do now. I moved house a few months ago from where I've lived my whole life and since moving my family life and everything has been a lot worse, ( my dad told us he was having an affair an left for another woman within a week of moving and the night he left my cat got hit by a car) and I have never felt homesick before and I feel so alone and sad all the time because it's such a major change. The feelings that you described just before each tip I can understand so so so so much. Much love to you. You are great. I came in search of homesickness tips but I will definitely be checking out more of your channel
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
+Embly I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through all of that! It feels like you've lost so many loved ones so quickly, but I hope you can find some peace with the stories shared here! I know reading everyone's comments had really helped me. Much love back to you!
@briannakayla319
8 жыл бұрын
I can't describe how grateful I am to have found your video and channel. You are such a beautiful soul. I recently just moved from the midwest out to California by myself at 18. I have everything I've ever wanted here and couldn't be happier. But no matter what there is always a big gap in my life. That gap is my family. Hearing you (so eloquently) talk about how you were feeling, how you handled things, etc. during your move was so healing. To remind myself that being emotionally fragile is okay, and to remind myself not to feel shame about the fear, anxiety, and homesickness. It's such a catch 22 situation, your dream life away from your family or a boring mundane life near them. My work now, is deciding if living out here is the "price of admission." Is it worth it? It is so wonderful to hear the words "Don't indulge in the fear, but embrace it." Just knowing someone else is going through something similar is less all-consuming and makes things seem less hopeless. Anyways, I would really love and appreciate your thoughts.. Do you think moving away from your "home" (away from friends and family) to a wonderful new life full of opportunities is worth it? Can you eventually get past the homesickness enough to create a life for yourself? I know you may not see this comment and those feelings in the video may not be as fresh but I couldn't help but reach out. Hoping to hear from you... xoxo
@letitiakiu
8 жыл бұрын
+Brianna Kayla Hi Brianna, That's amazing to hear that you took that opportunity at such a young age! Reading everyone's comments below, it seems a lot of people were able to get past that homesickness. I think they were able to find new friends and have a better sense of belonging in their new home. For me, I met a couple of people that became really close friends, but I was lacking not only in personal fulfillment, but career as well. I believe you make your own family, related or not, and if you're able to find fulfillment where you live now, then be happy with the choice that you made! But you also shouldn't feel guilty for moving back home if that's what you decide. It sounds like you're a bit on the fence about this, but whatever decision you make, don't ever regret it!
@briannakayla319
8 жыл бұрын
+lookunderhere Thank you for your support my dear! I appreciate those words. Your strength radiates! You are truly an incredible human being. Xoxo
@mariyamkhan9038
7 жыл бұрын
I just moved for college and i can't stop crying.. I feel talking to people at home just makes me cry more 😢
@tiffymluv
6 жыл бұрын
Mariyam Khan me too :'(
@iamironman2963
2 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Cuz I’m going through it rn
@ELLWIS
9 жыл бұрын
I recognize my own feelings so much in this!!! It's really helpful to hear that others have the same problems... I feel like I'm so fragile and sometimes even lazy and just not good enough when I experience anxiety. But knowing that you also experience it makes it easier for me to accept it, and trying to find a balance between not putting myself through things that makes me feel anxious and not letting it stop me from living my life.
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!! There's nothing wrong with taking your own time to come out of your shell. There's no pressure to do everything you want to do all at once!
@bearyylovessyouu
7 жыл бұрын
I just moved halfway across the country for a job and I've been here 4 months and now that I'm settled in the homesickness and anxiety has kicked in full force. Its good to push yourself to be busy, go for walks, go to a movie even if you dont have friends yet. This video helped because I was beginning to worry that I would be stuck here feeling this sad forever unless I go back home. Its good to know relief will come with time
@hamzaarajputt9046
6 жыл бұрын
Bunny Brain hi i hope you're doing good just wanted to know are you still there?how are you I'm in the same boat so
@kerfluffle
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! It's the most helpful video about homesickness I've seen on KZitem. I'm a Singaporean doing uni in the UK and I've been here for four months. The past couple weeks have been really rough, especially with a long Christmas break. Also, about unpacking the sentimental stuff - I had ordered free photos of my family to be printed here, but when I got them in the mail I was reluctant to put them up. I never realised it but it was only until last month that I felt I could bear seeing the photographs on my wall. And I especially love your last point - I never expected how tough it would actually be despite the age of technology we are in, and never fully understood the phrase "home is where the heart is" until now.
