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@geneithamaduro8896
7 күн бұрын
Do you have a mini tutorial on how you use your goal setting planner on iPad?
@jesslivinlife
17 күн бұрын
I dropped the phone when sis said “either do it or stop talking about it” ooppp you got me !
@ms.kristine1819
5 күн бұрын
Baby girl, I don't know how old you are, but I think you're close to my daughter's age. I'm 43 and trying so hard to get my life together after raising my kids. I have watched this video 3 times. You are helping this old lady out 😂 You're so wise. Thank you for this!!!
@grandmadonnaswisdombites7412
4 күн бұрын
Very Wise ❤
@melgood8
3 күн бұрын
Ugh. You are not old. 👀
@nickysunshine8734
3 күн бұрын
43 is not old young lady 😅❤. I’m 39 years old, trying to get myself together. I’m a Nurse…and I want out!!😂😂😂 it’s been 11 long years as a Nurse. Overall 18 years in Healthcare with my previous job. I want something different and nothing to do with healthcare. It’s not too late for me at 39 and it’s definitely not too late for you at 43. You are still young ❤
@Darkempress45
Күн бұрын
Lmao I concur with these comments! I’m 43 and I’m DEFINITELY not old, I’m still dating men in their early 30’s. I giggle, I color in a coloring book, I go roller skating every weekend, I’m in college getting my degree, age is a construct. Don’t allow other people, or yourself to define you by some numbers. You’re much more complex than age. ❤
@delle3955
Күн бұрын
@@nickysunshine8734I feel the same about my career in education. I just turned 44, and I’m determined to press the reset button on my life! We got this ladies!
@rachelhood1811
8 күн бұрын
“If you see me wear it more than once, mind your business” got you a new subscriber 😂😂 love it 🫶🏼
@raypatton4670
7 күн бұрын
“You deserve rest but don’t you deserve your dreams and goals too” 😭 yessss#8 ATE ME UP lol
@yvetteoliver
4 күн бұрын
Oop! It gathered me all the way together!
@KharizmaCobb
5 күн бұрын
It took me years to get to the point where health and fitness is a core value. It makes all the difference
@lalacobb69
6 күн бұрын
“You need to get to a point where you fear disappointing yourself the most.” This young lady is doing GOD’s work. A life without shame or guilt or self-doubt, serving the dreams The Good Lord put inside of you allows one to be in service to others in the most pure way, thereby serving GOD. “Love thy neighborAS THYSELF. NOW GON& learn…..” perfectionism is often ego-driven. God is perfect. We came here to LEARN, Evolve & ELEVATE! 🙏🏽✝️💟
@AudrinaMinor
12 күн бұрын
5 mins in, and I’m like..my girl! ✨😂👏🏾 and I woke up motivated, here on September 1… so LFG!
@HoneyBunRoad
23 күн бұрын
#6 is so real. I hav a section in my closet, front & center, for errands because when I'm getting dressed, trying to make an outfit work & it doesn't I just start falling apart. So the errands sections in basics: pants, t-shirt, light jacket AND IM OUT THE DOOR before I start over thinking.
@karolinakartagena4627
6 күн бұрын
I created “sets”on one hanger - grab dress and go
@joileprincess
6 күн бұрын
That’s such a good tip. Thank you.
@KiimKash
5 күн бұрын
I don’t know how I ended up here but I’m GLAD I did. You spoke so clearly to my procrastination, lack of motivation and reinvigorated my desire to meet my goals. Thank you for this!
@thinklilly2708
14 күн бұрын
Number 8 is soooo true. For work I show up early but for my business that I want to start I keep pushing it 😩 not acceptable and thanks for this reminder!
@graciekay6024
7 күн бұрын
Your delivery is perfect 😂 just straight to the point, no wishy washy advice
@bchttp
14 күн бұрын
I needed the "either do it or stop talking about it," because that's all I've been doing. I've been operating with fear mostly because of my perfectionist mindset and wanting everything to be just right, when that's not how anything works. Anyway, thank you ❤
@Ryellefrench
4 күн бұрын
Same sis you got this
@_lifewithken
2 сағат бұрын
Definitely needed this! I literally just posted on my socials that “maturing is realizing you’re at your max with this version of you and knowing that you have to get to work for the next level” whew! Doing the Lords work ma’am!
