So I have never been in trouble for bringing in stuff (for my birthday or holidays like Easter, Halloween, etc.) should I stop?
@PrimaryFocus
4 ай бұрын
Don’t stop- just ask. I talk about this a little more in the linked video on this short, but there are a number of reasons why it’s more considerate to plan with the teacher ahead of time instead of sending in treats unannounced. But for this short, the point is it’s not actually a gift for the teacher, it’s a gift for students.
@Nott_Obsessed
4 ай бұрын
@@PrimaryFocus great thank you, especially for replying so quickly! (BTW, I'm a new subscriber ❤️)
@PrimaryFocus
4 ай бұрын
@@Nott_Obsessed 💘 thanks for subscribing! I’m always looking for new ideas if you ever have any questions
@jb8517
4 ай бұрын
Teacher here. Don’t stop. I love when parents or kids bring in something for special days. It warms my heart thinking about parents taking the time to go to the store to purchase items and caring enough to share with everyone. Treats can always be distributed at the end of the day. No problem.
@hidrolicammo8520
3 ай бұрын
😊😊😊
@strawberryx6699
3 ай бұрын
The fact that somebody asked my teacher what did they want for their birthday and mine said Victoria Secret😂
@S.Stamper1
2 ай бұрын
They make the cutest perfume sample sets and the box is gorgeous.
@crystalkerstal
Ай бұрын
Exactly! Not everyone thinks the way this “teacher” thinks of “Victoria secret”. The things she says are subjective to her, not all teachers. I’ve done stuff for my daughter’s teachers, and some even told me no one ever did special things for them and they appreciated anything and everything.
@yummycottonkandi
Ай бұрын
As a teacher you should know that sugar rush and crash aren't actually real lol science supports this
@LuxuryXSol
23 күн бұрын
it is. it creates an unbalance in the blood or sm and then your body has to balance it. one part of this starts a “sugar rush” and after this you get a “sugar crash”
@TheRealMonnie
22 күн бұрын
It's totally real. I see it happen with my kids.
@Alinido
22 күн бұрын
lol fr tho.
@softiexpink714
Күн бұрын
Honestly it does exist but one donut doesn’t make a sugar rush a problem
@Sugar_cub_3
2 ай бұрын
my teacher would be happy with whatever I gave her
@Alyssaxx3
Ай бұрын
Ikr
@hdajq892ey7
Ай бұрын
my school doesn’t let students buy any gifts over $20 because it could be bribe
@kaylaM861
Ай бұрын
As a teacher, I’m going to have to disagree lol we not your parents. But of course we’ll smile and play along.
@user-yk9gd6ed8x
Ай бұрын
same
@Kanishhem
29 күн бұрын
Yes it's correct
@Jeenal_Danceride
10 ай бұрын
KZitem showing this short to me after one week of teacher's day 💀🤦🏻♂️
@sambikatrading
6 ай бұрын
MINE 3-4 MONTH
@Wonwoah
4 ай бұрын
Our whole class's gift for our teacher in teacher's day is notes saying how she's the greatest teacher and we bought so many cards voting for our teacher to win "best teacher award" our section often wins. And I got my teacher a purse at our Christmas party.
@Jeenal_Danceride
4 ай бұрын
@@Wonwoah woahh..amAzIng ❣️
@LuisMartinez-ku7yh
3 ай бұрын
FR
@semiraibrahim4114
Ай бұрын
SAME
@annie4843
Жыл бұрын
Candles. 😭 i have millions of them lying around. I am sensitive to smells so I can’t use them
@PrimaryFocus
Жыл бұрын
Good one! Scented candles especially can be hit or miss
@BIttersuiteb
10 ай бұрын
But your students are just trying to be nice you could at least appreciate it
@sophsd1aryomg44subslygsm3
9 ай бұрын
@@BIttersuitebThey're talking about the parents
@BIttersuiteb
9 ай бұрын
@@sophsd1aryomg44subslygsm3 and students
@ruthinater4322
7 ай бұрын
Regift
@aineschmidt4881
Жыл бұрын
I don’t know why everyone is being so rude - these are totally valid requests and honestly I taught for one year and it is hard work that does not pay nearly enough!!