@kcg285
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I've had extreme anxiety and homesickness and your calm stories and tips really help. If you're feeling anxious and homesick right now, I feel for you! ❤ A friend recently told me "one positive way to look at this is that now you've realized how important family is for you and you can start working toward being closer with them". Sending love!! Talk with people you trust. Don't bottle it up.
@aman48525
4 жыл бұрын
I just took a travel nursing contract to NYC and ALL of this happened to me. Im still very homesick but it’s getting better everyday. I love the advice you give here, I will definitely try these out! Thank you! 🙂
@averyviolet3079
3 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or is it that there are moments to we’re I am having fun and then I randomly start thinking about home and start getting sad
@jesstucker6201
9 жыл бұрын
This was so powerful and helpful. I'm going off to university in September and if I'm ever hit with any feelings of anxiety I'm going to remember this video and follow the tips you recommended. Thank you!!
@marcosmelendez2543
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your courage and being honest. Important to learn to deal with and "cure" this homesickness + anxiety symptom because it can stick with you for a long time.
@thenamesbanana
9 жыл бұрын
Treat yourself to a comfort food. I find when I'm anxious, I don't have an appetite, but black tea with milk is an incredible comfort for me. So, I'll usually make myself a cup at home when I'm on the verge of breakdown, just to remember it isn't the end of the world, or if I'm out and about, I'll treat myself to a cup of Tim's tea, since I'm a tea snob and it weirdly tastes the best and I can justify the price. Stuff like that is a good mixture of bringing the calming comforts of home, but treating and being kind to yourself at the same time.
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
thenamesbanana You know it! I hope I can maintain my weight haha. Noodle soup is my comfort soup I pretty much eat it everyday haha!
@SandraPotisek
9 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to this video. I suffer with (social) anxiety and I just moved to London from another country all by myself, trying to find my first real job here and start my new life. It's been incredibly hard and I have at least one breakdown a week, but seeing that I'm not alone in this and talking to people in similar situations helps me a lot.
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
***** You're so inspiring for taking that risk! I was breaking down pretty much everyday so you're way more resilient!
@delaneycarr7079
7 жыл бұрын
I'm at a summer camp right now and the first night was great but on the second night I started getting really homesick. This is my first time being out of town without my family and I know I'm obviously going to see them again but it really does hurt. Thank you so much for making this video, it helped me a lot and my roommates don't understand what I'm going through. Ever since I watched this I haven't had a panic attack. THANK YOU!
@channahobeyesekere4266
6 жыл бұрын
This was so hopeful because I’m 13 and I’m a weekly boarder. I’m struggling with homesickness and after watching this video I felt like is wasn’t the only one in the same position. I have watched a few other videos on how to deal with homesickness but none of them were helpful as they advice not to speak to friends and family and to bring stuff from home and put it out straight away those tips didn’t help for me in fact they just made me feel worse. However your video really did help me as you encouraged people to speak to their friends and family and when bringing stuff from home to gradually take it out. I really appreciate the time you put into this video. I’m sure you helped a lot of other people with you great tips on how to deal with homesickness. X
@letitiakiu
6 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad it was some help! I know lots of the advice videos suggest making friends, but if you’re honestly not up for it, don’t push yourself! Talking to friends back home doesn’t have to be a reminder of what you’re missing, it’s just emotional support. Hope you are able to pass your homesickness over time! We’re here for you ❤️
@annechurch4335
9 жыл бұрын
I never really knew how to explain how I feel when I have my anxiety attacks, but this video really really helped me finally find the words to verbalize my thoughts. I feel this video on a personal level
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Anne Church It means so much to me that you can relate to this video. I hope it can help somewhat!
@ahtserhs
9 жыл бұрын
I just moved to San Diego recently and I suffer with anxiety too. I can't explain how much I can relate to this video. Thank you for all the tips. Love your videos. ❤️❤️
@ynreflect
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video. I'm going through a similar thing, but with a twist. My wife had to go 7000 miles away to help her 80 year old mother recover from a hip transplant. I could be considered an adult, but I miss her like crazy. We Skype, we Messenger, we text, but nobody can tell me it is the same.
@hellokittyoh8
9 жыл бұрын
I can't explain how much this helped me. I experienced a similar situation when I moved to college. I've watched several videos about dealing with anxiety, but you're the first one to acknowledge how meditation, yoga, and other similar activities don't always work. I had the same feelings about doing those things. I'm really glad to hear that you're doing much better and I thank you so much for helping me feel better too :) thank you!!
