Girl, I broke up with my boyfriend few days ago.. about 1 week into the relationship God told me “Hes not for you.” And followed up with “I have someone better for you.” 😢😢😢😢 I asked for confirmation and God showed me signsssss. It was sad. But I got away
@tiasmith6223
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@tammys5417
Жыл бұрын
Praise God for your obedience. It’s better to get out when God says so.
@Mindsetolympics
Жыл бұрын
God will show you dreams and signs yessss its so powerful when u operate in obedience ❤❤❤❤
@toneyfox6328
Жыл бұрын
Proud of u sis u won’t regret it
@cosmosprincess20
Жыл бұрын
😢 I married him and now we are divorced I didn't listen but God is merciful ❤🎉
@SetFreePodcast
Жыл бұрын
God sent relationships don't require you to sin or override your morales and values, even if he's presenting as the "whole package". Key word presenting. Pay attention to the patterns, not just yours but his.
@la8921
Жыл бұрын
Wow!
@charlinecharlostin3188
Жыл бұрын
AMEN !!
@angegrace5076
Жыл бұрын
That‘s true
@antoinette6388
Жыл бұрын
Just as simple as that.
@julie_632
Жыл бұрын
💯 AGREE!!!
@Jenshaw510
Жыл бұрын
I got married before I got saved. Through a series of painful situations in that marriage, I surrendered my life to the Lord Jesus. Things got worse, it was traumatic, yet I thought if I prayed for his salvation and waited it would get better. He started going to church, acted like he was different all the while he was still doing the same things. Early one morning the Lord spoke to me and I heard “this is not my best for you.” That day we had a talk, things were revealed and I asked him to leave. That night I had the most amazing rest and peace. We divorced and I’ve been single for 6 years. I’m patiently waiting and enjoying my single season.
@franceshaggitt3104
Жыл бұрын
Wow that's good. I got rid of two counterfeiters. Hurts to be lonely but they were evil
@aidarisyazmin1
Жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing--i believe the Lord is speaking to me. "acted like he was different all the while.."
@Jenshaw510
Жыл бұрын
@@aidarisyazmin1 I pray the Lord gives you the same insight and clarity. 💗
@all_tutorials609
Жыл бұрын
There’s always two sides to every story. I wouldn’t object to any facts stated in you all stories of your men being the culprit, but one thing for sure is , both parties to any relationship at all must play their unique roles to make it work. Regardless of whether a man is meant for you or not, our characters can spoil a lot of things if not well managed even in marriages that are ordained by God. A classic example and way to apply this reasoning is : A man of God like David the King, who was loved by God even from childhood, when he failed to manage his character (lust ), he was punished. So, the fact that God ordained or showed that a man is meant for us doesn’t automatically takes away the fact that every transaction of the marriage would happen without hiccups here and there. Learning to communicate and appreciate the interests of others and to understand we are from different unique backgrounds, would actually in my opinion go a long way in building marriages or any relationships at that.
@anteantic986
Жыл бұрын
@@Jenshaw510 what makes you think god told you to get divorce ?? bible talks about virgins and chaste women not divorcee women,,,most likely devil spoke to you , God cannot be around sin and you are sinfull woman
@Fav984
Жыл бұрын
Your instincts will never lie ! The moment you get a bad feeling about someone believe it ! You don’t have to know the reason why at the time, but just believe…trust me guys …your inner spirit never lies.
@Celestialslayz
3 ай бұрын
This is the hard part though, to know if it’s instinct vs trauma response. When someone hasn’t completed self discovery instincts and paranoia can feel similar. Some may even trust the paranoia more than the intuition due to lack of societal awareness of the difference.
@Hey_OverHere
3 ай бұрын
The problem is that many cannot discern between instinct and feelings. Feelings change every day and basing a relationship merely on feelings often makes one devoid of commitment and the kind of love that transcends far above your feelings at the moment. This is why 70%-80% of all divorces are initiated by the ‘weaker vessel’ today. Society tells us that how we feel is more important than the relationship or life that committed to you in the first place. Pray and test the spirits. Ask God if that truly is Him talking to your spirit or if that is the enemy separating you from love and life. Remember no man or no woman is perfect. One of the keys to true love is how those two imperfect people work together and recognize those imperfections. Peace and Love ❤️
@alonzoneloms5651
3 ай бұрын
The Biggest problem with Believers in Christ! They don't know the voice of God. Because our Prayer life and time alone with God. Is not top priority! ✨✨🔥🙏💯 The Holy Spirit/ Essence of God will always tell you! What to do what's right! Listen to the Comforter/ Holy Spirit of God.
@its.just.davidd
Жыл бұрын
I can also say that one reason we can obsess over a person & become distracted from God is our mental health background & our level of wholeness. Whenever a person becomes an idol or an obsession, it’s called infatuation. Infatuation isn’t love, but it always feels really good. A whole person doesn’t allow themselves to be obsessive over a person anymore. Their relationship w/ God is a part of their individuality as a person. Your individuality should normally remain whether you’re involved with someone or not. But when it doesn’t remain, it means you’re looking to people to fill a void. So an unwhole person can’t handle a new love interest, but a whole person can. A whole person is more level-headed & has a certain balance or a routine in their life that doesn’t allow for them to be distracted when they have a new love interest. We should all be working towards that point. 🎉
@BeautyLoves88
Жыл бұрын
this just convicted me. thank you.
