I think bullies have value because it teaches you how the real world actually works. No one is going to save you and the only real person you can rely on is yourself. When you are able to stand up to that bully, it is your first step into taking charge of your life. If you learn this early on, it can help you through your adult years when challenges and life hits you in the face.
@memyselfi9576
3 жыл бұрын
Life isn't a movie. Some bullies will get their friends to jump you or bring a weapon. Bullies are shit people born because of shit parents
@Janna.M
3 жыл бұрын
As someone that’s been bullied through school, I can now say they have some value. First and foremost, if someone’s bullying you you quickly learn who you do and don’t align with which is very valuable in forming your personality and values. I also believe it helps to build mental toughness and grit in some people. The other side of the coin is it could be very debilitating and create a false body image and mental health issues, which I can also relate to. At the end of the day, there’s no getting away from it. While we can debate whether bullies have value or not they will always exist because not everyone has a perfect home life or was raised to be well mannered and inoffensive. Sometimes kids do it because they think it’s funny and get validation from their peers for doing it. 🤷🏼♀️
@PD-st8bg
3 жыл бұрын
New listener, love the chemistry you guys have and its quickly becoming one of my go to podcasts to listen to. Kids are always going to act out before they learn any better and "bullies" play a role in teaching kids how not to act. One of the things I heard the most growing up was "treat others how you want to be treated" and my dad was big on teaching us to stand up for kids if we felt they were being bullied. I didn't learn how to self reflect well until my mid 20's probably, but I was much younger when I began to observe the behaviors of others and learn how not to act. Bullies not only taught me how to stand up for myself, but how to stand up for others, and also allowed me to avoid developing bad behaviors through observing them from others. I think adults need to be able to be the mediators and identify when "bullying" has gone too far and intervene when necessary, but sometimes it's beneficial in developing good character and moral compass.
@Smas-ds6pd
3 жыл бұрын
Every difficult person and experience in life has value. It's the difficult things/people that help build character. Thanks for another great episode!
@gkhoury87
3 жыл бұрын
Traumatic experiences can make or break you. Like you guys constantly preach- It depends on the individual. Bottom line though, it’s a sink or swim world and bullies can bring out the best in some people. Without the fear and hurt my bullies caused me I would have nowhere near the mental strength and fortitude that I have today. Also fellas, thank you so much for all of your content. Only been grinding consistently for about 6 months now but I’m finally starting to see results. Wouldn’t have made the progress ive made without all the information you guys put out. Thank you!!!!
@MindPumpShow
3 жыл бұрын
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@Laura-sx3ju
3 жыл бұрын
It's a fine line with bullying... If it's not constant or malicious, it's a good way to practice boundaries and sticking up for yourself (and others!).
@adrienner5909
3 жыл бұрын
Just purchased my second program -anabolic. I’m finishing up phase 3 of aesthetics which is kicking my butt! Wow!!! I’ve been working out since I’m 17 and I’m in my 40’s and in 2 mii on the I’ve seen aesthetics and strength gains. You guys really do have the secret sauce to programming that works.
@yacha6347
3 жыл бұрын
as someone who was a victim of bullying, it can carry a good value that you can use as fuel to motivate yourself. Although the traumatic experience will stay with me for life, thats how I use the experience when I dont feel like training. I've also developed a sense of caution or alert, so to speak when I feel some sort of danger is imminent.
@Bridgewaterred
3 жыл бұрын
I think bullies have value to an extent. There’s definitely a point where being picked on goes from being motivating to being harmful.
@laracroft6623
3 жыл бұрын
I think bullies can literally play the character of the adverse side of life. If you learn how to deal with them, it makes some things in your life much easier. It feels like the bullies are the one who "benefit" the least from their behaviors despite seeming to have everything go their way on the first look sometimes. They have nothing good to learn from what they are doing and the more they do it the more they'd make people around them hate them. Even those who don't stand up for the bullied person still feels disgust, contempt or even hatred for the bully. Because he's someone that shouldn't be trusted. Try living like that for 10 years and see if you're in a better place than the people you bullied.
@tatianaaaliyah
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies are like anything in life, good for you in moderate amounts. Being bullied by siblings, friends (Pranking your friend’s coworkers what not.) or even the occasional prick in school. It builds character. Shit in basic military training the MTI’s can be considered bullies, but they are breaking us down to build us back up. Example: eating an adequate amount of protein is great for gains. Drinking water is great for you. Strength training and some cardio is great for you. Excessive bullying can fu*$ someone up, like traumatically!!!! Excessive Protein can jack you up, water intoxication can lead to hyponatremia, and you can over-train with excessive exercise. See just like anything in life (moderation).
