I’m 58 with MS, $0 and no SSI. Will I make it? Well… I just got a job that pays $40K with a matching 401K, so there’s hope! Romain’s advice to stop seeing herself as her disability is exactly what she needs to do! When I got the courage, I did it, and she can too.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Wow ! Inspiring ❤️
@FreedomPlaya
6 ай бұрын
Congratulations!
@ragdollpreppers2648
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this hope ❤
@MidlifeMoneyMoves
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this!!
@kaythegardener
4 ай бұрын
Yes, I found out at 21 that I was a DES daughter & could develop female cancers at any time... so I got into a long-term study by a leading researcher to find out possible outcomes & the importance of monitoring checkups regularly. Then I went on with my life, weathering a divorce & raising 2 sons as a single mother. I found out that I had many challenges, but good friends would see me through it all!!
@nix7688
6 ай бұрын
Social media needs more people with morals like Romain
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I am tired of all those fakes ... and this one rubbed me the wrong way!
@sueblack5794
6 ай бұрын
Love how he has empathy for people and doesn't belittle them. Life happens and sometimes we can just bottom out. It can happen to everyone.
@aeromtb2468
5 ай бұрын
Romain is the good soul
@dorothyevans3864
Ай бұрын
I’ve only just learned they were fake! 😂
@NateLives
6 ай бұрын
Waking up suddenly without your vision sounds like a nightmare… my heart goes out to her.
@kateo.3815
6 ай бұрын
I think it would be very unwise for her to move abroad. She is already struggling to navigate a familiar system and does not seem especially savvy/street smart. Imagine her trying to navigate a new location, culture, and government system with no guidance or support. She would be an easy target for scammers. And what happens if she gets very ill? At least here the emergency rooms will still treat her if she can’t pay, even if the overall healthcare system is a mess. On top of that, she’d be isolated and might find herself unable to return home if she wanted to. She needs a case worker to help her take advantage of the financial resources and community support around her. Moving abroad is a great idea for some people in certain situations, but not for her. Wishing her the best - life is tough!
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
I thought that suggestion was to open her mind to possibilities and options. She was given simple steps to adjust her budget & get some earnings & savings & hasn't done a thing. Once she got the life experience of actually doing something, she would have a few savings and could look into somewhere closer, like Mexico. Instead of totally relying on the kindness and mercy of the US social support, health system and friends. I suspect she just came on the show to boost her profile, not to actually change anything at all in her life.
@pegah_on_the_road
2 ай бұрын
I also agree. It is a waaaay too big move for someone like her.
@user-ps7rr1no6n
6 ай бұрын
Some may say she's making excuses but I empathise greatly. Disabled - 51 - Not technology savvy, even for basic operations it's a huge ask. I'm really wishing Summer the best. She is in a really difficult spot.
@cassianaphillips3665
6 ай бұрын
also a difficult upbringing that makes her have low confidence and get lost in dreams - she needs therapy
@dirty-moto
6 ай бұрын
Disappointing at the end when in the follow up call, she admitted to not even taking the simplest steps. Could easily reduce the phone bill, take the monthly payment and use for pet insurance. I do not believe that any human of sound mind currently in their early 50s is unable to use the Internet, whether from a laptop, desktop, tablet, or the computer/telephone in their pocket. Those two tasks could also be completed over the phone.
@Dutch_Gonneke
6 ай бұрын
@@dirty-motoit seems to be a huge mental barrier. She had difficulty even following the conversation with Romain. Sad state of affairs.
@handsanitizer2457
6 ай бұрын
Theres tons of people who are even 40 who cant. Dont be suprised, most people arent tech savvy or even tech adequate. @@dirty-moto
@Crazybatladyx
6 ай бұрын
She doesn’t need credit. She will Never need to buy a home or car at this age and earning so little on disability. Her situation isn’t all that bleak if she can cut her bills and put money away each month for the next 15 years. So sad about her terminal Illness but I imagine if she goes off disability her insurance will cost a lot.
@Claudia-rl1kl
6 ай бұрын
I felt the exact same way when she explained the Tik Toc skit. I am hearing more and more about all these fake skits and setups played on Facebook and Instagram etc. which makes me think twice about all the doom scrolling I get sucked into. I am getting very close to removing most social media from my life except KZitem
@virginiawolf1708
6 ай бұрын
@Claudia-rl1kl Do it. I only have You Tube for about 3 years.
@sauter1
6 ай бұрын
Same here. Closed all social media accounts in 2021. Never looked back.
@ewidontlikeyou
6 ай бұрын
The worst ones are the animal videos..which makes me think these people are putting these animals in these distressing situations just to ''rescue'' them for views. Sickening. Humans are the absolute worst. We deserved the plague and covid.
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
I only use KZitem- for information and entertainment. I keep Facebook for checking on my large family - it's used as the main sharing tool. And i have email. Even then- i feel i time waste a bit!
@mmp495
6 ай бұрын
Same here. I’m tired of the bs.
