If you survived the Narc abuse, Be kind to yourself. Thank you for the validation Danish
@bernitacenteno1326
Жыл бұрын
I did and I agree whole heartily. The narcissists are not worth it. Drop them before time goes on and you loose, who YOU ARE etc., and all your 💰.
@di4085
Жыл бұрын
I did also and learning to be kind to myself too. It's a slow climb back to a peaceful recovery. Although mine is a parent which this past year have separated myself from them and family. Recently was told bty a fam member that I was a disgusting human being.
@OK-Take5
Жыл бұрын
Narcissistic projection exemplified. Congratulations on the recovery.@@di4085
@SaminaQazi-q8c
Жыл бұрын
It's true he the narcissist did all that to me but I cdnt prove myself to family so dropped every1 and trying to recover myself pray for me 😢
@reemclaughlin4260
Жыл бұрын
I did on 3 occasions. Family, husband who I was groomed for, and his family when he passed. Forgive them and stay an arms length away. Especially family. ☮️
@glowinthedarkministry
Жыл бұрын
If you survived narcissistic abuse you have survived the biggest storm of your life known to mankind. So true!!!
@apatheticxmindsetx3549
11 ай бұрын
I don't think you or any of these people know what abuse is or even known someone diagnosed with npd. Just a echo chamber of wanna be victims acting like they've gone beyond more pain than anyone in the world.
@hazel5520
10 ай бұрын
@@apatheticxmindsetx3549you get a narcissistic then tell us what it's like...it's like living with many demons all in to one... once you experience it you will never forget it..
@sukuntee
10 ай бұрын
THANK YOU!! I was getting so frustrated with videos where you don’t know what the message was!
@InfinityFinds-ge6gu
10 ай бұрын
It is absolutely shocking 😳 what that guy put me through it’s unbelievable that those kind of freaks are out in the world!!!
@CarrieannPreston
10 ай бұрын
@@apatheticxmindsetx3549 l no a lot thank you
@vanessaburke8969
Жыл бұрын
They were a stranger all along, putting on an act to get their own needs met. Brutal truth comes out in the end
@PC-kc4lw
Жыл бұрын
They are a stranger to themselves 😞
@happym3008
Жыл бұрын
His rage started when I became independent He lost his marbles showed me who he really was the whole time
@catherinedonnelly1025
Жыл бұрын
When I found out the truth about who my ex really was, a malignant narcissist, It was so shocking !!! My whole life with him was a lie 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ It broke me …for a while !!! I’m finally ok 👌 It took about a decade to get over 25 yrs of abuse
@LION-on4gd
Жыл бұрын
@thewretchhesaved4649God loves them?? God loves You❣️🍀🕊
@lisavan182
Жыл бұрын
Actually, I feel like the truth never comes out and we just get smarter
@minarajesh4966
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree with this 💯 If you can survive a narcissist! You can survive anything .💯💯💯
@Connie-wn4so
Жыл бұрын
FACTS meet fiction. 💯
@Queenvictoria2k2
11 ай бұрын
Amen❤ True Story. No lie! I’m living proof he told me “You’re too strong.”
@aylaswift-bn2bs
11 ай бұрын
i actually did go out of my mind, my narc died and it took me till now 5 years to get back to my self
@renaewall4477
11 ай бұрын
❤@aylaswift Bless you! You are strong. I'm glad you are healing. I'm an overdose survivor. My Narc is still alive. Moved onto Marriage #3. Sadly, she thinks that she's got someone wonderful. It took me 27 wasted years to see the monster he was. Hope for their age and time left, she wises up faster than I did!
@aylaswift-bn2bs
11 ай бұрын
@@renaewall4477 thankyou for your kind words renae i spent 23 years with my narc i realised what sort of person he really was at his funeral! all of his family and all of his friends were so vicious with me at that time so god only knows what had been said about me. i am glad you survived and from now on you will thrive xx
@jenniferbrooks87
Жыл бұрын
I feel like crying from the validation. So many years I thought I was going out of my mind.
@InfiniteMindset99
Жыл бұрын
❤Keep moving forward, you are on your way. Cry from happiness & sadness.
@lilyr6755
Жыл бұрын
Me too rn going through it.
@michignamymichigan
Жыл бұрын
And for Danish, he is Loving himself and healing.
@bold810
Жыл бұрын
They are so good at making us into the crazy ones, 😢😢😢
@bold810
Жыл бұрын
@@lilyr6755I know now that we are not alone in this anymore. Bring on puppies and kittens. Please.
@hotdogrelish
Жыл бұрын
THE WORST ABUSE YOU CAN GO THROUGH! NARCISSISTS DESTROY EVERYTHING IN THEIR LIVES.
@michaelaxis6304
Жыл бұрын
Yes 💯 and the fact they try to harm you physically too!
@tjenkins76
6 ай бұрын
THEY TRY! IF YOU LET THEM! 1 JOHN 4:4 GREATER IS HE THAT IS IN YOU THAN HE THAT IS IN THE WORLD!!!
