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@jupiter_scribbles
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@SomeSortOfBeingg
4 жыл бұрын
I'm not doing great, it's 6:05 am and I haven't slept. :( What about you ? How are you doing ?
@TheBeaniestBean8675
4 жыл бұрын
I’m learning here! Yay! Thxs Psych2Go!
@NoPlus500
4 жыл бұрын
Wish this was available to me 40 years ago
@keiron.4612
4 жыл бұрын
I subscribed to your new channel
@amnaimran6641
4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes self harm starts for one reason and continues for a million other
@thisisnormal8531
3 жыл бұрын
When I first cut myself I was happy and addicted that day and cut myself 9 times I threw away the blade for my friend tho
@manaspoojitha7575
3 жыл бұрын
So true I can relate so hard
@legendcanary3916
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like that's me
@Loona_Fan01
2 жыл бұрын
that's what has happened to me, I started for one now theres multiple. I'm not cutting to die, not even that deep, just for relief. if anyone is cutting to die, please talk to anyone. I will listen to you for hours, if you need that much time. Everyone is battling demons, some worse then others. Please talk if you need help, I'm willing to listen for as long as you need.
@basma.gogogo
2 жыл бұрын
I started because of some reasons, but now I also feel guilty for doing it and I feel like I've wasted my friends' trust (they told me not to do it), and that's a reason to keep injuring myself
@starflight777
4 жыл бұрын
Cutting is weird. It's a constant state of fear and relief at the same time. Fear of physical pain, relief from emotional pain.
@yamandacat4725
4 жыл бұрын
To me it feels like I'm having a cutting therapy.
@zoeejackson9516
4 жыл бұрын
For me it’s just the relief
@lonewolfsuzaku21
4 жыл бұрын
For me, it was kind of a release of the hurt i feel emotionally and in a way punishment for letting that situation affect me...
@rebeccaeverett8957
4 жыл бұрын
For me it’s just relief. I mainly do it out of anger, I don’t fear it whatsoever. I do it out of impulse and the anger takes over and take it out on myself.
@sleepygriffin6027
4 жыл бұрын
I used to feel no fear while cutting but now I feel a little fear bc a friend found out and they convinced me to stop, but later I started again in a different area of my body and I feel a little fear now because I stopped for so long
@lexieboo8318
Жыл бұрын
I’ve grown up being told that self-harm was just cutting your wrists. So I have punched myself, grabbed my hair as hard i can, bit myself, dig my claws into myself, etc, and kept going because I thought it wasnt self harm. ⚠️WE NEED TO LET PEOPLE KNOW THAT SELF HARM ISNT JUST CUTTING⚠️
@OuaisAmelie
Жыл бұрын
exactly the same with me, all through middle and high school I thought it didn’t count and was normal
@joannethomson9667
Жыл бұрын
I sometimes also write abusive stuff about myself in a diary, which I think is just as bad as hurting myself
@Toast1640
10 ай бұрын
Finally someone who also uses biting
@kellyong3431
9 ай бұрын
Yay someone also uses punching!
@shreyakrishnamohan8680
7 ай бұрын
I cut myself for 10 months.... It helps me deal with my emotions!!! Once I found out it was self harming, I stopped about a month ago..... Not even my parents or family knows, but! I'm determined not to hurt myself! I suffer from social anxiety and everything and everyone I love is being taken away from me...... I just, hope tonight isn't my last night..... God bless everyone in self harming situations or life taking situations....❤❤❤❤💔💔💔💔💔
@nova4476
4 жыл бұрын
sending love to everyone who harms right now, has harmed, is trying to stop, or already stopped. i hope you all find happiness soon. you deserve it, even if you forget that sometimes💞💞
@kolesdoodlesnstuff1691
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@tikkurilaboi6893
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, you rock.
