My mom’s hairstylist calls Valentine’s Day: Single Awareness Day, and I couldn’t agree more
@weirdwillowtree4087
2 жыл бұрын
S.A.D (no I'm not calling it sad)
@kindred1012
2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@oliviathewolf7508
2 жыл бұрын
@@weirdwillowtree4087 Do it
@khalilahd.
2 жыл бұрын
I like that 😂
@friedrichwulfgang3655
2 жыл бұрын
I call it marketable corporate love day but it’s not that catchy.
@Raghav-tx6ym
2 жыл бұрын
0:35 You may be pressured to spend lots of money. 1:15 Expectations are high. 2:12 It may set off depressive thoughts. 2:58 Your partner isn’t clear on what they want. 3:25 You may make comparisons.
@AllenTheAnimator004
2 жыл бұрын
And finally...some people don't even celebrate it
@lil_fluffybuddy3883
2 жыл бұрын
thas me ^^^^
@Floofy007
2 жыл бұрын
@@AllenTheAnimator004 It's kinda hard to ignore it when people around you are celebrating it and they're just so, like, "in your face" about it. But I get what you're saying
@silentlion_zer0562
2 жыл бұрын
I'm on number 3 :'] even if I have plans valentines day always makes me hella sad for some reason
@melaniemartin4319
2 жыл бұрын
It hurts!💮💮🌸🌸
@keenices1972
2 жыл бұрын
I am in between "I wish I was loved" and "I'm glad nobody bats an eye for me". It's a strange feeling that I wanted both of these at the same time but heavily conflicted each other.
@jk1126
2 жыл бұрын
Sameee😩 I was saying this today lol
@jetoux4881
2 жыл бұрын
That’s EXACTLY how I’m feeling. Literally took the words right out my mouth
@Viivlet
2 жыл бұрын
Relatable, I love being single but I also hate when I'm single, I have a partner for now and it feels ok, but damn it's hard to stop feeling this way
@DEEET
2 жыл бұрын
Never have i ever found a more relatable comment :,D
@Belle-md9rf
2 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@ronch550
2 жыл бұрын
Show love everyday, not just on Valentine's day. It's the small things everyday that count.
@Ell1e_th3_mushr00m
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@samuelhere41
2 жыл бұрын
Eh
@ifrahjama2215
2 жыл бұрын
Word
@simonfrancis9009
2 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@i_love_umecha
2 жыл бұрын
agree
@mariapazgonzalezlesme
2 жыл бұрын
On my opinions, Valentine is an unnecesary holiday. You don't need an special day to celebrate with partner or appreciette your loved ones --- that should something that happens everyday.
@simonfrancis9009
2 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@KS-qp2ml
2 жыл бұрын
The reality is it don't happen every day. Not to singles or sometimes even couples. And some that do it think okay good cuz I went all out for you on Valentine's Day they don't have to do an out for the rest of the year but that's not true you show love throughout the whole year sometimes you're busy sometimes things are slowed sometimes you broke but is that one day or year you just be like okay thank you for thinking of me yesterday I slept all day yesterday was Valentine's Day but the day before I was able to get flowers and chocolate and it was nice could you see every year I'm single sad I'm lonely and broke and then this year I was at peace I was content that I was able to get something that I was happy that they thought of me you with somebody the whole time and you want them and if they think of you just because they beat you what they care about you show me something that you can prove that you can't send a card give me a hug something
@mayo4900
2 жыл бұрын
That also goes to 90% of holidays. Stfu stop crying and admit you're single.
@momshiegingadventure
2 жыл бұрын
AGREE
@nxamaya
2 жыл бұрын
You can apply that for most holidays really, I totally agree with you but it does feel bad when those closer to you don't get anything from you if they were expecting it. If this is important to your partner, unfortunately, it'll have to be important for you otherwise you'll see yourself in a fight.
@kyleholguin0227
2 жыл бұрын
i think valentine's day puts a lot of pressure on single people and can make them feel very insecure. just remember that you have time and everything will work out ok
@Floofy007
2 жыл бұрын
I've been single for a long time and never experienced a relationship. I'm pretty nervous to start one since I know it's associated with lots of drama and fights
@seanmcfadden3712
2 жыл бұрын
In my case, it's partially the expectation to be drawn to someone fairly quickly. Doesn't work for me, because I'm Ace and Demiromantic. I can appreciate aesthetics, but it takes time for even the chance of a non-platonic interest to develop for me. As you can probably tell, I really don't like the "love at first sight" trope.
@ArjunVerma-wx7tf
2 жыл бұрын
Yes thats true for sure especially this day makes you feel like an outcast where you never have a partner to share something with. Valentine's day is hard to digest for all single people out there.
@ArjunVerma-wx7tf
2 жыл бұрын
@@Floofy007 Yeah it involves good and bad both not everything would be totally bad.
@jk1126
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you😪😊🙏🏽
@khalilahd.
2 жыл бұрын
I think if you have someone you should cherish them everyday, not just when you’re told to. And if you’re single take this time to express your love to those important in your life 💜
@evilmandrake
2 жыл бұрын
This idea misses the forest through the trees. Yes, of course you should always cherish your significant other regularly. It's just a day to celebrate that relationship. You should always respect your mother and father, not just on Mother's Day or Father's Day, but it's nice to have a special day for them.
@silentlion_zer0562
2 жыл бұрын
My dog was my valentine 💝 because the single life has been forever
@Logajit.
2 жыл бұрын
@@silentlion_zer0562 i mean yeah, nothing loves you more than your best friend dog
@Psych2go
2 жыл бұрын
Love that!
