Actions speak louder than words ... Go by what somebody does, not by what they say.
@SubZeroDNB
4 ай бұрын
Consent has left the chat
@chrisherber1635
3 ай бұрын
I did, and it still wasn’t true lol.
@DARKMADNESS666
2 ай бұрын
Ur setting people up for failure. Them being nice and what not don't mean shit but how 2 faced they are.
@rajneelprasad8436
3 жыл бұрын
This is actually true. Better to act fast than to cry later
@MichaelBabaoKuyaPotato
6 ай бұрын
I feel the same with the girl I'm trying to work on
@noelafflick9945
2 жыл бұрын
You can only be used if you lack internal confidence. Observe and go forth do your own thing but know your worth then wait to see what the next move is. However don't be fooled by any deception except standards or walk.
@GlobeofBeauty
8 ай бұрын
For the most part it's pretty obvious when a girl is using you (from my experience, everything mention in video is spot on). It's just a matter of taking your blinders off and accepting it that's challenging
@SHINOBHS
2 жыл бұрын
When she likes you she is all in. When she is confused or using you, you get a lot of mixed signals. Sometimes she gives you attention and some times she makes fun of you 😉 In reality if you have confidence and experience, you walk as soon as you see these signs. There is a chance though she checks and dates other guys too and settle with you in the end 😜 just don't give too much while she does that, so you can walk anytime.
@joeysoprano8405
Жыл бұрын
1st line in the 1st comment sums up the video... nothing left to say or wonder...❤❤❤💯
@spirited5597
Жыл бұрын
Experience 🤔❤️
@craig3714
4 жыл бұрын
Also get these signs with family members also they always want me when they need or want something.
@Joyanima
4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like typical "using" behaviour
@FedUpCanuck
Жыл бұрын
Just say no to everyone who used you. I knew a guy who was my friend only to fix his car. When I started billing him the friendship ended
@mitchellmiller3176
2 жыл бұрын
There are multiple ways that girls use guys but this video has given me tips I haven't heard of yet, thank you very much for the advice. I've been used by too many girls that only liked the fact that I was a nice guy but they didn't really have much enthusiasm for me
@hathlete4ever916
Жыл бұрын
I agree with everything in the video 100%! I've gone through this my whole life. I do not want to be bitter because of this, but going forward these experiences have brought me more awareness and made me wiser. Thank you for this video and I will watch more!
@bobross1829
11 ай бұрын
This is a good video and had almost all of them happen over my life. The not saying you are dating thing is the key. If you have been dating more than a month (especially if you are indeed being physically affectionate) and when she runs into people with you that she knows and she calls you a "friend", that is the most consistent red flag I have seen she is not really into you. The taking pictures together also is a big one with good looking women I dated. If she does not want her social media circle to know she is out with you but you are somewhere cool and she is taking pictures of everything but you and she will not even tag you, she is either seeing other men, wants to be seen as single or worse is embarrassed to be out with you or do not want the questions as to why you two are out. But the one that shows she is flat out using you is the only texts or calls when wants a favor or she needs something. Yes, some girls might text you a question or want a bit of advice to break the ice (women are usually not as direct as men), but if you known her a long time and she only texts wanting something and only then flirts or hints at getting together (or might even hang out...once as a kind of "payment" for your help) but then disappears or dodges getting with you until she needs something again..that is the worst. You are being played and she sees you as a chump who has no value other than you helping her. Even if you stand up for yourself and call her out, in these situations she actually then just drops you and you never hear from her again. (Which is great! even though it might hurt at first) Do not be a chump.
@FedUpCanuck
Жыл бұрын
My neighbor was exactly this. Very huggable great smile BUT.... Soon found out everytime she knocked on my door she had conviently run out of something. I became her supmarket that she could come to and not pay for food. This lasted 3 weeks untill I gave her a complete list of things she borrowed but never returned
@njr10sh73
4 жыл бұрын
Thank You for the great advice!🤭❤ I know a lot of people who are gonna be single after this🙂😕
@8307c4
3 жыл бұрын
hahaha yup
@achalaarunodaya
3 жыл бұрын
yhh🙂
@infurza9408
3 жыл бұрын
Yup I'm being played
@niceeicee0400
5 күн бұрын
After years of searching I finally found one out of blue, not really even looking, that checks off all the boxes, seems super into me, and doesn’t ever ask me for anything. She drives an hour to my house without anything in return and has paid for the last date. With my anxiety and being played constantly just makes me so suspicious that I’m scared I might ruin it because of that. Usually the really good ones seem to end the worst. Idk if she’s being legit or theirs another motive. I hope this is true love and not just a game 😭❤️
@chrismcevoy2503
2 жыл бұрын
I’m going through this same situation Anna. I really liked this video.
