[Take My Free Quiz]: What's the #1 Reason You're Single: bit.ly/youresinglequiz
@christianabrafo1561
Жыл бұрын
Hello
@mphojoycemabaso8916
Жыл бұрын
Hello
@gingerburns2466
7 ай бұрын
@@mphojoycemabaso8916❤❤p
@Me-mn4nw
6 ай бұрын
Sweetheart somebody needs to teach men how to be chivalrous and The Art of Making Love. Ladies ARE quickly realizing that the majority of men aren't worth the time, trouble, or the mess.
…any he will still cheat on you!!! With a woman who won’t make him wait!
@christyaliciaclark
Жыл бұрын
And #2 starts at 1:41
@amyitis
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!
@lifechangingaura3059
Жыл бұрын
If he leaves because sex isn’t involved let him ‼️
@PerrySkyePhoenix
6 ай бұрын
Yep!
@georgiafrancis9059
7 ай бұрын
Having a good friend is more important, let everything else happen when the timing is right. Slow is the way to go.
@catladyjai1113
Жыл бұрын
When I stopped worrying about how to attract a man or get one to fall for me. I just started being myself and relaxing. Not really caring where things went... I just let things happen, thats when I met my amazing husband who fell in love with me and wanted to marry me within 2 weeks, of course he kept that to himself until later lol
@Dyscalculla
Жыл бұрын
I am waiting patiently for this to happen to me. I hope that your marriage thrives into an ever-lasting, ever-loving relationship that solidifies as time passes.
@farrahfrench7690
Жыл бұрын
Men don’t bond over sex!
@sabateezy
Жыл бұрын
@@Dyscalculla don’t wait for it ! They subconsciously means you’re focusing on the lack of having it! That want/need for something you don’t have! Just be. Do you. Live life. Have fun. But one things for sure. You have to BEEE the Person-you wanna meet. Not identically but morally and vibrationally. Like attracts like. Are you living in alignment with your true self /values n morals? Maybe kinda sorta?! Almost ?!if not at all then def focus on yourself and your own life first , then watch your dream lover pop out of no where n be drawn to you - when you least expected- not while waiting ❤ and if you do have the characteristics n stuff of ur dream lover we’ll maybe they’ll be showing up sooner then expected!❤🎉
@sabateezy
Жыл бұрын
@@farrahfrench7690 where did they say that they do ? Sex is definitely an important factor , but yes only ONE of the many important pillars necessary to uphold a relationship successfully. Sex is more important then most think, but true, not nearly close to everything /only thing.
@patricia7823
Жыл бұрын
I love THIS! When I was a 7 year old my family and I were ALWAYS at Bingo. He and I locked eyes IMMEDIATELY! WE LOST TOUCH FOR 47 years. When we were children I remember him telling me we'll meet again. He was right. Before he left he gave me a promise ring. Foster care bio child stole and sold it. I ALMOST beat her to death. But God doesn't like ugly so when she was about to marry her mate at the altar. He called my name. I freaked out quietly. Why would someone call my name on the day of all days when I didn't know who was getting married. Short story long he handed me the ring in pristine beauty. I had hoped eventually literally in THIS millennium that I would see it again. He handed me the ring and walked out. He happened to see me in a neighborhood I never wanted to be in. Circumstances saw otherwise. It's just that I'm a WEST SIDE GAL. THE benches and a few other places.
@Khaila246
Жыл бұрын
I stopped restructuring myself in order to fit a man’s wants and expectations! I decided to unapologetically be myself…kinda “love me or leave me alone” thing. In any case , my self-love is far greater and important than what any other human being can give me
@apekshatiwari9290
Жыл бұрын
oh my goodness! i wonder when i will reach this level of confidence.
@geraldineharvey6804
9 ай бұрын
This is when other people see you shine and liver you for yourself hun.
@lisajoye5721
7 ай бұрын
❤💯
@PerrySkyePhoenix
6 ай бұрын
Yep!
@busybee74
Жыл бұрын
I was Mormon for 45 years of my life. I stepped into a marriage with a man who was 10 years older than me. I was 20 years old and Mormon . I didn’t have sex with him until our wedding night. It still did not change the man he became. A diagnosed NPD. I spent 19 years of my life and 4 kids later, denying myself of my truth. I almost divorced him two times prior,but after 19 years and I knew it was the right thing to do. Finally. I walked away from my religion, I walked away from my family. And sex is not the only thing that dictates a mans power. In fact. Losing a woman who he relied on for his power is everything. Now my ex is a deadbeat loser. Truth.