@bloodrayne4696
2 жыл бұрын
What if you don't have anyone close to you .. than it's just another bad day with all the other bad days .. truthfully life is hell
@AtkataffTheAlpha
2 жыл бұрын
I simply did a nice thing for a friend today. Valentine's Day isn't all about love partners and married couples. I spent a little bit of money, made cards, envelopes, and I set up a three-card treasure hunt for a friend who I care about. Expectations were simply "mystery" and "fun experience" so nothing over-the-top, just simple. The result was a success and I'm happy to have a good friend irl. Happy valentines day everyone. Little gifts, big gifts, hand-crafted gifts, cheap gifts, expensive gifts, friend, love partner, married partner, or whatever else you do, hope this day has turned out well for you.
@ryanm2
2 жыл бұрын
That treasure hunt sounds really fun. 😁 That's awesome that you made that for your friend. Keep being a great person! 😄
@danas5846
2 жыл бұрын
that sounds fun!! i wish i had friends like that
@anaverageperson8435
2 жыл бұрын
Yall have friends, lucky
@mellowbluesmusic
2 жыл бұрын
Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scarred from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you dont feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today's not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day!"💖🙆🙆🙆
@caustic69420
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Needed to hear that
@phillkpotufe3982
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you…
@shadowpuppet7964
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot, today was hard, means a lot to hear that ^^
@willowbark5649
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Really needed that bit of support!! Let's make tomorrow a wonderful day! Even if that means just stopping to look at a pretty flower. 🌷
@jetoux4881
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I needed to hear that today
@multicreativeartist6579
2 жыл бұрын
Valentine’s Day is literally an insult to us singles. It’s actual torture & horrible. I mean you’re alone walking around (at school) & seeing couples every corner of your eye being happy together. & that just ever so more reminds you of how alone you are. When it’s not valentines day we’re to busy being aware that we’re single. There should be a national single’s holiday.
@Floofy007
2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@unfurropendejo.9473
2 жыл бұрын
Day of the virgin lmao.
@manfroy0202
2 жыл бұрын
theres a korean holiday called black day where singles (and/or those who didnt get any valentines) usually get together and eat some 짜장면 or other black colored foods. black day is celebrated after valentine's day and white day
@reeses_unicorn
2 жыл бұрын
I think there should be a rule at schools that if you get a Valentine's Day gift, you have to keep it in your locker until the end of the day.
@caustic69420
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah Valentine's day was horrible
@DrawsJanella
2 жыл бұрын
I'm not a materialistic person. So a little (inexpensive) gift for Valentine's Day, or any holiday for that matter, is more than enough for me. It shows me that the person cares for me. I will always be grateful for that.
@triplusional2.0
2 жыл бұрын
I am the same way
@wiseguy240Winston
2 жыл бұрын
A lot of food or a dinner at a great spot is more than enough 4 me.
@cathythomas3957
2 жыл бұрын
It's a holiday for candy and card companies to make money!!
@CaWolfie258
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly :)
@DrawsJanella
2 жыл бұрын
@@cathythomas3957 😂🤣
@Kaptain_King
2 жыл бұрын
Hope everyone is feeling okay during this valentines.
@crack_soda
2 жыл бұрын
yeah, hell yeah i am. its not like this day mocks those who are single. i’ve been friendzoned twice and this holiday mocks me for it. bullshit.
@Kaidantonio333
2 жыл бұрын
fake holiday, anyway.
@mina-fp6od
2 жыл бұрын
hope you are too :)
@luciagomez7808
2 жыл бұрын
I'm not but thanks for caring for everyone
@elenamyers3821
2 жыл бұрын
I’m feeling super confused but I appreciate the thought ❤️❤️
@ladywho900
2 жыл бұрын
Although this Valentine’s Day hurt me, it taught me something important that I completely forgotten. It’s that Valentine’s Day isn’t about relationships or romance, it’s about the love for those around you. I gave out chocolate today to my coworkers and it made me feel so much better, feeling the love from my peers was wonderful.
@KassandraChandler
2 жыл бұрын
This is something that needs to be discussed on Christmas too. Having been a retail associate, everyone was going insane about buying so much and or my own family, if my husband and i weren't able to afford any gifts cause we had to get groceries, his family would chew us out and throw facebook fits on how someone in their family didn't get them anything
@chisaten
2 жыл бұрын
Even though I am not Christian, I find it sad how Christmas has become a holiday that is commercially exploited for profit instead of focusing on the true meaning behind it. Thanksgiving happens, and then things go insane with people shopping for Christmas gifts.
@yoshistover5881
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. While I do spend a lot of money on friends, I couldn't care less about what I receive. I just want to see my friends be happy with something I got for them. I'm just happy to have good company in a cheerful mood.
@ebindelgado9660
2 жыл бұрын
And the amount of back breaking hours at both Amazon and FedEx warehouses during the holidays
@darkangelyt8302
2 жыл бұрын
Its about God its about Jesus its about the birth of the lord we stay faithful we get accepted
@myingu6551
2 жыл бұрын
In my family we actually don't celebrate for that exact reason. We are Christians but we don't do gifts on Christmas. Although im sorry that your husband's family does that
@Gh0st_0122
2 жыл бұрын
MCYT/minecraft streamer references: 0:12 my beloved locket 2:17 George and dream holding hands💚💙 2:29 skeppy and bad boy halo 2:35 technoblade and dream on suggested videos side bar. 3:10 Quackity, technoblade and dream plush
@confusedjules
2 жыл бұрын
thank you. i needed this lol
@amitme9812
2 жыл бұрын
Finally! I'm not the only one who noticed that 🤣
@maplesushimc
2 жыл бұрын
I've noticed them in almost every video, I freaking love it
@JazIsOk
2 жыл бұрын
I love this art style!!
