If you suspect you're in an unhealthy relationship, remember that support is available. Don't hesitate to reach out for help. Please consider sharing this video message
@shivaayeedits
7 ай бұрын
👌👌👍
@djert24
7 ай бұрын
Second.
@Toni2010_love_mc
7 ай бұрын
Can you make a video how to help a person to exit an abusive relationship
@theperson4yearsago565
7 ай бұрын
Nuh uh
@niasiamack9333
7 ай бұрын
Okay
@Faith-.-
7 ай бұрын
Here’s a brutally honest sign to: you clicked on this video. Now there are two reasons for that. One, you are just really anxious about your relationship, maybe you haven’t been treated right before and you are just looking for validation to make sure this one is the one. Or you know you’re in a toxic relationship and you want someone else to tell you because you know you should leave. Well if that second one is you, here’s your sign. It’s time to leave them behind and find someone better. You can do it!
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
But he wants to destroy me. And everyone thinks him and my other abusive ex are perfect saints,it's breaking my heart.💔 and my ex is love bombing me a lot but lies to me. He never hits me though. His wounds on me are psychological and invisible.😢. Everyone thinks he's great, and both him and my murderous ex are working together ( at least that's what he threatened me with.) Then he said," what if I throw you in jail?" " What are you going to do then?" Then he goes back to being nicer. It's torture. Because I can never guess what's coming next. And there's spyware on my phone. They keep doing it! I've gone through so many phones. I feel so trapped and defeated.
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
I have two ex's that want to hurt me. One threatened that he'd get the other one after me. I've tried to leave but they found me and I ended up coming back because my other ex sent people ( gang members) after me when I moved out on my own. There's no escape For me. It's too late
@riffmagos
7 ай бұрын
I was in an emotionally and mentally abusive relationship for ten years. This exacerbated my existing childhood traumas. I wouldn't wish that experience on my worst enemy. 😔
@ArchAngel435
5 ай бұрын
26 yrs, mentally, emotionally, verbally financially and sexually abusive. I don't recall the love bombing, but I failed to set strong boundaries and got caught in the web of lies and manipulation. Still dealing with the trauma bonding
@resolutestarman8318
7 күн бұрын
Bro that word for word describes how my childhood went for me. I’m still dealing with the fallout of it and I want to help my family who has gone through it while at the same time I could just walk away and start a new life at college. I’m still working out what to do
@conniewolf7300
6 ай бұрын
Silent treatment is one of the worst!
@meeatyuwhole3889
7 ай бұрын
Living with a narcissist sucks
@bluelotus9654
6 ай бұрын
Most on this list are Narcissistic abuse actually. There is other kind of abuse that is also non narcissistic.
@wendyg.2664
6 ай бұрын
💯💯
@GoWithDaFlowMo
6 ай бұрын
Try living with a histrionic with a whole lot of borderline and narcissistic traits, like winning the cluster B jackpot... How on earth did I ever get this blind to have fallen for someone like that... He seemed so genuine and loving at first, felt like the luckiest woman alive and now I don't know what to do to get him to leave me alone, it's a nightmare..... 😢
@marieledu8228
5 ай бұрын
@@GoWithDaFlowMocourage, sweetheart. You're not alone. Sending you strength and love
@xitsoksana8773
3 ай бұрын
I live with narcissists and I can't escape, it is very hard
@bluelotus9654
6 ай бұрын
Ì would say a common sign is actual verbal abuse and controlling behaviour and constantly criticizing the other person, frequent anger, insults, demeaning the other person, frequently telling the other person they are incompetent or they cant do things, constant criticism, not wanting the other person to go out and do things, frequent ignoring or not listening, etc. Then refusing to acknowledge any of that. Also a very clear sign is in the home. There will be an issue freqently around Cleanliness. The person will either be a sloth or neat freak or combination to suit. It can manifest many ways, but often often involves them bringing those around them to task (very easy way to abuse others and come up with whatever complaints they like). Basically it's a convenient way for them to be a frequent Tyrant and abuser in the home.
@famingo4363
7 ай бұрын
We talk about how one can deal with narcissists, but what can one do if that one is the narcissist themselves?
@janice2992
7 ай бұрын
I can't get away from all the narcissists that I collect. I just have to remember that some are born that way it can be genetic. Some are made that way by their difficult life experiences. ❤
@derekmaullo2865
7 ай бұрын
@janice2992 Humans are selfish and narcissistic by nature
@monsterhunter445
7 ай бұрын
If you are aware you are one then you should be aware to correct your behavior.
@tannertate6138
7 ай бұрын
*Person with narcissistic tendencies here.* LOTS of therapy. Look at your own emotional and psychosocial tendencies as often as possible. Acknowledge the reality of how your brain works and find someone to help you find ways to work around it. Recognize that you don’t actually want to hurt people. Therapy. Seriously. A LOT of it.
