Timestamps 1. 0:49 “It’s ok to have feelings and to express them” 2. 1:38 “You are safe” 3. 2:29 “It’s not your fault when other people are in a bad mood” 4. 3:22 “I hear you and see you” 5. 4:05 “I love you” Time travel :D
@herelizabethan
2 жыл бұрын
thanks kawaiiii!
@manufacturedpie4118
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you time traveler
@Mara_143
2 жыл бұрын
👑❤️🌞
@des7370
2 жыл бұрын
HOW DOES THIS SAY 3 MONTHS AGO?? 😳🤨
@audree3967
2 жыл бұрын
welp im brought to tears
@michelleferrero8206
2 жыл бұрын
My parents always said, "Children are meant to be seen and not heard" and "I love you but I don't like you". I'm in my 50's now but I can hear it like it was yesterday.
@musselchee9560
2 жыл бұрын
Yep. I heard it often too.
@proghostzgamecreed6555
Жыл бұрын
I guess war is a cruel parent, but an effective teacher.
@SuzannaLiessa
8 ай бұрын
It needs to be said, so I'm going to say it. "I love you, but I don't like you," is a hateful thing to say to a child. It should always, always, always be "I love you." What your parents said was WRONG. Something that sometimes helps me with things like that is to specifically say the words YOU ARE WRONG, out loud if I can, when memories and critical voices come up.
@CassandraMarable
5 ай бұрын
What does I love you but I don’t like you even mean? I have some speculations, but it doesn’t really make sense to me.
@SuzannaLiessa
5 ай бұрын
@@CassandraMarable It means "I don't love you."
@chiefaaron1421
2 жыл бұрын
Recently, I’ve realized that my childhood has wounds that still heavily effect me today. I really needed this video, and it came out at such a perfect time.
@sunnydaze2359
2 жыл бұрын
I hear so often how parents can affect children, but what about siblings ? I had great parents but a very abusive sister who always criticized me& those criticism stayed with me my whole life. I’m just wondering if anyone else had this problem. My sister was toxic & I had to finally get her out of my life.
@coleisforrobot
2 жыл бұрын
One word: Bullying. It destroyed me.
@stefan-ox8qs
Жыл бұрын
@toxicjakepaul fan true, even after more than 20 years i still got triggert if someone just grab my shoulder out of nothing. My first reaction is still after 20 years to give them a elbow. I always got attacet from behind. For that reason i still sometimes jump up when i see a sudden movement or fast moving shadow.
@stefan-ox8qs
Жыл бұрын
@toxicjakepaul fan i always was the one that was standing his ground and fighting back. At the age of 9 my brain had the wonderfull idea of cropping up the anger and used that as feul to fight and defend. I was a walking bomb back in the time.
@stefan-ox8qs
Жыл бұрын
@toxicjakepaul fan both, 3 to 5 against one most of the time.
@khalilahd.
2 жыл бұрын
As someone working through some of these issues I can confirm accessing these emotions and working through them will truly change your life and get you out of habitual bad habits. Whoever you are you are loved you are worthy and you deserve happiness 💜 happy healing everyone
@stephaniesands4804
2 жыл бұрын
As are you my lovely xxx
@macbusch9372
2 жыл бұрын
Gracias, You too
@roseofsharon11
2 жыл бұрын
I so agree…
@SphereofCygnus
2 жыл бұрын
Happy healing! Thank you, love to you! ❤
@solonada9602
2 жыл бұрын
My entire life along with all of my dreams smothered by unmerciful negative forces, has fallen deep down to the chasm of despair and insidious calamity... My life is nothing but just a huge fiasco, and it always was this way since the beginning of my existence, however I just had not discerned so due to my child-like outlook on the world along with seclusion within the entertainment world... I am devoid of worth altogether, and nobody with a sound mind would consider to provide love or happiness, because in reality I have not done anything nor made any achievements to deserve such prestige.
@highliving-animatedvideos5831
2 жыл бұрын
Wouldn’t it be so nice, if you could travel back in time, and hug yourself a child? ❤️ Well, I am working on it. Time-travel squad unite 🚀🌙
@zoloswaqqer
2 жыл бұрын
Yay
@timm1139
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I’d love to go back. This adult s*** is killing me!
@niellalien
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I wish I could raise myself
@kit-cat.
2 жыл бұрын
omg the vid was published today but u posted that 3 months ago how ???
@finn3448
2 жыл бұрын
Dude you can already time travel (I'm just kidding around, I know exactly what you mean XD )
@winston-churchill
2 жыл бұрын
Coming from someone who is older then he cares to admit - I hope those of you who are in the early stages of life, understand exactly how much of a blessing this channel is. I will probably wrestle with issues for the remainder of my life...but I am happy for those coming along behind to have such wonderful insights set before them - do not take what you heard in this video lightly... here is light among the shadows.