@chasejones6164
2 жыл бұрын
I still hate this day, but this year my friend did her best to make it more ok. She got me some self care items and a mani/pedi kit. I even got an Amazon gift cart she wanted me to buy clothes with yesterday. She did it just because I briefly mentioned that Valentine's day brings me pain and reminds me I've been single for so long.
@4nna5tasia.h67
2 жыл бұрын
you have a good friend. thank God for her😔
@chasejones6164
2 жыл бұрын
@@4nna5tasia.h67 thanks
@RonZhang
2 жыл бұрын
I see Valentines Day as a day where people do stupid things with no self-control
@Zextranet
2 жыл бұрын
It's also Bad for Introverts They hate Crowds; when they aren't in the spotlight; they still run away from the aforementioned crowd Valentines day is a Love-Inducer but an Introverts' Mental Disaster
@kenrickbautista6141
2 жыл бұрын
I know the feeling.
@simonfrancis9009
2 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@chisaten
2 жыл бұрын
Valentine's Day is bittersweet for me now. Last year, an online friend who was like an adopted brother arranged with mutual friends to send me two digital Valentine's cards where all of them had written a personal message, then another had handwritten and scanned the two hand drawn cards. I had never gotten any personal Valentines cards like these before, which made them very special. ❤️ The bittersweet side is almost exactly six months later in August, that adopted brother suddenly died from a congenital heart condition which hadn't been diagnosed until the week before on his birthday. That makes me sad to no longer have a chance to meet him for real, but gives me some happiness when thinking of what he did for me.
@T1t4n1umSh13ld
2 жыл бұрын
May his soul rest in peace 🙏
@willowbark5649
2 жыл бұрын
My condolences to you. I'm so sorry. Hugs to you.
@reeses_unicorn
2 жыл бұрын
As a long-time single person, the thing I hate most about Valentine's Day is the big emphasis on romance. Edit: I miss the days in elementary school when everybody would get Valentine's Day cards and I'd have so much fun looking through mine.
@jetoux4881
2 жыл бұрын
That was so much fun. I remember everybody getting their candy with the cards. I miss when it was fun :/
@simonfrancis9009
2 жыл бұрын
*sighs* I miss those days too
@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate
2 жыл бұрын
@Ms. Kitty very nice name you have and I also see the same point as well: you don't have to make Valentine's Day so purr-fect to show your care. As sometimes the small things you do are just as great as the big things. Also, everyday should be Valentine's Day in my opinion. But these are for you, even though the day has passed: 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
@Ell1e_th3_mushr00m
2 жыл бұрын
Lol, my whole class is trying to find a lover while i'm over here not caring till I'm in Junior High. Love your videos by the way! It helps me so much!!!
@DrawsJanella
2 жыл бұрын
Heck, almost everyone at my school is in a relationship except me. I have been feeling sad about this before, but now I try to set my mind on graduation. The grass isn't always greener on the other side, and that's ok.
@Ell1e_th3_mushr00m
2 жыл бұрын
@@DrawsJanella Agreed, my friends and I are all still young yet they fall in love so quickly and want to get into a relationship. It's like they already what to become adults and get married.
@cassiegray5158
2 жыл бұрын
@@DrawsJanella that's like that with me when I was in middle school.
@DrawsJanella
2 жыл бұрын
@@Ell1e_th3_mushr00m You're on the right track. Stay focused on your goals and dreams for now. You'll eventually meet someone along the way, but learn from your friends and don't rush into anything. Slow and steady wins the race.
@birb6474
2 жыл бұрын
@@Ell1e_th3_mushr00m yeah, don’t worry too much about getting in a relationship rn. Middle schoolers and young kids will “date”, and 99% of the time it doesn’t last anyways. Just focus on the important things for now, when the time is right you might find someone. As a kid you need a lot of time just for yourself to figure ourself out as well ✌️
@LadyOMyth
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I've had very depressive thoughts about Valentine's Day before. Though I have considered this holiday as an opportunity to learn more about romance for my stories, it's also been a reminder in the past of me having no one to share it with. I have a guy in my life now and though we're not officially anything, but I did send him a card reminding him how appreciated and loved he is and I got to spend some time talking to him over a call today. It's the nicest I've spent a Valentine's Day so far. I'm still smiling. Honestly, for my 21st birthday month, I'd say it's going incredibly well.
@NanaHoneyB
2 жыл бұрын
Valentine’s Day is about EXPRESSING LOVE. It’s not limited to a romantic partner or even other people. So be pamper yourself and/or your loved ones and have a good time. I assure you, being single is not the end of the world if you pour into yourself first, always.
@soomi5667
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t I’ve identified with a comment this strongly. 😳 But I’ve always thought it was to express love as well. Not strictly romantic because that’s just not how I see it. It’s probably why I love the holiday a lot tbh haha. You get to express the love you have for the people around you more. It’s really wonderful imo.
@NanaHoneyB
2 жыл бұрын
@@soomi5667 I agree. If you’re frustrated on Valentine’s Day it may to time to re-evaluate the connections in your life. An opportunity to express love should never make you feel bad. Only reason it would is if you constantly feel unappreciated.
