I was married 20 and few years. One day, my ex and I got into a big fight and he said horrible things to me... the pain i saw in my kids face gave me the strength to get divorce. I pulled him to the side, I said “ give me two years and I will be out of your life”. Of course!! Like many other men, he gave me smile and went out with his friend.. Since that day, I worked , and prepared myself... one evening, He came from work and I said bye to him. He couldn’t believe it. I said, remember, today , it’s two years since I said I was moving out of your life. He looked at me and said “ you won’t survive without me” I stayed quiet and left. One year, passed... he looked for me, to apologize for everything he said and to thanks me , that I left him. He told me , I gave him, the opportunity to be better man. He was a good provider; he become a good child support. Lol. Don’t be afraid, my kids are happy. Has passed 8 years ... he asked me to married him many times. But, never looked back, like Tony said, took him to get divorced his family , meaning it’s over.... life it’s beautiful , I can’t waste my life with him. I’m happy, I don’t have a boyfriend but I have peace and two beautiful kids in college.
@aishawf
3 жыл бұрын
Now this is a testimony 👏🏿👍🏿👏🏿 Thanks for sharing...you really was a woman of your word and he was clearly not ready...if only more of us practiced the walk of self love and empowerment...from victim to victor...so here for it😊 And as you share it forced him to get his mind right and although it may never work out between you and him hopefully he will honour the next woman as a result...stay blessed sis 🙏🏿
@unapologeticallyauthentic2428
3 жыл бұрын
Amen, Thank you for sharing your testimony.. Its very encouraging 🙏🏾😊
@Godsonechild
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, I'm glad you had the courage to leave!
@shegotstandards
3 жыл бұрын
Loved your story comment the ultimate goal is peace for you and your children. You made the right decision by walking out of that marriage and it made you a better person and whole person as you healed. Furthermore, I'm glad you did not take him back because he probably would have done you worse. Thank you for being strong enough to be a woman of your word after 2 years. Keep moving forward and never, never look back! Only great and good things for you now.
@MariaGoncalves-uk6so
3 жыл бұрын
Inspirational
@Godsonechild
3 жыл бұрын
While watching every video I just can't stop laughing 😆. God pls bless him to become a Billionaire. This wisdom is priceless.
@paulamcnairunapaulagetic
3 жыл бұрын
PRICELESS
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
There is nothing out there even close to what Tony is teaching. PRICELESS!!!!!!!!!!!!
@mwanawevhu7537
3 жыл бұрын
Fee Fee ...Money is not everything....some things like Wisdom are worth more...plus God blesses and its nothing to do with money....a kind heart,good deeds those are important to God...not your bank balance.
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
@@mwanawevhu7537 I think she said that because Tony said he’s need to be a billionaire to purchase his own network so he can give us even more wisdom on these videos.
@arleciawhite7510
3 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@KL-000
3 жыл бұрын
The devil took 20 years off your life with the decoy but remember Gods promise “And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten” ❤️ Joel 2:25a
@paulamcnairunapaulagetic
3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@pooh4025
3 жыл бұрын
I felt that.
@Notinuse2435
3 жыл бұрын
♥️🙌🏾
@aletricefort9723
3 жыл бұрын
Yes Lord
@1moniqueceleste
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@cherh
3 жыл бұрын
One thing women struggle with is raising the kids with their father but do y'all not know the kids see EVERYTHING! They are secretly suffering. I pray strength over ALL women to NOT tolerate this type of ab*se just for the sake of keeping the family together. This stories are draining and heartbreaking 💔😔
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
So true sis, We must pray for the Father Almighty to give these women strength. @CherH
@TheCrisNAnissa
3 жыл бұрын
So true sis!
