As a divorce lawyer, I wish this video was mandatory for anyone getting married.
@javymcdeez3958
4 жыл бұрын
that will make you find a better line of work?
@jcnlaw
4 жыл бұрын
@Smelly Revolutionary I love helping people change the trajectory of their life. You definitely need the right skill sets and personality to practice family law. I love it.
@PPMOCRG
4 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Noble Esquire ...and judges in family court
@mnstrmike4853
4 жыл бұрын
Repent
@RachelSings21
4 жыл бұрын
Urgh I wish I’d watched it before I married him. 😞
@m.s.8729
4 жыл бұрын
Won and had victory with that evil sadistic narcissist!!!! I am free and happy!!!! 50 yr war finally came to an end. Found out i wasnt the problem, but merely just about half the people in my life were narcisssists!!
@islandgirlruby2750
4 жыл бұрын
Wow 50 years God bless you. I didn't even last a year. I waited for the next discard then I blocked him on all media.
@m.s.8729
4 жыл бұрын
@@islandgirlruby2750Thank you. actually this narcissism started when i was a baby and continued throughout my life. I didnt know what i was experiencing until my last relationship when i noticed it was happening all over again. Through prayer and becoming spiritual, my intuition began to activate, hence i started researching this problem. Low and behold i realized it wasnt me and i was able to set myself free, not to mention blocking this person forever!
@islandgirlruby2750
4 жыл бұрын
@@m.s.8729 glad you got away from that demon. We allowed them to treat us badly, now like the Phoenix we raise from the ashes, good luck
@drleo6409
4 жыл бұрын
I have noticed there are a lot of people in my life that are N.s. They say little things like you cooked that good but you cooked it too long. Always a negative thrown in... Maybe they don't know they even doing it., But they are still doing it.
@m.s.8729
4 жыл бұрын
@@drleo6409 stop doing things for them, cut them off! Thats the only way it stops
@misstidoy
4 жыл бұрын
Make their silent treatment PERMANENT by going NC. Shut that down and start to live your life again 👏🏽
@richardgreen62
4 жыл бұрын
💯 percent
@islandgirlruby2750
4 жыл бұрын
Spot on
@PPMOCRG
4 жыл бұрын
missma Yep! Did that and life is much more peaceful.
@misstidoy
4 жыл бұрын
@@PPMOCRG it's like breathing for the first time again. Well done for going NC! Happy healing 😊
@misstidoy
4 жыл бұрын
@Ryan Reagan Yessss 👏🏽 my mother and former situation both hate it and i love it. I win 🧘🏾♀️👸🏽
@jamilaakhtar2553
4 жыл бұрын
Spot on! I experienced it all with the ex.Narcasist are very good at criticising others,but any criticism whether constructive or destructive towards them and they have a huge meltdown or a tantrum! Wow I'm glad I finally escaped with some sanity still entacted!
@aus-rider
4 жыл бұрын
I’m nearly one year free from mine, still receiving help, but nearly there 😌
@psychictruth5037
4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@cindylong624
4 жыл бұрын
great!
@andreflavell2689
3 жыл бұрын
Me to Craig still getting help
@kimsmith819
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you. I'm so proud of you. I left mine about 2 years ago for about a year off and on and I only further tormented myself. I knew not to come back, but I did anyway. Lesson is learned 💯 %
@fayceedat670
4 жыл бұрын
Yes so true. Whatever you do is not good enough. They want to destroy your self confidence.
@jackiejones4029
4 жыл бұрын
They are truly demonic
@islandgirlruby2750
4 жыл бұрын
The narcissist is basically an adult bully.
@diamondunicorn2421
4 жыл бұрын
Dating a narcissist or traits of it, should be illegal.. you’ll be dating a emotional minor.
@cherryblossoms5044
4 жыл бұрын
Precisely and they take great pleasure in bullying. They are in reality psychopaths. They love to hurt if they do not get what they want. Keep a distance or leave !!
@TheTiscali1
4 жыл бұрын
@@diamondunicorn2421 I definitely think they're should be an awareness campaign about Narcissist to protect people....about the false love bombing, abuse, hovering, using people for money etc.....I didn't know it was happening to me so deep but at the same thing know something wasn't right with him
@TheTiscali1
4 жыл бұрын
@@cherryblossoms5044 Even worst then physchopths according to Phycologist.....It's a strange and dangerous personality disorder and can ripe a person apart x
@cherryblossoms5044
4 жыл бұрын
@@TheTiscali1 Exactly ! They are very destructive people and if one is not cautious it cld affect one's health. Constant bullying by narcs lower the immunity system cos one is in constant stress.