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Olivia Hawkins I'm so happy to hear that Olivia! Thank you for sharing your story (:
@primedolans3367
8 жыл бұрын
I get nervous/anxious whenever I go to summer camp. I'm not homesick, but I'm anxious about getting anxiety, which is so dumb! I always get a lump in my throat and it makes it difficult to breathe which always freaks me out, and now I'm having it 24/7 because I can't stop thinking about having it at camp. I know it's a lot, but is there anything you recommend doing? The only way I can make it go away it to TOTALLY stop thinking about it. Which is difficult unless I am with other people or doing something with my brain. The worst I have is when I'm laying in bed. I start shaking and I get the lump and I just don't know how to make it go away. PLEASE HELP!
@lemiacresent7542
7 жыл бұрын
I have the exact same thing its scary but try to talk with friends or family and think of all the good things that are gonna happen it works for me.
@parrotbirbqween672
6 жыл бұрын
prime dolans same 10 years old and going to camp in 2018
@lulua5516
6 жыл бұрын
Omg that's so weird because I also shiver and shake when I'm homesick
@mylovelydream8828
6 жыл бұрын
Your body is reacting to anxious thoughts. I read a book that changed my life and made me think completely different about my anxiety. It's called "From Panic to Power" by Lucinda Bassett. It's really good. I even gave a copy to my best friend and it also changed her life. It is possible to conquer anxiety. If I can do it, you can too.
@bohdanjames5483
6 жыл бұрын
prime dolans keep your mind focused with books and puzzles I'm going to boyscout camp in 3 days and I really don't want to go but I have to so that's why I'm trying to look for stuff to help me
@thisolddress
9 жыл бұрын
So comforting to know that there are others going through the same thing I am. Sometimes it can feel like a silent battle that you have to face alone! Thanks so much for sharing! Stay strong!
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
***** We're in this together!
@louiseringsmose
9 жыл бұрын
It is very nice that you talk about "serious life stuff" too!! KZitemrs can quickly be all about beauty without, and forget our beauty within and that we are just people! Thanks for the video and sharing! Have a wonderful day. ✰ Love, Louise.
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the love Louise!
@louiseringsmose
9 жыл бұрын
lookunderhere You are so much welcome!
@SuperBrendaddy
8 жыл бұрын
I love the way you talk through these two different but not mutually exclusive subjects. one the most challenging, isolating but also empowering and amazing things in life is learning about your self as you through life. currently, I'm in a rough Ish patch, but I know it doesn't have to stay this way. thank you for posts like this one!
@monique.110
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all your helpful tips! You’re right, face to face meeting as opposed to using technology is better. After moving from my home state almost 3 years ago I still feel homesick and don’t have many friends. Seems like people are so disconnected.
@halfjarofmilk
9 жыл бұрын
I came to the states when I was 17. I had a friend who came with me then so it was fine, until we had a big fight and it utterly broke me. I felt like i couldnt trust anyone again and it was (still is) really hard. I'm a really quiet person unless I'm around someone who I feel very comfortable with (haven't found one yet) It's been 3 years and I'm still trying to get over those anxious moments for simple things like talking to my professors and classmates. Scary, but I'll keep working on it. You are awesome and you will be fine. I believe in you and stay strong!
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
elaine t I'm sorry to hear about your friend. Good for you for moving so young!
@shinobi-zensei
6 жыл бұрын
Hello. You nailed it on 11:36 - 12:10. I moved from home on 2013 and generally life has worked out ok for me. But, every time I visit, it drags me down so much when I have to leave. I’m not a person who suffers from depression nor anxiety attacks. This is what brought me to your video. The need to understand what I’m going through and how to manage it. Thanks!
@katievaughn8211
6 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you for this video! I am wwoofing in Hawaii all the way from MN and instead of enjoying the spectacular place I am in I am begging myself to just go home!!! I miss my family so much, this is 100% harder than I thought it would be. Thank you for relating to what I’m going through, it’s so nice to hear I am not alone. Hope you’re doing well!!!
@skylaboronka1119
6 жыл бұрын
I''m so glad i'm not the only one who get's really worried/lonely if is up at night and can't back to sleep to me it just feels like i'm the only one awake in the world and I get lot's of Anxiety.
