I will no longer tolerate doing relationship things with a man without commitment, which includes simple things such as spending the night. I’m 29 and I realize how much time I’ve wasted throughout my 20s.
@j-tenn226
3 жыл бұрын
I won’t. I’m a virgin at 29 and while it sucks sometimes I do realize I’m making the right choices.
@mademoiselleannarose9623
3 жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 what type of commitment shall we wait for? Becoming his gf, or a bigger commitment?
@mademoiselleannarose9623
3 жыл бұрын
@@FM-zg5hz in order to protect ourselves, should we wait for marriage or simply wait til he asks us to be his girlfriend?
@FM-zg5hz
3 жыл бұрын
@@mademoiselleannarose9623 You’ll know when you feel emotionally, physically, mentally safe enough. With my ex, he invested in me and we slept together after 1.5 months. I felt safe with him and we ended up dating for 6 years. It’s not about when you have sex, it’s about how much he shows you he cares, his consistency, and how much his actions match his words. If he is inconsistent and isn’t putting time, energy, effort, money, into you over a long period of time then do not sleep with him.
@mademoiselleannarose9623
3 жыл бұрын
@@FM-zg5hz thank you ❤
@dxmface
3 жыл бұрын
1. Transitions into move (he wants more). He won't put himself in a position to lose you. 2. Invests heavily over time. 3. Threads lives
@Pancakes4dindin
Жыл бұрын
Thank youuuu. He takes so long to get to the point with these NFL John Madden maps. Get to the point, damn.
@irinaivanovic9792
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. This guy talked WAY too long. I got halfway through and started scrolling for a comment just like this one.
@basicinfo2022
2 ай бұрын
Threads lives?
@inside_the_waiting_room
3 жыл бұрын
Sees title of video...takes a deep breath(bc I know he played me) and smashes the like button!!🤣 wish I didn’t have to watch these vids..when a man REALLY likes you..you won’t have to watch these videos
@Vanessa257888
3 жыл бұрын
I hate it here lol 😫🤣
@zilfariza2010
3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@hillarybillary21
3 жыл бұрын
You’re beautiful. Cry, punch, do whatever you have to do to stay strong.
@4everu984
3 жыл бұрын
💞💞💞 you got this! I watch to stay married....the love affair is truly with ourselves to attract and keep em! 🥰
@tenea24
2 жыл бұрын
Same 😭🤣
@katharina1439
3 жыл бұрын
I always thought the guy pulled away because I've shown my feelings. But it probably was context... Every guy I chose was/is emotionally unavailable 😳
@hannahkrage648
3 жыл бұрын
Def my favorite dating coach! Thankful for your brain and perspective Elliot! Have yourself a good weekend!
@ElliotScottDating
3 жыл бұрын
You too!!
@cocohitchman3209
3 жыл бұрын
Class was fun today you kept it light and fun 😄 dating literally has now become a case study . To be honest it is a skill. Sad it’s come to this, but it’s complex times we’re living in and the dating culture has changed.
@alexandrahernandez3647
9 ай бұрын
You’re so funny 😂 thank you for these pearls of wisdom Elliot 🙌🏼
@JoAnnLewisMusic
3 жыл бұрын
I love this format. It is very easy to follow. I totally agree with your logic.
@andraumida6736
2 жыл бұрын
My favorite part “I don’t care what those other coaches say, I’m right”
@jenmack9566
2 жыл бұрын
I'm in a non sexual situationship with a guy who says he doesn't want to date, but acts like a boyfriend. So what's up with that? He's not having sex with anyone either and only talks to me 🤔
@sunshineonmyshouldersmakes8331
2 жыл бұрын
He's just waiting til you give in for sex... Also he's not into you. You fulfill some kind of role though... Probably his psychologist
@FM-zg5hz
Жыл бұрын
Any update on this?
@stephaniele1358
3 жыл бұрын
Finished the video but what wondering... So what are the 3 signs?
@ashton1952
3 жыл бұрын
Threading, context, advantages... I think
@kaebaegotsnax1907
3 жыл бұрын
This is so funny but factual af 😂😂😂😂😂
@Patachou_
2 жыл бұрын
Elliot I think you’re the guy every woman wants to date!!