@alyssawilliams2571
14 күн бұрын
Girl don’t yell at me 😭!! But thank you 🤣
@SecludedThoughtsPodcast
14 күн бұрын
🤣🤣
@Cocobrown817
10 күн бұрын
Number 8 is for everyone! Never put your workplace before yourself, you are replaceable and your health is more important, without it you can't work! I train at the gym every morning before work, it's a must and it sets the tone for my day🎉
@se2664
12 сағат бұрын
That’s easy to say to people who don’t care about getting a promotion and a negative performance review
17 күн бұрын
wow, softly read me for filth!! Thank you
@SecludedThoughtsPodcast
16 күн бұрын
🤣🤣
@LuxePlusLife
15 күн бұрын
Chiilllleee...me too!
@tiaflows
2 күн бұрын
I had to pause after #3 when you read me for filth! What an amazing list - thanks for sharing 💜
@charliiestruth
4 күн бұрын
6:00 that’s how I spoke to myself this year- stop talking and DO IT !!!! And man, it’s changed my momentum ☺️
@arimax888
Күн бұрын
I have about 4 windows with MULTIPLE tabs opened in each chrome& edge (at least 4 windows each)!! I am a hard core procrastinator. I'm ashamed to say I keep saying I'll do something yet find every excuse to avoid doing it. I finally had to install a update and lost some opened tabs. The universe is telling me something by sending me this video suggestion. I need to TAKE ACTION! Sadly fear of the unknown, failur..et is crippling me from doing anything. I hope I can move the needle after watching this
@MissLeaaaaa
Күн бұрын
Thank God you decided to make a KZitem channel. This video is GOLD!
@ayyokennedy
5 күн бұрын
This came at the right time for me. I was about to put off my podcast again and not hit publish. I have the date set to auto publish and I’m going to produce, put out, receive feedback and grow rather than let the perfectionist in me delay it further.
@iambluevalentine
Күн бұрын
Reduce decision fatigue and discipline go hard. I'm grateful I found your video and look forward to implementing these steps to get to the next level of my life within the next 6 months. Thanks for sharing!
@myworldinEN
3 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing these tips. I have to say that it’s everything I need to hear now. I’m 29 and I’m tired of helping the company owners build their dream life while I’m getting just a bare minimum of recognition and money. I’m at a point of my life where I need to do something to change that. And I’m always talking about it but never doing the things I know I need to do.
@nicolemathis6155
20 сағат бұрын
This is great! I’m 51 and doing the same internal work! Thank you for this lovely video!
@AsyaSteele12
2 күн бұрын
This was soooo good! I love your conviction in what you’re saying. The internal work you’ve done really shows!
@SecludedThoughtsPodcast
2 күн бұрын
🥹🥹🤍🤍
@AiCa-bp4nk
2 күн бұрын
I have watched 1 million videos about this topic, but it’s the way you articulated it that really slaps me right in the face lol (in a good way) and I have never heard anyone say these things in this particular way, but it really stuck and Girl thank you! So many Gems!
@jennyDjan
12 күн бұрын
I'm glad I came by your channel ❤️❤️ wow!
@marymagdalene1212
26 күн бұрын
Wow! This was so well put together, I am inspired and on my path to my glow-up journey, thank you for the content beautiful lady!
@SecludedThoughtsPodcast
25 күн бұрын
Thank you for listening 🫶🏾
@NNikkiSirrah
11 күн бұрын
Thank you! A much needed kick in the butt! This what resonated for me the most #2 move the needle goals, #5 continuous improvement vs perfection & # #6 decision fatigue. I created a KZitem video just last night & I didn’t post. Making all the excuses of what it’s not. I’m in front of my own self. Self sabotaging from fear. Still trying to figure out what the fear is.
@favnb
Күн бұрын
I literally subscribed after this video ❤️ and I’m waiting on the community forum to be launchedd 💕
@jolajohnson35
2 күн бұрын
“If you see me wearing the same thing , mind your business “😂 thisss
@daijahnelson3514
Күн бұрын
The one about neee point goals and get it together goals I love it that’s what I e been struggling with also a million great ideas and not mastering at least one letting time pass by I’m so glad to have found your channel 🙏🙏
@ThatGirlMoi
5 күн бұрын
Love the honesty about the sets!! And also having a uniform for your videos 😊 that simplifies things
@tamaral.6160
9 күн бұрын
Thank you for this insightful video. It was the spark I needed to revisit and reassess my core values. I realized that the person I was meant to be is the person I have always been, at my core. There were examples of this person scattered throughout my life, but I prioritized others' expectations of me instead of living as myself. ☺
@ToniMarieDoesIt
Күн бұрын
Period! This is what I’m on! 💅🏾✅🔥❤️
@msn9565
2 күн бұрын
Stumbled on your video and so thankfuI for this his stern conversation. I need to get it together!