@lajessicarichardson
Жыл бұрын
insightful
@gracieusegibbons6544
Жыл бұрын
You look different with the black hair, I almost didn't recognize you. Still looks nice
@RoyalMasterpiece
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. Powerful. 💥
@Karen-mn8kb
Жыл бұрын
Great video but you don't respond to your supporters.
@Indyona500
Жыл бұрын
1. The difference between settling and compromise. 2. Recognizing patterns 3. Is the person checking for you? 4. Does it pull me closer to God? 5. Are you equally yoked? Jesus is the son of God. The Way. The Truth. The Life. The Savior of the world and the only way to God.
@Simplythetruthfulone
Жыл бұрын
I love comments like this!♥️ Thank you!🥰🙌🏾🙏🏾
@inadia001
Жыл бұрын
The counterfeit looks really, really good and so deceiving. I learned that time and paying attention will reveal itself in due time. Be patient......also speaking to myself...😊
@emily3333
4 ай бұрын
Amen!! Learned 8 years later but I know God is always on time.
@BLACKNIGHTKNIGHT
8 ай бұрын
I’ll admit, I know I’ve slipped “My Will” first before “Gods Will” and ended up divorced twice. Now I’m dating an amazing woman and we both agree 💯% that God’s Will comes first, practicing purity, communicating, praying together and letting God be in the center of our friendship, relationship and beyond.🙏
@komodokhan
Жыл бұрын
This is part of my testimony. I was dating this girl who I thought was going to be the wife I wanted but turns out it was just a disappointment and & distraction that almost took my soul. My ex-girlfriend has to many soul ties & I just wanted someone to love so I didn't care. I lower myself and turn out I was the one who was being abused and manipulated by lust & fornication. Lord Jesus saw everything & he protected me from wickedness of this world and my then girlfriend. I am so blessed that he saved my life and got me out that relationship because we would've been struggling untimely parents if the lord didn't put a stop to that sinful life I was living. Psalm 34 18 is one of my favorite scripture. I been walking with the lord for almost a year now 🙏 glory to his name hallelujah
@Cal_me_lady1
Жыл бұрын
Hallelujah 🙌 may God be praised
@similoluwaawoyele-finni5564
Жыл бұрын
How do you know she had so many soul ties? I just wanna know
@komodokhan
Жыл бұрын
@similoluwaawoyele-finni5564 she been in multiple relationships way to many
@similoluwaawoyele-finni5564
Жыл бұрын
@@komodokhan ok
@arrikgibbs9983
Жыл бұрын
@komodokhan I hope you are doing well brother! Thank you for your powerful testimony!
@ayandagamedze8715
11 ай бұрын
Girl. Counterfeits looking alike, or having similar energies to your godsend is sooo real. It's something I've been mulling over in my head lately...why do I see glimpses in my counterfeits of what I truly want, but they're not the full package?? I love love love that you brought this up. Such confirmation ❤
@dvnwifey222
10 ай бұрын
This!! Yessss 🥹
@Sl-gi7om
7 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥
@byrnenoel6317
Жыл бұрын
1. Having an understanding between settling (lowering your standards) and compromising (both meet in the middle) 2. Recognize a pattern that comes with red flags and toxic situations 3. This person isn't truly "sold" on you 4. Does this relationship pull me closer to God or away from God. 5. Are you unequally yoked?
@TheOnlyChastina
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Irispia97
9 ай бұрын
God tells me to leave, my moral problem, before my father died he told me to never leave the man, but now the man is physically /verbal/mental abusing me 😢
@jennifersnelling1265
Жыл бұрын
I had to pay attention to men who say they were Christian and good on paper but did not live the lifestyle or were afraid of offending others.
@lateshas.hollinshed9556
Жыл бұрын
When I look back on majority of my past relationships, they all had red flags that I completely ignored, and they all showed up within the first week of meeting. When I tell you God truly wastes no time. We have to be alert and allow God to lead us every single time.
@Minskiies
Жыл бұрын
This brought so much clarity to what I’ve been wrestling with! Counterfeits look and feel like the real thing, you need to discern it through the lens of the Holy Spirit to test it.
@DearGod111
Жыл бұрын
This is a Blessing. It’s hard to leave that person that you always thought was the one but if God says otherwise, I can’t argue. I’m really praying for Clarity In my relationship🙏🏻
@graciakinyanjui6937
Жыл бұрын
me too i feel am giving alot than am receiving...