@Materialgworlllll
2 жыл бұрын
Yesss thank you! I see a lot of comments from people about how Valentine’s day makes them super depressed and want to hurt themselves because they are single. Like please see a professional if you can or get some help. It is not normal to be so triggered by seeing couples celebrating Valentine’s day. Some of these people commenting have major issues they need to work through and like you said, evaluate the personal connections in their lives.
@amanekaze
2 жыл бұрын
@@Materialgworlllll Exactly. It's crazy how they still overthinking it when in reality, they're just gonna hurt themselves more and more. Stand up bruh! There's no such as cancelling Valentine's day, you're the ones are asking to cancel or make them unimportant despite the fact that Valentine's day wasn't meant for couples only. Everyone can participate it. Alone, friends, family or etc, you're not alone darling.
@roxassora2706
Жыл бұрын
Then why is there almost never any things for family? It's always things for couples.
@ButterflyDivide
2 жыл бұрын
Man I hate when people spend money on me. My ex once gave me five gifts and I wasn’t really… feeling it. I just wanted him to spend time with me. That’s what my girlfriend did today and I couldn’t be happier.
@totallynotmisox
2 жыл бұрын
This is what we singles wanted to know 😂
@marcusreed3474
2 жыл бұрын
Yup
@Jovel_
2 жыл бұрын
Valentine’s Day is just another regular day, in a relationship or not. If you have a partner make them feel loved every single day, not just 1 freaking day.
@momshiegingadventure
2 жыл бұрын
Yes its true👌
@BENZ_ASMR
2 жыл бұрын
Welp for the past couple of days I chose to stay off social media including today 1. So I won’t have to see all the lovey dovey stuff 😂2. So I can challenge myself to see if I can do it💯3. Because people don’t really care about my well being they just want to lurk👀 and 4. So I can self reflect and give myself some time and realize that I don’t have to compare myself to others…Let’s just say I’m proud of myself 🥲❤️ and will continue to work on my wellbeing to be the best version of me possible💯🥰
@Nofaceguy117
2 жыл бұрын
I only struggled with 3 this year, and that’s because I had to go to school and see so many happy couples walking around and gifts being given when I don’t have anyone in my area because my platonic partner lives in a different state than mine. I felt really single, tired, and sad at the end of the day, so it kinda sucked, but I still made it through at least. 🙂
@SpinalWall16589
2 жыл бұрын
In my opinion. Valentine’s Day is just a day that itself just hurts you more for being Single or a Loner. :(
@deadchannelsnailkiller7088
2 жыл бұрын
I mean it’s just supposed to be a day where people celebrate romance but people act like it’s the only day you get to love each other it’s supposed to be a simple celebration until corporations ruined it
@Lonevessel
2 жыл бұрын
At least self love exists which is more important than being in a relationship with someone.
@ImInYourHouse777
2 жыл бұрын
as someone who is asexual/aromantic. this holiday is a little hard for me :, ) i wonder what its like to be in a platonic relationship though.
@heheheha8783
2 жыл бұрын
same, im aromantic though, and everytime someone tries to flirt with me on his one day holiday, its a little hard to escape that or go along with it
@shantnubhanwala5972
2 жыл бұрын
Same here I am too boring for others
@gchicklet
2 жыл бұрын
I'm a hetero romantic Ace. Dating gets wierd sometimes. Tho it's nice when "Netflix and chill" Really is "Netflix and chill"
@ImInYourHouse777
2 жыл бұрын
@@gchicklet gotta love netflix and chill
@theaveragenick5554
2 жыл бұрын
Hate valentines day. Always reminds me of how lonely I really am. Seeing all these couples together and their posts. Remembering how much rejection I've gotten as well as being cheated on when I was in relationships.
@NotZDH
2 жыл бұрын
Me and my friend are each others valentines as friends today. Of course everyone thought otherwise. We semi dressed up and treated it like any other day, hanging out and being friends. We took a cute photo and I gave her a bag of candy I made for her, and she seemed to really like it. We didn't need anything nuts or crazy, which I believe worked the best. If we do somehow do get into a relationship, we might go out for lunch, but we would probably keep it the same.
@evahagen9131
2 жыл бұрын
Valentines Day should really just be a "Loved-ones-Day". A Day were you cherrish your loved ones, doesn't matter if it's your partner, Family members or friends
@dave1264
2 жыл бұрын
"Valentine's Day is bad for you" Singles: We know..
@ST4R_XCX
2 жыл бұрын
Today was crazy for me😭. I had a crush on this person in my class, after we were working together, I started to have a crush on him again😭😭😭. He was just too nice. Happy Valentines Day!!💝
@yoshistover5881
2 жыл бұрын
I decided to treat myself this Valentine's day. It's made me realize that I should treat myself like my own partner as well. I forget so often that I'm very toxic to myself and am quite the opposite with others.
@ichsehnursoaus
2 жыл бұрын
very good, keep on doing this :)
@DamnItHeadJedi
2 жыл бұрын
I told my grandma that I was hanging out with numerous beautiful women today. My coworkers thought that was hilarious when I told ‘em. I mean, it wasn’t a lie. I work with an almost exclusively female nursing staff. 🤷🏻♂️
@glitchdude5067
2 жыл бұрын
mine was pretty much just being asked why i didn’t have a Valentine and watching my friends hang out with significant others all day.
@glitchdude5067
2 жыл бұрын
what about your guy’s
@universestars
2 жыл бұрын
I love the Rapunzel and Eugene moment in this video it was adorable
@Gh0st_0122
2 жыл бұрын
P2G: Here's why Valentines is bad for you Me: let me stop you there, I'll explain. IM SINGLE AND MY CRUSH DOESNT LIKE ME THATS WHY!! It lowers my self confidence...
