I did everything you said coach Lee thank you💪🏼 took only a month and a half of no contact and working on myself and it’s been three months back together. Everything is going great and working on yourself during no contact works damn wonders
@bukolaolubisiidowu9117
3 жыл бұрын
+19036347152
@bukolaolubisiidowu9117
3 жыл бұрын
+19036347152
@GuiAntonioli
Жыл бұрын
A month and a half? That can give more hope... I mean, it's bearable, not 3 months like he says in other videos. 3 months I'm gone.
@pokeyou4647
Жыл бұрын
how did you do the no contact? can you please list it out bro? insta?whatsapp? stories?
@eljoker4456
3 жыл бұрын
Hello stranger: I don't really know you, but I want to apologize to you on behalf of those who broke something beautiful inside you 💔 ☺
@JorDel_1111
3 жыл бұрын
I love u 💟 Joker 🃏
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
+2349137140435
@BOO-sy2oz
3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@yellowsvd9976
3 жыл бұрын
💜❣️💖
@benhartart9487
3 жыл бұрын
The real lasting success is when the dumped person picks themselves up off the floor, focuses their attention on improving themselves in ALL aspects of life, doing this for Themselves not anyone else, this creates momentum, strength, self awareness in their ability to change and become the best they can be, they start to live through there passions and to know that they are one of a kind and they are enough, they are the star of their life, and they naturally attract other people who want to be apart of their life.
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
+2349137140435
@andyArgentina77
Жыл бұрын
👏 👏👏👏
@ags835
2 жыл бұрын
Day 9 of NC. I found out that we have accidentally booked the same holiday (camp) with our common friends in January! I am part worried part excited. I know 4 months is a long way away, and anything can happen. I will focus on improving myself and being best I can be! 2 months NC and we got back together!
@Janeintheok
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎉
@FlamingCockatiel
Жыл бұрын
How's it going?
@ags835
Жыл бұрын
@@FlamingCockatiel good thank you, we moved back in together, and things are going really well. We both learnt from the break up and both want to avoid it in the future, by actively talking about things and how we feel.
@1897max
Жыл бұрын
Well done, my friend! Hope we all can get back with our exes.
@kagamitaiga9167
9 ай бұрын
@@ags835im happy for you
@EldritchAugur
3 жыл бұрын
Whether or not my situation is successful; these videos have helped me feel so much better regardless and I'm so thankful for that. Whenever I start feeling really anxious or depressed I watch one of these videos and almost instantly calm down.
@retard_activated
3 жыл бұрын
Same 💖
@bradley24t
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@victorianorris1916
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@nathantrujillo471
3 жыл бұрын
Its all a facade. That depression and anger remains lingering under the surface. Ready to see the light of day once again lol.
@retard_activated
3 жыл бұрын
@@nathantrujillo471 Kind of a negative mindset... If you're weak and don't outgrow your former other... And sit and stew in all that nasty, painful energy, maybe... Coach Lee is trying to teach us how to go above and beyond that...
@harshjones1688
3 жыл бұрын
Some girls are just too prideful to ever reach out. I’ve learnt so much from you coach so thank you. Still hurts after 3 months but i feel better. Despite having others want to date me, just not ready yet! But growing stronger everyday, so thanks once again
@saitama3150
3 жыл бұрын
Because they have orbitters around them 24/7 especially true for pretty girls. Anytime they feel unhappy or u made minor mistakes, she will just talk to other guys. They will prefer to just move on to a new guy rather than stay and work on whatever issues with u because new rs gives them to experience honeymoon period again. It's best to just walk away and don't take them back. It's their loss. They must bear the full brunt of the consequence for the choices they make in life. Every new relationship is a risk for women. Guys not so much risk. So it's best to dump them when they come back crying and begging Don't agree to be their friends or stay in friendzone after breaking up. While she goes exploring other options to replace u. Just unfriend her on all social media and block her on social media. Go radio silence. She must experience some risks. Bitch can't have the cake and eat it.
@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358
3 жыл бұрын
3 months is nothing!! I’ve waited for my ex boyfriend for almost two years. This isn’t about “girls” stop trying to cause division.
@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358
3 жыл бұрын
@@saitama3150 you sound like an incel. It’s very weird how you assumed what she’s doing and think you know about OP’s ex girlfriend even though you’re both strangers on the internet.
@saitama3150
3 жыл бұрын
@@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358 I can see why he dumped your ass. You are a drama queen.
@r.maelstrom4810
3 жыл бұрын
@@saitama3150 I see your point. I was there years ago and somehow i still am (it's something real that guys and girls have different risks and opportunities before and after a break up), but now i have seen on others many times, and i myself i've experienced it, what is a women in love and how she behaves. It's not that different. In fact you can see on this chanel at the comment sections multiple (the majority!) examples of girls suffering for months or years after a breakup, waiting for their significant others.
@henryhoward9474
Жыл бұрын
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@annabylina
Жыл бұрын
Just here to support you. The life doesn't end. My love of 5 years has left as well, 3.5 months ago. Well, it is what it is. The first month is the hardest, its getting better. Do try meditation.
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
Henry, I've been there also. 5 year engagement is and has been over for years now. Please give yourself TIME. TIME does heal. I went out with my friends, I went into grief Therapy, and I read books. You will be fine. Most importantly, get out of the house. Do things with your friends. I'm fine now, and you will be too Big Hug...❤️⚘️⚘️
@LostSoul-iq4gc
Жыл бұрын
Trying to get over a 2 year relationship. She broke it off just after new year and I’m going through hell. But she hasn’t blocked me. Won’t answer my calls or read my messages. I’m in no contact and it’s so painful.
@EchelonPandora
Жыл бұрын
5 years is a long time... Give yourself time
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
@LostSoul0009 Don't contact her. Stay in NC. I feel for you, since I was engaged for 5 years. TIME helped me. I went out with my friends, I picked up a hobby and I'm fine now. Give it time. Big hug...❤❤⚘️⚘️
@mamziemay1575
2 жыл бұрын
I never pleaded, begged or chased. Gave him the break-up. Also, I'm not on social media (used to be, left it 7 years ago and never looked back), so he doesn't know anything about what is going on in my life. I rented an apartment in another country for two months, and will have a sim card from that country, will not even know if he does end up contacting me since my cell service is not available there. This break up hurts like a nothing I've experienced before. It's not my first rodeo, we are older adults. Coach Lee, wish you would do more vids on older folks. Anyone over 50 has lots of baggage and has many exigencies going on.