@bethanyroserubright3484
7 ай бұрын
I think it might be even harder if both partners are narcissists themselves and sometimes I worry that either I might be in a relationship with a narcissist or that I might be a narcissist myself. I know I have a lot of inner demons and sins that cause me to struggle with my relationships and even making new friends. 😢💔
@luvqraft6024
7 ай бұрын
Spying on someone in their own home would qualify as abusive….
@B.i.d.e.n
6 ай бұрын
I go thru that
@annjohnson8437
6 ай бұрын
@stripsss999 Me too. 😢
@hikerhobby1204
6 ай бұрын
It depends on how old you are.
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
It's happening to me and I am at my wits end. He's got spyware on my phone again!! I've gone through so many phones but he just keeps doing it.😢
@A55a551n
7 ай бұрын
Timestamps 1). Too much of a good thing 0:36 2). Are you sure 1:47 3). Puppet on stings 2:52 4). Trauma bonding 3:57 5). What now 4:55 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
@pearlsplayground
7 ай бұрын
My first relationship I did not realise was abusive until I got out of it. The reflections I underwent during therapy and being alone hit me hard that all those signs were true. I was blinded by what I thought was love because that was all I wanted. The most heartbreaking thing for me was I wish I knew back then how to stand up to him during the times I felt sad or terrified. I am in a much better place right now but there are days I look back at that person and wished I could help her. I hope anyone who reads this who has ever been in this similar situation, know you are not alone. There are good people out there who will listen and be willing to help.
@Q-Susi
6 ай бұрын
Remember, abusive people are often also in need of a therapist. But this is not in your hand...
@damnablethief
6 ай бұрын
Emotional abuse can destroy you. And when you're a dude, other woman believe you are less of a man for going through it. You're just stuck dealing with it...alone. IDK it will never happen to me again. I think the worst part are the rumors. Rumors can ger you killed. Sad fact of life.
@damnablethief
6 ай бұрын
It's ok, though, Karma is getting her. Noone wants anything to do with her anymore...because they watched what she did to me.
@Omaha18
7 ай бұрын
My PTSD turned into a C-PTSD after 5 years with a very, very abusive partner. All of these points happened at some point during it, and i'm so glad i'm out of it now.
@boycrazygirl567
7 ай бұрын
This is the relationship/situation I'm facing right now with my boss. 5 long years with them gaslighting, love bombing, manipulation, lying, going around my back, and showing favoritism. I know I will be out of this situation by the summer and I'm so ready!
@HumanandAnimalSupporter
7 ай бұрын
I can help you Document Incidents: Keep a record of specific instances with dates and details. Establish Boundaries: Set clear professional boundaries and communicate assertively. Seek Support: Talk to trusted colleagues or HR (human resources) to share your concerns. Self-Care: Prioritize self-care to manage stress and maintain your well-being. Know Your Rights: Familiarize yourself with workplace policies and your rights as an employee. Professional Advice: Consult with a professional advisor or HR representative for guidance. Consider Reporting: Report serious misconduct to higher management or appropriate authorities. Explore Options: If conditions persist, consider looking for alternative job opportunities. Remember, your well-being is essential, and no one should tolerate abusive behavior in the workplace. If needed, consult with professionals or legal experts for personalized advice.
@pechaa
6 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you've been enduring that so long. That's terrible. Best wishes to you.
@yourbodyandu
6 ай бұрын
Best wishes.
@shardulsonwane675
7 ай бұрын
This video is everything i needed to hear. I knew everything the girl i was dating have done all these things but i always thought she did all these things unintentionally. I also have ADHD which made me fall in love with her intensely and it is much harder to leave her. She fake promised me things like she can't leave me at all even if she wanted and now she is withholding love. I am grateful for the friends who recognised this behaviour and told me to leave her. I started my ADHD meds again and now i am planning to leave her.
@AlejandroHenriquez-sp2fz
7 ай бұрын
I am wishing you all the strength 💝 and courage you need! May this be the beginning of a new chapter in your life. Hopefully you'll find someone better who'll treat as greatly as you deserve. Wishing you all the best 💖
@Ambivertedsoftie
7 ай бұрын
You have some true friends and hopefully you find the girl you deserve one day
@HowaroHans
7 ай бұрын
Same thing happened to me, but i get it myself, 'coz i don't have friends, and my mother is abusive narcissistic (my dad left us when i was 3). So, perseverance, stay strong. 🙂
@desertantler
7 ай бұрын
Ditto 🖤
@Katlovvet
7 ай бұрын
I’m actually so happy someone finally recognised emotional abuse, I left my dad a year ago but he emotionally abused me and threatened harm sometimes
@HumanandAnimalSupporter
6 ай бұрын
You can get assistance from people You can call or get the police Since he is threatening you
@neowolf09
3 ай бұрын
"Open up to someone you trust" would be nice to have one of those
@spiritwalker6153
6 ай бұрын
I watched my son being emotionally abused by his ex-wife. It was painful to watch.