@andraumida6736
2 жыл бұрын
I had so much fun watching your video 🤣🤣 “Congratulations you are messing with dark magic” Or “No offense but…..*insert off the wall realistic statement*
@Mostdivinely
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Elliot, im learning so much from u
@MoonFoxASMR
3 жыл бұрын
Ok but then what do you do when he gets too clingy.... or he's perfect except he talks about his ex all the time?
@ElliotScottDating
3 жыл бұрын
It's a standards thing you're letting slip bc you like him. I'd tell him to back up and to stop bringing up his ex bc it bothers you. Those are conditions. If he can't follow them, he needs to go.
@reginaalmaraz7561
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with Elliot. She is a ex for a reason or let him go so he can figure out what or who is more important 🙂
@tam_to_evolve
3 жыл бұрын
If he talks about his ex all the time then he's not perfect sis
@MoonFoxASMR
3 жыл бұрын
Welp, I laid it out and he said he wasn't going to change... so I let him go. I'm so sad but I know it's right.
@ElliotScottDating
3 жыл бұрын
@@MoonFoxASMR I'm VERY PROUD of you tho bc I know it's hard
@sonyasspot355
Жыл бұрын
Yea but if he’s not taking me out on dates, but rather I come over his house all the time, he’s not getting the sugarcane at all. I give it to someone who deserves me period.
@tyna4054
3 жыл бұрын
Elliott is the man 🙏
@ArtsyMegz_On_Etsy
3 жыл бұрын
Is it considered a dive if he is testing me . . . because he was still giving me his full attention, and paying attention to my reaction? If so, I will run!
@oxSoNyAxo
2 жыл бұрын
This is interesting. I guess for some of us who have learned the hard way, the highs and lows would be like dating a narcissist. Lesson learned. ✅🥴 Thanks for giving us perspective! Women do not see it this way. 😅🥰
@deadinside8584
3 жыл бұрын
This channel is insightful AF; Imo--it should be required watching for all high school girls. How different my life would have turned out(!) How different society would be(!) If women weren't dumb & had self worth? You eliminate: most unwanted children/pregnancies, domestic abuse & welfare cases; Tons of drug abuse, depression, STD's, low IQ's....list is endless.(Obviously--Elliot for Potus💘)
@Brandi.Nicole
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank you! 11:00 is a truth bomb for most women - it’s just sex - it doesn’t matter if you withhold. Get over it. You’re messing up a great guys. S t o p. An amazing guy I was dating got nervous and asked if I wanted to “hold off” - I was so confused! He explained it’s because women in his life put stipulations around intimacy. What?! Weeks dating and having to deal with bs rules? I would have dropped those girls in a hot minute (which he ended up doing because it was one bs stipulation after another 🤦🏻♀️) If I am comfortable, attracted, and in the mood there are no damn stipulations. Poor guy jumping through toxic hoops in the past. ITS JUST SEX. Not you - then someone else - we all have needs. “Big deal you’re a ten” 😎👌 You are king! 💯 truth.
@lindsayhartman7135
2 жыл бұрын
But even still, women are right to have sex when it works and is comfortable for her, as it's her body. It's about what is comfortable for her well-being, it's not a manipulative tactic. Men aren't owed or entitled to sex...