@BrianCisneros-s5i
4 ай бұрын
Don't let them
@BrianCisneros-s5i
4 ай бұрын
Don't let them destroy
@dino051982
Жыл бұрын
I didn't realise that for 7 years, I was with a narcissist partner. It is that mental abuse that can not be proved in any court of law.
@jazzyj2k25
9 ай бұрын
We would sound crazy trying to explain it to a logical person in court….but that’s the point they abuse us in secrecy!! Only US that went thru it can understand each other!!!
@grannyanniesfarm4972
7 ай бұрын
Yes, not being able to prove the abuse in court is horrible. I was raised by a narcissist mom, married to a narcissist for over 20 years, then a couple more shorter narcissist relationships. I'm done dating.
@historyiwitness5915
6 ай бұрын
Can't be proven on KZitem, either. And you didn't try.
@MsBetheaDawson
6 ай бұрын
You can prove it
@KLS-s5z
5 ай бұрын
My name is Katrina. I have court proceedings coming up at the end of May and I'm seeing a trauma therapist so that she can help me explain this narcissistic behavior cuz I've got my teeth knocked out my eyes blocked and he stole my money. As of right now I got him Arrested on April 5, 2024 after disappearing with all our money for bills and for food. Pressing charges and have an order of protection that is valid til May 31, 2024. So we shall see if we can prosecute these evil demonic beings that love suffocating our whole purpose for life and love.
@heidihaeni7783
Жыл бұрын
They pretend to be happy on social media, then a neighbor tells the real story.
@historyiwitness5915
6 ай бұрын
What does that even mean? Narcissism is not a medical diagnosis. It's a KZitem trend.
@debdebcastillo6600
6 ай бұрын
Haha so true. And very secretive with his social media.
@najaisthaltso7739
6 ай бұрын
@@historyiwitness5915 it is a medical diagnosis. just look it up
@WNHTCT
5 ай бұрын
I don't look at their social media. That's part of my no contact plan
@allthingsjana7870
3 ай бұрын
@debdebcastillo6600 exactly they keep you a secret and never post any pictures with you. BTW you are super pretty and I hope you are free of that torment
@michignamymichigan
Жыл бұрын
I would love to see this clip on repeat in public areas. The truth sets us free.
@angiehayes7397
Жыл бұрын
That's a great idea!! If it saves one person from this pain it's worth it. Bc, man, this is pain on the highest level 😢
@myjourneytotruth
Жыл бұрын
I second this idea, mental health month needs this short on repeat on tvs, internet, subway ad screens & billboards
@tiffaniesheree
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@BabyAndBee
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ totally❤❤❤❤
@BabyAndBee
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@ayy589
10 ай бұрын
As an empath and sensitive person who genuinely cared for those around, being a people pleaser and submissive (unable to take stand for self or say ‘no’) … I encountered many many narcissists in life when it comes to friends, colleagues, bosses, teachers classmates and so on. I realize now that it isn’t limited to a specific relation. It can be faced in terms of many. I hope and wish healing for all those who went through same.
@victoryamartin9773
7 ай бұрын
Being unable to take a stand for yourself or to say no is a symptom and result of Narc abuse.
@LaMesaC
4 ай бұрын
Same❤
@ayoeaishiteru
2 ай бұрын
Same with my life stories 😢. But now i’m an educated empath and Keep stay boundaries with them. Now i can control my empathy
@rajnibhatia6581
Жыл бұрын
If we survive .......... We are very strong indeed 💪💪💪
@bonitahighley7922
Жыл бұрын
When the fog lifts to see the truth, I will heal faster
@HomeMadeYummyFood2323
Жыл бұрын
I am...But my brain cells expending spreading cloting
@LION-on4gd
Жыл бұрын
And that means to them that they have Failed..are Discovered..Showing their true colors..
@livvyo2123
Жыл бұрын
Yes..we become a narcs very nightmare if they even dare to try it.
@Peace-ys6nt
Жыл бұрын
you begin to think it’s normal that there aren’t any nice people left
@pareeshaslaughter6798
10 ай бұрын
if you are the nice person in this world continue to be nice. Haters will ignore you and show you attention but the hate will definitely be there. 😂 Embrace it because it means you're on the RIGHT TRACK AND DOING SOMETHING RIGHT
@alicewatt8846
9 ай бұрын
No don't give 😢up there are nice people in the 🌍 you just have to find them & may God put them on ur path as well as mine Keep the Faith🙏🙌
@Peace-ys6nt
9 ай бұрын
@@alicewatt8846 Thank you i wish the same for you, those who are good are far from our reach, fate is a strange thing.
@alicewatt8846
9 ай бұрын
@@Peace-ys6nt 😇 I Agree 💯
@alicewatt8846
9 ай бұрын
@@Peace-ys6nt 🙏😇
@ceceliadavis471
11 ай бұрын
The kindest thing that can happen to someone after Narcissistic abuse is that they are able to emotionally detach from that person so they no longer need them or think about them.
@ohsugar5431
Жыл бұрын
The silver lining is that you figure them out & your not the mentally ill one.