@PrimaryFocus
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Finally someone else that doesn’t want to be hit on by a student’s dad 😂
@georgewawman9649
Жыл бұрын
Yeah 3 times the amount of holiday 6.5h working day yep I can see why you could only stick it for a year.
@aineschmidt4881
Жыл бұрын
@@georgewawman9649 Lol it was a volunteer year for a college gap year, no need to be rude :) also please know that the holidays are full of prepping lesson plans, the 6.5 hours is just teaching and doesn't count grading and any after-school volunteering. No need to be judgmental, teachers do an important job and a very difficult one.
@georgewawman9649
Жыл бұрын
@@aineschmidt4881 ah I think I know where my assumptions went wrong. 1 assuming you were a teacher. 2 assuming you were paid. So I can now see why you thought it was hard and not paid enough.
@aineschmidt4881
Жыл бұрын
@@georgewawman9649 The other teachers there were paid. Please have a smidge of empathy.
@maleenarose7431
11 ай бұрын
So giving an apple to a teacher is most likely the better option… got it
@violet18
9 ай бұрын
No, celery has less sugar. lol
@gers9224
7 ай бұрын
Last year I had students that gave me a variety of different fruits! One a day!
@naee_hae
7 ай бұрын
That one physics teacher
@zuzia_ismentallyunstable428
6 ай бұрын
@@violet18 **casually hands stalk of celery to teacher at start of lesson**
@kkpproductions
8 ай бұрын
A kid in my class bought donuts for the teachers SHE LOVED IT ❤
@dontcrybean
6 ай бұрын
Now do one on how to be really unlikable really fast.
@Pinecone_is_watching
7 ай бұрын
Two questions 1. What about gift cards? 2. How to you politely ask a teacher if they drink wine?
@PrimaryFocus
7 ай бұрын
Great question! This video is a parody, but I actually have a whole playlist of teacher gift guides on my channel 😃 When in doubt always yes to a gift card! Not sure your age or what country you live in…Wine is tricky if you live in the USA because it’s illegal on public school grounds or for the child to possess it (even if it’s a gift). But otherwise just have the parent ask what kind of wine they like. It can feel awkward, but we’d rather be asked than have you waste money.
@Pinecone_is_watching
7 ай бұрын
@PrimaryFocus Thx for the pin! I live in the UK so it is legal for alcohol to be on school grounds, just not drank there
@PrimaryFocus
7 ай бұрын
@@Pinecone_is_watchingyou’re welcome! I used to teach with some Brits and they were all disappointed American parents didn’t give out wine lol 🥂
@ThatGirlBria21
7 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but I’d be happy if they got me anything
@janalu4067
7 ай бұрын
@@PrimaryFocusApple? I would love an apple. Not because of hunger - but the symbolism. No bad teacher gets an apple.
@Chxi3453
10 ай бұрын
The second one we always have snacks at the end of the day if it is someone’s birthday or something, so our teachers don’t care and they don’t have to handle a sugar rush.
@qine6559
7 ай бұрын
I love the lotion smell 😅😭
@europeangardenflower9812
7 ай бұрын
I personnally appreciate whatever a parent wants to give. I often feel uncomfortable when the parent paid a lot of money for it. A small gesture or a sincere thank you at the door is enough. I'm too old and too married for avances though. Anything sexual is inappropiate.