@AndrewLemmings
2 жыл бұрын
Still working on these issues. My father always said he loved me unconditionally but never showed it and was never really there for me, he’d drop me off at my grandparents for long periods of time and my emotions were irrelevant because he “always has it worse”. Very abusive and manipulative and absent a lot as well. Especially if a woman was involved. My mom was in my life till I was 9, then didn’t get to see her again till I was in 18, she let me drink and do any drug I wanted. At first I thought she just felt sorry for me but as I finally was forced by the courts to get clean or face 5 years in prison for possession, I slowly started to gain a sober mind back. And I started to realize that she didn’t want me and didn’t really care as she never called or texted to check on me, I always had to get in contact with her first which was always a challenge. Point is, I still struggle, I live across the country now. Trying to find myself. I’ve realized I wasn’t meant to be where I was as it always brought me down. I personally feel as though my parents didn’t love me because they don’t love each other, have strong hatred toward one another and I remind them of one another. I was brought up in an amazing household until their divorce, then that’s when my mom left and my dad started being the way he was toward me. Still is. I refuse to have any contact with him to this day because every time I give in, he promises to change but doesn’t even try and just goes back to treating me the same way. I don’t know, just felt like someone needed to read this to know they aren’t alone. We all struggle and have issues. It’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to need help.
@FutureFendiFsnista
2 жыл бұрын
Felt this deep in my soul... 😔 I'm so sorry for all the pain that you have gone through. It's not easy navigating a world where the parental love we are supposed to have doesn't exist. I sincerely hope that you meet/have met good people who love and appreciate you for YOU. Keep going and don't EVER give up no matter how hard things get! Wishing you all the peace and happiness in the world and beyond 💗
@NightMystique13
2 жыл бұрын
So sorry that you had few supports.
@dawnstonerock4253
2 жыл бұрын
I have read it and I am so glad you were able to change in adulthood. You didn't deserve that and you don't have to repeat it. You can live as successfully and as happy as you chose. I wish you all the beauty in life going forward!
@douglasbullet6456
2 жыл бұрын
Jesus loves you and he's waiting for you with open arms ❤️
@grassee4283
2 жыл бұрын
I hope you can feel better now :) have a good day.
@SteamMole
2 жыл бұрын
These hit close, despite not having issues with my parents. Other kids can be cruel as well and without support from parents/guardians/teachers in facing your problems can also damage your inner child
@iplaywolfquestandroblox1699
Жыл бұрын
Yep
@N0N4M30
Жыл бұрын
These other kids are probably being abused in some kind of way either at home or from someone else so instead of pointing fingers maybe try to understand where it’s coming from
@monicagonzalez4977
2 жыл бұрын
“Its ok to have feelings and express them” I was always scared to speak my mind to not hurt others even when they were in the wrong… I am sooooo glad I found my voice!♥️
@mixedvibes7
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@thecelesteial5918
2 жыл бұрын
Hey I have the exact opposite thing
@mixedvibes7
2 жыл бұрын
@@thecelesteial5918 i didn't get it
@thecelesteial5918
2 жыл бұрын
@@mixedvibes7 I have no care whatsoever who I hurt
@mixedvibes7
2 жыл бұрын
@@thecelesteial5918 well that kinda sounds rude but i also had that thing brfore.
@elliaurora825
2 жыл бұрын
When you've been through a lot of trauma from a very young age & don't know how to control or understand your emotions you just try & deal with them, then when your older & you hear about what your emotions were doing etc even the things I didn't know were connected like when you said about moving home a lot, Never got told I love you & how you don't think that would have such an impact on your emotions but it does, thank you for explaining everything in terms everyone can understand, keep up the Amazing work your doing. X😎🐘
@SpiritArtLife
Жыл бұрын
It's not your fault when somebody is in a bad mood. This hit hard in more ways than one.
@highliving-animatedvideos5831
2 жыл бұрын
*5 things your inner child needs to hear right now* 0:49 - It’s ok to have feelings and to express them 1:38 - You are safe 2:29 - It’s not your fault when people are in a bad mood 3:22 - I hear you, and I see you 4:05 - I love you Much love ❤️🚀🌙
@fuarkk3611
2 жыл бұрын
time traveler
@theowlhouseseason3213
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you but what the heck how did you comment this 3 months ago
@orange_tangie216
2 жыл бұрын
Why is this 6 months ago :D
@macbusch9372
2 жыл бұрын
Inner child is an important topic to care for, Thanks for bringing this up for me & others Psy Group. This is a major problem I’ve been having and I think I’m coming out of despair, part thanks to y’all of course. Love your videos.🖤
@jarryj1995
2 жыл бұрын
With all the knowledge I've gained about my personality and my upbringing I'm slowly starting the process of loving myself. It's very hard when your brought up on shaky foundation but you can be the one to set a new standard for yourself and your future. TY PSYCH2GO for Being the Reassurance I needed; You guys are awesome! NEVER STOP EDUCATING & ENLIGHTENING PEOPLE!