@natalierullmanward9137
4 жыл бұрын
I am getting my professional registry and licenses back at the end of this month. My recovery draweth nigh!
@artmocha9901
4 жыл бұрын
Wow..everything in this video is so accurate. EVERY SINGLE WORD. But instead of partner it’s PARENTS in my case. I did dodge some narc guys even before knowing these things just because I have seen similar patterns in my parents ( especially my dad). I have unknowingly developed some traits guessing that these people are good at body language and reading their target accurately. They do pickup subtle fears, vulnerabilities and don’t easily back off.Believe in your intuition guys; your mind has solutions for everything...just listen to what it is trying to say, even if no one believes in you.
@ninahund5773
4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely my truth!! I'm floored as to how text book these ppl are. Your videos are very eye opening Much appreciated Kim
@jamilaakhtar2553
4 жыл бұрын
I know it's creepy how text book the narcasist are.The good thing about it is when we learn what they are we can predict there next move.
@tturing5698
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah it doesn't even matter what continent they are from; Indian, Chinese, American, European the core principles are always the same. And their targets always feel better when going no contact or very limited grey rock while also gaining more knowledge of these tactics online
@ladylaura93
4 жыл бұрын
My experience for years! I had to realize my own self-worth. The narc will always be a part of my life due to we have children together. But, I no longer have to participate in his activities to destroy me. Yes, he did some horrible things to me, but he will get his in the end...👍
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome, Nina! :)
@JesusSaves194
4 жыл бұрын
That’s because narcs are controlled by the same demonic Jezebel spirit
@maryrichardson6029
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You tied up all the little prices and now I'm whole. Peace Sister
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful...so happy to know that, Mary :) Hugs. Xo
@Shon_29
4 жыл бұрын
No matter what you do for a narc, there is no value This videos are so helpful to me 8 years I did all to keep him happy.. Here now since 2 months separated after backbiting, name-calling, abuse. Kim ma'am please do one video on What if narc felt unhealthy or sick. How they behave?
@smohammed2821
4 жыл бұрын
Omg same situation 8 years of marriage and 1 month of separation... he made living under one roof sooo toxic i had to leave to breath... do you have any children ? I have 1 child so keeps msging to meet her according to his agenda... its nice to talk to someone who is in a similar situation and timeline if you dont mind me msging you to get some advice time to time :)
@Shon_29
4 жыл бұрын
Mango Pie ..... One girl will turn 7. When they know nothing will work now..... Child is only tool left to get them back in side again... I use to get emotional and let him in...... This time when I never replied to his mgs even after saying he is missing..her..... He found this kid tool also not working.... Sending photos memories ....sorry..... Am bad man..... Won't do this I apologize....i have turn to godly man reading Bible...... nothing is working time...Only one day he was missing baby .... It's all crocodile tears fake he doesn't love me nor child its all temporary till he sees us.. Around him he pretends to love .... I was in living in relation with him..... Since 8 years..... Will marry me one day..... But that one day never came...... But in this 8 years I lost my cousin...... He made my life isolated...... Now year back when my parents accepted him.... front of them he was the best person to love their daughter but disrespected them in back..... Always thought I'll make a good godly family one day...I kept trying and trying but after every certain period of time he turns evil suddenly on silly things - abuse till I feel worn out...and was crush down...
@staceydelbucchia2576
4 жыл бұрын
Amen...i am narc free y it feels great...thank you❤🕊
@brendahedden2683
4 жыл бұрын
Ty for sharing this.lt is spot on l pray it will open the eyes of innocent VICTIMS of NARRISSIC MONSTERS. Been Narc free for 30years. Narcs are also drawn to Empath's so always be on guard for these pathetic energy suckers . They are pure evil and vile...they will never change. Your the better person rise above praying for all VICTIMS. Love and peace. 🤗💗💜💙
@cherryblossoms5044
4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you.
@Canaday291
4 жыл бұрын
This describes the oppressive life with the malignant npd ex husband He’s sadistic , diabolical , and thrives off of the evil he creates and spreads around like a virus He is a wolf in sheep’s clothing
@cherryblossoms5044
4 жыл бұрын
Nancy Elizabeth. Very accurte description. A wolf in sheep's clothing. Even a wolf has more compassion.