@Cherrycreamsoda1
7 ай бұрын
Sending all my love to anyone in this situation. Hope it gets better 🫶💔
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I'm living a nightmare.
@GoWithDaFlowMo
6 ай бұрын
Thank you..... ❤
@ABE2000
7 ай бұрын
This is like how it happened to me from my ex-gf. But I did let her go, cause to love someone that I care about, I must let the toxic relationship go and move on to restart a new beginning. I'm honestly lucky to have good lessons by your team, it did help me to realize. Thank you for this.
@hotpotgame
7 ай бұрын
problem is even after knowing it.....we just cant come out of it because we try to justify it with the brighter side tht they love us sometimes at least
@H.Liddell
6 ай бұрын
This is where I'm at with everything right this moment. Last night admitted to myself that I'm in this situation. Now what do I do to get out of this
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!! It's not always bad, sometimes they are kind! So it makes it that much harder to leave. :-(:-(:-(
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
@@H.Liddellif you do leave I'll be praying for you. Leave your devices behind because abusive partners are known to place parental monitoring software and maybe use Find My Device to track your location down. It keeps happening to me! Do yourself a favor and assume that nothing you write online is private. Might already know!! Watch your back now,,step out in faith and leave. Make a clean break. Now. Just in case he's on to your plan. Prayers.
@janice2992
7 ай бұрын
Its only through you tube videos that I can learn what happend and why. Love bombing does not always come at the beginning. Some times its later on or depends on finances.
@nataliaw.1371
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for providing explanation Psych2Go. Fed up with toxicity
@emilschonemann6344
7 ай бұрын
I mostly try to avoid relationships, so that neither me or my partner would be like that.
@kindnessandgracestaysmilin5990
7 ай бұрын
But just to be clear this isn’t to say there won’t be rocky points in a healthy relationship. And like in the beginning where it says going to sleep worried, sometimes that is a personal insecurity problem to work out. Which I definitely had in the beginning of my relationship, bc I was insecure, but if you’re needing validation constantly that can be exhausting for the other person.
@js8224
6 ай бұрын
It's amazing how this info extends into the workplace culture too. Not just for authority figures but co workers too who want to be their flying monkey.
@davemustachio2734
5 ай бұрын
Wow!!! You are describing my wife to a T. She has been verbally and emotionally abusive for a few years now. She insults me in front of our friends and makes me look stupid. I pack my stuff and was ready to leave. She was shocked and I told her I’m not dealing with her shit anymore. She finally agreed to go to counseling with me. She is starting to turn around now and realized she pushed me away.
@jenniferfernandes257
7 ай бұрын
How to save someone who's in a abusive relationship?...
@unbuennombre5040
7 ай бұрын
Send them the video!
@juliefisk8066
6 ай бұрын
You can't save them. They have to want to save themselves. No one could save me from my 30-year marriage to a covert narcissist. Everyone saw it except me. I knew there was something wrong with him, but I always blamed myself, which is what he wanted me to believe. One of my children is currently living my exact life. I have tried to help her get out, she makes the same excuses I did for 3 decades. When I finally left, she took my ex-husband's side and didn't speak to me for nearly 6 months. She even considered never letting me see my grandchildren ever again. The person in the relationship has to come to the realization that they need to get out on their own. The more you push, the more you try to get them out before they are ready, the more you will become the problem. Trust me. Please just be there. Just love them in whatever moment they are in. Don't run away because it becomes too much, or they won't listen to you. They need you, in the good and bad times. I was abandoned by many people who promised to never leave me because they couldn't handle it. Being involved with a narcissist is a very lonely, sad, stressful, and horrifying place to be. We just need to know that we have someone we can count on. You are a wonderful person for wanting to help. It takes a strong person to see and speak the truth, even when we don't want to hear it! Many blessings and love to you. Also, please remember that once they get out, the battle will just be beginning. They will need you more then, than they do right now
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
Research support shelters. Slip a note with crisis numbers on it quickly and quietly to the person. Don't forget to advise them to leave old phone behind as the abuser will often load it with spyware that can give away the victims location! Give money and understanding. It might take awhile for her to get fed up enough to leave. Be patient, and listen. Encourage documenting the behaviour and only put that proof in a safe place! Like a friend house. Photograph bruises . Make copies. Smartest thing you can do. That's what I did. Pray for her safety. This can be life and death. Remember Chris Watts and what he did.😢. Tell her that she should try to keep him happy ( only for now) and to not be afraid to reach out from a friend's devices. NOT her own. Best advice on it I can give and I speak from experience. You're an awesome friend to care! Blessings.