@crystalkerstal
Ай бұрын
See, this is everything. A couple of my daughter’s teachers had told me that they never got anything from a parent and they appreciated everything I did for them. I didn’t only spoil them for teacher appreciation, but on random days, with some coffee, bagels, muffins, etc. Or the list you get from pta that teachers fill out. I appreciate all teachers and staff because you never know when a conversation or an incident will shape or change the direction for any kid for the better. Plus, teachers and staff are literally our child’s parents for the same amount of time we spend during the week with them. Because a third is them sleeping, while teachers spend almost one third with them🫶🏻 I tell some of the teachers I trust, in telling them they have permission to give her detention, take away her lunch, take away privileges, and wink wink i tell some I say they have permission to pull her by her ears or throw the chancla at her if she ever disrespects them/talks back, staff, or anyone at that, etc. LOL They all laugh and say she’s a good kid. I just know you guys deal with so much and kids nowadays have parents defend them even when they are wrong and disrespectful. I didn’t grow up that way, and try my best to instill those values to my daughter. As a parent who’s volunteered a lot, you are very much appreciated🫶🏻
@user-mz1ef5jn6j
2 ай бұрын
I gave my teacher a think massager i think im safe
@UrfavLuna1234
Ай бұрын
My teacher is actually very nice about birthdays she leaves the goodies / doughnuts until the end and she lets everyone have one treat for the time being
@MrFreeman0179
Жыл бұрын
Correction: You mean gifts you don't want to receive as teacher.
@veronicasalinas1802
11 ай бұрын
Exactly! Same thing I thought. I bought victoria secret mists for my kids teachers and a $20 starbucks coffee goodie bag gifts. They absolutely love it.
@BIttersuiteb
10 ай бұрын
Yes like everytime I get donuts for my class my teachers get extremely happy and they even get donuts for us sometimes
@jen_gem
9 ай бұрын
Ikr, sounds ungrateful tbh
@mvma.nugget
8 ай бұрын
fr! It does sound a bit demanding tbh and anyways not all teachrs dont want these things!
@mvma.nugget
8 ай бұрын
@@jen_gem omg yea it does lmao
@alyssadana5011
9 ай бұрын
My mom was a teacher before she retired and she was always so grateful - if she didn’t want anything she would let me and my sister look through it or we would donate or regift. It’s not that serious lol. It’s the thought that counts
@SayMyNameAgain
7 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. My mother in law substituted & felt the same.
@alyssadana5011
6 ай бұрын
@@SayMyNameAgain exactly lol
@taktak7353
4 ай бұрын
Definitely. She is so unpleasant.
@Esellie
Жыл бұрын
When my class gives gifts to teachers, it’s usually at the end of the year since we won’t have some of them next year(everyone gets a gift tho). We usually give them a bottle or two of wine, a class yearbook some of the girls made and then just some random things like a bag of popcorn.
@amandanicholls9446
11 ай бұрын
Last year I did two surprise parties with my friends for our teacher but we made sure every other teacher was ok with it
@PrimaryFocus
11 ай бұрын
Love that you asked around first- that’s cute and thoughtful. It’s a tricky balance because teachers have so many things going on. Actions like that go a long way 😄
@fofowameme6072
Ай бұрын
My teacher is obsessed with Victory secrets..
@platy_exe
Ай бұрын
So ungrateful, you don’t deserve anything
@TSFearless1389
7 ай бұрын
I never give my teacher nothing, they gave me a whole lot of stress! My gift is turning in assignments
@Sparkle103y
Жыл бұрын
I was thinking just chocolate, coffee, and a thank you picture im going to paint. I looked up maybe something else to buy her, and i never even thought about those ideas.
@PrimaryFocus
Жыл бұрын
That’s really thoughtful to paint a picture! I’m assuming you’re a student- when I taught fifth grade I had a really talented artist in my class, 11 years later I still have a sketch he drew of me hanging in my office 🩷
@larissaalcorn3406
6 ай бұрын
That handmade painting is a wonderful idea. Before giving chocolate and coffee, it should be considered whether or not they enjoy consuming those things. When I was a teacher, I received SO MANY gift cards for coffee, and I can't drink it. So I would have much rather have something handmade like a painting or note instead of them paying for something I couldn't use.