@cherh
3 жыл бұрын
@@coachnatishamommatish185 🙏🏾😌💕
@cherh
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheCrisNAnissa 💯
@suzetteconley101
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tony for your inspirational videos. You have boosted my confidence that I’m on the right path. I have a question . I feel like sometimes that I’m trying to date up. How do you know if you are expecting to much from a man ? Or is there such a thing?? Ty
@TaughtbySala
3 жыл бұрын
May God make you a billionaire for helping the world Tony amen
@breannn8238
3 жыл бұрын
Why do men get married if they are just going to act like this? This is so heartbreaking to listen to! Marriage is supposed to be something beautiful, not something that is ugly.
@blaquegirl77
3 жыл бұрын
Marriage is for Women not men. Men play games WHETHER they single or married because they go along with women because of pressure not to be alone and whatever benefits the woman is offering he doesn't want to give up.
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
@@blaquegirl77 😢
@twilliams3600
3 жыл бұрын
these are grown boys not men...remember there is a difference!
@breannn8238
3 жыл бұрын
@@twilliams3600 I really believe that marriage isn’t for everyone. Marriage takes a high level of maturity, unfortunately a lot of men today do not have it. I’m a believer in marriage, but in today’s world I wouldn’t be in a rush.
@twilliams3600
3 жыл бұрын
@@breannn8238 I agree That’s why Tony tells us to give these men 3 months at a time If after the first 3 months (that includes talking on the phone at least an hour with at least 10 dates, no sex!) and he doesn’t mention or want exclusivity then we have to keep it moving Only the serious ones will stick around We spend too much time on these dudes and “going with the flow” Nope! No more!
@RubyRoxxie
3 жыл бұрын
“This just ain’t clinical, this spiritual.” COME ON BROTHER TONY!!!! PREACH!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Soooo many people do not understand this!!!! You can NOT cure a demon with therapy and meds. You need deliverance! That goes for physical illness as well as mental. Wooooo that was GOD speaking through Tony. 🔥 Hope he listens to this!
@sarahjean-paul4979
3 жыл бұрын
That' s why i always pray "Jeremiah 33:3" everytime i meet a man. God always reveal his TRUE intentions and character within weeks! We have to protect ourselves ladies. Be bless
@msbarbhenry
3 жыл бұрын
I need to start doing this because the next man in my life will be my husband. I have no desire to date several different men. I only want to date & be courted by my purpose partner. I’m done with decoys, grown boys, representatives etc Lord please prepare me for the one you have for me 🙏🏾
@TheGoodLifeStarterPack
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, sis! I put this in my affirmations and will do the same!
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
Father Almighty, give this woman and her children strength, Children see everything you have to watch what you do or say in front of children. This is very sad, stand and stay strong madam.🙏💃🤝
@WanyReyes
3 жыл бұрын
Amen!🙏🏽
@cheekscheeks5840
3 жыл бұрын
Most definitely, with these videos she will get the knowledge and the strength for herself n her kids 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@coachlizeth9430
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
“Your presence sanctions the environment. You are reinforcing all of his behaviors by sitting and waiting.” TG
@Glamrocs
3 жыл бұрын
Lord give her and the children strength 🙏🏾
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
@Glamrocs 🙏💃🤝In Jesus Name Amen.
@Jas-qm4cg
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This comment is much needed and very uplifting!❤️
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
This poor woman has got to be worn out because I was worn out listening😔to this email. Much love to you Sis. I pray you get some much needed support and encouragement from your family and friends to help you walk away from this toxic marriage. You deserve it! 🙏🏾 for you and healing of your ❤️.
@Amorantasia1
3 жыл бұрын
If he’s not into her then he’s into someone else! Gone about your business sis! I’ve been there done that!
@cheekscheeks5840
3 жыл бұрын
I think we can all agree to that it’s hard but you will get threw . That’s what she needs to know 🙌🙌 praying for her
@terry21651
3 жыл бұрын
I agree and everything that is coming out of his mouth is just an excuse. Women need to stop begging men and bending over backwards to be with them. She needs to move on so he can move on too because that is exactly what he wants to do. He knew his ex 16 years he told her. Really?? So everyone you ever known needs to be told to her? I do not think so. EXCUSE
@InspiredUno
3 жыл бұрын
The way that Tony is able to read people is amazing!!! Even down to type compatibility by looks. This is so much real truth!!!