@Cravenn5
Жыл бұрын
❤ continued healing and love to you.
@AL-gs6eg
Жыл бұрын
As a former Jehovah's witness, I'm so proud of you!
@happyworld2545
Жыл бұрын
❤ bravo
@SusanAnnePowerOfTruth
Жыл бұрын
❤
@mjohnson8206
Жыл бұрын
Good that’s what he gets …mine used religion to try to control me and called me names like whore and bitch and that was it for me…I got enough confidence to get my retirement money to put down a deposit for a luxury apartment with amazing views and It was the best decision I made. I ghosted him and are at peace and loving life now. I got a new job and make more money and don’t need a dime from him. I’m so happy now
@kauigirl808
Жыл бұрын
I make men wait. I haven't had sex in years. If they cannot wait I move on. I need to know we can connect on other levels besides just sexual.
@savvyjetsetter
Жыл бұрын
I agree
@Southpaw1001
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Most relationships end around the 4-6 month point. Most likely because people get involved too quickly. When the dust settles, one or both parties realize there was never anything there.
@how_you_talk
7 ай бұрын
Cumon..did u just say years...? You are definitely losing out a lot then. Else a time will come you ll lose interest totally. Even your body will say..i.dont want to do it..Change your strategy. My personal 2 cents.
@kauigirl808
7 ай бұрын
@how_you_talk You're misunderstanding. I said I haven't had sex in years. I never said I make a man wait years. I prefer to be happy by myself then to give myself to the wrong person. You're assuming I'm losing happiness because I am not in a relationship. I'm great on my own. I'm independent. You do you. I'm good. I'm good.
@PerrySkyePhoenix
6 ай бұрын
Yep!
@khrisi9410
Жыл бұрын
Flirtatious eye contact physical touch Emotional validation Radical confidence Understand your worth Your uniqueness Vulnerability show him you value him in your life
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching : )
@amandalidey329
Жыл бұрын
Yes & don't force any of it. At least for me. Naturally.
@rosemarie3915
Жыл бұрын
I am leaning it isn't about how I feel about a person BUT HOW HE MAKES ME FEEL.
@theresamarie7679
Жыл бұрын
I turned down 3 guys for sex because I didn't feel attracted to them that way. I said we can be friends but then they disappeared 😮 I like to be friends first 😊
@Southpaw1001
Жыл бұрын
You need to be friends first. Without it, in the end, there won't be a relationship!
@newbeequilter
7 ай бұрын
@@Southpaw1001 Exactly!
@maix139
Жыл бұрын
I think as a woman just know your self worth...bc after you do all this a man can still cheat and leave. Let him take the lead. Let him invest in you. You may be the best woman but if he is just playing around, .he will not stay. You need to ask him and get to know what his agenda is. That's when you can determine if he is the right man for you.
@trishmalone5639
Жыл бұрын
The man has to First be 'That Man'. Some of these guys, younger ones and older ones, simply do not possess the masculine traits and energy to rise to the occasion for a woman. Women must Vet Carefully before you share and show vulnerability. Choose wisely🌞🌻
@colinm1325
Жыл бұрын
Hey Trish, ur right, and that works so well for both sides, as no doubt many of us here have the need to be able to move forward in a better way than we have before.😊
@deislandgirl1
Жыл бұрын
So this is interesting. I have been all these things to the man I love. However the other party has to want to be committed. A lot of men never heal from being with toxic women and then they project. So while these 5 points are great they will only work with a man who is whole.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You're correct : )
@patriciawhite9509
Жыл бұрын
True true
@dominiquea4313
7 ай бұрын
True true two
@starqueenlotus3755
Жыл бұрын
I would rather prefer to do these things for myself only rather than to make someone else to fall for me...
@comeseeoselove2348
Жыл бұрын
I'm so thankful I found your wholesome channel years ago. Your advice reaches beyond dating and feeds into a woman's need for self love, respect and fulfillment. One has to be emotionally sound or atleast trying to actually grasp these gems you're laying down.Till date I'm yet to see a more wholesome dating coach.
