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@breeeeeaaathofthewild
3 жыл бұрын
bold of you to assume I have friends FJ. Lol.
@sunnyvirtue4498
3 жыл бұрын
ISFJ is always spot on. People tell me all the time that they don't understand how I can see past so many things and still be kind to them and love them. Inner me: "Great time to testify the love of God." Inner me drop the mic moment 🙏
@breeeeeaaathofthewild
3 жыл бұрын
@@sunnyvirtue4498 💖🙏
@PutRandomNameHere
3 жыл бұрын
If you happen to be looking for ideas sometime,, it would be cool to see a series focused on type interactions with each other, like "how intj interacts with all other types." With the focus on one main type per video. Just an idea, maybe already done before or maybe not great, just throwing it out there!
@breeeeeaaathofthewild
3 жыл бұрын
@@PutRandomNameHere 👆Yeah I like that idea
@chocolatechip4350
3 жыл бұрын
16 personalities when someone is chasing them in the street at night
@saidaabdille8603
3 жыл бұрын
YYEEAAHHH!!!!!
@wikaa0_038
3 жыл бұрын
Omgg I can't 🤣 I can already imagine how it would look like
@Maryam-sn2mz
3 жыл бұрын
That!
@entp_adventures
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Where do we sign the petition?
@LAL7887
3 жыл бұрын
Infj being like 'maybe he's just a stranger minding his own business and I'm judging him to hard. I don't want to insult him by walking faster'
@jacksontower1347
3 жыл бұрын
Person: “Hey, what are you doing later?” Me, an INTJ: “Oh, you know, other stuff.”
@SNinjaQK
3 жыл бұрын
which is just staring at the ceiling all day
@cawhitley7644
3 жыл бұрын
Youre lucky you answered. Im like how does what im doing affects what youll be doing?
@ayannalopez3308
3 жыл бұрын
Other stuff that I cannot stop doing because then it would throw off my mental clock which is already in smithereens but still...
@user-jy1bc3gw2q
3 жыл бұрын
@@daedalus-7 My INTJ partner sends me Google calendar invites 😂 is this actually an INTJ thing?!
@ygalel
3 жыл бұрын
"Not being with you"
@brauliozt8754
3 жыл бұрын
Ah, the INFP friend. Better enjoy their company while you can, cause they can disappear from your life when you least expect it.
@sameerakhan7455
3 жыл бұрын
Sry that us INFPs isolate ourselves a lot..
@TheWhistlingBireme
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah :(
@brauliozt8754
3 жыл бұрын
@@sameerakhan7455 Well, I'm an INFP myself so I know how that feels.
@olakorona2211
3 жыл бұрын
as in INFP i don't get it... i thought the stereotype is us being super loyal friends, and not the most antisocial of the introverts?
@Fernandanatac
3 жыл бұрын
@@theresachacon1122 if she’s and INFP (or at the very least, like me) she probably have read your texts, got happy that you remember her, but either forgot or got too shy to answer because she feels weird about answering after so much time since she probably doesn’t have any excuses for doing so. I honestly don’t know why I isolate so much, but I basically just see/talk to my friends on their birthdays and that’s it 🙃 but I love them very much anyway
@caitlynw9032
3 жыл бұрын
INFJ: I love to learn and experience the wonderful differences in people by spending time with them ❤ INFJ later that same day: Please don't interact with me until next week. I'm so tired 😫
@darbycringle8339
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly me lol
@EmTreasure88
3 жыл бұрын
Yep that sums it up pretty good lol
@jocelfabella1948
3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@danvieira22
2 жыл бұрын
100%
@vyctoria9966
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly :o
@nanfertiti
3 жыл бұрын
INTPs we’re so popular online, we have a lot of online friends because we don’t have to deal with meeting them face to face. 😳😂
@Ascyt
3 жыл бұрын
Eeexaclty
@tarae6587
3 жыл бұрын
this is so true wtf
@icannotcomeupwithanything4609
3 жыл бұрын
INTP and I can verify. I have a village of online friends. They are awesome.
@AniJ-t5o
3 жыл бұрын
Yes , exactly! I mean is there supposed to be another way of communicating?
@devasmitakundu8874
3 жыл бұрын
This is so true
@Michael59197
3 жыл бұрын
INFJ: "It just felt wrong to say no to anybody's invitation." INTJ: "Rookie..."
@lynef
3 жыл бұрын
Not even rookie, cuz we never even try😅
@SpyroShurtagul
3 жыл бұрын
@@lynef YUP!
@danidino1645
3 жыл бұрын
XDDDDDD
@someonenothere8818
3 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised people feel obligated to say yes. You're asking ME if I can go, so you know, I'll say no if I cant, and if I can, then yes. Is this a personality thing? If you expect me to always be there whenever YOU want then you're self-centered.
@jillianchambers5483
3 жыл бұрын
if they don't repetitively ask when im available and remind me of the hangout, there's no hangout.
@anncabras3961
3 жыл бұрын
INTJ: “The calendar invite was never sent” The accuracy is schocking
@quarter-lifecrisis5127
3 жыл бұрын
i immediately gave him a like for it😆
@Rei__Ny0
3 жыл бұрын
I died when the music began
@SilverIncense
3 жыл бұрын
I feel so called out on this one. XD
@skyeblue5134
3 жыл бұрын
To be honest we don’t always ‘make’ that calendar invite do we...
@annacbrown1986
3 жыл бұрын
I mean istj are always busy trying to take over the world. No time for friendships 🤷🏼♀️
@iriko_orion_star_seed
3 жыл бұрын
Friend: Hey! You are coming with us right? INTJ: I'll let you k *(NO)* w.
@blameese
3 жыл бұрын
My favorite is using "Maybe". XD
@roonarific1086
3 жыл бұрын
yep, said this before. The "i'll find out if i'm free and (never) get back to you". Then avoid any and all calls/texts from that person until after the time of the proposed hangout. I have then played dumb and pretended I got the dates mixed up later. "You meant yesterday?! I thought you said today! Ah well, maybe next time!"