@vocabularymillionaire
3 жыл бұрын
And one last thing, if she never invited you to her birthday party 🤣🤣🤣
@zy6802
3 жыл бұрын
this video teaches a lot . I think the girl iam trying to chase is playing with me ! accord to almost all items
@manofsteelgoodmanll7925
3 жыл бұрын
My ex girl friend had done that to me already when I warned her to cause bullshit drama against me and my family.I did take care of her though but unfortunately what I did was never enough to satisfy her.So I gave up cause I was tired of her games I was tired of repeating myself and mostly tired of her lies so I was so done with her ass.
@Hey_its_Koda
2 жыл бұрын
A friend told me a girl likes me but when i confront her she say we are friends and wont tell me she already has a bf. She flirts with me but ignores me when i text her? I think shes just playing games.
@neftaliriverajr503
3 жыл бұрын
Hearing this says to me that make it more valid "incels" are right on how they viewed SOME Women who (especially) do this to men!👍🏁
@juanm.figueroa9763
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like someone I know! Laura Gomez, from Cienfuegos Cuba. 🇨🇺
@tarantula_xing
Ай бұрын
Been happening to me over the span of 4 years now, she once asked me if I'd ever date her, then ends up cutting contact. And comes back and forth into my life, things were going good for a few months, we weren't dating exactly but we were going out and having fun. Doesn't talk to me for 2 weeks and leaves me on read, I saw she's been with someone else the whole time. And the whole time I thought I'd done something. Sucks, I'll move on like always but hurts like hell.
@johnmora5830
2 жыл бұрын
My ex was doing all these things and i know she was cheating and i saw signs all the time and would bring them up with her but she lie and say it nothing. Im just having fun for now. She still hits me up but she apparently values them more than me. I will never play second fiddle. Im gonna have to start be ruthless with her and her friends like she has been with me, it will be hard but guess it a doggy dog world, i love her but she not coming at me right way at all
@zaaayyyy23
3 жыл бұрын
I promise if this 1 plays games with me im done with this shit forever
@its.skywalker
Жыл бұрын
This video was helpful, almost all of the signs here were accurate. I kind of had a feeling that she was just not into me on the back of my head but I was just not ready to accept it. Bitter but helpful information.
@humultebaatulti9040
2 жыл бұрын
very useful video Anna
@blackpanther8219
3 жыл бұрын
It was a great video and 12 keys 🔑 to open the doors to my problems thanks
@dwaynediah4595
2 ай бұрын
I have an online girlfriend, and she keeps asking me for apple cards it feel one side
@aamirhayat1
3 жыл бұрын
Nice video. I have faced these issues
@fromgermany271
Жыл бұрын
Hi Anna, just to give you positive feedback, I can tell you, I recognized most of these signs over 40y ago.
@DoubleM-hf6ih
9 ай бұрын
The women I come across only want favors from me. It’s ridiculous. However, I’m not giving up on finding the right woman.
@ThisisEnzoman
4 жыл бұрын
the problem is my girlfriend and i have been together 5 years now , and she is doing it right now i am lost
@abel5240
4 жыл бұрын
You are going to find dude
@ThisisEnzoman
4 жыл бұрын
@@abel5240 thank you but find what !?
@thejoseandresshow
3 жыл бұрын
@@ThisisEnzoman How did it end up?
@ThisisEnzoman
3 жыл бұрын
@@thejoseandresshow yeah since this comment i broke up with her and I'm happy right now
@Levsmister
3 жыл бұрын
Hope u ok bud. So whats the problem? He bored or other guy?
@Onguard8737
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for the input love
@gunchbandit4422
Ай бұрын
Looks like im being played guys.... Pray for me
@GeneralGorillaSonicOC
3 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this video and I know who I can think of one person who is all of these.