@Ashley-og9ti
5 ай бұрын
Same been praying on it for a long time🙏🏾 hope it becomes clear for us seeking🤍
@camzloren
Жыл бұрын
Wait, I say on the Lord. Then eventually you will see whether this person is for real or a counterfeit. Always ask God for discernment and to guard your heart
@mykelmedeiros1528
2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@latifahpitre5890
Жыл бұрын
This is so spot on I broke up with my fiancé because I felt like we were not equally yoked, I was drained
@Ashley-og9ti
5 ай бұрын
Sis how did you do it it's SO hard with history there, I even left twice but we always end up back together. Trying to tell if that's what God wants or not
@Funnyandwild
4 ай бұрын
Same here. I broke it off my engagement. He has Jehovah witness beliefs. They belittle Jesus . He does not believe in going to church, he said going to church is satan lifestyle
@Ashley-og9ti
4 ай бұрын
@@Funnyandwild they have the kingdom hall idk I heard JWs is a cult or cult practices but idk 😬
@20vannesa
2 ай бұрын
@@Ashley-og9tithis happened to me. I was with him for 4 years and broke up this year in February we got engaged last November 2023. I had to break up bc I just didn’t feel peace anymore. There was also signs and God speaking to me that he was NOT my husband. No lie I would hear God speak to me through videos about the same thing over and over. I will never forget I was in my room and my door was opened and my dad was listening to this preaching and I can hear it and the preacher clearly say “ there’s someone who been praying saying if this person is the one, and I’m here to tell you that God has better for you” I was like lWHAT THE?!!” Then second time this KZitem video that wasn’t even about kingdom marriages and this Prophetic word from this KZitemr was “I hear God saying that you thought that person was the one but God is saying No and that he has better for you “😭 God speaks. Do NOT settle pls! ❤
@LuvJonesie
Жыл бұрын
Amen, I saw this video last night and I saved it to watch later, all morning I kept hearing the Holy Spirit say Go watch the video. I needed to see this! This is my conformation that the young man that showed interest in me a couple of months ago is not a Godsend but a distraction. I admire some qualities about him but God is missing in his life, So while he may have those qualities that I love ( kindness, patience, gentleness etc) I know he is not the one. I wrestled for months because I was afraid there will be nothing or no one would be interested after him, but that is simply a lie that the enemy is trying to get me to believe. I know that my husband will come into my life in God’s time, so until then I will wait. Thank you Jesus!
@pridigals
Жыл бұрын
This really makes sense im married to a man that I thought God gave to me but after years and years I invested myself in this relationship he's now showing me who he really is,he doesn't care about my pain,doesn't value me, doesn't have that energy he use to have towards me,he listene to other people's advices than mine,he respect other people's inputs to mine,he can even make sure he tells me anything he wants whether I wants it or not..please pray with me I don't know what to do..
@christinerobinson7966
Жыл бұрын
I pray that give you that clarity and understanding and give you that wisdom and understanding on what you should do. God will give you strength to make the necessary steps to take to move forward.
@GospelMusicLover247
Жыл бұрын
Dear Heavenly Father, we know that nothing is too hard for You! Get glory out of this situation. Give our sister the grace she needs if You tell her to stay and the strength she needs if You tell her to go. She won’t move until You speak Lord, so speak to her heart and tell her what to do. We love You, Lord, and we trust Your will for her life. In Jesus’s name, we pray. Amen.
@pridigals
Жыл бұрын
Amen Amen Amen 🙏
@Stoickingdom1
Жыл бұрын
May the Almighty God intervene in all your worries 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@Ndube
Жыл бұрын
Psalm 34 vs 4-8
@emarimyles9969
Жыл бұрын
This video gave me so much clarity…was dating my ex for 2 years believing him to be my Kingdom Spouse. I watched so many prophetic words telling me this was my husband and that our relationship was just being attack by spiritual warfare….it’s like we was stuck in the same karmic cycles until I decided this isn’t working so I decided to separate. The week I did that…I received the most shocking news that he passed away…I was beyond crushed and didn’t know what was going on…I was so confused with the Lord. I know I deserved better and still have hope I will meet the right one for me. I’m just in my healing stage right now because I really did love the guy. I just ask the Lord to heal my broken heart so that I’m able to love again. It’s been really tough.
@mlady8137
9 ай бұрын
Im so sorry. How are you now? That must have been a real shock x
@charlinecharlostin3188
3 ай бұрын
Familiar spirits can also give confirmations. When someone becomes an idol it makes us deaf, dumb and blind to red flags.
@yshstar
Жыл бұрын
God always wants the best for you. ❤ “Does this relationship pull me closer to God?” Amos 3:3
@lannalanna84
Жыл бұрын
Thank you I needed that. God only wants the best for me, so He is not going to send me anything less. 🙏🏾
@bodycakellc
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 💜 One of the Amazing things about the Holy Spirit is that HE leads and guides us into all truth 💜 We should lean on Him and not our own understanding of a thing💜 🙏🏾John 16:13 🙏🏾1 Corinthians 2:3-5 🙏🏾Proverbs 3:5-6
@eugeniajones1895
Жыл бұрын
Yes as I looked back I noticed the red flags 🚩. And I noticed the pattern as well. I had to let go of individuals that weren't on my level. And I just recently walked away from a relationship because we were going in different directions. At the beginning we seem to understand each other and we could read each other without saying anything about things changed and I didn't know what was going on. We had a lot of similarities as well. But God showed me/ gave me insight on what was happening and I had to make my decision. And I did what was best for me. I'm more cautious,wiser and stronger 💪 for the experience. And I know that I won't be making that mistake again with the help of God. I'm so much better and I have my peace 🕊️.