@lucyt-c8092
6 ай бұрын
they have to save themselves- You can pray hard and stay ready tohelp when they are ready..
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
You can give them a list of shelter phone numbers and crisis numbers. You can be supportive and document the abuse with photos of bruises. You can tell them to leave their phone behind because sometimes abusers put spyware on their phone that will give away their location. Find My Device should not be on. My stalker ex kept finding me because he did that. So it's very important that she uses a safer device to find resources! Prayers that she or he gets out safely! .
@MistresstheMediator
3 күн бұрын
The effort being put into the illustrations, especially the joker and Harley Quinn are hilarious and so cute😂
@DeltaChaosMix
7 ай бұрын
I know this is about romantic relationships although I feel like platonic relationships can also apply but holy crap this sounds a lot like the relationship I am in with my parents. I depend on them and they won't let me go. All these signs applied to them.
@siouxsielover88
6 ай бұрын
You could talk to children's services about getting emancipated if you're under age. If you're an adult save money.
@goodenoughgirl8102
6 ай бұрын
It can happen in any type of relationship in any setting, not just romantic ones. I recently found myself sucked into a thing for maybe around 2 weeks (non romantic) before I realized and saw it. Even that short bit had me reeling for days and going back and forth with a ton of self doubt. I nixed it tho but even after doing what had to be done, there was still a lot of mental torment to push through. Not my first rodeo, but ya know they tend to pounce when you are having a vulnerable moment or going through a vulnerable season…(In this case I had a short bout of feeling lonely and there they were)…and that’s why it can happen to anyone who is simply a human being. Anyone.
@hayeonkim7838
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for meaningful and valuable video as always ❤❤❤
@ozanark1226
6 ай бұрын
Please someone tell me it's going to be okay. I've been abused by a goddamn narcissist for over 4 months. Never been reciprocated, appreciated, always felt like a burden for expressing my needs, wants and desires. Got told i was things a big deal, that i needed to shut up. She was always there physically but never spiritually. I never felt her existence with me. Eyes rolled whenever i adressed something that bothered me. Never controlled her, never stepped in her life trying to control things, but at the end i only got irritated by a real irritating guy and wanted her to put a little distance. Guess what ? Got labelled as insecure and controlling and now i've been left...
@pechaa
6 ай бұрын
The leaving was a gift. You're free now. Best wishes.
@joannm5981
4 ай бұрын
This happened to me too. It’s not your fault, even though they try to make you feel like that. A normal person would respond to your concerns/needs/and wants with consideration and kindness. Not, “it’s not my fault you’re insecure.” I was told that too. All the while you’re trying to show them love and care. But at some point you break, I did. I blew up bc of all the dismissing my concerns and the built up little jabs, “that were jokes.” He ended it saying my intent was mean, but his was joking. These people are not safe and they have things going on in their head that need help from a therapist. Anyway , didn’t mean to rant but know you are not alone in this. Hopefully we will find someone that will truly respect and cherish us.
@BeelzeKid
7 ай бұрын
but still more complicated / thay could also withdraw from you and block and gohst you and youse that as a wepon , someone can even gasslight you into doing thees things and make you look like a abusive partner where thay rly are the abusive one complex control mechanisms ... this is way more in depth then you think and it should be double as long atleast ... this topic is hardcore to me
@thatgirlwiththecrazyhair2067
7 ай бұрын
Could you make a video about when the manipulation leads you to give up your independence like encouraging marriage, moving in quickly, finding you a job in the same workplace etc etc. I know theres no right or ethical way to tell someone how to get out of abusive situations but when i wonder if theres any things to think about when trying to escape a manipulative relationship when its at its worst. I want the people who are deep in it to have access to this information. My friend is currently in this situation and I handled it badly. With how her boyfriend controls her, the words i said probably added to her reasoning. I may never talk to her again. She blamed me (advised by her current boyfriend) for being a bad friend and that she had to cut me off for that reason. I found out through someone else that the boyfriend then gave her an ultimatum. It was me or him. I handled it badly because my mental health was in the trenches and i took it to heart. Didnt say the greatest words to her. Shes cutting off everyone left and right. Theres less and less people who are able to mention the red flags without being cut off and i think it would be beneficial for all in similar situations. They may come across it because youtube is amazing like that. Thank you for this video though, its helping me understand alot. I know I should have made it alot less obvious that i was critising the relationship and just been a silent watchmen almost. I pushed her to cut me off because i didnt have the capacity to sensitively handle this. Because of realising that im determined to educate myself on topics of abuse and trauma and really understand the severity of these situations. I lost a friend that day and it haunts me knowing i can't help her anymore. I lost my chance. Thank you psyc2go ❤ you're doing wonders.