@Brandi.Nicole
2 жыл бұрын
@@lindsayhartman7135 Agree fully! My comment was regarding using it as “leverage” which, lets be honest, I have seen women even in marriages do 🤦🏻♀️ But you are 💯 correct! There is a difference between manipulation and not at that stage yet - being comfortable, having trust, and an actual desire to have sex is a must! Sex should never be used to obtain any goal except a deeper more loving connection - a sharing of mind, body and soul. Unfortunately western society has used it for marketing, to sell, to achieve, to gain - thus society has sometimes altered a man’s perspective on what he is “entitled” too bc he thinks he has “earned” it. (Usually young or uneducated men) But yeah women aren’t innocent either!! We know we can use our sensuality and feminine nature to gain. 😒🤷🏻♀️ Example: if you have attended any “master class” or read the dating advice books a good percentage often recommends women using sex as a tool to achieve success - “you don’t put out he will like you more” or “withholding sex brings higher value” 🤔 Labeled as “male psychology” it is misleading and causes mind games. Let’s just be honest - if a man is ready for a relationship and feels a connection his bond will become stronger just spending time with her. Sex will eventually happen - he will bond either way if he really likes her. Sex rules 🙃 over simplifies everything too much when in fact a man’s attraction is actually just as dynamic as ours. The real “tool” is self care, healthy life style, rapport, mannerism, respectful communication, and intelligence. Leading research (blah statement bc again and again it’s via dating apps and with Ivy League studies targeting the younger crowd) but I digress… it shows the words a “man” relates too time and time again are: “fun” “relaxed” “ease” “caring” Did notice it doesn’t describe “society” defined male psychology of sex hungry simple brained humans that can’t make choices / decisions or even see when they are being manipulated? It describes what most people want…. “I want a relationship to be comfortable, have a flow of ease, her to be caring (smile - ability to make her happy etc) fun (bc duh life is suppose to be fun 😂🙌) and who doesn’t love hanging out with someone who can be relaxed in their own self confidence and being? I wrote this more for anyone who needs to read it and who may feel shame for wanting sex right away - in no way was I trying to make someone uncomfortable for not having sex - caring and having respect for themselves IS attractive and a man who understands and respects boundaries is easier as we age in life. (My opinion)
@moonlightprincess449
Жыл бұрын
Would you say lovebombing is a guy talking about tricks and he just talking to girl and wanting to meet her family and not even in an official relationship and saying he loves you already and wanna marry you when y’all just recently met on tinder ?
@dora1589
Жыл бұрын
Tell them they need to get tested early on. Ppl are spreading HPV & Herpes w/o knowing it
@Ks_milf
3 жыл бұрын
Damn straight, you are the one that's right🙌. Great vid Elliot❤💕
@AbbersSmileFace
3 жыл бұрын
I have a question about this... what if what I am noticing is a slower progression than what you are describing on this graph? When I'm thinking logically, I'm thinking nothing he is doing is advantageous for him.
@ElliotScottDating
3 жыл бұрын
6-8 dates lol. Then ultimatum. Doesn't matter
@mariapap8962
2 жыл бұрын
Good information but it could have been given in 3 minutes rather than nearly 30...
@rareroseglosses1554
Жыл бұрын
I don't think any man wants something serious because I have kids
@audreynicoletti7329
6 ай бұрын
Sex is for after marriage
@wildwoman4911
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Elliot, Find a person who knows how to do process decomposition flowcharts for you!
@Surfsup448
3 жыл бұрын
Religious people are also crazy when it comes to dating. Men are not easy to deal with.
@dianneciresi6324
3 жыл бұрын
Mine had religious beliefs being a Baptist Christian but was brought up like me in the hippie generation of free love. Don't know what to think..
@Surfsup448
3 жыл бұрын
@@dianneciresi6324 They try and do everything by Gods word . So everything has to be perfect so they don’t feel guilty. Sex with someone you don’t do before marriage. It’s a belief thing. Not always easy to deal with.
@evaelizabeth6186
3 жыл бұрын
Your too funny 😂
@audreynicoletti7329
6 ай бұрын
Clean up your language!!! Show respect to Jesus you took his name in vain twice!!!!
@cringeproof100
2 жыл бұрын
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well." -Matthew 6:33
@ms.carnage5689
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@stephanie3506
3 жыл бұрын
What he gets when he commits that he's not getting right now is.....my LOYALTY TO HIM!!! If he doesn't commit...I will date other men! PERIOD...if that happens he may loose out to another man.....🤷♀️
@stephblenheim4283
3 жыл бұрын
This is excellent advice!!! Feel guilty when dating other guys but if he's not stepping up to claim me then what are we doing acting exclusive to a man that's unsure
@neekag7244
3 жыл бұрын
Women, you are giving too much power to men. You are the prize. All of this is too difficult, and it's too much thinking. Follow your intuition. Nowadays, it's almost like begging a man to want to be with you. Flip that. If he wants you he will commit. If you want him you may want to commit. Men have become the women and women the men. Women just love yourselves and stay in your femine energy, and your King will find his Queen (You). If not, take a damn vacation and love on you and your family. Blessings!!!!
@kfa6830
2 ай бұрын
Absolutely. The notion that most guys can have sex with "many many women" is nonsense.