@cocoluvr64
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I am currently studying abroad in Germany, only for six weeks but I've been here a day and I'm struggling. All I can think about is how nice it would be for my boyfriend to give me a huge hug and tell me it's ok. The jet lag is making everything worse too, I'm sure. I experience very mild anxiety on a daily basis but when I'm away from home, it reaches whole new levels. I can't eat right, which makes me more tired which makes everything worse. I'm just hoping to feel ok like you, hopefully once my program starts and I make some friends
@letitiakiu
8 жыл бұрын
Sending virtual hugs! I find reading all the comments was very helpful. You're not alone in this, and I hope you can work with your anxiety! Best of luck in school
@safirouhi1651
7 жыл бұрын
I'm 15 and I have a great opportunity to go to Poland to study at the conservatory of music. I can't waste this opportunity, and I'm going to go, but all I can think about is that crushing feeling.
@1L6veLex
9 жыл бұрын
Higher intensity workouts help me. I always find myself doing the Juliane Michael's 30 min workout when I feel anxious. It helps me exhaust all my energy that I would otherwise spend worrying.
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Alexis Yvette Great advice!
@paige4894
4 жыл бұрын
so i was looking through the comments and looking at all the people who are suffering hurts me. during my panic attacks i always feel i am the only one going through pain. i feel like i am alone even if a family member is in the room. i saw all of these comments about college students and high schoolers. i realized how much i am suffering for such a young age. i’ve been through therapy and it helped a lot. when i was around ten years old (i am almost 12) i wouldn’t leave the house at all. i cried every time i had to go somewhere. i was in the office at school crying because i wanted my mom. and it hurts to think about it. when my brother was in fourth grade he skipped a two whole months of school because of his anxiety. i look at him now and see how much he has improved and it’s kinda weird to think about because he is older than me. i just want to say to all the people out there suffering with anything just know that you are not alone and that somebody will always be for you ❤️
@Dominiqueepatriciaa
9 жыл бұрын
Im going on a new journey to a country I have never been to and I do not know the language quite soon and I have been worried about getting homesick and anxiety, its really nice to get some tips up front to reassure me that I will be okay too, thanks!!
@dchristianrobert
9 жыл бұрын
Welcome to NYC Letitia! When I first moved here a year ago I found myself having social anxiety for the first time not knowing anyone and having to make all new friends. So I know some of the feels!! Thanks for passing on the tips!
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
DEAN Thanks Dean for your support!
@TheHappinessFirm
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much for this. I moved to university yesterday and I'm really struggling at the moment as I've always been really close with my family but don't want it to affect my uni life. It's really nice knowing you're not alone
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
+Katie A. This is a good place to reach out! Everyone here is very friendly and it seems like many people have gone through the same feelings.
@christinaeimer4398
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! I am going through pretty bad homesickness at the moment, I could cry all day, but you did help me see that there is a way to get through this... xxx
@juliea.3495
5 жыл бұрын
I’m in boarding school and it’s my third day and it’s so horrible! Everyone is ignoring me and my roommate is always away, she’s also the exact opposite of me. Also I don’t really like anyone here, I don’t know why,they’re just so different. I cry like three times a day or more. School is sooo dang hard, I don’t understand anything, but I feel so bad I just can’t sit down and study. I just feel so uncomfortable with EVERYTHING. I want to go home so bad, till it’s to late to change schools, because if I do it now it’ll still be “ok” I just want to sleep in my own bed, with my family around me and my pets. I’m also thinking about just jumping out of a high window, to just not feel the anxiety and pain anymore. Please I can’t handle this anymore, but I’m always like that, I give up every time as soon as it gets uncomfortable and my family and everyone is sick of it. So I don’t want to let them down again, since the school is really expensive and special and they already spent a lot of money to get me here and buy the stuff I need. God I just want to die
@creativeopinions8250
5 жыл бұрын
I'm going through similar situation right now and talking to friends, praying, asking God for serenity and acceptance of my new life has helped so much. hugs...it will pass. Just go through it one step at a time. God bless.
@arir5485
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this.. I always freak out at even just a sleepover invitation that I accept but immediately regret accepting as soon I send the reply. This helped me so much and even tho I still have so much anxiety, as I read through the already existing comments it feels good to know I'm not alone.
@iluvninjapandas25
8 жыл бұрын
Hey Letitia! I just moved to my college 5 hours away from home and I felt everything you described in this video. I feel better watching this though. I miss home but I know I can't go back yet. I feel lonely even though I'm surrounded by so many people. It feels horrible.
@annieperez6233
8 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I feel ! Thank you . I know now that I'm not the only person feeling like this. I feel like I got this and that I can overcome this.
@beautycakez
9 жыл бұрын
i'm so glad you're feeling OKAY now :D
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Sylvia Beautycakez SUGADADDY I need a new car
@gioadnyana
8 жыл бұрын
This helped me so much. I recently moved to start my college all alone and had a mental breakdown for a while. Watched this right now and feel so much better. Thank You!