@Taishawn24.7
7 ай бұрын
You guys have no idea how much I needed this video rn
@rhysdav70
7 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that u need to report it to the police is it physical or emotional or mentally
@rhysdav70
7 ай бұрын
I witnessed it w my mum and dad
@Taishawn24.7
7 ай бұрын
@@rhysdav70 I'm really thinking about reporting it to the police. It's mental, emotional and verbal and it's the person's family members as well. I've been harassed, hospitalized for self harm, then harassed for being hospitalized for self harm and just other bad things
@rhysdav70
7 ай бұрын
@Taidhawn24.7 I don't know u well but I will always be here for u and psytogo is as well
@Taishawn24.7
7 ай бұрын
@@rhysdav70 thank you so much!
@TokariHakari
7 ай бұрын
i love watching this relationship situation type videos. Even though I Don't Have A Partner😪.
@kittyco0n
6 ай бұрын
I have been accused of love bombing and gaslighting. Plot twist: my partner has paranoid schizophrenia. I've ACTUALLY never done or said the things he accuses me of. OFC I deny having done or said those things. Lovebombing? Yeah. I see the person behind the illness and despite being blocked and pushed away many times, I am still here for him because everyone else gave up on him. Family, friends, former partners. I can't blame them, schizophrenia is hard to deal with, especially for family and partners and he pushed everyone away because of his delusions of being psychologically abused. No one can really take those accusations for long when they didn't do what they're accused of. Trauma bond? Maybe. But who are we as society if we just walk away from the ones that need us most?
@leftykeys6944
6 ай бұрын
All this sounds too familiar. I went through this; but *not* with my husband. With my brother!! (Long story...) Now that our parents are both gone, I hope to never cross paths with him again.
@ennardthefuntimepuppet6456
7 ай бұрын
This reminds me of Andrew Graves and Ashley Graves, Such memories
@derekdale3269
7 ай бұрын
How do.we break the bonds and learn to walk on our own. when we spend a lifetime accept abuse too belong its so soul destroying 💔 Hope that for those affected and hide who they are they can breath and live again and find the acceptance community love and support they need to fullfill and rewrite their narratives with the vulnerability compassion and equity of bonding so that their future is beautiful If you tend to yiur souls they will live and grow and in time yih will achieve happiness and wellbeing
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
You're a beautiful soul. I hope everything goes great for you!
@Vixinaful
6 ай бұрын
And all the ones Ive had did NOT lovebomb but started degrading slowly from the start.
@Vixinaful
5 ай бұрын
@ConfusedRiver-ff6lh Got out one week ago. Live with pain now, looks like I developed autoimmune disease from the stress. Already had one, now I have two. I got out too late.
@elisciachristie6984
6 ай бұрын
I've only gone into a crazy twist. My phone and the person I was with phones kept going off about a sickness and said to get checked out. That was 2021 into 2022. I've been to the doctor’s office several times since, and I have not gotten back any bad results. It's 2024. Now and I can't lie, I have felt different but also. I don't do any of the things I would like to do. I don't like medications. I'm not smoking, drinking, not having sex, no masturbation, I don't watch porn, never really did in the first place, and not clubbing. I go and take walks, take pictures of nature and my grandchild. I've become scared of what to do. I also don't trust the information I get back from doctors because I really saw my information get switched around. So I also don't want to ever be intimint ever again it's already been two years. Oh, and it doesn't help that person flat out said to me, " Oh, you don't want to do that he'll make you sick. I also see my information is still being messed with.
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
There's spyware on your devices. 100%> you are possibly not safe yet. Get new ones from a store you don't usually go to and better yet get someone else to buy one for you that they won't recognize if you can. You are being digitally stalked. Get rid of old device before you buy the new one and beef up security and take a self defense course. All practical measures to take. Your safety is important! Don't ignore your gut instinct!
@LastEarBender
7 ай бұрын
Well chosen background music for this one.
@essencesilver1540
4 ай бұрын
Ive seen someone get loved bombed before, then they got yelled at the gifts from earlier was used against they and the partner made them feel indebted
@gabimurray5955
Ай бұрын
He's fully convinced me I'm the problem So I left Because I don't want to hurt him anymore, but then he keeps trying to contact me. He called my boyfriend and convinced him to let me "hear him out" He didn't let me get a word in edgewise, just garble about he needs a temporary break from me for his mental health. If I ever say I'm suffering too, he claims I "don't know the meaning of suffering" He also calls me a pathological liar, which I am unsure if I am due to memory issues and he calls me the r word all the time but says it's out of endearment I still am convinced I'm the problem and he's not aware he's harming me
@GodHelpMe369
6 ай бұрын
Nothing to live for. Nothing to hope for. 999-trillion oceans of despair and grief. Rage rapes me. I feel suicidal. I don't breathe. I am submerged in frozen darkness. My soul silently wails. I have nobody. I'm all alone. Desperately. Lonely. Filled with anguish and terror. I can only pray to die. I don't know what else to pray for. All I feel is misery and desperation. Grief eats my soul. I cannot, do not breathe. He left me. Discarded me like last week's garbage. The despair is truly unbearable.