@tomdizzi5237
3 жыл бұрын
I think I'll be more upset of Coach Lee stopped posting videos 😆 i don't even know if I would take my ex back because Coach Lee has motivated me to pour the love I have to offer into myself❣
@captainswan3079
3 жыл бұрын
@Kimberly Zia stop spamming
@ojp7186
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for you videos, helped me through the toughest time of my life. Im now 5 months into no contact and I have learnt to love life again! I dont even want my ex back anymore and realise that I have a life without her :)
@VinnyGuardino
3 жыл бұрын
i’m the opposite i’m almost 6 months we broke up in march and i’m still crying n obsessing over it all.n she got someone else already back in the end of june.
@agbordaniels
3 жыл бұрын
I was truly struggling with breaking no contact after 73 days, thank God you dropped this video. Now I can hold my position for another 30 days, this was a super boost to my strength and resolve to stay in no contact.
@SNEHAGUPTA575
3 жыл бұрын
Your all psychological tips had been applied and successfully worked 💯on my ex gf and she's in my life today and still following you coach Lee ❤️💙😊 thank you so much ❤️💙 blessed to have you 😊 in my life...
@Alex-dn5hi
3 жыл бұрын
You're too girly she'll leave you soon.
@thehavoc6331
2 жыл бұрын
How long was your no contact?
@BeegirlsHoneyHouse
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t fix what they broke‼️👍🏽 I so desperately needed to hear this now…. It’s even helping me to reconcile my feelings of guilt and shame with what he decided to destroy.
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
Jon Beehive, my ex fiancé of 5 years was a narcissist! I never heard of that before. I loved him more than anything! He never loved me. I was USED! It gets better. TIME heals, and I am back to my normal self.
@BeegirlsHoneyHouse
Жыл бұрын
@@jannlewandowski5540 Curious to discover your fresh input this morning. That posted a year ago when I was in a phase of temporary victim’s delusion phase, dancing in the selective memories of my years with my ex and dreamy that we would reconcile after we’d been in contact and I’d started listening to Coach Lee. We’ve been divorced 9 years. I’m well seasoned lol by now and wasted most of my adult life loving a man who was incapable of loving anyone but himself. Let’s suffice to say, we played roles-characters in their lives. When we ceased to be useful, malleable idiots, they cast their priorities towards the next victim. While I believe there are valuable mates that warrant a fresh start, mine was and will never be. I’ve since remembered the emotional and mental anguish and honestly-terror I often felt as he revealed more and more of his true self. When the mask finally fell all the way off, there was no doubt to me that he’s a malignant narcissist. I could go on for hours… Count your lucky stars, you escaped and prospered past it without wasting 43 years, as I did. Wishing you a life of love, peace, prosperity and trust. 🥰🌎🇺🇸🦉
@juliealo0602
3 жыл бұрын
The best relationship coach here in KZitem! You should have millions of subscribers!!! Thank you for helping me move on and be more stronger than ever! 🙏🏻💕😚
@NomadUrpagi
3 жыл бұрын
Guys. I take my previous comments back. She *finally* reached out after 17 months of no contact in total when i sort of gave up and started hating her. What the hell. Just casually sent me a joke about men. Coach Lee, i think i owe you a thanks. Even if i am not with her yet no contact is 60% already accomplished for me: 1. i tested myself and stayed true, 2. i changed and 3. She reached out 🙂🙂🙂
@ilianac.5547
Жыл бұрын
Did you get back with he? Any update
@conoress28
3 жыл бұрын
Lee, you’re a really great guy for doing these videos. Just to hear someone talking about this stuff is so soothing and reassuring.
@prettyflowers5699
3 жыл бұрын
Yes you're a great man Coach Lee for doing these videos. Big Thank-you x
@susanwinter8638
3 жыл бұрын
@@prettyflowers5699 .He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
@captainswan3079
3 жыл бұрын
@@loveangel6794 Stop spamming
@kamyanaava531
2 жыл бұрын
Am so greatful to have come across your videos coach, become stronger every day and more trained on how to keep my emotions in check 🤝💕
@Heart3577
3 жыл бұрын
Just dropping by to give 3 Ads for Coach Lee... Giving back the favor.
@KenRFoxNashvilleSEO
3 жыл бұрын
So important to realize no contact with strength and confidence is NOT inauthentic - it feels that way because you're in pain, but confidence is a FAR MORE authentic version of who you really are when you aren't in agony. GREAT VIDEO!!!
@spiderofsorts7611
3 жыл бұрын
I’m in the worst pain of my life and I just want him to make it stop. It feels like he couldn’t care less.
@KenRFoxNashvilleSEO
3 жыл бұрын
@@spiderofsorts7611 that may be the real him.
@shripadsawant1756
3 жыл бұрын
are u coach ken from lee's team
@FlamingCockatiel
Жыл бұрын
1. It must come from them. 2. You must allow them to experience the consequences of the breakup, even if you don't want them to hurt. They broke it, so they need to hurt enough to fix it. 3. Ex must fell like he or she is on an island free of your influence. Don't give off manipulative vibes. Don't talk to those who know your ex so word can't get back to them. 4. Your ex must assume that you accept the breakup and are not trying to talk him or her out it. You won't chase after someone who doesn't want you. It's okay to talk about it right at the time of the breakup but not thereafter. 5. ??? Tip four seemed to bleed into this one.