@grellsutcliff2974
8 жыл бұрын
Hi! This is a random question, but how are you feeling right now? I moved 7h away from home to go to uni, i live on my own. My mom was here for few days but left a week ago and I'm soooo anxious. Heart palpitations, crying, can't eat, sleep, study. Did you manage to tackle this problem by now?
@gioadnyana
8 жыл бұрын
heyy, I'm feeling awesome! it's pretty hard at first but when you start getting friends, it will be much easier as you found somebody to talk to. I'm from Indonesia and now I'm in New Zealand which is far far away from home :D. You're lucky your mom got to help you settle, i went to NZ all bu myself and never went here before haha~ remember that you are not alone in this, cuz there's a lot of people who moved away from home and feel the same way as you do. Goodluck!
@grellsutcliff2974
8 жыл бұрын
thank you for comforting words and quick reply
@gioadnyana
8 жыл бұрын
no problem :)
@letitiakiu
8 жыл бұрын
This comment thread is amazing!! Thanks for the update. @Grell I hope you feel better in the future
@Alphabear32
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I have been experiencing this for the past month and it's so comforting to hear that others were able to make it out. Thank you!
@liaf8782
9 жыл бұрын
I so appreciate you talking about this heavy topic! Although while I agree that a distraction can be very calming when I am actively having a panic or anxiety attack, you really have to confront why you are having these anxieties, when you are ready of course. otherwise you won't be able to understand or get past them. Also I think its important to note that not everything in this video is going to be helpful for everyone :)
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Lia F You're so right! It may not help everyone that's for sure (:
@minimouse2105
9 жыл бұрын
I'll need this video when I move to South Korea to be an English teacher full time... My first full time job, and first time away from home... YIKES! You're amazing, girl!
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Congrats on the job!!!!! It's a big move, but you'll do great things!
@manallibya7121
7 жыл бұрын
lexiconartist How did you do?
@lotta5704
9 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! Thank you soo much for this! I am moving tomorrow to a different country on my own( I don't even know if the place I am planning on staying at tomorrow night will actually work out) and I am so nervous and scared and overwhelmed. Your video has helped me a lot. I already downloaded the app you have mentioned!:) thank you for that :) I've only just met you but in this 12:46 minutes I feel like I'm not alone with this anxiety!! Xxxxxx thank you!!!!
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
+Just _ lotta Good luck on your move! Hope you have settled in ok and know that you're not alone on this!
@bloodycat7686
5 жыл бұрын
I’m missing home a lot and missing seeing my family being around me, I moved because they made me stress and I was old enough to leave but I couldn’t move because I was to attach to my home a lot and I never in my life, I moved before or leave my little hometown. The day I moved from NM to Texas with my boyfriend and it’s only been 2 months, still missing home then ever. I wanted to cry, getting bit scared, and when we were getting far from home, I wanted to turn back so badly but I kept driving til we gone far away. I’m crying as I type this comment and hate anxiety because when you want to adventure the world, it gets to you in your mind and heart.
@laipubamfabinasharma8959
5 жыл бұрын
I needed this. I am home for like 10 days only. I am going back on Tuesday. Today is Sunday. So, I'm already having mild anxiety issue from now because time is almost up. 😭 Thank u!
@whaddupchunt
9 жыл бұрын
Wow, I watched this video at the perfect time. I just moved to Malaysia from the US to teach English for a year. I knew no one coming here and hardly know the language. Malaysia is a hard country to get used to, for me anyways. I've always dealt with general anxiety for pretty much all my life and can totally relate to how you said you're generally "high strung". I really liked how real you were in this video. I'm so ashamed of feeling anxious and stressed and I also feel "ungrateful" sometimes for this opportunity, etc. I feel like I just shouldn't feel bad, and I should get over all of my anxiety. It makes me feel weak to even realize that I'm having such a hard time right now. But I'm glad you made this video and completely normalized anxiety. You made me realize that it's okay to feel how I feel right now, I'm going through a huge change, and I'm not "weak" because I am so stressed. If anything I am strong to admit it. Thanks for this vid.
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
whaddupchunt Thank you for sharing your story! Keep on trekking. You're doing great!
