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@Psych2go
7 ай бұрын
More videos that might help you: 1) This Is NOT Love, It's A Trauma Bond kzitem.info/news/bejne/lYWv0YWjmIJ-h20 2) Signs It's Betrayal Bonding, Not Love kzitem.info/news/bejne/lWyiq3ihjmqCd4I 3) How Childhood Trauma May Affect Your Love Choice kzitem.info/news/bejne/mGqYmIWHg5R0ioI
@ErbyZeferino
7 ай бұрын
Thanks psych2go for this AMAZING CONTENT, I keep learning more and more about mental health everyday. This video will help me alot in the near future, thanks for your content for all the community and the help that you have given us 😄👌👌 From: Erby Z
@jackinthebox9730
7 ай бұрын
Another great video, do you guys have videos on the fear of making mistakes?
@Pie_Lord
7 ай бұрын
It was a bright idea to shed some light on the topic and all other topics u cover. I’ll help make other ppl aware about your videos through sharing. Well I’ll be here to watch your other lovely videos
@ArabicLover101
7 ай бұрын
So an enmeshed relationship is basically like a toxic relationship?
@flamegamer3424
7 ай бұрын
I’ve never heard of the term “enmeshment” before until now. I’m glad I learned what it means and what makes it so different from love.
@TseringChoedon-bu4nz
7 ай бұрын
1:00 Loss of personal identity 1:34 Lack of emotional boundaries 2:13 Loss of personal interests and friendships 2:58 Lack of autonomy 3:31 Absence of healthy conflict resolution Hope it helps🤍
@Queenpeeek
7 ай бұрын
Ty it helped
@christopherhadsell9049
7 ай бұрын
My ex was a bit enmeshed with me--thanks for this video! I was less--so--he felt unloved. Of course, with this dynamic going on, I found it next to impossible to talk about "real" things with him. He would get all prickly if I even mentioned something. Needless to say, we're not together any longer. I have met someone new. It's really early stages, but I like we're taking it real slow! Lots of time to feel out each other's boundaries--give autonomy--give him his space--give me mine. when I see this, it makes me think he and I might have a meaningful relationship after all--he says he's really comfortable around me! Plus, I love the way I can get him to laugh! Laughter is so important!
@kiwi_rainbows
7 ай бұрын
This is such an important topic that really needs more awareness drawn to it. Thank you for this video!
@TBNAfrangsYT
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video. I never thought I’d understand why my friends would have me be their slacker, but this helps.
@Glockenspheal
7 ай бұрын
This is a very important topic and one I resonate with a lot, I used to have very low self-esteem that lead me into a very destructive path, thankfully that is way past behind me, although I still have some remnants of these traits, I think it's normal, but I've always advocated for working on one's self-esteem since, I'd love for more videos that go into such details. Other topics I'd like covered would be like... alternatives or ways to seek therapy, since it is quite hard for some people to get it, I think it would help the people who struggle and can't get therapy in the meantime, or are afraid to ask for help and such.
@gateyyourlocaltherapist
7 ай бұрын
..I just got the biggest shock from this……
@samc_cherterita
7 ай бұрын
I kinda did too..
@gateyyourlocaltherapist
7 ай бұрын
@@samc_cherterita **e hug**😭
@jshisvivsihsksbibsiveuev
7 ай бұрын
sHIK SHAK SHOCK
@jshisvivsihsksbibsiveuev
7 ай бұрын
nvm sorry,this is rude of me I just realised
@gateyyourlocaltherapist
7 ай бұрын
@@jshisvivsihsksbibsiveuev meh..it’s fine TvT
@LesleySASMR
7 ай бұрын
Thanks to your video, I finally figured out what my five year long relationship really was. I’m still working towards healthy love toward others and myself.
@indulgence42
7 ай бұрын
I'd like to think enmeshment doesn't mean the absence of love, but perhaps the relationship just needs some ironing.
