For those who requested this video, we now have it published. Hope you find this helpful. =)
@sabrinadebos4113
6 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go thank youu
@mimikyu4640
6 жыл бұрын
Yay! Thank you for listening to us!
@MkwRa
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@babyruthless9670
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Just in time.
@matronator
6 жыл бұрын
If this channel existed 5 years ago, I might have not ended up using meth daily to suppress my feelings.
@bakakura7818
3 жыл бұрын
"Distance yourself from the person. " Well, it was distant from the beginning...
@KS-lb1tu
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@sabrinax4575
3 жыл бұрын
Yes 🤣
@Lukas-dp8ls
3 жыл бұрын
🤣😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can’t stop laughing and crying at the same time 🤣
@SimSwap
3 жыл бұрын
@@Lukas-dp8ls i knw its hardest thing u will do..said than done
@shwetharamesh6701
3 жыл бұрын
Sad laughs
@lazzzzyy
4 жыл бұрын
if u are hurting remember... a person who values you... will never put themselves in a position to lose you.
@karadiberlino
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@witchby9362
4 жыл бұрын
It's 3 am, your pic startled me lmao.
@iammoot.9031
4 жыл бұрын
That's BS, sorry. Circumstances may be out if the couple's hands...what about if they are from different faiths or something like this? It's BS to say if you love and are loved you will end up with together. This is very naive of you. I really wish it were that way but sadly, it's not.
@iwilldefeateverysinglejust3826
4 жыл бұрын
I know but still
@logeyperogi1805
4 жыл бұрын
The girl I fell in love with, I told her about my feelings, and how I was afraid that if I confessed, I might lose her, she shushed me and told me that she doesn’t intend on leaving me in the dust or anything, she literally told me that if I wanted to lose her in my life, I’d have to kill her dog
@dhruvbijani
4 жыл бұрын
"I like you but I don't love you" is a different kind of hell when you hear this from a person you are in love with.
@Edithae
4 жыл бұрын
Especially when this person used to say they love you, and in fact said it first making you lower your guard only for them to fall out of love.
@wolfbane155
4 жыл бұрын
So true, I'm still dealing with this now.
@parminderkaur3434
4 жыл бұрын
Ryt
@feliciakidd9358
4 жыл бұрын
So very true!
@anweshamohapatra8497
4 жыл бұрын
I agree... And worst part is when you love them. U know they mean everything to you and you mean nothing. The feeling when you know if u will let go of it, they will be ok and never hold you back..
@celia5252
5 жыл бұрын
It‘s worse when it‘s a person that used to be in love with you and you‘re still in love with them
@freppie_
4 жыл бұрын
Then it was no love
@freppie_
4 жыл бұрын
Just to clarify a lil bit love does not give up, how can the person say i love you and then give up? Like i said then it is no love
@SunkissedMalice
4 жыл бұрын
@@freppie_ Loving a person and being inlove with them, this is two very different things. We can love someone as a person and want them to be happy, but not feel that spark of romance needed for intimacy. If someone says they love you and then one day, treats you like garbage for seemingly no reason.. then yeah.. what they were feeling was just lust.. or worse, they were just lying to get what they wanted before moving on to the next victim.
@benjaminscello4623
4 жыл бұрын
Right? It is so much harder to accept
@freppie_
4 жыл бұрын
@zaya well what u gonna do?
@ATrueLoveOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
*Unrequited love is a special kind of hell.* Definitely true. xD
@fatuusdottore
6 жыл бұрын
A True Love Official Try mixing that with lies and betrayal, when your unrequited love was with someone you believed to be a friend. . .
@christopherdeleon2095
6 жыл бұрын
1:09 your profile pic really puts # 2 in perspective.
@fatuusdottore
6 жыл бұрын
christopher de leon I thought you were talking to me lmao.
@djsang5361
5 жыл бұрын
@@fatuusdottore I have experienced that and its hell level 99
@ramikla_146
5 жыл бұрын
I’m still missing stitches
@whakabuti
5 жыл бұрын
Everyone I have ever loved has never felt the same. I know it's not their fault for not feeling the same, but I am so utterly broken.
@theoneandonly7795
3 жыл бұрын
i feel you
@mint_soup9743
3 жыл бұрын
And it isn’t your fault. I can count so many wonderful, kind, great looking guys that I just didn’t “click with”. There was nothing wrong with them. But then I start feeling like there’s something wrong with me for going after the ones who feel about me as I did about the other guys. Sigh. When I look at it that way it lessens the pain a little. I think being strung along is the hardest part because you wonder, so did they feel the spark at some point? Maybe, but definitely not enough.
@hilalcoskun6582
2 жыл бұрын
That's me haha I'm always in the friend zone
@leahflower9924
2 жыл бұрын
i hate to sound funny but isnt unrequited love kind of different if you are physically unappealing to a lot of people? i'm not ugly naturally i guess, but i went through an ugly duckling phase when i hit puberty i can remember like 3 different guys rejecting me and 1 laughed at me for thinking i had a chance.
@Christa-tl8jb
2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry. I’ve only been through it twice. I couldn’t imagine going through it any more than that.
@RonyShawkat
6 жыл бұрын
Being a victim of this for the last 14 years I want to tell the young guys please do not stick into this. Find someone new, work hard on yourself. I lost too many years of my youth being sad and miserable.
@JoyJoy-oc7su
5 жыл бұрын
Rony Shawkat Guys and girls!
@tanmayghadge7861
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice brother..... It's like i am giving advice to myself from the future
@mallubwoy
5 жыл бұрын
Lost 3 years here
@saikatdas1165
5 жыл бұрын
Already lost 3 years now and still counting. What shall i do?
@valeriy2975
5 жыл бұрын
thank you
@adeeteePlays
6 жыл бұрын
I mainly don't get hurt by rejection I just get hurt when someone pretends to reciprocate your feelings instead of being honest in the first place
@tassiafisher5142
4 жыл бұрын
Aditi Kumar out of all the messages and videos...your message hit home for me. I can handle the rejection, what hurts more is the dishonesty. Just be honest and simply say, “my feelings are not the same.”
@lucyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
3 жыл бұрын
True
@HyeWyn
3 жыл бұрын
Yea..
@alexandrutimaru5509
3 жыл бұрын
this is the comment i was searching for
@ginger582
3 жыл бұрын
So fucking true
@anaguerrerosholisticwellbe2788
4 жыл бұрын
"Don't search for closure". 100%. You'll never get it. Your closure is knowing how you feel, where you are at, respecting your own truth, seeing you did what you could and that they may not be bad people but just not ready
@danballe
2 жыл бұрын
And tying it unto the last one: "the greatest love that anyone can ever have is the love of thyself"
@all_corrupt_everything
Жыл бұрын
It took me a really, really long time to figure this one out. The closure can only come from you, not them. Finally accepting things as they are, and choosing yourself over them, that is your closure.
@forlittlejosel
Жыл бұрын
okay
@anaguerrerosholisticwellbe2788
Жыл бұрын
@@all_corrupt_everything acceptance is the key word 👌
@alejandrop.s.3942
7 ай бұрын
I don't agree totally with that. It's true that closure comes from oneself, but sometimes expressing all your conclusions, what you felt, how you saw the events from your POV can help you in your healing process, as long as it comes from a noble, honest effort not intending to hurt the other one. Not having a closure with some women in the past truly hurt me and made me feel worthless, whereas when we had a last, honest conversation (although many people tend to tell "kind lies" just to make the process easier) I could get over much faster with a grateful sensation for meeting that person.
@j.bkannadatechchannel8412
5 жыл бұрын
It’s hard to wait around for something that you know might never happen. but it’s even harder to give up when you know it’s everything you want. 💔 Update aug 2023:it's almost 5 years,am still broken..
@uniquelyleira
4 жыл бұрын
J.B kannada channel exactly.... The latter is harder.
@xoxluckycharmsx
4 жыл бұрын
Ouchy
@danaalbess8609
4 жыл бұрын
So what’s the solution
@thebigzan
4 жыл бұрын
@@danaalbess8609 what im doing is be strong and patient. It hurts like hell, but never in my life i was truly happy, so ill wait.