@tsengik
3 жыл бұрын
As a father of 3, who was bullied a lot and also did a lot of bullying, I was very disappointed when I found out none of my kids knew what a wedgie or a noogie was. I had to teach them about all of that stuff to get some healthy play fighting into their lives. Sure, there are cases where bullying goes too far, but for the most part, I think it's absolutely essential for having normal social skills and if I think back to the cases where bullying went too far, it was always because some adult stepped in at some point, marking the bullied as a target for life and ensuring a swirlie the next time they were in the bathroom alone. I say, bring back physical bullying. Let kids fight it out. It beats letting them harass each other on social media until someone commits suicide.
@sheilav5997
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies have their value in the same way that traumatic events have their value to an extent. They teach you the realities of life and also teach you to be grateful for the moments when things are good. I’d say the bullies also often have their own terrible lives and as you grow up and learn that, you learn the power of compassion and how it will make your life better to try to understand people rather than just react to them/their actions.
@mooniramoolla212
3 жыл бұрын
There’s some value in bully’s ... I was bullied at work & if strengthened my resolve to toughen up mentally & face up to the bully , I eventually faced up told the bully boss to stick his job , found a better , higher paying job where I was apppreciated for my skills & work etiquette.. if I were not bullied I probably wouldn’t have the mental strength I have .. led to me doing many ultramarathons & ultra distance hiking ... if I ever met the bully again he’d probably be shocked at my transformation from the meek scared woman I was
@raygravel778
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been bullied all through school. K-12. No exaggeration. I personally think being bullied was a benefit for me. I don’t get offended by much. It drove us me to be a better person than those who did the bullying, which in turn made me a more loving and accepting person. It also helped me strive to be healthier mentally and physically. I’ve owned my shortcomings and am living as well as I can. Bullying personally gave me a sense of humor. We used to call it “breaking balls.”
@alwayscuriouser
3 жыл бұрын
Life is filled with enough trials and challenges without bullies seeking to make themselves better or mask their own pain by tearing you down. While difficulty breeds opportunity I think there are enough challenges already.
@venom07786
3 жыл бұрын
I think they'd choose peace if they could. Often I think its just their pain overflowing onto others. Idk tho
@Cr4nium13
3 жыл бұрын
I was personally bullied like most kids (although for the colour of my skin so take that as you will) and believe that they do hold some value. If kids call you names but don't physically hurt someone, atleast for me, it taught me how to not give a sh*t about what anybody says to me or about me going forwards. It taught me the lesson that the only person whos in control of how I feel is me and I shall never give that power to somebody else. I think that's a lesson a lot of people need to learn honestly, not caring about what people say.
@markbouvierjr.7446
2 жыл бұрын
I know I'm a year too late to comment, but bullying is absolutely helpful for the right person. I was bullied ruthlessly, and it drove me to become stronger and learn to fight. But my son has the opposite response to adversity, when things get hard he just quits, bullying, training, sports challenges, if he can't hang and excel right off the bat, he's out, for him a bully would be hugely damaging, and if I try to encourage him to get stronger and learn to fight, he just digs himself deeper into an, "I cant" hole of self loathing. I ran into my middle school bullies in high school and they were very cautious about how they approached me. I don't see my son stepping up because he's afraid of putting in the effort when shit gets hard.
@brenm3835
3 жыл бұрын
Bullying in certain contexts is beneficial - myself and a childhood friend were weird, "lone wolf" types when we were younger, through some socialised bullying like having the piss taken out of us and having other people call us out on weird bullshit we learned how to act in a wider social circle and I am actually grateful to the guys who " bullied" us but on the other hand I had the sh*t kicked out of me for being a fat kid for years and that didn't help.
@johnokelly5151
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies can have value depending on your mindset. They can motivate you to learn maybe self defence or get strong. The person being bullied will also need to mentally overcome this which will be a good challange. It's also the real world this happens. Try a boarding school in Ireland bullying happened non stop but we all turned out fine but would no longer tolerate that shit as an adult.
@paulc396
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies can be valuable for people who are bullied, teaches them that ‘life isn’t fair’ and ‘hurt people hurt people’. However, allowing bullies to bully others without punishment is bad for the everyone; even the bullies themselves. Bullies that become adults before acknowledging their cruelty don’t learn some very important lessons. I was bullied and I would say I am interpersonally way better off than those guys who picked on me.