@baileygrady
6 ай бұрын
Romain out here helping the world learn about finances one interview at a time 👏
@RexieLawrence-ru3id
6 ай бұрын
Summer is so child-like. Doesn't really have the tools to make things happen though I know her MS is probably really weighing heavily on her. Fortunately, there is treatment now that manages MS very well. I don't know if there is any more that can be said or done in her case. She has to really want this change. I know people who have gotten remote jobs without any experience with half the personality that she has. I think you were correct in identifying that she just seems to have given up. She may need some counseling. Getting diagnosed with a disease is life-altering. Hope the best for her. Again, a great interview Romain.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I appreciate the in-depth commentary and sharing your thoughts!
@EllieM_Travels
6 ай бұрын
I gave up when I was diagnosed. With the pain, the depression, anxiety and society feeling like a freight train running you over, it gets overwhelming! I started watching motivational videos though, peeled myself up and got hired at a call center. Sitting all day hurts but it’s better than becoming homeless. Thanks for your compassion. Not a lot of people out there who empathize.
@samanthathompson9812
6 ай бұрын
I'm the same age, permanently single, and with a chronic illness. I work full-time and she's right that it's tough when you don't know how you'll be from day to day. I have a lot of anxiety about screwing up or letting people down in work or due to health problems.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I am sorry to hear that Samantha. I am sure you have hobbies, think about how potentially you could monetize those, that could be a source of happiness 😊
@aprotista
6 ай бұрын
I really love Romain’s approach, even handed and compassionate. ❤
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I appreciate! Thank you :)
@woodywoowoo
6 ай бұрын
It says it all when she said ‘but if I move to Thailand my TV and Movie career will be over’ the dream was over decades ago.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Unfortunately Summer is still living in that dream, which is great! but shouldn't be her main priority for the next couple of decisions she will have to make!
@superflypheelign
6 ай бұрын
@@itsRomainFaure If you are sleeping in every day, you are not pursuing your dream. You are missing acting classes, auditions, etc.
@cynthialady8071
6 ай бұрын
She should go to China. They’ll hire her to attend parties, represent companies just based on her race no kidding. They just want a Western look if you catch my drift
@karavera
6 ай бұрын
Only young people can be actors? You sound a bit dumb.
@brightlight6113
2 ай бұрын
@@cynthialady8071Can you name a few companies?
@mmp495
6 ай бұрын
Summers abusive upbringing must have contributed to her lack of reality in planning for life goals but at some point people have to face them. This made me sad for her. Great job guiding her with compassion Romain. ❤
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for your loyal support, your comments have been very fun to read :)
@cassianaphillips3665
6 ай бұрын
People in the USA are lucky that they can go abroad and still receive disability payments - she could do her own tiktok channel about moving, settling living in Thailand and be the main character of her own movie
@superflypheelign
6 ай бұрын
Brilliant idea!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Hmm! I like that :)
@cassianaphillips3665
6 ай бұрын
@@itsRomainFaureRomain please make the suggestion, she can start her own SM sharing her journey even now. Turn it into a strenght.
@emileek4107
6 ай бұрын
I would definitely watch this!! I’m very interested in retiring overseas, and it would be SO COOL to follow her journey if she decided to do this
@susanwaweru2734
6 ай бұрын
You can take a donkey to the well but you cannot make it drink water! Old proverb
@laurengreen6820
6 ай бұрын
Romain, I felt the same emotion when she mentioned those videos are staged! Those videos seem so real..how sad
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I am still furious about it yes ...
@la6136
6 ай бұрын
Of course it is fake. People who are actually doing good deeds don't film it and put it on Tik Tok to be monetized.
@b.l.wilson9724
6 ай бұрын
Same
@EAAAA1505
6 ай бұрын
The importance of saving for the future. You never know what life is going to throw at you.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Spot on!
@sueblack5794
6 ай бұрын
Even if you save money, it only takes one event or maybe several in a row to make it disappear. It can happen to anyone.
@arh1234
6 ай бұрын
@@sueblack5794 Save for emergencies (3-6 mo of expenses), insure for catastrophes. Will cover you ~99% of the time
@bonnieupton4114
6 ай бұрын
Happened to me.😢
@anneest
6 ай бұрын
That was sad, poor Summer coming from a dysfunctional home with an abusive mother (as she states in the video), and never realised that it was the source of her low self motivation her whole life, waiting for things to happen and never having a real spark to take her destiny into her hands. Living with an abusive parent is very damaging mentally, and it lasts forever if one does not do some self recovery. She seems very sweet, and I agree with Romain that she would probably be a nice English teacher, working from home. I am not sure how she can take her life into her hands at this point though, but maybe Romain will be able to kick back some life and motivation in her. I hope so 💟
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I am hoping she is able to re-ignite the lost fire :(
@ginahammond
6 ай бұрын
Good answer! thank you for posting! gh
@char8691
6 ай бұрын
It is never too late.. whatever your age, never ever ever give up ... A better life starts now.... Celebrate even the tiniest win.... It is never too late to have a better life... NEVER GIVE UP ..
@superflypheelign
6 ай бұрын
@@itsRomainFaure I feel if someone fails to take action by the first follow-up, change is unlikely. Between the interview and first follow-up, the plan is fresh in your mind, you have an adrenaline boost and support. That fades over time, making change much harder.