@lazzzzyy
4 жыл бұрын
sometimes u have to try not to care, no matter how much u do. because, sometimes you mean nothing to someone who means everything to you
@youcannotunsee466
6 жыл бұрын
9. dont search for closure. (that really hit me cuz i thought i needed closure)
@sarar4270
6 жыл бұрын
you cannot unsee me too
@sojourningteddybear6838
6 жыл бұрын
you cannot unsee so did I, but you know what? Sometimes the other party is not capable, or they are unwilling to give it. You don’t need it. Accept and move on! So hard, but will help you in the long run.
@marinamartinez1596
6 жыл бұрын
Same
@jesusramirezromo2037
5 жыл бұрын
I used to think the same I was desperate for clossure, spent months trying to get it, but i was unable to, if anithing i made everything worse trying to find it Sometimes its beter to leave things be, than to ask questions on what already happened
@musilove917
5 жыл бұрын
My closure happened when I released my feelings and wrote him a letter giving my perspective on the ending. We dated for a couple months, and I fell for him, and then he ran away. :( But he was a friend before we dated, and I know he cares about me, and the fact that he talked with me about the ending afterward helped me a great deal.
@endbreadracism7086
4 жыл бұрын
it really hurts that after all the time he called me "beautiful" "his baby" and that he "loves me" he had a girlfriend that he ACTUALLY loved the whole time, what a clown
@clairetremblay5224
4 жыл бұрын
I hear you
@jo0mo0jo0
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@TianXiaoMao
3 жыл бұрын
OMG that was my experience too.
@sacha7202
3 жыл бұрын
Samee
@maxe2820
3 жыл бұрын
Oh damn that's brutal. Please don't generalize onto all men, I know sth like this would possibly make me a woman hater. I'm sorry. What an asshat.
@oxidaenitros5670
6 жыл бұрын
Unrequited love, a.k.a the story of my life
@amseeclan1546
6 жыл бұрын
Oxidae Nitros saaame
@amarethedog873
5 жыл бұрын
maybe cause youre into anime characters? (sorry this is supposed to be a joke cause i like them too XD)
@Heisenberg355
5 жыл бұрын
This is so sad man, same here. I always get rejected, I don't even get to the position to reject someone else.
@Titancarreon
5 жыл бұрын
Same here man. Im so down.
@jttrinh33
5 жыл бұрын
Oxidae Nitros Big facts.
@IndeedVancho
6 жыл бұрын
Heartbreak sucks but it's a great inspiration for song writing
This is true. I've written crazy things because of women
@daviniarobbins9298
2 жыл бұрын
I envy people who seem to find love and relationships easy and can go from one to the next so easily whilst I am still stuck at the beginning having never been loved. :(
@giyonnabowens599
7 ай бұрын
Same...
@alejandrop.s.3942
7 ай бұрын
Literally me.
@oof5732
3 ай бұрын
😭
@etera2011
5 жыл бұрын
10 ways to deal with unrequited love 1. Allow yourself to grieve 2. Realize you're not alone 3. Ask if there's a pattern in your rejections 4. Realize that it's also hard for the other person 5. Distance yourself from that person 6. Treat your feelings like they're someone else's 7. Focus on non-romantic media 8. Be inspired by your feelings 9. Don't search for closure 10. Don't give up on love
@valianttruth3745
5 жыл бұрын
The best advice yet!
@theadventuresofemily_
4 жыл бұрын
GIVE IP ON LOVE LOL JUST GIVE IT UPPPP
@sickeditsss
4 жыл бұрын
I can absolutely disagree with all the 9 point but not 10
@freedom4all870
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 its hard for the other person? All this means is that the person that made this list turns down people a lot but still wants sympathy
@freedom4all870
3 жыл бұрын
@NUR HUMAIRA BINTI MOHAMAD HISHAM Moe Name one person that asked simp
@karenelizabeth7534
6 жыл бұрын
I was so captivated by him that the whole time we were friends, I ignored other guys who actually were interested in me because I didn't want anyone else but him :(
@fran-zt5zb
4 жыл бұрын
Same :"( it hurts so bad...
@kinbre4448
3 жыл бұрын
Same 😔
@annc7739
3 жыл бұрын
Been there
@iff4h124
3 жыл бұрын
i hate that he's the only one i see
@saumyasharma4725
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@MRahkmenRAH
3 жыл бұрын
Distancing yourself from those you've loved at one point in time seems like one of the hardest things to do, but damn it feels so much better mentally with them not living in your head rent free.
@eustache_dauger
6 жыл бұрын
You just got the impeccable sense of timing 😅
@MkwRa
6 жыл бұрын
Lucifer ikr
@_kanaoki_
6 жыл бұрын
Lucifer Ikr, I am dealing with the exact same thing.
@xFelix1307x
6 жыл бұрын
Well.. for me its 1.5 years late :D
@edykrb1533
6 жыл бұрын
IKR EVERY DAMN TIME!
@H3rmit_
6 жыл бұрын
ok this is getting real creepy.. their uploads always have the best timing wtf...
@dzflix164
4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the most painful part of being in love is caring too much for the others, to the point that you forget to nurture yourself.
@tanmayghadge7861
5 жыл бұрын
I am guy and I've in love with a girl for last 7 years.... I can't be with her and can't even talk to her because she is with someone else....she told me that she is going to marry him....and she told me that whatever i am thinking it is never going to happen.....I was completely heartbroken when I heard that....and I dived deep in my depression.... This feeling is nerve wrecking... Watching someone you love with someone else... I miss her every day... I want to tell her every day that I love her....but I can't tell her that....because she is happy with someone else..... and I don't want to be the reason of her unhappiness....I am just being happy for her....and I don't say anything.... So when I miss her so much....I just think about it this way....that....wherever she is in her life....she is happy.... And whenever we are in love with someone their happiness is all we care about.... I feel very sad and miserable sometimes but...it is what it it... Unrequited love is emotional hell...
@bhanukotitejamanjunath1252
4 жыл бұрын
Hey!!one thing i would say is just completely cut off all ties with her. Every damn way possible!!! atleast for 2-3 months. You will see the difference later.trust me. I know how it feels.been there.this is the way I recovered.it is really hard.i know but...it's better than suffering everyday.cheers!!
@tanaykamath1415
4 жыл бұрын
Just fucking cut all ties with her
@ITIsFunnyDamnIT
4 жыл бұрын
cut off all ties with her and eventually it will get easy to move on as you will think about her less and less the less you see or hear from her
@incogniftoar3943
4 жыл бұрын
Hello there. I hope you're feeling okay right now. If you haven't, you have to let it out first. Let out all the pain. Crying is ok. Next thing you should find an social/crowd activity that will busy our mind (your passion if it's possible. Ex : sports, band, organization stuff etc). Someone once said, "you wont be depressed if you're too busy to be depressed" it's not truly correct and i highly doubt it'll work for everyone, but for me, it's giving me chance to escape from that emotional hell for awhile. After multiple times it's get better for me, although sometimes it's still painful, but the experience i get, spending time with activity i like and people that cared for me recover me quickly. Now, i find my inner peace, forgive myself and even can still interact w/ my previous person i love. It took 4 years tho, so no need to rush. Treasure every moment.
@tanmayghadge7861
4 жыл бұрын
@@incogniftoar3943 God bless you...I hope you are happy as well...
@JennaTriplett
5 жыл бұрын
I’ve literally never had someone I was interested in like me back - story of my life 😂
@sanjeevek9259
4 жыл бұрын
You never know 😌
@JennaTriplett
4 жыл бұрын
Sanjeeve K it’s funny you say this cause I’m looking back on this and I’ve been in an amazing relationship for the past year and a half and like OOF okay I was wrong 😂
@sanjeevek9259
4 жыл бұрын
@@JennaTriplett I am happy for you
@JennaTriplett
4 жыл бұрын
Sanjeeve K thank you so much!