@pareeshaslaughter6798
10 ай бұрын
best believe they still have a picture of you hidden in a dark room somewhere on earth with candles and weird rituals and a strand of your hair or old pics and videos 😂😂😂😂 weird mofos. I keep a 40 cal for people like that
@justycewittawhy5082
8 ай бұрын
Well when you put it that way
@historyiwitness5915
6 ай бұрын
But you're the lonely one, for having taken the advice of a KZitem charlatan. Don't burn all your bridges.
@youtubefunG
5 ай бұрын
Lonely sounds better than abuse and survival@@historyiwitness5915
@melisentiapheiffer3034
4 ай бұрын
Oh, my hat. That is so true 😂😂😂
@winspiration9307
Жыл бұрын
I survived. I read where it said run and never look back. I did. The lies a narcissist tells, the excuses, not taking responsibility for anything, blaming you for everything, will make your head spin.
@dianevitale1214
4 ай бұрын
YES!! worst living nightmare
@loulou5331
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Danish. The worst for me and which caused indescribable pain was treating me like a stranger. Like he had never ever known me before. Not only are you cast out of their life and you do not know why, you NEVER get an explanation for your own closure. They do NOT want you to heal. They WANT you to keep searching for answers and so when they suddenly reappear in your life you bite the bait and in the hope you will obtain The Explanation. I am 4 years no contact and thriving. I knew him for 12 years and he is a grandiose, sadistic narcissist. Take care everyone!💐
@abhipsamukherjee3201
Жыл бұрын
Same happen to me dear..I too didn't get an explanation..moreover get insults without any reason...this is a mental trauma ..may God bless us..more power to you.
@lynda65587
Жыл бұрын
Usually they are communicating dissapointment, as you were not able to cater to their needs in some way. They had to move on and they may have tried to warn you, but you were unable to see them through. No need to feel wronged, they were just moving on, thats all. Sometimes we have to allow someone else to take our loved ones to their next destination, and the less traumatic the better. Thats why, the denial. Just get it and move on. They didnt want to stay down the hill, with you. Take care of yourself and hopefully you will find a companion to go to your next destination with, otherwise, go it alone and meet someone when you get there.
@Connie-wn4so
Жыл бұрын
They don't even know they're CRAZY. They think they're 💩 don't stank. 🙈 🙊 🙉 Smell no evil too. 🙃
@Connie-wn4so
Жыл бұрын
They don't even know they're CRAZY. They think they're 💩 don't stank. 🙈 🙊 🙉 Smell no evil too. 🙃
@vanmaraposa
Жыл бұрын
I am sorry you had to go through that. I hope you find the love you truly deserve. God bless you.❤
@shaistaijaz2019
Жыл бұрын
💯it should b made mandatory in all physical/mental screenings to evaluate+permanently labeled if individual is a narcissist then it stays on his/her record they’re lethal for normal ppl 😢
@cocu9371
7 ай бұрын
I agree, a certain psychological evaluation should be had before marriage, to encouter a Narc is to be a prisoner with no where to escape.
@mjkofron
Жыл бұрын
4 years since I left her, the pain continues to increase. I lost everything except my children….thought they may not be my blood. Moving forward feels like trudging through a swamp. No light ahead but keep on moving. Thank you for the encouragement and support. I still hope
@stephanielu7694
Жыл бұрын
Thank goodness you didn't lose your children! They need you! They need a truly loving parent. I pray for healing for you and your children. ❤️
@Saleigh
Жыл бұрын
Your children are your future and it's hard very hard I realize I'm done with him of 14 years I dread seeing him and I actually just keep remembering the disgusting person he is and became with the thought of what he did infidelity that was it I will not feel violated that was a huge betrale after being their
@sherryfrisinger9497
Жыл бұрын
The light is at the end of the tunnel and you made it. Don’t look behind only forward!! Keep busy and build a new life!!
@JaneenHunter
Жыл бұрын
Hello countine too pray my friend you will see the light again . stay strong ❤
@liezebartsch-wx2wf
Жыл бұрын
May you meet someone else who would love and cherish you. Don’t waste time missing the narc, they only love themselves and thrive on your unhappiness. Focus on your own life. I started studying again at age 59, you can too!
@bunnyboonot4u
10 ай бұрын
I survived narcissistic abuse twice, survived living on the street and I've beat addiction - NOT by my own strength, but by the strength of my Lord and Saviour,Jesus Christ! So Glory to God! ✝️🤍
@getitdone0010
Жыл бұрын
So many regrets… trying to forgive myself
@voltronspeaks9857
10 ай бұрын
Forgive yourself it was a lesson that made you powerful my froend
@sayee3
11 ай бұрын
I have survived this. Extended family members who destroyed my life. My advice to young ones - please do not bend to emotional blackmail and abuse. Stay strong and trust your own mind.
@cocu9371
7 ай бұрын
Bending to the will of a Narc does nothing to get them off your scent, there os no end game. The torment is the point.
@Greenwings701
Жыл бұрын
I want to say that you have such a kind expression. Thank you.
@JL-mb9pu
Жыл бұрын
So right!! Avery time hi get a friend at Will destroy me! All away eroding again!