@TheFeliciakelley
4 жыл бұрын
I was involved with one for 10 years
@danettejones4969
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been working with a therapist for the past 4 years to work through the issues & dysfunction that resulted from growing up with a father like this (as well as a few former bosses). EMDR is a life changer - I recommend it to anyone healing from this.
@danettejones4969
4 жыл бұрын
Ashleigh Powell I see a licensed mental health counselor. I was scared, as well; however, it made me a believer after I experienced the difference from a few sessions. It’s been a positive, life changer for me.
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
EMDR is definitely a good healing modality, but you want to make sure to work with someone who's been doing it a while and is skilled at it. Not someone who got a weekend certificate somewhere. Xo
@nismofury
4 жыл бұрын
I've dealt with Narcs and my Narc mother. Narc mothers are much harder to deal with. Especially if you are financially tied to them.
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
So sorry :( They're definitely harder to get away from. Xo
@jobond4314
4 жыл бұрын
I work hard to please my family and now disabled no one of them can help me,
@NathanSegal
Ай бұрын
Very helpful. My ex went out of her way to hurt me with the silent treatment. She trashed every area of my life. Later, after a brutal discard she tried a hoover. I turned her down. Vicious abuse.
@joanieks3945
4 жыл бұрын
Spot on Kim. Thank you. I never felt like I ticked the boxes for him. Never wore the right clothes, colours, didn’t read the right books etc. I mentioned in a previous comment that I started a full time job 3 weeks ago. I’m working from home but in a room on my own. My NH went mad when I told him about the job. He wanted me to spend my days keeping him company and doing whatever he wanted. After 30 years together I’m feeling so much happier. I’ve been working on detachment for just under 2 years and I’m getting stronger every day. Thank you for this video. It definitely resonates with me ❤️
@adriennf525
4 жыл бұрын
You deserve so much more views! Thank You
@Fitnesspro04
4 жыл бұрын
True!
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that, Adrienn! I think YT is mad because I didn't post anything for a couple of months. Still, I'm hoping to bring you guys more educational stuff :)
@stuartsmith5905
4 жыл бұрын
I stopped doing everything, after 3 years I still did cooking and errands for her , but she said I didn't do them correctly. I started to question her gaslighting. She went quieter and quieter over the last few weeks . Then abandoned me in the cruelest was possible. Acted normal for weeks, i started to believe this was an improvement! But she obviously knew I was fed up and wasn't let her feed off me any more . Vanished leaving me heartbroken and lost . Im in week 4 now and I still miss her ...why? No intimacy for nearly 2 and a half years..why i still miss her. It'll get better 🙏
@victoriabachlotte3321
4 жыл бұрын
It really will get better with time. No intimacy no kindness no empathy those things scar us in our soul on such a deep level the only healing for this is time. Just make sure you don't go back. Good luck to you sweetie
@stuartsmith5905
4 жыл бұрын
@@victoriabachlotte3321 hope so , thanks
@bauron1985
4 жыл бұрын
I have been watching narc videos for years. This hit home in a big way for some reason. Thank You.
@lauvi8862
4 жыл бұрын
One day he was telling me to get out, the next he wanted me to open a 401k 😂
@pennykent5687
4 жыл бұрын
My kingpin delusional Narco outright texted me "Let the battles begin."
@islandgirlruby2750
4 жыл бұрын
Lol not funny but funny, I had to laugh
@fionam3735
4 жыл бұрын
Yep my ex narco too. He told me I’d be f’n sorry and if I thought he was going to play fair I had another thing coming. Three years so far getting dragged through court one of there playgrounds!
@annaknight5111
4 жыл бұрын
This is such an accurate but positive video. Thank you 💜
@Butterfly-if1qs
4 жыл бұрын
WOW! WHAT A GREAT SUMMARY PRESENTATION in my case. Much needed right now too. There is danger in war.....and strangely, I need to be reminded due to the longterm abuse. Thank you Kim!!
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad it resonated with you, None Hier :)
@endangglasson
2 жыл бұрын
Kim Saeed, you are so true. Thank you for sharing this video.
@lilithschwarzermond7342
4 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Thanks. NO CONTACT!
@laurenlivengood858
4 жыл бұрын
All your videos are so helpful to me thank u they make me feel better
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to know that, Lauren. Big hugs :)
@faithsandstrom3883
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you...im done with the narc...but its good to hear for the dating scene.