@venom07786
3 жыл бұрын
Bullys matter. Aside from their "bullish" behaviors often stemming from some trauma or some inner lack what they do often ends up showing us who we are. Now, doesn't mean we like it. But it is informative. "Your nemesis is your secret liberator" - someone somewhere at sometime
@govdave007
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies have value in the same way a virus has value. Yes, you develop antibodies and get stronger from the experience, but whether or not it's better to just avoid getting sick in the first place depends on the severity of the sickness. It is both optimistic and accurate to state that there is some value to being bullied, but without knowing how severe that bullying was, it is impossible to say if that experience should be taken seriously or brushed aside as part of growing up.
@addicted2tackle122
3 жыл бұрын
In general i think early school bullies like elementary to middle school have a place to kind of make people aware of how others might react to how/ a person does
@yancywolfgang
3 жыл бұрын
You can't nerf life, it's brutal by nature. Pressure forms diamonds.
@venom07786
3 жыл бұрын
Love this.
@mlongoria124
3 жыл бұрын
Everyone rockin some bicep pumps in this one
@josmash
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies often tell the truth that we don’t like to acknowledge. No matter if they’re projecting(which they likely are) and that’s exactly why it hurts, there is usually some truth in what they’re saying. You can either take it in and do things to improve or let it break you.
@arvywalde3493
3 жыл бұрын
Bullying is never good. Been bullied for the most part of my schooling and never liked it. Though it forces you to adapt, be stronger than most both mentally and emotionally. It also gives you a purpose to improve yourself so you won't be bullied anymore. But all of those are "forced" upon you. More like make it or break it. It's not healthy. It's not fun. It's not needed. Yes, people will step on you sometime, you won't always get what you want, you will be made the fun of someone but that is what you call life while bullying on the other hand is others making you feel like shit each and everyday. People who say bullying is ok, let them fight it out has never experienced it. How do you fight it out with 5 guys and you being a frikin 5 feet tall midget? Bullying forces you to evolve, improve, be strong. It forces you to but if you fail, you will break or worst. Is that needed? No. You learn that naturally in life. You don't have to force it. And yeah, to all you mofos who thought I was a useless piece of shit when we were at school, my fuckin biceps and would like to have a word with you. Nice video by the way. I just discovered this podcast and has been a fan ever since. Thank you for all the knowledge you guys share.
@theunknownsamurai7426
3 жыл бұрын
In my group of friends, we have the bullies that are assholes and the funny joking ball breaker guy that knows when to quit.
@teresahunt5521
3 жыл бұрын
I'm a 54 year-old female working in medicine. I'm on the verge of leaving a much needed job because of a bully at work. She's overweight and does not exercise. Why does she hate me? Because I eat a healthy diet and lift. That's her only reason. It's affected me in more ways than I would have imagined. She's actively trying to get me fired. That's not OK!
@rolandoxiv6934
3 жыл бұрын
BULLYS CERTAINLY AS PERSONS DONT HAVE ANY VALUE , BUT IN MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE THEY DID MOTIVATE ME TO GROW IN ALL ASPECTS IN THAT SPECIFIC CASE I GIVE HIM THE VALUE OF PUSHERS OF SELFGROWTH
@lisaday1143
3 жыл бұрын
I think bullies can provide some value, we can all relate bullies show us quite well how NOT to treat others and can often make us more resilient. Adversity often brings strength in the long run.
@sstteevveenn77
3 жыл бұрын
If it were measurable and controllable, bullies would have value. But when you get bullied it depends on your own ability to handle it and also how intense the bully is. For example, I know someone who killed himself for being bullied in high school. On the other hand I was also bullied but it never stressed me out. There’s no way to tell a bully “ok bud go easy on this guy and only bully him once a week for 2mins each time”. Life just doesn’t work that way.
@barrybonds7391
3 жыл бұрын
Does going catabolic eat away at your tendons and ligaments ? Or just the muscle itself?
@GaryNicol1
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies are a double edged sword. The victim can learn how to deal with adversity and how to stand up for themselves. Alternatively the damage done to their psyche could stunt their growth and stop them from ever reaching their full potential. Usually the response they have will be guided by the support network they have in place. I feel in to todays age, where there is no respite from the bullying as it carries over to the digital world the risk to reward ratio is unbalanced. Any value from bullying is too small to find it necessary when similar qualities could be built in healthier ways.
@alvarosanchez-martinez7174
3 жыл бұрын
Very little value to nothing, surround yourself with people that value you, that challenge you mentally and make you stronger in every single way allowing you to to appreciate every single thing
@cainmorano4956
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies have produced great MMA fighters.