@mymelody444-w6j
Жыл бұрын
I know Danish is so cute!!!❤❤ God bless this video is beautiful 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@nubianqueen5794
Жыл бұрын
Living through this right now!! He walked right past me at a gas station like he didn't know me....but we live in the same house and have kids together.
@sunnyjoy229
11 ай бұрын
What!😮 Crazy..
@victoryamartin9773
7 ай бұрын
That is brutal. My then husband used to do that when I would try to get his attention in public. I just thought he was deaf. My current homeless "house guests" have opened a campaign of all of these tactics (except finding a replacement) against me because I asked them to leave when they violated my request not to change the locks inside my house. Their current temporary stay has become 4 brutal months so far with no exit plan. This video is conclusive proof that I am dealing with Narcissism again with no end in sight. We are all elderly and disabled, so I wonder who's going to die first. What a morbid outlook.
@debdebcastillo6600
6 ай бұрын
Nasty human being. Mother of his children. My friend says .. just a sperm donor.
@dianevitale1214
4 ай бұрын
I feel for you. I'm going thru a nightmare divorce. Whenever he sees me in the same place like restaurant, court etc I'm invisible to him. A nod of respect is all I would want in such cases. EVIL
@debdebcastillo6600
4 ай бұрын
That’s a teenager lol. I feel all narcissist act very immature.. something is wrong with them.
@debbievoss3496
Жыл бұрын
God, as a FUCKING survivor just now breaking away. From the Narc Fam., Thank you for these videos. I've been trying to figure them out my entire life. Now at 67 I can see much more clearly now, especially with this Much Needed information to help me heal & grow.
@marilynshaffer
Жыл бұрын
I'm 68, broke away and now know I will heal and be happy again 🎉❤
@ummy444
Жыл бұрын
Wow. Sending love to you ❤ feels like forever for me
@ummy444
Жыл бұрын
@@marilynshaffer”“As a snake sheds its skin we humans must shed our past over and over again”” Starting over is beautiful. You are free. 🕊🍀💙
@debbievoss3496
Жыл бұрын
It is exhausting work, but it is a little easier now. As is my typical M.O., I am jumping in full time since I no longer am employed. It's overwhelming at times. I distract myself for breaks. Then I pursue more knowledge. It IS getting easier.
@amandamactaggart9666
Жыл бұрын
I am 66 and only now realising how my aborted children,my failed marriages,my longing to suicide was all perpetrated by an extreme narcissist , my mother. I knew something was wrong when I was 5 and tried to leave with my nanny who saw the beatings I received. Thank you for really helping me to see.
@constancewalsh3646
Жыл бұрын
The narcissist is here to wake you up. Focus on yourself instead of him/her and get to work on your co-dependency. Lots of love and encouragement - I did it. My narcissist was the necessary spiritual ally.
@lindawise4652
5 ай бұрын
Ally? You can work on your issues without having been destroyed. Some like myself have been tortured by them for 50 years.
@LaMesaC
4 ай бұрын
@lindawise4652 yes!
@djmandyland
Жыл бұрын
The stranger part breaks me. We have mutual friends and had to come across eachother twice and he acted like he didn't even know me. I shouldn't even care because he was so abusive but he discarded me and it definitely is so hard to not feel worthless. Logically you know but emotionally it still hurts so bad.
@suzy7773
11 ай бұрын
Yep and all those times I cried for him to talk to me while being ignored has now become a blessing! So glad he’s gone
@funky_gold_medusa
Жыл бұрын
The truth is, they never really took the time to get to know you. They only knew the snapshot of you and all their projections on that same snapshot.
@janetroberts5140
Жыл бұрын
I always said, my first narc spouse never really knew me.
@catherinedonnelly1025
Жыл бұрын
I always said that he never bonded with me like you would in a close relationship or a marriage
@amandeepkoursaini9832
Жыл бұрын
Oh my god so relatable. I've the same thoughts. They always want you to get to know each and every bit about them make them feel special and do everything to keep them happy and if you do a single mistake they will show their anger to you that you are a peace of trash. They are so obsessed about themselves they give no fucking importance to get to know you.They behave like they understood what you are ( in their fucking opinion 'USELESS').
@Connie-wn4so
Жыл бұрын
They're God's fallen angels. Legend has it that they looked rather too closely at their reflections so admirably and fell through the firmament. Water barrier/ 🪞
@enochpage1333
Жыл бұрын
You are so insightful about this type of person. How I wish they one day can be healed, but thank God, I'm out and no longer holding my breath.
@laurad1487
Жыл бұрын
Most people don't survive 15 seconds of waterboarding torture, narcissistic abuse survivors can survive months, years, decades of mental, emotional, physical, intimate and spiritual abuse. Torturers and facilities devoted to methodically stripping away a person's humanity don't also claim to love them and need them💔
@gigiarmany4332
Жыл бұрын
true unfortunaftely😢😒
@livingforfree2
Жыл бұрын
Very well said.