@dark_regent2151
2 жыл бұрын
That's nice
@SphereofCygnus
2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!! Best wishes on your journey of self-love! ❤✨
@jarryj1995
2 жыл бұрын
@@SphereofCygnus TY!! And same to you if you not there already! 😊
@SphereofCygnus
2 жыл бұрын
@@jarryj1995 Aw thank you! 🙏 I'm working on it! ❤
@wanderingpaladin4927
2 жыл бұрын
crysis core indeed...I cried so hard at that game goddammit
@agent-0
2 жыл бұрын
The first one is quite interesting for me...I've always thought that emotions were a sign of weakness and a possible weak point to abuse. And now I'm here,trying to open to others to heal myself (kinda) but still with all my defenses up. This duality is quite tearing me apart
@Artsu1993
2 жыл бұрын
I'm Proud of you. Good luck!
@wanderingpaladin4927
2 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same thing. I tried to have a relationship but it didn't work partly due to this, but I'm going to a psychologist soon and possibly getting therapy. That would probably benefit you, too. And if that's inaccessible to you, then stay strong, keep the faith. I know how hard it is. I had to tell a teacher at my school about my PTSD who called my dad to convince him that I needed help. Please, never give up on yourself. You are worthy and you are loved. You will smile again one day.
@agent-0
2 жыл бұрын
@@wanderingpaladin4927 meh,tried many psychologists,didn't work
@janetbellini8065
2 жыл бұрын
This is so true and everything you say is what I went through. Still experiencing it as my mother is 98 and still continuing the same thing. It's hard to continue life and was never told I love you. Raised by a mean manipulative mother. Still going strong.
@dawnstonerock4253
2 жыл бұрын
Be the difference in your family's life!
@samolsen92
2 жыл бұрын
Screw that broad, I have an emotionally manipulative mother as well who has only ever offered conditional love. Take my advice, you never needed her and you never will.
@lizzielonglegs1980
2 ай бұрын
Try and look up more ways to heal your own inner child you can be the parent that you always wanted to the younger you this can also be done in therapy ❤
@cluster7505
2 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear #1. I’ve always felt in survival mode. My mother always scolds me for expressing any honest emotions which led me to shut them down. I learned to abhor crying and feel ashamed. Thanks to this video, I have found that writing is my safe place. It’s where I can express, cry, get angry, without feeling ashamed.
@hallohi2414
2 жыл бұрын
*tears up a bit * your amazing keep doing what you love, and mauby eventually you can express your self in the real world again... *anxious sigh * *relive * :) post
@ives3572
2 жыл бұрын
"Unhappy is he to whom the memories of childhood bring only fear and sadness." - H.P. Lovecraft
@teresafonseca6806
2 жыл бұрын
My childhood wasn't easy, so I don't like to talk about it. However I recognize that perhaps the lack of communication was an issue. It still is. I used to express myself through art, but now I don't have the motivation or what's necessary to do it. So I just write to myself once in a while.
@rachelanne2968
Жыл бұрын
Do you believe in God ?
@kakarikokage2514
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I can definitely relate to some of these. Especially the expression of feelings and lack of love for myself. I still bottle up my emotions and put my needs on the back burner. I also find it very difficult to love myself.
@widowkeeper4739
2 жыл бұрын
3 times a week?! Wow, you are a powerhouse in putting in that hard work! I feel you so hard on all of this having been through it myself over the years. It's basically manifesting an experiance you've never had before in life, and that's HARD. I know it's difficult to feel that love for yourself yet, but you're doing a brilliant job at showing it to yourself. Practice WILL eventually create the result of you feeling healed finally one day. I don't know you, but I'm proud as hell of you!
@lonewolfnergiganos4000
2 жыл бұрын
Psych2go: it's okay to have feelings, and to express them Toxic parents: *we say otherwise*
@kyuubinaruto17
2 жыл бұрын
I learned to use the silent treatment in arguments. Not because of a desire to hurt, but because I realized that speaking was pointless and only made them come back harder and made me feel worse than when I started. So I just wouldn't respond until they gave up. Now I just don't get into arguments to start with. Being honest is pointless.
@roseofsharon11
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wonderful message… in just a few minutes so much was covered in such a gentle, loving fashion. This one spoke to me as if it were written just for me….