@jonnyalberto9476
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies have very limited value. Firstly their opinion on you is usually seeped in their own insecurity - and therefore is not an accurate reflection on your own life, only there’s. They also almost always, and studies show this, regret being a bully once they get into adulthood, showing that bullying is (for the most part) bound for children or just immature people. Bullies can tragically have such a horrendous impact on someone’s life. A person may become unconfident, clinically depressed and even may take their own life due to bullying. This sad unfulfilled potential for so many is why bullying for the most part has no value. However, for some there can be value in bullying. It can “make” someone. By putting up with such negativity and harassment, people who have been bullied can develop to become strong willed, opinionated and UNIQUE. I have seen a correlation between those who have been bullied and POSITIVE, ambitious and successful people. Sadly this isn’t for the majority, and therefore bullying has very limited value.
@BraxtonHenderson34
3 жыл бұрын
I think bullies do have value. It teaches kids how to overcome adversity. And people who face no adversity in life are typically not very resilient
@TheCaapra
3 жыл бұрын
bully's have value in the sense that they can teach you valuable lessons in terms of how to respect yourself and how to manage fear and anxiety. Although I believe they don't have value when the person never choses to address the situation and as time passes, starts to become mentally and physically effected by the circumstance.
@papabless3403
3 жыл бұрын
Rough and tumble play as defined in psychology is one of the biggest developmental needs for young boys, some of that is bound to be interpreted as bullying, but without rough and tumble play boys end up with all the worst parts of masculinity and none of the good ones
@govas0286
3 жыл бұрын
Talk about certifications and online coaching.. thank you Great content 👌
@dbzgtcrazy
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies/bullying are inherently negative, obviously. But a bullying experience can be used and transformed for positive in a person's life with the right mindset/approach. Like any other hormetic maybe
@AlKey3
3 жыл бұрын
35:00. .. I'm in the best shape of my life thanks to covid-19! All those hours I spent commuting in and out of the Bay area are now spent on health and fitness and gardening.
@2KSteez
3 жыл бұрын
Who needs Chronic or Gin and Tonic when you have the chance to win MAPS ANABOLIC.
@johnromero3320
3 жыл бұрын
Just like anything else, too much of anything is bad. Bullies can help toughen someone up to a certain extent. I think you should just treat everyone with respect until you are disrespected.
@sunnivontrier5892
3 жыл бұрын
Every one has value as a human being (life force) and we should all have an opportunity for redemption and growth. We've all been villains and victims at one stage or another, maybe even unknowingly. Spread kindness and compassion, learn through every experience ♥️
@Owen-C1997
3 жыл бұрын
Yo sal in straight up orange is this a new studio or new lighting? Lol
@carrnorton7800
3 жыл бұрын
As hard as we look for the value of bullies, and how they can teach us right vs wrong, and how to stand up for one another, they simply are not necessary. There is a better way. Like going for a PR every time you’re at the gym, you’ll gain muscle but risk major injury. And the risk for major injury with bullying isn’t worth it.
@UR_AL_SHOOK_UP
3 жыл бұрын
Iv never ben bullied..but i do think they have value to be more motivated to get bigger and stronger
@masoneymard4684
3 жыл бұрын
i’ve been away from the podcast for a while. do you guys have any videos or thoughts about the covid vaccines? i’d like to hear your take on it
@samanthateran7004
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies in the worst form, a Adult.. I was Bullied by the Step-dad for years. It did teach me that I never wanted to be anything like him, a straight miserable mean human. 👊
@BlessVibez
3 жыл бұрын
Day 8 of asking the boys to say “ISSA BIG MON TING” 💪💪🙏 really starting to lose hope 😩😔
@Smas-ds6pd
3 жыл бұрын
Stay focused....it'll happen, my friend!
@BlessVibez
3 жыл бұрын
@Camilo Trevor ya man me too 😉
@BuiltonGODSrock
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies can be intimidating at the time but they teach you that life doesnt care about u and it will slap u around if u dont man up and take responsibility for your own success. Theres a part of becoming a man that u need to learn how to stand up for yourself because later in life it could happen in front of your wife or even worse your kids!
@chaelynn6209
3 жыл бұрын
i think bullies are shit, but yes to an extent i do think they have value because without them how would we ever be able to develop tough skin? maybe bullies are the motivators that push us to change something..with that being said i think making someone feel badly about themselves is terrible and something that miserable people do. ps newer sub but love all the info you guys are putting out and ive learned so much already. thank you!