@sherinespeaks734
4 күн бұрын
I would love to be part of this group! I love the idea of organizing my life to prevent decision fatigue!
@thepworld4798
5 күн бұрын
Excellent video, but it’s really how you “yelled” at us so gracefully lol….very informative! Thank you for all 10 tips.
@trilly164
16 сағат бұрын
I needed a reality check thank you so much for your content ❤
@curiousintrovert9971
22 күн бұрын
Points 1 to 3 and 5...spoke to me directly...I needed to hear them especially with your no nonsense tone. I appreciate this type of content...thank you so much.
@grandmadonnaswisdombites7412
4 күн бұрын
Excellent Information. Stop procrastinating on Yourself❤
@crystalb8588
10 күн бұрын
This was pure gold from the very beginning. Thank you for what you’re doing. 🤞🏽💕
@Christine_Austin
2 күн бұрын
I LOVE YOU! #6. Decide your uniform for your videos and if someone doesn’t like it. “MIND YOUR BUSINESS “ -. I needed that! -. Make your like simple
@VictoryGranted
17 күн бұрын
Number 8 really did it’s big one on me 😂no lies told sis …. Excellent message & delivery ❤ keep shining superstar x
@derrickarnold150
7 күн бұрын
you have spoken 10000% truth,stings but absolutely true
@simplyselina8335
3 күн бұрын
Decision fatigue is sooo real! I’m glad you addressed that because I’m always thinking about what to wear. Constantly stressing over the little things for what 😭😭😭
@sarasofia96
3 күн бұрын
Thank you for the realness of your words❤❤❤ it helped a lot and nr 8 hit harder yeess
@TaneshaDaily
21 күн бұрын
God bless you!!! I really really needed this. Thank you so much🫶🏾
@TheOrignalTRockz
3 күн бұрын
Thanks. That hit home. Core value number one: Health. 1:53 Funny. You just are going here. That translates to: a calm home with good sleep. Guilt free. Stress free. And that’s what my place has to support and resemble.
@aleahs.4352
3 күн бұрын
Excuse me!!! Yes mayum! Got me together in 30 min 🙌🏽😩 been going through my own personal battle in my life and find myself fighting myself internally. I gotta break this cycle and do better! Thank you for this! Next 5 months, I’ll be a new me!
@ruthhnjengaaa
13 күн бұрын
Make a measuring stick for every goal to see progress and know when ur not showing up enough so u don’t go crazy later trying to understand if you really made motion or not
@liyah3063
8 күн бұрын
God aligned this video on my feed❤️ Thank you for this video‼️🙏🏾
@Sincerely.ChayMarie
5 сағат бұрын
Thank you for the free planner ♡
@lmaono7579
22 күн бұрын
wow, this found me when i really needed it.
@Me-MyArmy
10 күн бұрын
I’m here for the zero games message, this one’s going in my repeat folder. Subbed for accountability 🙌🏾
@Tiviab
10 күн бұрын
#8 reigns true: Focusing on discipline & not motivation. That one hit like a bag of rocks…… love all of what you spoke of. I am a new subscriber and have been putting off things for way too long. It’s time to stop with the excuses and get it done. Thank you.
@momentsofsatorii
18 күн бұрын
you are one of my distant mentors
@SecludedThoughtsPodcast
17 күн бұрын
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@Buttafly007
4 күн бұрын
I... LOVE this video❤🎉❤ This is my first time watching your channel. Thank you for the transparency! It's so much confirmation for me❤ Blessings to you!
@javonthardy3117
3 күн бұрын
I'm in love with Visionary meetings... I'm definitely implementing that Asap!
@youloveyani
5 күн бұрын
literally watched this and took notes in my journal. #8 & #9 were my favs for sure!!!! I must do whats required of me and god cause im not going to get anywhere without accountability and staying stagnant and gods plans for me whew!!!! they dont include any of tht at all 💛
@brinavland8621
2 күн бұрын
omg thank u so much i needed to hear everything u said!!!
@ashleyj4159
4 күн бұрын
Great video!! I usually don’t watch long talking videos like this on KZitem, but glad I watched this one!
@Chrissynysc
12 күн бұрын
#6 is a game changer for me... thanks! I'll try it
@jkkbackupchannel
6 күн бұрын
Great stuff Siz. The part about values and identity resonated the most. It's what helped me in the last 5 years.
@bway__
10 күн бұрын
Enjoyed this video! I love your style of communication and your perspectives, also the suttle humor is appreciated lol. Keep going Queen, may God continue to guide your journey.