@tatendamutseyekwa9582
3 жыл бұрын
@@JennaTriplett wow awesome. What did you change in how you approach love or partners? For me it's when I started to truly embrace and love myself that I started to appreciate and pay attention to those who also loved me...In my native Zimbabwe there's a Shona saying "Ida akuda," which simply means "love those who love you".... And it simply comes from elders who realised it's the one way to break the pattern of unrequited love. Love yourself, then love those who love you. I used to pay attention to gorgeous women I found attractive but who really only half loved me or were hot and cold on me, cos I was familiar with that. I was hot and cold about myself!!! But once you truly love and appreciate yourself and show compassion to yourself, suddenly when you meet someone who also shows you compassion you have that in common and you think, " oh wow you think I'm awesome?! Me too! We have that in common, you have great taste! Let's date.." As opposed to when I would be cynical to anyone loving me.
@inspiired_
6 жыл бұрын
I had a few insights about false hope. I think one of the problems many of us have in our society is a belief in, “the one”. It's such an idealistic belief, and many of us don't even realize how much it affects us. Can you remember the time in your life when you didn't know this person? Can you remember other relationships in which you thought that person was "the one", even if it was only for a few moments? Whenever you lose someone you love through a breakup or whenever you get heartbroken, you fill your mind with false hope. It's hard to let go of a person who was "meant for you." The reality is, the reason you were attracted to this person to begin with was because they offered you something that you felt you were lacking in yourself. It could be a different way of living, or a different view on the world. They could've given you confidence or spiritual growth of some kind. When you know what quality drew you to this person, it becomes easier to move on and accept the fact that you don't need this person to be happy. There are other people in this world who can offer many of the same qualities you are drawn to. I am not saying that this is the answer, but it's just something I've been thinking about lately.
@isabelarroyave6882
5 жыл бұрын
Inspiired I enjoyed reading you, I totally agree :)
@Jeeter123
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you this helped a lot I was gonna regret confessing my love. We’re friends and I’ve been getting mixed signals now I’m starting to observe her and realize that she’s just nice to everyone. Now everyday I have something to hide when we hang out everyday. I try to let go of my feelings but it’s getting harder and harder.
@inspiired_
5 жыл бұрын
@@Jeeter123I'm not telling you what to do, but I've been in a similar situation before. I distanced myself for some time from her, and I tried to focus on my own flaws and problems. For a while it kept me busy, and I lost my feelings for her in the process.. but then we started talking again. We would text each other every day and hang out and it felt like we had a connection. I fell for her again. This time I thought I had a chance. I was so lost in this dream world that I created for us, that I failed to see the reality. Eventually it became painful, so I told her. At that point I realized that the situation hasn't changed from the first time. So I told her. I said that I need to be away from her for a while. I told her that I caught feelings and I need some time to process what's going on so I can move on. She tried being supportive, but all she could really do to help me was to stay away from me. It was a painful few months, but in those months I realized why I fell for her. I was more attracted to the idea of being with her and having a relationship than I was attracted to her. I wanted someone who can be fun but serious at times. I wanted love. I was attracted to the little things. The way she laughs, how she hides her smile, her tendency to take jokes too far... and then it hit me. I was looking at a reflection of me. I saw myself in her, and I wanted that part of her. All this time I focused so hard on those little things, that I forgot to look at the whole picture. I was lost in the high. We were so alike, yet we were so different. Things would've never worked out. She doesn't like my music, she is more casual while I am more serious, and I am way more introverted. I understood things at that moment. I didn't need her. I wanted her, but I didnt need her in my life. I didn't need her to be my other half. She didn't fulfill me, but instead she made a part of me stronger.... sorry for writing so much, but hopefully reading it gave you a different perspective on your situation.
@Josbaujos4
5 жыл бұрын
@@inspiired_ literally what I'm going through. Fuckin wows.
@inspiired_
5 жыл бұрын
@@Josbaujos4 I hope you get through it. Sorry that you have to feel the same pain that I went through. Nobody should have to feel this way. Update (this is if you want to know what happened with my story): We're still friends, but I've been keeping a distance. I've isolated myself from friends I've known for years because I did not want to see her. I started focusing on my own flaws and imperfections, becoming less dependent on other people. It's lonely sometimes, but it's not a bad thing. You see, when I fell for her, I already knew how things were going to work out. I gave up on love a long time ago, but no matter how much I tried, I couldn't suppress my feelings for her. Ever since I started putting myself as a priority, my perspective changed. I learned to depend less on others for comfort and love. Most importantly, I learned to love myself. I think that's what matters. If you never learn to love yourself, you will never find lasting love. I've been healing on my own, and I'm hopeful again. And yeah, I miss having her around. I still spend a lot of time reminiscing, and my heart jumps a little every time she sends me a text. I don't think that's ever going to change. But now, I just see my love for her as a chapter that I can always re-read but can never re-live. She is a fragment of time that I will forever keep in my heart, but now it's time to move forward.
@IndieSamurai101
4 жыл бұрын
It just sucks It slowly poisons you until you are numbed. It makes you overthink like crazy. It does no good to you. The worst part is, deep down you always feel that you'll never find someone better than her✨
@danex2206
3 жыл бұрын
I feel this
@tj-co9go
2 жыл бұрын
@@danex2206no it is just depression
@buttfart-pe7sx
2 жыл бұрын
@@tj-co9go what
@kdjoshi726
Жыл бұрын
@@buttfart-pe7sxThat you only feel this for a certain amount of time.
@youraveragefloridaboy519
10 ай бұрын
Literally me. I miss her
@rainedropii
6 жыл бұрын
I've been in unrequited love in 6 years. But I can never get tired of him, sadly.
@svenskbonbon
6 жыл бұрын
Alexa Nanami I totally understand! It's been 10 years for me. :(
@MkwRa
6 жыл бұрын
i understand
@goofycawfee
6 жыл бұрын
I've been feeling like this for a year and I'm scared I'll be feeling like this for the rest of my life :(
@bxnze368
6 жыл бұрын
9 years here!
@rayoflight7416
6 жыл бұрын
feel you :( don't wanna let go tho
@paintedbrain
4 жыл бұрын
Some things that helped me, stop idolizing them. Make a list of things that reinforce this, it's tough but it helps.
@gabysoto7663
Жыл бұрын
Having to cut them off was so painful. I missed him so much. Sometimes, I still do. It was so hard to distance and not tell each other everything. This was such a painful season.
@DaebakDaemon
5 жыл бұрын
You should always bear in mind that there is nothing wrong with you, it's always them who can't handle your love. What you should do is know how to appreciate yourself, and acknowledge that you are capable of love and you give it freely. If they can't return the favor, see to it as the other person's burden, and not yours. Always remember that one way or another, true love will find you.
@captmack007
4 жыл бұрын
That is beautiful
@ariellebrown6139
4 жыл бұрын
thank you😭
@riadkhan9798
4 жыл бұрын
True love only happens once. If you truly love someone if they don't return. you can't love someone else. And if you can't love someone else what is point someone truly loves you. No matter how much someone loves you. If you can't love them it is worthless. It won't make you feel happy that much. You have to be in love to feel the beauty of love. If you are not in it with someone who loves you then Good luck it will only makes you feel hurt more. I experienced it. I loved someone. She didn't love back. Someone else loved me i couldn't loved her back. So her love doesn't matter at all to me. It only hurts me more
@riadkhan9798
4 жыл бұрын
@Damn It live for yourself,right? What if there nothing that makes you happy anymore? Everyone wants to live for their own self.. It is true. But when we love someone we say we want to live for them but in the deepest corner it is another way live for our own self. How? When you love someone you feel happy loving them caring about them. It makes you happy to love them. So in a way you are doing what makes you happy so yeah when you love somebody you still living for your own self. And you don't want to live when you have nothing to live for
@faviolafikir2181
3 жыл бұрын
This was the most beautiful response I’ve read so far 😰😰😰
@rimjobledouche5201
5 жыл бұрын
Unrequited love demolished my sense of self worth in ways I'm still recovering from. Those feelings haunt me, and still rear their head every time I accomplish something, almost as if to remind me. "Special kind of hell" isn't accurate enough.