@robertholliman3197
4 жыл бұрын
This was a most revealing and helpful video that opened my eyes about the woman I have been with for 20 months.
@misstidoy
4 жыл бұрын
We were TOO good 👏🏽
@lizafield9002
4 жыл бұрын
Great job! Your voice is way more conductive & natural however.
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Liza. With an 11-yr old in the house and virtual schooling, I'm trying to find ways to simplify...but, will definitely be doing more of my own :)
@marywilsonvocalist2181
4 жыл бұрын
I don't understand this comment..I don't think Kim is competing with anyone and the word * however* isn't needed
@lizafield9002
4 жыл бұрын
@@marywilsonvocalist2181 you're right Mary! It's great content no matter what. That she would possibly be "competing" over the narration was a projection (wow, from whom?) that sure didn't come from me. It's laughable. But sorry, i know you intended a chastising serious & stern rebuke.
@growingandlearning164
4 жыл бұрын
You nailed it Kim.
@heathermixson1265
3 жыл бұрын
The funny thing is, he's always telling ME nothing is good enough for ME!!🤦♀️
@joanbaczek2575
Жыл бұрын
Same!!!
@Highland_Fields
4 жыл бұрын
Listening to your videos Kim, has made my make my life clearer. 🙏
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful! I'm so glad to know that, Janet :)
@andreflavell2689
3 жыл бұрын
I dated a single mum. She 46 me 55 . Her boys 11 and 13 . I stepped up for her . I gave and did for 3 years. After I did and loved for 2 years she dumped me . She was never emotionally available and it was demoralising. Broke my heart. I would never date a single mother again
@daisydukesperez8753
4 жыл бұрын
Amazed by your direct knowledge! My life is exactly like this! Wtf and I am homeless too now! I need help bad! Really bad.
@yogaflame4128
4 жыл бұрын
The narc tried to social isolate Me on my home turf. He tried to smear campaign me to people that already didn’t like me and that I didn’t know existed. I’m antisocial and selfish so I didn’t even care to get to know my neighbors. He’s says the “everyone hates u” tactic so I replied: why would I care wat they thought 💭 of me? I never cared enough to even introduce myself, I now know them thanks to u.” He didn’t realize that I was far more experienced than he will ever be at running the game he tried to play. I instantly plugged the plug on their plan and they tried to shame me into coming back, he obviously had no idea I that I’m naturally shameless. The thing that kept our friendly experience alive was that I was interested in long term study of their behavior. They puzzled my brain from the second I met them. I realized they were off and used them as reference of WAT NOT to do cuz I myself am the same as they are but I’m far more wise enough to know that it’s not the way society operates. I adapt. He’s maladaptive. I honestly think that’s why they truly despise me, cuz I perfected the game he’s struggling to win. You see the old saying always rings true, u catch more flies with honey than with vinegar and he was always a fly. But they got to close and realized the honey was all over them cuz their true intentions with me were always clear so I never gave them anything close to it. I manipulated them as well and before they realized it., They were on my turf. My goal wasn’t accomplished but neither was theirs. My escape? Left them in the trap that they thought 💭 they laid for me. But it’s my den. U don’t know how to navigate it.
@poonamchaudhary6140
4 жыл бұрын
Can u give some tips? If a narcissist has cut u from all relatives and neighbors, shared lies secrets with them and whenever u come out from ur home the neighbors taunt you and smirk at you ,same things apply for relatives then what should we do???
@BorisPjanic
4 жыл бұрын
Why aren't there any legal consequences for narcissistic abuse? It is a crime against other people, yet there are no repercussions. What is wrong with our society?
@jencameron8124
3 жыл бұрын
The 1% that control society are Narcissists.
@michignamymichigan
Жыл бұрын
A lot.
@michignamymichigan
Жыл бұрын
I wish I had moved forward sooner, but freedom is life. 🧡
@cynthiathomas5754
Жыл бұрын
The food thing is sooo true. A lot of people don't figure that one out!
@PhatFrankiiie
3 жыл бұрын
This is a excellent video.
@delnitap
4 жыл бұрын
I believe I love myself so much that these tactics didn’t work on me and I was only disappointed in myself because I genuinely really loved the person as a whole not their behavior towards me. I don’t take anything ppl do seriously unless it was genuine because I have narcissistic parents smh so when I was in a narcissistic relationship I think I was already numb to it, idk if that is a good or bad thing but it helped me. Only I hurt myself for believing they would love me back but once they did these things I went no contact ASAP. Only Approval I need is from God, only being I answer to. I only blame myself for give the time of day to this person not no one or not even them really. I emotionally supported myself for so long they thought people around me was these vises lmao so silent treatment didn’t work and I like being alone in peace so🤷🏽♀️.