@mslady312
3 жыл бұрын
Tony a Pisces that's why
@MichElle-py8lk
3 жыл бұрын
@@mslady312 a gift from God he says he’s doesn’t believe in horoscopes.
@IshanaeS
3 жыл бұрын
@@MichElle-py8lk exactly.
@ingridfrancetravels
3 жыл бұрын
“This was the distraction before destiny. This was the decoy that the Devil sent to make you lose 20 years of your life.” “20 years you forgot who you are. 20 years you lost all respect for yourself, but today you got it back!”
@MsPLove04
3 жыл бұрын
You're really being a blessing to us today, Tony.
@deborahlemon780
3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@librasunaquariusmoon
3 жыл бұрын
Right got a few vids today 😊
@ladylauralee93
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, he is. Great advice. Those types are going as pigs to the slaughter and will lead the entire family to the slaughter. Get out!! Before it's too late...🗣🗣🗣
@officialnotesonlifepodcast
3 жыл бұрын
@16:20 I called it! The man probably has secrets, but he is upset because he feels trapped in his marriage. He has a secret self, and he has stayed with her because she has only accepted part of him for 20 years. He resents her because he knows that what needs to happen will only happen if HE does it; he knows that she will always make excuses for him and never leave. He hates that his treatment of her has not forced her to leave and he has to be the bad guy.
@mslady312
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. He wants her to leave but she won't.smh
@lajaydesign2344
3 жыл бұрын
🎯🎯🎯BULLSEYE!!!!
@yolandawright789
3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@missmarymack3457
3 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Very well said❤️
@jacquelineking8706
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I am a witness; 20 + years of a toxic relationship. Every time I think of him I think about why he is my exhusband. I'm doing so much better without him. You have to have self love.
@Godsonechild
3 жыл бұрын
Good for you!!!!
@sotoon2219
3 жыл бұрын
Same hero sis. Self love is crucial
@goddessofpeace4133
3 жыл бұрын
Tony dropping these videos back to back like the hottest mixtapes and im loving it!!! Every time i think about watching something else here comes Tony and i come straight to it!! Appreciate u Tony!
@queenofthesouth4205
3 жыл бұрын
Yesssss
@missmarymack3457
3 жыл бұрын
Yesssssssssss
@tshawn1356
3 жыл бұрын
Blahahaha!!! Tony, with that back scratcher had me weak. Y'all come get Tony. He cutting up again....
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
We need to get the belt to him😉.
@nettas5437
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@tawanaedmond2694
3 жыл бұрын
I was crying laughing🤣🤣
@love7loyalty-MHA
3 жыл бұрын
He so naturally funny. I gets my chuckles every video 😂
@joycenash8271
3 жыл бұрын
Went through it for 16 years. God told me to leave. I was lollygagging like Lot' wife and then God showed me what was going to be my end result if I did not leave. Open my eyes and I said no. Found me an apartment, packed up the kids, got me a moving truck and never went back. I had to get over myself because God told me, "what part of he doesn't want you, you don't understand? Go do what you got to do." Filed for that child support. This was in 1998. But it is still relevant today. It took a lot, but God had to show me how it was killing me and affecting my children. And proved to me He would take care of me and He did. Single mom, but God blessed us. I am a true and living testimony. If I would have stayed, I would have eventually taken him out. Real talk.
@quinesmithbsnrn6586
3 жыл бұрын
I’m weak off the “dingaling” comment and Tony’s facial expressions 🤣😂🤣
@vanisacampbell5261
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 so dramatic
@kikic7637
3 жыл бұрын
Thought it was just me🤣🤪
@menashadrain8649
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@aries81M
3 жыл бұрын
You have to protect kids from these kinda men
@PeaceBeStill-
3 жыл бұрын
Yes protect the innocent!