@jewelsnow7507
Жыл бұрын
To be honest, this is the first time I've ever cried about my unrequited love for my coworker because I assumed we shared the same feelings because we care for each other in times of need and share some common interests in old music, being family-oriented, and being vulnerable to the trustworthy people who surround us. But now I realize I misinterpreted it because when my colleagues started teasing both of us about the chemistry or my feelings for him, he responded that don't give it any meaning because he is just friendly and he doesn't want any romantic relationship with women yet. Perhaps I should thank this video for leading to healing process tactics in my most tragic unrequited love.
@Enchant-ym8hw
7 ай бұрын
Hi friend, I went through the same thing.
@cynthiatoum7396
6 жыл бұрын
this all works and here’s how it worked for me: 1 - I️ cried a lot. I️ cried at school, I️ cried at home, I️ cried with friends. It was okay 2- I️ realized that I️ wasn’t alone. I️ wrote a lot of music and shared it with people who told me their stories. I️ made friends through those stories. 3- I️ know what causes people to reject me and so I’ve started to stop liking those who have those traits. 4- I️’ve seen them (person who won’t love me back) cry over others liking them and having to reject them. I️’ve seen the anxiety, the annoyance. I️ began to understand that it wasn’t easy, and even they (person) has had or is having a hard time with my feelings. 5- I️ asked for space and it worked out fine. It was weird, and it was only for like, two days, (I’m weak okay?) and it helped a lot. 6- I️ often said to myself, “Don’t be stupid.” To myself. I️ relooked at everything I️ did when it came to my feelings and it went well. 7- I️ didn’t do this!! I️ read so many love stories! I️’m sorry! The video probably is right but whatever! I️ have no regrets! 8- Made so much music. 9- I️ got the closure I️ needed. Don’t search for it, but if you know you can get it, get it. The closure helps, but it isn’t necessary. 10- I️ never gave up on love, and I️ won’t. This isn’t the end, and I️’m still young, and I️’ll find someone. I️ know this.
@dash3806
5 жыл бұрын
You got this!
@saleemfarook8889
4 жыл бұрын
appreciate this👍
@lechuga1583
4 жыл бұрын
Cynthia Toum I went through something similar and instead of writing music, I started writing a book. Who knows maybe I’ll be on the NYT bestseller list one day. Just kidding; but hey it’s good to dream :)
@ginandromeda1618
4 жыл бұрын
Great, I'm gonna keep on reading love stories then
@lechuga1583
4 жыл бұрын
DEVINECLUB Yes what ever you need to do to get better 💕🥰
@Henrrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyyy
3 жыл бұрын
I wondered why the video was so blurry even I cranked it to 1080p until I realized there were tears in my eyes
@arnavdevangan5595
5 ай бұрын
🫂🫂 itsokay mate
@ComOneMaybe
5 жыл бұрын
Unrequited love was the story of my life, until this past June when a wonderful person finally reciprocated 😌 Don't give up on love people, one magical day it will be reciprocated ❤️
@sophiebai5540
4 жыл бұрын
i m happy for u , this is the best comment here
@fran-zt5zb
4 жыл бұрын
Thats nice for u :"(
4 жыл бұрын
Or it won't. And that's OK too.
@Edithae
4 жыл бұрын
You still together? I hope so
@ComOneMaybe
4 жыл бұрын
@@Edithae Yes we are 😊 But the important thing is that I've finally experienced love reciprocated in life 😊
@agonzales5813
5 жыл бұрын
For those going through these type of feelings and emotions, I want to tell you that you’ll get through this too. Coming from someone that’s struggled from a break up since a year and a half ago but still continued to love and have feelings for my ex, I made it through this hell. And so will you, I hope that day will come soon for anyone that is going through it at this moment. Once you get through it, you’ll notice that you don’t need that person to validate who you are or what kind of love you could have offered to this person. The most important take away from this experience is realizing you’re amazing and awesome. And that you want to love yourself more than anyone else. That whatever you truly want, you will work towards because you won’t be distracted by this unrequited love anymore. You’ll love yourself so much that you just want to see yourself happy and successful for once. And no one has the right to take that respect and feeling of worth from you via unrequited love. The cure to this self inflicted pain is self love. Who knew right? But it’s up to you to figure that out for yourself, take your time! It’s a process. But everything is going to be ok
@KyoFanDuB
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro
@agonzales5813
2 жыл бұрын
Wow what a blast from the past looking at this post! Update: I found a new gf who loves me and loved me more than my ex. Life does what life do, whatever situation you’re in just take a moment to remember that life will throw different situations at you. It’s how you manage and cope with these trial and tribulations that determine what kind of outcomes you will experience. You have the power and control in what kind of attitude you will have when those curve balls are thrown at you. But you got this, believe in yourself cause if no one does who will?
@agonzales5813
2 жыл бұрын
@Andreas thanks you too!
@leahflower9924
2 жыл бұрын
@@agonzales5813 wow we are really happy for you hope you can still pray for most of us who are laying in bed alone torturing ourselves with the what ifs, have a swell life! 😐
@amaretto534
2 жыл бұрын
thanks
@Roan.bot.
5 жыл бұрын
What really sucks is when it’s unrequited and the crush is friends with all of your friends so you have to be around them all the time which means you can’t get over them and when you try to distance yourself and they don’t understand so they all turn on you because she doesn’t understand why you can’t just “get over it” and everyone questions why you can’t just handle your feelings because you’re a guy.
@aerobiesizer3968
Жыл бұрын
this actually happened to me :(
@nessmess500
Жыл бұрын
They sound like bad friends and it sounds like a blessing that they're moved themselves from your life
@timtumulak6380
Жыл бұрын
Yeah same here :))))
@hien2nguyen988
9 ай бұрын
This is exactly what is happening to me. To make it worse, I have to see her with her new boyfriend every single day because they both hapen to be my classmates. I'm okay when i'm at home but when I go to school, i'm broken. It is absolutely torturous.
@davebanayyabolpt2320
4 жыл бұрын
I was in love to some who can't love me back for 4 years. But, now I just laugh of all foolishness I've done before. What I did? I educate myself on a very important lesson, Never waste your love to someone who doesn't deserves it.
@booknerd5693
6 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with my best friend He knows, but doesn't return the feeling And he still talks to me but it hurts like hell
@supernat33101
5 жыл бұрын
felt u sis
@pinkdino6575
5 жыл бұрын
We're the same
@MEXTguide_yoyo
5 жыл бұрын
Would you feel better if he just let you go even as a friend without you asking him to do so...like I'm genuinely asking because I'm in a situation where a friend of mine has had feelings for me for two years now, he never once said to leave him alone and when I ask he says he's fine but he recently admitted that its been hard and now he wants me to give him a chance but I don't think I can because I've only grown in friendship with him not in romance...the thought of telling him no again hurts me more now...so should I just say no and stay away? Even if he doesn't say so himself..?
@ycgaming3436
5 жыл бұрын
@@MEXTguide_yoyo i dont get you Girls why you dont appricate the one who loved you this Guy likes you and i am sure he will do anthing for you dont tells him you wanna stay Friend because he will stay Friends and hoping that someday you will love him and thats most of Time aint gonna happend just tells him you love someone else even if you dont he will understand and he will move on trust me ..and i have a question i want you to give me an advice well i just tells my female Friend i like her a month ago she rejected me and Said lets be Friends i said ok but now i feel like i make her uncomfortable like she sometimes replys a day After even if shes online she dont Keeps conversation going she replies like just ohh wow hh or nothing much but sometimes she types long messages and she Keeps conversation going and replies in minutes i am just confused about her and she had a lot of Guy Friends i dont know if she thought that i only want to sleep with her just like the Others or i dont know but i really liked her and how i will show her that i am not like the Others and how i deal with kind of situation ?? Sorry for my english 😁
@MEXTguide_yoyo
5 жыл бұрын
@@ycgaming3436 @Imad art I worked up the courage to tell my guy friend that I care about him but only as a friend and he admitted that it wasn't easy to hear but he said he'd work on it on his own but that I shouldn't stop being his friend. So We're still friends...its kind of similar to you in a way...if the friend you like is acting that way I think it could be because she cares for you and really does want to be your friend so she'll open up more sometimes but then maybe she's worried that you might find staying friends with her to be difficult so she backs off and tries to give you space at times...or maybe she is actually considering giving you a shot but is scared of losing your friendship altogether if things don't work as a couple or she's afraid she'll get hurt. How to tackle her fear(if fear is the case) I think just show her love. Not romantic love. The love of a friend. Be there for her when she needs you and things like that. Because if you stick around even though you can't have her as a lover its already a sign that you are different from other guys because you're making it about her and not you. Love is a choice to make yourself a self given gift...for me the strength of friendship is much more than the passionate power of romance...whether you're just friends or hoping to be something more...I know I've typed a lot. I hope it helps. All the best
@nitd2014
5 жыл бұрын
The most painful part is when the person you love loves someone else so much that both are getting married in the near future.. And all you can do is to sit.. think and cry... This very thing reaps your soul apart..