@MSREED_CUPCIU
3 ай бұрын
Whenever someone doesn’t come back after Halloween our teacher just calls it a sugar coma 😭😂
@letsdanceandcraft9542
6 ай бұрын
Me gifting a red pen to my teachers❤😭😭❤
@jenniferwutt4284
18 күн бұрын
Money is always appreciated!
@CrustyPotatoe24
2 ай бұрын
Why is someone telling me what a teacher doesn’t want like they were expecting me to give them something
@bambamwifewife7379
2 ай бұрын
One time a girl brought cupcakes to school the teacher was chili about it and was even happy!
@nataliaschumacher1824
2 ай бұрын
When i was little i would just get my teachers spec s gift cards
@michellearamis
7 ай бұрын
I don't mind class treats too much. I just let them sit until dismissal and then pass them out as the kids go out the door. Thankfully we are still in No-Parents-In-The-Classroom-Unless-Volunteering mode, so they can't show up unannounced with boxes of sugar. Best rule ever, hope it never goes away! What I can't handle is parents who send treats and there isn't enough for all children to have one. You would THINK this would never happen, but it's amazing how many times we've been sent a pizza cut into too few slices, or packs of cupcakes where the packs are different flavors (maybe good intentions, but I've never had this happen without at least one kid crying as a result), not enough birthday goodie bags, etc. If we get goodie bags, I spend part of my lunch doing a count. Too many bad experiences. Once a parent sent 20 Trader Joe's advent calendars with chocolates. Would have been an awesome holiday gift, but we had 22 kids... thankfully some were absent that day!!! I almost had a panic attack when I saw those things and didn't breathe a sigh of relief until after morning recess when it was finally safe to assume those kids were truly absent and not just late (we have a chronic tardy problem at our school). Coming in at a close second, parents who send treats that require cups, plates, spoons, etc., but don't send those things. Really? 🤨
@thecolorjune
Жыл бұрын
Unannounced class snacks can also be an allergy hazard! Parents should always consult teachers first so they can work together. You’re other two requests are also so obvious that it’s crazy anyone would do them. Such gifts or advances would be very inappropriate.
@Lari_crescent_moon
10 ай бұрын
Yep! I have a nut allergy and the teachers have t tell my family 5 days in advance when we are going to eat food so we can make sure it is safe our get a safe substitute for just me
@user-lq9vc4xb5f
6 ай бұрын
Jokes on YOOOOOUUUUU, I don’t like any of you enough to get you a gift at all😌
@user-nj3mn5wt1t
2 ай бұрын
Um before I saw this video I gave my teacher Victoria secret stuff 😂
@smitapatel-sc8bg
16 күн бұрын
On my birthday at school I gave out cupcakes to the class and my teacher😊
@Janasuiiiiii
2 ай бұрын
My teacher is the exact opposite
@NOORALKANDARI
6 сағат бұрын
My teacher loved that she was pregnant during candy and sweet celebrations
@luvlystxff
4 ай бұрын
what about perfume, thats all i give honestly 😂
@MOosHRoom_cow1
4 ай бұрын
Not me giving my teacher deodorant ✌😂😅
@ariivivs
6 күн бұрын
when I was in 5th grade, my mom bought in 2 dozens of donuts in 2 days in a row even after the teacher told her to stop… it was unannounced and I got so embarrassed 😭
@TheUltimateAngel
6 ай бұрын
OMG TYSM TOMMOROW IS BRING A TEACHER A GIFT DAY TY!
@katcraig7525
2 ай бұрын
I thought that candles would be on the list.
@hollyhorse5774
10 күн бұрын
I think sometimes it's different in secondary school!