@lashondarochell7584
3 жыл бұрын
Praying for this woman and her children!!! GOD please give them the peace that passeth all understanding 🙏🙏🙏 P.S. GOD continue to BLESS 🙏 Tony and his family 🙏 give him the strength and the peace of God 🙏
@kimsmith819
3 жыл бұрын
Abuse of any kind definitely takes a toll on us
@melaniegonzalezart8506
3 жыл бұрын
Amazing thanksgiving lecture. I am a young woman who was "addicted" to nasty movies for 16 years!!! Over half my life. On my journey to stopping forever, therapy for my childhood traumas etx, prayer, exercise, organizing my space and more, I found your channel Tony, on the topic of "Situationships". I am a blessed tribe member and your channel is helping me immensely make the decision, WRITTEN down on paper months ago, that I will never watch or partake in that realm again. Four months out, I have moved cities, left all my friends who were also into that and never helped when I said I thought it was a problem for me, and the changes go on. As Socrates says, "The more I learn, the more I know nothing."
@WovenPsalm
3 жыл бұрын
Very deep and heavy. Prayers for healing for the entire family. May she seek peace for herself and her children.
@alignedwithchrist
3 жыл бұрын
I just signed up for my Life Coach Certification…… Excited!!
@coachnatishamommatish185
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Toyia🎊💃🤝
@empresspam-life-coach3074
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@IntrovertStation
3 жыл бұрын
Did he say it ends tonight at 11:59pm or tomorrow at 11:59pm?
@MissPrettySweetC
3 жыл бұрын
Yayyyy!! Congratulations!!
@MissPrettySweetC
3 жыл бұрын
@@IntrovertStation Tomorrow
@officialwatchamber
3 жыл бұрын
Tony preached the paint off the walls with this one 🔥🙌🏼 The Lord was definitely in the room! Sending healing to the woman in the email!! ❤️❤️
@anishamc5890
3 жыл бұрын
I really try not to laugh 🤣🤣🤣 but this man is too funny he keeps it real though!
@lashondarochell7584
3 жыл бұрын
Sis I am laughing right now Blessings 🙏 to you and your family Happy Thanksgiving 🦃🦃🦃
@margyiphillips4931
3 жыл бұрын
The children need therapy also. They have a false image of marriage and parenting. This woman has gone through so much. Thank you for sharing your story. Tony, thank you for answering the call of God.
@coachlizeth9430
3 жыл бұрын
Joining in prayer for this woman! May God give her wisdom and strength to leave that situation. “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles ; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint” Isaiah 40:31
@stilljocelyn4166
3 жыл бұрын
This is just heartbreaking 💔😔
@loveofmylifedance
3 жыл бұрын
Wheeew what a sad list-AND it can go on?! My heart breaks for her and those children!
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
Mine does too!
@sherlesscinema2024
3 жыл бұрын
TONY GASKINS, GOD BLESS YOU FOR TRUTH AND TRANSPARENCY.❤❤
@mslady312
3 жыл бұрын
Girl that grown boy is draggin u thru the mudd. Hes showing u many ways that he doesn't want u.
@jacquelinewilliams6572
3 жыл бұрын
Preach Tony. I see and feel the anointing all over you!
@TonyaNicole7
3 жыл бұрын
I took advantage of the Black Friday sale thanks Tony!!!!!!
@iscelaarias3957
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all those great comments. Today, I don’t have comments just a request.. My daughter, Leticia Gonzalez, 26 years , she is a paralegal and pre- law student is in the hospital very sick with Covid .... I am asking for prayers,for my baby, she got married in less than a year..Tony, I know, you are a very busy man.. I also know, you have a close communication with God , your son was a premature baby so i know you understand my pain....I have two kids, Leticia is my older baby, I am asking God to give her the strength to fight Covid. I work as surgical assistant with Covid patients and i feel so guilty, even when i took all precautions to avoid getting others sick, i hurt my baby.... please pray for my daughter she is my life... and to those who feel a man is your problem , don’t waste your time and energy with those with toxic personality, enjoy life with your babies, they grownup so fast....please I am asking for prayers....
