I personally feel like I’m better at reaching my goals when I keep them to myself. Anyone else feel this way?
@sennosc
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, i dont like talking about plans, i prefer talk about achieved goals.
@chandlerlewis3309
5 жыл бұрын
This is because when you talk about your goals, you get a small amount of satisfaction from people telling you they’re good ideas. You shouldn’t get that satisfaction until you complete the goal, so good on you.
@kaeya8674
5 жыл бұрын
I’m thinking keeping my goals myself will be then depend on someone to do it for you 😔 and yea completing your goal feels an awesome satisfaction
@ohthefrogs8075
5 жыл бұрын
I have that because I have a constant fear that people will say I shouldn't bother with my goals. Even when they don't say it, I panic and overanalyse what I want to do to such an extent that I stop believing it's possible.
@nugirl45
4 жыл бұрын
Psychedelic Cub YES!!!!!! I feel the exact same way.
@reyalexandro
5 жыл бұрын
I've been on my own for 6 years now. Yes it gets lonely sometimes, but theres no freedom like having a home with total privacy. I love it.
@johan5504
5 жыл бұрын
Rey That’s about to change my friend; address ?
@april8tost
5 жыл бұрын
@@johan5504 lol I was thinking the same. But I'm batteling through life to get my own freedom as well ^^
@johan5504
5 жыл бұрын
april8tals hmm I have one solution, how about not seeing ‘life’ as an obstacle.
@april8tost
5 жыл бұрын
@@johan5504 That's not what I meant...
@johan5504
5 жыл бұрын
april8tals ok and ???? 🤣🤣🤣
@ridorock6
5 жыл бұрын
So I just found out this guy was a god at track, got a 4.0 at HARVARD of all places, and has a successful KZitem channel. My man won at life
@budderboyjt12
5 жыл бұрын
I saw that too! I was looking at the roster and was thinking this guy looks really familiar.
@Jake-gw6yg
5 жыл бұрын
He is a 4.0 Harvard student. Yes he is gifted genetically. Not any regular person can do that you have to be blessed with insane intelligence.
@abhirupan7630
4 жыл бұрын
@@Jake-gw6yg not really though. not undermining john's work but you don't have to be insanely intelligent lol. its how effective you are with your studying and learning.
@UnknownCartoonEditor
4 жыл бұрын
Snoop Dogg Another mediocre person pointing peoples accomplishments to things that didn’t matter
@daniild.6752
5 жыл бұрын
When you are alone, your brain will come up with all kind of questions and statements that will totally change your perspective
@mumtazbajri7910
5 жыл бұрын
ya
@FunVideos1019
5 жыл бұрын
what do you mean
@aiery5309
5 жыл бұрын
true
@projectjt3149
4 жыл бұрын
Kruiger 101 For me though, I come up with too many that I get confused. I find that when I’m exploring campus more, I keep bumping into people that I can reach out to and find resolutions to these questions. Sometimes, observing a situation answers those questions too.
@fatumamusasaid1192
5 жыл бұрын
John Fish: takes a breath My mind: he is sooo smart
@Ackmood
5 жыл бұрын
6. Don't put forks in the microwave
@ripvanwinkles
5 жыл бұрын
Busta
@AnaS-hy6kt
4 жыл бұрын
Did u mean “ folks”?
@kevinmunive3619
5 жыл бұрын
Everything John says refreshes my brain
@97Andras
4 жыл бұрын
John doesn’t need motivation. Motivation needs him
@cata112233
5 жыл бұрын
After enough time being alone you start missing human companionship, but at the same time you star fearing it because you will feel like you have lost the ability to communicate and empathise.
@Aaron-ln3ht
4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry :(
@andreealazar7038
5 жыл бұрын
I love how u and jade support each other, great content as usual ❣️
@davidgabriel5125
5 жыл бұрын
Taci fă
@thejohnfish
5 жыл бұрын
Love Jade and her merch
@Nesggy
5 жыл бұрын
@@thejohnfish wow too much love here
@ritamtalukdar6079
5 жыл бұрын
John Fish send free stuff
@nellieeess
5 жыл бұрын
I always loved being alone like in my room but knowing that my mom was in the kitchen downstairs or my brother was playing video games in the living room always made me feel safe. Living alone, there is absolutely no one there and it’s kind of scary.
@00vulture
5 жыл бұрын
pooping with the bathroom's door open boom I just changed your mind
@jasonzong7811
5 жыл бұрын
Arnaldo Alves thats too much power
@sophieosu
5 жыл бұрын
@@00vulture not having to worry about your parents busting open your door without knocking and leave it open as they leave boom even more reason to live alone
@00vulture
5 жыл бұрын
@@sophieosu hell fucking yeah
@Justin-ev8nn
4 жыл бұрын
You get use to it.