@slm2021
Жыл бұрын
WOW. Did you hit a nerve on numerous levels. Thank you. 😊 I will survive because nobody has successfully destroyed me. God apparently has other plans for me. I am just deeply saddened by how terrible people feel inside. So much now, that this is becoming normal as a coping mechanism. They often have a group of people supporting them in their abuse and helping them to carry it out. 😢😮❤ 🙏
@mishukumar1797
Жыл бұрын
Agreed 😢
@cindybates6633
Жыл бұрын
That’s the hardest part. Hearing him say he loves me.
@darshanagupta9741
10 ай бұрын
Kudos to you, Danish, for healing yourself and now bringing awareness to others. I could feel your pain. It's difficult to remind ourselves that we are alone, even though surrounded by so-called relationships.
@SamanthaWho
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping us. We really do need someone to reinforce to us that we were victims and not aggressors.
@marymcneill5666
Жыл бұрын
2 weeks before he left our 25 year relationship, I experienced all of this and then some, even now his tone of voice is so off with me it can’t even be hidden. In the space of 4 months he’s become like a stranger to me. This hits like a dagger to the heart.
@lindafriesz955
Жыл бұрын
Wow, you hit on every single thing. That my husband of 40 years done to me. When he discarded me for another woman, she was married. They relationship lasted a month and a 1/2. And he committed suicide when she broke up with him last may pretty sick.
@staceypalmer476
Жыл бұрын
Wowww... I know what goes around comes back around but who would ever think suicide???😮
@Rubyrredd
Жыл бұрын
@@staceypalmer476 right? My ex always threatened suicide but never did it. (He also told me that he knew how to get rid of a body and then tried to convince me to commit suicide, but that’s probably getting away from the topic). I hope you’re doing okay, @lindafriesz955
@Nancy-yw1rr
Жыл бұрын
@@staceypalmer476 It's not common, but some narcissists do resort to suicide during what is called a "narcissistic collapse".
@JaneenHunter
Жыл бұрын
Wow
@shaistaijaz2019
Жыл бұрын
😢40 yrs😟……..😶🌫️😶
@luminyam6145
10 ай бұрын
My heart goes out to those victims.
@bevyetc5307
10 ай бұрын
My mother recently discarded me, and I can say that is one of the best things that she has ever done for me! I started losing weight because I’m not eating out of anxiety, I sleep better, I have taken up my hobbies again! Thank you for dumping me Mama😅
@killjoyredux8361
Жыл бұрын
Experienced 4 of the 5. These people are indeed evil. Karma will get her in the end...you can only burn so many bridges in life.
@kimcarter1383
Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@anitaeversley3681
Жыл бұрын
I totally love your comment. Believe me their time is soooooooo up. Extremely they are and is being taken care of as we exchange comments.
@sheri2845
11 ай бұрын
I don't believe that there's justice for us... in my case that man goes from glory to glory, he thrives... my heart pains for our two week old baby that he asked me to get rid of... I pray she never asks to see him and she never looks for him, I know him, he'll be as mean to her as he was to me. He has another baby on the way that he got behind my back in a whole other marriage and like discarded rubbish he threw us away while looking so well after them. He looks great, seems peaceful and is in his element while I cry and look like the devils butt can't sleep, can't eat. He's done this to other women and always gets away with it... unlike them I'm the first that decided to keep the baby... wonder if I'll be like them and be able to move on... so, sorry for being a bit negative but personally I don't think they ever pay for their actions or behavior.
@WNHTCT
5 ай бұрын
I take comfort in knowing he has a hump growing on his back that will eventually result in a hideous deformity.
@melisentiapheiffer3034
4 ай бұрын
Yep! Let them go. They will destroy their own health in the process.
@Sunshine9820
9 ай бұрын
Whenever I try going back to him. I come across ur videos...n I get a moral support n feels like someone is stopping me from getting into the dig. Thank you.
@gaetanemcgraw5567
Жыл бұрын
I left him months ago. I thought I was going to be fine. But, I am not. I am no longer the person I was before I met him.
@jessicaacosta3055
Жыл бұрын
Yes same here 😢
@gaetanemcgraw5567
Жыл бұрын
@@jessicaacosta3055I know how it is. Some days I wish I could be my old self again. I have major issues with trust. I don't trust men anymore.
@hongtruong4576
10 ай бұрын
No! You ARE not 🙏You are smarter. You’re going though a trauma bond which happens to all of us. There are narc healing Videos on line I learned so much from them. Don’t look back! You ARE worth it. Namaste🙏
@flyflyaway2024
10 ай бұрын
You will be a better version than before, the day will come sooner than you think ❤
@jesuschristisking2877
10 ай бұрын
@gaetanemcgraw5567- It takes time...easily over year and more .. continue to forgive yourself, pray, cry, laugh, read and gain knowledge, heal 🙏🏼
@Shirley-t9b
10 ай бұрын
Reading all thes posts makes me cry iv been through it all i feel for everone of you. God bless you all hope you can get the old self back. Be kind to you selves
@munkyjammin
Жыл бұрын
Thank you I have lived all of these with our children. Their father ghosts them completely like they NEVER EVEN EXISTED , no response NOT EVEN IN A MEDICAL EMERGENCY. We have been the scapegoats for everything wrong that he ignores. We had to LEARN to stop blaming ourselves....