@sylviasalcedo8569
3 жыл бұрын
I have a feeling we are going to see more of that back scratcher along with the purse charger 🤣🤣🤣👏🏼 Love these Tony marathons today! Thank you!
@NR-yt4ku
3 жыл бұрын
Sis if you feel like you are not strong enough to leave ask God to give you the strength you need and he will!!!!
@missmarymack3457
3 жыл бұрын
Yes he will! I’m a living witness to this❤️🙏
@yolamayo2689
3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this story. I lost 10 years in a horrible marriage. But February 2017 is when I decided to pack our two kids and leave. There were many tears , depression ect. I went through the healing process like that of grieving a death. Today at 46 the kids and I are blossoming ... it’s a beautiful thing😊
@shamisomabota9889
3 жыл бұрын
This story is sad, the lack of intimacy and understanding is too much 😭😭
@salenasheppherd7551
3 жыл бұрын
This almost made me cry.......even though me and my son's father are divorced my heart still yearns for his deliverance and healing. Tony's spiritual diagnosis of this woman's husband is the SAME as my ex! Lord Jesus I pray you help this woman's husband.
@BreeziDeezi
3 жыл бұрын
Tony please keep speaking from your heart bc that delivery is what really Gets people to listen even in moments of being offended your delivery captures listeners. Man That email described my 30 going on 19 year old ex to a T! I got your soul tie course today because I still have those dreams so I know I need even more help! I’ll be 27 next month and there’s so much ahead as long as i don’t look back.
@h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426
3 жыл бұрын
Come on PASTOR 👊🏾 Don’t let somebody else’s crisis to give you a crisis 👌🏾
@virtuous_committed
3 жыл бұрын
Why do we as women think that we can change these men, or the man you're married to, or the man you are dating? She dated him for five years, I'm sure in five years she saw the red flags and even the burning buildings, so apparently she thought she could change him. Now 20 years later the situation has escalated and has gotten worse. She has given so much of herself that she has lost her own identity and strength. As the saying goes "when a person shows you who they are believe them". I am sure within 5 years he showed his true colors but she just ignored it, but now it's amplified to the 15th power.
@allthingsmelanietj5545
3 жыл бұрын
TG done went into prophetic mode!!! I’m here for it.
@misst72
3 жыл бұрын
Whew. This message is the truth!!! I send my prayers of strength to this lady and her children. Thank you for this message, Tony.
@paulamcnairunapaulagetic
3 жыл бұрын
Whew you PREACHING TODAY!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾this is a WHOLE WORD, I PRAY SHe receives it. Praying for her courage to leave and pursue GODS BEST 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@peaceful_and_blessed2879
3 жыл бұрын
I love the way you explained this Tony. I hope she feels this. Yesss, let those tears rain on your soul so you can grow beautifully for you and your children! God will be holding your hand along your journey.. Got to go.. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌
@pearladu6381
3 жыл бұрын
You are preaching my brother You have discerned diagnosed and given the treatment God bless you for encouraging our sister Sister be strong the Lord is with you
@natashafreeman2220
3 жыл бұрын
Prayers that she can get out of this relationship and restore herself mentally and spiritually.
@danaj7801
3 жыл бұрын
Preach Tony! My children and I went through the same thing. Coaching saved my life and made me stronger. After my ex spit in my face and told me I meant nothing to him. The following week while he was at work I hired a moving company to move my children and I out of an abusive and emotional environment. It has been 5 bless and golden years from being liberated. Now I am living my life like it’s golden. As Jilly from Philly would sing it. I took back my freedom. 😊
@sherstoncalhoun2080
3 жыл бұрын
You are a comedian, with pearls of wisdom, sent by God! Bless you and may you allow the Lord to continue to use you to encourage women to raise their standards!