@PinkInTheDiamonds
6 ай бұрын
She’s not understanding that people are thinking the charity skits are real. And then, they’re definitely ripping her off with amount they’re giving her.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
... no comment, yep :(
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
I don't think she's bothered - of course she knows and thinksit doesn'tmatter, that it inspires people. And it's the job that makes her a paid actor - her dream.
@Truth-fk3vp
6 ай бұрын
I don't think it matters if people think that the skits are real , thats their problem . People think the things they see on telly are real and they are fake . Like romance shows etc , its all fake . The Telly is full to the brim with lies . So who cares .
@islandhopper100
5 ай бұрын
Decision making is skill that eludes some people their entire life.
@shaisc8095
6 ай бұрын
As someone who lived in South east Asia, Europe and ME, I really liked how you opened her mind to moving, as a way of giving her hope and setting her up in a place that she'll be financially worry free, it was bold and mature, I would have done the same thing. Sure, she's very naive, she is responsible for her own situation but you could see she's a good person...
@wut2100
6 ай бұрын
You’re a really good person for helping her and being so patient. Props to you! Not everyone is considerate like this
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I appreciate your comment, I take every case as they come and I try my best to find a solution that would work for them!
@BunnyGirl71
6 ай бұрын
Romain, you did a wonderful job with this woman. I can only imagine how tough it is to find positive and constructive recommendations for someone who is over the age of 50, in such a terrible financial situation, and coping with a serious illness. I really do hope she is able to find the initiative to take your advice. She has an extremely sad future ahead of her if she doesn't make serious changes ASAP. Best of luck to her.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I must say ... this interview was difficult because I would try to reignite the flame in Summer
@tamikens
6 ай бұрын
Summer is a great example of what happens when someone chooses to let life happen to them. She has some genuine trauma and health issues that were out of her control, but to have spent decades always assuming life will just magically work out with little to no effort is a formula for failure. And to accept a defeatist attitude to excuse why you "can't" or "don't want to" do something only compounds on that. I think the most important skillset to have in adulthood is learning how to plan effectively, dust yourself off when things don't go how you want, and attacking the issue a different way rather than giving up. I am really rooting for her, but, at this point, whether she makes real progress is a matter of self-motivation. I genuinely hope that she is able to find that drive within her (probably through therapy intervention) because she deserves to live and be happy.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I think this is probably one of the best comment on this video! I very much agree with your assessment!
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
Well said. I'm 66 and have quite a few health challenges - yet am in tbe midst of organising a move - hopefully to another city that will suit me better. If I don't get on and do it, I could be stuck here compromising in a place I don't really like for the rest of my life.
@no.5810
6 ай бұрын
Harsh. Everyone is different.
@alicjap3482
6 ай бұрын
I understand Summer has MS but it doesn't seem she's going to take Romain's recommendations seriously. She hasn't changed her cell phone charges, she hasn't looked into a pet insurance, she hasn't looked for any other job... She said herself she used to fantasize and she's continuing to fantasize. I hope her dog will not require an expensive vet care in the future. The roommate shouldn't be paying for Summer's dog vet bills. It's time to wake up!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I hear your points
@kalani2228
6 ай бұрын
I just finished watching another creator's finance audit and watching your video was a nice change. You're so respectful and compassionate and you can tell that you really want to help. Thank you!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@LipglossAndLove12
6 ай бұрын
Does his name start with a C? If yes, I feel the same. This video was a nice change. We really do have to treat people with kindness and respect.
@MidlifeMoneyMoves
5 ай бұрын
@@LipglossAndLove12is the second initial H? Right here with yall!
@elell7971
6 ай бұрын
I think if she slims down her budget so she can save, gets on a housing waitlist (since she can still sporadically work), and picks up some hobbies/per diem work that bring her joy the future can still look bright for her. MS is no joke-- it's a devastating condition. Loved this epidosde and I'm wishing her all the best!
@amynau3904
6 ай бұрын
This one is so sad. I feel like there are problems and issues here we don't know about. I hope she will be okay.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Yes there must be more to the story!
@JoJo-ie8sl
6 ай бұрын
it's easy to be critical when we're on the outside looking in. You can be empathetic without enabling or making excuses for someone. I truly wish her well, it can get better. And her voice---was like I was iback in Upper East Side in my nana's brownstone
@Truth-fk3vp
6 ай бұрын
Im from Australia and I like the comment about her accent , but unfortunately I don't know what that accent is lol
@JoJo-ie8sl
6 ай бұрын
@@Truth-fk3vp New Yaaaahkk. Upper NYC
@JOESUBA122
3 ай бұрын
👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
@barbararios246
6 ай бұрын
This makes me so nervous but it definitely has woken me up. I own my house, have 301 k and 50 k in savings. This has truly woken me up for my savings
@jonheredia8789
6 ай бұрын
Roman....thank you for caring about this woman.... I wish her the best in life.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for trusting me with your time 😊
@mccolk
6 ай бұрын
I'm glad that Romain tried to challenge her to get out of her comfort zone. She thinks that she's unemployable without experience but she doesn't sound like she's made much of an effort (created a resume with relevant experience, applied to jobs teaching English). She seems sort of stuck in a victim mindset with black or white thinking. I hope she gets unstuck and starts to have hope for her life. She could increase her quality of life if she does make the changes Romain suggested.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Yep ... I am really hoping Summer can get back on her feet, I am working to help her out get some form of Certificate right now.