@user-jm5kb3yx7r
Ай бұрын
Bro why are you being so ungrateful you should be happy they get you stuff like I hate teachers who do this to kids like this is just rude
@naomigoodridge2036
13 күн бұрын
I got my teacher a cup saying didn't have my coffee so don't talk to me 😊
@Potatoseeeds
Күн бұрын
Speak👏for👏yourself👏
@Mr.Deko86
2 ай бұрын
Got it. Like say they in Puerto Rico, he who does not want soup, gets 2 bowls.
@marvelgeek507
6 ай бұрын
I do basic stuff a teacher might need. Tho it seems boring I gave my teachers binder clips, sticky notes, and dry erase board markers just incase they need it on hand
@dvelasquez2185
24 күн бұрын
A gifts a gift appreciate the gesture 😅
@yannie._.flower
9 ай бұрын
NAH MY TEACHER LOVES VICTORIA SECRET
@stacymcgee5378
Ай бұрын
I always ask teachers and parents before sending in a class treat
@Serenityblu23
8 ай бұрын
Honestly my parents never brought gifts for the teacher. We were on a tight budget plus my parents hated the majority of the teachers I had growing up.
@ColeFung
28 күн бұрын
I gave my year three teacher a bag of shampoo and perfume in a victorious secret bag and wrapped she opened it in front of the class end. She also tried it in front off the class and she loved it so much that she said she will use it when she is done showering
@riazurrahman7222
7 ай бұрын
I have give these donuts so many times to my teachers
@luvs.h1jaba
3 ай бұрын
The worst gift I’ve probably given to a teacher was a planner..
@bstremmel5339
6 ай бұрын
You should be thankful that someone would even try to gift you something.
@Lexonoffical
4 ай бұрын
If i would be a teacher i would seriously take that things
@HW-du5tv
6 ай бұрын
Ok do you want the child to ask you, "teacher,want a glass of expensive champagne 🍾🍾🥂?!??!"
@robynkerr
9 ай бұрын
Teacher mugs, they never get used
@PrimaryFocus
9 ай бұрын
good one! I ended up putting a lot of pens and plants in mugs I got over the years
@ReapTheWhirlwind
7 ай бұрын
I use to always let parents know that any treats should not include anything from the common allergy list and that they will be given in the final hour of the kids time with me. So have fun with your hyperactive kid! 😂
@sameeraronecia1736
21 күн бұрын
I'll just buy nothing - PROBLEM SOLVED 👍🏻
@faizahl
6 ай бұрын
Once we we're going from grade 4 to 5. I gave our English teacher a teddy bear piggy bank, i went to the library store and picked it myself. It is a core memory
@PrimaryFocus
6 ай бұрын
Aww that’s so sweet. I knew a few parents that were teaching their children how to give thoughtful gifts. I always loved seeing what they would pick out for me.
@faizahl
6 ай бұрын
@@PrimaryFocus i also went with my grandmother, it was one of the last times she would accompany me to school before her cancer diagnosis. Thank you for the video. Made me think of the times
@PrimaryFocus
6 ай бұрын
@@faizahl so many onions 🧅😭
@faizahl
6 ай бұрын
@@PrimaryFocus ty for keeping up with the comments, the onions are brutal 😖 I'll come here and talk sometimes, hope you'll reply
@PrimaryFocus
6 ай бұрын
@@faizahl 🩷🩷🩷 thanks for the love! Take care
@sobeitone3336
2 ай бұрын
So glad there is a rule against teacher gifts at my school.
@whateveryousay907
6 ай бұрын
some folks if you gave them a million dollars would complain you gave it to them in 20s instead of 100s
@marilynleonpalomares5941
6 ай бұрын
If you don't want your students giving everyone a sweet treat because it will give them a sugar high just give it too them at the end of the day
@sreelakshmysaju3715
10 ай бұрын
For every teachers day we give them a red pen
@nasslari6911
3 ай бұрын
Sincerely,some teachers don’t even deserve to get a gift.