@train3597
Жыл бұрын
SO true!!!! Well said :)
@vickigonya9432
Жыл бұрын
I know exactly why I'm single😊 I have better things to do than worry about what a man is doing, where he is, what is true vs false. I have no desire to clean up after a man, or care for one. I CHERISH my freedom, my dogs & my space. Don't hate men, I'm just done with them. No, not a lesbian either!!! Secure and happy on my own😊❤ I watched this thinking it may enlighten me on past mistakes. Meh, not really. No one person makes another person do anything. They do what they want and know what they are doing when they do it. 😂
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Vicki, if this works for you then glad you're clear about what you want. : )
@vickigonya9432
Жыл бұрын
@@BernMendez yep it works for me😊
@vickigonya9432
Жыл бұрын
@Bernardo Mendez yep it works for now. It has worked since 1997. My goal is to run another Iron Man in Hawaii in my 60s. I'm 64 now🥰
@georgiafrancis9059
7 ай бұрын
exactly!
@eleazerdadzie4410
6 ай бұрын
@@vickigonya9432so don’t you feel lonely sometimes
@lanashowler5906
Жыл бұрын
And if hes a narc he wont care about you and use all this against u oneday.... So be careful what you do share
@fedup745
7 ай бұрын
True. Don't overshare until you are sure he doesn't have a personality disorder.
@sherylb8836
10 ай бұрын
Basically be the best version of you that you would love and value your own self. Once you do that, you dont need anyone else🥰❤
@BernMendez
10 ай бұрын
Yes : )
@amandalidey329
Жыл бұрын
I agree 100% Sex is definitely not the most important in a relationship at the beginning. U do wanna get to know each other, whether there's a connection, bond, etc. Then of course the sex will be more of an intense connection as well & not just physical. U definitely wanna learn each other & be honest, etc with each other as well. I agree with every step he pointed out as well in that order which then the sex will be amazing! Thanks for the video. ❣️ Have a good day. 🦋
@rhodaking6558
Жыл бұрын
Sure
@celestemichon1038
Жыл бұрын
The reason why I’m single is because that is what I chose to be.
@moniqueengleman873
Жыл бұрын
90 days before they win " the precious". Has always been my rule.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
My suggestion is wait until exclusivity even if that takes longer than 90 days : )
@tamaraveze3196
Жыл бұрын
The most important relationship in your life is relationship with Your- Self! When you know who you are, know your Souls purpose, when you know meaning of your life and people rejecting you for doing You, being alone, single is the best possible place, by DEVINE Design. Experiencing evolution of consciousness, embracing and surrendering to change will elevate your vibration that will attract right people into your life. When you are coming from place of suffering and trauma no matter how hard you will try to raise your worth and value it will be artificial, so won't work, you have to connect with yourself, feel and understand your pain, " see " the wounds, heal, learn and embrace new ways of being, learn to love yourself! When you mastered this the rest will come naturally. The true love and happiness is a state of being, no person or relationship can give you that, you find it within core of your being!
@mylovedfriends
Жыл бұрын
Every single woman should take your coaching. I will sometimes soon
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Kiki. Looking forward to helping you : )
@JoyleiaJo
4 ай бұрын
Desire --> Dopamine --> Motivation
@MsLilac88
Жыл бұрын
I just dropped by your channel about relationships. 👍 Your words of advice are amazing.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words,
@MsLilac88
Жыл бұрын
@@BernMendez You are welcome. 😊
@laracroft2665
Жыл бұрын
What happens when he is an avoidant type and you can't create an emotional connection with him?
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Most likely, you move on.
@cavelleardiel
Жыл бұрын
I changed my language. I share little tidbits of what I need but in a very loving way. I also ask him a lot about him and what his day is like. I also told him recently that I respect who he is as a person. That actually made a massive change in his attraction to me and how he talks to me and what he does for me. Good Luck!
@Saffronikka
Жыл бұрын
I was curious so I took your quiz & it was spot on! I thoroughly enjoyed & appreciated the videos & advice that came along after taking the quiz 🙏🏻
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Glad you found it helpful.
@bethhall-ee2ip
Жыл бұрын
Death cannot separate you from your love....
@agnesn3209
Жыл бұрын
You can't make a man feels he is adding value your life when indeed he is NOT just because you want him to fall in love with you. Let him be himself, his true self and that will determine if he is worth your time
@amyj.4992
Жыл бұрын
Yea, I'm aware of all this and I was taught and raised on these things. I guess, I just like to have fun. But now that I'm older, this is the approach I will take in the real world and not the metaverse
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Glad this reminder was helpful.