@soulovelee_2433
6 ай бұрын
Man, you're such a sweet soul! I love the way you also motivate the ppl and offer some life coaching. There's always something the viewer can take away for their own life.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Love to hear that! Thank you :)
@char8691
6 ай бұрын
She needs courage, confidence, family, love, friends and a big mindset shift. Im impressed she had it to go on your show. My heart goes out to her. It can be scary to take the plunge and get away from the familiar, even when the familiar doesnt work.. but l really hope she goes for it. Lolx
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Coming to the show took some efforts I can tell you :)
@Fayarin
6 ай бұрын
I hope Summer finds the courage to step out of her comfort zone. It seems like she could use a guidance couselor and a sense of community and friendship in her life!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I agree! Summer needs to want to truly live again!
@jjn6914
6 ай бұрын
I feel for Summer and I hope she didn't come on this show thinking this will be her acting career breakthrough. Romain, you gave her very easy, doable, practical advice. For her sake, I hope she wakes up one day to realize the change she wants in her life requires her to take the reigns and to exercise agency.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Only Summer can take action on her situation, I have been in contact with her every week since our recording!
@StaciaBielka
6 ай бұрын
This is an episode for everyone saying that we all have plenty of time to figure it out in life... Not always, no. Maybe have a reliable career before 40, so that when some crap happens you don't have to stock store shelves because you have no other skills and can't gain them now due to health condition. This has literally spiked up my anxiety more than ever since I'm unemployed right now, on purpose, while looking for a better job/career. But at least I have a good support system, I'm married to a very stable and supportive man.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Sometimes it is OK to take the time to make the right decision. I am confident you will make the right move :)
@nancyumass
6 ай бұрын
Summer could also benefit from connecting with a local social services to help get her cell phone cost lowered and connect her with job training for disabled.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Good point!
@terryhoffmann8652
6 ай бұрын
@@itsRomainFaure she is probably eligible for a free phone and plan from the government
@HappyCat1111
6 ай бұрын
I’m not sure if she will be able to make it on her own without help. She may have a cognitive disability and going to Thailand alone could be dire for her. My heart goes out to her and I hope she gets the support she needs.
@andreablackler9193
6 ай бұрын
This person needs a lot of support, like someone to walk her through step by step. Great show.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I have texted Summer EVERY WEEK since we had our interview, on top of that I even gave her the contact of Catherine (who previously came on the show).
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
She could reach out to a charity or ask her flatmate to help her as she is apparently not capable of making a call to her phone company even.
@cleansoapmind
6 ай бұрын
Nobody can help people like this. She never took any responsibility in her whole life.
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
@@cleansoapmind sometimes it's extreme anxiety or when someone has never done anything for themselves, which is why I suggested she get a buddy or support person. But you're quite right. Some people refuse to take responsibility or seek appropriate help and create their own problems and it's frustrating and hard/impossible to help.
@GTO20122012
6 ай бұрын
I always knew something was up with those videos about being kind to strangers were staged on Tik Tok, KZitem and Facebook. Even the ones where they are “rescuing” animals
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Animals too ... wow ... how far have we become!
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
Yes, i don't watch them anymore at all - i don't want to see fake stuff and the animal ones are horrible as they stress & hurt the animals.
@raeblair6166
6 ай бұрын
Make sure to give Romain a like! He's so knowledgeable and genuinely seems to want to help his guests. What a scary situation for Summer especially living in the US with limited assistance.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I appreciate your support :)
@scottwhitney9890
6 ай бұрын
Roman looked so pissed about the fake videos. Hahaha! Love him.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I am furious !
@asapasiafury4100
6 ай бұрын
Romain, Summer is hesitant to live outside of the united states since she's ill, her roomate provides some companionship and security. I know they speak English in Thailand, it will be a colture shock for Summer. Focus on potential work in the United States. Mint mobile will be a better option. Their are plenty of resources in her local town that can match her up with skills. Summer take advantage of the resources.
@joannewolfe5688
6 ай бұрын
Yes, Mint Mobile!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I think this is a very fair comment!
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
I think the Thailand option was to plsnt a seed that there are better alternatives out there financially. She wouldn't be going immediately. She needs to take action in the US first - call phone company, apply for jobs, enquire re pet insurance, save money...
@SoloSummitDiaries
Ай бұрын
Roman, I hope you read this. I just discovered your channel, and you provide real value to your guests. I’m coming from the Caleb Hammer channel and glad I discovered you. Caleb all he does is yell at his guests and gives zero advice or value. You actually, give people hope, and I appreciate it. Please keep it up.
@itsRomainFaure
Ай бұрын
@@SoloSummitDiaries good evening 😊 yes I read every single comment and I am very thankful that you gave me a chance! I am definitely coming from a different perspective than Caleb.