@HumansOfVR
5 жыл бұрын
*_No more spontaneous social interactions, sound nice as an introvert TBH_*
@Nesggy
5 жыл бұрын
I am an introvert too :( I can't interact with people
@notoriusdrifter40
5 жыл бұрын
@@Nesggy then you have social anxiety
@Nesggy
5 жыл бұрын
@@notoriusdrifter40 yes
@zaid1126
5 жыл бұрын
@@notoriusdrifter40 genius
@vastroy6307
5 жыл бұрын
Life Progress - a channel for introverts as an introvert I enjoy being force outside my comfort zone
@MattFishh
5 жыл бұрын
too much talking, not enough minecraft content
@thejohnfish
5 жыл бұрын
Shut up nerd
@VideoAulaslo
5 жыл бұрын
@@thejohnfish hahahhahahaha
@Nesggy
5 жыл бұрын
@@thejohnfish haha his brother commented on his channel. Awesome work on your minecraft base with John btw
@redox6548
5 жыл бұрын
Wise words
@sulmanawan8505
5 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoaoaoaoao
@Hisham_HMA
5 жыл бұрын
8 years alone here just one advice :don't get used to it everyday you fall deeper in a whole you can't get out of then you do everything on your own and you don't need anyone else and you get stronger and at the end, life won't have purpose because life is in doing things and doing them with people and needing and helping each other , and if you are too strong you won't be living .
@camdengraves1442
5 жыл бұрын
Hesham Alharthi I’ll be your friend bro 💯
@Hisham_HMA
5 жыл бұрын
@@camdengraves1442 pfff you wish😂
@00vulture
5 жыл бұрын
9 months alone here, 400km away from family and friends, I don't know no one around here, moved out to be stronger by myself. Turns out I'm really fine alone but I have no reason to wake up sometimes... Reading your comment made me realize that I do need my family and friends, even though they may not make you stronger, but instead they make you happy. Thank you so much, you helped me with a problem I was having for a few months.
@Hisham_HMA
5 жыл бұрын
@@00vulture glad i could help ^_^
@camdengraves1442
5 жыл бұрын
Hesham Alharthi lol I was just trying to be nice
@cinemoni
5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos, they're so inspiring. I would listen to a podcast from you for sure (if you don't already have one).
@blazereho811
5 жыл бұрын
+1
@rainbows945
5 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the world after college :( Have to try harder to make friends
@TatysWyldeRide
4 жыл бұрын
Living alone has made me realize how much I value the company of people even if they are a room away. Often times I find myself spending my nights alone and those are the hardest. Too many thoughts and no one to express them to. I'm looking forward to having roommates again (also living alone isn't cost-effective and it sucks working so much while also going to school). I do enjoy the little things, but it's hard to appreciate those when I'm dancing alone in front of my bathroom mirror with a cup of wine.
@Starsgraphy
5 жыл бұрын
No better way to spend my break in between class by watching a John Fish video👌🏽.
@NikkoZa
5 жыл бұрын
Man that beard/trim suits you well!
@haleypham
5 жыл бұрын
yale (sux)
@thejohnfish
5 жыл бұрын
You get it
@maddy4180
5 жыл бұрын
the whiteboard lol
@anarhisms8315
5 жыл бұрын
Haley Pham oh hi haley
@marijaob3302
5 жыл бұрын
that "YALE (sux)" on the whiteboard tho 😂
@aarushg7151
5 жыл бұрын
Yale does suck tho
@avenhere
5 жыл бұрын
@@aarushg7151 get to highschool first buddy
@jackyoung8354
5 жыл бұрын
What is with the whole yake sux thing? Sorry im not a native so i dont understand can you please explain
@mateoaviles8268
5 жыл бұрын
@@jackyoung8354 i think it's yale sucks u know
@rizzi3071
5 жыл бұрын
@@jackyoung8354 same
@smithabigail98
4 жыл бұрын
This is the first ever person I've paid for a membership to and I've only been watching 2 days. I've been going through a bad mental state recently and these easy to watch videos yet motivational videos have been so great to me. Thankyou
@juliuspetter7788
5 жыл бұрын
This video fits so perfect in my current situation. 4 weeks ago I moved from Cologne to Karlsruhe in Germany to study there. And its a massive change to not know any person but its getting better and better. And so will your situation
@ti6443
4 жыл бұрын
you are a motivation to a mid 30's 9-5 working human. keep it up
@sudeeporvoy3642
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy you’re finally getting recognition and paid sponsorships 😃
@杨嘉瑄
5 жыл бұрын
I'm the same age as you. Your videos inspire me a lot and always make me motivated. Thank you from the bottom of the heart. They are really helpful. Love u
@SamaherAlrifaie
5 жыл бұрын
responsibility, time management, discovering yourself more and more
@thomasrivet5494
5 жыл бұрын
Hi John. Big fan of your content! I've lived alone for about 2 years, and now I'm living with a couple of roommates. I am quite introverted, and do keep to myself for the most part. I tend to gravitate towards solo activities, primarily drawing and reading, though this has made me appreciate any social gathering all the more. I'm not a total recluse, and public speaking doesn't phase me, though it used to. I graduated in Business at university in 2015, and have lived and worked in Mexico and Vietnam since. Nowadays, I live where I spent my childhood, a city you're likely now familiar with ... Montreal! I can relate to your thoughts on loneliness and accountability. I feel broadcasting projects on social media platforms to be a step in the right direction. Cheers, and happy belated Thanksgiving! P.S. If you feel like meeting up sometime, I invite you to reach out, it would be a privilege to hang out with you! Find me on Instagram @thomasrivet7
@Nesggy
5 жыл бұрын
Do you speak French since you are from Montreal?
