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@aamandabeauty1288
2 жыл бұрын
I really need your advice I was going to message you on ig probably at the exact time this was posted today. I been watching your videos. It’s like this repost solidified things for me. The man I’ve been in love with for 16 years is totally secular and has demons. I’ve now given my life to Christ and been devoted now more then ever, I’m a core group sister and trying to change everything to live righteous. We have a kid together who’s a preteen and I don’t want to cause more trauma in her life by leaving her dad, and he’s the only man I’ve been with for years we initially wanted to marry young but didn’t and ended up traveling for years then had our kid and he’s left me several times but comes back always. I’m done with those ways and letting someone like that in my life I know it’s a soul tye but I know we both love each other. I often think if he gets saved he can heal and become the man god has planned for him to be and he would have a very powerful testimony. Do I stay and help him or see his demonic butt out the door? He is blind that the things he does and his secular interest are very antichrist and new age. He wasn’t taught about gods love growing up, and I believe still doesn’t know. He’s always positive towards my involvement in church and core group. He needs deliverance but I can not force that. I been speaking gods word more around him in a non pushy way. I been anointing our bed. But he has to turn to Jesus on his own. I no longer want to live out of wedlock and he is my only sin. I’m very confused on what to do.
@FearfullyandWonderfullyMade.
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this important, valuable message. I have to share.
@bobbyakeno3116
2 жыл бұрын
What if u went against ur parents wish not to marry but u did it anyway?…
@saulsarruff
2 жыл бұрын
As a person who experienced this, I can testify this message to be true. Please do not be unequally yoked. It takes too much valuable time to heal. Thanks for the message. God bless💯
@simuchelomunkombwerkikbeiv6842
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@Deborah8735
2 жыл бұрын
I can also say the same...It is a deep hurt and one does not win anything at the end.
@invisiblewaterfalls
2 жыл бұрын
The same here. The healing process has been long. That is a really bad decision.
@yvettevalmond2757
2 жыл бұрын
Truth
@cathykhocircle2560
2 жыл бұрын
Yes Agreed!
@carolinebordignon
2 жыл бұрын
‘A person who is addicted needs rehab not a relationship’. 🔥🔥🔥. And thank you for mentioning this applies to porn!
@theirishbob
2 жыл бұрын
Big facts
@Lucianppl
2 жыл бұрын
My husband has all this except 6, wish I saw this before I go married. I have prayed and fasted in what is a now 3 year marriage. I am official clocked out so please people take this serious. It will save you stress, tears and continuous heartache. Them changing may take years, years you could have been happy with who God wanted you to be with or single.
@EmahStone
Жыл бұрын
Me too..
@aaliyahferguson953
Жыл бұрын
I am literally going through this currently thank you for sharing this !! ❤
@ArmyScoutMom
Жыл бұрын
"It's better to wait for God to bring the right person to you, then to wait for God to change the wrong person you bring to Him." Great words I will be sharing this with my gal pals!
@TheRealLastJedi721
2 жыл бұрын
Dated a girl in highschool as I was graduating learnt a lot from that relationship just cause someone says their Christian don’t mean they really know the God they clam to serve she tried leading me into sexual lust and things but I never compromised and we aren’t together but I learnt a lot from that been single and in God’s presence more working on myself for future marriage but hopefully have something like you guys someday 🙏🏽🔥
@debbiebramwell
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you stuck to your boundaries and didn't jump into it. Awesome post. God has someone special for you! God bless you! ✝️🤍
@faithjourneylivingvlog
2 жыл бұрын
Things to pray for 1. Loves God more then you 2. Action and words don't match 3. He or she has close friends not committed to the Lord. 4. He or she has a wondering Eye 5. Broke up recently
@tammi1642
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve ignored so many red flags in people thinking nobody is perfect and God must want me to help, love, and pray for them. Now that I’m older I’ve realized it was codependency.
@mariac5294
2 жыл бұрын
@Tammi , I’m exactly the same , I recently did this got together with a guy thinking 💭 I’m helping him heal . Lots of red flags 🚩 I gave him A chance wanted to help him He is toxic, with past traumas .
@ChrystianSong
9 ай бұрын
@@mariac5294 at least you wanted to help, the last girl didnt and she's Christian and she used to struggle with similar things i went through and its way too sus that she didnt want to offer compassion to me.