@iamnottheone3020
6 ай бұрын
Another INCREDIBLE episode. THANK YOU Romain for all of your incredible work on your journey to 100k followers. I believe you can do it🎯. Let’s goooooo❗️🙌🏾
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your loyal support!
@MidlifeMoneyMoves
5 ай бұрын
I can relate to Summer so much and I have to say again how much I appreciate how you operate with such respect and compassion. I felt it in my heart when you asked her why she had never put any money away. I am just like her in that way at 54. I just never did. It's not like I made the decision not to, but instead I just felt like since I wasn't "a money person" and was a creative person, that it just wouldn't be an option for me. Every now and then I would try, but I didn't have the skills to make any sustainable changes. So, the attempts would fail and I would just living in the moment and putting out whatever was the next financial fire. It has and is taking me a very long time to shift my thinking and improve my self esteem in a way that I continue to make better financial choices. I am so lucky that I am healthy and making a good income doing work that I love, but I am frankly terrified that something is going to happen before I get enough saved and invested to deal with health issues, emergencies, or not being able to work any more. All that is to say that people like us need support and clear, simple direction with dignity and respect. I can speak for myself that I already know my situation is not good, and it's quite difficult to release the shame around that. You are doing the right thing by meeting people where they are, being compassionately direct with them about their situation, and offering sustainable solutions. I just really love what you are doing here. Keep going!
@itsRomainFaure
5 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed reading your comment! I appreciate you trusting me with your time, please feel free to reach out to me directly as well at romainfaurechannel@gmail.com if you would like to chat :) Best to you, Romain
@MidlifeMoneyMoves
5 ай бұрын
@@itsRomainFaure I'll email you right now!
@sg137iu89
6 ай бұрын
I lol'd at the update at the end. Yeah, she ain't going to do it. But it seems like she is a survivor regardless. I don't know how those people make it, but somehow they do. Getting along with roommates seems to go a long way though.
@yanitzawilson1653
6 ай бұрын
I really hope the lady doesn't lose her second income for being so honest. 😅 I applaud her honesty, though. Moreover, I love his patience and the way he uses his words to avoid offending or hurting anyone.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I appreciate your comment! Thank you
@Amyreadingabook
6 ай бұрын
Romain you are such a bright voice! Keep on being passionate and meeting your guest on their level. So nice to listen to an adult conversation and not someone yelling an belittling their guest.
@monicautrilla5382
6 ай бұрын
I watched this video biting my nails every moment. Summer, expatriation is a great idea. There are very happy communities of Americans in Mexico and, from what Romain says, in Thailand as well. Romain, you are a super financial coach, knowledgeable and empathetic. This was a touching and hopeful interview. Thanks for your content. 🎆
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@Hufflestitcher87
4 ай бұрын
Plenty of friendly retired Aussies in Thailand. It's a common place for retirees to move if they want a lower cost of living.
@dreamdreams1718
6 ай бұрын
I'm really rooting for Summer! I know she can do this 🙌. Also, she's right that many ESL online teaching jobs require a bachelor's degree, I think there are some that don't, but most do.
@infantteacher1
6 ай бұрын
What a brilliant channel. You really listen to what people say and you speak slowly and clearly so your viewers can learn. £25,000 would be life changing for her and the sense of achievement would be awesome for her.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind comment :)
@JoJo-ie8sl
6 ай бұрын
probably worth mentioning since she disclosed that she's on ssi---you can't have more than 2k in savings or assets or you can be cut your benefits
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Good point however in the case of Summer we are working with SSDI (Social Security Disability) that doesn’t limit how much you can have in the bank.
@JoJo-ie8sl
6 ай бұрын
@@itsRomainFaure Then my apologies. I heard SSI
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
@@JoJo-ie8sl you are correct - we should have adjusted for SSDI 😊 but again you are raising a valid point
@JoJo-ie8sl
6 ай бұрын
throwing this out for people in her situation or has family in her situation- contact your state's dept of aging and disability services---they can help with job placement. (sometimes. Some employers get tax credit to hire older or disabled folks)
@nineteenfortyeight6762
6 ай бұрын
@@JoJo-ie8sl he said SSI and put it on the screen. I don't think he knows the difference
@Jacquie_Kirk_111
2 ай бұрын
Romain is the finest person online. You are respectful and smart.
@itsRomainFaure
2 ай бұрын
Cheers to you Jacquie!
@comingoutspinster-rebellik1479
6 ай бұрын
Romain is my new hero! This man is truly remarkable! What a positive breath of fresh air when the norm is such perpetually darker algorithm suggestions. What a sweet guest. And AMAZING suggestions!!!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for the very kind comment :) I appreciate you for being a loyal subscribers in the past two months!
@cathybawlf7282
6 ай бұрын
She is in a very tough spot. Well done for having the courage to look at her case and make recommendations. Summer, reach out to not-for-profits in your area with your disability. They can offer support. They also offer opportunities to volunteer, which gives you activity and purpose, at a pace which you can sustain. If you are very fortunate, it could lead to paid work in future.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Good points! Thank you for sharing!