@northshorelight35
Жыл бұрын
The key take away is to stop wasting time with men who don't want a relationship or is unsure. I personally know this guy who loves doing the relationship stuff like meeting the family, building a business together, spending the night together, doing lots of stuff together, etc. but he's not actually interested in marriage. He did this with an ex for nearly 10 years without any plans to ever marry her because he claims that he never really loved her in that way. To be fair, she is not in his league BUT it only goes to show that men are totally capable of having this kind of long-term relationship with a woman they're not in love with.
@MC-rw2bk
3 жыл бұрын
Damn. Never thought I would have to take college-level classes just to find a partner. Good information, though. I just feel that so many men want to keep their options open. They are going to end up alone forever.
@factswise-psychologicalfac84
3 жыл бұрын
😂 really??? And who's gonna be the Cat ladies.
@DallasJayCook
3 жыл бұрын
They want all the girls on their FB 😆
@MC-rw2bk
3 жыл бұрын
@@factswise-psychologicalfac84 At least pets are loyal. Plus, I see alot of bachelors with cats so the cat lady stereotype is outdated. What's the point of having a relationship if there is no love, loyalty and trust?
@MC-rw2bk
3 жыл бұрын
@@DallasJayCook I've noticed the girl collectors on FB. That's why I only accept close friends and family on FB. It's all an ego boost for men.
@factswise-psychologicalfac84
3 жыл бұрын
@@MC-rw2bk Pets are not only loyal but also Easy to control.... And that's what women want to do...
@realalldway-raw4996
2 жыл бұрын
It's scary that Elliot is right... But it is what it is. Sometimes you just have to walk away from people who don't serve you well in the end. No matter how much you want them. 😞
@raquela.3483
2 жыл бұрын
yeah
@driftingofftosleep
3 жыл бұрын
As a visual type learner I really appreciate these graphs! Makes it easier to understand
@brittany8741
3 жыл бұрын
@driftingofftosleep what he said
@stellarstar9340
3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯 agree with you!! Elliot’s videos & ways of teaching is AMAZING!!! Clear, to the point, but very well explained. TY ELLIOT!!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻🔥❤️😎
@julia3061
2 жыл бұрын
Agree!
@carriewang3707
3 жыл бұрын
lol women should take and keep options, until he begs to drop others and he does the same!!
@foreveryoung1088
3 жыл бұрын
He begs me to drop others and he does the same, but he still don't want to commit until he's financially stable, he asked me until this Oct. What should I do? 🤔
@stephblenheim4283
3 жыл бұрын
This is all so true. Problem is I see a quality guy for a month, several months, then they lose interest and go back on the dating app looking for another option. It's exhausting. I wish dating apps were never invented. It's ruined dating and relationships. I wish things were as they used to be before all the dating apps because too many people are going through these problems of not getting any commitment anymore. Men say they want relationships and women are guilty of this too, but people are setting the standards too high and people are constantly looking for someone new.
@Brandi.Nicole
2 жыл бұрын
Not the apps fault! Sounds like you have a dopamine deficiency to be honest and crave that rush of chemicals. Me too. I get it. I take adderral but still love meeting new people and trying ehem new things. I look at it this way - It’s scaffolding - we see what we don’t like and then go find what we do like. It’s this or better most of the time. BUT, maybe you just need a guy who is more open, who travels, who is exciting? Have you checked out seeking? An affluent guy may be more your type to keep you on your toes. Don’t ever feel bad about leveling up!!
@Brandi.Nicole
2 жыл бұрын
Just realized I sound like an ad. 🤣 My point is level up - and keep going. Men with $$$$ can offer more possibilities and a more dynamic life - go to places they are - you’ll see what I mean. Usually more intelligent, older, confident and have the money to have actual fun!
@SR77736
Жыл бұрын
Or they say women's standards are high bc they want easy access to her.
@livinggood6876
3 жыл бұрын
Perfect analysis, thank you! I just went thru this, I did not stick around. I think he was surprised I ended it. Once the context was created, I was realizing I didnt want what was being created bc it was inconsistent.
@akuasalaam490
2 жыл бұрын
THIS!!!!!
@rebeccajones8628
3 жыл бұрын
The blackboard with red, and blue and lines all over is how he makes my brain feel with all of his game playing. NO.