@V3RJdy
3 жыл бұрын
Crazy to me that really what Coach Lee does for us all overall is make us take ourselves back, not our exes, and understand, respect and love ourselves again. Thank you for all you do for us Coach! I am currently in no mans land with my ex, we have had on off contact and seeing eachother the last couple of weeks. Which means I can't move on with my life but am not a priority to him and it is clear. He is more or less booty calling and using me and I keep allowing in hope he remembers he loves me but I feel so low I can't let myself see he is really trash for me. I guess it takes time, and I need to get my mojo back. Love to anyone on this thread, may you find strength in trying times - you are not alone
@tercsi1
3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee has the best advice. It's so true about my relationship. In the entire 4 years of our relationship I was the one who always fought for the relationship more with my ex fiance. The tables have to turn. He has to want me and value me just the same. It's best to let him come to me. If not well I have my answer. In essence you have to value and respect yourself in order for others to value and respect you.
@samuelleung7497
3 жыл бұрын
Incase you need a best spell doctor You cab just reply to my comment I will direct you to him
Day 3 of starting no contact after having a very strong relationship of 4 years that ended out of nowhere...I still love her more than anything and its very hard to not contact her, but I can already tell that these videos are going to help whether or not she comes back. I'm going to use this comment section to hopefully post updates on how it goes for me.
@LostSoul-iq4gc
Жыл бұрын
What happened ?
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
Hayden. If there is a chance to get her back, and you still Love her, I would recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. myexbackcoach.com/ebk...It is amazing how well it works.
@SIMSIMSAMANTHA
3 жыл бұрын
« Love is not only about feeling , it’s commitment, it’s decision » so true.I had to stop the video to fully absorb the depth of what you said coach 🥺❤️
@chevy2583
3 жыл бұрын
Very true, but they will not understand it. When they breakup with you, they will say I don't have emotions toward you anymore.... they forget all good time you had with them.... Very sad and selfish.
@salvatorea.7497
3 жыл бұрын
@@chevy2583 You are right - this is why we have to teach a lesson to them!!
@myrnagrijalva3042
3 жыл бұрын
Love is a decision, decision to work on your relationship, decision to be faithful , even if you're surrounded by people who advise you to have flings ( everybody does , Right?) WRONG
@shaysimich9366
3 жыл бұрын
Work on yourself, I drug it out for so long, we final 100% split ways.. limited contact because we have a child together. Work on yourself do what makes you happy, be free leave them behind.. if they comeback you might go “ehh don’t want it” eventually you’ll get over it even if you don’t want to you’ll feel better soon ❤️
@Neonravekid
3 жыл бұрын
My ex is moving out today. He told me this is what he wants and doesn't want to be with me. No second thoughts. We broke up a month ago and almost 2 weeks no contact. He reached out today and wanted to move out the rest of his things. Coach Lee helped me through the hardest part but it's officially over. I've lost all hope. It's clear I need to move on. I'm devastated.
@MariaSanchez-yf3wh
3 жыл бұрын
****Hello friend it seems you are really in need to get your ex back****Well all this can be resolved under 24 hours just drop your WhatsApp number so I sent to the man who helped me*****so he can easily identify and do a perfect work for you thanks*****
@marekknieshtschav6391
Жыл бұрын
The cool part of your vids is that they help the viewer center the attention back on >themselves< and not the person who pushed them out of their life. World is full of great people and feeling of severe loss is temporary. 3 weeks after I sent them an apology I went through grief, uncertainity, acceptance and slowly going into relief stage and realising that they had a few very annoying habits that I'm better off without around me.
@Alleecats
2 жыл бұрын
My ex is on an island and his first ex is right across the road making sure everything is good for him. When he and I were together, she was intrusive, just showing up at the door, bringing cookies, pies, etc., things he loves. Both deny anything going on, just friends. She is making this break-up easy for him. She even brings her dog over for her daily visit! He said I was too jealous. I feel she over-stepped her bounds constantly. There were no boundaries; he wouldn't set any, but claimed he had nothing going on with her.
@ramyakulkarni2084
2 жыл бұрын
Oh I know this . It sucksss
@edwinasword8285
3 жыл бұрын
Hi coach lee and everyone Just wanted to update regarding my Ex. He came back after 3 weeks of NC. Called and wanted to finally meet up and talk. Asked the questions I had so long waiting to ask. Asked the why only to confirm what i thought and said my apologies also. So i guess we started on a clean slate. And your right Coach lee in everything my ex was feeling, great that he left me, confused then remorse. It was only when emailing to let him go on his way he made the move to call. We are taking it slow at the moment to build our relationship up again. Coach lee Thank you for all your help and instructions. Appreciate it very much. God bless you and your staff... Update- found out he was seeing his oold girlfriend on the side. Cllosed the chapter to this one. God bless everyone
@edwinasword8285
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah been there and done that no thankyou.
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
+2349137140435
@cyiengi
Жыл бұрын
Hey all, yet another morning of Coach Lee "medicine". Initially was 6-8 spoons a day, now just daily Boy am I glad I bumped into his channel. Knowing what to do in each stage removes the anxiety, strengthens your emotions the longer you stay away and shifts the focus to your own interests. Thank you Coach, for keeping us GROWING, centred and Healing emotional muscles "in the moments" of each day 💯💪
@ronaldclaude1892
Жыл бұрын
You’re right! How long you’ve been in no contact?
@NoMatterPink
3 жыл бұрын
I honestly got over my ex… it was really tough… I kept repeat these videos none stop!!! Witch helped me a lot!!! But these are still great to watch for future references!!!! :)
@toppinnacle4164
3 жыл бұрын
Over one year my ex never contacted me , If it’s possible that an ex can return , why she never contacted me over a year ago . I truly believe when an ex is gone she’s gone for good . Yes an ex is an ex for a reason
@thedrunkenpunter9054
3 жыл бұрын
I know i am living under the illusion that she will ever get back to me.. but your video is giving me so much hope and comfort..we had a beautiful short relationship (with a 1 year build-up) relationship and after she ended it (because of family, religion and as a result meeting someone to get away from all the hurdles in front of us). We kept chatting for 4 days about how we miss each other and in the end, I sent my first harsh text to finish the conversation as every text she sent after the break-up was killing me. I knew they are just because she feels guilty and I was worried about her, also just wanted to feel her presence but was doing no good to me because I knew it's not taking me anywhere. Usually, she is the one who used to demand a response when i go quiet but as everything is different now, she just said 'cool' and it's been a week. I'm taking counselling but not helping me. Your video is keeping me alive, i am certain this is the end but at least I can live with some hope!