@Natamostly
7 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for this time my whole life. For past few years all I could imagine was myself in a big city doing my own thing. I never was a person who misses someone badly. My parents often travel and I don't see them daily for weeks. I moved to another city to start university 3 days ago and all I do is crying. My brother brought me to my new place, helped unpacking and right when we said goodbyes and the door closed I started crying and cannot stop (I'm literally crying right now). Talking on the phone is a huge battle with lump in my throat. I've dealt with depression and anxiety in high school so I now how it it to be lonely but right now I feel like a vulnerable baby and have to literally push my focus onto something else (movies, articles,..) to stop thinking. I think of it like peeling off a bandaid. It hurts like hell but I have to do it and although I can pack my bags and go to train any minute, I have to be strong and overcome this state.
@Em-ju6yc
6 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same place right now. I'm away for a gap year program. It's only four months long, so not a huge amount of time. I'm not one to miss people either, so I had no idea I would feel this way. I haven't prepared for the way I'm feeling. I know I can leave any time, but I want to stay strong and get through this. Plus, I'm sure this will help me grow as a person. I just have to get over this hump. I haven't called any of my family yet because I know I'll feel like crying, which is not something I want to do. Everyone around me seems so confident, I'm glad to know that other people are going through this too. It's only been two days since I got here, so I know it will get better. I just wish it were better now, ya know?
@simplysmash8210
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this video with unique and different tips! In a week my boyfriend and I are moving from MA to NC and I personally am very emotional in general and am already having panic attacks about being away from everything I know. I know this move will bring us great opportunities but not feeling at home and seeing our friends and family will be very hard for me. 😓
@DechenWongmo
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing such a personal experience. It's great to hear that you're starting to feel okay again. ♥ Your second tip, on filling voids of silence, is the most apparent issue I face in my personal struggle with anxiety, particularly when trying to head for bed; indulging in podcasts, audio books, or even youtube series is also a great way to combat that silence, and to learn something new! Proactivity has been the most efficient method for my anxiety... certainly hope this can assist someone else's. :)
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Pimikochu Thank you! I might start with audiobooks. Good suggestions!
@vicentesilverio4674
4 жыл бұрын
I'm having a homesickness right now but I will fight this kind of sickness
@colleenkeating1067
8 жыл бұрын
My baby sister just moved 9 hours away and I've spent most of my life with her and I feel homesickness from being away her. My older half sister had a very good intimate relationship, but she was rarely there for me and it hurt for a long time so now I'm a bit more over protective of my little sister. This video helped. Thanks
@NameePark
9 жыл бұрын
Sending love
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Nami!! Always appreciate your support
@zangiitangii
9 жыл бұрын
thank you for being so brave and sharing! it's girls like you who make me really feel like I'm not so alone with my anxiety
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
heyheather You're definitely not alone (:
@Claraapedersen
7 жыл бұрын
This is really nice to hear. Im going to Berlin with my class on sunday and im really nervous, because i am really bad going away from home, even if it is just for a week. So glad for this video😊❤️
@davidz4144
8 жыл бұрын
I just moved to Florida and I was feeling a little homsick so I came across this video and I helps quite a alot. After being at home for 21 years, it's time that the apple must fall from the tree.
@cENYAdothis
9 жыл бұрын
This helped me so much cause I just migrated to toronto and I miss home so badly to the point that I cry so much and just feel so alone. THANK YOU
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Enya Bautista Oh Enya I know how hard it is right now ): Just know that every day that passes is a bit more progress. Did you move down with family?
@cENYAdothis
9 жыл бұрын
I know.. :(. Yup I did but it's kinda hard adjusting when you're really attached to your friends but I know I'll make new ones so I'm working on that :)
@rachelodendahl9974
4 жыл бұрын
So glad I found this video. I only moved like 70 miles from home and I’m crying ALL THE TIME because I just want to go back and be with my family. Also, starting a teaching job during a pandemic is not ideal, so that’s probably contributing as well😅
@blessedwifeandmama
3 жыл бұрын
How did u deal what did u do?
@rachelodendahl9974
3 жыл бұрын
@@blessedwifeandmama I actually ended up moving back home and just have a long commute. It feels good to be home and have my support system back even though the driving is pretty grueling! Currently looking for a new job closer to my parents.
@ompande1272
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah that didnt help
@altheadionio4686
3 жыл бұрын
No one can truly understand how homesickness feels unless they have experienced it themselves. It's hard for me to feel attached, but when I do it was too hard for me to move on...so going to a different country miles away from home, family, friends..it was too difficult. It was hard for me to adjust...I tried, but also being a nurse in this time of pandemic, and now not having my comfort persons around me....it's just so hard.
@neverforgetwhouwere
9 жыл бұрын
omg, im soo thankful for this video!!!
@averyashbaugh7288
7 жыл бұрын
Moving out tomorrow. Moving all the way across the country right after turning 18. I'm super scared but also excited.