@bees9834
2 жыл бұрын
Still going through a lot of discovery within myself at the moment... this sort of content Is really what I need to hear. Thank you 😊
@kagebybee4117
2 жыл бұрын
Being an age regressor, this video really helped me and my Little so much. This video and topic means so much to me and I’m so happy you’re bringing this to light
@rose.florish
2 жыл бұрын
Me to! 🌱
@moniquem783
Жыл бұрын
I’ve stopped regressing because, well a lot of things, but I found I was going to an age where a whole lot of traumatic stuff happened, and I wasn’t coping with it all and got too needy etc. Since I’ve stopped, I’ve been watching all sorts of videos on relationship styles and abandonment issues and a whole lot of other topics, but any time one has mentioned inner child I’ve scoffed and found something else to watch. Until today. Today I watched one and cried. I have a question though. Do you find that the age that you regress to naturally is the age of the inner child that needs healing, or is that just a coincidence with me? I’m aware of other things that happened when I was a baby but I’m not sure whether to start with that or the older stuff. Also, do you find it’s helpful to your overall healing when you regress or does it stir up stuff that you might not actually be ready to deal with? I’ve been afraid to try it again after such an intense experience, but I am still drawn to it.
@kagebybee4117
Жыл бұрын
I’ve found for me that sometimes regressing is revisiting the difficult situations in my life while viewing it through my child’s eyes helps me gain a new perspective of my younger self, and that’s helped me gain empathy for myself today. Feeling and embracing the mental state of my Little is a somewhat peaceful and healthy coping mechanism for me. I only regress when I know I’m safe, and nothing can jolt me out of my experience. When I’ve had traumatic or stressful experiences throughout the day, it helps me to review the situations through my child’s eye. It helps me notice things or think of things I might not have before. Regressing helps me unwind in a way that doesn’t harm myself or others around me. At first it can sometimes be a scary experience to be as vulnerable as you were when you were younger, so maybe start imaging yourself you’re talking to your inner child, or giving them a hug or telling them it’ll be alright.
@moniquem783
Жыл бұрын
@@kagebybee4117 that’s very interesting. Thank you. I don’t think I got beyond the scary part lol. At the time I thought I was with someone who would keep me safe but as time went on I realised I wasn’t safe with him. So I stopped. Maybe I’ll try it on my own at some point. I really hadn’t considered that as an option. Thank you. I hope you have a wonderful week 😘
@lizzielonglegs1980
2 ай бұрын
@@moniquem783you may be able to address all the trauma from different ages of your inner child ask what age are you that needs healing and see if you can see the age like an image of yourself it could change depending on different ages of trauma you went through x
@B4rkiin
2 жыл бұрын
Is it weird to say that I've never heard an "I love you" in my entire life?
@musselchee9560
2 жыл бұрын
My parents never said it me, it is weird but that weirdness belongs to them. They're dead now, it was their loss they never met the real me.
@merediththomas501
2 жыл бұрын
This was a good one. My inner child got ran over by a truck causing me to accept abuse later in life. I cry every time I have to leave the house, but I know God will heal me.
@Lovesgonnagetyoukilledxx
2 жыл бұрын
'gods gonna heal you'? If I'm being honest I'm just gonna say God will not help you can only help yourself and if you just think you can keep the same behavior and actions and gods just going to heal you it won't work I tried for 3 years and they/he/she didn't do anything for my whole life and I accepted abuse and things like that because I thought that God would come along and help. He never did.
@ulcutie8852
2 жыл бұрын
Dear God help those who help themselves
@nana8135
8 ай бұрын
❤❤
@lenegelbe-hauen9009
2 жыл бұрын
I went through all of those things as a child, except moving. Today I'm diagnosed with BPD and in therapy. It helps but it's so rough to unlearn all these unhealthy behavior patterns and thoughts. I think people don't realize that the things they do or say to their children can affect them in so many ways and eventually can cause issues with their mental health in the long term :(
@AuRoaraAnimations
2 жыл бұрын
you guys are almost at 9 million! thats so awesome!! 👏
@thedarkechoes1236
2 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about ocd and how it makes you feel about yourself and what other problems it can cause btw love your videos❤️❤️❤️❤️
@somberri276
2 жыл бұрын
I usually don't comment a lot on these videos, mostly because I feel scared that I might not be validated somehow, but this video really came at the right time. It had been a while since I started to feel that something was still wrong in my life, something that I haven't completed solved. It turned out it was still my inner child, struggling to live on others' and even my own expectations. I shouldn't be so hard on myself, which is something I'm still trying to do. But besides all of that, I truly thank you Psych2go for these videos, they really truly helped me a lot during these tough days.
@HopefulTribe
2 жыл бұрын
You guys rock! Healing my inner child made me whole again and it all begins with a conversation.