@n0426
Жыл бұрын
Me too. I am an introvert and didn’t really know about narcissism until they started their smear campaign and devaluation. That’s when I really started learning about how sad they are.
@GuardianAngel..
3 жыл бұрын
A Pirate’s Treasure Map with the Treasure actually hidden in the map how clever.
@dust17111
4 жыл бұрын
This is informative thank you, but sounds like it's mostly about grandiose narcissists which aren't as bad as covert narcissists
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on individual circumstances, having worked with so many folks who've been affected by both kinds.
@kimsmith819
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and in my case, my birthday was a few days ago. He couldn't even go to the store and buy a cake. He really really hurt my feelings. If I say anything, it will be a huge argument. He started doing this about 9 years ago when his mask slipped after 10 years of marriage. I don't understand how they just don't give a crap about us but know we are a good person and would never want anyone else to be made to feel as we have felt. I'm a temporary housekeeper for him. After my doctor appointments are done, I'm done for the last and final time. I can't deal with the hurt anymore.
@heathermixson1265
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@dougd936
4 жыл бұрын
Jonathan noble I agree. But Kim is stunning.listen to her all day.
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
You're so sweet :)
@auramdickerson112
3 жыл бұрын
Silver lining. After being raised by narc mother. Never being praised or complimented, I find most compliments rather insulting now as I feel like the compliment is a way to get hooks into a person and manipulate them making them needy for approval.
@tamaliaalisjahbana9354
4 жыл бұрын
It's not only those things you mentioned above that the victims of narcissists can loose but at times they loose life itself. Remember Reeva Steenkamp?
@crystalcole888
4 жыл бұрын
Please don't use the word "Perfect" to describe a potential partner. Someone can be ideal, but not perfect. We're all just people and no one is perfect. I love your channel very much and it has been extremely helpful to me on all levels. The word perfect always hits me the wrong way. I'm sure that was not your intention. Thank you very much for all you do. It is vitally important.
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
It's not common, rare, in fact...but it does happen that someone can be a perfect partner. However, just as with anything else, there will be peaks and valleys. Xo
@glo6544
4 жыл бұрын
The narcissist has found the area of town I've moved to and was happy to meet a new supply who stay around the corner from me... Now that he knows I'm around the corning he has moved in with the lady.... I was with and dealt with the narcissist for 25 years we have 4 kids... I have let this evil man destroy my sense of who I am... Our kids are older and they don't be bothered by him period.... But me I be wanting to just make him disappear... I mean to another state😂.... With time I know all this will pass... I'm working on me now
@vernondelancy6281
4 жыл бұрын
On point u are
@michelemitchell8609
3 жыл бұрын
Barak’Allah feeki
@dougarnold7955
4 жыл бұрын
Great video. Thank you.
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it, Doug!
@AiViA00
4 жыл бұрын
I discovered a new and very knowledgeable person-Eva Grey-to help one understand better the detrimental narcissist monster and what they do.
@shellyj7536
4 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Noble Esquire - agreed 💯
@truth2217
4 жыл бұрын
You nailed it Thank You 🙃
@SBecktacular
4 жыл бұрын
Someone tell me please- Is it normal to have an intense internal reaction to someone like this coming within close proximity to me? I’ve never had such a strong internal reaction to this person coming close to me- within 2/3 feet. I felt everything tense up inside me and I HAD to increase the distance between me and them. It was like something else took over and I couldn’t handle them even being by me. Please someone tell me what that was! I’m in shock , never felt that before And when they walked away I started hyperventilating slightly
@ServantStatusMinistries
4 жыл бұрын
Yes this can happen. It may not be normal for people to realize but it does happen. I am not joking when I say you can sense peoples demons that are attached to you. It’s like when you walk into a place that has bad energy in there but yours is positive then you will feel imbalanced. One time I was around my ex before breaking up and I would get knots in my stomach and in my throat but once I was over them instantly my body loosened up and I felt like how you do when you get that second wind when running. I wasn’t even near him when I broke it off I was on the phone...it was like I took the noose off my neck. Spiritually there are a lot of things that happen when you escape these types of people. They are blinded by these demons that suck the life out of them and they will do the same around you. Just trust in Jesus and He will take you out of those feelings.