@thegreypath1777
6 ай бұрын
@GodHelpMe369 - Go to your local Public Library; get a book called “The Obstacle Is The Way”, by Ryan Holiday. Read it. Volunteer. There is always someone worse off than you who needs help. Good luck to you. You are not alone. 💐
@ML-HS
Ай бұрын
What if you are told? Only to dismiss them because you invested a decade or more. Got a shut-up ring and you are sure you can fix the person despite the obvious signs they will never change. You allow them to jerk you around like a puppet because you are so trauma-bonded you can't leave. Abusive relationships take a toll not only on the person in the relationship but on their friends too. It's not good being blown off and told - it's just how we roll. No need to worry. He/she is ruthless, but we work because I can take it. He/she likes that they can be fully themselves and I won't take offense. Now I ask you -is this normal?
@madtheghost337
6 ай бұрын
P2G!! Longtime fan here! Love this channel! Would love to see a video on 'REVERSE GAS LIGHTING!'
@Goofy_Clown
5 ай бұрын
I terrible at goodbyes but I think my gf has a lot power over me and the relationship and has used almost all of these manipulation tactics at some point in the relationship. And I think I’m to the point where I don’t even think I have a future with this person and staying any further would do more harm to my mental health and me financially
@teegutta4689
7 ай бұрын
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND TOXIC FAMILY WHAT IF THE ABUSER IS YOUR PARENT MOTHER THIS TOPIC IS MY MOTHER, HAVE A BLESSED DAY TEE 💯🙏
@AlejandroHenriquez-sp2fz
7 ай бұрын
I totally understand you 🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝🤝
@KennieJr-g2d
6 ай бұрын
Your voice is peaceful!
@cosmicboi1650
7 ай бұрын
If only I knew this before she hurt me..... I would've left earlier... That wicked witch...she hurt me so much....and she had the audacity to say she loved me.. If you loved me... you wouldn't have hurt me. (I'm recovering slowly but surely.)
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
Very sorry you got hurt. She sounds awful. Healing will come with time. Keep being strong. Do not react to anything she does,no matter what! Otherwise she will claim you're an abuser. And any reaction will be her " proof". I wish you safety peace and healing.
@cosmicboi1650
6 ай бұрын
@@Stubbornclarity I deleted all socials of her, I blocked her, and I even told her I didn't want to be friends with her when I dropped her stuff off. Now I can finally do the things I want to do without someone trying to manipulate or guilt trip me
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
@@cosmicboi1650 good for you!!! Nobody should ever treat you like that. So glad that you are out! Put yourself first for awhile then find a way to give back to those less fortunate because you got out alive and well. She sounds like a Jodi Arias. Glad and relieved that you are FREE! 😊
@kayagamble
5 ай бұрын
Could you make a video about different types of physical abuse. Because there are physical abuse that we might not see as physical like getting in someones face, and throwing, and spitting. Things we think "well, he hasnt hit me" and might brush off
@elisciachristie6984
6 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Connie-Hugley
6 ай бұрын
After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
@claireymacd
6 ай бұрын
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
@Connie-Hugley
6 ай бұрын
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Claudia Vecchi Nese .
@Connie-Hugley
6 ай бұрын
@Connie-Hugley
6 ай бұрын
@dravenschwendeman7919
5 ай бұрын
i aint getting in a relationship so I don't gotta worry about this :/
@careforjusticealways
6 ай бұрын
me being single af: write this down!!✍🏽👩🏽💻📝
@brianaschmidt910
5 ай бұрын
1:47 not my partner, but my family.
@rupamtiwari2137
6 ай бұрын
Experienced same thing four yours ago. I didn’t know that time this happens as well. Even family does this as well.
@user-HellcatHemi
6 ай бұрын
Emotional & verbal abuse is jst as devastating dangerous & far too prevalent for the lack of actual attention it needs for the archaic law's we have regarding this, stalking & TRO for most of the crimes ARE & CAN be prevented & lives saved, BOTH SEXES.
@TATZELWURMFORSAKEN
6 ай бұрын
Women used mist if not all of this against me all these years. Starting by my narcissistic mom and her family. My last two almost relationship destroyed my self-esteem and willingness to fight to improve. All because Im still unable to love myself. Solitude is the only way to be truly happy!
