Live in a way that accusations against your character will not be believed by others.
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
That is true.
@sarahmile3709
6 жыл бұрын
I love watching these kinds of old world videos, and i have seen many young wannabee's who have been teaching men how to be "classy" (like the "Teachingmensfashion") but fail every time with their annoting voices and hip hop inspired way of moving and talking..... but this guy here is so classy in the way he talks and moves.. i love it his voice is so soft and masculine and the same time i love old school old world mannered men
@PayneMaximus
6 жыл бұрын
Reputation is one of those things that nobody values until you actually need it...
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
True enough. Interestingly, some would kill for it.
@PayneMaximus
6 жыл бұрын
Of course. If King Richard was willing to bargain his kingdom for a horse, what would we be willing to bargain for the reputation that could land you your dream job, dream business, or, dream date?
@PayneMaximus
6 жыл бұрын
Jesus? Are you kidding me? Mythical figures, man. Perfect people do not exist, so I'd settle for the best ones.
@PayneMaximus
6 жыл бұрын
Looks like you are in desperate need for the red pill, but I can't help you with that.
@JamesRDavenport
6 жыл бұрын
@@PayneMaximus Jesus is/was not a mythical figure. All religious studies scholars/ancient historians of sufficient reputation (even personally atheist ones in their private lives) back that up. It's not even debated. Just saying. ;)
@fountaincap
6 жыл бұрын
A gentleman's rule of thumb I'm also striving to abide by from now on is to never say anything online that I wouldn't say to a person's face in real life. We're much more civil when we don't hide behind a screen.
@dipro001
6 жыл бұрын
Out-dressing your insecure higher-ups is a serious problem that does not get talked about. Thanks for mentioning it. As a proud individual and also as a long time viewer of this channel, I have done that a few times, of course, only with the intention to make myself look better, and it produced negative results. While it benefited me in the long run as I realized I should not work under such insecure leadership, it was not fun at the time and I would advise to be careful, especially, to younger gentlemen. Thank you!
@sarhana3710
6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you're not even out dressing them because they are not even dressed up. I still see the cheap black suits and shoes on managerial level.
@froggamer4884
5 жыл бұрын
Fashions is fundamentally social propositioning and the strategic usage of status symbols in the form of clothes. So the scenario is completely plausible.
@dipro001
5 жыл бұрын
Indeed. In my mind, dressing up was a way to show that I care for my job enough to put up my best looks on a daily basis while my leadership saw that combined with my good performance as my way of telling them that I am somehow above them or will not follow their command. One thing that is rather sad in not so obvious way is that in America everyone admires well dressed individuals as much as the rest of the world but the common culture somehow encourages dressing down and supports being ignorant about a good sense of style. Which makes makes the well dressed individual stand out in a bad way if the surrounding individuals are as problematic as my past work place.
@darthvictor001
6 жыл бұрын
Story time: In the 1,5 years that I worked in retail at an office supplies store, I was 5 minutes late once without a legit reason. At a certain moment my manager said to my colleagues that I was 35 minutes late (whilst I was practically standing next to them). I just couldn't take that and said: "With all due respect but that is a lie and it's gossip. You have to drive 10 minutes to get here and you were here 30 minutes early. I was 5 minutes too late." It's a stupid mistake I made but that doesn't justify the lying and spreading gossip about me. And the fact that she does that right in my face only makes it worse. Glad I quit that job.
@bobtaylor170
5 жыл бұрын
It's a pleasure to see something like this. We have a dreadful culture in which standards of every kind have all but disappeared. It's good to see something which actually encourages good and classy behavior.
@seanpielli1161
6 жыл бұрын
kinda suprised he said "shitstorm" lol
@breakingbombast4439
6 жыл бұрын
Great topic. It’s great to see the channel address so many other issues applicable to the confidence and integrity of men! It truly is an era when such information will be crucial, as a gig economy and individual contractors become more prevalent. Keep up the great work!
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@docloftis
6 жыл бұрын
A most timely Ethical reminder long overdue on the internet! Thank you!