@breeeeeaaathofthewild
3 жыл бұрын
Oop xD
@ferzinhaN
3 жыл бұрын
😅😅🔥
@josephjoestar77
3 жыл бұрын
@@roonarific1086 yeah, doing that without any shame at all lol
@miIkshake
3 жыл бұрын
As an INFP who hasn't talked to their bffs in like, almost two years, this hit close to home
@coverguitarandbassme
Жыл бұрын
I unblock them for September 16
@HarryPotter-jh9po
3 жыл бұрын
Infp : finally ghosting them for a week and they definitely hate me now also infp : text them Infp : no. I will annoy them *Two weeks later* * Gets at meme from friends * Infp : nvm they still love me
0:00- parent figure friend (ENFJ) 0:15-Hard to pin down friend(INTJ) 0:31-Wild Friend(ESFP) 0:40 Friend who leaves early(ISFP) 0:49 Always late friend(ENTP) 0:59-Handyman friend(ISTP) 1:12-Overplanner friend-(ISTJ) 1:28-Workout friend-(ESTP) 1:40-Overly Loyal Friend-(ISFJ) 2:04-Work friend-(ENTJ) 2:19-Text friend-(INTP) 2:31-Last minute planner friend-ENFP 2:47-See you in 10 years friend(INFP) 2:57-Hangry friend-(ESFJ) 3:00-Blunt Friend-(ESTJ) 3:13-Overcommitted friend(INFJ)
@breeeeeaaathofthewild
3 жыл бұрын
thanks for the timestamps :-)
@breeeeeaaathofthewild
3 жыл бұрын
oh friendly *heads-ups, the "text friend" one has a semi-colon instead of a colon so it hasn't registered as a timestamp link.
@zoeallen6734
3 жыл бұрын
@@breeeeeaaathofthewild just fixed it :)
@breeeeeaaathofthewild
3 жыл бұрын
@@zoeallen6734 :-) 👍
@rishichilhate1529
3 жыл бұрын
You’re an absolute angel
@carrotbottom2189
3 жыл бұрын
Me an INFP: suddenly comes out of hiding after 30 years My friends: OMG where have you been we literally thought you were dead?! Me: idk I kinda wanted to go mini golfing or smth
@ishah2734
3 жыл бұрын
lol yes that's me....
@ludicrousvibes
3 жыл бұрын
Me 🤣
@marianarojas8878
3 жыл бұрын
Si soyyyyyy jajaj
@shimpiyaa
3 жыл бұрын
" I thought you were dead " That's what my friends reply after I suddenly text them.
@rubymarie5696
3 жыл бұрын
me an infp: comes out of hiding after 30 years also me: is 14
@alexandramancuso3191
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an ENFP and I have actually done the "who wants to go on a trip I impulse-bought tickets for?!" except it was Norway and I invited someone I'd known for less than 24 hours. It was a fun trip though, I'd say it's a pretty good way to plan a weekend.
@Tranitosaur
3 жыл бұрын
Eyy I'm from Norway 🤙 Nice knowing you had a fun time
@Sarah.R.Rabbit
2 жыл бұрын
And think that I am even from Brazil lmaaaooo
@soulfilip8823
2 жыл бұрын
Black friday is when we mostly release anxiety, the same night: I just bought tickets to the other side of the planet, someone else is interested? Ohh I need visa, ahh is ok I have a month...
@Portahooty
2 жыл бұрын
Hello fellow ENFP planning and routine is complete pain for me
@jocelynllamas6600
2 жыл бұрын
Ohmahgawd, if you live in VA I'm totally you're girl! I will ALWAYS say Yes because yolo! ENFJ here
@gameandwatchsonny
3 жыл бұрын
Me (An ENFP): "Makes plans at the very last minute" *nobody can make it because it's too short notice* Also Me: "Nobody wants to hang out with me cos they hate me"
@Aluminol
3 жыл бұрын
Omgggg so true 😹😭
@no.butlikethinkaboutit2089
3 жыл бұрын
When do I start planning things? If not right before I wanna do them tf
@gameandwatchsonny
3 жыл бұрын
@@no.butlikethinkaboutit2089 you see. You get it.
@padgettfarmer
3 жыл бұрын
So this is getting very real for me, also an ENFP, because now I have a toddler and let me tell you, toddler moms love to plan, and if I do the whole last minute hey wanna do x? They look at me like I'm a failed science experiment.
@gameandwatchsonny
3 жыл бұрын
@@padgettfarmeroh no failed science experiment😂😂. I think you've accurately described every enfp
@retrox2776
3 жыл бұрын
Every Ten Years? Is That A Joke? You clearly underestimate my Inconsistency.
@retrox2776
3 жыл бұрын
@Skyfire Mortals
@ilovenutsandcats3879
3 жыл бұрын
mine was like every 3yrs oppsie
@Saturn.56
3 жыл бұрын
Me an INTP: i should go out and socialize probably Also me: *texts online friend*
@theresachacon1122
3 жыл бұрын
My mom doesn't know about any of my online friends and she thought that I was texting a boyfriend or girlfriend when she saw me texting one of them. I was expecting her to think that I was texting a boyfriend but I was not expecting her to think that I was texting a girlfriend. I haven't come out to her as bisexual yet and she probably already knows.
@Saturn.56
3 жыл бұрын
@@theresachacon1122 well good luck for when you come out👍 but ya same haha
@yoon7863
3 жыл бұрын
Fr tho I stutter and am awful at talking but at texting I always get the conversation flowing
@aliisy9194
3 жыл бұрын
Others : you should go out and socialize Me in a social event : staring down at the floor while mingling around with thoughts and possibilities
@OrdinaryCritic
3 жыл бұрын
I’m an INTP but I don’t struggle that much with socializing. I just find patterns in intonation and anticipate my reply which is usually “yeah” with a smile, “cool” with wide eyes, a chuckle, pretend to stutter (I’m actually stuttering but I over exaggerate it so they don’t think I’m awkward, that I’m just joking), or throw in a pun from whatever the other guy is saying. Never fully listening. Works wonders for me. People seem to think I’m the life of the party, and I always made it a point to regularly say “no” at invites, then laugh it off to lighten the mood. 😂
@isacubes
3 жыл бұрын
The INFP one is always so accurate.