@kimberlywillis3746
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! You hit every nail on the head! I'm a repeat survivor, and I've been through these narc reactions more times than I deserved, and their mode of end-game operandi never changes. Awareness is key! By providing these facts, you take on hero status, my friend. Someone who didn't know, by seeing this, now knows. Knowledge is power! 👍
@rekhas2628
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir, when we know the reason for our sufferings atleast we gain confidence to move on. The background water falls is refreshing and brings the thought that We Have To Move And Not Stop.
@DeeCee1878
11 ай бұрын
The new supply has no idea what she is with and what he will do to her and her life. The pain of the discard after so much turmoil is truly brutal.
@saffihossain4575
3 ай бұрын
Oh ja tell me about it. Its like a Kitchen kniff been through my heart. The way he treatee me emotional ly
@anncrosby6157
Жыл бұрын
Sadly All true this is my ex narrissist thank God I had no chlindren with Him he nearly succeed in destroying me mentally and physically 💚💚💚
@milaeri5109
Жыл бұрын
Living exactly right in the middle of all these. Especially the blaming of destroying our family is hard to take
@michaelaxis6304
Жыл бұрын
OH you are right and is 3 against me and i live with them😮
@sherrychoksi4609
Жыл бұрын
❤❤wow ds is so so spot on Danish You are chosen to Guide 🎉
@amyj.4992
8 ай бұрын
These all resonate so deeply 💗, especially the one where they treat you like they are disgusted with you
@lexa_power
Жыл бұрын
Danish you are the best. Thank you for making all these amazing videos for us. Seriously! You’re the real MVP. This is all so accurate. I think it’s so awesome how you are embracing these tik tok type trends because it’s important to teach everyone about this type of abuse so even the younger generation can be aware to look out for it. Well done and keep up the great content!😊
@bhagyashreesanagare6969
8 ай бұрын
True,...still struggling to get back my self confidence, but all I know is it helps me to become more kind towards others, better and stronger..
@saturdayschild8535
10 ай бұрын
That’s a lot of animosity and disgust for a person they never knew. Thats why I chuckle when he attempts to do it. The disgust should be coming from me, but I doubt his ego could take it.
@angeloflight800
Жыл бұрын
I have not only survived the narcissist..im flourishing and thriving..once i healed im unstoppable ❤❤❤❤
@meghanislas8683
11 ай бұрын
Going thru that now just wish he would get his life together and take accountability for all he’s done to hurt others and be our dream come true
@victoryamartin9773
7 ай бұрын
Unlikely. Don't hold your breath.
@karenk2409
Жыл бұрын
All those things happened. I never knew such cruelty existed. Thanks for the validation! Freedom is wonderful - I've got my soul back and life is good.
@raturipulkit
Жыл бұрын
Be kind to yourself ❤
@stacydemontagnac5948
Жыл бұрын
That part
@user-uq6ic8pw8x
Жыл бұрын
That is the hardest part 😢
@raturipulkit
Жыл бұрын
@@user-uq6ic8pw8x yes that is coz most of us don't know what we want with life.
@escaped1534
9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for helping me see the truth. I have even sent your videos to my grown son, so he too can heal from his mothers abusive ways!!
@comet273
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately there is no law against emotional abuse 😢 it's worst than killing somebody coz in murder the person would have felt pain only for few minutes.
@michellefucoff4631
10 ай бұрын
Yes!!! Id rather die😢
@keylacline-holbrook9778
9 ай бұрын
This is so true but there's a loophole it's mental abuse and it is held accountable in the eyes of court
@keylacline-holbrook9778
9 ай бұрын
I lived in it for 22 years till my last baby left home and then I left home and I've never been back he is still in my life and I think he will be there for a long time cuz there's so many things I have to learn but for right now I have the ball in my court
@MsBetheaDawson
6 ай бұрын
It's called negligence or emotional distress
@August_2456
5 ай бұрын
@@keylacline-holbrook9778 oh..its not in india. theres no case against mental abuse and emotional abuse
@LLmoney23
11 ай бұрын
To the ones who made it out and to the ones who haven't.. cheers 🥂 hope you find the love and happiness you seek ✌️💪🤟🤞💓💓💓💓🤗🤗🤗🤗✊✊🕊️🕊️🌻🌻🌞🌞💪💪💪💪💪💪
@mbelouclaire
Жыл бұрын
I'm also a survivor of this trauma and just when I'm ready to move on with another person, here he comes to let everyone know that he's still around... I pretended he never exist and surprisingly, everyone including my new man did the same and he disappeared for good.
@samiam2180
10 ай бұрын
Survivor here🤗💜Congrats and blessings to all narc survivors- youre powerful & youre loved!🎉🎉🎉
@alexrodriguez1100
Жыл бұрын
Amen I Found God There Is No One That Will Ever Make Me Feel Less Than.