@tam_to_evolve
3 жыл бұрын
I usually dont want any KZitem videos anything more than 20 minutes! But I have to say I absolutely LOVED this video! Thank you Elliot!
@ElliotScottDating
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@jellymedina
3 жыл бұрын
witholding sex is dumb! it won't make a guy like you more, i've dated a guy for three months and he spent resources on me, had sex and he bounced! If you want to do it do it. the guy will like you regardless if you have sex early on or not.
@roguelioness
3 жыл бұрын
So true, love bombing at the start and lots of big gifts because he saw you might like the thing is horrible as there's no true connection, small things he sees because he thinks of you even if he's seeing other people but is consistent over time until you make it official and he drops everyone else is much much better to show he likes you most.
@christinagj911
3 жыл бұрын
What happens when I am emotional unavailable but want to become available. And then find the same in men 🤣🚩
@penelopejadebeauty
3 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about how men transition to wanting a relationship after being emotionally unavailable. Specially if he's been divorce?
@exclusivelymade
3 жыл бұрын
I’m such a visual learner so this was great. Sometimes we realize we already know most of these things but we slip up on having boundaries and following our intuition within ourselves. Thanks Elliot!
@ElliotScottDating
Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@amysho2192
3 жыл бұрын
Why don't men want to be in a relationship if he doesn't "need" to be? Do women always trap a man in a relationship by manipulation or threats? What is bad for the man when he is in a relationship? Why do women want it and men don't? Please explain the peeks a woman has in a relationship and the downsides to a man being in a relationship. Thanks.
@ElenaKomleva
3 жыл бұрын
Most men want a relationship and chaise women and offer them to be in a relationship, the problem is, usually these particular women they chaise don't want these particular men lol
@Joker-2357
Жыл бұрын
A women mostly will have a gd monthly salary without doing anything in the form of alimony, starting from any day she wants …. Even if she has gd education and job … So , this is the park women has been in a relationship. U can argue , what if she earns more. In 99% cases women always date men who earns more than them…. So thats why marriage is only beneficial to women. In past men used to provide for women , they dont have to do anything But also that don’t cost 1/2 of earning if he is a high earner …. , divorce was very rare and it was almost unthinkable that a wife will leave her husband took his money and then start living with another man… But for a man with his 1/2 salary he is not getting any new girls anymore… Thats why men are not willing to not get married easily , they r scared 😅
@kimt8162
3 жыл бұрын
He's so right in the consistency. Teenage version; he doesn't know what to do. Out of school, he's acting weird, staring. Okay, yes, he so was staring at you; he accidentally threw his skateboard into the pool and got in trouble for it. In school, doesn't even pay attention, checking out all the girls. Normal for the age. The girl; should she go out of her way for him? No. He knows where you live, he doesn't go out of his way for you. But, you run into him all the time. You live in the same neighborhood. I call this, just too little or too much going on. If he wants to date you, he needs to stake a claim. He's just playing games because again, he's so young. So until he makes a move, you two are just friends. or even just acquaintances.
@scooter3026
3 жыл бұрын
Well, he should not be dating if he does not want a relationship.. That's where the whole problem lies, a dating app is not a free escort service. Hopefully there will be an app soon where these sleezy guys pretending to be dating for real when they are not gets reported and banned..
@stephblenheim4283
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with this 100%. I feel disgusted how guys treat dating as a free escort service knowing they go into it knowing all they want is sex and give you zero. It sickens me. Times like this I understand why the escorts are charging and at least they get paid and compensated to be treated in such a way.
@cherrylane79
2 жыл бұрын
So many people lie, cheat, use, abuse, play with people's feelings, that it's hideous. The dating apps and sites have made it easier for them.
@kelliritter8688
3 жыл бұрын
Dating men advice all from the drivers seat on a chalk board bigger than Einsteins and yet the most accurate information on how NOT to give it up. Thanks Elliot.
@wongfrancis
Жыл бұрын
That's some excellent coaching! You may think it's crazy, I run my relationships like an airlines. My flight has a designated time to take off. The passenger (my date) reserves a seat and knows about the date. The day wheh he commits, that's like the passengers are checking in his luggage, ready for departure. (A relationship is formed). But, if he's hesitant and being very ambivalent. My flight will take off withoit him, hopefully, with another better and more willing passenger. The trick here is not to delay and hold your "Flight" for someone who's indecisive. Having high values and sticking to them is very important. It will attract the right man and drive away all the wrong ones.