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@AnthonySforza
6 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite examples is the woman in the Lyft who was giving the guy a hard time for his hula figure on the dash. When SHE posted the video which became her ruin, thinking she was bringing him down. Seems to be the problem with a lot of people these days, where they get into these echo chambers and think that their heinous behavior is them "Doing the right thing."
@MrDiarukia
6 жыл бұрын
5 shouldn't be labeled as overly emotional. You only talk about having a short fuse, but you can be emotional like being sad, or just in a noticeable depressive mood. You can try to control, but you should not surpress it. This is one of the things where your reputation has to step back or you crush yourself and then the best reputation is worth nothing.
@ProgressivePatriot28
6 жыл бұрын
Really like how you wrap gentlemanly behavior in with dressing like a classic gentleman since the two are intertwined. Another good one, Raphael!
@Paul-dz7xi
6 жыл бұрын
An extremely important topic that no one else is covering. Thank you Sven!
@waltski4375
6 жыл бұрын
Outstanding and timely advice, regardless of your age or occupation (and women should watch as well). Technology has made it difficult for bad behavior to "disappear". Love the outfit!
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
Technology is indeed a double-edged sword. Thank you for your support and kind words!
@kevinclinton4508
6 жыл бұрын
Your reputation isn’t based just by your actions, but your appearance as well. A poorly, and sloppy dressed man tells me that not only he doesn’t care about himself or others, but he doesn’t pay attention to details. Which is why I’m getting all my clothes and sport jackets tailored to the finest touch
@Rainbow-of4kh
6 жыл бұрын
This is such an interesting take on being a gentleman.
@neroresurrected
3 жыл бұрын
“A reputation takes a lifetime to build and only seconds to destroy”-Arnold Rothstein (Boardwalk Empire)
@micromaxa5822
6 жыл бұрын
Sven, my father also used to say this - Money lost can be regained, reputation lost is very difficult to regain (but possible since the small world is a large place). But character lost, is lost forever. Thank you for your videos
@Rittmeister1900
6 жыл бұрын
This is another excellent video. Unfortunately, it is a sad commentary on our society when so many people have no clue about this. People have forgotten what it means to have character and to be a gentleman in one's whole being, not merely in how one dresses. I often recommend the poem "If" by Kipling as an example of standards of behavior to which people once aspired. And, how important it once was to transition to being an adult, instead of remaining emotionally a child one's entire life. Thank you for keeping so many important values alive.
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
That's a pretty good poem and well said! Thanks for the kind words!
@anthonyvanacore9647
6 жыл бұрын
The other day I went through a bad situation, where I ruined my reputation amongst coworkers/friends. Costing a close friend his job. I feel deeply terrible about it. If you could do a how to redeem your reputation video that’d be great. Thank you for the great content, you always make fantastic videos.
@TheMV1992
5 жыл бұрын
I don't think there is magical fix for this. Maybe a very positive move could help counteract your damaged reputation, but in the end only time will be your remedy. A partial remedy.
@BenjaminStaern
6 жыл бұрын
Also one thing you forgot to mention. "Behaving like a dictator" both at work or on social media can really damage your image especially when coming to discussion about politics, kind of music they should listen to, how they suppose to work or behave, spreading lies and isolating you from meetings etc. In other words, acting like a psychopath which in turn abuses his/her power towards innocent people.
@nonemo138
4 жыл бұрын
Working with a lot of people in public life, I can only attest to this being the truth. Whatever you do, be prepared to stand for it. For a very long time. It will never really go away. Cultivate some integrity and manners, and you'll not only have an easier time, but you'll also be appreciated by others who find that it's pleasant to be around you.
@GameX236
6 жыл бұрын
Nice video, Raphael! I think following these tips isn't just good to keep your reputation, but to improve your character in general.
@dmode11
6 жыл бұрын
Awesome, timely, life advice. I appreciate your unique content that has substance.
@DavidLLambertmobile
5 жыл бұрын
Character is how you act or behave when no one is looking. 😉
@lorikarns3085
6 жыл бұрын
What should a gentleman do to REGAIN a good reputation? We all have regrets when we make these mistakes. But I don’t believe all is lost...forever. Your advice?