@gunZ_NbunZ_4Fun
2 жыл бұрын
My gf of 1 year broke up with me last month and texted me today saying she "misses" me and said she still loves me and still wants to be with me. Had me going crazy ignoring me for a month and gaslighting me and letter all her girlfriends make decisions for her and now she wants me back and ask to hang out but I told her not a good idea for either of us. I tried to work it out with her one last time before she broke up with me over text but she kept Leading me on so I think not. You think you know someone 😏
@cassiegray5158
2 жыл бұрын
True, but remember one thing: you should only focus on yourself, not on others, who hurt you. Live and be loved. I never dated before, so I don't know what your relationship was like. But I think it's better you don't need to see her if she's hurting you. I mean, it's up to you. You are in control of your own life and choose whoever you want in your life. Be you.
@shawnshields521
2 жыл бұрын
Personal opinion, don't take her back. If she wanted you, she should have stayed. She let you go, and you should be with someone who doesn't do that. I find it pretty insulting if a girl would do that to me.
@jetoux4881
2 жыл бұрын
@@shawnshields521 stole the words right out my mouth.
@willowbark5649
2 жыл бұрын
@@shawnshields521 I'm a girl, and I totally agree. You can do so much better, if you're interested. Forget about her.
@steem_punk
2 жыл бұрын
1 - because it constantly reminds you what you don’t have, what you wanted so desperately yet somehow are too nervous or too weird to achieve. Simple solution: stop being afraid and ask, the answer may shock you. But if it actually shocks you with watts of electricity, that ain’t your crush, that’s an eel. Long solution: watch a few more psych 2 go vids about how to ask someone out. These vids are really helpful, just need to have the courage to put what you watch to use. Good luck to everyone and I hope your relationships go well
@ClammyHorrorShow
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve thought a lot about this Valentine’s Day, it was good, spending my time with my friends for a hour and a half taking Polaroid pictures and giving small gifts to one another. Don’t get me wrong, I’m single too and it sucks, because in high school it’s so unfair when it comes to relationships. Trust me it is, and it hurts you really bad. One of these friends is my crush and she doesn’t like-me like-me if you know what I mean, it sucks. And she’s heading to college next year, it really puts a damper on the holiday. But you know what, it was a good day, and I had fun with my friends, that’s what matters right now. You don’t need to be in a romantic relationship to get by in life or to make it through ever single day, friends are better for everyone right now. I hope all of you had a great Valentine’s Day, and I’m sending love in everyone’s direction 💚
@birb6474
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, as a high schooler, I agree about it being so unfair. And there seems to be a lot of pressure too. Almost all my friends have partners and i don’t, and never have so far. My crush barely notices me anyways lol, just gotta try to enjoy being single ig
@ClammyHorrorShow
2 жыл бұрын
@@birb6474 I gotcha bro, keep livin, you’ll find that person one day. Even if it’s not that crush your interested in. Your loved, your safe man. Keep your chin up, this day is for us, we’ll find our partners soon, I know we will. 🙌
@biacris3153
2 жыл бұрын
0:33 - You May Be Pressured to Spend Lots of Money 1:15 - Expectations Are High 2:12 - It May Set Off Depressive Thoughts 2:57 - Your Partner Isn't Clear on What They Want 3:25 - You May Make Comparisons
@thezombiecreeper
2 жыл бұрын
My main response to “Happy Valentine’s Day” is “I know, right? We’re halfway through February! Spring is right ‘round the corner!”
@NFSMAN50
2 жыл бұрын
Back in the day, I used to get soo depressed and mopey around this time, because as an adult, the holiday bascially became single awareness day, but i've grown past that, and realized that Valentines day is not only about couples, it's about showing love to people around you, whether it's a stranger online, friend online, stranger IRL, or friends irl or family. Being wholesome and lovely is what makes this day go well.
@ifyourehomophobicgojowillk5402
2 жыл бұрын
I give my mom chocolates every valentine's day because she is my valentine ♥️ I am not presurred to give my mom expensive gifts, but some simple gifts and she accepts everything!! 😁I love my mom ❤️
@devn22
2 жыл бұрын
Ready to watch this with my pile of stuffed animals and the box of chocolates I bought for myself ✌️😇
@jorjadaily1909
2 жыл бұрын
Yass
@willowbark5649
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent idea, wish I'd done that.
@dogsareawesome7141
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I would agree. It was nice to hear that, because a lot of times it just feels like a dreaded holiday. But it really doesn’t have to be some big thing. The little things count (:
@Psych2go
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing :) Which points do you agree with the most?
@dogsareawesome7141
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with all of them. But the three I agree with most is making comparisons, it may set off depressive thoughts, and there are high expectations. I think that it’s just so much pressure and you’re expected to do so much. I think that it can be hard because if you are someone who likes someone, but they don’t like you back, it can kinda remind you of that. I don’t know if that makes sense.