@uchy22
2 жыл бұрын
I literally broke up with a guy based on the 3rd factor listed (wandering eye). 98% of the people this guy followed were females who looked a certain way. If they followed him, I wouldn't have a concern but he was following them and most of them were not on his followers list. He called me jealous and said it didn't matter. But I knew deep down something was wrong. Thank you for confirming this - now I know it's called wandering eye.
@marymarseglia4536
2 жыл бұрын
This was excellent!! Thank you. I believe this is for older people too. After divorces it gets difficult to find a good guy especially in our 50s and 60s. The guys all want sex. I'm like wait a minute just because we are adults God wanted sex to be between two married people.
@Classic_Billionz
2 жыл бұрын
👆🏼👆🏼Thanks to the name pointed with the finger, he helped me spy on my husband phone and got me the proof I needed to divorce my husband, the pain is unbearable it really hurts they don't know the amount of trauma and heartbreak we go through, after i almost lost my life to my narc husband, I couldn't divorce him cause of the kids I have to put up with a lot, because I want my children to have a happy home, but it got worst by the day, so I contacted him and he hacked my husband phone and got me all social media chat, deleted and undeleted text, he even recovered his social media account, I can even access his phone from mine and he also got me the proof I need to file a divorce, with the proof he got me I found out the reason for his behavior was because he was seeing someone else and all the evil things he has been plotting, God bless him send him a message if you need his service
@annelienmoffat3844
2 жыл бұрын
So true!I am widowed for nine years now and had a godky husband,I do pray that there are still godly men out there!
@annelienmoffat3844
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry godly
@cynthiaswinton9708
2 жыл бұрын
Amen! grownboys it's sad
@larryc5361
2 жыл бұрын
Grown boys? A man becomes a boy because he desires sex? Feel lucky he even looked at your old ass. You're practically a ghost at your age.
@Burnt2Ashes82
2 жыл бұрын
It's so funny, but you guys nailed it completely. I just got out of a relationship with a Christian girl from my old church worship team, so believe me you touched on a lot of these red flags that I had and the Holy Spirit revealed this all to me and because i wasn't mature in my wisdom and how to guard my heart, the relationship set me way back in my walk but it revealed to me strongholds that I didn't deal with when I first died to self and walked in the Spirit, so please I urge you, be a critical judge of who you engage with because if you get attached and sin with a sexual act, you can get dragged down fast. And if that's you, just get out of that relationship and get back to Jesus. Love all, God bless Vlad and Lana, love your vids. Jesus is Lord. Amen.
@greentea8678
2 жыл бұрын
Omg Adam! This made me tear up when you said "so please I urge you, be a critical judge of who you engage with because if you get attached and sin with a sexual act, you can get drag down fast." 😔 This is exactly what happened to me. Now, I feel so dirty, not good enough and lost myself. I turned my back away from God because of that unequally yoked relationship. I thought it was "real love" but it is NOT. Nothing but hurt, pain, regret and guilt. Thank you for uplifting my spirit "and if that's you, just get out of that relationship and get back to Jesus" 😭 I needed this.
@anais.pineda_realestate
2 жыл бұрын
Great video!! I agree never go back to a relationship which you know was not from God from the beginning.
@danielhensley3983
2 жыл бұрын
Light and dark cannot coexist. I lived with a very wild fleshley women for 2 years. The flesh was very happy! But my spirit was dying. No God? No peace.
@sabbyeight
2 жыл бұрын
This is well appreciated. I am 50 and still wanting marriage. It is refreshing to hear this teaching. Even if you heard it but haven’t practiced these principles, its good that we submit to God and submit to this teaching. Also deliverance is so important in order to be free from soul ties and generational curses that will negatively impact your new relationships. Thank You both!!!! Blessings!!!!!
@nadargekwala3110
2 жыл бұрын
Better to be single and whole than be married and broken.👍
@luciana1083
2 жыл бұрын
Vlad I love when you do videos with your wife! She’s so wise, has sense of humor and brings joy to your videos!
@butterfliesandsilkflorals3716
2 жыл бұрын
I'm not courting or dating anyone at the moment but thank you for sharing these tips on red flags.😊👍
@paulajimenez1083
2 жыл бұрын
“I’m going to love God more than I love you because every year I will love you more”.