@Odysseus1999
3 жыл бұрын
I want to talk with them but I feel like that would require them to actually catch up with me and I don’t see why anyone would want to know that. “Oh yeah, still don’t have my drivers license. Yeah, I’m pretty depressed. Life is a mess right now and I totally have time to hang out with you.” Remind me why you like being friends with me again?
@woidd0311
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr ..
@nevenapetrova2521
3 жыл бұрын
@@Odysseus1999 Hahaha. Too relatable.
@thebluepineapplephoenix101
3 жыл бұрын
Not for me, why does it always have to be infp depressed and hates all their friends and never talk to them I get depressed easily but I liek being close with people...
@CrazyCanadianMofo
3 жыл бұрын
The "im here for the dogs" shirt was the most relatable part for me
@Tyda777
3 жыл бұрын
🙋🏾♀️ INFJ here, who else needs to categorise their friends to maintain sanity: work friends, high school friends, uni friends, gym friends .... Then i realise i have a lot of groups i just cant see them too often
@LenaFerrari
2 жыл бұрын
I'm a INFJ too and I can barely maintain one friend group at once lol I don't know how you people do it. Impressive
@lemogradient7526
3 жыл бұрын
The accuracy from INFJ. The different friend groups? Different friend groups having different invitations? Then not saying no? Then getting stressed having to juggle those different friend groups? Y es, that is m e.
@carolinethompson376
3 жыл бұрын
Urgh I get so stressed trying to keep people happy! (Infj)
@spiggly_digg
2 жыл бұрын
Wait you have more than one friend group?
@lynef
3 жыл бұрын
"All my different friend groups" Yeah, the only reason we burn out is because changing personalities that much in a day is tiring.😪
@erinshannon8031
3 жыл бұрын
This is my exact reasoning and no one gets it! 😂😴
@ComplicatedSimplicite
3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@khadija_1b
3 жыл бұрын
You didn’t have to expose us like that lmao 😭 changing personalities is tiring though ngl
@trubadorphotography2541
3 жыл бұрын
^ THIS! Yes, extremely tiring. 😱😴😆
@owdy3973
3 жыл бұрын
Everytime I deny an invitation to a party or whatever it is My brain: oh dude they're talking about you being so not cool, they're going to bully you at school, your crush is going to hate you, you won't have any friend, you will be forever known as the so not fun guy and the party pooper And then couldn't sleep because of this
@bluerunner1241
3 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, the INFP only texting on holidays and birthdays You forgot to mention the stress beforehand of wondering if you should text a specific person or not, since you don't know how close they consider you, or worrying about if they'll think it's creepy that you know their birthday, when in reality, you just write down every single person's birthday that you know just to be able to say happy birthday to them
@r_r11111
3 жыл бұрын
Ok..As an INFP , i was thinking to set a reminder for everyones Birthday. JUST THINKING from past 2 weeks and hasn't done yet.
@diegojavier7371
3 жыл бұрын
Ahh yes, the typical INFP social anxiety. Should I send this text? Will she/he think it’s weird? Then comes the post-send anxiety, oh dear God
@markno.
3 жыл бұрын
I used to write down everyone's birthday on my calendar or book 😂 even now I still memorize some of the birthdays of my classmates from years ago even when I never think about them anymore
@drkurt4621
3 жыл бұрын
Neah, I just remember them all. I still know the birthdays of my ex ex girlfriends, ahah, and I didn't stop sending them a birthday message, talking with them on their birthday, not even after we broke up. I had to wait 1 or 2 years to say:"Well... I guess it would be awkward?..., let's leave her be this time". Hard... But I did it. With my current girlfriend I was talking with her exclusively when I was saying happy birthday to her and when she was saying happy birthday to me for years, and we'd talk for some days straight and than I'd disappear, lol. But she's an INFJ, and oh, damn, she's perfect.
@drkurt4621
3 жыл бұрын
Just woke up from a post send anxiety, lol, but all worked well, she laughed, but that doesn't mean I'm not doubting that message, still.
@calopteryxsplendens6051
3 жыл бұрын
As an INFP I'm actually more of a constant doubter who is constantly afraid that I don't mean as much to my friends as they mean to me
@AJ-lg2sg
3 жыл бұрын
Same, but also, that is what impulses me to leave without remorse
@SplashBeor
3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! 😢
@zahangirhossain3446
3 жыл бұрын
You got me😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@onuoce
3 жыл бұрын
Gushh samee🥲
@sonja5058
3 жыл бұрын
All the time 😥
@tenderhearthero9602
2 жыл бұрын
As an INFJ, I finally learned how to say no to invitations when I already had something else going. If, for some reason, they won't take no for an answer in the past, I'll admit, I'd lie and tell them I'd be there, then promptly go to the first thing I promised. I'd have guilt monologues throughout the night, though. Man, I'm glad I've learned to say no.
@madisonroy735
3 жыл бұрын
lol as an infp, I was shook by the accuracy of this. I thought not talking to your friends for years was just a me thing...
@tankifun6345
Жыл бұрын
No as infp i didnt see my friends 12 years and suddenly i would like to see some of them. Maybe in next group meeting.
@yem1122
3 жыл бұрын
As an INFJ I literally lost most of my friends like I love them but I just can’t keep up with them and they didn’t understand and always made me look like a terrible person so yeah now I’m alone
@anuuuujgggb
3 жыл бұрын
Same!
@HiFutureMeHowAreYou
3 жыл бұрын
Ditto man. I don't know how to tell them that I appreciate thier friendship without seeing them every single day. They make it a huge deal and basically don't understand how introverts work and make me look bad in the process
@rebah.4790
3 жыл бұрын
Same, it’s so hard and I don’t know what to do. I’m also neurodivergent (inattentive adhd), so I can’t even describe what I’m going through.
@spacebauble
3 жыл бұрын
I had a couple of friends since I was a tiny little thing. As we became 16 or so, they wanted to go out almost everyday. I lost 13 years of friendship because they didn't(want to) understand...