@emiliablaze
5 жыл бұрын
You truly motivate me to make something out of my life and study and learn more Pretty sure you inspire many people! You can really be proud of yourself! :)
@EpicExplosionify
5 жыл бұрын
“There is a safety net” Some would say you have a “social safety net”
@shihuipang98
5 жыл бұрын
You're a true intellectual, you embrace it, and I truly admire it. I enjoy hearing your thoughts. Subscribed! Love to hear more from you :)
@mathiesz.7549
5 жыл бұрын
I’m living in South Africa for one year and I agree.
@gamespecies
5 жыл бұрын
Ayeee cape town for the winnnn
@alexahokai7821
5 жыл бұрын
Gurke Gurke eish man it’s unsafe being there by yourself. I’m from there, and it’s dangerous no matter where you go. Even the rich neighborhoods have trouble
@brandivaldez3379
4 жыл бұрын
I felt the exact same way as you for your number 5 reasons and want to learn and major in psychology too! After learning and reflecting so much, I found that I am most passionate about mental health and how so many young kids are misunderstood. Mental health is so important and I love the feeling of helping someone feel understood. It is really fulfilling. I am so glad that someone else feels the same way I do !
@xizhao7632
5 жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing your organized insights with us!! highly appreciate!
@rkpb8
5 жыл бұрын
Psychology is wonderful. You will like!!!
@shaddjimenez4524
4 жыл бұрын
you put a lot of effort into these videos, thank you for making them.
@nyuyunikarl1174
5 жыл бұрын
Can your next video be on the various gadgets you've used in your coding journey, the ones you currently use, and what you'll recommend to anyone out there going in for a CS course?
@chocolovo5847
5 жыл бұрын
It is true. Living alone gives you an amazing opportunity to introspect. Thanks John, listening to you is always a treat!
@rxw.8862
5 жыл бұрын
I'm living alone in a foreign country for the first time (three months now) and these are also the main themes of my life currently.
@poplionandrew5803
5 жыл бұрын
Social Psychology: 1. friendship (groups) 2. Motivation (relationship) 3. Pacing (Power) 4. Language & Culture (identity) 5. Freedom (ideas & belief) ... sharing my experience ...
@aapoheiska3724
4 жыл бұрын
The content that makes you listen actually the talk!
@teddyscribner4742
5 жыл бұрын
Cleanshaven John Fish was cool. But bearded John Fish is next level.
@lyndaramos9741
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks John! 💗
@princessyusra9234
5 жыл бұрын
U look so freaking amazing(with ur beard) Such a handsome man not saying that jst bcz of ur appearance Ur mentality too, ur intellectual level ur evth❤ Im a subscriber from MOROCCO❤
@rainho4379
4 жыл бұрын
I just started living alone for a few days, all your points are really true, I’m feeling the same like you, got myself so much of freedom that I don’t know what to do during free time😭 gotta think and plan for my life d🧐 Thanks for the great video! Love it❤️
@ohthefrogs8075
5 жыл бұрын
I dropped out halfway through high school and am now doing homeschooling and I think this list is a very good way to describe that experience too. Every single point fits perfectly (compared to my experiences, I mean) and yea... that's pretty cool
@kamilbolka
5 жыл бұрын
I agree, travel takes the most time out of your day. I recently finished my BSc computer science honours degree this year, and now Ive been working in London for the past four months and it safe to say that It takes me 1h 30min to travel one way
@julissa6715
4 жыл бұрын
John Fish is the reason why I have high expectations when it comes to men.