@SBecktacular
4 жыл бұрын
Servant Status Ministries thanks- I do trust Jesus The funny thing is this person says they’re a Christian... It’s so damn confusing and painful.
@ServantStatusMinistries
4 жыл бұрын
sbecktacular ok but remember Jesus tells us to test all spirits to see if they come from God and to test a person by their fruits. Good fruit will not come from a bad tree and bad fruit will not come from a good tree. So if they are hurting you and there is no remorse and no conviction just know that they show that they hate you and not love you and a person that claims to know God but hates there neighbor is a liar. However a person treats you is how they treat God who is unseen. Another point to remember is that many Jews and israelites claimed to know God but what did Jesus say? He quoted Isaiah.... “they worship me with their lips but their hearts are far from me.” So people can claim to be Christian but if they don’t do what Jesus did and don’t follow and keep His commandments especially if you sense that around them they do not belong to Him. Plus it is written that God is not the author of confusion. Satan copies everything God has. God has Christians and so does Satan because remember also that the word christian just means Christ followers and the word Christ means the anointed one....but Jesus preached there will be many false Christ’s and the AntiChrist as well so they may be a Christian under another Christ that isn’t Jesus. Love you and remember to take your peace back. Pray to our Father for discernment and more wisdom and strength to get away from these types of people. I once couldn’t see it and was in the same boat as you but now they are easy to spot and God has made me bold and not afraid to confront them and to get away from them.
@SBecktacular
4 жыл бұрын
Servant Status Ministries Thanks so much for your insight- I was praying someone would help me understand this...And he has. But it’s extremely painful because it’s a family member- It’s been very difficult.😞 Thanks for your help, God bless 🙏
@SBecktacular
4 жыл бұрын
Servant Status Ministries aww that is so nice of you- I do have really bad social anxiety, so that makes me a bit nervous,.. but, I can definitely keep your email and this as a reference/if I need to talk- You really made my day and I’m blown away- God sent exactly the help I needed and I won’t forget this. God bless you friend I’ll let you know how it’s going I’m driving to a different state tomorrow, away from this person. I had to write a goodbye note and not actually talk to them. It’s been extremely difficult But your words have been so helpful. Thank you so much. 🙏🦋🙏
@syifonill
3 жыл бұрын
My situation is good... no arguements and fights... I just tell them to look in the mirror... just so easy... they can't really handle that... and can't do it
@yogaflame4128
4 жыл бұрын
The blatant off handed comments are the red flag 🚩 I instantly recognize as manipulation but people get ya healing and MOVE ON. They’re predatory and easily defeated in war cuz the ALWAYS UNDERESTIMATE they’re perceived opponent.
@tootiewright2909
4 жыл бұрын
Spot on!
@TheTiscali1
4 жыл бұрын
💯 my ex was often like that why don't you wear this . ...you look pretty without makeup then it will be why can't you wear makeup 😅 very confused and a user for money!! Good luck to his new supplier. I don't really know if he loved me or not ...
@danielledecarlo9971
4 жыл бұрын
They don't have the emotional capacity to feel real love.
@TheTiscali1
4 жыл бұрын
@@danielledecarlo9971 I felt so.... they're only after what they can get from people....Yet people still hang on to them through their Manipulative game 😏
@errandgirl48
4 жыл бұрын
he never loved you. They are incapable of love. They don't even want to love.