@cloplaysgames
2 жыл бұрын
How do you get over a soul tie if you already formed an emotional attachment? Broke off the relationship but still struggling with feelings.
@vladhungrygen
2 жыл бұрын
Be sure your soul tie is broken and heal with time. kzitem.info/news/bejne/0Z9vsHpqq4ibgm0
@jqgatlas4281
2 жыл бұрын
@CloPlayGames It takes time. The feelings and emotions are going to be there for a while. I blocked my ex, totally cut off all communication. It was very painful but very necessary. I went before God and prayed for strength. Spend time with God and His Word, and trust me, you'll get through it all. 🙏🏼
@Classic_Billionz
2 жыл бұрын
👆🏼👆🏼Thanks to the name pointed with the finger, he helped me spy on my husband phone and got me the proof I needed to divorce my husband, the pain is unbearable it really hurts they don't know the amount of trauma and heartbreak we go through, after i almost lost my life to my narc husband, I couldn't divorce him cause of the kids I have to put up with a lot, because I want my children to have a happy home, but it got worst by the day, so I contacted him and he hacked my husband phone and got me all social media chat, deleted and undeleted text, he even recovered his social media account, I can even access his phone from mine and he also got me the proof I need to file a divorce, with the proof he got me I found out the reason for his behavior was because he was seeing someone else and all the evil things he has been plotting, God bless him send him a message if you need his service
@tonyadayhoff421
2 жыл бұрын
Divorce them in the spirit realm
@tribdrawsnear
2 жыл бұрын
Deliverance
@emieloss7229
2 жыл бұрын
I think often times addicts also need inner healing, not just discipline and deliverance. Addiction often has a function, it numbs the pain or makes you forget about it.
@KimberlyNashville
2 жыл бұрын
So good, I shared this with 3 young people already. Wish I had that advice years ago. Ignoring the flags causes you years of heartache. If you believe God hates divorce, then you realize you made the decisions, now you live with the consequences.
@diannekevwitch6958
2 жыл бұрын
@kimberly sovern yes God hates divorce but he hates violence. Some of us had no option than to get a divorce. But I agree that it's the gift that keeps on giving.
@KimberlyNashville
2 жыл бұрын
@@diannekevwitch6958 agree, I wasn’t referring to violence.
@waynemayama8005
2 жыл бұрын
Many pastors don't talk about such a topic in detail especially how to be in a relationship.. what relationships are advisable for the church etc..and as a young person... this what the devil attacks teenagers with mostly.. so this is a very good teaching.. thank you
@manso21
8 ай бұрын
What about if we got married in the gospel and baptized but she went to the world and now she won't commit to the Lord's pact we made together?
@romrom2727
2 жыл бұрын
Pastor Vlad, I'm sorry for questioning your teaching about choosing a spouse. You were right. Your teachings are great blessings for us, thank you for your ministry.
@Charity1277
2 жыл бұрын
Almost impossible to find a man or woman that has all these godly traits anymore. Even men who say they love God and follow the Bible can have severe mental problems and abuse their wives. I have experienced this on a personal level and it has lead me to trust nobody
@IAmNiyahSimone
2 жыл бұрын
!!!
@Varaidzo1
2 жыл бұрын
Very true - all of us are just so incredibly broken
@Carvegirl
2 жыл бұрын
You guys are so wise. Witnessing the Lord’s work in you both is a blessing. A miracle right in front of us. God bless. 💕
@muchlovevero
2 жыл бұрын
My ex-sister in law send me this link and I'm am so grateful to her for all her prayers and affirmations...I'm recently separated from my husband of 39yrs, he is the OnLY man I've ever been with, I now see their was a blindfold i was wearing that i fought anyone who tried to take it off ...I'm 53yrs old struggling to find my own identity...