@macab345
6 күн бұрын
Am going to creat my vision board and I will come back to check on you. Am an artist a young KZitemr I don't make videos anymore because I have a lot of excuses and also I have less view Wich also discourage me. Thanks for this video. This is my awakening time.
@Ryellefrench
4 күн бұрын
Don’t give up
@macab345
4 күн бұрын
@@Ryellefrench thank you I started collecting pictures to creat my dream world I will be printing them today and put them on my vision board. Also wake up this morning to pray but didn't meditate.
@lorelailuna
9 күн бұрын
#8 is something I tell myself often, and have been slacking. Definitely needed that reminder! 👏🏽✨
@NatCreary
5 күн бұрын
You just spoke to me-thank you a million. Your video was the swift kick I needed❤
@dianneguerrier3122
8 күн бұрын
My wise older sister! I never comment on videos, but I had to say thank you for this gem. ❤
@prettyspacesprettyfaces
2 күн бұрын
I love this video, but not everyone is trying to be a youtuber. I'm just here for all your other life gems
@PrettyReddTheDoula
3 күн бұрын
I have to listen to this again.
@britinalymous-cooper3355
Күн бұрын
So many gems here.
@JociiBella
Күн бұрын
Good video. VERY valid points 🎯
@ToniBlackman4
6 күн бұрын
Oooh that decision fatigue! So real!! I will think for an hour or two hours about what color to wear and then lose focus. lol I know exactly what you mean. Thank you for making this point.
@BalungileGwente
14 күн бұрын
You are so strict- I love it! 🥰 Thank you for calling out all the excuses that hinder our glow up
@elizabethdebebe8388
8 күн бұрын
Girl ur so pretty I’m not even looking at the cloth ur right! People come for the advice and focus on that although the fit is classy and good too
@neytothevay8473
4 күн бұрын
You are literally the big sis that I needed 🫶🏾✨
@Omotayo.Adeyemi
7 күн бұрын
The way you structured your points…. It’s like you made this for me Thank youuuuuu❤
@Darkroze-du1fz
3 сағат бұрын
Very wise❤I agree I everything you said
@afiyahknight9968
2 күн бұрын
Ate me up with #5 -sighed a retired perfectionist with YEARS of research
@Floglo
11 күн бұрын
Yes, boss lady! Love the straight shooter vibe, no bs, thank you for this vid! Aligned
@Blablabla45678
7 күн бұрын
#8 is the reason I just subscribed. Such a call out, such a read omg I’m so embarrassed 😂
@teresia8684
12 күн бұрын
This was an excellent video, the best wake up call!! Taking all of these to heart and practice! 👏🏾👏🏾❤️
@danielleo5713
10 күн бұрын
If you see me wear it more than once mind your business
@zinawhitley8519
8 күн бұрын
I truly appreciate this insightful video. It really helped me in multiple ways. There were a lot of valid points throughout the video, but what really got my attention the most was number 5. The 5th point mentioned focusing on continuous improvement vs. perfectionism, a topic that's currently different for me. I consider myself a profectionist, and over time, I'm slowly trying to break that habit. I would have great ideas but would have conflicted thoughts that would interfere in my progress.
@Leah.Jack1992
10 күн бұрын
Enjoyed this much 😍👑 Subscribedddd 💖💖💖
@Hateraluv
Ай бұрын
I’ve been watching you from the beginning . I love it here keep it up 💕
@SecludedThoughtsPodcast
Ай бұрын
I appreciate you 🤍
@WhenSaraiSpeaksUListen
4 күн бұрын
This video so real. Esp #8 and #9. You got a new subscriber
@Nicolllld
7 күн бұрын
Whether you feel like it or not is irrelevant!
@latanafletcher
12 күн бұрын
I need you to get out of my business 😂😂 Girl read me for filth!! Let me go get myself together!!
@yvetteoliver
4 күн бұрын
New subscriber here!! I love the no nonsense approach.
@firstLAEdy
9 күн бұрын
GIRL, THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO!!!!
@FeFe131
5 күн бұрын
Girlllll.............................#8 was for me. Thank you!!!!!
@samiparis4497
9 күн бұрын
Yes!! I'm so here for this! On the same journey! New sub!
@luckyleo4447
5 күн бұрын
I love this video...Thank You!🫶🏽💚
@katresealexander1311
4 күн бұрын
Great content. New subbie here 👋🏽
@enekneya7378
2 күн бұрын
@13:50 I love it!!! 😹
@wellnesswithdrkay
6 күн бұрын
Every single point! Pure excellence 😘😘
@Tx_Nay
10 күн бұрын
#8 certainly did slap me in the head lol but definitely needed to hear
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