@rodzillarox4882
Жыл бұрын
Every time I watch your videos for some reason there is this same ad from this guy that claims that no contact doesn’t work and it’s always on your videos.. I do believe you I really appreciate your videos.
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
rodzillarox4882, Thank you for the heads up. Just IGNORE the ad! 👍
@FLVCTVAT_NEC_MERGITVR
Жыл бұрын
Coach Lee is king. Thank you for all the support you provide.
@silasadedoyin4733
3 жыл бұрын
What do you do when you have a partner that has a big ego? My sense is they'll rather wallow in the pains and just believe that everything would pass instead of reaching out.
@hakdown07
3 жыл бұрын
Now, you don't want to be with such a person, do you? Someone who will choose their ego to hurt you than apologise...except you hurt them real bad - abuse and cheating, you are better off without them
@silasadedoyin4733
3 жыл бұрын
In this case they’re actually hurting a lot too, but would rather cry themselves to sleep than risk looking like a fool
@hakdown07
3 жыл бұрын
@@silasadedoyin4733 well, I'll still say let them be. If they were strong enough to break things with you, trust me they have it in them to reach out.
@Janeintheok
Жыл бұрын
People that inflict pain need to learn how to handle it themselves.
@JulieZeller
3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee your advice is gold. I just have also realized there was never really any hope in my situation. Thanks for keeping me calmer and helped me to maturely handle the break. I think if I was really the mature that you suggested I probably wouldn't have screwed it up so he would have come back. Now I just have to accept that he is gone.
@suzanne7936
3 жыл бұрын
⏯️
@QUINTUSMAXIMUS
3 жыл бұрын
It's so nice to hear Coach Lee talk and having him telling it like it is. Imagine if I knew all this before the break up. :)
@Aeroblade141
Жыл бұрын
Even if it doesn’t work out I’m glad KZitem recommended you to me
@JKNat9004
Жыл бұрын
My suggestion on how to distract yourself from letting the ex know you're thinking of them, find stuff to entertain yourself that can't get back to them on social media. For awhile I was in a phase of spending weekend evenings watching reruns of mystery detective shows, (i.e. Law &Order, NCIS, CSI, etc.) until I fell asleep. Or visit library, or talk to family and close friends of Yours. If you put anything on social media, let it be something innocuous like a bulletin about local non-profit, or a new store. If you're off their radar you'll be more successful at avoiding run-ins with the ex.
@brandonrobertkersjes
19 күн бұрын
What if I’m blocked on everything coming up on 4 weeks of NC so far???
@ChadOBJ
3 жыл бұрын
I recently lost the love of my life. We were together for 5 years. We decided we were better off as Co Parenting/Friends due to our past. The thing that’s hard about all this is we actually both loved each other a lot. We have a beautiful daughter together. We did work on visitations which is good but states away from my daughter is really what is beating me down. My ex fiancée however is trying to hide that she is in a rebound relationship with someone she knew for a long time to ease her pain after we decided to go our separate ways. I am doing the alternative no contact rule since our daughter is only 2 years old. It seems too work cause when I don’t reach out she asks if I’m okay. There’s a lot going on but I wanna say thank you so much Coach Lee. All your videos helped me out a lot. I notice she acts the way you describe things in a lot of your videos too.
@r.maelstrom4810
3 жыл бұрын
Why the break up then, if i may ask?
@NomadUrpagi
3 жыл бұрын
My relationship with my ex is like how Game of Thrones happened: so many great things went to shit that the bad memory will stay for years and you can't tell if it's the same show anymore
@stephaniecatherine803
3 жыл бұрын
I understand how you feel my dear friend 😥😥😥🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷
@elyg3340
3 жыл бұрын
@Jo Kah MANIFEST A SPECIFIC CALL OR TEXT FROM SOMEONE SPECIAL. l Know a specialist that can help you with the manifestation.
@575leena
Жыл бұрын
Lmao i am saving this comment for future reference! 😂
@therocinante3443
3 жыл бұрын
Even if no contact results in you never seeing them again, you'll still be better off if you eventually pick yourself up off the floor and improve yourself, life will be better for you.
@davidwoosley8670
3 жыл бұрын
After 9 months I got unblocked. But she still hasn’t reached out because of pride and or fear of the unknown. Maybe scared I will reject her. Or scared that she’s making the wrong decision. But deep down I know she feels like she made a horrible choice in leaving me and she will never be able to replace what we had. Which is true. But if she truly loved me her pride wouldn’t be strong enough to stop her from reaching out. So I remind myself. If she was able to abandon me and stay away for this long then she doesn’t love me. So I must move on with my life. As a man I can’t have feelings for a woman that doesn’t care about me. You gotta move on fellas. There are plenty fish in the sea. Next month will make it one year since she up and left and I don’t think she will ever hmu so I’m moving forward. I’m the prize! Her loss.
@reneetitania7157
3 жыл бұрын
From a woman's perspective and personal experience, you are partially right, she's scared to reach out. But she probably does care and unblocked you to see if you'll reach out. Really depends on why you guys broke up but after I unblocked my ex, he didn't reach out and it it took me 5 years to reach out...now I don't love him anymore. If he had reached out sooner, may have been different.
@davidwoosley8670
3 жыл бұрын
@@reneetitania7157 it was my fault why we broke up but we shouldn’t have broken up if that makes sense. But I know for things to ever be right again it would have to be her reaching out to me. If I reach out that’s not respecting her decision to leave me. If she wants me she needs to own up to her feelings and that she made a mistake of throwing out relationship away before trying to fix it first. Because dating and finding connections is harder than people think. And we had a very strong chemistry that I know she can’t stop thinking about just like I can’t either. But I’m not hurt from the breakup anymore. I’ve hit the gym and I’ve gained 40 pounds now I got muscles. I got Invisalign so I almost have perfect teeth now. I’ve taken the energy that I would have put into her if she stayed and I put it into myself instead and now I’m just focused on self Improvement. If she doesn’t reach out then it won’t be real and ever work. And I’m ok with that.
