1.) Don't be available for impromptu dates 2.) Dont be available for late night calls or texts 3.) Don't accept body shaming 4.) Don't accept ANY kind of abuse WHATSOEVER 5.) Don't accept disrespect of ANY kind 6.) Don't always be too available
@onyedikachiokocha4645
2 ай бұрын
I've slacked on 5 and 6, thank you for sharing.
@hereisTio
6 ай бұрын
Men know what they are doing!! All the time!! Don't make excuses for them
@ayanime_edem
6 ай бұрын
Exactly! They really do…
@LoveChukwukere
Ай бұрын
Very self-aware creatures😂.
@sholondaflynn6483
Ай бұрын
True indeed
@omopariolaestheroluwatoyin1032
18 күн бұрын
Since my friend brought it to my notice that i have broad shoulders, I haven't been able to be confident with my body anymore, I didn't even know until she told me that, no one ẹver told me, so now am working on loving my broad shoulders that I just discovered 😂😂
@kondwanibanda7819
11 күн бұрын
😂 I'm still making peace with mine. We've got this.
@ifeomaaaaaaaa
7 ай бұрын
It's how you honestly do not want us young girls/ladies to make mistakes in our relationship with Men. How you teach us how to be elegant, How to be successful and go for what we want without feeling guilty. You even tell us some things you went through just because you don't want us to go through such. We don't deserve you sis. Your kind is rare. God bless you🤍
@ayanime_edem
7 ай бұрын
I feel seen and understood! Thank you so much for this beautiful comment 🤍
@lenoramccall738
2 ай бұрын
❤
@lenoramccall738
2 ай бұрын
I am sooooo grateful and thankful for you, your teaching, your testimonies,... I have experienced most of these. This is helping me, mature in this area. THANK ❤️ YOU!
@cbsjovita
Ай бұрын
All your videos are top notch. The way and manner you speak so softly with your words and diction... is so amazing. I am indeed getting better! ❤
@AnitaObaweki
Ай бұрын
@@ayanime_edemplease I want to ask you somthing please🙏
@RocktoaGem
2 ай бұрын
I get that you don’t always wanna seem too available. But you don’t always wanna seem uninterested or unavailable that you’re too busy enough to respond then they will think you are not interested so you also have to be mindful of that. I get what she’s saying- Have a balance & be mindful
@cynthiajoseph4048
2 ай бұрын
Balance is Key
@stacyhamlet6015
Ай бұрын
I’m in my 40’s learning from this beautiful woman ❤Never too late to learn!
@kondwanibanda7819
11 күн бұрын
Facts. The truth tries to masquerade as a joke. Body shaming hurts. I'll never allow it.
@ijeomanwichi1242
Ай бұрын
Men intentionally push to disrespect you a lot,same thing they don't like.Ir is very important to set boundaries from the very onset and stick to it.Thank to you for sharing
@ijeomaogu5750
Ай бұрын
This vlog has taught me that there are seemingly "simple things" that shouldn't be taken for granted... Thank you. You gained a subscriber 🎉
@ayanime_edem
Ай бұрын
Wonderful! Glad to have you here 🎉
@neocharlenetau5506
7 күн бұрын
My boyfriend body shame me sometimes and he makes it look like his playing. Now we having a long distance because he wanted it that way. He disrespect me at when we talk on the phone. I am done, I want to be a new person. I want to be a high value women!
@nicoleken9644
2 ай бұрын
Like i said before and i will always say, am sticking her for life... Its so bad i have made so many mistakes in the past. God help me to forgive myself... Thank you sis i watch your videos and teachings every single day. Am grateful❤❤
@uglyblazer2096
6 күн бұрын
'As if his phone catches fire during the day'😂😂
@N2Witchin
Ай бұрын
I went and got Ruby Woo lipstick and Chestnut liner…literally the best advice that instantly upgraded my appearance.
@N2Witchin
Ай бұрын
I trust whatever you say now lol
@uglyblazer2096
6 күн бұрын
Love you makeup. Please do a tutorial. Don't know how to wear makeup, but I feel like yours is beautiful and simple to learn😊
@chituru8574
3 ай бұрын
I appreciate your videos and have been binge watching them. Thank you so much! I totally agree that sometimes setting a boundary isn’t about saying what you won’t accept, sometimes you communicate this by doing or not doing certain things. This comes across as softer, more feminine and more mature. And a person who isn’t okay with that would show themselves.
@lilianizunobi9322
Ай бұрын
I just joined your channel, and seriously i just love the way you teach! Your contents are absolutely the best!
@ayanime_edem
Ай бұрын
I'm glad to have you here! 💃🏽
@ninawestlake14
Ай бұрын
I love you, Ayanime. I'm manifesting friendships with ladies just like you. Thanks for all your hard work.
@chiziteluumeigbo
2 ай бұрын
I just came across your page and I’m already sold! This is amazing content
@shalomakaelu
6 ай бұрын
I really want to be a high value woman!😭
@ayanime_edem
6 ай бұрын
And you can… be intentional with your journey 😉🤍
@eminaemi7854
17 күн бұрын
You are so right! Thank you to be so honest. Many woman dont want to here this. ❤
@patriciakasenge9927
7 ай бұрын
love your content, they’re very informative ❤you call out real Situations in a classy way❤
@ayanime_edem
7 ай бұрын
I appreciate that and thank you for watching 🤍
@SylviaAputazie
5 ай бұрын
I really love your content❤ its so packed with wise nuggets. Every lady should watch this
@ayanime_edem
4 ай бұрын
Thank you! 🤍
@SuaveUC
7 ай бұрын
Gems 💎…as always!