@sbtiger556
6 ай бұрын
If one doesn’t understand the true origin of said behavior, what is the outcome? What dynamics do all of these names create in terms of how to fix the named issue? Where do we get the answers as to how to help those with said behavioral issues and those being harmed by them? Is it a mental health professional? Is it someone else? If everyone can be labeled with a new name, what’s the problem? What’s the solution?
@sbtiger556
6 ай бұрын
There are many things and acts associated with an abusive relationship. What I find odd, is how out of nowhere they now have all these NEW names. Love bombing Gaslighting Narcissistic Personality Disorder I didn’t even have to type those out the first time Already programmed into this smart phone I’m 46. I’ve been involved with psychology since I was 17. Strange how those were not terms until recently. A “disorder” for EVERYTHING
@josephjohnson8949
7 ай бұрын
Unfortunately for me...I've felt all of these over the course of things...this failing relationship...
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry.💔. I know it's so damn hard. I wish I could fix it all for you. Wishing you safety, peace and a way out when you're ready. Leave your devices behind if you leave. They might have parental monitoring software and spyware that gives away your location to him on them. It happens to me and I'm not out yet. Strength and power and peace to you my fellow survivor. We can do it! 😊
@josephjohnson8949
6 ай бұрын
@@Stubbornclarity thank you. And, I'm having to leave my wife for her actions. Fortunately getting all my stuff was easy, and I've checked my phone, laptop, and external drive for monitoring apps. I'm good there
@Stubbornclarity
6 ай бұрын
@@josephjohnson8949 awesome 😎. I wish you the best. Happy trails
@annaburns2865
6 ай бұрын
It doesn’t matter. When you tell your mom about these red flags she will still encourage you to go for it. Too bad nobody warned you about her. Other than using the word “co-dependent.” Which is a “code” manipulative word in itself.
@ms.v3nti
7 ай бұрын
Hi! can you please do a video about 8 signs your parents are very abusive?... But you don't notice?..
@AlejandroHenriquez-sp2fz
7 ай бұрын
I was about to request the same thing!!!!!
@ms.v3nti
7 ай бұрын
@@AlejandroHenriquez-sp2fz Slay💅
@KimDriskellNicholson
6 ай бұрын
I love you, you are so strong and beautiful! God is good!
@artisticafflair408
5 ай бұрын
i have separated from my mentally abusive husband.
@maribelmarzan9820
7 ай бұрын
Hii!! There im a new subscriber i watched your vids of 6 signs your freinds are not..real friends......❤😢
@s.williamc.
6 ай бұрын
The classical music is brilliant! Thanks for the info.
@damianr4680
6 ай бұрын
I think I am in it. I’m trying to get out and I’m totally lost and I’m doubting my reality. Maybe she is right and I’m crazy and fcked up, but I think I’m in this type of bond😊
@lucyt-c8092
6 ай бұрын
pray hard and watch you tube ( secretly )!
@damianr4680
6 ай бұрын
@@lucyt-c8092 what?
@GTDpowah
6 ай бұрын
I think I was to blame of love bombing. :( She left me after 16 years and 9 years of marriage because I took it down a notch as I grew up and she missed it. Now I don't know what to do. I am beyond broken. :(
@aleenaasif1306
5 ай бұрын
Yes, truly abusive. It is not a relationship. Because we don't talk. But he spies me, and sends me emotional messages related sex, emotional love messages. Keeps me away from my career goals. Don't let me have my financial independence through his power. He is a spy. He likes to control and manupliate people. He called me third class. That words were very toxic. He gaslights and never shows. He works behind the curtains. He is post- ISI agent of Pakistan.
@wittle5788
6 ай бұрын
How do u make a loved one see that they are being abused and with a narcissist, how to I save someone from the emotional abuse
@snows_life6474
9 күн бұрын
What if you cant go to someone you trust because your partner took them away because there a different gender or because they never leave you alone even when your with your friends...
@ronaldmurphy2419
5 ай бұрын
Of course the word gaslighting come in. This is very 2024
@anna98_ck
7 ай бұрын
Love your content, but can I suggest that you proofread the subtitles? What's the point in having them if they don't make any sense?
@abenamenaka
7 ай бұрын
Talk about maladaptive daydreaming plz
@LarkRoland
6 ай бұрын
Yes ithink so he told me he won't hurt he had hit my arm
@bebelmuniz
7 ай бұрын
@psych2go can you please make a video explaining reasons of why people have outbursts? Thanks.
@BeelzeKid
7 ай бұрын
yes all the way !
@K0DYD
6 ай бұрын
Question. If you actually like this type of relationship, will you be considered mentally unstable?