@carbonado2432
4 жыл бұрын
move to a new country
@Bellidentical
6 жыл бұрын
With your videos I feel more like a true gentleman everyday
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@Bellidentical
6 жыл бұрын
That's how I learned to appreciate a compliment with your video. You're really helpful
@eyeheartsushi2212
6 жыл бұрын
Revoke Klipper The "how to respond to a compliment" is one of my favorite GG videos. I've put it into practice.
@alvinprettyman1802
6 жыл бұрын
thanks for posting always look forward to your videos
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome and thank you for your support!
@VicOrlando
6 жыл бұрын
My reputation is excellent online Sven! Your always remembered by the last thing you did. Your audience is key also! Your demographic is wide because your a true gent.
@chaigonjenkins
6 жыл бұрын
I love this video! I rarely see this kind of discussion on youtube, good job!!
@dmode11
6 жыл бұрын
Before the Internet, the general rule of thumb was to not talk about sex, religion, or politics in the workplace.
@tankthepitbull520
4 жыл бұрын
Steven Ferran my dad told me it was politics, religion and sport
@victorbrown4915
6 жыл бұрын
Now this is a very important video! Improve or keep a good reputation and more than likely good things will follow.
@braincompactor
6 жыл бұрын
I'd rather be myself than be a blade of grass under the scythe of public opinion. It is a worthy challenge.
@sakakibaryo
6 жыл бұрын
This is a very nice video, especially at the 10th point because there are not many influencers talks about this.
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support!
@rubberuke
6 жыл бұрын
If only social media platform managers understood their own platforms better. They seem to have foot in mouth disease, the lot of them. You're comments are the best.
@TomMcMorrow
6 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more with all of these points! As a soon-to-be graduate in my finance degree, I had a professor who always said something similar. "Imagine everything you do in your career appears on the cover of the Wall Street Journal the next morning. Would your grandmother be proud to read about it? If not, don't do it".
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
Your professor was a wise man :)
@stephenblacks2876
5 жыл бұрын
Really love your content, from Trinidad & Tobago!
@TheGrenadier97
6 жыл бұрын
Old tips from those old catholic monks and bishops with "saint" before their names are useful also. Do your job as if doing for God, be respectful to hierarchy and everyone, don't engage in useless conversations (something far from being a snob), talk less, think twice, God's looking you, keep head up &c. &c. &c.
@waltski4375
6 жыл бұрын
The carpenters have a analogue mantra "measure twice...cut once."
@martinfox2244
6 жыл бұрын
What I try to think of when dealing with obtuse people is don't lower yourself to their level. It may sound arrogant but it works.
@elliemathews6884
5 жыл бұрын
Another guard for your reputation is to always leave the door open if a female, especially a young female is in your office alone with you.
@Psydrre
6 жыл бұрын
I just love the way you dress! I should look into updating my closet, maybe starting whit taking a look at Fort Belvedere.
@garyabrahams7609
6 жыл бұрын
Agree with you. The world, your world is so small with smart phones, social media and general online accessibility of information about yourself.be mindful of this gents Great advice Sven. Thank you
@eyeheartsushi2212
6 жыл бұрын
1:06 Not getting the job LOL Excellent video as always, Mr. Schneider!!
@MrShinobi797
6 жыл бұрын
Probably your best video yet, Sir... Thank you!
@cowboyhank456
6 жыл бұрын
Fantastically unique topic, well done!
@dannymcphee
6 жыл бұрын
Wise counsel for all ages, thank you!
@chitownedc2137
6 жыл бұрын
Sven.. I love your videos. Learn a lot from you. I am somewhat a new sub. I have watched most of your vids since I joined your channel and love your proper way of speaking. But today my jaw dropped when I heard you say "shitstorm". I was laughing saying to myself Noooo not Sven! Anyway thought that was awesome. Thanks for your channel.
@Bati3301
6 жыл бұрын
Are you on a conveyor belt?! The background moves :D :D
@gabrielgiron4273
6 жыл бұрын
I was liking the video and I actually pressed the button when he said "Shitstorm" @5:00 lol.