@paulinervt838
8 жыл бұрын
Hi, I can really relate to you right now. I'm French and I juste moved to Wales for uni. I've been here for 3 days now and I think I've never felt so bad before. I cannot sleep at night and I have so many anxiety attacks. I miss my home, family and friends and all I can think of is "I wanna go home". I hope I will be able to deal with this new life soon. As you said in your video, I feel so mad at myself because it's such a great opportunity I have here but I just don't know if I am strong enough to go through all of this. Anyway, thank you for your video, it will be helpful :)
@katieclasper6539
8 жыл бұрын
Hey, I am feeling the same- I miss everything at home, the routine, my dogs, family. :(
@pastelpixyish8785
7 жыл бұрын
So I went to my grandparents house for about 2 weeks and my parents just left for home a couple days ago and so at night I just cry and I miss my parents. I have mixed emotions p. I feel like I wanna go home early and see my parents but I also want to stay and have fun with my grandparents. Any advice?? It felt good to vent..
@lkive
9 жыл бұрын
Hi Letitia! I am planning to move to New York and pursuing a career in fashion. I would love to see more videos like these from you!
@sashaleechin4125
8 жыл бұрын
I can relate to every thing that ur saying ....im still trying to overcome my homesickness 😢😢😢
@ilducedimas
8 жыл бұрын
Great video, you describe the feeling so perfectly. Uplifting. Thanks
@xitsbianca
9 жыл бұрын
I struggle with preventing the escalation. The fact that I can't control it makes the frustration within myself grow alongside the list of fears, pulling me deeper. It is so difficult to fill in voids, but I have found that all of these intense feelings are necessary for us to heal in the long run. Accepting and surrendering to my present situation has lit everything around me on fire leaving nothing to hold onto. I've found both chaos and order in practicing yoga. In the opening meditation, and first postures its rough because you're having to face yourself for who you are, where you are, etc, but it helps to just see your breathe as waves rising and falling with purification of some sorts; I see it as white light and it helps. I don't really know where to go from here, and thats okay I guess, but I'd really like to think of it like a forest being burned to plant new seeds. But damn, it's hot over here and the smoke is in my eyes! Thanks for sharing your story, mad love and good vibes your way! :)
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Bianca SV You write so beautifully! Good vibes back to you (:
@vincekoi
5 жыл бұрын
This is my first time away with my family... but now im not sure if i have anxiety or homesickness, it just gives me short in breathing palpitations and i dont wanna eat a lot... and i just wanna stay home and lying on my bed. And this video helps... yeah i should go out with friends sometimes....
@ana3603
7 жыл бұрын
Well, I study abroad at the moment and I will be here for other 3 years (out of total 4 years). It is a very different country and culture and people, nothing similar to my own. I guess it is also a bit harder for me as I am 19 years old and I have been away since I was 18. I go home on Christmas and Easter to see my family for like 10 days, and whenever I come back here I feel so anxious and sad. After a month or so when I finally get used again to living abroad, I go home and I have to start all over again. I keep watching the same series as my mom just to feel closer to her and not to feel homesick (I know it sounds weird). Just the thought that I still have 3 more years to be here makes me cry, but I really want to do this.
@fionac.3017
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video because I'm leaving home next year, I'm going to be alone so I'm hesitated. I know now that I should go because that's the best opportunity for me !
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Fiona C. All the best when you travel Fiona! Congrats on the opportunity (:
@bestcomedytickets3612
7 жыл бұрын
I am a New Yorker and moved to the Netherlands. I have had a lot of homesickness. I got married to a dutch lady and now have a baby. I sometimes throw up and miss New York. I have been here for two years and have been depressed deeply.
@abiidabbii
9 жыл бұрын
I'm currently doing my GCSE's and I've always been nervous but this year has been worse because of the constant stress and pressure to do well. My English teacher is really understanding and taught me some really good ways of learning to control it. If you breathe in for 4 beats and out for 8 it forces your body to slow down and I find this works best for me when someone else counts it out for me. I hope that helps someone because it does seriously help me😊😊
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
That's a great tip Abigail! I'll definitely keep that in mind.
@riddhimasingh5722
3 жыл бұрын
I am very attached to my mom and I also have mild anxiety. I am 13 now and I will have to go to boarding school in august of 2021. I am already getting anxiety attacks of how I will feel when I’m all the was across the world from my parents. The thing that gets to me the most is the fact that I only get to meet them 3 times a year. I guess another thing that I’m worried about is the really long flight from the Middle East to the us. I hate flights because of my claustrophobia. I just wanted to share my POV and if anyone is going through the whole thing, plz replay.