@TlhomphoDitedu
5 жыл бұрын
Sitting across that table from you I looked at you I peered into your beautiful, grey eyes To look for that glimmer of light That betrays a boy who has fallen in love There, sitting across from you, I looked and looked But I found nothing I wanted to be yours I wanted to be your world I wanted to be your everything But I am not, no matter how hard I try So the time has come The time to let you go The time to accept that you will never me mine There will be no laughs, no tears, and no triumphs shared between us There will be no unbreakable or sacred bonds There will be no traditions, or kisses or babies There will only be you and me; separate and far apart I loved you, so I wish you well I hope that you will find it That which I found in you
@DieVorleserin-ok8zr
4 жыл бұрын
That's beautiful. And also very relateable for me.
@scarecrow_irl
4 жыл бұрын
this made me actually cry fuck thank u so much i needed this
@woomeebly
4 жыл бұрын
That is beautiful. So accurate. Thanks for writing this. You captured the essence of how i feel.
@ronaldallanaljunrupuesto2714
4 жыл бұрын
Wow very nice
@sanijared820
4 жыл бұрын
I wish it was a song.....
@luvillan4641
6 жыл бұрын
I finally let go of someone that didn’t feel the same towards me It’s heartbreaking.. but I must move on
@iamenait
5 жыл бұрын
It's comforting to see that there's a community to share your feelings for they will understand.
@emilyhouse2479
6 жыл бұрын
I have more experiences with unrequited love than actual requited love. And I’m still standing. Shout out to all the strong singles out there, hope you find the love you deserve💪🏻💕
@Paarthurnaxdova
4 жыл бұрын
Every single moment I’ve had with depression is due to trying to make a relationship work. Screw all that, I’m happier alone!
@fennydantom
4 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this. I've felt this way for a long time now and let me tell you, it's the most horrible feeling I've ever felt in my heart. It honestly is soul crushing and I've been feeling very miserable and sad for the past few days again . It's a childhood love and no matter how hard I try, how many dates I go on and stuff, it always comes back to haunt me. It's like a ghost that never leaves my side. I feel it all the time and it comes in sudden bursts. I know this is not realistic, but it feels horrible knowing that you will never get to be with that person that you thought was "The One". She's in what I assume to be a happy relationship now with her fiance. And I have a feeling they will soon get married and that is just killing me inside right now. I'm happy for her but at the same time, I feel like I've lost everything. I know I'll get invited to her wedding, and I don't think I'll have the courage to even show up. Cause I feel like I'll burst into tears if I see her. Ever since I was a kid, she was all I could ever see. I feel like this crush is gonna be lifelong. Cause believe me, I've tried every way to forget her but she still comes back to my mind somehow. Still incomparable to any other girl I've met so far. I know that she's not the right person for me at all, but I can't stop thinking about her and what might've been if things actually worked out. Atleast I'm glad to know that in some universe out there, we might be together. This all sounds cheesy but this is how I truly feel.
@dhruvpandya2745
2 жыл бұрын
It looks like you are going through limmerece from your story, try gathering knowledge about limmerece it might help ❤️ stay strong!!✨
@FueledFromFiction
6 жыл бұрын
#9 was probably the most powerful tip I could have received on this subject. Waiting and searching and fighting for closure was the reason why it took me years to give up on my first real breakup and eventual unrequited love. To this day, it feels like the hurt still lingers without that closure.
@jesusramirezromo2037
5 жыл бұрын
Same here, its great advice I wish id listen to my friends on that respect, sometimes that person dosent seem to have a reason, and there wont be clossure
@koryleonard8147
4 жыл бұрын
I'm afraid of rejection because I'm afraid of having my heart shattered. Shattered into a million pieces not having anybody to fix it. I have a sensitive heart. A very sensitive heart.
@Karam-92
3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@DesertMoon
3 жыл бұрын
Then you have to be your own protector.
@MJBrabantNZL
3 жыл бұрын
Which means that you need to fix it. Nobody else is going to do that for you, yet the language you are using (and the feeling behind it), is screaming out that you're not secure within yourself. This could take some time, but no matter how lonely you feel right now, this is not going to be fixed by chasing after people. I hope within the past 8 months that you have perhaps had a little clarity on this problem. If not, then I hope you can find out how. It's worth doing... I finally had the chance to do just this, after 37 years and 2 years later I'm a new person. It's going to take time, and some people will take more than others, but the trick is not to worry about the time (especially if you are still young) but rather the end result/goal.
@ballinchaldo1995
3 жыл бұрын
Advice, cut them off completely they don’t love you and you can’t watch them love someone else. Get rid of them. Work on yourself move forward and find someone else.
@jiminahuzu2847
6 жыл бұрын
The worse part when getting rejected or knowing that someone doesn't love you back is the lack of confidence in yourself that comes after...Speacialy if they leave you for someone else , you'll spend days trying to figure out what you did wrong and what you couldn't give them that the other person does....
@deepthrux99
6 жыл бұрын
I really love this channel. It really helps me with my introvert life. Keep it up!
@notava6601
6 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday buddy :)
@namelazz1999
6 жыл бұрын
Wait... Your name is Adolf Hitler, but your profile picture is Mark Zuckerberg? I'm confused .-.
@deepthrux99
6 жыл бұрын
NAMELAZZ it's the truth my brother, the truth
@deepthrux99
6 жыл бұрын
Elise Tanis you got it, Mr. Obvious
@deepthrux99
6 жыл бұрын
a pigeon una paloma who told u that? Hitler? Or maybe Zucc? I dont think so haha
@madj7152
2 жыл бұрын
Don't want to go through this again. It hurts like hell. The rejection feels like grieving from a death of someone very close to you. I don't wish this to happen to my worst enemy. I'm okay now, it took me a year to get over it.. Getting myself back again. We can do this. 💪🏻
@EthanG298
3 жыл бұрын
It so weird allowing myself to go through all this pain, basically torturing myself because the person I love no longer loves me, but I allow myself to suffer because it means they don't have to and can have what they want. I guess that's how you know you truly loved them lol, putting them before yourself, no matter what.
@cupidcupcake5521
5 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to say that whoever doesn t love u is just dumb. Hope u feel better :3
@msmilano7091
4 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily. Feelings are neither wrong nor right. They just are. They cannot be forced Just as you can't help falling for someone, they cannot help it if the don't feel the same way. It doesn't make them a bad person and it doesn't mean that they don't value you.
@isa_hooi
4 жыл бұрын
Please don't say that.... my best friend isn't dumb he just doesn't have interest in me
@isa_hooi
3 жыл бұрын
@Damn It :))
@isa_hooi
3 жыл бұрын
@Damn It thank you, you too 💔
@ryanford9555
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, didn't know that so many people are dumb😲
@kagehinaandakakuroforever857
5 жыл бұрын
5. Distance yourself from the person (He is my seat mate...)
@red-kun1167
5 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro.
@kagehinaandakakuroforever857
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah and he is my best friend so if i ignore him for even a day he will cling on to me the whole day. 😑
@maevab2923
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, but I laughed so hard.