@sewhip
6 жыл бұрын
I wish there was a women's equivalent of this channel.
@susanneyuk-pingpong8705
6 жыл бұрын
It would be quite interesting! Personally, (slightly unrelated) when I was younger I found it hard to decide between traditional European attitudes on manners towards women, 'opening doors for them' etc, and a feminist take - these days I simply open the door for anyone if I can and I'm not so awkward anymore.
@sewhip
6 жыл бұрын
Susanne Yuk-ping I can see why people can feel confused about the rules. They don't always appear clear cut. Some find this unhelpful. For me though, if a man opens the door for me, I understand them to be making a polite and respectful gesture, rather than beliving them to be attacking my status as a woman. I like to respond by smiling and saying 'thank you'. It hurts nobody, male or female, to have good manners and to show respect towards others.
@micromaxa5822
6 жыл бұрын
I guess it applies equally to women. i.e don't talk loose, be more friendly than critical, don't hit on people at work if you think they won't like it, don't lie.
@300books
6 жыл бұрын
@zzz43452: Good manners and apparel advice also applies to feminists. Feminists value manners and proper dress, along with equal rights. So many people are misguided about this topic.
@thetrumpnewsnetwork7503
5 жыл бұрын
yeah most broads could use it
@fvstplvnt
4 жыл бұрын
Man you even say “shitstorm” like a straight gentleman.
@blueknight5754
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video..good information!
@thelement3363
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Priceless wisdom expressed in gentlemanly fashion. Making chivalry look good brother!
@patrickhill5293
5 жыл бұрын
such a good video, especially that last point - great job, sven. shame the comments on this are so rough.
@hermanman8235
5 жыл бұрын
Useful advice.i will certainly use it wisely.nowadays even small very trivial thing will go viral in a big way.
@Vasil_Hristov
5 жыл бұрын
"I have always been of the opinion that popularity earned by doing what is right is not unpopularity at all, but glory" - Cicero One should also not be a spineless peer pressured sheep and stand his ground, in general.
@fab.devon.comics
6 жыл бұрын
Brilliant outfit today!
@ehrenamtistso
6 жыл бұрын
Just stumbled upon your great channel! I just turned 30 and I want to buy my first good suit. Before I had just cheap ones because I never needed one. A friend of mine says I should pick a made-to-measure (Maßkonfektion) suit. My girlfriend says I should pick a off the rack suit because I have a pretty average body type, which is true as I don't have problems looking for good fitting cloths. I wouldn't mind paying a bit more for a made-to-measure suit, but not if it's unnecessary. What do you suggest?
@DavidLLambertmobile
5 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: WFTV 9 in Orlando Florida first reported that Woods may be dead 😯 or in ICU after his traffic accident. People thought he wrecked near his home & had a serious brain injury, near death.
@Alexios_CV
2 жыл бұрын
4:35 You look terrible Tiger Woods! 4:42 hahahahha what
@eliasnewton6732
6 жыл бұрын
Liam Washington isn’t a very polite lad.
@RizwanKler
6 жыл бұрын
Wow I posted something on social media 10mins ago and while I watched your vid I thought I'm being big headed! Deleted! Thanks for saving my Rep Sven!
@eyeheartsushi2212
6 жыл бұрын
Riz Kler But it's not truly deleted; somebody already took screenshots 😉 Hahahah just playing with you
@RizwanKler
6 жыл бұрын
Eye Heart Sushi haha it wasn't that bad really
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
Lol it happens all the time! :D
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
Good for you! :)
@micromaxa5822
6 жыл бұрын
zzz43452 I do love your ability to magically appear into any discussion with random illogical sentences! what u smokin?
@ReroutedBeanDip
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@phalanx237
6 жыл бұрын
Well, ain't for me to speak on anywhere else, but here in Texas we're big believers in the reputation of a gentlemen. As long as folk don't get us ornery.