@user-bf7lb2sd9d
4 жыл бұрын
♡♡Thank you♡♡
@reptilic2080
4 жыл бұрын
thank you
@nxahsvidz
4 жыл бұрын
Ty ❤️
@bubblebuttz3218
4 жыл бұрын
just came to see my reason to make sure I’m not just looking for attention from myself
@nelmae6026
4 жыл бұрын
Same 😔
@balls1321
4 жыл бұрын
Same. Im always really worried that I self harmed to get attention but the way I felt around that time really lined up with number 4 and 5 so that made me feel better about myself in some weird way
@qai6753
4 жыл бұрын
Same... ︶︿︶ My family told me I just looking for attention by self harm
@sklorpo682
4 жыл бұрын
same and i still couldnt find my reason-
@qai6753
4 жыл бұрын
@@sklorpo682 hope you find it soon! And I always hope all the people in this world can be understanding to each other... Oh, also, hope you get better
@iya4016
4 жыл бұрын
Reasons people self harm:/ ***self harm is injuring yourself*** 1. To feel something. They feel a strong emotion, depression, anger. 2. To feel anything, they might feel numb. It fills a void. 3. To have a sense of control..feeling out of control, self harm is their control. They feel in charge of their choises. 4. It feels like a relief. It can feel like relief..this is maybe why they do self harm. Self harming calms..but carried by guilt. 5. Form of self punishment...they may believe they deserve the pain. 6. A way to communicate without words. Hurting themself is probably then trying to get help without using words. This is very hard, anyone who has, or is self harming I am truely sorry, and I hope everything in your life gets better. No matter what you think otherwise, you are worth it and beautiful. I love you, and so many more people love you to believe it or not. I struggle with this too but I try my hardest to not self harm. 🙁💘
@iya4016
4 жыл бұрын
@Susan Ananda you're welcome 💘
@ladennayoung2939
4 жыл бұрын
I pray you feel better soon in Jesus name. People with any mental illness tend to suffer in silence.
@iya4016
4 жыл бұрын
@@ladennayoung2939 thank you so much🥺
@orfaelia3636
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.. i have this one huge scar and i have to hide it every time i meet people, its exhausting and i wished people would stop asking. 😞
@iya4016
4 жыл бұрын
@@orfaelia3636 I totally understand this. I always have to hide up with long sleeves or either makeup it's so stressful🙁
@jhopemoons13
4 жыл бұрын
i thought my phone broke at the beginning
@SomeSortOfBeingg
4 жыл бұрын
Same haha
@rainjackson3880
4 жыл бұрын
Same.
@taima6138
4 жыл бұрын
l jhopemoons l omg same I was like "what is hApPEnInG?!"
@tokyo4752
4 жыл бұрын
same..
@swirlingfizz9990
4 жыл бұрын
Same
@stellaalemanno1932
2 жыл бұрын
I know that many people fear that they are self harming for attention and I'm one of them but... what if we actually are? It hurts, and it's scaring, it's a terrible thing to do to yourself. So maybe we are doing it for attention, but it is because we need it desperately, because we want someone to see us and notice the pain we're going through and it is nothing to feel guilty about. What you're feeling is valid.
@YouTubeChannel-uw4bd
4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel like I’m a box. And there are all these books filling up. The books are all the things that I did wrong. The books never go away. The box is my life. Self harming tips the box, so all the books fall out. But, twice the amount of books come back. Sometimes I wish I can turn the box upside down. Completely let all the books fall out forever. But, then the books fall. They would fall onto everyone I know. Sometimes I have “panic attacks”. It feels like someone covered my box up, but the books are still coming in. The pressure increases and increases until I can’t handle it and I have to tip my box over by self harming.
@TheBeaniestBean8675
4 жыл бұрын
You just spoke my mind
@sinfulmonarchweeb8826
4 жыл бұрын
That was deep. I like your comment. You are deserving of love.
@MelB868
4 жыл бұрын
Your just being accused by the devil ask God to forgive whatever it was and He will not remember it and forgive yourself it will be okay.
@Joyous.noncis
4 жыл бұрын
That is a very good analogy! Hope you're doing okay, though!!!
@a-lonley-box3657
4 жыл бұрын
Sh--. That really does explain it hell lot better than anything I've ever seen... Wow.. I'm so sorry its like that, it's going to be okay... I think, personally, the best thing for you is to tell someone, like that...
@Countrymansean
4 жыл бұрын
I do it because I deserve to feel pain and I feel like I’m giving myself punishment. Edit: 7 months later, I don't self-harm anymore! I'm actually doing alright nowadays and I hope some of like people who liked/replied can say the same.
@MegansRandomness
4 жыл бұрын
same
@buttgoblin9954
4 жыл бұрын
Same
@shreyawankhede3763
4 жыл бұрын
Random artist on the internet i had the same exact emotion when i self harmed some time back. I wanted to punish myself for not being good enough for not being sufficient. But trust me just find someone to talk to or easier something to do when you feel the urge i used to draw however crappy might be but it helped me release over time... hope you jolt it down or draw it down or release it in any form so that you just dont harm the beautiful you. Take care💕
@rockytanasichuk7981
4 жыл бұрын
Same but no one should feel pain
@laletraa8650
4 жыл бұрын
When I make a mistake I usually do that but not that much
@vitortave
4 жыл бұрын
I frequently want to self-harm due to loneliness. When im feeling "touch starved", i start to self-harming.