@existentialcrisis7180
2 жыл бұрын
It was valentine's Day for me yesterday and I've spent three hours crying and scrolling through Pinterest and it is currently 3:43 am so yeah I'd say this is pretty accurate xx
@birb6474
2 жыл бұрын
It’s hope you’re doing ok ❤️ it’s a tough day out here for us single pringles
@existentialcrisis7180
2 жыл бұрын
@@birb6474 thank you birb, and yes tis v tough hope you doing well too
@Bskyuyuz
2 жыл бұрын
some refrences that i found! 0:15 my beloved locket 2:24 Dream and George 2:29 badboyhalo and skeppy 2:35 Dream, Technoblade, Among us on the side 3:11 techno,dream plush and a duck plush with quackitys beanie and a fundy plush? 3:30 repunzel and flynn
@seanmcfadden3712
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. As for how I spent V-Day, it was a mix of babysitting animals for my parents when they went out for a few hours for groceries and things, shared some funny ideas (such as a Valentine's Day Grinch idea) with online friends, and played a round of Monster Prom on my own. Oh, and lots of cuddles with my three cats. Very important.
@pantiesgonewild358
2 жыл бұрын
didnt even realize today was valetin day, just felt like another normal work day
@Bubbles-hm2ps
2 жыл бұрын
Valentine's Day actually sucks what makes me feel even worse is that I saw my crush kiss his "girlfriend" and seeing couples happy and kiss each other makes me feel even more horrible because it reminds me of him kissing and I just can't forget about it
@seiru_ryu
2 жыл бұрын
Self-care day for me 💜 it really help with my mentally and emotionally. Not a single sec do I feel sad not having a partner and I'm happy with it :3
@Lonevessel
2 жыл бұрын
Good to hear that :D
@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think Valentine's Day is taken in the wrong way nowadays. Because when I went to CVS today, there was a MOB of people there just for Valentine shopping. It was ridiculous. Honestly, everyday should be Valentine's Day instead of showing how much you love someone on that one day out of the year freaking year. That's just my take on it.
@gAm3r_GuRl984
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree. Like one day to show how much you appreciate your friends and family but that should be everyday
@yikez82much
2 жыл бұрын
Valentine's Day shouldn't be about couples only! It should be about celebrating the friendships you have and worshiping the meaning of family! Self love is also very important because some people tend to forget that they matter too! By yourslef a little treat if you feel alone because loving yourself is very important!
@thesalamilids
2 жыл бұрын
valentine’s day to others is to prove their love to their significant other. but that should be everyday.
@marsh799
2 жыл бұрын
i got valentine messages from friends and its so sweet, i appreciate it all!! i decide to give them valentines messages back^^ it doesn't always have to be something big or special, just show you care about the person even though its just a simple text or something...im sure they'll appreciate!! Also you can spend it with your friend and family if you want, spend time with em! and if you do not celebrate it- theres nothing wrong with it as well! everyone is different :) have a nice day/night
@antoniovazquez2744
2 жыл бұрын
I cried today twice because of this twisted day: I prefer calling it Singles’ awareness day!!!
@christopher6639
2 жыл бұрын
same this day is absolute torture for those who want to be in a relationship but have a hard time getting into one 😔
@mrsmucha
2 жыл бұрын
@@christopher6639 When you're a divorced woman over 60, there is very little chance of getting a romantic partner. Potential partners are just not there.
@mrsmucha
2 жыл бұрын
I cried too. All the woman around me are happily married doing stuff with their husbands. I think I'm going to get a dog!
@christopher6639
2 жыл бұрын
@@mrsmucha well im 20 gonna be 21 this year and i been rejected more times than i can even count and that only hurts worse when i only been in one relationship so far in my life and idk if ill ever get another girlfriend😔
@antoniovazquez2744
2 жыл бұрын
@@Kian_0708 when you feel lonely regardless of the type of love, friendship, family or acquaintances… it’s hard to consider this a happy lovely day. I don’t want to thwart your happiness, please enjoy this day if you can. Also, you’re right, every day IS single awareness day, it’s just that February 14th can be a reminder of one’s loneliness. We’re not being petty, some people are just not happy at the moment.
@stormy3758
2 жыл бұрын
that's why I don't really like valentines day. sometimes I wish anyone could walk up to me and just give me a rose or something really special to show how much they care about me but instead I'm always left watching others get the same feeling I was hoping for, it really hurts and to know that I care about them and would do the same thing for them hurts more ☹ I know I deserve love and one day I will get it but just by the right person hopefully 🙌
@thatonepineapple7630
2 жыл бұрын
I haven’t really went through most of these, although it is my first Valentine’s Day with a partner of my own. Honestly been one of the best I’ve ever had, but seeing you post makes it a whole lot better
@alienreprisal692
2 жыл бұрын
Its always been good to me, its my birthday and ive always felt a deeper understanding of what love is supposed to manifest as
@Noname-1695
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know who needs to hear this, but I'm going to put this here. Guys, it's better to be single than to force a relationship.
@tonykun8370
2 жыл бұрын
True that but finding a actual decent relationship is hard when no one is interested and or are too picky :')
@ericb4835
2 жыл бұрын
in other words it's like trampling on an endless pathway of broken glass with no other route directions but forward.
@Atiredsandwich.
2 жыл бұрын
Happy Valentines day!
@SoldierOfFate
2 жыл бұрын
If you really love someone, you don't need this silly holiday to express it. Instead, show it every day on the other 364 days of the year.
@michaelblower7363
2 жыл бұрын
I followed my Dad's advice and just treated myself to something nice on Valentine's Day. So I decided to go to a Starbucks and order a really nice drink which sounded rather nice. I sat down by the window and just enjoyed the atmosphere. Don't get me wrong, I would love to have a loving partner of my very own, however I do try my best to enjoy my own company. :)
@XxMelody.GoldxX
2 жыл бұрын
I looked at the title and said 'this will be interesting" lol
@CrepuscularQueen
2 жыл бұрын
I don't think Valentine's day will ever be about romance for me. It will always be about making cute little cards and handing out candy to classmates from elementary school. This year I ignored Valentine's day since it felt like a normal day like any other besides my mom buying chocolates for us to share. Thats real love right there.