@juanarocha8629
4 жыл бұрын
Space really does help heal your heart It also allows you to see that your life is so much better without this person
@antodavenia8688
4 жыл бұрын
Embracing patience during the grieving is what helped me the most. It takes a long time to really heal and just knowing that and being patient helps a lot. It also helps you understand that in a matter of time you will be good again and you will be grateful that you did what you could to keep going during your painful moments. All the love, all the power ❤️💪🏼
@rialorainelucina3450
5 жыл бұрын
I learned that we must then be very careful in dealing with opposite sex for we might send wrong romantic signals to them.This will keep us from hurting others and hurting ourselves. For when we misinterpret words and actions, we cannot avoid to expect for something. Then, our expectations make our hearts sick.
@maevab2923
3 жыл бұрын
Homosexuality exists but ok
@animeguyreviews
6 жыл бұрын
you have to interact with other people learn to hide jealousy no one owns you don't think you own anyone
@svasianfilipiname6603
5 жыл бұрын
What do you mean by no one owns me?? I own myself 🤗
@squirreldude4971
5 жыл бұрын
@@svasianfilipiname6603 *self-own
@BorsakenFacon
4 жыл бұрын
no one owns you, what if youre into that sorta thing?
@theadventuresofemily_
4 жыл бұрын
You don’t owe anyone an explanation for anything 🙅🏻♀️
@awesomebacon1075
5 жыл бұрын
7. Focus on nonromantic media *Watches 10 ways to deal with unrequited love* ...wait
@nikkibasurto8204
5 жыл бұрын
Awesomebacon lmao
@EmilyRabjerg
4 жыл бұрын
True you got a point there mate
@colorfullyme
4 жыл бұрын
literally all of us lol
@blazez3988
4 жыл бұрын
looooooooool
@zelinarmy611
6 жыл бұрын
My gay ass was in love with my best friend. She was a total homophobic, so I never could really come out of the closet as pansexual. The past year a lot of things happened and she moved away after we had a huge fight and distant ourselves from each other. It was a super good decision to get away from her. But even though I know she's toxic, I'm just learning to let her go fully. The heart wants what the heart wants, even that which is worst for it.
@unsolvedpuzzle4817
6 жыл бұрын
ZELINARMY what's a pansexual?
@probablynotsatan9440
6 жыл бұрын
a pansexual is someone who is attracted to everything, this includes animals and children. Liberal minded people often confuse bisexual with pansexual and prefer the term pansexual because it sounds more intellectual due to less people knowing of it.
@unsolvedpuzzle4817
6 жыл бұрын
I Am The Walrus okay, thanks
@-mokerly-5984
6 жыл бұрын
I'm aware I'm a tad late to this, but hell no. Pansexual peeps can fall for people regardless of their gender identity, so it's a bit like bisexuality but including nonbinary people etc. And, no, they aren't attracted to "everything." To imply so is just plain malicious.
@unsolvedpuzzle4817
6 жыл бұрын
MissJokerAllTooMuch Really sounds stupid
@FahadAyoub
5 жыл бұрын
I wish I could go back in time and untell my feelings... I used to get hurt by jealousy for a day or two but after confessing and being rejected I the pain is daily and comes in waves
@aerohk
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I will not confess then
@Razgar_Voxel
4 жыл бұрын
@@aerohk its one of those damned if you do damned if you don't. but the question is what do you want deep down? perhaps you should talk to this person. I know if i could go back given a situation I was in I would do many things differently. but this was 20 years ago now.
@AvelTheRomantic
3 жыл бұрын
Reading this comment section and seeing people in similar situations, tell their stories and some tips, I'd like to thank the channel and all of you, unrequited love is painful, dont act rash, but take time to yourself, grow be different, dont wisk away on a past dream or fantasy, there might of been love before and now theres not, it's fine people grow and change, so you should too, I was the one who ruined everything, but was cut off, that was the best thing that happen to me, grow, love yourself 😁❤
@__-em1re
3 жыл бұрын
Doesn't it hurt? To see someone in your future when you are not even in there present!!
@littleila9205
6 жыл бұрын
Because I had so many bad experiences with heartbreaks I usually just friend zone myself so my crush can't really break my heart. I never tell someone I like that I like them unless they tell me first. It might be sad but it works well for me :)
@darrylthompson7509
6 жыл бұрын
little ila story of my life. You are not alone👍
@lorenyoung791
4 жыл бұрын
@@darrylthompson7509: "You are not alone." ¿? All these folk who've been rejected, abandoned, left . . . Oh, what's the word? Alone.
@STARKILLER15100
4 жыл бұрын
Dont do that either. I did the same until the girl I liked for the past year made a move onto me at the staff party. But now a month later after plans to go out again, she cuts it all off and says to just be friends. I'm still heartbroken over it and that was 2 months ago. I really like her... she played my emotions. Last time I open up to anyone. Girls say they want a guy who cares but hurt us when we show our consideration. I'm done caring for good.
@brianhack5806
4 жыл бұрын
Unrequited love is the most amazing kind of love because... We learn to love ourselves. After we love ourselves, we learn to love anyone and be able to receive requited love. ...Not knowing unrequited love and trying to avoid it... causes the problems we think finding love produces.
@seamr05
Жыл бұрын
I look forward to reaching that stage.
@christiansnaturestudio6599
Жыл бұрын
Nah
@HideorEscape
6 жыл бұрын
This video could have been useful 4-7 years ago. Now I am a broken person who cannot be loved and can't love anyone anymore. I have shut down my emotions completely and I don't feel pain when I think about being unloved. I just know that I can't be loved, its not for me and live with it. I realized that I am one of those people who will never be loved no matter what. I have become completely hopeless and I have given up searching. I accepted that my life is a solitary existence.
@Nathidraws
6 жыл бұрын
(>;_;)>
@Nathidraws
6 жыл бұрын
I read your comments.. or atleast this one
@firefly245
6 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way..
@babyruthless9670
6 жыл бұрын
I think sometimes I feel like you, that I'm unlovable... but then I meet someone who makes me go "oh maybe this is it" and then they leave me. 😓 I actually wish I couldn't feel the pain anymore, and accept the fact that love is just not for me. But here I go again with the hopes 😑
@gabrielagomes6280
6 жыл бұрын
Hey
@shaira9493
3 жыл бұрын
When a close guy friend only sees you as a friend and you watch him be with someone else so you’re not being able to open up to him about your true feelings really hurts...
@Donnamg100
Жыл бұрын
And his gf is gorgeous, which makes me feel even more unworthy😢
@KornejoWario
4 жыл бұрын
Oohhh man, when you’re feeling so broken and soooo miserable, even the brightest sun is gray and happiness around simply does not exist.
@nicotadiwanashezhomwa
5 жыл бұрын
I so needed this, I recently got rejected by a girl I really like and this weekend was literal hell for me... I haven't been able to eat and my body's just been physically drained by all my emotions. Thank you, I'll be fine :)
@emonabdullah1919
2 жыл бұрын
How are you right now, pal? I was also rejected by a girl a couple of weeks ago.
@arichikuruto1100
5 жыл бұрын
I'm suffering from unrequited love with my best friend. Good thing I found this video...and yes, it IS a special kind of hell.
@Enchant-ym8hw
7 ай бұрын
Same here
@mexislife5272
3 жыл бұрын
Oke, it has been over 5 months of no contact... and my heart only grew more fonder
@mushroom4978
3 жыл бұрын
Mine too! If u accepting logic, check out the channel Noah Elkreif. There are many videos and one Of them explains on “why u still clinging on this pain”...it helping me to get over( or at least I think it does) cuz I still have bouts of remorse and anxiety 6 mo after me being rejected after 2.5 years of B being in a heaven...
@isaiahramos8771
4 жыл бұрын
Helpful
@sayittomyfaceortapglassfar4392
2 жыл бұрын
🫂have u found love yet?
@deadtornadoe6383
6 жыл бұрын
It just seems like they’re just distancing me out. Now I realise maybe it’s okay? I don’t know if it’s the ‘leave me alone’ one, or ‘I just need time to think’. These videos keep getting better and better! Keep it up! Thanks for helping all us introverts, extroverts, and ambiverts. This channel is really changing my life! Thank you.