@TingleTherapyASMR1
3 жыл бұрын
That back scratcher took me out 😂
@KrystleLaughter
3 жыл бұрын
The pole and the bottle took me out.😂😂😂😂
@jzzsuccess
3 жыл бұрын
Thankful for The Gaskins! Been praying all year long to be able to purchase the Life Coaching Course. Can’t believe you slashed that price like you did and I am so thankful for it, it was a manageable sacrifice. From your videos to A woman’s Influence (which was AMAZING by the way) to you and your wife being good EXAMPLES of God fearing people. There’s not much more I could have asked for and God knew I needed to witness true discipleship for the sake of hope. My hope has been restored thanks to ya’ll. Thank you, I sincerely pray for your family as often as I tune in. Be blessed. 🙏🏽
@jessicagrant9748
3 жыл бұрын
TONY PRETTY PLEAEEESE DO A VIDEO SPECIFICALLY TITLED “ GOT TO GO” WITH VARIOUS SCENARIOS THAT CAUSES A PERSON TO LEAVE! THAT CHARGER CORD ( PURSE) EXAMPLE WEARS ME OUT !!😂😭🥺🤣😆 THIS WAS A GOOD ONE! GOD BLESS🧡
@GM-gc1us
3 жыл бұрын
When he took out the back scratcher i almost fell over
@elainewiggins8782
3 жыл бұрын
Hope this lady is listening.
@Esthee_and_arts
3 жыл бұрын
My heart hurts for my sister 🥺 rejection is hard esp when you’re codependent. But guess what? You can still heal and become whole again. That marriage is a reflection of when two broken people try to become one, but it only makes a half- not understanding that it takes two WHOLE people to make one and the marriage work. I know this one hit hard, but she will be stronger getting through it without him than sticking around to endure it with him. Praying for my sis and her new chapter ❤️
@mahogany_honey
3 жыл бұрын
I'm single, however these videos are so beneficial to me in my journey for a happy, healthy marriage..🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@cemplygloria6261
3 жыл бұрын
I just purchased the Certified Coaching Course. I am excited to get started so I can begin operating in my purpose. Thank you TG for the sale.
@Lovergirlstudiio
3 жыл бұрын
Tony is really an angel sent to us all. He has gotten me through some very dark nights. Blessings 🙏🏽✨
@hunybee5558
3 жыл бұрын
You are such blessing, Tony! You are like a little brother who will crack you up with comedic ad-libs and STILL be TRUTH TELLING🙏🏽
@chariennekhan9259
3 жыл бұрын
It's time to take the kids and leave and salvage your life!...
@Gud2B_Blessed
3 жыл бұрын
He broke this relationship down like a Full built house of cards ♠️♥️♦️♣️that fell like dominos. Go head man!!!! Break that thang doooown!!! "This aint just clinical, this is spiritual, this is demonic"🔥 Hot dang! This video right here, I pray, delivers somebody!!!! He was already married before anyway sis. Free yourself. Regardless of the 20yrs get your life back. HEAL beloved.. and allow your covenant husband to find you and love you! You are free! TGBTG
@LadyAngela678
3 жыл бұрын
Tell him “Don’t let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya! “ 👋🏽
@lorigovi718
3 жыл бұрын
😂 good one!