@saitama3150
3 жыл бұрын
You are right. Just don't take her back and move on with another girl who loves you. It isn't worth it
@green_wraith5764
3 жыл бұрын
Hey lee can you talk more about rebound relationships
@MotoKingWOT
Жыл бұрын
"I told my ex I'm going into no contact.." 😂😆 When you go to war you don't let the other side know your strategy 😂😆
@Janeintheok
Жыл бұрын
🤜🤛
@Himothy_xx
3 жыл бұрын
I haven’t spoke to my ex in 5 months feels so great!
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
+2349137140435
@trevorharding3783
3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, thank you. Even though me and my ex getting back together looks impossible, the future might say otherwise. The future sometimes causes unexpected things to happen, maybe I might bump into her, maybe she'll bump into me, maybe I'll meet someone else. Whatever the case is, I will continue to watch your videos for the future and for future relationships that I may have. So again, thank you.
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
+2349137140435
@lalanuraeiz3314
3 жыл бұрын
Omg i love you coachhh lee! Just what i need. Thanks ❤✨
@luisquinones1726
3 жыл бұрын
Hi coach, usually when someone dumps you, they have another person in their lives. If that dont work, they want to comeback, than being said, they dont love you!
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^.
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
+2349137140434
@victorianorris1916
3 жыл бұрын
I was in NC my ex just reached out to me after 5 months were talking now, I’m taking it slow
@tonileolion9702
3 жыл бұрын
How r things going now
@victorianorris1916
3 жыл бұрын
@@tonileolion9702 we have been talking mostly everyday just taking it slow still have love for him he told me same thing just don’t wanna make same mistakes as before we were together for 2 years I appreciate you for asking
@tonileolion9702
3 жыл бұрын
@@victorianorris1916 same here but he can’t stop calling or txting me it’s only been 3 days smh I def want to eventually take it slow after I get back to myself ur so welcome and good luck with everything
@Michele-ub2pk
3 жыл бұрын
@@victorianorris1916 how long were you in no contact?
@victorianorris1916
3 жыл бұрын
@@Michele-ub2pk 5 months
@menslifelessons9981
3 жыл бұрын
Isn’t it better just to forgive so you won’t hold all the bitterness and anger inside. When you want some to suffer the consequences, all the bitterness and anger stays in your body and becomes so toxic. You’ll have that toxicity in you while you wait and actively hope your ex faces the consequences
@j.styles.1259
3 жыл бұрын
My opinion is There is no honor in playing small. If they can’t handle you, then find someone that who will. You know who you are and what you like-we all have our type-there’s someone out there looking for just that..you If they try to tame you and drown the wildness out of your spirit, then they’re not the one for you. Find the person that will run with you, encourage you to soar and never look back. Find your voice, let your beauty shine and keep your eyes to the stars. Don’t ask why they can’t handle you. Find the people that can. They’ll accept and love you for just the person you are. It’s better to be hated for being real than to be loved for being fake. It’s your time to shine. Be a voice, not an echo. That's my opinion 💙
@darijabaranauskaite2765
2 ай бұрын
very beautiful words 🥰
@151harty
3 жыл бұрын
I broke no contact after a week, few days ago. To figure out our Vegas trip in a couple weeks. We will be flying same airlines what a mess lol. Had a good conversation. She ended it with I love you goodnight. Day 1 of no contact. I will update! Wish me luck. I have confidence she will be back
@ovigavril7191
3 жыл бұрын
Update?
@ilianac.5547
Жыл бұрын
Any update
@inkarkurmangalieva6528
3 жыл бұрын
Since this video is new you might see my comment I just want to say thank you! I’m really really really greatful
@polycarpahentse1962
3 жыл бұрын
I just got my relationship fixed and my ex husband is back to me and we are living happily like ever before
@scottdow1239
3 жыл бұрын
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him
@scottdow1239
3 жыл бұрын
Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him
@samfagelholm7146
3 жыл бұрын
It’s been 7 months since the breakup, I begged and pleaded for the first two weeks after the breakup… been three times on the no contact plan… now been for a month on a no contact plan… we lived together for 3 years…. She said the reason for the breakup was that she is afraid that I might leave her one day and that she is tired of the small arguments we had over the same subject. She got very sick after the breakup and I tried to support her even though I was broken. Anyways it’s been 7 months… i miss her and I don’t know if I have any chance to get her back into my life
@samfagelholm7146
3 жыл бұрын
What should I do…. My kids misses her and her daughter misses me. Should I just give up? I’ve been crying after her nearly every day. But I am trying to be strong in front of my kids.
@r.maelstrom4810
3 жыл бұрын
Man i've felt each and every one of your words. Three years relationship. Last year, due to restrictions and pandemics i was on the verge to lose my business and fell on some kind of anguish that i had to disappear (but kept in contact with her every day, she was comprehensive, loving and caring that time) which caused to finally stress her out. It's been exactly 4 months since the breakup and 3 months since NC in my case, and to no avail: she hasn't reach out (we didn't end in bad terms) and i haven't healed at all. She said to me she has a new partner short after the breakup. Our story is strange but unique and beautiful, we met 20 years ago and this was our second round serious (so yeah she came back); we were or it seemed to be special to each other. But this time i feel i've lost her forever. I can sense it. And all because that stupid mistake i made and i've just mentioned. I'm focused on my work, my things, my hobbies; i've even dated other girls. But at the end of the day, every day, i think about her. I don't know what to do: i haven't contact her all these 3 months, should i reach her out? Should i keep the NC? Since the last year of the relationship i put myself "on hold" it's been one and a half year approx that i haven't seen her in person (this is ridiculous). Hope you are doing the best you can. Keep the faith.
@calistoakello5233
3 жыл бұрын
Let her be,God will give u a better person
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@sandrarodriguez7872
3 жыл бұрын
These videos are so so helpful and make so much sense. Thanks for giving me peace of mind.
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
+2349137140435
@moniquedanielle2930
3 жыл бұрын
I have recently discovered your videos Coach Lee and learning so much, thank you! I have been using no contact and my ex reached out after one week, and then the following week and in the third week he came over (we were living together and his stuff is still here). I’m afraid that because he does keep reaching out and now knows we can see each other without it being awkward that he’s not really experiencing the loss of me and our relationship. I would love some extra help in what to do. Thanks!