@kaneki18-d1t4
6 жыл бұрын
deadtornado Or maybe they want to reduce your pain or just can't or don't want to see you suffer
@nekokitty90
6 жыл бұрын
tw _fan the only problem with that is they should be upfront if they want to break up instead of saying they just need space/time if alone time isn’t their actual intent because if they actually want a break up, but they say it like they just need alone time, then how do you know how long you should wait for them?
@Jaypatel-up4jg
6 жыл бұрын
Same brother... It's like they want their own time and after this much of attention they give suddenly the just get busy in their life without sayin anything.... Not even a single call or proper chat... This really make me sad.... I really don't know should I keep in touch with her or not??? She said it's not like that in relation not everytime Both person is free... I m really confused 😶😔
@victoriajackson4873
5 жыл бұрын
tw _fan He told me he didn’t want me to suffer and lose time. He doesn’t want to be in a relationship and I just can’t accept that
@devionewilkins8903
5 жыл бұрын
This just happened to me. I've been having romantic feelings for one of my best friends. I was in love with her, but she didn't feel the same way. Last Tuesday I was intimate with her. Touching her hand and moving her hair out of her eye. She didn't seem bother. But last Thursday when we seen each other she told me she was uncomfortable. She started crying and I had to hold her and tell her I was sorry. I didn't mean to make her uncomfortable. That's the word that I hate 'uncomfortable'. She told me she sees me as a friend and that's it. It hurt but I accepted it. We are still close friends today. I read this not to long ago from the bible also. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not want what belongs to others. It does not brag. It is not proud. It does not dishonor other people. It does not look out for it's own interests. It does not easily become angry. It does not keep track of others wrongs. Love is not happy with evil. But it is full of joy when the truth is spoken. It always protects. It always trust. It always hopes. It never gives up.
@uniquelyleira
4 жыл бұрын
Devione Wilkins "It is full of joy when the truth is spoken." This happened to me in both ways - I spoke the hurtful truth to someone and another one spoke the hurtful truth to me. Indeed truth hurts but nothing makes me feel more loved apart from genuine honesty. I fell in love all the more after getting hurt.
@freppie_
4 жыл бұрын
Takes notes: it never gives up. Something too many people here do
@aerobiesizer3968
Жыл бұрын
Lmao I had to memorize those verses when I was younger
@devionewilkins8903
Жыл бұрын
@@aerobiesizer3968 memorize them again! In this day in Age we need God more than ever! God’s love is infinite and never failing!
@jaydah1998
6 жыл бұрын
I had a gf... for the first time... she was my Sunshine.. and I adored her but then she left me for someone else and I couldn't take it.... it hurt so much... too much... it's only been a little while since that happened... and I'm still upset and every night I can't sleep but we became friends and I am glad she could move on but last night... last night she completely abandoned me.. she knows abandonment is my greatest fear... but she does it anyways. She knows every shred of my awful Past... she knows it all, the good and the bad, she knows my greatest fear.. and she knows how I feel, and she wants to help me but I don't want help but I also don't wanna abandon her... I still love her very much. Here's something I made up: I still wish to hug her... but she is afar. And burning through my darkest night, she is the brightest star. I will do as she asks of me... being the Romeo I am proud to be. I will not rush, we still need time... because her love's worth more than a Dime. I will still be by her side, because I wish to help her fly.. with worries less naught of me, I will go where I'm supposed to be. If I have to go to Hell, I'll come back with news to tell. Through thick n thin we're always together, because family we are Always and Forever.
@hectoraceves2022
6 жыл бұрын
Blue Wolfe I'm saying this from experience. You might need to branch off from her and talk to other girls. Become friends with said other girls and you will not only give her the sapce she might want, but also it will make you feel more confident about yourself since your life will not revolve around her. I went through it and successfully made many new friends amd was able to be a friend to her. You can do it, I believe in you! Hope this helps.
@cc7877
6 жыл бұрын
Same though, but move out of her life before she gets a new partner. I made the bad choice to keep close to my ex , to see they left me to get up with someone else. it hurts when seeing him with a new girl and I just wanna say that you should get out of it before you end up like me
@LulitaInPita
6 жыл бұрын
Distance yourself from her for a while. It's much more likely that your feelings will remain the same as long as she's around - you'll stay in love and she will disappoint you time and time again, hurting you again and again each time she abandons you. This is toxic to the soul. Don't do it to yourself!
@oreo-sr2pq
6 жыл бұрын
Blue Wolfe oh shit this always seems to be like this when someone gets their first date. Thinking their the best of the best. As the video said, take some space. Think about how you feel and use it somehow. Don’t try to distract yourself as you can’t always do that once you sleep. There’s many people out there, we all know that. You’ll get someone else though
@ManaFrostT
6 жыл бұрын
Aaawww😭♡ (some support♡♡♡)
@LuckoDaStars
6 жыл бұрын
Perhaps you can talk about different types of abusive or bad behaviors in relationships such as manipulating someone else's feelings like a game. Deliberately not texting or communicating
@MkwRa
6 жыл бұрын
LuckoDaStars Studios yea pls
@ethosmgtowlogos9893
6 жыл бұрын
LuckoDaStars Studios like attachment based parental alienation, it seems mental health workers hate having to admit cluster b personalities do this on purpose to their target victims.
@DaniielleMoniique
6 жыл бұрын
BoldKingCole right please respond on here when you found that
@eulogy5362
5 жыл бұрын
1) Allow yourself to grieve 2) Realize you’re not alone 3) Is there a pattern? (insecure attachment?) 4) The other side also has it hard (doesn’t want to hurt you) 5) Distance yourself from the person 6) Treat your feelings like they’re someone else’s (Don’t be so negative) 7) Focus on nonromantic media (reading books and self improvement were the given examples) 8) Be inspired by your feelings 9) Don’t search for closure 10) Don’t give up on love
@neverhi4930
6 жыл бұрын
Holly shit... I literally need this video now. The timing was prefect. Thank you
@714arewenotmen
6 жыл бұрын
Never Hi Ditto!!
@oshonemoar2683
6 жыл бұрын
Right? 😂
@vishisbest
6 жыл бұрын
Me too
@sherenifernando97
6 жыл бұрын
This is literally me every single day. I have severe anxiety, moderate depression and PTSD because of this 💔😭
@Slendermanfreak
6 жыл бұрын
For how long already?
@sherenifernando97
6 жыл бұрын
Slendermanfreak I’ve had depression since I was 8, now I’m almost 21, but talking about what’s in the video; mostly just happened in high school (16-18 y/o)
@Slendermanfreak
6 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this, but I'm really grateful that you are still alive, and keep being strong!
@sherenifernando97
6 жыл бұрын
Slendermanfreak I will! Thank you ❤️🙂
@Rawkusprawn
3 жыл бұрын
All these comments make me feel like I’m not alone… It’s really painful
@bethel_6571
5 жыл бұрын
Got rejected by this guy 5 months ago (and he really led me on so when I finally told him how I felt and he said he didn't feel the same way, it hurt). I didn't cry but I was sad for sooooo many days, I couldn't leave my bed, I wrote pages about my heartbreak on my journal (that really helped) and honestly, all I wanted to do was watch romantic stuff and listen to romantic songs (Be without you by Mary J Blige is an awesome song by the way). Unfortunately he's a coworker of mine so I can't completely avoid him but I only gotta deal with him just on weekends so that's fine by me. Not seeing that person or totally avoiding them really helps, just don't get it mixed, I said ignore *them* , not your feelings.
@Boutscar
4 жыл бұрын
“Realise it’s also hard for the other side” uhhh I don’t think so, she’s pure evil.
@ishratbintemahmud1248
3 жыл бұрын
Hha ha true. Mostly they're evil minded 😞
@akhil418
3 жыл бұрын
@@nick.olaus._.8529 now I wonder why you watched this video and the comment section
@oscararias-vezina9724
3 жыл бұрын
@@nick.olaus._.8529 You know, I've been heartbroken recently (and I still didn't completely recovered), and I can tell you it hurts. Though she wasn't my first crush, it led to my first real heartbreak. The girl already loves someone, and just like you, she felt bad because she hurted me, even though I've told her after she has nothing to be ashamed off since it was the right thing to do. Just like you, she really want us to be friends, and I've accepted because she cares about me. But it's hard, and I think I'm gonna take a little more distance to help me move on. Anyway, if it's not already the case, I hope you two will be friends in the end. Stay brave and mentally strong.
