Every story, every child and every mother are different. Me for example was unaware there was anything wrong with me, I grew up in a toxic family, I grew tired of my life and what was happening, so I started therapy to find help to change it. In Jan 2019 I came to my children after an emotional break through and I apologize to them for all I did or didn’t do. With my youngest I carried guilt and shame, so I tried to make things ( my failings) up to her. She took advantage of that and over a few years drained me financially and when I started putting up boundaries to that, my daughter started calling me a narcissist and toxic, she has convinced many people of this and how I victimized her. She has gone no contact and I no longer speak with my eldest grandson and only see the youngest grandson maybe twice a year through my eldest daughter. No reconnection for us, because I think she took this one too far this time, there’s no coming back from this, plus she won’t hear off working it through.
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