@natarixo9965
3 жыл бұрын
I lost mine and I'm honestly at my happiest now. Let go of people that didn't care enough and found new people. Sometimes it's best to fall in love your own company and find people to just hang out to see how it goes, it helps to take the pressure off finding a deep connection in a specific way
@lucia2715
3 жыл бұрын
I don't know if other INFPs do this as well, but when I talk to my closest friends (which I adore and treasure) and I get passionate about something and just keep on ranting for minutes, I always apologize at the end, thanking my friend for listening to my bullshit. Do others do this as well or do I have issues?
@prevostlaure5531
3 жыл бұрын
I don't apologize but by "well ... Who cares..." 😂😂
@bruna7947
3 жыл бұрын
I dont apolozige but from time to time after bothering her with endless text about stuff i like, i go: am i bothering u?? U know If u ever think im being boring, u can say right??? So far, im good 😬
@arona6692
3 жыл бұрын
Once I spoke for like twenty minutes of art history to girls from my biochemestry class in college. Suddenly my brain paused to scream internally : "WAIT THEY DON'T CARE WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK YOUR DOING" But they still talked to me after that. So yeah !
@euniqu
3 жыл бұрын
Those type of friends... *keep them* also one of my friends is also an infp so hes not really bothered when i rant to him LMAO he even finds it funny when i rant something to him, i was like “Its not funny!!” and he would say “no, its just hilarious you getting so worked up from a little thing and screaming it to me” overall we understand each other, hes really cool :D but yeah to other types of my friend, i always say sorry after talking too long CJDNND
@dibyadasgupta7984
3 жыл бұрын
I dunno, when its comes to talking or texting with my close frnds, im very active
@purpleshoes77
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an infp. And my friend just sent me yesterday a message about me being a low maintenance friend. Where they don't need to check on me regularly just to make sure i'm still their friend. 😂😂😂
@Odysseus1999
3 жыл бұрын
I had a good friend of mine who used a birthday message to attempt to catch up with me two weeks ago. We did, inevitably. I miss him, but probably like 50% of my relationships are tainted with feeling like a burden to them, so who knows when I’ll talk to him next lol. Working on myself, then maybe we can talk ab what I’M UP TO.
@chllry4155
3 жыл бұрын
Fr me and my friends talk a lot but we can go a year without taking and we are still besties - INFP
@20031bibi
3 жыл бұрын
my bestie's an infp and this is so true lol
@anamikaojha2645
3 жыл бұрын
@@20031bibi true they need to be really understandable we can spend a whole year without talking, I have few friends and they are enough for me 😁
@anamikaojha2645
3 жыл бұрын
This always happen with me😅😅
@padgettfarmer
3 жыл бұрын
My mom is an ISFJ and the loyalty is so strong with that one, The Three Musketeers is based on her personality, Alexandre Dumas was her next door neighbor growing up, true story
"Dude you should come out of your room and hang out with us sometimes!" Me as an INTJ: *quietly whispers* ...no
@aviralsinghal1274
3 жыл бұрын
As an INFP I would even give my life for my friends. But the problem is i dont have a friend. 😂😭
@cappuchino_creations
3 жыл бұрын
Omg, I feel you.
@AJ-lg2sg
3 жыл бұрын
Hi, we can play together some online game whenever you feel lonely.
@Gabriela323
3 жыл бұрын
It’s hard to connect with someone at such a deep level.
@CandyApples4ever
3 жыл бұрын
I have an intj and enfj friend. I feel so lucky.
@freestang6662
3 жыл бұрын
Also INFJ: "Oh, you can't drive me home from having major surgery because your dog has separation anxiety? No, that's cool. Sure, I'll totally help you re-roof your house when I recover."
@bluebellbell3725
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. And weirdly I like it more when I help people, than being just "social". It's meaningful
@thirzasnijders9618
3 жыл бұрын
For real doing the most for some peopke and they can't even give you the bare minimum back...
@SirenUndine
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I'm not like this as much as I used to be. Like dude, not cool. Your dog will be good for an hour.
@cosmicmuse2900
3 жыл бұрын
Sht.. that's so true. A friend of mine once didn't come one of the most important performances of my life because she had "a little fight with her then boyfriend in the morning and was in a little bit of a bad mood the whole day". I ended up losing the competition after I had a panic attack on stage because I was so alone and scared. My other friends didn't show up either. Had the lamest excuses. Fast forward 2 years and I'm still letting them sleepover at my place whenever and spending a sht ton on them everytime we go out. I really don't know what to do with myself. It's not even like I'm like this for any reason. I am just incapable of seeing flaws in people. Or people for that matter.
@powerhouse6165
3 жыл бұрын
This is highly accurate. (INTJ) my friends have stopped inviting me to things and are genuinely suprised and happy whenever I show up, at this point I'm welcome to join anyone at any time but I'm always listed as "possibly going"
@kilo3755
3 жыл бұрын
As an INFP I have one very close friend I’ve had for 10 years and I’m so clingy and text them 24/7 but with my other not so close friends I avoid any possible calls or hang outs- haha
@alyssa471
3 жыл бұрын
Seriously I just wanna be friends with FJ. Thats it.
@paris1461
3 жыл бұрын
Okay me too
@oraxivaelteva325
3 жыл бұрын
What are you? If you are an INTJ or INTP.....believe me as an INTJ I can say..... FJs are very boring... (my mom is an INFJ)...she is so boring
@sanjeev.111
3 жыл бұрын
@Chloe Hancock but Frank is an INFJ I think
@paris1461
3 жыл бұрын
@@oraxivaelteva325 oh really? I'm an INTJ but I really get along with INFJs , I have 3 INFJ friends but the key point is they exactly know when to leave me alone,they kinda balance the relationship because I can be so bitter lol and they can sweeten things if that makes sense 😂
@alyssa471
3 жыл бұрын
According to the test things im ENFJ but I dont rly think I am
@Chigger
3 жыл бұрын
"I have got the _best_ idea!" Me: "Okay, now _that_ one's ENFP."