@ameliethewlis4325
6 ай бұрын
I love that the options your provide are diverse and tailored. While moving abroad is unusual it’s a very valid option. You don’t just push out the same remedy to all issues you actually consider the possibilities and options, as well as the individual situation
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Spot on Amelie, I do cater my recommendations specifically to the individual and their situation, hoping for the highest probability of success :)
@frederickvalencia4976
6 ай бұрын
Great video. Real people. I hope the best for Summer. I feel she has giving up or a type of person who hopes on luck.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I hope so too
@anncromarty2590
6 ай бұрын
Wow what a great idea to suggest thailand. Even if she never goes, it may be a good mental stretch for her to consider it, in her quiet moments. It may be enough of a stretch that the idea of finding remote work seems so easy in comparison, and maybe she will be able to take that smaller step. I hope Summer can find her passion for life again. Losing your dreams is a hard thing to grieve. If she did community theatre for fun it may help her. It seems like the obstacle is hoping to "make it" as a famous actress. Just have fun acting and see where it goes.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Solid Comment! Great analysis !
@liisaking1247
6 ай бұрын
I agree with other comments that say there is likely more to Summer's situation than we're aware of, and that could be complicating her financial situation. In addition, there are a couple of important points. She said in the update (when she admitted to basically having done zero follow through on the plan that was presented to her) that she never went to college. As far as I'm aware, the companies in the US that use Americans to teach English to children abroad via Zoom all require that you have a minimum of a bachelor's degree. I think she probably could do customer service work of some type, however. Part of the problem is that it requires a fair amount of tenacity and skill to negotiate earning a part time income, while not undermining her disability income and other benefits. (It's also hard to accept that the government is going to claw back almost half of what you earn.) I feel like dealing with all of that requires a particular temperament, which may or may not be realistic to expect of Summer. As for moving out of the country, Summer is still clinging to the idea that she may have a career in acting, and is likely to resist such a move for at least another 10 years or more, until she either fully retires or her health declines further (as it tends to do erratically with MS, and at which point such a move may not be practical). I do commend you for your efforts Romain.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughtful analysis! Interesting read Lisa
@JohnJohnson-m1g
Ай бұрын
You should have a million subscribers Romain
@itsRomainFaure
Ай бұрын
I am hoping one day haha :)
@dragonofparadise
6 ай бұрын
Thailand would be a good choice for her actually. She could get a very nice place. It would be important for her to establish a social safety net with friends once there, which would be the hardest part.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Good point!
@mmp495
6 ай бұрын
That’s one of my dreams to live a few months in Thailand or the Philippians once I retire to learn about their culture, etc.
@sueblack5794
6 ай бұрын
I feel for this woman I really do. She has had a hard road and makes sense why she is just surviving. Hope she can find her way out.
@Gigi-rg7xy
6 ай бұрын
This hits so close to home. My grams also had MS. I am wishing Summer the best! She seems like a sweet and kind lady.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@Maya-ln1os
6 ай бұрын
She'd be a good SNL actor. She has old school SNL energy
@cvalentine4460
6 ай бұрын
I thought I was subscribed this whole time, but now I definetly am! I love so many details about this channel! From the empathy, to the assessments and advising, to the updates on how they’re doing. Summer you got this!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Lovely! Welcome on board 😊
@StephanieSiegman-uz5nk
6 ай бұрын
Love this episode. Very good advice for her, I really didn’t expect it but it’s brilliant. You’re so encouraging.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Love to hear that Stephanie!
@Woogzzzie
6 ай бұрын
Wow, found your channel today and your content is great! I see a lot of comments comparing you to Caleb but I don’t think that’s necessary since your styles are different. I really enjoy both! Keep doing your thing, I’ll be sticking around for a long time!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I love that! Welcome on-board :)
@mellowyellow403
6 ай бұрын
Bless her but she doesn’t have the ambition to want more for herself.
@midnightcat6116
6 ай бұрын
Do you have MS? It will wipe out anyone’s ambition even with a good social support and in a short amount of time.
@cleansoapmind
6 ай бұрын
She got MS at 40. Before that she also had no ambition or want more for herself.
@midnightcat6116
6 ай бұрын
Yes, but a healthy-bodied person working is not the same as someone who has MS. MS affects one’s mind and body to a degree that one doesn’t know if they will be able to get out of bed or what will work or what will not that day. It’s truly a disabling disease. She’s so cheery and happy sounding talking about it but it’s pretty serious.
@stevegorkowski3246
6 ай бұрын
The internet works on clicks and people will do anything to generate click money. Getting tricked into fake videos is something we all should avoid. If it's too good to be true, maybe it is. The thread I see in this video is she has no hobbies. This can give her a path to skills that can make more money. If for example she could knit and sell at a farmers market and online. This could lead to her running an online store and expanding it to sell more products. I wish her the best of luck. Her problems are bad but others with larger problems, have overcome their problems and enjoy life.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Good thoughts on HOBBIES!
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
Given she wants to be an actor and isn't motivated or confident enough to apply for a job, a volunteer position with customer service, admin or theatre could be a start.