@jenesaisvraimentpasquoimet8473
3 жыл бұрын
Which are?
@huali5944
5 жыл бұрын
I like working at a small place so I have more time and energy to explore other field which I like.....
@a.t.t.123alanis2
5 жыл бұрын
John, you are so inspiring, this is the 4th video I have watched and I love how down to earth and calm you are. You get good grades at one of the best, if not, the best University in America, while still having a successful KZitem channel that is close to 1 million subscribers. I haven't watched enough videos, I don't know if you do any extracurricular or sports and you're probably doing well in those as well. I have been believing to go to Harvard since 7th grade, not very long as I am a freshman but I am trying my best. I have a early application to join IB and try to apply to NHS when I'm old enough, I am in Math club and next year, I am trying to become Math club president, I am also hoping to join wrestling in the winter. I am currently in 4 IB Prep classes, one of them being Algebra 3-4. If I had to choose the hardest challenge, it would be trying to take four years of Japanese, I am currently at a C in it and I am struggling. Your motivational videos really hit me and I will keep trying to get the grade up, I would assume some people will respond with negativity and I can get that as I seem like I'm bragging. You are an inspiring, John, you deserve everything you have achieved
@bigcirclepeezmo
5 жыл бұрын
Saw you run on Avenue du Parc not too long ago, keep up that good running form!
@juliuspetter7788
5 жыл бұрын
Btw start traveling! Sometimes it "educates" more than any university could ever do.
@drbee_101
5 жыл бұрын
You show me wonderful ways to grow John.....and I've understood reading books really has a great impact on our thinking
@manny1805
5 жыл бұрын
John, Thanks for always putting out your best content. You inspire me to be the best person I can and put my all into everything I do. I can’t thank you enough bro. Keep up the good work!
@gnaneshchandrashekhar751
4 жыл бұрын
I really like the music and your message 👌 Excellent book recommendations. Thank you John
@IlanHirschfield
5 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this video. I’m in my fourth (and final) year of undergrad in NYC now and related most strongly to 1 and 3. I was in Manhattan for the summer and most of my friends from campus went away doing programs/vacations, etc. so I felt the struggle of getting together with friends and pacing life in going between different parts of the city. You’ve done a remarkable amount of maturation in these two months you’ve been on your own. Kudos. You’re rocking it. Keep up the good work
@mikab.4838
5 жыл бұрын
video starts Me: THAT'S A MUJI PEN
@LuisFuentes1771
5 жыл бұрын
You are a big source of inspiration. Good luck with your gap year!
@bluedude6991
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this 🙏🏻
@hibak8196
5 жыл бұрын
Freedom to explore ideas for no reason but curiosity is something I miss in my life so dang much. It feels like both uni and my own expectations of myself have taken it away from me and I don't know how to have it back.
@mariakkapros5291
5 жыл бұрын
Would you be allowed to elaborate on the projects you are working on? Or make a video on that? On integration between machine learning and psychology/cognitive science?
@lucyx8299
5 жыл бұрын
Back with the good content
@sparklebubbles8779
5 жыл бұрын
Love the beard and mustache! You're awesome and really inspirational to me John!
@Arhamkothari753
4 жыл бұрын
You editing is so good.
@leosolis5846
4 жыл бұрын
Great video John. I live alone in a cabin and although it can be lonely at times I've been getting stuff done. Also learning guitar. Didn't know I was good at it but also I enjoy playing it
@stephaniealvarado2629
5 жыл бұрын
lmao. I’m a student at Brown also taking leave, and damn... the first one hit really close to home. Totally feel this!
@sintrellwalker
5 жыл бұрын
I don't know why but it's kind of just now really dawning on me how smart you (John) are. Wow, impressive.
@DkProjectz
5 жыл бұрын
Hey man I’m 99% sure we live in the same building downtown ! Hit me up if you wanna go for a run at the gym or something !! Would love to have a chat
@scarletta.w8721
5 жыл бұрын
This is what exactly i been through the last year as well.
@fuquplz9983
5 жыл бұрын
SHOUTOUT TO FRESHMAN YEAR LUKE!
@martaperegrin5731
5 жыл бұрын
Dear John, thanks for this video. I'm studying abroad one year, so I'm kind in a "Gap year" too. How would you recommend to focus on what I like and discover what I would like my professional life to be like in the next five years? I also think that this situation is great to rediscover oneself but I'm a bit clueless about how I should do it.
@jaz472079
5 жыл бұрын
Beard fits u well bruh keep it lined up and fresh lookn good bruh .