@ebbflow8002
3 жыл бұрын
I love how direct u are. It makes me laugh. We women can be so complicated sometimes.
@gloriamondragon105
3 жыл бұрын
I just started dating again .. But, Damn all the signs, signals , trying to figure a man out is driving me bananas! 🤷🏻♀️
@RoseRose-hp4rq
3 ай бұрын
If a guy wants a relationship and is truly ready for one, and if he likes you enough to not be able to handle the thought of other men having access to you, he will take you off the market quickly. If he doesn’t, then you’re just nice to have around but not good enough for him to commit to. It’s really that simple. Spend some time getting to know him, see if you like him or not to begin with, then watch his cues. If he is content with having something casual, and not actually locking you down, then decide if that’s something that you wanna be part of…if it’s not, then remove yourself from the situation. Simple.
@icysnow57cold64
3 жыл бұрын
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.
@NatalieGrishin
11 ай бұрын
Why should I trust that he will not use early sex against me, if I don`t know him well? It drives me nuts when a guy expects sex on a 3rd date, like I owe him... and if I am not for it, I am withholding sex? WTF! for me, emotional intimacy should preceed physical
@flightforlight157
3 жыл бұрын
Basically a man needs a woman with wife worthy qualities like virtue, diligence in work, honesty, kindness, etc
@jellymedina
3 жыл бұрын
elliott your advantages are perfect. if you are available and he sees you all the time without commitment, why would he commit?
@JoAnnLewisMusic
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree. But could we touch on what to do different if you are in this position?
@isabelsmith109
4 ай бұрын
When u put it this way...why do guys ever want relationship 😂
@helenebasson8995
3 жыл бұрын
Elliot I need to get you to draw EKG Rhythms for all my medical students. 😁maybe they will learn something.
@ElliotScottDating
3 жыл бұрын
hahaha
@candacehearn1771
3 жыл бұрын
Do other men hate him for putting this info to us women lol Remember him caveman. We should know this. If he likes you he likes you no matter what you do. Then I think to myself why do I feel the need to acquire a PhD to get a guy and keep him lol wtf
@edendeville
3 жыл бұрын
I need work out how to actually find a guy first. Lockdown isn’t helping 🙄
@Melinamiu007
2 жыл бұрын
I like listening to Elliot because I think he really does explain how some men think and their logic process. However I would like to see how his teachings develop as he grows in consciousness.
@lj7780
2 жыл бұрын
love bombers are not emotional available and this tactic can be a start of a lots of dammage, it can cost your health also
@celestesmith9636
3 жыл бұрын
Your my favorite coach you put it out as real as it is i relate with all you say thankyou so much just makes me value myself more
@ElliotScottDating
3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@budgetrebelgoals
3 жыл бұрын
Nice. I still havent found the one that wants and deserves me. I need both!! happy new year!!
@ThePhoinix33
3 жыл бұрын
Yes,Queen
@factswise-psychologicalfac84
3 жыл бұрын
You never will sweetie..
@ThePhoinix33
3 жыл бұрын
@@factswise-psychologicalfac84 Boys vs Men..some of us know our worth
@ElliotScottDating
3 жыл бұрын
Happy new year!!
@tanjawicks5175
3 жыл бұрын
I am always happy when I see you up by the blackboard 😆 I like that you map it out like a relationship science. I’ve been watching your videos for months and am now in a relationship that is fitting the steps you lay out so... so far so good 😊 thanks for your tips and intelligence! It’s helped big time!
@tanjawicks5175
3 жыл бұрын
Also the new format is great! It seems quicker, less messy and your able to jump around and explain things more easily through the graphs.