@floydadams7069
Жыл бұрын
For a lot of us waiting on god for so long leads us to acting out of loneliness. As for me I don’t know what a God centered relationship looks like. I had to leave my x because God called me. But it sucks being lonely but the lord knows what is good and I just don’t
@BansheeKing22
Жыл бұрын
Its how God is. Its a toss of a coin. If it lands in your favor you'll get blessed by God with love, marriage, children. However if it lands on the reverse as it did with me and many many others, you get nothing but bitter loneliness and piss poor affirmations from people who were blessed with it. Its easy for them to act all positive about it and tell you to just "have faith" or "be strong cause God has a plan" and "God's timing" blah blah blah. I guarantee those same people wouldn't have that same mindset if the toss of the coin landed on an unfavorable side.
@floydadams7069
Жыл бұрын
@@nats948 thank you.
@floydadams7069
Жыл бұрын
@@BansheeKing22 I completely understand what you’re saying. But I will pray for you. Because at the end of the day, I don’t love Jesus for his blessings. But that doesn’t mean you don’t long for them.
@FollowMeStopPlayin
Жыл бұрын
If u gotta ask God is he/she the one they are not the one if u need confirmation they are not the one discernment is key I'm learning this now
@Realasf5
Жыл бұрын
This is facts!! 😊
@VictoriaNakaraKizer
8 ай бұрын
You always go to God in prayer before you make critical life altering moves. I bump my head when I don’t pray and receive confirmation.
@em77775
Жыл бұрын
Great topic, great tips! If a man isn't constantly seeking the Lord's guidance in your relationship and doesn't know if he wants to marry you within a year, I wouldn't waste any more time on him! Usually he's going to know pretty quickly.
@theyoung_counselor22
Жыл бұрын
It's funny how some know but have no structure on how it will happen😂😂. May God help us
@em77775
Жыл бұрын
@@theyoung_counselor22 I mean, I can see if you're really young and still maturing it may take time to feel like you're ready and all but if you feel you're being strung along, I would listen to that. ☺
@brittanycheairs
Жыл бұрын
This truly helped me to understand the counterfeit that im grieving over. Thank you ❤
@graciakinyanjui6937
Жыл бұрын
move on gal
@dmae93
Жыл бұрын
God always sends me a message on time! Thanks for this ❤
@user-nb7dr8kn6q
9 ай бұрын
❤ naw frfr
@QuantumQuan444
11 ай бұрын
Going to church isn’t a sign that someone is Godly and believes in God.
@zyleymacruz333
5 ай бұрын
How so?
@briannaramos6677
5 ай бұрын
Not all who go to church are godly but all who are godly should go to church. So yes and no.
@debbiebramwell
Ай бұрын
True !!!
@Yahweh-Chase-Bella
Жыл бұрын
I met a Godly woman not too long ago and thought it was going well but her ex from 3 years ago messaged her which brought some stuff up in her so we paused. I was hurt i thought i was content but boy was i wrong. He used it to show me some errors, pulled me even closer to him thank Jesus. When i was pretty low he put his spirit on me in a new level. I thought it was rejection but he told me She is going to be my Wife but not before there is some work done first. I wasnt prepared to fully Lead a family by walking in the spirit continually and i am sure he still has some amazing healing to finish in her. Praise God he cares enough to teach us some hard lessons. Iv focused on him since and putting my faith completely in Him. I could use prayer not to waiver on this and trust in him with the work hes doing in me. God Bless
@FaithComesByHearingYt
Жыл бұрын
Wow! I'm going through the exact same thing right now. True, the Lord is using this experience to work in us and teach us. He's even brought up some issues in me I didn't know I had to work on. Now, I thank Him this is happening, because I see how disastrous a marriage my partner and I would have had if we had moved forward without first working on these hidden issues. It will work together for your good, Chase. Trust Him. Jesus be glorified forever.
@Yahweh-Chase-Bella
Жыл бұрын
@@FaithComesByHearingYt Glad to hear he's used it to put some wisdom in you! And I pray he helps heal your heart because it still isn't easy in the time being. GOD bless
@jamesmoore830
Жыл бұрын
O YAH, Maker of the heavens and the earth; heaven is Your throne and the earth Your footstool. HalleluYah! How great are You? I ask that You open Your gates with thanksgiving and praise, as Your Word states, and lend an ear to my supplication. I pray for my brother here, Your son, and ask that's You give him the strength He needs to endure the burdens You have allowed him to have. Keep him abiding in You, Yahusha; for apart from You he can do nothing. But through You, he can do all things. Bless him O God, with the spirit of wisdom and the spirit of understanding. Let Your wisdom guide his every thoughts and search his heart O God, for You seek truth in the inward parts. HalleluYah! According to Your loving kindness Abba. Have mercy. Be upon him. In the blessed name of Yahusha Ha'Maschiach of Nazareth I pray. Amen!