@maddsmayy168
3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I feel right now I just want to go home I miss my dog so much I don’t know what to do
@AngusStewart01
4 жыл бұрын
I need this because I’m moving out of my parents place and moving in with my girlfriend in May so I needed this thank you 🙏.
@jktea1549
6 жыл бұрын
I’m at a sleepover right now, I’m so tired but can’t sleep and I’m having anxiety and tears are falling 💔 I want my parents :( they always make company to me when I sleep, I get scared and they are right by me.
@skandaa.k4697
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you this may sound silly but I moved to my hometown for summer vacation and when I came back today I felt so depressed as I longed for the comfort of my home town😿
@skandaa.k4697
8 жыл бұрын
I had an anxiety attack
@srts7792
8 жыл бұрын
Mine is the other way round
@christinecolon3656
7 жыл бұрын
im only 11, and whenever I am away for my parents for a sleepover, i cry and I get anxious. Can i go to bed?Can i do this? I cant do this? All I want is a hug, and the feeling for me hurts worse then ever. And then, I am a ski racer and I have to go to ski camp for two weeks and Im scared people will make fun of me when I get homesick and go in the counslers room. HELP ME PLEASE!!!! Thanks for uploading this to the people who are exactley like me.I HOPE we can overcome this together
@fridaalfa
6 жыл бұрын
Ok so I’m a 14 year old girl and have always dealt with homesickness, even went to 4 different physics class, don’t know what it’s called(I’m from Denmark♥️)... I know how uncomfortable it can be and it just feels like the end of the world, but you got to take it one at a time, count to ten and relax...you’re ok, even if you just don’t feel at home, there will be another day...take one day at a time and let your mind relax....I experience that the more I think about it, the more hyped up I get...I have been to soooo many sleepovers where everyone would be sleeping and I was super sad and away from home....then I thought: it’s okay, what’s the worst that could happen?? That i cry all night and get no sleep?? A new day will come, relax please♥️ even if you have to get up early, you WILL survive. Remember that and you’re not alone💕💕💕💕💕 and you will grow apart from homesickness
@beckybella276
7 жыл бұрын
Im really home sick and this video helped me loads
@evalucas6866
5 жыл бұрын
Usually I’m alright at day but at the evening and night I turn into a emotional person
@808ainosked
5 жыл бұрын
Going thru this at the moment haha. I’ve been away from home for about 7 months but within those 7 months I had my dad staying with me. But he just left to go back home and now I’m all by myself. I went from living with family in a big city and with lots a friends to really small town where I know nobody at all. These past 7 months I was fine because I had someone familiar staying with me. Now that he’s gone. Omg!! I thought I was ready but I am totally not lol. Definitely will take some of your advice!
@ArienMoon
9 жыл бұрын
I forgot to mention I started doing 'Yoga with Adrienne' on youtube a few backs and that seemed to help because your doing it with someone. She even has a 30 day program. Im going to revert back to that and make it a practice so i can build my mind up on doing it alone. Hope this helps Letitia 😊 We're in this together
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
Boo Thang I tried her! It was just too quiet for me but thank you. I feel your support
@lilysyazwaninurulakla1545
5 жыл бұрын
Im not leaving home but my parents does. They went to Korea for a year because my dad have some work there and my mom followed him. It's been almost 2 weeks and i'm very sad. I cried everyday because I don't have my mom at home. I'm currently looking for a job and it is so sad when you comeback home but you don't have your mom welcoming you. I miss them so much
@kcg285
2 жыл бұрын
One thing my homesickness/anxiety has done is make me not want to eat. I will look in the mirror and tell myself "you deserve to be nourished and healthy even though you're sad". I think I will buy protein shakes to make sure I'm getting nutrients even when it's hard to eat much or want to cook.
@catwalrond
9 жыл бұрын
I'm happy that you're at a place now where you're okay :) I would have felt the exact same in your situation, it's okay not to be okay. I am sending you every ounce of love from home LOVE YOUU
@letitiakiu
9 жыл бұрын
LOVE YOU CAT
@spencerdeacon6412
5 жыл бұрын
I have a sleepover and I’m usually home sick but before i was happy now I’m about to cry
@LIVdaBrand
9 жыл бұрын
you are great! I just got diagnosed with anxiety.
@kerriganadler2343
5 жыл бұрын
im watching this now and im just crying at college cuz im homesick but im having fun at the same time
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