@xiaohu22
6 ай бұрын
I completely agree with the other commenter about Summer trying out making travel vlog style tik toks while in Thailand. It's a beautiful country with a lot to do and she'd be getting out of the house and seeing and experiencing new things for her work. Even just showing her experience learning Thai would make for great videos. Rooting for her to find something that can get her excited about life again!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
This could be a motivating IDEA!
@lc6636
6 ай бұрын
@@itsRomainFaureShe will not have medical coverage.
@mmcmiddlechild
5 ай бұрын
Summer, you need to ACT like you have more confidence and energy than you currently display to the world. You’re acting like an extra in your own life, you need to find your main-character energy!
@asavannah7439
5 ай бұрын
Some people are highly motivated like you, Romain & some aren't. She isn't. Still good job in giving her ideas for her future,you tried your best. Well done
@JRInTroy
6 ай бұрын
Much respect for you Romain
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I appreciate - thank you Troy :)
@santafilipina9020
6 ай бұрын
Here's my plan for this lady: get thee to the public library. There are so many free online courses there where you can get certificates of completion (not to be confused with certification). I think she needs to start with foundational computer skills like Microsoft Office. The people at the library are great resource and will direct you to job boards and help you with resume and application. All the best.
@eileenhetherington3704
6 ай бұрын
Did you miss the part where her vision is impaired?
@santafilipina9020
6 ай бұрын
@@eileenhetherington3704 I believe they can help with that as well, at least that is true in San Francisco
@santafilipina9020
6 ай бұрын
@@eileenhetherington3704 No need to be sacastic. There's help for someone like her too.
@HayleyMyles-j6v
6 ай бұрын
I was thinking exactly the same… get some basic IT skills and listen to some motivational podcasts … get inspired…
@alcarlay
6 ай бұрын
asking her to move to a totally new country would be a big leap for her considering she hasn't mastered her own life in the USA but the idea is a good one..
@tshandy1
6 ай бұрын
Well done show. Best of luck building your subscribers!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you, we will continue to bring REAL stories and hopefully time will tell how far this show goes :)
@gdolly166
6 ай бұрын
God bless you. You gave her good advice with such great patience. Sad that she has potential but chooses not to apply herself.
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
She's happy with her life just as it is. Must've come on just for visibility.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I don't think she came for that elipotter to be honest with you
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
@@itsRomainFaure then I hope she gets it together and makes some effort. I know it can be hard when you're disabled and feeling a lack of confidence & know you're an unreliable employee - I've been there. And it can be hard to pull it together and get motivated. But I did take steps and pace myself and eventuallydo thehard stuff too.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
@@elipotter369 congratulations !!! 😊
@MARIONCunningham-b9b
6 ай бұрын
I feel having her on here is a little unfair. It appears that she has more problems than what is being said. My heart goes out to her.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
This whole interview is all of what was provided to me during our discussion
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
I feel with some of the people who come on here are doing it to publicise themselves- to just be on a video, not to change anything in their lives. Sadly, this one seems so.
@cherritown
6 ай бұрын
Just wanted to say there are a lot of people with MS living a relatively normal life, working and on long term medication without flares for long time. Partly it’s the mindset of being defined by one’s illness.
@nineteenfortyeight6762
6 ай бұрын
MS, like everything, varies in severity
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
@@nineteenfortyeight6762true. Yet in her case, her mindset seems to pre-date MS.
@deeh9563
6 ай бұрын
And I know people who are almost completely bedridden with MS - it really depends on the individual case
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
@@deeh9563 yes, I think it's progressive- so all the more important she does what she can now while she can to help herself.
@jumper9108
6 ай бұрын
Romain…. This was such a powerful episode brother…. Thank you for doing it
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you Jumper as always for your consistent support mate!
@Financial_CleanUp
6 ай бұрын
I absolutely love these trailers. Looking forward to watching!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you mate! :)
@7thlady
6 ай бұрын
On the videos, if they were actually giving her the $100 I would feel a little differently about it. The fact that she seems quite nice and really does need money, and they are pretending to be giving money to someone nice and needy, but then they are paying her less than they pretend to give her in the skit . . . that's just really bad.
@HeyShae
6 ай бұрын
Exactly! It’s like they wave it in front of her face, and are like “JK” we will take that back here’s some pocket change good luck
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
I am still furious about it!
@elipotter369
6 ай бұрын
It's so fake, it's even fake money! She sees it as an acting job which is the career she wants, but i would be hesitant to take part in something that was pretending to be a real show.
@nineteenfortyeight6762
6 ай бұрын
Cripes. I relate. Hang in there Summer.
@johnk.5274
6 ай бұрын
Summer has expected someone to take care of her. In her youth her father. Then the government. If she could not make the effort to make 2 phone calls to get a better rate or get pet insurance she is not making an effort. She can't blame the MS. Why in the world did she get on the show?? for exposure ? interesting
@juelettefadness7344
6 ай бұрын
I think you are being too hard on her. She obviously has limited intelligence and capabilities. Add to that a abusive childhood. She needs someone like senior services to walk her through her challenges or perhaps some kind of a conservatorship. It's not a matter of effort, she just has no clue where to even get started. I feel sorry for her.