@peter455sd
5 жыл бұрын
Next: How to be a gentleman in the Army How to be a gentleman in the Ghetto How to be a gentleman in jail How to be a gentleman in combat How to be a gentleman in the slum
@pechadeh
6 жыл бұрын
I had being too submissive to my employer in the past, so I always get bullied. Now I’m being more resistant, but then my peers somehow avoiding me because they want to save their position. I was also dressed sloppy in the past, and now I’m being overdressed in the office just because I’m wearing sport coat and chino, while everybody else dressing ultra casual like going to the gym style. I think there’s no rule of thumb on how you should behave in society, every culture has different mechanisms on its own. Sadly, most people don’t care enough to look at real problems, instead constantly making a snap judgement prematurely. Any recommendation guys?
@latetotheparty7551
6 жыл бұрын
I would say keep navigating the bounds within your workplace. It sounds very tricky given what you've already experienced. I won't advise on what to do specifically but with your ability to observe I'd encourage you to adapt and keep your options open for getting into a position that will allow you to not have to jump through so many hoops just because you want to assert yourself and be stylish at the same time. Keep your chin up and good luck to you!
@hwanglee3330
3 жыл бұрын
I met many disgusting personality and they're so toxic. I don't even want to have words with them. They are untrustworthy either and this kind of person could lead someone to the edge condition and only drain our energy so much. They are also an attention seeker typical.
@MrDonkov
5 жыл бұрын
A good name is to be more desired than great wealth, Favor is better than silver and gold. (Proverbs 22:1)
@DarkPrinceOfClowns
6 жыл бұрын
Just a comment on the Ego issue... I strongly suspect that it's a bit misslabeled, because those kind of behaviours comes from a low selfesteem, rather than a true belief in their own superiority. People with a stong belief in their own superiority...or just have a healthy strong selfesteem, don't feel the need to prove it by shoving it in people's face. Which makes them generally more plesant to be around. That aside, This is a brilliant video that I think quite alot of people could benefit from watching. ^^
@05Rudey
5 жыл бұрын
Fantastic advice.
@billyboy3404
6 жыл бұрын
Hello Sven! I love your Channel man. I was wondering if you could go over the removable shirt collars that you see in the show "peaky blinders". Maybe you could do a review or a brief overview of the style of clothing that they wear in that show. Thank you for your time.
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
We did! www.gentlemansgazette.com/peaky-blinders-suits-style/
@user-di5rm9ee1p
6 жыл бұрын
I am subscriber because this chanel is funny. All the best!
@Xfighter000
6 жыл бұрын
This is why you make accounts that do not have your real information lol.
@alexisknows6513
6 жыл бұрын
What is happening at my place of work , men and women are not talking to each other.... plus HR is not interviewing women anymore.
@latetotheparty7551
6 жыл бұрын
Sadly, a natural consequence given how things are now.
@oldwest517
5 жыл бұрын
Good video, but what I really want to know about is the painting behind you and your other art you've collected.
@broman2084
5 жыл бұрын
personally i think the woman on the segway is to tape (or attach in one way) the pram to the segway and that would make it easier while being on the segway and also more stable
@xLu1G1x
5 жыл бұрын
Until when Is acceptable for a gentleman to avoid a fight? I mean, when do I consider fighting as my only option?
@latetotheparty7551
6 жыл бұрын
Good information overall, but I have to disagree with you on a few things (9:30 to 10:21): 1. While the focus of this channel is on men's style and ever increasingly behavior, men are the obvious target. That being said, sexual harassment is every individual's responsibility, not just men as women can also be harassers. 2. There are no universal standards one can use to distinguish harassing behavior vs. non-harassing behavior so speaking up can be helpful and help prevent future possible misunderstandings. There are also lots of surveys out there that show different feelings over what's deemed to be sexual harassment and this doesn't even touch on gender, generational, and cultural differences. For example, one showed that 25% of men viewed offering to buy a woman a drink was a form of sexual harassment. 3. People's opinion on things can not accurately reflect reality. Another example, people may think we live in the most dangerous (i.e. violent) time in history but even the w.h.o. acknowledges that violence is at an all-time low, historically. This is in no way to downplay the seriousness of the problem but rather to invite a more critical dialogue about it (a gentlemanly endeavor, I hope :-) ).