@mikey-kun2244
2 жыл бұрын
probably, this video is for me, i've had already gone out of relationship where my girlfriend (mutual understanding) use to always lead me in sexual things but it is my mistakes too for in that kind of situation (that i comes to thinking which if i give her wants, it will gonna strengthen our intimacy/relationship) besides after a few months of being together, there's much been a red flags that I noticed which i didn't been taken care of, I always ask God for a sign if she's a will for me, draw her near to Him, but the situation got more worsened, the red flags deteriorated our relationship and especially my faith and relationship in Christ. I've been longing for God and asking for forgiveness every day for ignoring the signs and red flags that I ignored as I lean on my own mind that my girlfriend, I thought she's the one, but it turns out she's not, God is good even that i've gone too far, He still protects me.
@sarapoudel5740
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you God for this message. Am 19 years old and all this 13 flags are related to me recently I know that am dating with wrong person who have been hurting me but still I want to with him. But after hearing this message I feel I don't want with him anymore Thank you God for helping me from this message. From today I want to focus my relationship with Jesus. Who ever reading this comment please pray for me.
@Zoe-oe7wp
2 жыл бұрын
I am also 19 and I relate,I pray that God grants you the grace to leave the relationship and move on
@asakhedali478
2 жыл бұрын
SEEK GOD'S WAY AND PRAY THAT GOD BLESSES YOU WITH THE KNOWLEDGE/WISDOM/UNDERSTANDING OF GODLY RELATIONSHIP
@debbiebramwell
2 жыл бұрын
Father God, Thank you for your precious daughter Sara and that you love her so much. Your love is not like human love. Your love is pure and powerful. It's amazing. Reveal to her how much You love her. Wrap her up in Your loving arms. Father, You know what she needs. Thank You that you will take good care of her. Strengthen her on her walk. Surround her with the right people. Give her wisdom she needs. Direct her paths. Pull her close to You. Close the wrong doors. Shine on light on her. Protect her from anything that doesn't come from you. Empower, encourage and enlighten her. Give her peace and joy that doesn't come from this world. Thank You Father that you are all we need and for your perfect plans for her life. We love You and need you and pray in Jesus's mighty name Amen God bless you sister Sara. Cling to God. He is with you!
@abbyhofilena3242
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor Vlad and Lana for this preach;for helping me have a better perspective in life and in marriage. 📖❤️
@Classic_Billionz
2 жыл бұрын
👆🏼👆🏼Thanks to the name pointed with the finger, he helped me spy on my husband phone and got me the proof I needed to divorce my husband, the pain is unbearable it really hurts they don't know the amount of trauma and heartbreak we go through, after i almost lost my life to my narc husband, I couldn't divorce him cause of the kids I have to put up with a lot, because I want my children to have a happy home, but it got worst by the day, so I contacted him and he hacked my husband phone and got me all social media chat, deleted and undeleted text, he even recovered his social media account, I can even access his phone from mine and he also got me the proof I need to file a divorce, with the proof he got me I found out the reason for his behavior was because he was seeing someone else and all the evil things he has been plotting, God bless him send him a message if you need his service
@beingthesalt
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video guys! I'm a believer & the man I've got children with is supposed to be a believer too, but over time I'm beginning to doubt & see a lot of red flags. My goodness 😳
@margaretdrinzaru1765
2 жыл бұрын
Its not too late first of all am not certain if you asked for God's permission before settling down with this person but all I want to say is that stop complaining about it n report it to God.... Thank Him for your marriage n us perseverance n tell Him heavenly father I didn't seek your permission for this marriage but today I turn it into ur hands take the wheel n pls forgive ur husband for all the wrongs ,pains n tramour he may have put u thru ....the bitterness n anger that u have towards him then leave God to do his work just fix ur eyes unto Jesus then u will things change for better...read 1corinthians 3:10 Allow God to fight it for you n change your man just stop complaining about just everything for the sake of those beautiful children .....may our God touch the heart of your husband in Jesus name.....The word of God says 'my children perish for the lack of knowledge n wisdom.' Love speaks it all may God grant u the grace to love n may you receive peace in ur marriage that supercedes all human understanding.
@TheTurtleTribalNation
2 жыл бұрын
@Mark amen
@TheTurtleTribalNation
2 жыл бұрын
@@margaretdrinzaru1765 that was well said thank you
@southernjulip2403
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent. Thanks for doing this. I wish all parents and pastors would talk about this.