@sopheaseng2921
6 ай бұрын
Very good suggestion Romain 👏👏I’m from Southeast Asia. It is very cheap to live there. She can spend only 200-300USD a month and eat fresh food everyday and also can eat out also. FYI, Phuket is expensive
@sopheaseng2921
6 ай бұрын
If she read this comment, she can save money and visit Thailand first before decided to stay there long term
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@JB-pe2yn
6 ай бұрын
Poor Summer has a lot more going on than MS and poor finances. Hoping her all the best!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
This video highlights all of the information that was provided to me during our discussion, I am confident that there could be more as well
@adriennecruz3843
6 ай бұрын
Bravo -- vos solutions proposées étaient très créatifs!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Merci bien Adrienne :)
@asavannah7439
5 ай бұрын
Very sad that she doesn't have anyone who cares about her. I'm so happy I have a big family ❤
@laviniaccioly
6 ай бұрын
With SSI, she can't live outside the U.S. Also, there's a limit on how much she can earn with extra income without having her benefits reduced and she can't have more than $2000 in her Bank account or total assets. It's a different story if she was on SSDI. They are different benefits.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Sorry for the confusion - in her case we are working with SSDI.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
She would be able to maintain benefits, with no limitations on savings
@laviniaccioly
6 ай бұрын
Oh okay! I thought she had SSI
@laviniaccioly
6 ай бұрын
I'm actually glad she has SSDI! Wish her the best!
@jasintamoore3372
6 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video!!! It’s very helpful.
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for trusting me with your time!
@H.A.L96
6 ай бұрын
This poor lady never felt real love is really sad to hear that she’s lonely.
@JulieHiltbrunner
6 ай бұрын
There’s no hope for movies. It’s very hard work that she can’t do. Being realistic is hard. I know it.
@vickyfaul3160
6 ай бұрын
She should live in Panama or Costa Rica, there is a lot of expats and people still do Tik Toks videos😊. I feel sad for her, i hope she gets motivation that she needs.
@fredfinger7092
5 ай бұрын
Regarding bringing the dog, most other countries require animals to remain in quarantine for some period, before being allowed into the country. Not that I think she should randomly move to Thailand or Mexico.
@morganstubie
5 ай бұрын
I appreciate this video, as I never knew clear minded, honest, people have no clue about finances.🤷🏻♀️ Blows my mind! Or don’t really care about finances…It explains a LOT about the United States… She’s probably surrounded her selves with like minded individuals. I hope that she makes new friends that are motivating, however I feel that she has a victim mentality. I think he should have suggested she go on Medicare to pay for medical and also, she could benefit from therapy. I feel she has loads of unresolved issues and limiting beliefs right now. My heart ❤️ goes out to her and those like her. I’m grateful to have learned and been humbled today🙏🏼
@itakenaps
6 ай бұрын
another enjoyable video as always!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for trusting me with your time!
@erikaalvarez5121
6 ай бұрын
Thanks Romain ,,I wish the best for the lady 💪
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you Erik for trusting me with your time!
@suen5006
6 ай бұрын
I don't think she could qualify for residency in Mexico, you need a substantial income now. She is misinformed about Section 8 housing, it varies greatly and isn't just in bad neighborhoods. He life is like that of a lot of my clients. I think she may need a more simple breakdown of tasks she needs to do for each goal. The hardest thing I see is that she doesn't feel well and seems depressed and hopeless about changing her situation. Section 8 housing waiting lists can take years in some places but it's definitely worth applying, and her disability could qualify her for a shorter wait. Thanks for your video!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, you are raising an interesting perspective!
@jenk2619
5 ай бұрын
I agree with you wholeheartedly, Romain, about those videos showing charitable actions. I had no idea they were staged. Despicable.
@itsRomainFaure
5 ай бұрын
It’s regrettable…
@arh1234
6 ай бұрын
A samoyed is a large luxury breed that she bought 5 years after her diagnosis. If she can't hold a job because she randomly has to skip work, she can't be in TV or movies. They require commitment.
@kristinshaw7497
6 ай бұрын
Summer is 'stuck' in her own mind. As others have pointed out, there is help out there. Volunteering at soup kitchens or a thrift store could gain work experience. If she does this acting, maybe she has acting skills she could pass on. Home schooling groups or private schools could maybe allow her to teach a course. And, like you pointed out, Romain, she speaks English! Being from Europe, I know what an asset that is, as you do as well. She could advertize her services on FB and go to a public place and help someone practice their English. She probably knows how to read as well. She could help a child or grown up practice their reading skills. Summer seems like a kind hearted person. She could get far with the things I just mentioned. Here is another idea. House/pet sitting can be lucrative. Maybe the room mate would be willing to take care of her dog a week end here and there. There are websites you can go to to sign up. She seems like a trust worthy person, something that would be very valuable in that respect. She doesn't think she has any skills, though. But, everything we know we learned somewhere along the way. Today the world is full of instructions, many of which are free to 'attend' on KZitem and other places. The public library is another resource that is free. Summer, pray that God will open your eyes to what you can do. See what happens. This episode does not have to be the end of your story! All the best to you!
@itsRomainFaure
6 ай бұрын
Inspiring comment filled with good ideas! Thank you for sharing!
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