@colinm1325
Жыл бұрын
That is an Awesome crystal. 😊
@gothicyid
6 ай бұрын
I was never made to have sex with my partner which made me want him more. And I put my needs as conditional on having sex the first time. He also didn't run away after he grew closer to me. This is what makes me feel he is the right one.
@BernMendez
6 ай бұрын
Glad to hear this.
@jjsmama401
Жыл бұрын
My problem is I’m only attracted to really good looking men. And they can always find someone more attractive than me.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Perhaps through connecting emotionally to more men you might develop more attraction than you thought you could.
@meme-ed8nr
Жыл бұрын
Fantastic advice- thank you for spreading your insight and kindness 🎉
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@Esme26433
Жыл бұрын
I love this healthy protection business!! So important!
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Rosette : )
@MottoMyYellowFriend
Жыл бұрын
i was pressured in to sex to early after a 29 year long relatinship and my husband past away to cancer, that man did not care at all about me, i was so sad 😢
@mjey1
10 ай бұрын
I'm trying to say this in the most polite and sensitive way possible but the only person that really needs to care about us is us. If you pick the right people, they will be considerate. Too many women put their value in others. People are who they are. If you have insecurities about pleasing people or not losing people that took over, then it really is your insecurities and healing to work on, if that makes sense. He shouldn't have pressured you but you can't control other people's actions. Other peoples jobs aren't to heal u either.
@FlamingCockatiel
7 ай бұрын
I started watching this video last year the day my now-ex broke up with me, paused to go out and meet him for what turned out to be a breakup, and it was so painful to finish, because I knew that I didn't fulfill all the points.
@karynmartin2141
Жыл бұрын
These are great! But not for all men. They will drag you along until they get what they want, the guy I'm dealing with is commitment phobia.
@topazseventynine5688
Жыл бұрын
i don't think he is a commitment phobia, he just want to have as much women as he can ... don't give it more than a year, bc you will be wasting your time and regret it later ( a year is a lot and more than a lot to find out if he will commit or not) .. and never give him sex... if he thinks you are the one he will commit if not then he will leave
@xoxjelloxox
6 ай бұрын
I wish things like kindness and selflessness were characteristics that attract them
@BernMendez
6 ай бұрын
Both are valued by kind and selfless men ; )
@MyIRISSS
Жыл бұрын
Best explanation so far.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thanks : )
@pattym6129
Жыл бұрын
I so loved your youtube. It is so true. You are a beautiful man with such insight, humor & intelligence.
@NOUSSAROM
Жыл бұрын
Such a nice video. Thank you sir.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome!
@debra7671
Жыл бұрын
Why is it that a woman has to wait for a male to decide whether she’s good enough for him ...He should be grateful he is blessed with a beautiful woman . It’s always about a male dominated world that they call the shots! Nup! Not for me.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Hi Debra, that's not what I shared here : )
@debra7671
Жыл бұрын
@@BernMendez yes thank you. I got to the flirty part and that was it. Fed up with males that flirt with everything out there and social media has killed many good potential relationships. I’m too old now to go through any more! Don’t trust anyone now even though I don’t blame others for past disappointments Ty 💙
@Dreamsareareality
Жыл бұрын
This is a great video. It is so helpful. Great work!!❤
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching : )
@Dreamsareareality
Жыл бұрын
@@BernMendez You are welcome. 👍🏾
@rosa629
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Bern❤❤
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome.
@fionamckinnon1167
Жыл бұрын
Ok taking your advice not.
@echase416
7 ай бұрын
Don’t worry about whether someone likes you or not - or the future. You can’t make someone love you. Never chase.
@JulindaLeDee
Жыл бұрын
Great advice for Self-Love
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Glad you found it useful, Julinda. 😊
@smb888
11 ай бұрын
You give the best dating wisdom on YT…Thank you..🙏
@BernMendez
11 ай бұрын
You're very kind, thank you.
@sillygirl1139
Жыл бұрын
Love these, thank you.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@ravenmeyer3740
Жыл бұрын
Don’t agree with most of this. It’s not for everyone. They either like you, or they don’t. Also, not looking for a person who is high on the socio income level. Doesn’t mean they are decent people.
@marietgagliardi
6 ай бұрын
I think this is all good stuff. I'm married but always interested in keeping love alive. I still want to attract my husband ❤
@BernMendez
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching.
@tarinideviyoga
2 ай бұрын
Wow. I love all these 5 things.