@ashleyblandon6620
2 жыл бұрын
What did you do to heal your inner child?
@karolcat
2 жыл бұрын
When you start to remind these things, it actually hurts to remember them, but I hope this is part of the healing, working through these emotions that I couldn't work on when I was a child.
@drinasun6984
2 жыл бұрын
My inner child has healed since, but thank you, though!
@NathalieLazo
2 жыл бұрын
The more we work on our own selves, the more our circumstances and overall lives change. The more we grow and invest into ourselves, the more we will see a transformation, especially how we better communicate with others. You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, and your future! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️
@MarcusAsenlund
5 ай бұрын
I don't think anyone has said "I love you" when ever i could have heard them but i still had a good childhood.
@ahmedawadh7905
2 жыл бұрын
These are the little pieces that put us together 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@noiZtheartist
2 жыл бұрын
I relate to 1,3, and 4 as someone who's suffered years of emotional abuse domestically it's really hard to develop a healthy understanding of who you are and what is actually your fault...
@ririzamel285
2 жыл бұрын
Hoping for you and everyones healing. You CAN still get wound as an Adult.
@noiZtheartist
2 жыл бұрын
@@ririzamel285 Thanks What do you mean by "you can still get wound as an adult"?
@aaaaahhhhhhhh8425
2 жыл бұрын
"It's ok to have feelings and to express them" Me And my inner child: I'm just going to pretend I didn't see that
@klinikzzz
Жыл бұрын
Red Sun Red Sun over paradise Red Sun Red Sun over paradise Golden rays of the glorious sunshine Sending down such a blood-red light Now the animals slowly retreat to the shadows Out of sight Arid winds blow across the mountains Giving flight to the birds of prey In the distance machines come to transform Eden Day by day Only love is with us now Something warm and pure Find the peace within ourselves No need for a cure When the wind is slow and the fire's hot The vulture waits to see what rots Oh how pretty, all this scenery This is nature's sacrifice When the echoes boom with a brisk attack The reptile's tail ripped from its back When the sun sets We will not forget the Red Sun over paradise
@proghostzgamecreed6555
Жыл бұрын
Like I said, kids are cruel, Jack. And I love minors.
@daveh013
2 жыл бұрын
This is a very hard hitting topic You know, somethings will haunt you. But those haunts .... They're another experience and your life is yours so, for myself, the best hurt to the haunts is living in spite of them and being the person those horrors never wanted you to be. Love yourself and share that accordingly
@ScarBrosBlackSmokeScarBrosBlac
2 жыл бұрын
Kid me: *About to cry or is crying* Society: Boys don't cry Me now: *Tears start welling up or speaks in a shaky voice while tries to express feelings, ready to break in tears* Society: You call yourself a man and you cry... Weak Welp, yikes... Mostly my family gave me the good things as a child..... Oh boi, me and my inner child are going for a ride xD
@theladyamalthea
2 жыл бұрын
I am almost 40, and have just learned about CEN in the last year. It has had a profound effect on my marriage and other relationships! Thank you for spreading awareness, Psych2Go! ❤️
@tea-chip-cookies
Жыл бұрын
I'm 34 and was treated terribly as a child through to a young adult. I never got to have birthday parties and as silly as it sounds, wish to buy myself a chocolate birthday cake and blow out the candles in my room. I don't know how I will feel afterwards though.
@lizzielonglegs1980
2 ай бұрын
Last two days I have felt so vulnerable learning about my inner child but now I am starting to understand how to help myself after the trauma of being adopted it’s a fascinating way to heal yourself x
@proghostzgamecreed6555
Жыл бұрын
Like I said, kids are cruel, Jack. And I'm very in touch with my inner child.
@spicyrice3307
2 жыл бұрын
I was a jerk when I was a kid, that’s probably why I’m so quiet, I’m trying to not be a jerk so I keep my mouth shut
@Yukon_83
2 жыл бұрын
My mom didn't believe in expression and feelings she was always angry about everything As a child I once was I always teaching myself self love and happiness and safe And happy I didn't like moving as I got older because they made me uncomfortable and scared as a kid for the unknown
@BeautyisHerName692
2 жыл бұрын
I come from a family where everyone is afraid to be vulnerable. I was told I was loved but didn’t feel it. It wasn’t said often. My mom guilt trips me , and isn’t enthusiastic on my dreams or concerned about my emotions. Tells me to seek therapy which I have but still do not help me to stay positive. But she has a wounded inner child too even tho she fails to admit it , conditioned to her mothers toxicity. I wasn’t taught to express my feelings so I bottled them up because we were always taught children were to be seen and not heard. Or it was being disrespectful. Or they’re from another generation so - they couldn’t say this or that .. and I saw why they were messed up. Instead of teaching me and the rest of us better , they followed suit the things that tore them apart as children. I don’t feel completely safe with expressing to my mom cause she shuts me down. Therapy has been the only way. But I wish I could find also other additional people to talk too. I don’t even think my friends take me serious. This video was good to know.