@aidaeritrin7944
2 жыл бұрын
A person who is addicted needs a rehab not a relationship, I had the same reaction as Pastor Vlad
@LL-ew2hz
2 жыл бұрын
Rehabilitation is restoration , implying...WHATEVER is needed; deliverance, discipline, Godly Spiritual counseling, healing....or a combination 🙏❤
@yallcrazy302
2 жыл бұрын
I tried turning a blind eye to so many things. It’s not worth it, don’t hide from God’s warnings.
@mariac5294
2 жыл бұрын
Me too ignored red flags 🚩
@crystalmorgan9118
2 жыл бұрын
Red flag 14 if they mean to your pets ...like say they hates cats and wants you to get rid of your furbaby for them ....run
@_dragonfly_g4762
2 жыл бұрын
Just watched and realized that my boyfriend has almost half of these red flags😥
@seekingpeace4743
2 жыл бұрын
These are really good tips, however, I think there should be differences said for someone who loves God, serves God, is active in ministry, and agrees with you in the faith, but has a stronghold. 70% of Christian men watch pornography, and some are struggling and want deliverance. This is different than a person who does not care about your areas of concern, or does not see a problem with it. It will be very hard to find a perfect person, but especially hard to find a perfect Christian.
@lizacabrera2511
2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much for this, Ptr. Vlad and Lana. I'm 25 and been single for years. Praying and waiting for a Godly man that God has for me and I would definitely take note of all these keys when I finally met the one or when I'm ready to enter into a relationship/marriage.
@TheTurtleTribalNation
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had been as smart as you at 25 and not furthered destroyed my life. I was abused at a very young age and my family just never cared about me . I was on bad meds from the drs , made me lose all free will and when I thought I wanted God back at your age I took part in making some huge changes that forever left me damaged . You Stay strong in Jesus name amen !!!
@amyhellerford9422
2 жыл бұрын
I wasn't saved when I married my almost X. I got saved after. He says he was, but I don't think so. Lots of abuse & many years later & im getting out ! I heard several red flags here that I wished is known years ago ! I know now, thankfully! Thank you for this !
@Rija000
2 жыл бұрын
Number 6! 🚩 That's how narcissistic abuse starts and once you got in, it's very hard to get out. Please 🙏🏻 just find someone who have Jesus on the first place in their lives! ✝️💟
@moniquehatch6661
2 жыл бұрын
The wandering eye is a no no
@victorinedempsey3969
Жыл бұрын
1. Love God more than each other. 2. Actions and words don't match, a character flaw. 3. Have close friends that are not committed to the Lord. 4. Wondering eyes. Thank You, Jesus. You are to know what is going on on each other's phones. What do you have to hide? 5. Not healed from a previous relationship. Jesus and time heals. 6. Shows signs of control and abusive behavior. There is a difference between love and obsessiveness. 7. The person has the same sin and addiction problems. A person that is addicted needs a rehab and not a relationship and dating. Don't feed the addiction, get freedom. Drop that spirit like a hot potato. 8. The person doesn't respect purity. Guard your purity. Sexuality is like super glue. Deny sex until the altar. 9. You don't want kids to become like them. 10. You don't have peace before marrying this person. 11. Your members, mentors, and parents feel itchy about this person. 12. Being with this person and being distracted you from church, and Jesus. 13. You already pray to God to change that person.
@sherly2139
2 жыл бұрын
Addicted person needs a rehab and not a relationship
@monikagebala8481
2 жыл бұрын
Modern concept of ‘dating’ is not even in the Holy Bible
@JViolin231
Жыл бұрын
“This person is hot.” Hell is hot! Don't date someone only based on their appearance. 21:03
@julesybethmedlini
2 жыл бұрын
Please, I beg you… from my heart to yours- listen to these flags or you will be making a mistake. The worst mistake of your life.
@oliversifa6651
Жыл бұрын
Well I have a boyfriend but whenever I refuse to go to church for one day he skips to because he doesn’t wanna go alone without me so am wondering if this is also a red flag.