@annaf4720
3 жыл бұрын
Me, an enfp, messaging my best friend who is also enfp: hey do you want to come see Hamilton with me when we are in London? Tickets just went on sale for those dates... they sell out fast... they're actually not as expensive as they can be... I'm worried we will miss out... okay I bought them lol please give me $200 Her: completely okay with this decision.
@selmakaplanoglu2547
3 жыл бұрын
hahah I thought the exact same!! That's just how we talk!!!
@consuvideo2165
3 жыл бұрын
Well... I don't say “the BEST idea”, but I say “a GREAT idea”... I think it's the same thing, no? 🤔
@LokheeNyx
3 жыл бұрын
@@annaf4720 HAMILTON YOO! You've got great taste - another random ENFP
@sofiebonaparte7831
3 жыл бұрын
@@consuvideo2165 basically the same thing lol
@bridgettelair370
3 жыл бұрын
My friend, who I am pretty sure is an INFJ, says I'm the only one who doesn't send paragraphs of texts to her like she's my therapist. She showed me one, it was terrifying. -an INTP
@breeeeeaaathofthewild
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an* INFJ and can relate. But I often send super long replies back so yk.
@Chigger
3 жыл бұрын
The only people who should be subject to therapy are therapists themselves. They need a taste of their own "medicine".
@mysticfox1563
3 жыл бұрын
The only reason I do that to my INFJ is she uses her feelings radar on me and makes me aware that I have feelings. You open up an INTJ’s feelings and things get weird.
@macesimms4904
3 жыл бұрын
@@breeeeeaaathofthewild as an INFJ, I either text huge paragraphs or text short chopped sentences. No in between 😭
@e.moon_
3 жыл бұрын
@@macesimms4904 relatable as an Intp
@HuntieG
3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFJ, I can confirm I’m the mom friend and therapy friend 😂
@FruitySwift
3 жыл бұрын
My mom is INFP And she said she did that exactly! Like she hadn't had any interaction with someone and then when they texted her she was like: "Oh yeah...I remember you."
@KN11F3D
3 жыл бұрын
Me as an INFJ: Huh, so that's what it feels like. I don't ever get invited to anything, so how would I know?
@RandomGuy-uj7ce
3 жыл бұрын
I know right, why INFJ's doesn't get invited, well it's good not getting invited for less anxiety
@Hunter-sx9uj
3 жыл бұрын
I invite myself. They can all suffer.
@tamaraleon395
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah me too.
@trig.destiny2640
3 жыл бұрын
We dont get invited cus our friends know and they think we won't be interested in going
@angkhoanguyen8113
3 жыл бұрын
As an INFJ, yes I will go to a friend reunion even though I am sick as hell. And then they had the audacity to introduce me to a pyramid scheme. 😒😒😒😒
@StephanieJeanne
3 жыл бұрын
Aww crap! 💀😂
@dinkin_flicka14
3 жыл бұрын
So fucking true 😂😂
@sarah52292
3 жыл бұрын
I cant even tell you how many times I’ve had old high school friends reach out to me only to sell me something. I get disappointed every time.
@Dextrous90
3 жыл бұрын
@@sarah52292 Ah darn, this reminds me. I just missed my high school reunion... By about 15 years, give or take. Oh well!
@SpyroShurtagul
3 жыл бұрын
SAME though! It was kinda weird when someone from high school invited me to coffee when I didn't really even talk to them much to begin with, but they were nice and I knew them AND I DIDN'T WANT TO SAY NO. And then it was a 1 on 1 try to get me into a pyramid scheme and i was like "uuummmmm... I'll think about it????????"
@rawanmohy1768
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INTP and this is so true, I communicate better with my friends when I text them than in real life (I just sit completely silent) but while texting I'm very talkative and comfortable
@monikagawlik3881
3 жыл бұрын
I am not INTP, but this is what "best friend" mean to me, being in touch by texting
@amorinnihil
3 жыл бұрын
I am INTP but I'm a bad texter, I'm better in person, but I no meet people in person. 😢
@monikagawlik3881
3 жыл бұрын
@@amorinnihil if you don't meet people in person how do you know you are better at this than at texting? 🤨
@amorinnihil
3 жыл бұрын
@@monikagawlik3881 sorry, i meant I haven't met people in person since I graduated. Highschool and my 2 years at college were how i gathered this information.
@mechadoggy
3 жыл бұрын
I used to prefer texting over talking until I became too lazy to text with all the typing since I found it far more efficient for me to just speak paragraphs instead of texting paragraphs. (Now if I could have a keyboard attachment, then we’re rolling)
@note2self88
3 жыл бұрын
Frank james helping me understand the 16 types so when I assign them to my characters it’s a solid foundation for their development throughout the plot.
@doctordestructo3360
Жыл бұрын
LMAO same. Sometimes I like to imagine my characters while watching this and see if it lines up.
@nandiewolmarans3919
3 жыл бұрын
You would think the ISFJ is an exaggeration... But no. It's 100% accurate.
@nightfall_9411
2 жыл бұрын
we're the most likely mbti to get emotionally dependent on someone. that is my case, and with my istp bestie.
@the_letti0584
Жыл бұрын
@@nightfall_9411 same… I’d like to set a laughing emojy after my comment but staying up all night wondering how i made somebody feel and how they feel about me is extremly not funny
@Megan_Fiorilla
3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP yes... And if no one wants to come we do it alone.. How I ended up doing a tour of south east Asia as a graduation present to myself...Got sick of everyone saying they wanted to come and then back out. So many epic stories form that trip...A few years later I did this test and scored ENFP one of the major caricaturists was spontaneity. And I thought.. I'm not that spontaneous. Its not like I would randomly hop on a plain to the other side of the wor-OH I DID THAT!!! And then I burst out manically laughing... only I was on a bus and I was thinking to myself so once again i am manically laughing in public for no apparent reason.. Wait.. why did I start writing this again?