@SarushaIsMyName
6 ай бұрын
I usually make something for them. This year, it was two crochet Christmas ornaments each.
@arshiyasworld40
3 ай бұрын
In Other countries, students giving Sephora, donuts, candy In India, Students giving Pens
@lilduckyme
2 ай бұрын
THANK YOU for letting me know student THANK YOU GiRl
@yasminaminamina
Жыл бұрын
it depends on the school! I used to get donuts for my 4th grade class without asking my teacher
@gabyn5332
7 ай бұрын
Bro if she was my teacher I would give her the exact same gifts just to annoy her😂
@adaynasmile
3 ай бұрын
And mugs.😂
@jaemruns
7 ай бұрын
This list is too related for me to not think it was the same dad who did all these things in the same day.😂 Oh wait… it was my dad.. my dad would do this as a package gift.🤣🙄
@PrimaryFocus
7 ай бұрын
🫣🫣🫣
@phiacademymaster-songulsev9016
5 ай бұрын
yall she did the help sign in the beginning
@user-wx5mm6ek5d
28 күн бұрын
My frend brings doughnuts 🍩 And the teachers agree 😮
@prabhjotkaur7495
4 ай бұрын
My mum used to work at Victoria secert ❤ but like she left the job bc she was been bullied
@jamesgraham9141
Ай бұрын
Other teachers actually apriciate what there students give them and they don’t complain
@homegrown1015
6 ай бұрын
Never buy a teacher gift...most don't earn it or deserve it...this one is a big whiner...deal with it, babe!
@Candy-wm4nc
2 ай бұрын
I don’t think my year 10 French class will have a sugar high if I give them a macaron last lesson
@F0XYEDITZYT.
6 ай бұрын
I give my teachers usually a basket of goodies, like my teachers liked dr. Pepper so I put that school supplies paper towels wipes tissues etc and maybe something extra
@FoxyOnPawz4789
4 ай бұрын
Not me getting a treat for my whole class yesterday
@AshwiniPramod-pc3ey
6 күн бұрын
My school doesn't allow gifting teachers 😢
@Kakenrikke563
4 ай бұрын
I would never give my teachers gifts-
@Miaplayz14
2 ай бұрын
For the fact I got donuts f9r my whole class and the lil ones nothing happened just happy they ate..
@Maize2
6 ай бұрын
Thanks now I know what to get me teachers!
@The-person_looking-at_you68
4 ай бұрын
She did the help sign
@souravhalder6920
Ай бұрын
Teachers only needs to teach good manners and study us 😢😢
@sigmaalpha3697
6 ай бұрын
Gift cards left the chat☠️
@user-cn8st4ef1q
2 ай бұрын
My mom is a teacher and her and her teacher teammate and they bribe them with treats and prizes so people do their work and they don't get sugar rush or crash
@Starbucks-lovers-13
4 ай бұрын
And muggggggssss!!!!!!😂😂
@PrimaryFocus
4 ай бұрын
No one will ever understand just how many mugs teachers receive 😂
@Starbucks-lovers-13
4 ай бұрын
@@PrimaryFocus 🤣
@juliairis
Ай бұрын
With her attitude, don’t get her anything. Problem solved.
@laurakavassalis4684
3 ай бұрын
Wow someone is such a bundle of joy today!
@-Shuriko-
29 күн бұрын
Once my friend gave our teachers a blender for Christmas.
@marilynleonpalomares5941
6 ай бұрын
Actully that's just what YOU don't want, plenty teachers I know would be very greatful for all of these things
@samsprrr3548
3 ай бұрын
I bought my high school teacher champaign.
@Ava1122-lo
4 ай бұрын
can you give a teacher a book mark that i crochet?
@PrimaryFocus
4 ай бұрын
That’s super cute! Small, handmade, and useful
@melaniebrown9888
6 ай бұрын
Wish i could offer a raise but starbucks gift cards have always been my go to for my kid”s teachers
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