@Yahweh-Chase-Bella
Жыл бұрын
@@jamesmoore830 thank you friend it's means alot! I'm staying in his word and praying alot. Just want more of him revealed to me and that my heart will continue to grow in Christ
@jamesmoore830
Жыл бұрын
@@Yahweh-Chase-Bella HalleluYah!! Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness. For they shall be sated! Be encouraged brother. You got this! Not on your own. But because of Whom you serve. The Lion of Judah will see you through it because His Word says He is the author and finisher of your faith. The shepherd and bishop of your soul. Keep your head up!
@MrSa458
Жыл бұрын
Well, I'm just waiting on my God ordained spouse. I believe that I've met someone, but I heard God tell me that I should go to Texas. I think that I'll meet my wife in Texas So anyways, God bless you, sister Karloyne, and keep up the great work that you're doing for the ever growing family in Jesus' name ✝️🔥🕊🙏🏾
@joeshifman
Жыл бұрын
wow
@rubyking8237
Жыл бұрын
I was with my bf for two years and one day we prayed together and I got sleep paralysis, I didn’t pray again with that person, I started having dreams of him cheating and it all came true. I know that he wasn’t the person for me
@Hauseofmars
Жыл бұрын
Girl I had to pause the video at the ‘Recognize a pattern’ section to comment. You shared sooo many gems! 💎 God knows the desires of your heart, and so does the enemy. The enemy will bring distractions and counterfeits to your space in disguise of the real, God centered relationship that we know we desire. Discernment and faith in God is necessary 🙏🏾
@stephyLynn7
Жыл бұрын
You encouraged me so much with this. You have no idea. I was feeling ashamed that I didn’t see the flags and was self condemning my choice. I broke up after almost 2 years and I’m proud of myself but feel like I wasted so much time… I don’t want to make that mistake again and I found your channel (though I don’t want to date anytime soon). I know it’s a learning situation and you made me not feel so bad about it but to be mindful. Thank you so much!❤
@briannaramos6677
5 ай бұрын
please pray for me if you see this. I’m so heartbroken. I thought God sent me my husband but he told me he wasn’t the one. he’s honestly such a great man of God and everything I’ve ever wanted in a man and more. but, for some reason that I don’t know or ever will know, God doesn’t want me with him. I’m obeying his voice at all costs but it hurts me so much.
@reginabowman7068
Жыл бұрын
This is my first time coming across your videos and this is just so on time for me.. I've really been struggling with leaving my son's father. This has given me alot of clarity... it's time to listen to what God's been telling me.
@cookiethomas8069
Жыл бұрын
Go for it, luv!! I just left my relationship that wasn't for me about 3 months ago. And when I say it's been peaceful. I'm glowing and happier. God is good..
@robloxceeday1025
Жыл бұрын
are yall married ?
@serinabrown1681
Жыл бұрын
I Can Trust That It Will Be A Right Now Word From You 🙌🏾 Thank You For Your Obedience 🙏🏾
@aliciasheffield-rw9em
Жыл бұрын
On time word! Lord help me to submit, surrender and take heed as you have revealed in this video. May God continue to use you as a vessel of wisdom.
@evieluna6318
5 ай бұрын
Thank you Lord for leading me into this video. I needed to understand the differences between counterfeit and God sent relationships. As a 25 year old I don’t have time for distractions, negativity, or to play games. I’m glad I heard this video. Amen ❤️
@theebonyjbrand
Жыл бұрын
This was good. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 My sentiments exactly. I’ve been trying to help other ladies not to settle or lower their standards because they’re tired of waiting.
@danafowler6688
Жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen!!!! Great breaking down of the Word of God!!! Ladies and Gentlemen of God please listen to our Sister has walked through and has been given clarity of the word of God!!!
@elisebroderick8252
Жыл бұрын
What really hurts is when you drive the godsend away..it hurts when you thought you were healed but found out you weren’t.
@debralitton4600
Жыл бұрын
Actually this is really good but i will say sometimes God does send us people when we are not looking for someone but you just know and it does happen unexpectantly.
@Godslilgirl00
Жыл бұрын
LOVE THIS! SOOOOO NEEDED IN THE BODY OF CHRIST.❤
@msliltrinity
Жыл бұрын
Sister @Karolyne Roberts I’ve seen a handful of your other videos in the past and always thought you shared wise insights and were beautiful inside and out. This one was so timely that it just hit different. I’m going to pray on it, but I think you’ve brought me some clarity that I’ve been looking for. What you said about counterfeits who have similar characteristics to your God-sent spouse (who may be good people but are not your person) and relationships that become idols because you’ve been trying so hard to figure out if it’s the right person… those things resonated so much with me. I think I’ve been trying to ignore that someone and I have been unequally yoked. Thank you for this wise, humbling message. Your personal examples made it easier to understand. God bless you and all of your viewers. Praying we all seek God to be in alignment with His will. Happy Sunday all!
@aleshapeters
Жыл бұрын
I love this wisdom that was recommended to me. But I'm literally one of those ones that aspires to be the bridesmaid. And yup, I'm the single girlfriend in my circles, in my family & extended family. I love love for other people and hope everyone finds that special person if they want it (including sending good vibes to my soul family in the comment section). But it's not for me. After some life experiences, I find that I'm a better friend, cousin, auntie and supporter. When I see a friend or cousin gets engaged or walking down that aisle, I'm jumping up and down like it's me! If I ever change my mind I know what videos to re-watch. I won't comment all the time, but I love watching and learning from perspectives outside my own.