@mreit28
3 жыл бұрын
The other side flat out doesn’t give a shit
@tyrenredthunder8779
5 жыл бұрын
I used to be in love with a girl for 3 years, and I thought I would never get over her considering 1 of those years was me just trying to get over her, and then I started talking with a different girl a lot, I thought she was a great friend and she helped me get over the last girl, I suspected I had feelings for her, but brushed them aside thinking it was nothing, 2 months later and I realized I'd had feelings for this new girl, and then another month and I realized I'm in love with this new girl, who only sees me as a friend/brother, and now I need to get over her, otherwise I'll end up back in the loop of constant sadness and constantly feeling like I'm not good enough
@alejandrop.s.3942
7 ай бұрын
I have been there. That's why it's not until you're totally over a broken heart and that you have developed enough emotional strength that you should get back into the game. I know it might sound a little extreme, but investing all the time really in yourself can produce great benefits in the future. I can tell you that I was for almost a year without even trying to get girls' attention. Obviously, I missed the dates, sex etc, but I knew I couldnt deal with another dissapointment. It wasn't until I truly got the "I don't give a f" mindset about the outcome that I came back, with much better results in every sense. And, despite it might sound extreme, once you develop these emotional barrier don't drop it. Never, even if you are together for years. Bear in mind that the other person might be thinking about ending the relationship whilst they're telling you how important you're for them.
@kmstirpitz4285
5 жыл бұрын
Each morning I get up and die a little. Can barely stand on my feet. I take look in the mirror and cry. Lord what are you doing to me? I've spent all my years believing you. And I just can't get no relief, oh. Somebody, somebody. Can anybody find me? Somebody to Love.
@shrimp8594
6 жыл бұрын
Nothing spoils the taste of penutbutter like unrequited love
@shivashish8354
2 жыл бұрын
THANKS Psych2go! I've been dealing with unrequited love since 5 years... My story is full of perplexity and complexity which is really hard to explain... I've tried many possible strategies to cure this 'flu' (to regard this as a temporary thing) but nothing ever worked... It got even worse...but after watching this video I got to know that certain times I was doing wrong to myself even if I practice self-love sufficiently....for instance, oftentimes invalidating my own feelings and pretending I was okay.... Well, I'm going to implement these new healthy steps in my life... For everyone dealing with unrequited love, I pray that one day you'll wake up and everything's gonna be alright 💗
@scottdunn2178
4 жыл бұрын
#3 = If you don't love you... you'll always be chasing people who don't love you either. You are lovable. You are worthy of being loved. You are enough.
@ishikkicastillo21
6 жыл бұрын
thank you
@xavestron
4 жыл бұрын
Took me 8 years to finally get back on my feet. Seeing this video somehow put a smile and extra relieve within me, thank you ❤️
@norotianaramarolahy5562
6 жыл бұрын
hey guys, a fellow broken heart here...still trying to recover
@shashanksharma9548
4 жыл бұрын
Hope u recovered by now😇😇
@webdeveler
4 жыл бұрын
Super hope you good now)
@Johartoo
4 жыл бұрын
I am still having trouble with trusting my own gut feeling because it always leads me to unrequited love...
@diazhaneegibson8898
3 жыл бұрын
It literally feels like I've died every single day consecutively since the day I confessed and cut off communication. The truth is I know I will always love him. I just have to learn how to better live with the pain💘🙏🏿
@ethanoverwatch407
6 жыл бұрын
My heart has been broken for almost a full year, this is never going away :(
@shivasthong4924
5 жыл бұрын
9 years here
@djstalin6927
5 жыл бұрын
I feel like crap all the time... She’s so amazing yet I’m nothing, I need so much help... She’s perfect and doesn’t act like everyone else, but she will never love me! Ive tried do much but it just hurts me... When I give up and except it I get some tiny bit of evidence that she likes me back but I’m to scared... I’ve been rejected so many times and I can’t go threw it again...
@yuco97
2 жыл бұрын
I hope people who are reading this don't feel alone. I was seeing someone the past few months and I told him how I felt for him, which I have known his answer already before asking, but just want to have closure for myself. He agreed to have a break for both of us and mainly it's me that I needed. The thing is I have been thinking about him tho I know it's over now. It's just hard to let it go when my feelings are still here. Been trying to write it out, talking with my friends, watching youtube like this one, reading quotes on self love... Wish you all overcome this heartbreak and soon find someone who is worth your love.
@laurakane6961
2 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰🥰
@laurakane6961
2 жыл бұрын
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay👇🥰..
@laurakane6961
2 жыл бұрын
Whatsaap him"**..
@HitsuTwistedTalong
5 жыл бұрын
after rejection or break up, i just spend time alone usually a year or so i feel better and ready to date. just focus on anyhobby and itll pass
@sabrinadebos4113
6 жыл бұрын
I like(d?) someone i know from school and eventually asked him out. I didn't say if it was a date or just going to the cinema as friends to see how he'd interpret it and what he'd do. Before even going, he sent me a message that he was looking forward to it but that he didn't see it as a date. I was heartbroken. It's been about half a year and i still see him pretty often. Only now do i feel like i'm slowly starting to get over it. I think what helped me the most was creating distance, not so much physically but mentally. I made up some rules about how close i could get and even though my behaviour hasn't changed that much, it created a helpful mental barrier. So to all of you out there who are, like me, still healing: don't rush it. You'll get there.
@sabrinadebos4113
6 жыл бұрын
Edited for grammar
@Belerick907
2 жыл бұрын
i’m here after someone I really love rejected me, now I’m using the pain as my fuel to motivate myself for on how to do selflove. Im not mad at him, I’m grateful because if he did not reject me, maybe up til now I’m still wasting my time and feel more so obsessed. after a year hoping I’ll glow up and be more confident, not for him but for myself, so I can share the love I gained for the right person who truly deserve.
@laurakane6961
2 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰🥰
@laurakane6961
2 жыл бұрын
Whatsaap him"**
@funnynickline
6 жыл бұрын
"I pray, I cry, and uhm' I eat very delicious foods, I go to true friends that give me a real piece of advice,,., and I do karaoke,. and time pass by everything is okay then and I understands that it is normal to have this kind of emotions, if God's will in the right time I know I am gonna be with my star partner in my lifetime then,,,. "Those were my methods to cope it up..,☺".
@mk9834
6 жыл бұрын
good to have you back, cheers
@FoxyChariot
6 жыл бұрын
Surprised I didn't see the vindictive atheist lashing out at God fearing people here lolol
@reon-larth
6 жыл бұрын
Can I tattoo your text on my forehead? All I needed rn, tnx
@ohcessiliaa06
6 жыл бұрын
fun-with-nickline I agree most of what you're saying but that part where your friends give you the "real piece of advice" is invalid, although it is not wrong but friends are only there to support you, make you happy, discover yourself, and experience. When seeking advice or guidance when facing a difficult problem, you should always approach your parents, grandparents, guardians, or anyone that's a lot older than you. Don't always depend on your friends because for the most part they will always agree on your feelings and opinions (which is okay if you want to vent out your feelings or help you go through a breakup), while elders will contemplate, validate and/or possibly scold you but only because they already have experienced it and can see the elephant in the room.
@jefrobiskit
6 жыл бұрын
Enjoy life to it's fullest. Don't be afraid to show love. But most of all be happy, be free.
@luminaries6259
4 жыл бұрын
You know what really hurts? when you fall for your crush, you take the initial step to get to know her, fall deeper for her as she's giving hints and then suddenly slowly realizing that as time goes by she's becoming more distant towards you. Than you find out from someone else that the only reason she became friends with you in the first place was because she felt pity and sorry for you ( which she told everybody else btw) and she actually likes someone else. In the real sense, the connection that you made for the past couple of months with her was not even real. That is hell and betrayal in a whole nother level.
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