@ScytheMeter
3 жыл бұрын
Because it’s too relatable for you lol
@meherinrahman1451
3 жыл бұрын
That eez what we do. 😄😄 One time I dragged my friend (most likely INTJ) to the biggest park of the country on foot only to find the park don’t allow people with school uniform(😑) and we had to return all the way to college on foot again and my backpack was so heavy that she had to carry it then it started raining. I have no idea why but I enjoyed that day. (Of course my friend was not TOO happy) I'm sorry I didn’t realise I wrote so much. 😅
@ayaalioua2378
2 жыл бұрын
Lmao yes as an enfp I would definitely go on an adventure on my own and enjoy it
@the_letti0584
Жыл бұрын
Can all ENFPs just force their isfj friends to get on such a trip with them? Even when we ISFJs say it’s a bad idea or dont want to… it’s just what our mind declares to not be completely reckless but we need that kind of friend that pulls us out and makes us experience more than we would on our own
@carlisaflamel9933
3 жыл бұрын
The INFJ was SPOT ON. I hate saying no or cancelling on my friends so i end up going to way too many events than what i want to
@shriyapalsule4790
3 жыл бұрын
SAME!!! As an INFJ I too think like that what if they think I am ignoring them while I am NOT but still feel bad and repeat that thing over and over in my head until I forget it *which I cant* even tho I am sick and wanna go home I still think about ' what if they think I am ignoring them AAAAAAAHHHHHH' so gotta say we have that in common 😃
@sarah52292
3 жыл бұрын
Very bold of you FJ to make the INFJ seem like they have a lot of friends 😂
@ezogh3826
3 жыл бұрын
I mean... I’m an INFJ, and I have tonnes of acquaintances, large circles of friends, smaller groups, inner circles, random besties. I’m exhausted from saying no and ghosting people all the time, but I love people so... 👉👉
@ConvenientlyShapedUsername
3 жыл бұрын
I used to have a lot of friends bc I didn't hide my charismatic side..
@onigiri115
3 жыл бұрын
I used to have alot of friends , now I only have one
@ConvenientlyShapedUsername
3 жыл бұрын
@@onigiri115 Same!
@autisticdancer
2 жыл бұрын
INFJ here and I used to have a large group of friends that slowly fell apart. Now I don't have as many friends but I have smaller friend groups that I'm more invested in.
@afc9511
3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP who started my Master's program last minute based on a degree I thought was fun due to a drama I watched, I vibe with this.
@MVangelmx
3 жыл бұрын
Someone: “hey you wanna come to this party I’m going to with me?” Me an INTJ planning my scape: “That sounds fun, I’ll let you know ok.” (Never lets them know cuz I have no intention of going.”
@ry8880
3 жыл бұрын
INFP: "It was so great hanging out with you, I can't believe it's been 10 years, wow. Alright, well...See you in another 10 years" Frank told the truth 😂 It's so damn accurate, it happened to me like for real 🤣
@Wingedkitten345
3 жыл бұрын
I’m INFP and that was a very accurate representation of my friendship. Friends be warned, you’re the one that’s gotta start all our conversations (unless I’m asking about your cat)
@helenwood8482
3 жыл бұрын
Same here. I never initiate conversations because I worry that I am making demands of someone who may not really want me around.
@TentenchiAMVs
3 жыл бұрын
@@helenwood8482 You just made me realize... I think I'm more insecure than I think I am... Does that make sense? I think it makes sense.
@oldkitten8598
3 жыл бұрын
Friend: "Hey, that was a fun activity. Let's all go out and have some salads." ISFP: "Oh, I'm sorry, but I can't. I gotta go walk my cat. Ok, byeee." Me, ISTP: "Salads. Really? I'm gonna go, but you guys 'enjoy' your salads."
@sViviftie
3 жыл бұрын
Damn the ENTP was spot on! :D Also, I'm an ENFP but the INFJ one hit me so accurately. Always trying to dance at all parties at once and be there for everyone - but even ENFPs energy is limited, even if we don't show it :D
@pretzel9093
3 жыл бұрын
Is it bad that I saw "every ten years friend" and I immediately knew- "Oh that's me. :D "
@ellybean7354
3 жыл бұрын
Most of my best friends are ENFPs. I have one ISTJ friend and we are rivals in trivia, lol. -INFP.
@Cindy99765
3 жыл бұрын
We love you INFPs!! You're the more calm and collected version of us! -Sincerely, a giddy ENFP
@TheWhistlingBireme
3 жыл бұрын
@@Cindy99765 Cutest reply award!🥇❤️
@gamercj3682
3 жыл бұрын
@@Cindy99765 Bro! I LOVE ENFPs My best friend is ENFP My favorite anime character is ENFP - A big lovely boy (INFP)
@gamercj3682
3 жыл бұрын
You are so lucky to have such friends I only have ONE ENFP friend😥
@ellybean7354
3 жыл бұрын
@@Cindy99765 Thanks! You guys are awesome!
@lvrrain
3 жыл бұрын
It seems I’m the only ENFJ here
@yobiyobi8138
3 жыл бұрын
3:52 "Til next time, stay cool and attractive." *bold of you to assume I was either cool or attractive to begin with*
@Toypianist95
3 жыл бұрын
The amount of birthday messages I've written as the only conversation I have with people. I mean, "friends" -INFP
@HannahNicollet
3 жыл бұрын
ENTP: "Whose got a conversation going that I can jump into and entirely dominate?" It's more like a service I provide to introverts who clearly are already getting tired of bearing the weight of conversation. Y'all are welcome ;)
@garciamartinezeduardo9657
3 жыл бұрын
This.
@breeeeeaaathofthewild
3 жыл бұрын
thankyou. 🙏💞 -an introvert who appreciates people like you /g
@yoon7863
3 жыл бұрын
Fr us introverts cant hold up a conversation
@Vomitodegatoo
3 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@kimberlycuthbert2510
3 жыл бұрын
Literally love ENTPs for this exact reason 😂
@danielahonorato4644
3 жыл бұрын
As an INTP who's had a very close email-friend across the Atlantic Ocean for almost 15 years now and only met her in person once, can totally confirm xD
@monikagawlik3881
3 жыл бұрын
This is me too, but I am ISFJ
@vglove8566
3 жыл бұрын
As an isfj who values loyalty in friendship a lot, yeah that seems accurate
@michaelninos7989
3 жыл бұрын
As an INFJ friend, i say blunt stuff to anyone including friends and non-friends
@dinanokhbeh6608
3 жыл бұрын
My sister is INFJ and she is exactly like this , it's like she's force to go every where that her friend's tell, otherwise she end up thinking " i'm the worst" 🙂
@tealovinggeek2192
3 жыл бұрын
I didn't expect the INFP one. 😂 Honestly, once I'm comfortable around you and my anxiety that you might be a murderer has faded, I'm the clingiest, most talkative friend. I mean, then my energy levels crash quickly and I turn silent, but I mean, until that point.