@jaymejefferson6438
10 ай бұрын
Thank you. My dad was a narcissist. I grew up in a toxic life. Always surviving. Grateful to be healing and all that's left standing is me.. 😊
@MotivationalLifeSchool
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for putting my feelings into words. I felt all this. But never could express in words
@Laura-ii1xq
10 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this. I expected this when I cut ties with my family. I haven't heard from any of them for a year. My mom called and left a message on my phone yesterday apologizing, yet changing the story of what she was apologizing for. I was feeling guilty because she is good at making me feel like that even though I am not guilty. I know she is not doing good, but I can't go back and deal with her and the rest of the family. I don't have it in me to go through it again. Just her lying about what she is sorry for is a reminder of why I left. I needed your reminder that I knew when I left what they all were going to do when I left.
@tathe3786
Жыл бұрын
Love your words cause I am three times through it… brother, husband off 23 years but 3 wonderful childhood❤, and last boyfriend off 4,5 years!!!! All did this, you say in little words!!! And when you know what’s the name of the game you know you can heal!!!!!
@saschaheart
Жыл бұрын
❤ what a powerful message "When you know what's the name of the game you know you can heal." ❤
@tathe3786
Жыл бұрын
@@saschaheart 🤗❤️
@antifiaw2588
Жыл бұрын
This is the best video. Pretending happy with someone else. Its a classic. Never look back. Complete detachment is what let victims free from abuse. Unfortunately many died from suicide from this abuse. Be grateful everyday for free life now.
@falliblewonder
Жыл бұрын
Turn others against you should be on the list.
@seameology
8 ай бұрын
Show highest levels of disrespect goes with that.
@yvettejones6196
11 ай бұрын
Danish! Once again you nailed it!! This has been my experience in the past and recently too. 😢 at least we have people like you who warn us about these things. I spent so many years from 20s to late 50s feeling like something was inherently wrong and bad about myself. Thank you for sharing this vital information. You’re saving lives and repairing people’s damaged psyches. ❤
@angies8146
Жыл бұрын
Yes after 5 years of no contact with my family in the beginning I told my parents I’m going to get healthy and when I’m better I can talk again for now I will be quiet . Immediately my mother harassed me leaving threatening messages for 3 years. My 3 sisters and my dad never once have they picked up the phone or wrote a letter. They sent their friends to shame me. You’re right !
@BeatriceRichardson-k9o
6 ай бұрын
Thank you!!! Keep teaching and shining!! They need healing
@emanuelaamy8005
Жыл бұрын
It really make so much sense , I’m so grateful for being where I am and I will never complain about it because God have saved my life . I’m still struggling because I can’t get over this trauma but I have hope on God he is going to help me out
@AnnasFaith
10 ай бұрын
I'm a survivor thankful to God everyday 🙏🏽
@millicentsinkala8150
4 ай бұрын
Same
@nightmaresandbutterflies1058
Жыл бұрын
Thankyou Mr.Danish,ur doing Gods work..ur words hit home each time,what you say,,always spot on,validates so many who were second guessing themselves and torturing and confusing their souls for the longest time in an endless vicious cycle.
@saschaheart
Жыл бұрын
💯❤
@dannmurray1199
11 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful setting...I hope you continue to find peace. Nature is a big part of healing.....your work is invaluable.
@darinattard3244
Жыл бұрын
Spot on - during the discard. It was planned on the day of my marriage and took place where the pre-wedding photos were taken. To inflict the most psychological damage possible.
@jesuschristisking2877
10 ай бұрын
Oh no!!!!😱😱. I am so so sorry to hear this. But your right it was deliberately done to inflict maximum pain.
@MeghenFarley
10 ай бұрын
Ohhhh myyy. My stomache is in knots and just feels evil thinking about these creatures. I feel sick. I can't imagine what you're feeling. I can... just in diff ways..hugs. u dodged a bullet though if it gives u comfort.
@VeeMommy
8 ай бұрын
Dodged a bullet...trust me...the biggest pre wedding blessing/gift u could have got...that discard...I've discovered that every narc discard especially recently and now that I know much about narcissism, was infact, a real life saver
@darinattard3244
8 ай бұрын
@@VeeMommy True
@summit961
10 ай бұрын
Yes, there has been days I couldn’t take it anymore. Thankfully he’s a road warrior and he went back on the road long term again. I’m glad he’s not home full time.
@mattieb7348
Жыл бұрын
Life saving words of wisdom and truth without saying a word. Captivating. Thank you dear Danish. Your kind spirit shines bright. You are helping countless hurting souls. 💖🙏
@michellemarie9971
10 ай бұрын
Yep- he says I'm psycho, bipolar. Totally discarded me, blocked me, done with me after he found a wealthy upgrade. No remorse, no feeling, no regard AT ALL for the amount of pain he caused. 😢
@LuvlyLibra
Жыл бұрын
All 5 of those are EXACTLY how he is treating me! It’s disgusting
@saschaheart
Жыл бұрын
Same
@anniebo8535
Жыл бұрын
Same
@jackiedouglas4483
Жыл бұрын
My late brother to a tee.