@lizillusion2318
7 ай бұрын
My bf and I are SUPER close, affectionate, and have anxiety and self-esteem issues. So knowing that, I always like to make sure this kinda thing doesn’t happen with us. Luckily we don’t relate to any of those, so we’re on the right trajectory. Communication is key folks. With that, you can solve a lot of these problems!!
@sstrwbrryyy
7 ай бұрын
is this video supposed to be unlisted? its quiet helpful and id like to know more about it specific to each relationship. like enmeshment in romantic relationships and enmeshment in familial relationships specifically parent-child also i hope you guys can do a video on emotional incest, maybe in the more common mother-son sense. maybe also a video on enmeshment vs emotional incest? i think im watching my partner live through these things and hope to help him more understand himself and the trauma his family has inflicted on him
@tearsintherain6311
7 ай бұрын
Emotional WHAT
@TBNAfrangsYT
7 ай бұрын
Well someone got early access to the video.😂🤓 Also, EMOTIONAL WHAT?🤨
@sanguinesomnambulist
7 ай бұрын
I hadn't encountered that term before but reading it just gave me a shock. It might explain why during unravelling trauma the last few months, I've begun to feel such palpable disgust and even nausea around some of the family members who have been abusive towards me.
@sstrwbrryyy
7 ай бұрын
yes! it was a shock to me when i first heard about it so yes, emo inc3st 😳 but when i started reading ab it, it was so weird bc it fit the description of what i am currently observing through my bf. its like more than just "a momma's boy" and he wants out but theres just stockholm syndrome-y things holding him back also. its quite a shock and it can happen between any family members where one dumps emotions onto a person who isnt supposed carry their baggage hence the easiest example of a mother dumping emotions onto their kid when they are supposed to be sharing that with a partner instead. its quite sad and i feel like since ive become aware of it, ive realize how much of it actually happens around me
@TBNAfrangsYT
7 ай бұрын
@@sstrwbrryyy Oh, I’m starting to understand. In that case, I guess I can relate.
@hayeonkim7838
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for so helpful and valuable video as always ❤❤❤
@oogrooq
7 ай бұрын
I'm glad I've made it this far in my life without ever having to know what "enmeshment" means.
@m.ridzwan99-26
7 ай бұрын
This is so true, I've experienced some of those mentioned in the video. Luckily things got a bit better after some self reflection.
@nolongerhooman2341
7 ай бұрын
It makes me want to cry desperately. There's no way out of this for me
@MC_Guy
7 ай бұрын
Best way out is to end things peacefully if possible. Already dealt with that
@autumnzephyr
7 ай бұрын
I honestly feel the same way. The video made me realize that this kind of dynamic has followed me throughout my life, and it's so depressing. 😩
@srisubhiksha7861
7 ай бұрын
None to me, the reason for building an enmeshing relationship will not just be one person. This builds up in the course of actions of both the individuals engaging in the relationship. So, just stay true to you and think wise about which point made you take responsibility over your partner's feelings. You definitely have a way out of this. You don't necessarily need to end the relationship. Just start setting your boundaries in spending time with that person. Like, start to emphasize about the other things you have got to do. Or just make it look like you are busy with your life and personal development. If that person understands and never communicates to you very often, then it's a good sign. If that person couldn't accept that you have to work on your life or doesn't like to give you your space, then it's high time to end the relationship peacefully.
@ricksdarkness3257
2 ай бұрын
I had a partner that would spent the entire day doing phone calls with me, leaving me with little to no personal space. When I asked about for a bit of space, they would try to make me feel guilty for "not wanting to spend time with them". They also would experience constant mood swings and I would demand me to make them feel better or else they'd say I'm a bad partner for not being able to do so. We broke up 9 months ago and I'm still healing.
@HomeFromFarAway
19 күн бұрын
that's rough. hope you are doing ok
@ricksdarkness3257
19 күн бұрын
@@HomeFromFarAway thanks, I'm doing better now :)
@temmzdayo5242
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video :000 this is very helpful :DDDD and hey is that the same animator who animate You’re A Lone Wolf? I love his/her style VERY CUTE!