@PixelPalettes
2 жыл бұрын
The depression really kicked in today whoops, imagine being single couldn't be me
@TypoQueenie
2 жыл бұрын
The notion of valentines day is a couples day needs to change. Its a great day to remind ourselves what love can do for an individual and to appreciate it and express it every single day. We can still have a day for it but let it be a reminder to show it every day in some form.
@mina-fp6od
2 жыл бұрын
I’m going to confess to my crush tomorrow guys 😿
@seanstrizak3654
2 жыл бұрын
Good luck you got this
@skeptical_playz6142
2 жыл бұрын
Let’s go! Don’t stress too much lol
@DrawsJanella
2 жыл бұрын
Good luck!! ☺
@mina-fp6od
2 жыл бұрын
Thank y’all so muchh 😭😭, I’ll update the comment tomorrow and let y’all know how it goes :)
@skeptical_playz6142
2 жыл бұрын
@@mina-fp6od how did it go? I’m so frickin curious
@katrin712
2 жыл бұрын
It s about 20 years I ve wished a happy valentine ´s day to my single friends. It s a tradition… so they feel loved and not singled out even more after having had to go through weeks of heavy commercials by all kind of media focusing on couples etc… They re always happy when they receive wishes this day and sometimes we discuss life and so on, catch up as beginning of year can be very busy, and weather is still so-so to go around easily for some of us. So to all single ones: happy valentine ´s day! You re important, you re precious, and you re loved, don t doubt it even for a minute!
@bloodrayne4696
2 жыл бұрын
Your a good friend I wish I had a friend like you... I'm not loved or important I'v been shown that many times
@WylieMyers1007
2 жыл бұрын
Hewwo just want to say I love your Chanel and have for months, thank you for what you do
@congruentcrib
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never liked Valentine’s Day for these reasons. I was never the kid who got the special letter from someone, or that person who everyone wanted to let them know how much they liked them. I was always the person everyone would go to, when no one else would. I had a lot of friends tell me no one was getting them flowers, but they’d love flowers and how it’d make their day, or how they’d pay for them, etc. and this kinda hurt because it kept reminding me that I was second choice, second best, no one’s first choice. So Valentine’s Day isn’t something that I really enjoy. Oddly enough, I love the name valentine. Think it’s just a cool name.
@Jmoney05307
2 жыл бұрын
I think I can see what side their on when it comes to Valentine’s Day
@paridhiagarwal3335
2 жыл бұрын
social media makes it worse too, when they start comparing their experience with the others and wondering what is wrong with their relationship
@melodythemassagetherapist6957
2 жыл бұрын
I call Valentine’s Day the Hallmark holiday. Maybe we all should be kind to all people, everyday. 💕
@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate
2 жыл бұрын
If only that could be that way. Because the states of minds are what need to be looked into in order to make that happen. I say that because this past Monday, there were a ton of people in CVS JUST for Valentine shopping, and I even overheard some say that they were last minute shopping for it, too. I would be like, "take a chill pill and just relax," but it's hard to think straight when I guess they're pressured either by their mate or they pressure themselves into doing their best. Beautiful name you have, btw.
@melodythemassagetherapist6957
2 жыл бұрын
Hi@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate it is sad if they are feeling pressured to buy “stuff”. Thanks for the compliment about my name!! I LOVE my name!!! I hope that I may always live up to its beauty, by being kind and joyful, like it’s sound! Love your KZitem channel tittle!! Who doesn’t like hot chocolate!!?? Well, I’m sure there are some out there who don’t like hot chocolate, but that’s ok, I’ll just have their share of hot chocolate!! Take care and thanks so much for sharing your CVS story!! 🙂
@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate
2 жыл бұрын
@@melodythemassagetherapist6957 Hey Melody. It's my utmost pleasure, and you should love your name because it's a part of you. :) Also thank you about my channel name: the best thing about this hot chocolate, is that I come with 0 calories. lol. So you can have as much of me as you'd like. I hope to talk with you soon, and take care as well.
@melodythemassagetherapist6957
2 жыл бұрын
@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate haha!!! That’s great! Take care! Have a happy day! 🙂
@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate
2 жыл бұрын
@@melodythemassagetherapist6957 You too. And I subbed to you as well.
@heykween
2 жыл бұрын
Valentines day is so infuriating like your single and all you see is couples all around you , constantly seeing something that you havent and its lowkey insulting 🌠🌠
@StarNightSkys
2 жыл бұрын
Me knowing damn well I can't get a girlfriend even if I tried
@kclightman
2 жыл бұрын
My husband bought me my favorite box of candy, and a handmade card, and that's all I could possibly want to feel treasured. When I was single, I'd hand out flowers and/or cheap candy to my friends. So I always felt I was celebrating it and not left out. I loved the idea of romance even if I didn't have someone special. I have never been sad on that day. It's all about perspective.
@bethsedits
2 жыл бұрын
One it makes me feel lonelier😌
@cassiegray5158
2 жыл бұрын
Remember, you have people who have been in your life. That doesn't make you lonely. They are a lot of people who are feeling the same as you. Don't let that get you down. Just remember the reason you are here. Otherwise, you wouldn't have existed coming from that love your parents give you. Love what you have and accept what's given. Don't be discouraged about this video; you should only focus on yourself or whatever life goals you're pursuing.