@RealCoachLee
3 жыл бұрын
It will often build back. The key is you not chasing and not initiating contact. He will feel it.
@moniquedanielle2930
3 жыл бұрын
@@RealCoachLee thank you Coach Lee!
@jakeindyrealtor
8 ай бұрын
I started NC day 1. She reached a little over a month later to ask me about a little money I owed her. But it feels like it’s over. She’s a tough one. Painful for sure.
@captainswan3079
3 жыл бұрын
Day 4 of no contact. Wish me luck...🙏 Thank you Coach Lee!
@paulineunekwu195
3 жыл бұрын
I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation.
@sous_22
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this information! Could I please ask you, do you think pride could stop them from reaching out even if they regret it? I know my ex is a VERY proud person :/
@Nova-tc6jv
3 жыл бұрын
It’s almost one year since my breakup and I hadn’t realized so much time had passed. I guess I’m okay now if he comes back or not. Obviously he’s okay without me 😎
@reneesimmons1890
3 жыл бұрын
Nova did he reach back out?!
@Nova-tc6jv
3 жыл бұрын
@@reneesimmons1890 he reached out for the holidays and my birthday but nothing since then. I didn’t reach out on his birthday but I did when some important paperwork came in for him to my address. NC 6 or 7 months now I think 🤔
@reneesimmons1890
3 жыл бұрын
@@Nova-tc6jv we are better than this. ☺️
@Nova-tc6jv
3 жыл бұрын
@@reneesimmons1890 completely agree!
@reneesimmons1890
3 жыл бұрын
@@faizazaraddeen6490 please stop with your scam bs!
@patricial8753
3 жыл бұрын
It’s been 4 days today , I did say to him I believe we make a great couple we both need have issues we need to work on and left it at that two days ago , yesterday before he went to bed he said he did miss me that I was a huge part of his life this year and he said good night and I responded saying sleep well I kept it short and sweet I hope , Haven’t heard from him since then it’s hard going from talking to someone everyday to not , I’m glad I found you Coach you’ve really have helped me these few days and yes I’ve been binged watching all your videos and I’m keeping strong not being the one to contact him.
@hasiyaahmed7293
3 жыл бұрын
I understand how you feel my dear friend 😥😥😥🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷
@Joe90spink
3 жыл бұрын
5 years 2 engaged picked up the ring after 2 months of the break up. I'am done putting her on a pedestal after she cheated on me with a friend of friends, its disgusting you think you know someone even for that long of a period of time, people change there not the same...
@Mariyahfatima
3 жыл бұрын
@ Joe90spink same thing, been with him for 4 years, gave him the confidence. Started competing bodybuilding. Hes been cheating on me for almost 10 months. Sponging off someone more uglier . Im in no contact i deserve better and i dont care of he comes back now or not.
@glasysmabada1984
Жыл бұрын
Hi,Morning coach lee,thank u so much I'm listening to your videos.they have helped me feeling much better
@brokenrecord3355
3 жыл бұрын
What to do when they hate the fact that you changed for better after the breakup? They only contact me just to say I should've done it when we were together and I didn't want to do it for them
@nabagerekacnartcraft236
3 жыл бұрын
I am from Uganda and I love your videos Coach Lee. You have really changed my life👏
@nabagerekacnartcraft236
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for caring but am sure that Coach Lee advice is enough for me🙏
@tony_gordon
2 жыл бұрын
Banange
@adjmbb5109
3 жыл бұрын
We shape our destiny with our actions.
@colbygarnett5102
7 ай бұрын
Very true brother
@paolarobledo9586
3 жыл бұрын
After 2 months of no contact he reached out, and now he’s the one that is always texting me, he’s opening up little by little, he finally told me I miss you, but I don’t know… he’s a really complicated man, I don’t know if he really misses me or he’s just feeling lonely…curious fact… he lives in Europe and I live in America
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
+2349137140435
@veeoby3364
3 жыл бұрын
Run for your life, I can smell something really bad.
@ilianac.5547
Жыл бұрын
Did you get back together?
@eefplaat4887
3 жыл бұрын
Could you perhaps make a video about No contact and other related stuff in the case when the breakup was a mutual decision, and the person had some mental and personal issues preventing a good flow of the relationship, either one would be much appreciated because both apply in my case. She needed time to fix her mental health before getting back. Hence why she suggested pressing ‘ reset’ and hopefully getting back together in a couple months, with a fresh start. We also left on a positive note and our relationship was everything but toxic. We had our problems but nothing too severe. I should mention I went into NC straight away. Anyways thank you in advance for your time!
@thedrunkenpunter9054
3 жыл бұрын
That's my case too.. would be great to if I could get some advice..
@eefplaat4887
3 жыл бұрын
@@thedrunkenpunter9054 I don’t know your exact story but I can advise going into NC anyway. Works wonders especially if you can share your problems with friends and still have a good time. Allow those feelings to slip in from time to time but don’t let it influence your entire day. Wishing you luck man!
@ryanelliott3522
Жыл бұрын
So coach Lee I've watched many of your videos and really appreciate them. With that being said have you yourself ever been through a breakup that required you to do anything you teach? Thank you
@srinjoyroychoudhury7034
3 жыл бұрын
Hey coach. I was dating this amazing girl for almost two years. We used to be so into one another. But I miraculously screwed it up by getting jealous. Then I hurt her and she left me. I was actually her first boyfriend ever and she was very shy, timid but very loving and caring. Do I have a chance of getting her back? I think she changed her phone number and blocked me everywhere.
@stephaniecatherine803
3 жыл бұрын
I understand how you feel my dear friend 😥😥😥🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷
@Ll999-c2m
3 жыл бұрын
8 months deep I think I need a miracle, not tricks 😴
@coachevy2851
3 жыл бұрын
They'll come around when you least expect it. Take the time to pour love into yourself. Get a message, read a book, pray, take a course, get a good haircut. You deserve healing and love and loving yourself right now. 😊
@wibli
3 жыл бұрын
"She gone man. She gone." - The Hodge twins.