@shadeglyph
2 жыл бұрын
wow, this actually made me cry. my inner child was very hurt and still is a bit. in therapy to try and help us be happier in our skin. thank you.
@afrancis7475
2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this, thank you so much ❤️
@blaney1014
2 жыл бұрын
I cheated on a girl I didn’t even like. I don’t deserve happiness in that way. Not anymore
@neofulcrum5013
2 жыл бұрын
If I can go back in time to tell my kid self that things are gonna get tough but they’re loved and unique, I would.
@usernamesmeannothing
2 жыл бұрын
I have a feeling that when I was a child, I had some kind of anxiety. When I got anxious, I took it out on myself. Because I didn’t know what was happening when I got shout-y for no reason and I didn’t have a bone in my body to harm someone else (and I still don’t). This behavior made me hate myself throughout secondary school. I still do. But, I’m working on it, not sure if self-deprecating humour helps but if I do it very inconsistently, I’ll be alright. This video rocks. Thanks guys.
@delulury
2 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: idk man but at least you read this :) have a great day :D 😗✨✨
@alexissoria5414
Жыл бұрын
as a kid.. i used to think that crying was a girly thing so i tried to avoid it.. I regret doing it with all my soul
@sillylilprogram
2 жыл бұрын
I haven't watched your videos for days-
@Somethingidunno3
2 жыл бұрын
Why did I feel like I was having a panic attack and started crying
@ririzamel285
2 жыл бұрын
Hi, i really love this video but i feel like i want to share my opinion regarding this matter. The 7 signs of an inner wounded child you mentioned above are also the exact signs of someone who suffered from the narcissistic abused.
@Hudaaaldin2047
2 жыл бұрын
Lol why is this so relatable?? 😂🤣😭🤣😴
@myjapanesetyler1cantbethis542
2 жыл бұрын
I just realised that one of my close friends need these words so much
@Zippy_Diffy216
2 жыл бұрын
The 1st one was definitely me, I never knew why I hid my emotions, but I think it was because whenever I would cry during school I would get laughed at. So I’m pretty sure I had some sort of anxiety as a kid, and still do
@amybentley793
2 жыл бұрын
Very helpful!!! Thank you 😊
@shaneculbertson4055
2 жыл бұрын
Insomniac studios help them out!!
@PedroHCF37
2 жыл бұрын
We need pedagogues more than ever in today's word.
@Krostovik
2 жыл бұрын
I experienced a lot of these traumas as a child, parents never encouraged healthy communication, and that caused me to be afraid to speak up, instead my mother expected me to be quiet and obedient, not talk out of turn and bs like that, now as an adult, that I can express myself freely She expects me to be more talkative w her but she forgets she never let me so why should I now?
@katelynwillemsen5272
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video Psych2Go! This is a wonderful video and I really love this kind of video. Thank you!
@Esoteric.cem020
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve got an unhealthy addiction since I was 11 years old and now I’m 23 and in two months I’ll be 24. Since the last six months I’ve been trying to get rid of this addiction and It’s been really hard. I started the addiction when I was a child and I believe that I really need to heal my inner child so I won’t relapse again. Good luck with the healing journey everyone! 🍀
@OneBlessedYoungLady
Жыл бұрын
Hope you were able to overcome those strongholds but if those troubles are still there please don't give up. I believe in you. God is our strength and refuge. Either way, I am praying for you. Love always🙏🏼💙
@simplicityd8703
2 жыл бұрын
3:22 MY INNERCHILD IS FREAKING OUT NOW Jokes aside I love this channel
@dr.wallacebreen3859
2 жыл бұрын
"Like I said Jack, kids are cruel, and I'm very in touch with my inner child."
@aracturus6220
2 жыл бұрын
gigachad comment
@ariadgaia5932
2 жыл бұрын
TTvTT.... Thank you.... Liked, Shared, AND Saved in my Powerful! playlist~ I will be replaying this often.