@juanalovesjesus5542
2 жыл бұрын
✨❤️🌿🔥🔥🔥💪💪💪 LET'S GOOOOO!! OUR GOD OF ABRAHAM, ISAAC AND JACOB IS A GREAT GOD!! ALL PRAISE AND WORSHIP TO OUR HEAVENLY FATHER FOREVER!! WE LOVE YOU ABBA!! THANK YOU FOR SAVING OUR SOULS THROUGH YOUR ONLY SON JESUS CHRIST!! WE REPENT FOR ALL ABORTIONS, GREED, LUST, GLUTTONY, ENVY, WRATH, SLOTH, PRIDE, VANITY, REBELLION, UNFORGIVENESS, REJECTION, FEAR AND ABUSE IN THE MIGHTY BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST AMEN!!! 💯💯😁😁🥰🥰🙌🙌🙌💥💥💥💃✝️🕊️🌹💛❤️✨
@kylegibbs3844
2 жыл бұрын
This was awesome thanks guys! Pray I find relationship like this!!
@laurareed2614
2 жыл бұрын
Great words. My hubby and I love this teaching
@kabo3247
2 жыл бұрын
Dear Jesus, I pray for a husband who loves you more than he loves me!
@sherly2139
2 жыл бұрын
If ur addicted u need deliverance and discipline not dating..
@trevorjennings721
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Sherly, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the Virus??
@GreenMan-em2jd
Жыл бұрын
What sucks is I was married for 10 years to the wrong person. I loved her and I tried everything to make it work after two kids she abandoned us. Now I get to start all over 😒
@katlegom114
2 жыл бұрын
This is profound! Just discovered your page and loving your Godly/Spiritual counsel, advice and content
@rocelvismanosmacas6221
2 жыл бұрын
This is really true. I pray that God will release me from my past relationship.
@miryamfeleke
2 жыл бұрын
Okay I understand the red flags, but how do you end this kind of r/ships?
@ldeezoweezo
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Vlad and Lana, for sharing the wisdom God has given you on these topics! I was wondering if you have some sort of course that could equip couples who would like to be mentors surrounding courting/dating etc.? This would be really valuable to my husband and I, and I'm sure countless other couples who feel called to help young adults in this area. We can watch and read and take as many notes as we can, but there are some practical pieces of tying it all together that would be great in a course! Even a place where we can bring our questions would be amazing! Thanks and God bless!! 🔥
@Schoolbuskell
2 жыл бұрын
I loved this because as a single Christ following woman it keeps me in check to BE the right person.✝️💕
@stephaniestraw6314
2 жыл бұрын
the red flags were all there. I didn't have wise people round me, they were out for destruction (mine). and were really pleased nothing was right for me. they've been removed (some deaths) addiction for both of us my husband and me. both of us so much trauma happened to both of us. God got me a new place in 2 days, it should have been 2 year waiting list. we stopped going to church, it was just a battle ground. husband wants divorce ASAP, marriage has come to natural end. won't ever live at the place i live in never wants to go to church again. things are getting toxic he's getting angrier and angrier I've been crying 1 year and 3 months devastating 😢 💔 had heart attack, diabetes out if control because of so upset, ended up hospital gagerine had toe amputated. so if you got doubts don't do it RUN! OH YES THE OTHER THING IS THE AMOUNT OF MONEY YOU HAVE TO SPEND ON DIVORCE SHOCKING!!! IF IN DOUBT RUN RUN 🏃♀️ IT'S A MESS
@TheRayvolution
2 жыл бұрын
Lol Not Homeslice Vlad. 😂 Yes deny them seggs. You. Will. See. I tell this to every woman.
@TheRayvolution
2 жыл бұрын
This is my introduction to your ministry and content. I think you and your wife are identifying important and accurate relationship red flags. Thank you so much. Amen.
@missNCW
2 жыл бұрын
Him and his wife are experts and her being his wife doesn’t give her authority to judge others. Marriage is not a qualification
@SonoNariFiorewithGrace
2 жыл бұрын
I have to remember to not get shocked when I hear my future hubby say I love our Heavenly Father more than me because of course we need to Remember that Jesus is in the center of it all! We need to remember to put our Heavenly Father,bestie first! All good advice, don’t be in a relationship If you’re not ready to marry!
@Varaidzo1
2 жыл бұрын
Lol I doubt most people will say that outright but it should be implied by their actions
@loganmcallister9466
2 жыл бұрын
1 corthinans 13 and the single man what to please the lord. But the married man his interests are divided.