@mirnabonilla7488
Жыл бұрын
I don't know how to flirt Is there a website for this 😂 I'm shy Been married for 37 yrs
@jackietaylor3188
Жыл бұрын
It was only one minute later after I heard you speak that I subscribed good Content ❤
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Jackie, I'm so grateful you felt connected to my work : )
@maidenmarian1
Жыл бұрын
Perfect message!!
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Glad you found this useful.
@mjey1
10 ай бұрын
I'm grateful for the fact that I've never fell to the pressure by a man to be sexual before I was ready. If A man was ever pushy or aggressive I would think he would be absolutely disgusting and I would leave and he would immediately be a huge turn off. I Usually wouldn't get to the point of being intimate if the guy felt like a huge red flag to begin with. Just like my condom policy. No man is worthy of being without protection until I decide.
@BernMendez
10 ай бұрын
Glad you've had good experiences.
@dawnstonerock4253
Жыл бұрын
New subscriber. Wow!! Great content!
@good__enough
Жыл бұрын
Good presentation. Good explanations. Very good.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Cheryl.
@somabose90
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your help ❤❤
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome : )
@MyVlogTherapy
Жыл бұрын
This was great one 👏🏽
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Maya.
@marilynbledsoe8241
Жыл бұрын
He claims to love me. We haven’t had sex in six months.. now I wasn’t in a hurry. Now I’m convinced this man isn’t attracted to me.
@user-is6de8pp7k
Жыл бұрын
He’s gay
@meridee4151
Жыл бұрын
Greatest advice. Thank you for making this video. 😊
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome!
@kayjay9428
7 ай бұрын
Love is love..theres no instructions. You can try all of these things and if he doesn’t love you he won’t.
@BernMendez
7 ай бұрын
There is the FEELING of love and The SKILL of Love working on the second one is key for both men and women ; )
@kayjay9428
7 ай бұрын
@@BernMendez I understand...some times as women we can try to do everything right, working on self awareness etc but its all about the recipient.
@16Sirens
Жыл бұрын
Inner truth brings all that one needs, in order to attract what is meant for them. That is where interdependence, manifests as a consciousness of reciprocated as a true connection. 👍🏽 Watching this video has inspired me to write this.😊❤
@gabrielecarter7703
Жыл бұрын
A great video, it was very Informative 👍👏
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Gabriele! : )
@Harlem2Detroit
5 ай бұрын
Great advice !!! Thanks
@elsiep.quinones1019
Жыл бұрын
I have done a few things you have discripe in the video.. Bernardo. Thank you very much for your help and time.🙂🌷🙏🏻👍🏼
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You are very welcome.
@Pearlangeldream
Жыл бұрын
Most men I dealt with, they're not in presence of mind also with me. They just pushing me for sex. I can be flirtatious but he don't respect me, instead he will think of me as a bimbo. ------------------------ The supposed bf now also is an avoidant.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear this and hope this video was helpful.
@dalmaingrant4228
Жыл бұрын
True most guys like myself respect and desire a girl more who let us wait for the right time for sex or say the special time ,if a girl gives it up too early that's a red flag, makes you wonder if all guys she meets have it this easy .makes you question if she values her self worth and as her man are you gonna have to keep 24 hours surveillance over this person, guys be aware don't let the beauty and the perfect figure get to your head and clouds your thoughts. If she gives it up to you 123 ,she will do it with the next guy who pursues her while she is in a relationship with you,it's gonna happen remember men we are hunters .we were built that way
@agathajoseph3886
Жыл бұрын
Hello Sir I thank you for this lesson I appreciate it
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Agatha.
@nancysamoilo7219
Жыл бұрын
Thank You, Bern~ Shared ~ Much Love~ 💙 ~∆
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Nancy : )
@Topself24
Жыл бұрын
This is amazing. subscribed
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Glad you found this useful, and thank you for subscribing : )
@thebossmj79
Жыл бұрын
I feel so called out by this. 😅
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Glad this was useful.
@LaMYsteriosa87
7 ай бұрын
And vice versa.
@nesrinvural3800
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome!
@user-mv2tg8hc8c
Жыл бұрын
Very helpful!
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@siriluckworsfold
Жыл бұрын
Superb narrative and great clip. Th🎉
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@mmcghee5089
11 ай бұрын
I can still be my friend as long as u communicate with me ❤
@BernMendez
10 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@jenniferklekamp677
Жыл бұрын
God bless you I wish I would’ve known this earlier in my life
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@mary-annbingham6159
5 ай бұрын
I have giving up on Guys ❤
@PerrySkyePhoenix
6 ай бұрын
Yeah, guys that pressure me to have sex before I'm ready are a real turn off. It's a deal breaker for me.