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
+2349137140435
@monti3699
3 жыл бұрын
My Girlfriend left me 3 weeks ago. Just out of the sudden. Same day she was still kissing and talking about anniversary gift but 3 hours later she said she moved out. Saw her a few days later walking with a other guy but she still answered on my insta story’s. Blocked her and no contact but it’s hard and confusing when out of nowhere she leaves me after 2 years together. We had a bloody good time...
@Mariyahfatima
3 жыл бұрын
@monty the no contact is for you to get over her quicker, no counting on the days shell come back. Just exercise, meditate, eat and drink loads and watch movies. Youll be alright and more.
@robertnaoroibam6334
2 жыл бұрын
Believe me you will get your mind relax following his advice,
@cocochannel8932
2 жыл бұрын
@coachlee I hope you know how special you are. So thankful I found you!
@myrnagrijalva3042
3 жыл бұрын
Whatever you do during your NC , don't involve yourself with another person , if you do, even for one night stand,. It's tantamount to shoot your own foot. You will not have credibility in your ex eyes. You will create another obstacle, especially if your ex remains single during NC. If you go to nightclubs and friend's parties, stay away from drugs and alcohol. Last thing you need is waking up next to a stranger and raking your head trying to remember how far you went with person. If you must drink .. be at home, avoid the opposite sex.. try to have a good friend if you decide to drink.. you might be sufficiently intoxicated to do or say something you will regret.
@ChrisThoridis
Жыл бұрын
Hey guys. I am on day 45 of absolute NC (not watching her stories etc.). I think I did pretty much everything by the book. She is asking common friends how I am doing often, watching all my stories and liking all my posts. About 10 days ago it was my name day and she sent me her wishes. I replied "Thanks a lot, be well". We haven't talked since. Does that count as her reaching out to me? Was I too cold? Any input would help.
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
user-wm2bx2zt When you're in NO Contact, you're not supposed to be watching her on any social media, but at least you're not calling or texting each other. TRY to stay away from watching her, and keep doing a great job. 👍
@DavidMackelmore93
3 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee.. can you please do a video explaining what to do if I was the rebound in a relationship? Me and this girl had been talking the past 6 months after she recently got out of a 4 year relationship.. I truly feel like our connection was genuine, but she didn't have time to heal with herself and we pushed to quickly and now she stepped away to "date herself" for a while.. please give some advice if rebounds can work in some cases and what to do.. its killing me 🥺😣
@briteidea08
Жыл бұрын
If it wasn’t for my friends. I wouldn’t have gotten where I am now.
@ilsewenzel9424
3 жыл бұрын
what if I (the female) did something that likely upset him and he quit communicating with me What can I do and what steps can I take to get him to come back
@shannensharp5893
3 жыл бұрын
Right , I need help on this
@mcrazz6967
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-ud8mt6fj1m so he reached out are you back together or working on it?
@mcrazz6967
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-ud8mt6fj1m awesome good luck!
@lilliankillian7366
Жыл бұрын
Ty so much coach Lee iv been listeni g to you since my break up one month ago you are the best i have ever heard and your helping me through this time we were togesther for 3 and half years and got along pretty well we are in our sixties .he broke it up and i am giving him the break up but it hurts that some one can let go so easly .im doing nc . and see whst happens its been a month so far .ty coach Lee
@fernandogavilanes8378
3 жыл бұрын
3 months no contact - 7 months broke up :( sucks
@tonyoshub8093
3 жыл бұрын
same here same numbers
@fernandogavilanes8378
3 жыл бұрын
@@tonyoshub8093 seeing anything from your ex?
@Storyspinner_Am
Жыл бұрын
Updates
@priscilacavalcante8139
Жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, what if my ex finds out i am applying the NC strategy? It is just that we lived together until last week and once he had to go home to pick up some clothes and idk, I’m afraid he might have turned the tv on and seen that on my YT account has only suggestions for your videos. I know it is just some assumption but this kind scared me when I realized I had forgotten to empty the history… do you think this can ruin everything? I’m from Brazil but unfortunately his English is very good so if he saw it, he understood what im trying to do 😥 In January I applied the NC and although I thought he would never come back, since he was very stubborn, after 20 days he was crying and begging for us to be together… I hope this time we can reconcile again, since the break up was for the same stupid things…
@thewanderer7948
3 жыл бұрын
Could you please make a video on where the dumper had to do it for personal circumstances and was devastated (possibly) herself because of the decision? Is the NC strategy going to work on them too as they were keeping in touch just like before? I have stopped chatting at some point and entered the NC phase but not too sure if that was the right thing to do? I'm in a very bad place right now and don't know what to do!
@RealCoachLee
3 жыл бұрын
It usually doesn’t work nearly as well when the person who does the dumping does no contact. The dynamic is backwards.
@nathanlawson2523
3 жыл бұрын
Ok man, you’re videos have been badass, but when you said psychological warfare, i was like game on! It truly is, sadly. Time to simply move on with this mindset.
@gooneekim4072
3 жыл бұрын
Did no contact work after 9 months
@jellegiesen4889
3 жыл бұрын
Nice new intro Coach
@siasia483
3 жыл бұрын
Well, it's been six months since my breakup and I am now 100% sure that I will love my ex forever. I have tried to fight with that feeling but the heart wants what it wants. A few days ago I decided to get him back whatever it takes or die while trying and believe you me, making this promise to myself felt like a return from exile, like finally getting home. I won't give up, life is too short not to do everything you can to spend it with the one you love. I feel powerful and at last I have some motivation to live. It may take a year or two, whatever. I will become a person he just won't be able to resist. I'm also going NC again, he moved abroad anyway (which caused my panic attack at first but now I see it as just another hurdle to overcome) and texting from time to time doesn't really help me, it just stresses me out and keeps me distracted. So here we go. Wish me luck, pleeeeease, this is going to be a long run, but I'm kind of excited
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
+2349137140435
@ovigavril7191
3 жыл бұрын
Update?