@craig3714
4 жыл бұрын
I get that feeling often 🤢!
@Joyanima
4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that, it must be uncomfortable for you. Thank you for commenting
@chrismcevoy2503
2 жыл бұрын
My ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick is guilty of the first two signs.
@noahhradek5426
3 жыл бұрын
holy shit. described some women I've known to a T.
@JAF2991
3 жыл бұрын
Number 2, the most important thing. Remember that boys. And girls, men will also do that.
@kobesmith3701
Жыл бұрын
She use to text n call first but not anymore she text back but dry
@leocardoroger6270
Жыл бұрын
She probably going trougbt something my girlfriend do it sometimes just leave her don't give her attention she will come back
@thecowboy9698
5 ай бұрын
Knowing you're being played is not a disappointment but rather a blessing. Why? Because you can then cut off such an individual from your life. Do you only want people in your life who are only there in your life because of what you can offer? Or, do you want people in your life who truly care for you and will be there for you, even when you have nothing you can do for them?
@8307c4
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@reflexo-pubg1571
2 жыл бұрын
Wt if she needs me for small things that even she can do that work early And after completing that work She still continues her conversation with me And always wants me with her But when we both go home Than she doesn't even text me like gm gn etc But when we are together she always flirt And even takes pic with me
@thiennhienyeu3047
2 жыл бұрын
Notice these signs: - She wants you to help complete easy things that she can even do it herself -> She may underestimate things and become lazy, so she wants you to do so! -> She trusts you as a kind person ‘cuz you’ve already been so/too nice with her before! -> She may gradually consider you as a partner, so she gives you chance to make her surprised by completing her little things! - After completing work, she continues her conversation with you -> She’s thankful to your kindness! -> By congratulating you, she’s going to bring up the relationship with her! - She always wants you with her -> Were you able to hang out with her, or she’s just wanting you while being together for a short period of time? -> Have you ever wanted her with you and you got her agreement with it? - When both home, she no longer texts ... -> She’s busy sometimes -> If it’s always, that means she’s busy ... with you, free with anyone else! -> She doesn’t want to text, if she’s active, try to record or have a call/video call with her! ...
@reflexo-pubg1571
2 жыл бұрын
@@thiennhienyeu3047 yeahhh Wait Thn after somedays something happened to her idk One day I didn't text her Thn she texted me y u didn't text me today ?? I said u r busy no that's y I didn't text Thn the next day she said ur really like my elder brother. Thn I was like wts happening I never showed any sign of liking her Thn again after somedays. Our college reopened Thn she changed She never called me bro again She flirts She acts like she is lazy She always borrows things from me She compliments She ask for simplest helps She clicks selfies with me And now she only starts the convo Idk wts happening
@reflexo-pubg1571
2 жыл бұрын
@@thiennhienyeu3047 and Also her actions showed that she likes me - she blushes around me - she gets nervous - she smiles - she acts different around me :(
@thiennhienyeu3047
2 жыл бұрын
@@reflexo-pubg1571 Hahah sound funny man! If her actions were so, just hoped that it’s not her fake or over-reaction! To check out, let’s have some jokes about that, if she gets it, she’ll let you know along your conversation! Sometimes, let’s try to reject to help her, create boundaries between you two, let her dip more into you!
@reflexo-pubg1571
2 жыл бұрын
@@thiennhienyeu3047 okay tyy And btw I'm introvert So in person she only starts the convo And makes plans like To teach her something through video call
@kylelnrd8660
3 жыл бұрын
Any video for single mom?
@ObieDobieZoomer
3 жыл бұрын
I wish I'd seen this before my ex could stab me in the back like she did.
@elmo319
11 ай бұрын
I’ve been with a girl about 5 months, she doesn’t add me to her Facebook account so it makes me wonder why… any ideas?
@192OOIDJJ3
Ай бұрын
Everything sounds accurate
@AmirtheshPrasad
2 жыл бұрын
How do you know if she's using or if she is playing hard to get?
@FedUpCanuck
Жыл бұрын
Take your choice either way she is playing you
@kingsleyorji4205
8 ай бұрын
She called me her brother in front of strangers
@gratzia
3 жыл бұрын
I think this is bullcrap. Maybe her place is a mess and her family are a bit nosey so she wont invite you over. Maybe she expects the man to take the lead in the relationship so she waits for him to call and initiate dates. Maybe she knows her friends are desparate and will try to get you for themselves or break you two up so she wont introduce you to the friends. If she calls you friend maybe its because you havent had the talk. smh!