@Vixinaful
2 жыл бұрын
UNbelieavable... Met a guy who nailed EVERY flag. And yes, the relationship ended in me almost dying in heartfailiure.
@kaylin3242
2 жыл бұрын
On no!🥺I’m so sorry to hear that.I’m glad you’re ok💗
@kedduff1814
2 жыл бұрын
It is hard to find someone that doesn't match at least one of these red flags.
@Chris.8.8.
2 жыл бұрын
Well put. Thankfully letting the Good Lord guide you is the best conclusion. While watching this message, I see pretty clearly that I (sadly and with a heavy heart) should probably end a relationship due to my own failures in several of these areas. Need to let go and let God
@kedduff1814
2 жыл бұрын
@@Chris.8.8. same here brother, i matched 2 of the red flags. My own issues though. I'm thinking if I can work it out and keep the relationship or i should tell her to give me some time to get myself right.
@eyramekpe5671
2 жыл бұрын
@@Chris.8.8. It is a blessing to see a fellow brother in the Lord hold himself accountable. I am with you, I will pray for you and myself too. God will help us
@amykent2369
2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. I thank God for it all! 🙏🏻❤
@miryamfeleke
2 жыл бұрын
Okay I understand the red flags, but how do you end this kind of r/ships?
@freedom4454
2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this presentation! It was helpful.
@Classic_Billionz
2 жыл бұрын
👆🏼👆🏼Thanks to the name pointed with the finger, he helped me spy on my husband phone and got me the proof I needed to divorce my husband, the pain is unbearable it really hurts they don't know the amount of trauma and heartbreak we go through, after i almost lost my life to my narc husband, I couldn't divorce him cause of the kids I have to put up with a lot, because I want my children to have a happy home, but it got worst by the day, so I contacted him and he hacked my husband phone and got me all social media chat, deleted and undeleted text, he even recovered his social media account, I can even access his phone from mine and he also got me the proof I need to file a divorce, with the proof he got me I found out the reason for his behavior was because he was seeing someone else and all the evil things he has been plotting, God bless him send him a message if you need his service
@habibirsa697
2 жыл бұрын
Anyone else checked all 13 red flags? 🥴 13 Reason Why we shouldn't be together 😭😭😭. Thanks for the video 😩❤️💔
@wandabarett8341
2 жыл бұрын
I’m 33 years old still. I had bad experience with guys. I don’t know I wish I was born 1800th lol 😂
@Varaidzo1
2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't say the 1800s were any better.
@Mindsetolympics
8 ай бұрын
A rehab NOT a relationship. RECOVERY NOT BANDAID RELATIONSHIPS. DELIVERANCE AND DISCIPLINE NOT DATING!❤ 14:51 YOU DONT TEST SUPERGLUE 20:35
@LetscookwithVanessa
Жыл бұрын
Yes for God sakes. This should be common sense. People who are in addiction should not be in relationships. I couldn’t agree more. Jesus God in heaven my ex boyfriend takes the prize home for every thing I wasn’t supposed to be with 🙏 Everything. It’s freaky man. Well thank God in free.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@donaldekreitzersr8896
Жыл бұрын
Point 5 comment. 6 months may not be long enough. Sure the length of the relationship does matter. For me, a widower after 40 years, it's been 6 (yes, six) years and I may be, just now, healed enough to try but apprehensive. Currently believe the rapture will happen prior to my potential relationship. I'm okay with that of course, JESUS first. It has been a long journey overflowing with learning, correction, and reproof. I have found all my answers to questions through searching the Bible, it is truly a living book not bound by time. Great podcast. Keep up the great work.
@D464J
2 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful and I enjoyed it. Thanks y’all!
@theuralictribes5689
2 жыл бұрын
Could you please do a video about parents abusing their children or beating them and what God would say or do about it? Considering that one of the Commandments says to honour your mother and father. But how is one supposed to honour it when you have only 1 parent and who used to beat you as a kid which can develop a resentment towards the parent/parents?