@macegamma431
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 laughs with momentum spurt of energy
@imbored6135
3 жыл бұрын
Me: wow I’m early! The video was uploaded 8 seconds ago! Comments: 12 hours ago Me: **cries in confusion**
@sanjeev.111
3 жыл бұрын
Samee like how tf??
@suicune2001
3 жыл бұрын
Patreon.
@imbored6135
3 жыл бұрын
sanjeev kumar Ik!
@imbored6135
3 жыл бұрын
suicune2001 Wha-
@krisswithone1541
3 жыл бұрын
All of a sudden I want an ISFJ for a friend lol. Also as an INFJ, it's so hard to really say NO without having to worry you hurted their feelings. That's why I felt pretty proud of myself when I said no to an invite for the first time.
@the_letti0584
Жыл бұрын
Feeling what you said… im an isfj and i stayed up almost all night on friday cuz i was wondering if i how i made a good friend of mine feel
@chai_knees3554
3 жыл бұрын
Friend: Hey wanna get lunch with me? ISFJ (me): I was going to use this time to study for my exam, but I already said no to lunch yesterday... I can't say no again I'd feel too guilty and like a bad friend... but this exams is important... ISF (me): sure, I'll have lunch with you!
@ellulove7543
3 жыл бұрын
Me as an infp: *started talking to my childhood bestfriend after months out of nowhere* (i haven't talked to the other one since we switched schools back in 2018 even though we're still in the same class-)
@glitchyglitchy3925
3 жыл бұрын
Bold of you to assume the INTJ would hang out with anyone
@krista584
3 жыл бұрын
Lol. I *did* actually hang out with a friend last night - after making plans to hang out but ending up taking multiple rain checks, for a year 🙈
@jillianchambers5483
3 жыл бұрын
bold of you to assume the other personality types don't annoy us into doing so
@glitchyglitchy3925
3 жыл бұрын
@@jillianchambers5483 It's a test of resolve to see which of us will cave in first.
@HisameArtwork
3 жыл бұрын
well he didn't because teh calendar invite was never sent
@fiorellalescano
3 жыл бұрын
Hey, that dude in the back (0:53) seems to be drunk. 😂
@SwedishTourist
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha didn’t notice the Sims😂
@miahan8988
3 жыл бұрын
I had to check and I saw it 😂 It´s even funnier bcs me (ENFP) and my ISFP friend have been playing Sims 4 for the last week :D
@TokioTE
3 жыл бұрын
It looks like FJ with a ponytail
@simonevwee3459
3 жыл бұрын
loolll
@earlyonion
3 жыл бұрын
That was too accurate for ISFJ, haha -- except I never got around to the 'lie to the cops' bit. I already lost all my friends before that could happen. It hurts.
@haiirokishi9347
2 жыл бұрын
I have 2 friends that I See 1-2 Times a month or soo... And yeah loyal especialy to familly... But covering a suspect... No chance there xD
@leatucker9955
3 жыл бұрын
'leaving too early to "walk the cat"' is the reason I accepted that the test actually gave true results that I'm isfp 😂
@CaseyB8783
3 жыл бұрын
ISTP here, I generally tend to randomly stop talking during a conversation (over text) and worry all of my friends, then casually show back up a few days later continuing the conversation like nothing happened.
@naftherainbownerd
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an infp and I do the same thing.
@qwertyuiopasdfghjkl9879
3 жыл бұрын
I do the same thing and they always end up thinking I got mad at something lol
@CaseyB8783
3 жыл бұрын
@@qwertyuiopasdfghjkl9879 Is that Dead in your pfp?
@qwertyuiopasdfghjkl9879
3 жыл бұрын
@@CaseyB8783 yessir
@CaseyB8783
3 жыл бұрын
@@qwertyuiopasdfghjkl9879 It's amazing just so you know
@biihisme
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INTP and most of my friendships are online. I get nervous whenever they bring up getting to meet each other in real life- seriously guys, you'd be disappointed, let's keep it this way :,)
@curiouschildalways8991
3 жыл бұрын
Same..🤞🏾
@usurpererenyeager649
3 жыл бұрын
As an INTP, I hope you find an irl besfren that you can fully trust. I personally have an INFP besfren and I surprised even myself with how caring I can actually be for people I love.
@helenwood8482
3 жыл бұрын
I'm INFP and can confirm that people who get to know me online cannot hide their disappointment when we meet.
@curiouschildalways8991
3 жыл бұрын
@@helenwood8482 why? 😂
@hanse.1576
3 жыл бұрын
I have an intp friend. I'm intp too. We talk thru chat, we say hi, catch up for a few minutes, and never talk to each other again for the next few months. True friendship.
@djdragons69420
3 жыл бұрын
Lmao😂😂 btw i am an intp too
@iluvu2378
3 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@sofiereads
3 жыл бұрын
Isfj- overly loyal friend....yep this is me ..would literally do anything for my friend including spending 3 days straight with them dancing nonstop on tictoc and try my best to keep strained smile, no matter how much pain I'm in as long as their HAPPY I can deal with it...cause thats what friends are for😁🤪😫😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😃😃😃😃
@meghasanjeev8176
3 жыл бұрын
Do take time for yourself too Sincerely an enfj
@sofiereads
3 жыл бұрын
@@meghasanjeev8176 aww your so sweet, thank you😊👍
@pritishabasak7941
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP and I last meet my friends after 3 years (except my bestfriend) and now another 3 years or more😅😅and I'm not in a group with anyone (to be honest I don't know what to say in front of them and I always messed up😔)
@shiluz17
3 жыл бұрын
ENTP. Never before i was so offended by something i 100% agree with
@WolfoxBR
3 жыл бұрын
INTJ: accurate. Again. Not that I've ever done that. No, sir, no. Wait, what is that, a ISFP walking his cat? Look!