@AmberBrooklyn24
3 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to being with someone that never tells me I’m beautiful, a good girlfriend, etc. being with someone that doesn’t want to tell me things but want to know everything that I’m doing. He’s terrible at communication and somehow everything ends up being my fault. I know what I have to do, but it’s hard in a lot of ways. Working through it. 💕
@iashlee_3338
3 жыл бұрын
TONYY done did it again! Blessed us 3xs over! I’m thankful for you Tony and your wisdom! You have help me refine my prayers and my thought process! Soo thankful for all of this! Be blessed brotha!💛🙂☺️
@coachlizeth9430
3 жыл бұрын
I can’t thank you enough for this sale! It has been a struggle but the day is here and can’t wait to start on my journey as a Life Coach working on my purpose! Blessings 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@kimsmith819
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, sounds exactly like my husband. Im so sorry this has is happening to you. Im so sorry that your kids can feel his bad vibes also. This is so sad. 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥
@missybella9046
3 жыл бұрын
Me too, but my recent ex. I literally stopped cooking and said OMG when she started stating the issues. Sounded exactly like him. This message was Godsend. Thank you Lord and Tony. May God give all of us strength to get through our heartaches 🙏
@paulamcnairunapaulagetic
3 жыл бұрын
Yep, I was in this type of relationship I’m sooooo thankful I’m currently divorcing after 27 years... leave while you still have many good years ahead .Pray for courage🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@rosezarco9185
3 жыл бұрын
17 years for me 7 months no contact he got served for contempt court child support. ...3 kids 15, 14, 5 years old he doesn't see... moving on. Thanks to Tony 🙏
@OhSoCarmen
3 жыл бұрын
There are so many women in the world married to that man she described. Far too many.
@Myareah
3 жыл бұрын
13 years married I got 3 kids I ended situationship after listening to my intuition and after finding Tony in KZitem I haven’t stopped watching TG since then Good bless you and your family thank you for helping us 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@beefaye6861
3 жыл бұрын
One thing I learned....what one man don't like the next man will love...what didn't turn him on....will blow the next man mind....get strong move on ....its much better when u out that toxic situation....how I no...this was me 😊....!
@MariaGoncalves-uk6so
3 жыл бұрын
Can someone give this man a show already !!!!!
@CuratedFlix
3 жыл бұрын
It seems as though the husband has fallen out of love. However, women love extremely hard so it’s difficult to just let go of someone that you have been with for years, someone that you still love.
@aura5944
3 жыл бұрын
It feels as if he did not ever stand in love with her, he does not choose it daily. His battle existed way before he even met his wife, it stayed, flared, and festered. She, like many of us, I do not necessarily mean you, I mean me and other women think we can talk through it and find a solution, we can love/nurture it away; Or the man will outgrow, overcome, admit it, deal/fight it everyday but choose to be the victor and turn it into a testimony. Rarely does that happen which is why there are so many heartbreaking stories and yet the deliverer of the message our mentor is basically an anomaly. **The person has acknowledge and actually want to change, it means nothing for the enabler wanting things to be different, because it's seen as an oxymoron she loves me but hates my behavior or the core me and yet she stays. He has lost his trust in her. In this specific situation when she asked him what's wrong he just says idk. It takes a different being to tackle the issues/vices/abnormalities head on, explain their story to others, then assist or mentor others so they do not have to lead the life of (heartache) (addiction) (trauma) (anxiety) (misfortune) (brokenness) (conflict ) (lies) (Dr.Jekyll Mr.Hyde) (self help). 😅😅
@CuratedFlix
3 жыл бұрын
@@aura5944 Agreed this is very well put sis!!!
@ysmithriley
3 жыл бұрын
I DOUBT he was ever in love with her. It was just an act! So sorry she wasted 20 years of her life with him.
@paulaperry-edwards3762
3 жыл бұрын
This video will free and breathe new life into many people. Continue to let God use you. Blessings to you and your family! Don’t stop! Amen.
@sha2408
3 жыл бұрын
Loving this Thanksgiving Marathon♥️🙏🏼Thank you for taking time to give us more wisdom. I think I speak for everyone when I say, we are thankful for you Tony Gaskins.
@sadelynn2235
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness the Reenactment of TG telling him to get back lol 😂 I spit my water out and cried laughing 😆 goodness be blessed sweet friends.
@dejalogan5824
2 жыл бұрын
Me too!! 🤣🤣
@InspiredUno
3 жыл бұрын
🗣🗣🗣 Preach Tony!!!! Christ died to free you from your CRISIS!!!!