@TheTiscali1
4 жыл бұрын
@@errandgirl48yes they're simply after what they can get from people
@johndowney2695
4 жыл бұрын
Military personnel serving now served whenever stay strong you are loved you do not deserve a narcissist walk away make a plan set boundaries just get away if that’s where you’re at
@johndowney2695
4 жыл бұрын
This is what I am learning from these wonderful people that are teaching me I’m listening and learning
@johndowney2695
4 жыл бұрын
MERCY donez. Narcissist
@johndowney2695
4 жыл бұрын
But you’re good enough for Jesus you will always be good enough for Jesus you walked away from me I will not recognize you whatever now he gets to keep you LOL Go get some more Supply hurry hurry
@johndowney2695
4 жыл бұрын
MERCY donez Times are hard life is short find somebody in Marion quick you’re getting old oh did I just say that out loud sorry don’t come around here you know Who I am
@johndowney2695
4 жыл бұрын
But I know you are precious to Jesus and I know you love Jesus I know that for a fact stay close to him love him because he loves you he loved you enough to die on a cross and you know that you knew it when we met you took me to Catholic Church I’m not Catholic but I appreciated that you have The right in this country to worship any way you want from your own type of pew Garth brooks said it best we shall be free I’m praying that you get your next stimulus check so you can get better get better set boundaries I have mine set try not to accuse anybody I know what you’ve been through you had a hard life you are so precious to Jesus you are like gold did Jesus I told you I was a prosthetic teacher I meant it that’s what I am you didn’t believe me look at me now can you see can you hear not everyone can But can you finally see you in here
@js4540
4 жыл бұрын
Also if they co workers and ex co workers/friends and exes who flirt with them and in front of you also not cool
@yourcaseworker6916
4 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy the way you say... *DIRTY* All I can say is *DAMMIT!*
@NomadOfTheWoods8
4 жыл бұрын
that is it. before I engrain myself with a center of your knowledge (watching video) I would have to accept your ways of conflicts in know base of information. and doing so to safe guard my interests at same time it would end in some rather debate of character point of reference or agenda other then just being myself. Then taking reference of video it's self as training course other then trusting my innate feelings
@laptakyrenia8264
3 жыл бұрын
Pray i never meet another,im mended now,
@dcwalk4recovery2024
4 жыл бұрын
Question: Have you ever created a video to address: when your child (the prey) marries a narcissists' and they the (narcissists) wont let you see the grandchildren?
@BalticLab
4 жыл бұрын
Likely, there's more tot the story that you're telling us. What are the reasons given by your child / narc for the refusal?
@kcole5177
4 жыл бұрын
🗣SPOT ON!!!🎯👊.
@FM-gv4yl
3 жыл бұрын
UGLY - good ,kind ,considerate , believable citizen of Adelaide
@anyasilka2325
3 жыл бұрын
Does this apply exactly to male victims of the female Narcissist. My Friend is stuck and he is so confused and weak now and resists my mild questions or a reference to someone else in his position. His palor looks grey or very white and he is very successful and so kind and humble...She saw all thus as weakness and now finally made him marry her after 18 yes together and now she has made herself Hus Manager!!! I can't get him to seek help... HAVE YOU A SOLUTION..I cannot see him now as I am stuck in my country and he, in his. THANK YOU.
@orpahkibidi965
4 жыл бұрын
Am going crazy knowing am in the worst place ever
@nicoler3219
4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@chadeldon4468
3 жыл бұрын
Why is it always assumed its a male thats a narcissist? I had a life altering experience with a female that was the worst narcissistic person ever, I learned later that she had 5 relationships going at all times not counting the one nighters she picked up at the bar. I barely lived through it
@RelationshipRefuge
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Chad. It's not always assumed that narcissists are men. It's just that there aren't enough men creating their own blogs and KZitem channels to teach us about female narcissists. There's material out there, but nothing compares to one's personal experiences.
@chadeldon4468
3 жыл бұрын
@@RelationshipRefuge its a Jekyll and Hyde personality, I was blind, had suspicions and questioned alot but was “the crazy one”
@SuperQdaddy
4 жыл бұрын
Draw the line with all relationship s...your to nice they take advantage
@cony1541
4 жыл бұрын
But how do they know these secrets??? Mine was an idiot who didn't even go to school!
@tonywarner8117
4 жыл бұрын
I dont even know what im doing ? Any one else
@jaxxonbalboa3243
4 жыл бұрын
. What happens if two narcs wind up dating?
@user-bc5cf5kr4s
3 жыл бұрын
They are a perfect match. They both love attention. You protect my ego and I protect your ego. 😉 ❤
@braddavic5493
3 жыл бұрын
Praise Jah:|~~~,
@craig3714
4 жыл бұрын
My father is sectretly listening in on my conversations through wiretapping my phone .
@jamilaakhtar2553
4 жыл бұрын
Wow,typical narcasistic behaviour spying on there targets
@craig3714
4 жыл бұрын
@@jamilaakhtar2553 Well he's been doing this for awhile now .
@ladylaura93
4 жыл бұрын
My narc is doing the exact same thing...by phone, tracking devices, and stalking me
@craig3714
4 жыл бұрын
@@ladylaura93 Well that makes two us .
@misstidoy
4 жыл бұрын
how do you know if they have hacked your phone? Asking so i can keep an eye out for signs!