@janhhh4852
4 жыл бұрын
I really like your handwriting
@jayantdhole
4 жыл бұрын
Hey man thanks for your channel and thanks for KZitem algorithm that it suggested your page. Even am a student like you in Europe. Your video motivates me as we both are in same position. God bless you. All the best
@saharabbaszadeh5688
2 жыл бұрын
You're awsome , that's it.🕊️🙌
@alincerpaz4533
5 жыл бұрын
It has been 11 months since I'm living alone, I can give you 5 lessons more :)
@Momo-idky
5 жыл бұрын
Number 14 burger king foot lettuce
@espurr6628
5 жыл бұрын
G just replying to you so you can see your likes lol
@jeremiahstewart8993
4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to watch more videos because I think that this man can help
@Imoverherewatchinsomeyoutube
5 жыл бұрын
Lesson number one: it's always good to keep track of your thoughts and schedule, which is why I recommend my GROWTH BOOK
@vince7735
4 жыл бұрын
6:20 - A person shouldn't go through life asserting that their ideas are the right ideas. One should go through life with an open mind and heart.
@tiffanyplata5348
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for the vid! All your vids are genuinely beneficial and really helpful, everytime I watch one of your videos I always learn something new, so thanks for that!!
@captainch371
5 жыл бұрын
I feel as if this kind of relates to the ideas of Cognitive Science. Computers, Anthropology, Psychology, Philosophy etc.
@ervinboljo415
5 жыл бұрын
I'm working alone as well. So you're not alone
@user-vu9mk1sx7u
5 жыл бұрын
His capping saying “I have friends, but I have to go out of my way to hang out with them”
@user-vu9mk1sx7u
5 жыл бұрын
We all know he’s got no friends
@mattwyd2161
4 жыл бұрын
wtf
@timcj8375
5 жыл бұрын
That's weird bc when I used to tell a friend about something I wanted as a habit I wouldn't end up sticking with it but when I stopped telling everyone my goals of making good habits I was able to make those habits.
@roohakhurshid6144
5 жыл бұрын
He is so inspiring!
@_natejean
5 жыл бұрын
“I need to account for transportation time” *Runs at **3:45**/km pace on easy runs* I think I found a solution...
@itskiff8636
5 жыл бұрын
Nathan Jean I've heard rumors that John fish is a fast runner..
@thepodlabs
5 жыл бұрын
I feel like you can’t be at Social Media influencer if you don’t document your self writing down in a journal
@benjaminkyle3867
5 жыл бұрын
Fire background music John.
@hockeypower101
5 жыл бұрын
As a college student, soon to be real person, this is super helpful! Thank you 😌
@MohamedAli-tu4so
5 жыл бұрын
Great video. I like the way you think and there is much to it i guess. Deep thinker and considerate kudos to you young man..
@inidavies9469
5 жыл бұрын
Unjaded Jade merch?!! The support 🤧❤ is touching. P.S Yale(sux)🤣 P.S.S Great video🙂
@jialifu4129
5 жыл бұрын
Nobody noticed that this is unjaded jade’s T-shirt?!
@noellabella960
5 жыл бұрын
how do you know that?
@jialifu4129
5 жыл бұрын
Noella Bella because when jade launched that merchandise, I want to buy one. So I’m surprised that he wears it, they are both my favorite youtubers
@VikeingBlade
5 жыл бұрын
@@jialifu4129 he thought you meant her own, personal t-shirt i think
@dhondiramshinde6932
5 жыл бұрын
Hey yeah it is
@violet_playz_gacha9806
4 жыл бұрын
I’m just flipping out of how many lessons, smartness, and studies he has or is and still having a total normal life and be happy :o
@Sauce....
5 жыл бұрын
rockin that beard, Fish
@stevec__
5 жыл бұрын
bro I needed this
@marcrichard5359
5 жыл бұрын
Living in Montreal for 7 years - Living downtown is particularly tough for friendships and transport, I definitely would have suggested living in the Plateau to maximize livability
@cartonet8186
5 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert, so I don't mind spending years alone. I actually prefer it. That being said, you should still read out loud and practice, also if you can interact with other people than great. Also, hopefully you're not just hiding yourself in a hole, but instead are hopefully creating something and maybe that can help you build a skill which will make you money and eventually you can have moneyt o go out and meet people if that's what you'd like. First you need to work and then build a skill (which requires extensive alone time) and then you build success and money and then you can be more outgoing and relaxed, once you've taken care of paying the bills and finances.+
@cicichalamet2313
5 жыл бұрын
gap year is rare in Asian. people rush to work after they graduate from college.
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