@spinoodles4043
Ай бұрын
Oh… 😭 where was this a year ago for me fr 💔 highkey hope they see this video because this makes everything make so much sense
@tims9434
7 ай бұрын
Could do with some solutions
@ArielHenry-uv5um
7 ай бұрын
This is the definition of smothered.
@ThisSilentG
7 ай бұрын
Amazing vid during a very relatable time in my life. Thank you.
@rosalinddavies8466
12 күн бұрын
I’m healing from this
@Absolhunter251
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this information and video... this is very helpful.. 😢
@jairoel
7 ай бұрын
I have a friend who experienced all of the things mentioned in this video when he was with her girlfriend, they finally broke up but it was pretty bad seeing him spend less time with his friends and even his family, he was also doing whatever his gf wanted even though he didnt want to, almost as if he was tied to her.
@semi_enigma
7 ай бұрын
This explains so much...
@Max28070
7 ай бұрын
So basicly, from getting better because I had hopes she likes me to going back to the inner voices and depression
@Redheadbelle
7 ай бұрын
What? 💔😭 Can it be genuine love though just the style is emmeshment and it can transform into healthy love because the base is real love? I hope & feel it is that way…..
@AngelDustCakes
7 ай бұрын
Yall just calling me out at this point
@RegularInvader
7 ай бұрын
These signs pretty much relate to a story from MinuteVideos, "I got kicked out of my Best friend's Wedding." The best friend, Sophie, allowed herself to be under Clint's control before and after they married.😢
@somebrains5431
7 ай бұрын
I would point to an unmarried man over 40, never had kids, no girlfriend to speak of, constantly talking to or moving in their mother as a sign of serious emotional problems.
@noveltycrusade
7 ай бұрын
You guys throw new words at me every other day 🤯
@artisan002
7 ай бұрын
Wow... Well, this hit home a little too much.
@mr.hidden9242
7 ай бұрын
Yeah, this sounds a bit familiar.
@seemashrestha5211
7 ай бұрын
My bf of 1 year out of nowhere ghosted me without any explanation . I am feeling lost its hurting so much that i cant even cry but it feels really heavy in my heart i dont know what to do. Then realized he never made me feel loved , no emotional attachment i was just there and always treated me that way and i was the one who created the version of him that i wanted and as now that bubble has burst. I dont know what to do i just start shaking and and go blank as soon as i remember him 🙁
@joshy2joshy
7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry, it wasn't your fault he did that. I think he might be NPD or BPD, possibly a cluster B. Let him go, don't seek to reengage with this person, he's shown you who he is.
@seemashrestha5211
7 ай бұрын
@@joshy2joshy yeah for some people it is so easy to play around with feelings. I just hope this time passes quickly and thank you..for your kind words ❣️
@abhilash7510
3 ай бұрын
I can feel u buddy, They r Heartless person, they cant love you, they just mimick your love to show fake personality, dont take him back, cut ur losses and walk away, u will be healed in time. Learn and study about Personality disorders and Disfunctional personality. Take care.
@luckystar1111
7 ай бұрын
I just realized my mom was like this
@Ler66632
7 ай бұрын
Where’s our favorite voice Amanda 😢
@pastorjonc324
7 ай бұрын
You basically described my past relationships.
@MegaManNeo
7 ай бұрын
I think these are good advises also for those who never had a real love relationship or just roll into (a new) one :)
@Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing 👍🏻
@TriaMilia
7 ай бұрын
Jeez, are you alright guys? There's been quite a few videos about trauma these days
@thesoliloquist1940
7 ай бұрын
The relationship between lori and steve (my parents) exhibits all the enmeshment signs..
@Katrica670
7 ай бұрын
@1:47 what if you are because of your great empathy but he is Not? Also, what if he uses your empathy against you?