@uchman2640
Жыл бұрын
You were so much fucosed on self and never realised that you both can win togther in faith
@claresasnowden2458
Жыл бұрын
I've been with my kids father for 14 years lost my church family over him everything... but i was so eager to have a family but.. my church members told me he wasn't the one ... i was so blinded by so called love... and now after 14 years I'm over him.. im praying to God to remove him from me... i know God is very soon.. please keep me in y'all's prayers 🙏🏾😪
@crystalgrose
Жыл бұрын
This is so needed! Thank You Karolyne! God bless you ♥️
@tiasmith6223
Жыл бұрын
This is my current situation. Told him on the 1st date that I prayed for him. Sounds crazy but true
@theyadorek
Жыл бұрын
ughhhhh I feel like my spirit knows the answer deep down inside, But my mind is always trying to justify it with a bunch of what ifs, I don’t even know how to leave this relationship because we always communicate and talk things out after a fight and it just makes me love him more
@ichbinderwegdiewahrheitund3775
Жыл бұрын
But do you really feel loved by him? You know, i also believe that deep down you already know the answer. Do you really believe that he is the right one, the one that god has planned for you? What is the point in being in a relationship that keeps you away from god and makes you feel good for a temporary time and the next moment you feel like you want to cut everything off as soon things get bad. A man of god will make you feel appreciated and loved. You will not need to chase him because what he will give you and make you feel will be more than enough. Ask god to give you clarity and the strength to let everthing go which is not meant for you and a distraction in your faith. You may not believe it now but, If you can love someone who is not meant to be for you then how much will you love the one who will be meant to be for you? Trust in god's plans🙏🏽❤
@theyadorek
Жыл бұрын
@@ichbinderwegdiewahrheitund3775 Im not sure I guess I love him so much It distracts me from God, When i’m away from him I pray more often, think of God more often, but I do feel loved by This man, I’ve been in one sided relationships before And with him it’s very mutual, We communicate Well and aren’t afraid to show love for one another we’ve been together 3 Years 🤷🏽♀️
@theyadorek
Жыл бұрын
thats why it’s so tricky
@ichbinderwegdiewahrheitund3775
Жыл бұрын
@@theyadorek hmm life is not easy. Honestly I'm the last person who should give you and advise. I guess listen to your heart and try to hear what god wants to tell you. Because it's your life and only you know best what is the besr for you. As long as you have your peace and you are at peace with god is all that matters🙏🏽
@IAMHe777
Жыл бұрын
Sister in the Lord, I say pray and ask God for discernment. Ask him for the answered because he knows what's best for us. Sometimes we think we have a good idea and not a God idea. So we must acknowledge him in all our ways and he will direct our path. This video is good, make sure you both are pursuing the Lord as you encourage one another to persue him. If not, it will be detrimental to your relationship in the future. Remember God first, husband/wife second then our. Children. I pray God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit gives you clarity in this situation. 🙏🏾
@amiyahcakes
8 ай бұрын
God really spoke to me through this video. Thank you for this.
@miss60kiss
Жыл бұрын
Dear Karolyne, Thank you so much for this video. The reason why i came in search of this is because, there is a Man who has come into my life and is very much interested in Marrying me. Prior to meeting him, I did a Daniel Fast and wrote down all the aspects I would like in a Husband, so the same way i did that, I need God to direct my path. This is really helpful because, I am not going to rush unless it is from God. Thank you for all this points they are really helpful. I have subscribed and shall be checking out the other videos aligned to my current situation, this is very helpful. Thank you so much. That part about Someone who is sold on you so important I remember not so long ago a guy i thought was really meant to be my husband but Dude, had no interest, cancelled dates on me twice!!!!! Boy am i glad i was in the spirit and let Go!!!
@red6hot1913
Жыл бұрын
This blessed me. I'm not seriously dating anyone, but once I decide too I often wonder how will I know? This was a helpful template.
@autumnonpurpose
Жыл бұрын
Girls listen when it’s the counterfeit don’t ignore the flags or signs ❤ God definitely showed me along time ago, with signs- wonders and in the flesh I kept pushing forward thank God no marriage or children. I called off my second engagement because again, he’s a counterfeit.
@franceshaggitt3104
Жыл бұрын
I had a counterfeit when i was vunerable. I got rid of him month five and again two years for good. He saw ghosts he said and god said the words...wicked web ...when i asked for sogn he no good
@lizcuero9065
Жыл бұрын
God is so good! He always makes it great.
@marilynriggins3445
Жыл бұрын
Again thank you Sister whooo I’m so glad that I listened to you again thank the Lord my Husband matches up with the word and what you have also established to be a Msn sent from God I can’t wait for him to return home because I miss having him praying with me you don’t know what you have until it not available but anyway this was so encouraging to know that the Lord has answered my prayers and is in our lives ❤see you at the next level thank you Again 🙏🏾
@kikidouloveme3343
Жыл бұрын
So I’m in this situation & have been praying very hard for discernment. The guy is very sweet, humble giving and attentive but struggling a lot financially and it’s long distance. I feel like that can be overlooked but idk
@victoriam3894
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lord for this video!! Confirmation!!
