I’m actually relieved when people cancel. Because then I don’t have to go. But your first and third, absolutely.
@ctrhomeschooling
2 ай бұрын
@@levityoflonging22 thank you for sharing
@LadyPelikan
Ай бұрын
I agree. Unless it's something I really looked forward to (certain real friends), I'm more relieved than annoyed!
@chatroom101
Ай бұрын
Being stood up! Worse than cancelling.
@juancena1259
Ай бұрын
The slow walkers thing is so directly challenged when you become a parent and try walking anywhere with young kids lol. I want to let them experience their wonderful experiences but sometimes we gotta get the ffrik going lololol
@TheMusicalHarmonee
24 күн бұрын
I’m sometimes relieved when people because I was on the fence on whether I really wanted to go. I would say “hate last minute changes on things we’ve mentally prepared for”.
@juancena1259
Ай бұрын
I also never imagined i would experience any sort of road rage as I'm pretty live and let live. Never cared much about other drivers as a passenger. Once i started driving and getting comfortable, it really started getting under my skin when people were not keeping pace or doing dumb common senseless faux pas. I start getting a lil angry then have to take a couple deep breaths to catch myself and calm so i don't start making mistakes, too.
@masterjunko
Ай бұрын
I'm not sure if I have ADHD(or another form of it) since my family doesn't really belive in diagnosing that sort of stuff, but I have been resonating with a lot of ADHD content recently and I do plan on checking for it with a doctor when I am 18, so I hope my takes on these are all still valid because I can relate to this as well. For number 1, when I'm walking along my pace varies and sometimes I do walk very slow, other times I just wanna get from point A to point B and I will sprint if I have to. That and sometimes my pace makes a beat and when that rhythm is slowed down I almost feel like I'm lagging lol. For number 2, there have been a few times where that really does drive me up the wall, but often most plans that get cancelled are a breath of fresh air because I don't have to stress about it anymore. But, the opposite of this REALLY grinds my gears, when someone makes spontaneous plans and just expects me to bounce up. I'm okay with last minute cancels, but goddamn if you tell me "Oh by the way we have to lrave in 5 minutes, I forgot to tell you." Well... We aren't leaving on time 😂. For the third, I get called lazy a lot, and for a long time I did believe it until I heard the quote "Lazy people don't feel bad about being lazy" and that was a big eye opener. I relate to juggling so many projects to do that you judt get paralyzed just thinking about anything you have to do, and the longer you're paralyzed the more you worry and the more things are added to the pile. It's just a vicious cycle. The qorst part is when I finally muster the energy to just get one thing done, and the moment I get.up someone else tells me to do the exact thing I just got ready to do... Whyyyyyy 😭
@nomoreraisins
Ай бұрын
My gods, that last sentence hit so hard 😢 Now they deprive me of feeling proud i finally mustered the energy to do it, and i really really need that. It keeps me going through my task list and making other little achievements.
@justv3289
Ай бұрын
I feel this so much
@jenniferhizzy6591
2 ай бұрын
People with adhd actually work much harder than neurotypicals
@ctrhomeschooling
2 ай бұрын
@@jenniferhizzy6591 thank you for sharing
@nidhoggstrike
Ай бұрын
But we have less to show for it...
@johnwalker1058
Ай бұрын
The cancellation one depends on the situation. If it was something I was looking forward to, or felt needed to be done, then yeah, a last minute cancellation for any reason other than a dire emergency can be quite infuriating. Otherwise, if it was something that I was not actually looking forward to, or especially dreading, then a cancellation of that event actually brings a sense of relief instead, since I escaped an obligation that I didn't want to be involved in anyway.
@nidhoggstrike
Ай бұрын
Nunber one is not true for me, but I see your point. When I walk, I rarely have a point B where I need to be, so I can take all the time in the world and I do. But If I'm in a hurry, I get annoyed no matter the mode of transportation.
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