@artsantana5655
3 жыл бұрын
I believe that bullies do have a huge value if you are someone who gets bullied and yet you keep showin up knowin something bad is goin to happen you prepare yourself for life to face the hard times and eventually over come them learn to fight back and show up everyday and it does get easier prepare your mind for war every single day so you can defeat the day and not let the day get another win over you
@mccabe8964
3 жыл бұрын
A would say bullies do hold value especially when your growing up because they view you as weaker and they think you don’t deserve respect that can motivate you to be better and earn respect from others which is key in being an adult you definitely don’t want to be walked over or ignorant to the fact that you earn respect when you overcome challenges, I feel young people are becoming to soft and need that grit in life to keep them grounded in reality
@peshy1047
3 жыл бұрын
I think bullies have a little bit of value. They force people to look deep into themselves and show up. If you see a bully and don't stop it then its your choice. If you get bullied and don't stand up for it then you will be weak for the rest of your life. Bullies force the bullied to look deep into themselves and decide what they want to be.
@steverocksyo
3 жыл бұрын
Y'all must've not have eaten them. Boot was always my favorite shape followed by the round one.
@mattjohnson91
3 жыл бұрын
I don't think there is much if any value in bullying. Most people are acutely aware of their issues and harder on themselves than even the bullies are.
@mlongoria124
3 жыл бұрын
11:00 you are describing many police officers nowadays - usually the bad apples of the bunch
@kizznickel
3 жыл бұрын
There is a duality with bullies. You can learn to stand up for yourself or others, understand the social norms identify bullshit people but there is a line, human nature will cross it for clout, ego, amusement, week self esteem. It's a shitty thing that will never go away and each generation fine tunes it to the times.
@TheTriangularDepartment
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies have no value. I see where people are going with this and I see very little value in harming someone physically or mentally. What can come out in someone being bullied can be very harmful not only the person that is being bullied but others as well. Others very well can and most likely will suffer from this bullied individual through out their life. It causes detrimental damage to future relationships. Negativity breeds more, bottom line.
@Anon17203
3 жыл бұрын
How many calories do you burn on average lifting heavy for an hour?
@stefanieherrera7044
3 жыл бұрын
Hurt people, hurt other people!!!! Unfortunately, they are human beings who don't know how to deal with themselves and find enjoyment in picking on people! It's a toss up for me. The human in me wants to recognize this buuuuttt bruh, uh...I can't stand for valuing them.
@kristineruff9186
3 жыл бұрын
When I was a smoker, I used to envision someone doing that with the DNA off the butts.
@ichbindoofhihi1
3 жыл бұрын
Distant bulls have value, someone you don't see every day and is a dick has value, they can be motivating and make you think you should change yourself just to stick it to them. But if you are terrified to go to school/ work every single day it is just great soil for self destructive behavior.
@nicolesierra6912
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies have a bit of value. They teach a person that not everyone is here to be your friend and you can either let it bother you or you fight back.
@thatguyfromhastings
3 жыл бұрын
Bullys have zero value because they get in front of what really matters. You lose your focus and stress because of this bully you live unhappy.
@sstteevveenn77
3 жыл бұрын
Btw Sal sounds different in this episode. Is it a new microphone? New set? Idk he sounds weird lol
@MindPumpShow
3 жыл бұрын
It is because they are sitting closer together so his audio is being picked up on the other mics.
@craftygeekent4620
3 жыл бұрын
If the DNA portrait print thing is real... can we just print what the people from thousands of years ago looked like for real (given the DNA is still intact)? Cuz I don't trust those clay representations very much haha.
@melo9490
3 жыл бұрын
bullies have value as long as they aren’t bullying ME 👀👀👀
@pretty_flaco
3 жыл бұрын
without bullies, there would be no cops...
@andreakumar2984
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies do have value. They will desensitize you to not take everything personally later, not be easily offended or hurt.
@builtdifferent3745
3 жыл бұрын
wait whats going on with bully thing? how come everyone talking about
@gteam2
3 жыл бұрын
Everyone trying to get free sh*t
@keenanoshealee7930
3 жыл бұрын
I will say you guys are wrong about one thing. SARMS are HUGE in the bodybuilding community
@deshaunsmithsalestraining
3 жыл бұрын
Adversity is the best thing someone can experience. Bullies can be amazing for someone.
@danielstrother2494
3 жыл бұрын
Everyone talking bout bullies and I’m here tryin to find out about them points on the waze app.
@hectorchacon4348
3 жыл бұрын
Nothing instills grit in you like being bullied. That’s why some of the best male athletes in the world have older brothers. I’m not sure about women but I know for men growing up with someone constantly picking on you, with nowhere to go, forces you to figure out solutions. And now my brothers the fat tubby bitch and I’m eating spinach high asf watching this podcast.
@CarodieCaro
3 жыл бұрын
listening about speed limits and radar from Germany...it just makes me laugh.. no one respects the speed limits here and we barley get fiscalized with radars, only in 30 km/h zone.
@tylerbutt4217
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies do provide some value and help us teach kids how not to act
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