@LainaSi
Жыл бұрын
Never dated😕...but I'm still waiting on the Lord
@sharrellfaith
Жыл бұрын
Good, be patient. It's not what it's cracked up to be.
@leslieroldan4207
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me to put things into perspectives.
@Olina01
3 ай бұрын
Always watch what he/she does and not what he says only
@debbiebramwell
Ай бұрын
This! That takes time. Never rush. 🙏🏽
@noshajohnson6838
Жыл бұрын
Thanks sister in Christ, I’ve also had my share of counterfeit guys who never deserved me and now I have kids by a couple of them. I’ve been single for 5 years now and saving myself till the lord send me someone. But I notice these counterfeit guys coming my way lately. I’m tired of doing things my way so I’m waiting on the Lord.
@zoraidacastro2703
Жыл бұрын
Likewise but I don't have children. Which is hard to coparent...
@AaronaCreates
Жыл бұрын
The situation of someone being engaged and trying to hide it and why my interest has faded in a recent interest🤷🏽♀️ God showed me him to prep me for to be the type of wife I would need/want to be 💯
@dede1267
4 ай бұрын
What a great video and great information, I met a counterfeit last year after ending a relationship, I merely thought this guy was the one, although all the red flags were there, I disregarded all of them, which left me heartbroken! I'm so glad, I have learned to wait on God and to be patient, because I solemnly can not choose for myself, without the Lord!!! Just like many of you, I gotta to thinking God forgot about me or will I ever get married? or Why hasn't it happened for me, it must be something wrong with me? I quickly realized there is nothing wrong with me, God is still working on me and my husband, Ladies pray for your soon to be husband, Men Pray for your wife and as God to join you, when the time is right! I have begun to focus more on my health, exercising, traveling, learning new things, my God giving purpose. Don't allow the counterfeits to distract you from your purpose.
@MizAkwele
Жыл бұрын
Iron sharpeneth iron Often than not, we know deep down when it's counterfeit and toxic
@ThatsTamiTerrell
6 ай бұрын
Going through a heart break right now and you literally said all the things I am and have gone through with this relationship. Especially #4. Whew! Now I am just trying to accept what is and move on.
@ChristinaJune23
Жыл бұрын
Very good video! I agree! Alot of believers but not walking their faith !
@user-rn5hv5ks8c
5 ай бұрын
Gal i needed to hear this,you just prophesied me thnks, i should've seen this message earlier
@orokepatricia2931
Жыл бұрын
This video speak directly to me, my last relationship was a complete Counterfeit, I was given an ultimatum by my Mom to get married a year before and when I met him it was like a prayer answered He was all sweet and caring but there was something off about him, he doesn't consider God's standard and when I'm felling guilty he says I'm overthinking and he often time raises voice at me But because I wanted it to work and he had taken me to his Mom and already told me that he wanted to go and see my parents, I wasn't discerning anything I told myself that no one is perfect and generated good reasons why he is that way. And in January 2023, he asked if I'm comfortable moving in to his house which I objected and he said that what we have is not love but mental connection and ended it. I wanted to die but in the long run, God told me that he was the one that ended since he wasn't seeing me doing that, And highlited many times I tried telling the holy spirit if he is his son that he should talk to him but the answer was no but I wanted to marry, so i ignored it Then he comforted me and I moved on. I'm really great ful to God he came for me
@Anne2010ful
Жыл бұрын
I never been in a relationship nor have a bf. So i pray for discernment
@BD638
9 ай бұрын
I met a wonderful man a few months ago, he was godly, available and stable. I wasnt that excited about him, my spirit for some reason just had no interest in this man but I kept talking to him because I thought he was a good catch. I cut it off 2 months and then spoke to him again a few days ago. 1 day in we already had an argument. I realized during that conversation that I was forcing a relationship that I myself didnt wanna be in. Talked to god and god told me to let him go and that hes got someone better for me and I should be patient until that man arrives. I knew that I would not reject this current man so I made a secret prayer asking god to make him reject me if this is not of god. And within 6 hours, this man comes to me to tell me its best we end things. Wow mind blown. I feel so much at peace now
@ritaalmeida9156
Жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship with a unequally yoked man for the last 5 months. We’ve lived together. He said all the right things but I was unable to trust him. I wanted but I couldn’t
@zoraidacastro2703
Жыл бұрын
Go with your intuition... That to me is the Holy Spirit guiding you. Pray.
@alessshorts
Жыл бұрын
What about if they dont show any of those red flag signs but they only started really trusting in God after they met you/you inspired them to level up? Would you say they already had to be this way before they met you? Keep in mind we're still young. He has very good morals, prays, tries to go to church often, volunteered, reads the Bible online but I didnt meet him this way.
@kell4598
Жыл бұрын
Oh man. I'm currently in a situation where I just cant tell who this person is sent from. I sometimes feel like I'm being overly critical of men.