@MrBurrit0
2 жыл бұрын
Valentine’s Day for me was great I asked my crush if she could be my Valentine and she said yes!!! I’m sorry for everyone who is feeling bad on this day remember like the video says you’re amazing and you shouldn’t feel bad about not having a partner on Valentines
@birb6474
2 жыл бұрын
So happy for you ❤️ takes a lot of courage haha, hope things go well with her ✌️
@Manowar458
2 жыл бұрын
Hi
@Via.starzz
2 жыл бұрын
Hi
@ciararoberts5118
2 жыл бұрын
hey
@Atiredsandwich.
2 жыл бұрын
Yo
@GreyBxx
2 жыл бұрын
Ello
@yor-homan
2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@f-1492
2 жыл бұрын
Watched this a day late. All I did was give a friend a card, told them I liked them, and then we gave each other a hug and talked
@iiDxmienii
2 жыл бұрын
I spent 6k on a girl and she got me a Reese’s peanut butter cup 😭🤚✨
@brooklyn_716
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know if anyone else is out there like me. I tried to be positive, I even put up Valentine's decorations in my apartment even though I'm single. I have not one friend where I live. And there is no place for me to meet anyone. I don't live in a good neighborhood. I just have a lot of things against me..I can't leave this apartment or I would be homeless. I'm not religious, no need to pray for me. I guess I was just looking to vent since i have no one to talk to. I apologize for my rant, just letting my feelings out. If no one reads this that's fine .I'll try to keep going. If anyone did read this thank you so much for taking the time to listen to me. I very much appreciate it ❤❤
@brooklyn_716
2 жыл бұрын
Whoever liked my post, thanks! 🙂
@atree1739
2 жыл бұрын
"Reasons why valentines is bad for you" Pov: you get no bitches
@perplexingperceptions8888
2 жыл бұрын
I didn't get any, it was just another boring day.
@NessWithABeard
2 жыл бұрын
The most I did for Valentine's Day this year was sending this friend I'm hopeful would be my girlfriend a sticker in the Facebook Chat. She appreciated it and it was all I needed.
@brain_respect_and_freedom
2 жыл бұрын
We LOVE everyday not only in a single day. And to thank our LOVE for every day we spent together. Don't replace it with gifts.
@once_momo
2 жыл бұрын
This valentine I spent a lots of time with my family and mostly for myself. I'm very happy
@kakarikokage2514
2 жыл бұрын
As a guy who's been single my whole life, I can honestly say I hate Valentine's Day. I hate being alone and seeing everyone else happy leaves me feeling like there's something wrong with me.
@tonykun8370
2 жыл бұрын
Same honestly :')
@hyperpixelgaming88
2 жыл бұрын
I just hate it so much I’ve never even had any friends to really spend the day with the closest I got was having a girlfriend close to the day but getting broken up with the week before, shit sucks
@sakurarosabellmathews
2 жыл бұрын
Happy heartbreaking day, everyone. On February 14, 2017, my grandfather died from colon cancer. He had it for six years But died five years ago. As you know, heaven has taken my grandfather from my family today. I will love it if you do not say Valentine's day. I would rather have you say heartbreaking. Please, and thank you.
@violetevergarden5160
2 жыл бұрын
Im single this year, and thats fine. In my school everyone(not really only feels like it) gives out roses to their friends on valentines day. And looking around the classroom seeing people already gotten roses some multiple already in first period. I want to be happy for them but it also sets of a bit of pressure. Like no rose? Nobody loves u. Even as someone who is very social at school it does not really feel that good. Its hard not making comperisons. I did get a rose. So that was nice. I guess. I told myself and others i didn’t really care for getting roses, cause there was more about giving. All i gave was anonymous. 6x to the cafeteria staff, 5x to some friends, i tiped another friend’s boyfriend(does not go to our school) about the tradition so he sent to her. And i considered giving more but they ran out of roses very quick. I dont think i like things like this at all. Valentines day fine cause everyone feels the pressure. But i also dont like birthdays. It’s probably my own doing making it feel like its a competition about having a lot of friends and a good family though its hard not to make comparisons. I see a bunch of people post congratulations on Facebook to their friends with lots of pictures and it only makes me stress.
@tadanohitohitogr8450
2 жыл бұрын
My dad told me that other guys at my age are not single and with that i literally cried. That's why I hate Valentine's Day. ;-;
@weirdVampiress
2 жыл бұрын
It sucks when your partner isn’t the romantic type and your expectations are low because of that. Even on my birthday, I learned to expect nothing.
@jupiterfan013
2 жыл бұрын
I've always enjoyed Valentine's Day because it's an excuse to bake and share sweets with people but this year is the first time I'm in a relationship during Valentine's Day and my partner didn't even acknowledge it, to the point that when I wished him a Happy Valentine's Day, he said 'no' and he's been so absent lately and bailing a lot that I just feel unimportant and like I don't really matter. I suddenly miss being single and spending Valentine's Day with my friends.
@nauuuurrrrr
2 жыл бұрын
This was the first valentines day I cared about, since the person I liked was in a relationship with someone else. It might have been my fault since I'm very shy and didn't do much to show I like them, but it still hurts
@vinnt_tnniv
2 жыл бұрын
2:42 I'm single and really like cuddles, and I used to get sad. now, I just grab a beer with the boys, sing, get a little drunk, and hug my pillow when I get home. Affection from friends, and cuddling with inanimate objects. (anime girls body pillows are really useful for situations like these)
@omgthatsamber8146
2 жыл бұрын
People here talking about them being single, how bout people who has barely any friends. Not like having none, but they don't talk to each other much.
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