@juanalovesjesus5542
2 жыл бұрын
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@jaelyna
20 күн бұрын
Thank you pastors, I really needed this message! Praying that I’ll be wiser and can discern the right man next time and receive what God has planned for me 😊
@thaliaguthrie9614
2 жыл бұрын
Great advice.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@gracefaithjanet2673
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with what you said it went wrong for me and I had to dump the guy. That saying I know women who had to compromise in order to get married and have children or remain single for a very long time and then bring their husband's to church and the men got saved
@autumn1897
Жыл бұрын
If your addicted you need deliverance and discipline not dating ❤
@HammerofGod777
2 жыл бұрын
You’re showing your age with the terminology you have spoken - home slice. Most marriages are entered with prior fornication between the two people. It’s very difficult to find a future spouse that doesn’t have these problems. Might as well remain single. Even Church goers are sinful and have hidden secrets.
@hs9643
Жыл бұрын
Wow, I’m an adult who was never taught anything like this and have had several failed marriages. These are spot on but I didn’t figure it out until to late. After we were married the little red flags I thought weren’t a big deal became monstrous. They were all liars, manipulators & creeps. Young girls everywhere need to be taught this!!
@CMD_Line
Жыл бұрын
Such good advice and you’re a great example of a healthy relationship.
@mogha1920
Ай бұрын
"whatever is in dating is gonna get magnified in marriage" YES man - so true - I just dodged a huge bullet
@BridgetteStadler-gg2bo
6 ай бұрын
What if your praying for them to change and they also want to change too. That's what they forget to mention in these videos....like there probably in a relationship that encouraged one another to change. We all have flaws to work on.
@LetscookwithVanessa
Жыл бұрын
Emotional prison well said
@mercynawila4440
2 жыл бұрын
Very vital teaching. Have been blessed with this. The last point exactly 💯 my own. Thank you ❣️
@David.124
2 жыл бұрын
Needed this for real. This girl that liked me was literally all 13 of these red flags. Highschool girls can be crazy sometimes
@Leivarx7
2 жыл бұрын
So she was getting a divorce? Lol
@David.124
2 жыл бұрын
@@Leivarx7 Wdym?
@lapris7380
2 жыл бұрын
@@Leivarx7 that was so random lol wrong comment maybe?
@evelyndavila4442
Жыл бұрын
Sounds good but you missed number one and that is to fast and seek the Lord in this. You will know directly from the Lord if you ask the Lord this with fervent prayer.
@LL-ew2hz
2 жыл бұрын
Love the honesty and transparency.🙏❤🥰
@mogha1920
Ай бұрын
LOL - "drastic construction remodel" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 oh my - I can relate to this so much 😂
@rholanieyfrellongworth6679
Жыл бұрын
@vladhungrygen, for no.7, what if they said they have repented, they ask you for forgiveness but does the same sin and tells you they couldn’t control themselves, that they are not willfully doing it but is just giving in to temptation, that isn’t true repentance, is it?
@Grace-bg4zv
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! So good! Definitely making my teen watch it! Thank you
@divyashirley
2 жыл бұрын
Amen. A person needs a rehab, especially sex addiction.
@AMKmusic96
2 жыл бұрын
Me: “I just don’t have peace about us” Him: “It’s just the distance” Me: “I don’t feel you are my husband” Him: “feelings are deceitful” Me: “Do you know I am your wife?” Him: “The bible doesn’t say you know who your wife is” Me: *speechless* …okey…
@jessicarosas2879
2 жыл бұрын
Girl. Run. 😏😅 Lol. First and foremost, we should know who we are in Christ before we ever commit to being in a relationship OR get married. Pray for wisdom and more discernment!
@AMKmusic96
2 жыл бұрын
@@jessicarosas2879 Been prayin like crazy bout this you have no idea 🥺🙏…it hit me outta the blue too like I felt like things were good then all the sudden The Spirit like *nudge nudge*
@joyce8987
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you pastor....🙏🙏🙏
@JessicaGarza-uw6nb
14 күн бұрын
A person who has an addiction needs a real encounter with Jesus. Because that's the missing piece
@krystal1261
2 жыл бұрын
I can feel this so strong. A man who is with God he's 1. I asked years ago like where's the guy for me and I said back which sounds weird. He's in the church. Lol not realizing well yeah. He's in the church, build with jesus seek and remove all things that jesus doesn't want for ya.
@rainsofhealing
2 жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT!! Thanks so much! Marriage isn’t the end goal, it’s only the very beginning of the race. Tremendous wisdom in what you have both shared God bless you!
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