@zoraidacastro2703
Жыл бұрын
As you should be. Work on yourself and you'll know what God has in store for you. Don't settle.
@KimberlyLovesJesus-
6 ай бұрын
I feel the same way too, I don’t know if I’m dragging it and overthinking
@maryburgess2625
4 ай бұрын
Dang thank you !!!!!!!!! R is the one … wow so beautiful.. he leads me, prays for me, over me, loves his god, I seen the signs. I am waiting on him. Beautiful blessings sweet girl. Thank you
@kabaleGift
Жыл бұрын
I saw the red flags in the beginning of the relationship but I still stayed and I'm still in the relationship I'm trying to leave it because its not serving me
@user-vu5br7sm6h
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video It greatly helps me determine the qualities of a kingdom spouse🙂💙. All glory to God.🙏
@vanessamiran4684
Жыл бұрын
Coming across you for the very first time without searching then boom, just the word I needed!!🙌🙌🙌
@anyiaporter7599
Жыл бұрын
Yess , you have definitely blessed me and opened my eyes all glory to God🙌🏾❤️
@aliyahbrvown
Жыл бұрын
thisssss!!! thanks this gave me strong clarity and also foresight thank you Lord he made it clear. amen.
@thek4lqueen
Жыл бұрын
I neededdddddddd this so bad. God sent this video my way
@papsybabe2096
Жыл бұрын
Lol. Love your use of extra letters to emphasize
@Shantastic_11
9 ай бұрын
I thank God for confirmation of my Godsent! You did a great job breaking it down girl!!
@heatherlewis777
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Karolyne for your wisdom!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰
@RedeemedSon777
6 ай бұрын
Right That's what I need right now a Godly beautiful Woman that has no Exes I can't keep settling for less Im Engaged but she dont go to church don't Even open up a Bible Thank you Sister for this video Im just being Quiet and Listening to his Word through people right now I miss being surrounded by people that really love God and pray im abstaining from the fleshly desires She a straight up pill hustler Im not gonna do nothing with her and she getting Big Mad I see God didn't choose her for Me so now She acting out God Told me your better than this you want Something that only belongs to you not somebody's leftovers
@YeshuaKingofmyLife
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I needed this more than I knew 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💖💖💖 God is good, Amen
@AaronaCreates
Жыл бұрын
Haha I've dated 2 guys and crushed on 4 that all had the same first name initial😂😂 and God showed me that a month ago
@ivyt2319
Жыл бұрын
Thank you I appreciate the time you take to bring up these sensitive topics that many are afraid to bring up or feel like they should already know but in reality don't have a full understanding. You were clear, straight forward and easy to understand. And throughout it all what God wants for us compared to what He doesn't. Thank you God bless you
@alexwebstar
Жыл бұрын
Thank you sister Robert’s for the information God bless you!!
@multicreativeartist6579
Жыл бұрын
No one: Me who knows very well Ima be single for a while even though I’m only 19: *watches this video* 😂
@ItsGabriellasTime
Жыл бұрын
Thank You God, and thank you for posting
@mairenybreton9614
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for this message. It really helped me reflect on my patterns and what I did wrong in my past relationships.
@lololssndbh8376
Жыл бұрын
The Most High sends it all..good and bad to test us
@Grace-love79
Жыл бұрын
When two people are not meant to be together,they will go through more situations because the grace and mercy ofGod will not be there in the same manner. We can do many things right in that relationship yet there will be things that will not work out right. God’s perfect will is always greater than his permissive will or our will. Ask God to lead you to your spouse
@christianlubanda3008
Жыл бұрын
Just what I needed to hear, God bless you 🙏🏾
@nazzmalicha1836
6 ай бұрын
I'm so relieved to watch this 😊 now I know why I'm only attracted to specific guys
@mariehtzz9160
Жыл бұрын
So clear and complete, I really loved this video, thank for your help !
@11nace
Жыл бұрын
But I really love this person.. he has been trying to accept my faith walk and respect my new boundaries
@wildflowercee
Жыл бұрын
My sister, if he is not from God for you, it's best to let go now. You don't want to be out of God's will and blessings for you by holding on to someone who is less than His best for you. I pray His grace fall on you to walk away but remember God is gentleman, He will not push you but He will honour your free will even though it will hurt Him and possibly hurt you down the line. "God's boundaries are for your freedom" - Pastor Stephanie Ike
@maur7892
Жыл бұрын
@@wildflowercee This is true,, i have been there before, he really was a good person, tried his best to adopt to my boundaries but deep down i knew that he wasn't the man for me. I found myself letting go of some principles and values just so that he is happy. The relationship really pulled me further away from Christ. It's hard to let go but walking outside God's will is even more dangerous.
@zoraidacastro2703
Жыл бұрын
Don't force it. Be true to yourself and be who you are... Not what he wants you to be... You will lose yourself.
@tonikajohnson3245
Жыл бұрын
If it's not God ordained you need to let it go sis. I know you may love him and all but if it's not God's best for you it's best to release him or it will cost you much pain down the road. The safest place to be is in the will of God.
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