@xjt5998
7 ай бұрын
Going straight to the point: How doo i heal/get over from enmeshment trauma?
@williamphanz
26 күн бұрын
eerily, 💯
@CitrineFaeryFire
7 ай бұрын
Sounds like my best friends marriage.
@rebeccalucas6063
7 ай бұрын
Well, the person trying to over take you, causing you to drop hobbies and friends could very well be 75% of relationships. It's also a sign of narcissistic abuse as well.
@vial7305
2 ай бұрын
i just realised something
@YedidyaMensah_Beauclair
Ай бұрын
So then what's the difference between this topic and others like narcissistic abuse or mental/emotional manipulation?
@Vin43249
7 ай бұрын
Where’s Amanda’s voice 😞😞☹️
@anzuwastaken9055
7 ай бұрын
Love youre vids❤❤
@floki7
7 ай бұрын
Very helpful
@KaitlynGray400
7 ай бұрын
Can you make a video about something along the lines of "how to tell your parents or loved ones you think you have ADHD or want to get tested for it"
@cherxdactyl9455
7 ай бұрын
I need help like I swear we love eachother but I’ve been living with an untreated borderline personality disorder so I agree with all that shit, except we definitely believe in eachother and help eachother any way we can to get better. Any opinions would be helpful🖤
@Millie7701
7 ай бұрын
But where’s narrator Amanda 😔
@MrBaloud
7 ай бұрын
Can you go from enmeshment back to healthy love ?
@TheNonameHousehold
7 ай бұрын
This applies to any form of love... right? i wonder 🤔
@niasiamack9333
7 ай бұрын
❤
@GooberBugOFF
7 ай бұрын
I need some advice... My husband has a friend who talked a lot of shit about me almost a year ago, when my husband proposed to me. Even started talking shit about my mental disorders. (Im an autistic schizophrenic who's actively getting professional help.) My husband defended me and started talking to him less, but there's my issue. He still talks to him. He plays games with him and another one of his friends who I think is really nice. Idk if I'm in the wrong for still being upset over it..
@sanguinesomnambulist
7 ай бұрын
It's difficult to give advice as strangers, but if you feel comfortable discussing it within your circle of care then it is probably worth doing so. And with trusted friends. Personally, I'm in a situation where I was often gas-lit when I was younger whenever I would speak out about troubling people and their bad behaviour. And now years later it's basically being acknowledged by some friends that I was right. So I'm beginning to distance from people who weren't trustworthy or never took me seriously. And strengthening the minds I have with those who have shown me they are actually there for me. It's important to spend time with people who show that they are worth your time, and vice versa. Genuine friendships are built on mutual trust and RESPECT.
@evanswag5795
7 ай бұрын
Favourite voice so far
@meeatyuwhole3889
7 ай бұрын
Love is hard
@Skyatchu
7 ай бұрын
uhh
@mamunurchoudhury9965
7 ай бұрын
Hii
@Psych2go
7 ай бұрын
Hii thanks for joining early!
@Zi987
7 ай бұрын
Where’s narrator Amanda 😔😔😔
@geemail369
7 ай бұрын
Out there, doing Amanda things.
@zombie_bomb
7 ай бұрын
can videos js get to the point pls
@Bobjsjskdkjxisllsxnnxjzkz
7 ай бұрын
Hiii ❤
@random-birb
7 ай бұрын
Facts :
@Squarepy
7 ай бұрын
ello
@Lazy-bliss
7 ай бұрын
Nonsense. Thats why divorce happens. Nobody knows shit about relationship. It's just some people born lucky. Thats it. Some adjust and outside it looks fine. Thats it
@aesthetenesjah
7 ай бұрын
I’ve never heard of enmeshment until now. Very insightful! Thank you!