@fantaclaus7053
4 жыл бұрын
I'm dating a Narc. No problem. I'm on to her. She has pulled back on the romance. Means nothing to me. I have no illusions. I do not live in her opinion and have threatened to end it several times. All options remain on active standby. I stay with it because it suits me fine. Looking fwd to each new day and meeting new people.
@JesusSaves194
4 жыл бұрын
These narcs are demon oppressed, only Jesus Christ can set you free and give you true peace 🙏
@lisarochwarg4707
4 жыл бұрын
You just described my "family."
@triplekids3
3 жыл бұрын
It feels like it Spiritual warfare
@christinajacobson82
4 жыл бұрын
Narcs remind me of the movie bengimen button please watch if haven’t seen He’s born as an old man and closer to dying he’s an infant lol 😂 that’s how these diabolical creatures are...
@dougd936
4 жыл бұрын
I wish it had been too
@ralphbennett8575
4 жыл бұрын
Thing is when you are running on Lies you are only kidding your self. Bad Personality ! They all loose in the end its just a matter of time . My father and late girlfriend were Narcissistic , my father shot him self and the girlfriend is no good to noone , Stupid and Sad , its a Personality dishorder .
@P4melaMasters
4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like lockdown uk
@Deep_-tt7vb
3 жыл бұрын
Can Narcissist be changed with unconditional love
@flamingsword777
3 жыл бұрын
Through JESUS, yes, but there is NO OTHER WAY.... You CANNOT change them, ONLY GOD can..
@johndowney2695
4 жыл бұрын
Maybe the narcissist if he hasn’t served in the war or she hasn’t served in the war maybe they’ll join the military and served in the war or Cold War where everybody has everybody’s back did I get in fights with other military personnel yes. But when it came down to push and shove I had his back no matter what I had him I would’ve died with my brother in arms
@bienvenidovaldez1890
3 жыл бұрын
Yes true .. she has so manh secrets of her affair of her cheating of the real father od her son.. of the real source of her wealth so on and so fort
@js4540
4 жыл бұрын
Well sorry but sometimes if they have a dysfunctional family so.....
@akrambaig2689
4 жыл бұрын
Im lucky I didn't gave her my card
@coveringthecarolinas
4 жыл бұрын
Breonna Taylor!
@jmlkhan5153
4 жыл бұрын
Relevance!
@lonerhappy
4 жыл бұрын
What about Breonna Taylor?
@juliejen2605
Жыл бұрын
Why I pray to God in Jesus name, the God will thwart these people's plans.
@lyn3339
4 жыл бұрын
Kim please do your own voice over . I’m not being rude but the message doesn’t sound the same when told by this woman Eva . Again I’m sorry for sounding rude , but it makes me turn off xx
@ashchan0504
4 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. Her voice makes me shut down. I am being honest as well
@RelationshipRefuge
4 жыл бұрын
I'm hoping to do more with my own voice. Lyn. I just have to balance things out so as not to burn out...plus, I have a little guy here doing virtual schooling during the lockdowns, so sometimes I need the help. XoXo It's funny, some people love her voice, others not so much...
@lyn3339
4 жыл бұрын
@@RelationshipRefuge thanks for taking the time to reply . On a positive note I’d like to say how much your videos have helped me on my journey and the recovery of a confusing couple of years ❤️
@davidbrett1958
4 жыл бұрын
Over time these behaviors not all but most slowly destroyed me and my bank account now Shes gone left this world and all that's left of me is well not much. I've lost virtually everything from money to my looks to my personality and sense of humor. Im destroyed and there's no fix I've tried everything possible. I wish I would just die I just don't have the guts to do it myself and guns aren't available at all here or I would. I pray that I can leave this world I've suffered enough i want out
@i-seeyourbs.1996
4 жыл бұрын
I don't know what to say except, please don't give up.
@stuartsmith5905
4 жыл бұрын
Im there with you man , hope you heal 🙏
@ashchan0504
4 жыл бұрын
Sending luv light and positive energy to you. May mother durga protect and guide you and grant you the choicest of blessings. Do NOT give up.
@MegDD3912
4 жыл бұрын
Feel like I have lost all the exact same things. Just try to stay positive it's been helping me
@davidbrett1958
4 жыл бұрын
@@MegDD3912 well megan i agree with staying positive without that we we really are stuffed. Stay strong
@grandmaster_2289
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😆😆😆
@cynthiathomas5754
3 жыл бұрын
Don't like these narrations...Would like Kim's involvement and voice.
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