@Willdostyles
3 жыл бұрын
Well its 2021 & women are adults too, you cant have "men must lead" mentality & then preach gender eqaulity. Share the work load! And as for "maybe her friends are desperate & will try to still" . . . If her friends are like that then finding a man should be the least of her worries as she needs to find new friends first.
@chickenhead5762
Жыл бұрын
Lmfao! 😂😭😭😭 Jesus Christ what a garbage take.
@hsamzsd
3 ай бұрын
all of those are just more reasons to find someone else
@Blue_flock
2 ай бұрын
Well my friend her reason is summer time work and visit her friends that’s why she can’t contact she said summer is different what u think I have to do ?
@dylanmatipa136
Ай бұрын
She’s just making excuses. Move on
@Travis-bl3iw
3 жыл бұрын
💯💯Truth
@ianthomas1983
Жыл бұрын
What if she want meet up for a date
@PhillipplaistedPlaisted-qu7nc
2 ай бұрын
This girl that i have known for a vary long time now and she used too message me lots like good morning see you soon have a good night and asking if im comeing over for a cup of tea and used too call me phill from the block but now i don't get any messages from her at all its so fucked up i don't understand at all
@kevindavis4709
2 жыл бұрын
Play her before she plays you lol
@1MNUTZ
2 жыл бұрын
Soul ties
@imarilee5154
2 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend went to a party i Yesterday couldn't go with her i take home everywhere i go but can't go with her her talk down on me
@juicetrouble6185
3 жыл бұрын
Who? Im not in a relationship smh. I think yall need too catch up
@Iceman99DennisAustin
Жыл бұрын
Get this a girl got jealous of me until she knew I had nothing to do with rhe other girl and her friend said she does that she flirts and acts interested then dops you like a lead turd she even says she has a boyfriend I was told I was being used and she was right.
@zelking8948
8 ай бұрын
Ironic... sounds a bit like the playing hard to get video
@davidreynoso8593
9 ай бұрын
Good infro
@MistaTurdburgerz
4 ай бұрын
Lol dude this is anxiety bait
@jacksaintjack2844
5 ай бұрын
#1 CHECK #2 CHECK # 3 CHECK # 4 N/A # 5 NEVER COMES OVER, EXCUSES # 6 SHE TELLS PEOPLE I AM HER MAN # 7 CHECK # 8 SHE TALKS A LOT ABOUT US BEING TOGETHER. Hmmmmmmm
@robertstefan8415
3 жыл бұрын
Gods where ar girls like you Ana?
@retroguy1976
2 жыл бұрын
i been having the motions with this one chick she's wack and wish I never met her i washed my hands of her
@alexanderbeck7953
2 жыл бұрын
Same man. Respect brother. Peace and love. God bless.
@psychofroggy8062
2 жыл бұрын
I’m considering of washing my hands with this chick. I realize my biggest issue. And that’s seeing the best in people. She would only ever text when she wanted gifts or money. And now on the day before when we’re supposed to really meet up I ask all day what time she would like me to swing by and pick her up, Ive given each text request 3 hours of time apart from on another so like 4 texts in one day. Nothing. Not even a response to cancel. I legit think she’s using me. Next time she texts me and asks for more money I’m gonna tell her to F off. I’m done with trusting anyone or being good/kind especially when I look up to find her exact same selfie on sever dating sites being online an active for hookups.
@jacksonbarrett549
Жыл бұрын
Quite a few things ticked off there... Damn
@comptegoogle511
6 ай бұрын
DHA!!! Thank you captain obvious....
@jeanogato3327
Жыл бұрын
The chick is always talking about money and food
@aspectjohnbrice8006
Жыл бұрын
Yooo🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣
@Sol-Lyra69
3 жыл бұрын
damn :’)
@_obada_shakir1616
19 күн бұрын
Damn💀
@rohitindora7403
2 жыл бұрын
I wasted 6 yrs of my life🥲🥲🥲🥲.
@Areolainspecta
Жыл бұрын
Going through a couple of these things with a girl I like from my last job. Seems like I should walk now after watching this
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