@rondaallen844
2 жыл бұрын
Elliott your king of the coaches
@ElliotScottDating
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you that means a lot
@VLoveTarot
7 ай бұрын
Are you a Virgo or any other earth sign? I love how detailed this was. Thank you 😊
@stephblenheim4283
3 жыл бұрын
I have to say, seeing your graphs at the end, they are completely accurate. I am Surprised how accurate they are. Men used to act properly like they used to. These days it's like you need a degree to get a man to commit. Fml
@kathylopez6767
2 жыл бұрын
Nope, I have a masters and trust me guys actually get intimidated and act like jerks because they don’t want the woman to be superior
@Va13chka
2 жыл бұрын
@@kathylopez6767 Real men who are secure in their masculinity won’t get intimidated of a successful woman. They will put the work to earn your trust and make you happy regardless. The ones who have an issue with it want to do bare minimum and act like the prize and keep you codependent. Never let a man treat you with inferiority.
@kathylopez6767
2 жыл бұрын
@@Va13chka You are absolutely right sister! Love your comment!!
@Va13chka
2 жыл бұрын
@@kathylopez6767 Yess 👏 it’s important to stay single and have self love and be independent first before committing or never change for a man you will only be depressed and miserable.
@Sparksflymich
Жыл бұрын
hi you are the best dating coach out there, thank you for not only listing out 1 2 3 4 5 signs but actually explaining them - IT REALLY HELPS KEEP UP THE WORK PLEASE
@kayanatorx3
3 жыл бұрын
I LOVED this. you really answered a lot of my questions that I've been dealing with my crush. thank you elliot!!
@no1zzle3
3 жыл бұрын
Da fuq? You better believe my sex is fucking special!!!!! Anywhoo Elliot, love the edumacation, however ima need you to step it up and apply the attachment styles because there will be different outcomes based off of their style.
@tess7798
2 жыл бұрын
You are so direct and so funny! And I find your perspective and delivery great!
@alexadigitalux
Ай бұрын
Exactly! I only date men looking for a stay at home wife or a sugar baby! That’s my preference 😊
@isabelsmith109
4 ай бұрын
Lol I gave my fwb all those assets. But also , I fucked it up several times. I have done a lot of work on my emotional health...but I get it I fucked it up
@tenea24
2 жыл бұрын
This was the best lecture I’ve ever had . Ever. Thank you.
@pixieazul19
2 жыл бұрын
Seriously! I love the way you blackboard it!! Charts and graphs... love it!!!
@tinalena
8 ай бұрын
You say he’s divorced or been cheated on.. what if he divorced a long time ago? Or he was cheated on years ago? Does that count as emotionally unavailable?
@sandradaeschler6620
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Elliot! Looks like my guy is the emotionally unavailable type!! You answered a doubt I always had for almost 8 years!!
@monikaleszko5343
7 ай бұрын
Ok someone answer this….when should you have the move in together talk? On average. I know there will be lots of options but I think 6 months is too soon ! 1 year at least even 2
@messigoat575
Жыл бұрын
What happens if you are friends and he acts like an elastic band. For example, you meet up then between meet ups he goes silent. Our friend group regularly meets so I need to be careful how I react
@Patachou_
2 жыл бұрын
That’s a very useful video. I love the way you explain things, show us the red flags but most importantly I love your spontaneity and straightforwardness! Thanks!!
@bigkahona8444
3 жыл бұрын
That’s too much game playing .
@isabelsmith109
4 ай бұрын
Can you talk about a guy who is co par3nting with ex and they have good relationship
@bonezbaaaby
3 жыл бұрын
LOVIN this new technology you got Elliott!!!!! Steppin it up!!!!! MMMmm
@irennoo
2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness.. i loveeee youuuu when u’re outta topic ((again)) 😂😂😂😂😂💋
@juliamallik9316
3 жыл бұрын
I wish teachers in school had taught like this because it's great for us ppl with ADHD 😂🤣😂
@akuasalaam490
2 жыл бұрын
"You don't want any spikes rather it's up or down. You want it to be consistent."
@pinksky8460
Жыл бұрын
Great video ! Thank you. I learned a few things I didn't know..
@winniecox1129
2 жыл бұрын
Great explanation! I appreciate you explaining context AND your visual chart explanations. Thank you.
@dianah.9905
6 ай бұрын
Hello. Is 6 months single to recent? I’m talking to someone younger too.
@camelianegoita4460
8 ай бұрын
This is spot on!!!! Amazing work Elliot.
@jennifernunez220
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Finally broke things down & made it so simple, logical and it just makes sense!!! Finally! 🙏
@jambam4642
Жыл бұрын
The graphics is halirious but its helping someone 😂😂😂
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