@aestheticpotato2349
3 жыл бұрын
The INFJ one is so accurate... Painfully accurate.
@bryannaing6316
2 жыл бұрын
As an INFP with a 60-40% split on introversion, I can agree, I do make a bunch of last minute plans, coerce my friends to join, then basically vanish when everything is done
@alaasaid4503
Жыл бұрын
Me too
@AndreaCrisp
3 жыл бұрын
This one is actually scarily accurate for me. My best friend is an ENFJ and had to stalk me for a while, before I caught on that she really liked me. Lol So I basically talk to her, my mom, and siblings regularly. Other friends not so much. But when someone is in need, I'm there in a second even if we haven't talked in a while. ~ INFP
@Sam-bc9ll
3 жыл бұрын
I love that ENFP outfit Frank 😎. Also, the *heroic music* “INTJ never sent the calendar invite” killed me 🤣
@gambit5304
3 жыл бұрын
I’m an INTJ, and if someone asks to hang out, I would reply with “I can’t, I have something else to do”, because I want to be alone. Edit: Fixing the comment
@ajunicefor24h15
3 жыл бұрын
ISFJ- records everything. That thing you did 10years ago, in the alley of that shop at 4:43 pm, *we remember*
@ari_124
3 жыл бұрын
ESFJ but yeah, me too 😂
@user-el6my6vi7p
3 жыл бұрын
don’t know my type but INTJ in this is spot on. when it comes down to it, i can have a good time and be social but beforehand i’m pretty reluctant to actually commit lol
@jammiedodgers13
3 жыл бұрын
"Oh yeah cool when are you free?" INTJ: **looks at empty calendar** **panic** "An indeterminable time in the future?"
@oraxivaelteva325
3 жыл бұрын
Frank Is INFJ......But sounds like all 16 personalities
@OrdinaryCritic
3 жыл бұрын
He’s alone with a camera. That’s his natural habitat.
@definitelynotjeffbezos4324
3 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: they're all different people
@marianarojas8878
3 жыл бұрын
How do you know that?
@ilke1018
3 жыл бұрын
no he just has 15 siblings
@oraxivaelteva325
3 жыл бұрын
@@ilke1018 ㅋㅋㅋ....
@Thr3leven
3 жыл бұрын
My infp friend would not, in fact, have many friends, but I dragged them by their hair when high-school ended and now they're a core part of our friend group I regret nothing -INTP
@alexgerweck4507
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP, and people who do this are my FAVORITE. I'm usually too anxious/lost in my own head to make friends unless someone more socially competent adopts me and forces me to talk to new people
@venusrodriguez534
3 жыл бұрын
My favorite people as a infp is the one that don't stop talking, I can say something to them but hear them makes me happy
@tiakhanna2192
3 жыл бұрын
I just realised my INTP friend is only my good friend because we live in different states and only talk on text because both of us hate calls👍
@aviralsinghal1274
3 жыл бұрын
Lucky you have a friend.
@duskzehedgie3840
3 жыл бұрын
Omg my mom is ESFJ and that was scary accurate. She gets so very mad when she's hungry 😂
@SMya-xk3jr
3 жыл бұрын
Enfp’s suggestions always seems so fun! I wish someone could book the things for me, I’m too lazy and nervous to do it myself.
@nirvaashah168
2 жыл бұрын
as an ENFP I'm too lazy too lol
@shardanielslewis359
3 жыл бұрын
INTJ never sent the calendar invite I think Frank is spying on me...
@ashleycnossen3157
3 жыл бұрын
Alright. We gotta stop with the ISTP handyman stuff. Ti/ni is interested in more than just building things. We are intelligent and diverse people.
@athayashafafelisha8764
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an istp but i can't fix things. In fact i'm the one who broke things :/
@codypdrummer
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Even the INTP is always the same and it's gotten to the point that I cannot relate to them anymore.
@vintageryn7217
3 жыл бұрын
As an ISTP who can’t fix, like, anything...I agree. 😅
@nospecialmeaning2
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe Frank doesn't have Ti-dom friends he can closely observe.
@multifandom2283
3 жыл бұрын
So true
@mooniebee84
3 жыл бұрын
INTP should be: just wanna talk about movies games or something like them
@sourgrapes7482
3 жыл бұрын
Nah, its more like: why are these idiots telling me about boys and gossip I HATE boys and gossip I just want to talk about philosophy and metaphysics and quantum mechanics and string theory WHATS SO HARD ABOUT THAT IT ISNT ROCKET SCIENCE PEOPLE... anyone wanna talk about rocket science?
@e.moon_
3 жыл бұрын
@@sourgrapes7482 (kinda) relatable
@yoon7863
3 жыл бұрын
@@sourgrapes7482 I really dont like gossip neither boys talk, but im not that smart 😂 I'd prefer talking about Anime, games, movies, series something like that
@Vomitodegatoo
3 жыл бұрын
@@sourgrapes7482 idk anything about rocket science but yea let's talk about it
@rupalibiswas7157
3 жыл бұрын
@@sourgrapes7482 it's so me. I really like topics like this
@annastasiaschoettler1491
3 жыл бұрын
ESTJ here... This is what ESTJs actually say to non-Timmy, real friends: "I'm so glad you're not stupid."
@anandaalvarez4336
3 жыл бұрын
Hello my opposite.. INFP here
@kaannagumanov1185
3 жыл бұрын
@@anandaalvarez4336 get out
@springday500
3 жыл бұрын
Scarily accurate. I know an ESFJ who is the literal description of a "hangry" friend. He's very very supportive towards his friends and also strongly expects the same thing from them as well. No one ever dares to let him down, just because we're all scared of his disappointed face.
@sometimesiwonderwheremymp323
3 жыл бұрын
My best friend is sometimes not aware we are not in contact... Because she is watching tv shows with me in her head.
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