@meluciferthrasher13
Жыл бұрын
You should change your name to, “Hitch”. Great points here.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed this video : )
@meluciferthrasher13
Жыл бұрын
I’ve just discovered your channel and I will be binge watching next weekend. Thanks for sharing 🙏
@sheilamackey3345
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this 5-6-23
@caringlovetv6998
Жыл бұрын
Hi.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@BrooklynBaby100
Жыл бұрын
Brilliant ✨
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@classyconversationswithrho344
Жыл бұрын
The sad thing is many people are so good at pretending. You think you meet a nice genuine person. There are so many Narsistic people out there. If dealing with a good person your 100 percent correct! Its just a shame people are not truth worthy. I have 62 years of experience. I have always been a hopeful romantic ad well trusting. I know I am bringing up another subject but sadly its so true. Blessings
@Blondemominpa
6 ай бұрын
What if he feels more for his sister than his wife?
@Lisa-xd3fv
7 ай бұрын
Yeah great thanks so much❤😊
@georgiafrancis9059
7 ай бұрын
Hell I don't......I'm single #1 because I've already been married, #1 because I enjoy my own company instead of wasting precious time on shallow men. I am my own best friend and I'm the only one I totally trust.
@hillarybrown6813
6 ай бұрын
How do u flirt in a long term relationship. I have been in a six year relationship and need to flirt but I struggle with how to
@dalmaingrant4228
Жыл бұрын
a female who hold s a guy off and let him wait is more desirable, this is the type of female a guy like me will roll out the red carpet for. If she gives it up too early i am all in not gonna say no ,however i will never respect and trust her, i am gonna hold on to that red flag as constant reminder .just remember i always know who you really are
@anitah2404
Жыл бұрын
So you use women and then disrespect them?
@LoveJehovah
9 ай бұрын
@@anitah2404most men do. They just aren't honest about it. That's why they seldom marry women they "conquer" easily. Don't take offense, take it as a lesson.
@Patrizia4Christ
Жыл бұрын
This is so true and absolutely beautiful. I agree.
@carlahartzell7249
Жыл бұрын
I like your suggestions
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Carla : )
@lilyrose3145
Жыл бұрын
Very good video.
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@sherristevens3972
Жыл бұрын
Sex is a bonus. Amen it's part of your relationship once marriage. Don't giv3 away what you don't want to. Think it thru before dropping your clothes. If you have self respect for yourself you don't need to just give it to everyone AMEN. Wait til your ready. Don't base your relationship on sex. Amen 👍 mistake if you do. Amen 👍 truthful
@BernMendez
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, Sherri.
@WeAreOurBeloved
7 ай бұрын
I feel there are way too many videos like this telling women how to cater to men’s needs. The fact is after you give them certain things they will want other things. Also they don’t even know what they want. The truth is many emotionally damaged and broken men jump into relationships without doing any inner work first. And they create messes for women wherever they go. As women we need to stop trying too hard to give men what they want and focus on ourselves.
@BernMendez
7 ай бұрын
Focusing on yourself is better than focusing on a man who can’t offer you value. Focusing on yourself and a man who can offer you value might be even better. Yes the world is messed up in many ways but my take is always one of “how can you get what you want irrespective of the things that don’t work.” Rather than giving up in the process. So this video isn’t a selfless invitation to cater to men’s needs it’s a how can you get what you need by focusing on offering something other than sex. Hope this helps.
@nineangels7572
9 ай бұрын
@ 1:44 healthy is spelled wrong. Just an FYI.
@BernMendez
9 ай бұрын
Thank you for letting me know.
@nadalynm.3145
Жыл бұрын
What if you already had sex with him? How do you get him connected to you then?
@hartleyb8356
Жыл бұрын
I can vouch for delayed gratification….IT WORKS!!! I just married the man of my dreams yesterday! We waited over a year to be physical with each other. We both decided that it was worth waiting for. Let me be clear, neither of us are Spring Chickens and this was both our 2nd marriage but knowing that my husband was willing to wait that whole time made me feel some sorta way….kinda special, and like if he’s willing to wait that he obviously does love me and let me say, IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT!!! 🫨😵🤯👩❤️👨
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