@Wen-ve8nx
5 жыл бұрын
Good advice. He certainly dresses well, but the bad posture always puts me off.
@keyboardwarrior327
6 жыл бұрын
What a timely video. I'm beginning the process to delete my Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Snapchats so that I can start new accounts and have as clean of a slate as possible now.
@edand69others65
6 жыл бұрын
I am really curious about what your view is on "hypebeast" fashion or street fashion. In my opinion i really don't like that style with those random combinations. Though i really love my dickies worker pants, because they are cheap and when you get the right fit, they look kinda classy and "sporty". (Yes i heard some hypebeasts wear dickies :( i hate that too)
@MrHermango
6 жыл бұрын
This is best followed by employees NOT Bosses. Don’t know if you live in an alternative reality or just don’t live in Los Angeles.
@ALeafintheWind414
5 жыл бұрын
A great video as always. But, give the cheesy stock photos a rest. They are so common in all kinds of rubbish videos and honestly, they just look cheap, lazy and subtract from the content.
@michaelforde4373
6 жыл бұрын
Sven for president and what a great tie
@anakin2236
6 жыл бұрын
They damage their reputation by not watching your videos & subscribing to your channel, wich is very dapper, thus they end up looking like peasants. Remain dapper and carry on!
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
Lol
@micromaxa5822
6 жыл бұрын
here's my addition - once in a shitstorm, continue to smile & face it like a gentleman. Paradoxically the best way to avoid mudslinging is to wear the whitest clothes you can.
@johnwheelwright799
6 жыл бұрын
How topical. I fear the advice will be wasted on he who needs it most.
@jojosmith1097
6 жыл бұрын
Hmmm, someone should certainly should read this but then again that person has already broken every rule and doesn't seem to care.
@ollivuorilehto1799
6 жыл бұрын
In a situation where you are dining together with your family and you have a conversation, is it acceptable to check up facts regarding your conversation from your phone? For example, you are having a conversation about politics and you are discussing about when queen Victoria was coronated. In that situation I would take my phone and say, "I'll check it up from Wikipedia".
@2bitrasputin793
5 жыл бұрын
Yikes! That brought back some regretful memories.
@kacperoleszko4785
6 жыл бұрын
Facebook, Snapchat, etc... This is the reason why I wish to live in XIX century...
@MrHideMH
6 жыл бұрын
I love your content, but I absolutely hate that horn music.
@kacperoleszko4785
6 жыл бұрын
Good video, very well done.
@gentlemansgazette
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@MSK120
6 жыл бұрын
5:01 Sven Raphael Schneider swears in a video for the first time ever.
@latetotheparty7551
6 жыл бұрын
He's done it in at least two others. I'll try to think of the topics so you can enjoy the contrast even more.
@AlexandreCMATTI
5 жыл бұрын
His reputation is over 😂
@wisamrabeea4026
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@johannesvender1362
6 жыл бұрын
I had a question unrelated to this video, because I can't find the video again I'm looking for. There was a shoe for summer you recommended that had a cotton upper, and straw sole, I think the style started with an A. Do you remember what style of shoe this was?
@myronvenero9371
4 жыл бұрын
Replace mis-use of socialmedia, with “use of socialmedia” lol
@ericwilliams4300
6 жыл бұрын
Just curious but are you saying one should not object to being filmed in front of a camera if they do not want to despite, and to a limit of their behavior, and when there is an abuse of a right to privacy? If I am a gentleman to those in response would not be by filming me without my permission, it goes against the nature of the gentleman, or any man for that matter, to treat them further with thoughtfulness. One cannot successfully be a gentleman in a bubble while in public; if I am received with ungentlemanly violation of my rights it is cause for objection. Society becoming comfortable itself to be watched and recorded everywhere they go is tolerance of invasion and that is not a "reputation" that I desire to share in.
@williamcampbell6976
6 жыл бұрын
Why is the painting and coat rack moving in and out of frame?
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