@ender_slayer3
2 жыл бұрын
I still feel invisible, I feel hollow and alone. No one, especially a child, should have to watch someone they love die in their arms
@FutureFendiFsnista
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry...that sounds awful 😔
@71bagarn
2 жыл бұрын
I feel some of these so much , especially number 3. Also, "I love you" thinking back to my childhood, I dont really feel like I wasnt loved, but I also cant really remember that love being expressed. In the sense of love now I mean like a motherly or brotherly love. I have only ever felt love towards anyone else in the past few years. This love I'm not really sure what to think of either. Going by what I feel only, it was surely the strongest love I have ever felt toward someone not in family or so. At the same time this love interest told me on more than one occasion that it wasnt love, only a crush, which I have a hard time disputing. I can only go by what I feel and if it wasnt love, i'm not sure how to know that. Anyhow I have just started seeing a new psychologist, intent being to finally get a "real" diagnose. I have long felt that I wanted to see if I have ADD/ADHD but am always met by "Its very hard to diagnose at your age" . I have been met with this response over more or less the past 12 years. Noone wanting to go further than , "its hard now" and "you'll be fine". Now in the past few weeks since getting my new contacts finally I feel a bit of hope again and instead of "its hard" or "its expensive" I am now getting, "its hard but not impossible" and my company is paying the bill so no worries there , for now. (also, if anyone had listened to me when I initially asked to be tested, I would have had both parents alive. Now both are gone, dad about a year ago and mom a few years before. Sooo. Is it A. Easier now or B. Harder now? I try not to dwell on it but for sure it would have been easier to do SOMETHING while my parents were alive right. Finally feeling like someone listens/reacts, EVEN if it in the end turns out to be too hard to diagnose, I will atleast have that. Now I am just thinking i'm worthless and have more or less lost the fight. No strength to go on fighting, and in a way thinking "well sure I can fight, but whats the point?". Well, right now , I feel like I have gotten a boost to keep fighting. Also listening to and watching your videos makes me feel, although maybe just a little but still, like there ARE things worth fighting for and It makes the things I need to do, like ask for help and talk things out, easier. So thank you guys SO much for helping people in situations like this and worse ofcourse. Love you guys. When I can, financially I want to become a member for a while to give SOMETHING back, but I cant right now.
@71bagarn
2 жыл бұрын
I never thought about just joining here on KZitem. I can manage the lowest tier here for now. Thank you guys so much!
@leathergander9659
2 жыл бұрын
"I hear you. And I see you" Sound familiar ....... ENCANTO ✨
@giostechnologygiovannyv.ri489
Жыл бұрын
Yuuup inner child 💚😊😄 2:24 self hug 😭😭😭 3:06 auch 4:00 awww me also me 😊
@appl3s0ft
2 жыл бұрын
Wow. I didn’t realize how much I needed this video. Between this and therapy, I’m really trying to dig myself out of this hole. Thank you so much, Psych2Go.
@matthewdeleon382
Жыл бұрын
Walking on egg shells around people leads to people pleaseing habits? I respectfully disagree. Walking on egg shells around people's feelings makes you HATE them with a COLD RESOLVE.
@FelicityRando
Жыл бұрын
so, i’m still young, and cannot cut ties with my parents (would, not with my ma, but with my dad), so i’m in the middle of when i’l receive trauma but i’ve decided that step by step to start to heal the inner child inside of me, hearing that an everybody no matter the age has an inner child makes me feel better about this fact because i am just leaving my childhood, yet i have the mentally of an adult, and i know to heal an inner child it takes a bit of time so i’m starting now.. i’ve decided to take things into my own hands, because my online parental figures can’t always help me, and people irl just tell me that he’s worried so i’ll start by myself with help by loved ones
@Jack_Woods
2 жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie, it's physically hard for me to articulate the words "I love you" especially directed at myself... they just feel like they don't belong in me or being said to me...
@jiprider95
2 жыл бұрын
My inner child says … thank you 🙏🏻 😊
@proghostzgamecreed6555
Жыл бұрын
And my inner child says "I'M F***ING INVINCIBLE".
@deebasarker9506
Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh! I have been crying through the whole video.Who is the one that's crying? Me?my inner child? We both? As an adult with crippling social anxiety and other mental issues, I don't know anymore
@c73o
2 жыл бұрын
omg #3 is so relatable
@feralwitch9846
Жыл бұрын
Shit. I've just recently realized and accepted that I have Little Space aka Age Regression. "Childish" things like stuffed animals, dolls, cartoons, children's shows, and certain foods have always comforted me, I realized I liked these cuz I wasn't able to actually enjoy them as a kid. My roommate has Little Space, and opened my eyes to what that means. This all came to a head by my mom sending me a large mushroom squishmallow. I started acting a lot more childlike, speaking in a higher pitch without realizing, making childlike expressions and gestures, etc. My roommate pointed it out to me and helped me realize that I mentally regressed to about 5-6 years old, the age where I started gaining awareness of how bad my life was. I've taken up a practice of meditating and "talking" to my inner child. Telling her things I needed to hear. It's not our fault. We did nothing wrong. We didn't deserve their neglect. They failed us, we didn't fail them. We survive. We heal. This video has pointed out some issues I have, why I have them, and a starting point for healing. Thank you. Please don't stop making these, they do help people.