@storyteller0633
7 ай бұрын
I’m stuck in one where my life goal is to help people grow and become capable of helping themselves grow into the best person they can be, but the relationship is my dysfunctional family, where I can’t cease to love them as I have nothing else to tie me to life, but my thoughts are getting unhealthfully violent with everything unhealthy in the house, yet I can’t bare to leave them as they are my only support, and all of them are just as much victims of each other as they are to themselves… I grew up with this situation, I lived with this kind of 'love', no matter how distanced it was, and how so little moments I had in my life where it was actually good at home, I adapted and learned to make due with it.
@EsmeAmelia
7 ай бұрын
Can you please make a follow-up video that deals with how to heal from being raised in an enmeshed family and STILL having enmeshment problems with said family even as an adult? I'm on the verge of snapping from enmeshment issues with my own family.
@A55a551n
7 ай бұрын
Timestamps 1). Loss of personal identity 0:59 2). Lack of emotional boundaries 1:33 3). Loss of personal interests and friendships 2:12 4). Lack of autonomy 2:57 5). Absence of healthy conflict resolution 3:31 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
@chisaten
7 ай бұрын
Finally, a video that has correct captioning in the video! Why did it take weeks for the video captioning to have this?
@LexisDolliez
7 ай бұрын
Tysm for the videos❤
@varun.shenoy10
7 ай бұрын
This music is the right choice for this topic. Good choice @Psych2go 🙌
@gianar6653
28 күн бұрын
So in conclusion Co-depend relationship, or do they differ?
@meizhongbai
7 ай бұрын
Just like with so many other topics you cover, I feel sure that many of these symptoms could be signs for other things. These videos are always very interesting, but I think one need be a professional to know what criteria is corresponding to what issues. Super complicated. Trying to figure out problems from watching videos seems inadequate. Also, I know some of these can come and go. I've been married 19 years and am very happy, and sometimes I experience some of the things in this video during times of high stress, but not permanently.
@manofthevoid
11 күн бұрын
So that's what my mom did to me for like... 12 or so years!
@adna6958
6 ай бұрын
This was me And now im just selfish and ashole keep others away from me while becoming the souless robot in a human body
@cheyennecedeno6867
7 ай бұрын
Anyone feeling Marinette Dupain-Cheng needs watch this video? Getting back with Luka Couffaine and having Adrigami back into one another's arms. But truly this is a insane but definitely needed topic spoken more.
@Katrica670
7 ай бұрын
The 1st two outta 5 for sure was in my last long term "relationship"! However, what does health resolution .... mean?
@Hall9800
7 ай бұрын
Where’s the lady voice Amanda Silvera 😭😭
@kqxx
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I love how you cover so many topics. I just shared this video!
@spacer-lx5pq
7 ай бұрын
This video came in clutch...
@Ferretts89
7 ай бұрын
Turned off as soon as the creepy male voice came on
@ShadowYuri56
7 ай бұрын
This just shows me I still haven’t healed
@jemima123
7 ай бұрын
lost of self me👍💔😭😡
@blazeburner4039
7 ай бұрын
So if ur wife doesnt allow u to go drinking = enmeshment love?
@prodphizz
7 ай бұрын
this is exactly how my last relationship was
@Vhaleri
7 ай бұрын
I could relate to this at some point in my life
@jakethenecromorph
7 ай бұрын
No it’s the yandere version of love
@Vhaleri
7 ай бұрын
I could relate to this at some point in my life
@fidelguerra2164
7 ай бұрын
Can love exist in enmeshment?
@PsychPerusal
7 ай бұрын
thanks a lot for this video ! :)
@na.bongln_
7 ай бұрын
ur voice so soft
@brain_respect_and_freedom
7 ай бұрын
Well done!👏👏👏
@bobbruce4135
7 ай бұрын
This is one more reason to avoid marriage; it's not beneficial and can be financially destructive as well.
@SubToFoodie
7 ай бұрын
Early People 👇
@manuel9219
7 ай бұрын
Looks hot to me. 😂😂😂 I disagree with some of these essperts' opinions. Some of them are fine tho
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