@Absolhunter251
7 ай бұрын
I’ve been in a narcissist relationship…. 😢 for 2 years… it hurt.. My ex was Aaron like guy…. I’m unable to heal…
@HumanandAnimalSupporter
7 ай бұрын
I can give you suggestions so you can heal from the narcissist relationship 1.Acknowledge and Understand: Recognize the narcissistic behavior and understand that it wasn't your fault. 2.Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries to protect yourself emotionally and mentally. 3.Seek Support: Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for understanding and emotional support. 4.Focus on Self-Care: Prioritize self-care, including activities that bring you joy and relaxation. 5.Educate Yourself: Learn about narcissistic personality traits to gain insight into the dynamics you experienced. 6.Therapy/Counseling: Consider therapy to work through the emotional impact and develop coping strategies. 7.Journaling: Write about your experiences and emotions to process and release feelings. 8.Rebuild Self-Esteem: Engage in activities that boost your self-esteem and self-worth. 9.No Contact: If possible, maintain no contact with the narcissist to avoid further manipulation. 10.Forgive Yourself: Forgive yourself for any perceived mistakes or shortcomings in the relationship. Remember, seeking professional help from therapists or support groups can offer personalized guidance tailored to your situation. If you're dealing with the aftermath of a narcissistic relationship, it's crucial to prioritize your mental and emotional well-being.
@trwimsstudytips
7 ай бұрын
Hello Dr
@caterinadelgalles8783
6 ай бұрын
Bree Chavez of Moscow.
@lovelily8310
5 ай бұрын
A lot of these videos make young women spy abuse where there is none. It’s sad for everyone.
@KevinTuesday
7 ай бұрын
Some women are just brutal.
@kaleidoscopingme
6 ай бұрын
Yeah cause some woman are abusers. Humans are never "just brutal". And it's not okay.
@marisaelenenadiejamusiccom3974
5 ай бұрын
Here with common sense about Will common sense
@christyevershappily4eversafter
5 ай бұрын
This gave zero helpful info and fake examples didn’t help.
@Agent.K.
7 ай бұрын
What if Aaron was going the extra mile then it became stressful for him and he needed to slowdown? But psi got used to the "extra mile" that she views it as the minimum and now she feels entitled 🤔
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
7 ай бұрын
What if Aaron was going the extra mile, and then it became stressful, but said nothing about it and just stopped, and the psi expected consistency and communication?
@Agent.K.
7 ай бұрын
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 What if Aaron did communicate and express his thoughts clearly to Psi, but she refuses to believe claiming Aaron is not trying hard enough 🤔
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
7 ай бұрын
@@Agent.K. then that would've been communicated. If you're unwilling to be consistent, then you don't need to be in the relationship. “I know I used to give a lot, but I don't want to anymore so just stay with less. Sound good!?" Go find someone who wants less
@Agent.K.
7 ай бұрын
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 Aaron clearly stated at day one that he will be giving less due to life circumstances that both sides know about. Psi agreed. But then Aaron started to show glimpses of his amazing self on occasions, which was in the "extra mile". Psi started thinking Aaron is not giving 100% and no longer wants what they initially agreed on.
@theperson4yearsago565
7 ай бұрын
Nuh uh
@morningstarboi6861
7 ай бұрын
I don't love bomb, at least, i don't do it on purpose. It's just that i periodically loose all affection, and i can't love that person, or anyone once I'm with them
@aliaanpilohava8114
6 ай бұрын
like for "putin" joke)) this was hilarious and super unexpected XD thanks from Minsk) I've been subscribed for quite a long time, thank you for great videos
@Wertziot
7 ай бұрын
Can we or sould I say I need a video of ,,do I have a mental disorder" I tend to have a LOT of very violent thoughts (you and I do not want me to detail it) but I fear that this maybe is a bad mental illness 😅😢
@Insecure_baddie
7 ай бұрын
The animation is so cute 😂
@nuhanadhirah
7 ай бұрын
My bf and i we haven't talk or text since 16 February, why? Can you tell me
@HumanandAnimalSupporter
7 ай бұрын
Maybe He could so busy with other stuff that he does not have time to talk to you if so then he will talk to you if he has the time
@lucyt-c8092
6 ай бұрын
I would think he just doesn’t want to . a month is along time .
@sbtiger556
6 ай бұрын
Do we attach names to that which we don’t understand to origin of? Or do we create a word for every single different concept for a specific purpose other than what it is? Is this to deflect the truth and true origin of named concepts and behaviors? This behavior is absolutely REAL. Is it really what society calls it?
@sbtiger556
6 ай бұрын
Can a person identify the real problem when there are thousands of different concepts and many of them have the same of similar attributes? Does this allow for accurate identification of the issue? If not, then can the issue be addressed? Are we missing the mark entirely? Human nature does not change. Behaviors such as these have always existed. Of this is true, when do we make progress on resolving the issues?
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