@ayanime_edem
7 ай бұрын
I’m glad it was helpful… thank you for watching 🤍
@thetasha1081
5 күн бұрын
Thank you for these tips , its so helpful
@SunQueen-d7l
2 ай бұрын
🎉hurtn u is intentional, aka evil 😈 . saying something hurtful which proves he w/o a doubt he doesn't like u. He's only using u. Run 🏃♀️ for ur life. Bc m fiercely 💯% protect whom they care for.
@saje007
Ай бұрын
That last line! ❤
@OdunayoEhis
Ай бұрын
Exactly, hmmmm so true
@ijay_achinike
2 ай бұрын
I used to be very available...But thank God I've learnt better now.🙏🙏
@HelenSunday-xu9vi
10 күн бұрын
Men are very emotionally manipulative. I'm trying to learn that lately and set my boundaries. They can manipulate you and make you to always feel guilty, then get away with what they want from you. Please Ayanime, create a video and throw more light on this. I've been a victim of this but now the scales have fallen off my eyes. I'm setting my boundaries in this regard. And I noticed when you don't succumb to that emotional manipulation, they adjust. Men need to be studied to be able to handle them
@ndoloweh
2 ай бұрын
Gorgeous and eloquent lady.Did you by any chance act in a movie with Daniel Etim?
@ayanime_edem
2 ай бұрын
Hello beautiful, yes I did…
@GracyesGardenLLC
2 ай бұрын
Queen so glad ive found you're channel ive been binge watching you're videos thank you so much im elevating to my next level
@ayanime_edem
2 ай бұрын
Wonderful! I’m glad to have you here🤍
@Pokuaa165
28 күн бұрын
I’m new here and I love all the videos have watched so far 🤗 And oh , you are so beautiful also .
@Esty_K
2 ай бұрын
I’m stuck on this channel. Thank you dear for the education you are providing for us ❤❤❤❤.
@dootiefayetz
2 ай бұрын
This video was so insightful, thank you for empowering us women.
@hephzibahu.emereole2093
Ай бұрын
You are a start!!! Love love the content! Been stuck today and have watched many of your videos. Pls how do I get your course? When is the next wardrobe/fashion training course? Ty!
@ayanime_edem
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much! The current cohort is already open. Kindly find the link below: ayanimeedem.selar.co/page/StylingYourEssence
@ihediohablessing5958
7 ай бұрын
I was look forward to your videos 😊
@ayanime_edem
7 ай бұрын
Hope you enjoyed it! 🤍
@primrosekeoratile2400
Ай бұрын
Does a man that is controlling you emotionally abuse you In a way that he tells you not to talk to people and also to stop interacting with them
@joyakinyemi3816
8 күн бұрын
That's narcissistic behavior, please Walk away from any man that's trying to isolate you.
@marsham8902
3 ай бұрын
Your eye color is beautiful
@ayanime_edem
3 ай бұрын
Oh, thank you... they are brown contact lenses 🤍
@jaimerose1297
2 ай бұрын
I am too available. I have to work on that. I have plenty I can be working on and spend more time with my friends. Thanks for this video!
@cynthiajoseph4048
2 ай бұрын
I love your accent And your carriage You are worth following and listening
@ofoegbunancy3202
Ай бұрын
Thank you for that enlightenment
@viviantejada
2 ай бұрын
Excellent advice and very well explained. Thank you for this!
@ayanime_edem
2 ай бұрын
My pleasure 🤍
@temmywemambu9070
2 ай бұрын
I'm learning
@nicole-tm6fj
Ай бұрын
where are these beautiful earrings from? I neeeed these
@olotu_o3248
Ай бұрын
Hello, i will like your opinion on this pls. So im in a talking stage with someone for about two weeks now. He came to attend a wedding in a nearly city close to where i stay. Afterward he decided to come to my city, he stayed in a friends place we then hanged out. The question is, he has returned to his base. And would like to see me soon. And he is suggesting i come over to his city. And I don’t want to stay in his apartment. How can i make him stylishly realise that? Do i be upfront by telling him to book hotel for me? Pls kindly reply to this 🙏
@asha4189
Ай бұрын
I’d let him know you’d love to visit him and then send him the link to the hotel you’d like to stay in
@blessedchiamaka3483
2 ай бұрын
I stumbled on your channel and I really really love it Thank you
@edesiriokitikpi5134
Ай бұрын
Thank you ma
@GLGL-ug
3 ай бұрын
I will always watch ❤
@ayanime_edem
2 ай бұрын
Thank you... that means the world to me 🤍
@peaceekanem
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I learnt a something new
@nareigberaese5770
7 ай бұрын
Beautiful video
@ayanime_edem
7 ай бұрын
Thank you beautiful and thank you for watching 🤍
@HereNow-el5jf
2 ай бұрын
Ok. But please tell me what cooor rubber brands on your braces? They look so shiny. I never know what colors to get. I’ve don’t pink and brown. 😢
@ayanime_edem
Ай бұрын
It's black
@oliviagreen82
2 ай бұрын
I just love you 😍
@ayanime_edem
2 ай бұрын
Awww, I love you too
@n0426
2 ай бұрын
* he should book a date. 😂
@cynthiajoseph4048
2 ай бұрын
Yes. And you can make him do it nicely .
@n0426
2 ай бұрын
@@cynthiajoseph4048 can you give examples?
@user_abcxyzz
7 ай бұрын
Fix your audio
@ayanime_edem
7 ай бұрын
Will do…
@Purelonel
2 ай бұрын
Love you .bye
@AngelaHolmes-px7lx
6 күн бұрын
If you want a high value man, what you bringing to the table besides yourself.so if you have nothing,as a grown woman, you don't need nothing. There it is right there.
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