@myheartandactionsareutterl9058
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for helping me get IN TOUCH with my INNER CHILD
@humannamedeverlyn
2 жыл бұрын
I definitely needed this. Ironic this video came up at this time, as I was just learning about my inner child.
@twocanteachenglish3981
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful video. I did the Inner Child workshop with The Inner Council, they were wonderful, check out their testimonials! :D
@ethandylann
2 жыл бұрын
Almost at 9M!!!✨✨
@LionerA.
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying that psych2go im felling better now I always thinking that "am i wanted?", "Who am I?" And i always feel lost, nowhere to go, being a puppet by someone, and falling
@thereadersvoice
8 ай бұрын
I was literally just thinking about this very thing not 10 minutes ago; I was never taught what I needed to know for adulthood as a child. Indeed, I was mocked, ridiculed, and humiliated by the very people I was supposed to be able to trust (family). As a result, I have fumbled my way through adulthood, making one mistake after another, never having a clear plan or defined goal, and still regularly insulted by those I grew up with (parents). This has frankly affected every aspect of my adult life; personally, professionally, financially, etc. I keep trying to do the best I can, with what I have, where I am, and even try to forgive, but sometimes it's almost like a curse that follows me everywhere I go; I often am still made to feel stupid, incompetent, worthless and unlovable. So, yes, the timing of this video couldn't be better; it doesn't solve the overriding issues, but it does help the mind and heart to hear. And, for anyone who reads this, if you are trying to make peace with your past self, please know that you really are not alone, that there are people who care about you, and that you are worthy of love and compassion.
@Jason_Maier
2 жыл бұрын
My inner child is wounded from years of overeating .... and not taking care of myself psychologically.
@herelizabethan
2 жыл бұрын
thank you! i love the style, video and va!
@Um6r3x
2 жыл бұрын
You guys have just one?😲 Can't remember anyone who said they love me. 🤷🏻♀️
@craigbrowning9448
2 жыл бұрын
As a kid I sort of felt like any frustration I had was considered "Toy"anger and not genuine. I was given a toy that was supposedly called a "Pound-A-Peg" where you tapped these little wooden wedges through a bench like structure with a little wooden hammer, and somehow that was the only expression of frustration I was allowed. One day I put that Son Of A Bitch into the Fireplace to really express how I was feeling.
@TR-lk4ik
5 ай бұрын
This is me..,always told to suck it up ..if I was sad or crying 😢…I’m going to be ok❤️
@JerryGLoveless
2 жыл бұрын
I consider it my personal responsibility to help anyone who's hurting. Bad moods included.
@ythatesfacts
2 жыл бұрын
I still have difficulty processing the past. Mainly my mom because the majority antagonist by silently in a soft barely audible non-authoritative voice to do the chores then quickly escalates to destructive loud authoritarian "do this now" and I do it often because I don't want to hear from her but it makes me not want to do that. Compare that with my father who very often says "would you be so kind as to (insert chore)" in a kind voice and I'm way more likely to do it. Some of the things that very much sting as an INFJ/INTJ was when I walked away mid-lecture when she was ridiculing me and my own mother said to me "how can you handle a marriage by behaving like that?" Honestly, I feel like moving across a few states but my father is the one who I want to be around. I'm highly skeptical of marrying someone even though I want to be in a relationship, I don't want to be ruined by catching the wrong fish who would turn out to bite my handoff.
@wolverineforce2068
Жыл бұрын
If you really tapped in within yourself with God and the universe. You probably understand where I'm coming from. I hear like the 4 years old version of me talking to me. I see kid version of me playing in like some golden light of bliss. Exploring and figuring how to fix my own remote control car and other toys I had or asking important questions. Those were the best days of my life and I'm 23 now. Those days are kinda of being recalled back to my memory. As if I have to find more fun in my mundane day to day life
@Nobody-oq5gl
2 жыл бұрын
#2 is something I really needed. I moved from house to house way to often and just now in my 20's I'm finally feeling more grounded.
@cursedalien
Жыл бұрын
My parents didn't sign up for a neurodivergent child. They were out of their depth. Other adults treated me like something to be feared when I had meltdowns/anxiety attacks/panic attacks. I felt like I had to be a people pleaser to "make up for" it.
@BTSARMY-nd8st
2 жыл бұрын
I remember song Inner child by BTS V 💜💜💜 He have also say the same that we should not change our innner child even we get older. 🥰💜💜💜
@Sora_Haragashi2003
2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. Thank you very much. My inner child has been wounded for years, and I couldn't figure out how to fix it. But things have been getting better now. :)
@jewlzn7130
2 жыл бұрын
Wu wei wisdom is a channel here on KZitem. They deal with inner child healing. You can also find books on trauma
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