@nathanlawson2523
3 жыл бұрын
Ay this is not a good idea dood. What happened to him reaching out at 35 days and not knowing what he wanted. You should pursue your ambitions for YOU and not someone else. Getting him back under those conditions would be fake. You’re setting yourself for more pain, have you tried seeing a psychologist? Trust me i know how you feel though, my ex left after 9 years. Im pursuing my goals for me though and if she sees my improvements and comes back then cool but if not then cool too. Shes with another guy right now and ifs been a year since the breakup. Longest we’ve gone is 50 days NC due to her either stalking or reaching out with some lame reason. Stay strong and pursue your dreams for you. Have you attempted dating or anything?
@siasia483
3 жыл бұрын
@@nathanlawson2523 Thank you for your interest! And sorry for not responding, I was working on my master thesis (which is extremely difficult when you cannot focus for a single moment). You are absolutely right. The thing is though I cannot really pursue my goals, because I literally don't have any. I am what you may call a nihilist and I didn't choose that, I just feel the constant void, nonsense of existence and so on, I don't want to bore you with the details. The point is I do plenty of stuff but I don't enjoy any of them, including meeting friends and partying. Literally nothing makes sense to me or engages me. My ex was the only one who was ever able to change that. I have NEVER felt the slihgtest bit of happiness until I met him (don't get me wrong, it's not like I was miserable my whole life, I'm not unhappy, I'm just not happy either. I don't feel anything). I cannot give up on that. He made me stop questioning the meaning of life, he taught me how to dream, how to be excited about life, well, he basically show me how to FEEL. And now it's gone and I am back to square one, with no reason to do anything whatsoever. Yes, I tried dating but it's not the same. Something is missing, I need this burning passion and I cannot get it from anyone. And also yes, I am seeing a therapist, we tried pretty much everything but the only thing that worked and made me actually get out of bed and do stuff was using my ex as a motivation. So here I am, doing my best and praying for him to notice that. Deep down I know it's not about him, it's about finding a reason to live. But so far I haven't found it. I cannot even IMAGINE how you must feel after 9 year relationship. How do you live with that? How long did it take to come to the point where you accept it and just move on with your life? How bad was your breakup?
@Rachel-iStockholm
3 жыл бұрын
I am in no contact AGAIN with my ex girlfriend. She has broken up with me twice in the last 4 months. In April i found your videos and she came back within a week. Now here we are again. I'm not sure if it will (or if I want it to) work again.
@vanessaweiss4090
3 жыл бұрын
Hello Coach Lee! First of all, I want to thank you for helping me so much in this dark period of my life by providing these videos. I wanted to ask you for some advice: My Ex recently broke up with me because he lost all of his feelings for me overnight due to a lot of arguing in our relationship. He said this loss was completely sudden and that the day before he loved me more than anything. Personally, I think he only blocks his feelings towards me to protect himself because he needs time to prioritise himself. After a little bit of begging from my side I accepted his decision and we had an amicable breakup. My question is: Do you think his feelings might return due to no contact? Thanks again for being such a great support for so many people who have similar struggles!💕
@ifalpacas6668
3 жыл бұрын
Seems like he made this decision out of impulse…as well as the hurtful words he said. I actually see a great chance you two getting back together, I’d try to go cold for a week and see what happens if I were you
@amman1759
2 жыл бұрын
Update? Similar situation
@vanessaweiss4090
2 жыл бұрын
@@amman1759 @Sweet Cheese We got back together three months after he broke up. We met again at the gym and I told him I'd go to a club the next day and would be happy if he came too so he did and we bonded that whole night and it felt like we were together again and the next day he asked me whether we could try again. We did but after 8 months he was a lying jerk again so I broke it off... but there is definitely hope guys, just don't be desperate but rather confident that it will work out and work on yourselves because I got him back because I worked on bad habits that bothered him. Good luck to you :)
@vanessaweiss4090
2 жыл бұрын
@@sweetcheese9080 Sorry for the late reply, the update is in this thread, I replied to another comment, hope you can see it
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
Vanessa, I can recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. It's awesome! myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@ArticruciA
3 жыл бұрын
Well the first time I tried no contact it didn't work because I already pushed her away so hard but my 2nd time trying it with a new girl it worked after I just gave her space when she said she wanted to be friends after we were hooking up for months. Only took 3 days but she also saw me on tinder which sparked a message on snap chat...I binge watched all your videos again so I think I have a chance this time. Thanks Coach!
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
What's sap"" him I was like... this be'fore I no who can he:lp you out tex ...him now... he can..... solve your problem:: don't weste your time here ""....^^
@hauwasulaiman8249
3 жыл бұрын
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@cijijose
3 жыл бұрын
Dear coach Lee....I got him back after your no contact rule...but ,how will I maintain that love and passion from him further...I am confused...
@fluxcobra3541
3 жыл бұрын
Go on some dates together, google some nice dates and try to apply them. Start slow and don't push to much it takes time to get better together. Goodluck!
@gautammeena6264
3 жыл бұрын
Can I get my ex..back .it's already 6 year passed...and she is still single..
@nopoys
3 жыл бұрын
We dated about 3 months. Great chemistry. I was the dumper because he told me he was serious about me but whenever we went out, he checked other girls on the street. I found it disrespectful and breaked up with him, but didn’t tell him the truth why. I just said that I don’t see the future with you. I went to no contact and he reached out to me after 17 days and then disappeared. 1 week later I made the mistake and contacted him and then I disappeared. 2 weeks later he reached out to me again and I was so desperate and said we should meet up. Ofcourse he said that he was busy and didn’t want to.. Now I‘m in no contact again. Do you think, I messed it up?
@melaniemanning2462
2 жыл бұрын
You didn't mess up, but i don't think he's good for you or worth pursuing. He is not valuing you. Find someone who wants to be with you and isn't afraid to say it. I say, block this guy. Not worthy of you
@MariaTrapiello
2 жыл бұрын
Hi @Coach Lee what if I told him not to contact me after the breakup because it would hurt me?
@florabunda6929
3 жыл бұрын
Well.. third time around now with no contact bringing him back around. Covid travel restrictions and long distance were to blame the first two times.. we live near by now.. fingers crossed we can enjoy some peace together now as you say Coach Lee:)
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