@nancysanchez2416
Жыл бұрын
Same
@aliyahusayn
Жыл бұрын
Same
@Ish-c1h9v
9 ай бұрын
Thank God that you survived the narc abuse!
@nandininegaluri354
Жыл бұрын
What you told happened to me 100%, I survived but it left a deep wound that I cannot trust anyone person , cannot understand what real love trust are, cannot believe real relationships exist.
@superwoman7397
10 ай бұрын
I just didn't survive it but turned into a Narcissist's Kryptonite, like you mentioned 😊 Alhamdulillah, im a super empath and am currently destroying a covert narc! He's on his knees and will remain there! Thanks to amazing coaches like you. #grateful
@Chatosvideos
Жыл бұрын
Very well said. I experienced this and was not sure what it was-- RUDE and SELFISH and not interested about what you say. A control freak! I survived by totally ignoring him. He never gets his way with me -- Give him the silent treatment and move on with your life. Ignore!
@Love-Runs-Blind
11 ай бұрын
Yes I have survived and still going through the process of healing as I felt lost in the journey of being with a narcissist@the person I loved unconditionally. I made her love herself more forgetting my needs and she made sure that am no one to her when I needed her just to speak with her
@Queenvictoria2k2
11 ай бұрын
So true, so brutal. I was treated horribly towards the discard at the end of a 15 year marriage when I divorced him. I couldn’t recognize the man that I married and I wondered towards the end when the mask fell off how could I have not noticed any red flags but it was because he is a master manipulator, he treated everyone else better than his own wife, literally mind blowing. But in the end he will reap what he sow. Thanks for the validation!
@RebaHardison
Жыл бұрын
Joy comes in the morning. Amen.
@miovicdina7706
Жыл бұрын
Yes, yes, and yes. Their minds switch and they don't see why they would even talk to you, as they perceive you as no longer useful to them. (They don't see friendship as useful)
@bhanu.g6763
Жыл бұрын
Indeed.... Thankyou for the validation. Only we know what we have gone through
@kamed.
Жыл бұрын
Once again, A job well DONE! Thank you all of your efforts! "Let the Healing BEGIN"!
@melindadiaz5583
10 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this, as my narc broke me and I've never been able to get back to a stable state. It's the hidden trauma, no one sees it, but it affects my every moment.
@styler-ji5pr
Жыл бұрын
Yep he did every single one of these things to me. Then he's like just move on. How am I suppose to move on when I've been treated so horribly? Can't trust anymore
@marlenerobinson3385
8 ай бұрын
Prayer and support from some key ppl, including a therapist, got me to where I can function. Thank God!
@Ditto463
11 ай бұрын
Sadly you are 100% correct. My abuse lasted just 6 months and was over three years ago and I can STILL feel shocked and disoriented by it. I can’t imagine what it’s like to have suffered years of this sort of abuse. Sending healing thoughts to anyone here who’s on that healing journey ❤
@kimberlymctaw1357
Жыл бұрын
Danish is such a beautiful human being. Thank you for helping so many of us. You are truly a blessing❤️🌼
@annaomar4733
11 ай бұрын
I’m crying. Every single thing he said in this video and other videos are exactly my partner and now I’m suffering. He’s blanked me cold with no regards to our marriage or child
@rachellesilva5626
Жыл бұрын
This helps to explain my inability to find my worth, after 11 years he walked out. Absolutely nothing would Have given the indication of it coming, simply said “I can’t do This anymore” gave me his key, and left. It’s been 2.5 months and I am struggling to remember how to be alone. I’m desperately wanting to be better, because for a while he said I was am a narcissist. So, now im trying to find things that I liked to do before he came along and rebuild some love for myself. I poured everything into him.
@eleonorabartoli2225
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry. You will be great, self love is the main thing!
@sunnyjoy229
11 ай бұрын
Look to Jesus not pastors or preachers but ONLY to Jesus for your healing.
@hongtruong4576
10 ай бұрын
It IS better to be with me, me self and I. I’m on my healing path. These toxic creatures took our good energy and replaced it with their toxicity. They are the energy vampires. Don’t look back you turn into a pillar of salt. Run for the hill! You can do it. Namaste🙏
@lovefaith1794
10 ай бұрын
Every line is my lifes story after 3 decades of marriage. Hes still a terror even after few years of divorce & him remarrying, its scarey & never understood. My poor kids. Im now doing therapy EMDR….after. a CPTD diagnosis. Ive learned so much abt myself, why I stayed, narcissistic abuse w every side effect. Its a shame the toxic poison left behind in myself & kids that we will have to be vigilante to recover….thank you for what you do here.
@susanfaye4935
Жыл бұрын
True that ❤. When he realized he could not break me he left. Yay freedom!
@marlenerobinson3385
8 ай бұрын
I lived through this treatment, and for a while I felt broken. Thank God, I'm surviving and getting stronger every day.
@dclocker9534
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. Your content has given me hope amongst a a current divorce from a narcissist.
@karenmcbride1264
11 ай бұрын
Very accurate! I used to go to tall grass to sleep in fields 4 hrs at a time. Much needed sleep.
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