@thenarcrebel5135
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony, taking time out from your family‼️ Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family‼️
@tiffanyburks5486
3 жыл бұрын
You may not have daughters but God has blessed you with women who are using your message to change the cycle.....Blessings and more blessings:)
@jam1369
3 жыл бұрын
Tony, you are such a blessing. It is so beautiful to see you and your wife in your purpose. It is absolutely wonderful. I am so excited about what God is doing! He is setting the captive free, hallelujah!
@teresajackson9998
3 жыл бұрын
Brother Tony all do respect to your wife and kids. Really appreciate what you do, stay strong and encourage in the Lord,,,the world of the unbelievers hearts going get worse and worse as the bible says in ( 2 Timothy 3) when we have spiritual discernment will see living in last days perilous times shall come and reading these verses we will see them in world.
@carolynwilliams4926
3 жыл бұрын
You are on fire today. Thank you
@ionarodrigues4913
2 жыл бұрын
This is on repeat. Married women if you have ignored all the red flags before, hear this over and over till you get the courage to leave.
@beautyfulldrey
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for all your effort . I have purchase the life coach course in July I think I’m ready to complete it . I’m excited I know I will be a great coach god bless u for open up my eyes . Truly a blessing
@keshiadenise9133
3 жыл бұрын
Dont ever stop dropping this knowledge and wisdom the way only you can do please. Some like me found you in our 40's and I know that its changed my life--- I'm thrilled that this will reach our younger generations and may stop them from making the mistakes we did from lack of knowledge and discernment. May God bless you to keep going.
@Slayfear101
3 жыл бұрын
That stick and olive oil! 😂😂😂😂 thank you for helping this medicine go down with laughter
@VintageAfro91
3 жыл бұрын
Tony is keeping it real & raw. I hope this woman leaves for the sake of her and the kids. If she stays, she will end up normalizing dysfunction for her children and then they will have to recover from their childhood. I can honestly say as someone who is on my healing journey & recovering from my childhood, it is no joke. I pray she finds the strength to leave. 🙏🏾💕
@raninaz2065
3 жыл бұрын
POWERFUL MESSAGE!! Let him who have an ear hear!! May God continue blessing you
@rrayeclart7716
3 жыл бұрын
That course price for coaching today is truly a God send 🙏🏽
@gerijohnson3850
3 жыл бұрын
Tony this was awesome! Your counsel was spot on. I was married to someone like that for over 20 years. And he was a master at manipulation and charisma to folks around him. I thank God for the day I got the courage to say enough is enough. Our kids were gone and grown I just allowed him to rob my spirit. As an empath I kept enabling him. No more!
@juliejones4446
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Tony for reading this letter today. There are a few differences, but I have lived that lady’s life, more or less, for 15 years. I also have 3 children and their father, my partner has similar issues. We’re not married but have been together 15 years. God bless you and I’m praying for that family. Please pray for me and mine❤️❤️
@tinys8525
3 жыл бұрын
God bless this sister with strength that surpasses ALL understanding. Another FREE therapy session/counseling/support group/teaching.....for us all. TG on fire! Thank you Lord.
@CuratedFlix
3 жыл бұрын
You can’t be a “good husband” when it’s convenient! This has to be something the wife sees in him daily.
@el8792
Жыл бұрын
This brought me to tears because it is similar to my personal story. I discovered on top of it he's been having an affair for over 2 years behind my back. We had been married 25 years and he was served with divorce papers in mid April this year. Thank you, Tony. This video empowered me more.
@1Smylez2
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you tony... my story is similar.... I’ve been working on getting my self back and every time I get weak and depress I’m come to listen to you and my mind is back on track. Thank you......thank you.... thank you once again.... My kids and I are in the growing period and I know he’s no good. I just needed to hear it again to remind me. Thanks... this video took me so long to get through cause that’s how many times I rewound it to heard you again. Thanks
@peach8142
2 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now sis?
@ebonyflowers7599
3 жыл бұрын
I SCREAMED!!! 🤣🤣🤣 When Tony got that back scratcher!!!!!lawdd!!!
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