@vanillacream2383
4 жыл бұрын
This hits hard. Back in the days when those methods were comforting.
@iradessapearl6004
2 жыл бұрын
I still do it XP
@sld_gloccem
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@grreece
4 жыл бұрын
Inserts “i’m, actually, president of the company”
@fireflyfox2365
4 жыл бұрын
I felt this
@nonestanimamea9099
4 жыл бұрын
I i i aiyayaya
@cricketuhm
4 жыл бұрын
Sammmeee
@knives8014
4 жыл бұрын
hey if you ever need to talk to someone i’m here
@lufixu
4 жыл бұрын
oh shi-
@p1xel.1l
3 жыл бұрын
video creator: “i hope this helps people to talk with their doctor..” reality: “i hope my parents never see this..”
@baes001
5 ай бұрын
tbh I havent done sh but im act thinking abt it- its weird..
@heyoitsjustme4240
4 жыл бұрын
Me who self harms, watching this knowing it’s going to trigger me like 👁👄👁
@hannahkohl6053
4 жыл бұрын
Lol same
@Kill2Kiss
4 жыл бұрын
mood
@sinfulmonarchweeb8826
4 жыл бұрын
Lmao same
@sodak3907
4 жыл бұрын
Please Self love instead
@cricketuhm
4 жыл бұрын
Sammmee
@knurdcantdrink
4 жыл бұрын
I hurt myself because I am so afraid to be hurt by others. How ironic. :(
@pieckgfinger
4 жыл бұрын
Same gsdkkk
@evelin6703
4 жыл бұрын
She named it, for sense of control, this video really made me cry a bit bc I’m like that same the things I can’t control in my life frustrate me and I’ve been wanting to lash out my anger on myself but I always convince myself not too, try better coping mechanism, if your very afraid of people or too be hurt, then try breaking that fear rather then self-harm, take baby steps like maybe saying hi to someone new, either way I’m rooting for you and I hope one day you don’t feel the need to do that :)
@bbrandumbb
4 жыл бұрын
@@evelin6703 I cried for the entire video :(
@dragonfly2577
4 жыл бұрын
Same tho. I’ve developed social anxiety cause I don’t say stuff because I don’t want to feel like a burden or bc I don’t want to be made fun of.
@EmoScreamoFox
4 жыл бұрын
I hope some day you feel better and manage to heal
@jazzycakes6294
3 жыл бұрын
I started because I found out I liked pain. Even when I was pretty young, I liked certain pains. It was calming. I'd let myself get hurt on purpose just to enjoy the cuts and bruises. I didn't start officially self harming until middle school, and instead of just enjoying the sensation, it was to numb myself when I was feeling overwhelmed by something, oftentimes when I was angry. Instead of lashing out, I'd aim it at myself. I haven't in a while, now! I still like pain a great deal, but I don't seek it anymore, though I do enjoy getting tattooed a little too much.
@tangytim6699
Жыл бұрын
You found bdsm yet
@Hana-fq8vl
Жыл бұрын
How do u stop enjoy hurting yourself ?
@baes001
5 ай бұрын
same xx i havent done sh tho tbh i think i might- rn my life is a pile of shit
@jazzycakes6294
5 ай бұрын
@@baes001 I wouldn't, if I were you. It gets so much worse if it hooks you. Last year I tried to break my arm with a rock. It truly is an addiction.
@Violate..
4 ай бұрын
@@Hana-fq8vlits satisfying for someone who cannot control emotions especially anger, people who self harm also feels like they deserve the worse in life so there is that
@claire969
4 жыл бұрын
the first 10 seconds of a silent black screen was the perfect time for me to stare off into space and then shit myself when the video actually started
@mallorykyes2976
4 жыл бұрын
I feel like this helped me a little because I've been trying to find a reason why I even self harm. It's such a hard thing to explain since for me it just happened, it was like I lost control of myself and something took over. I'm still trying to figure out why I do it. I know I shouldn't, but it's not easy to stop. Please, if you are reading this, dont start, it will turn into an addiction that you could struggle with for a very long time. You might not even know why you do it, which makes it even worse when people ask why you did it. Please if you are having these thoughts, reach out and get help of some kind. It can be hard, but you can do it. I believe in you. And please keep going on with life
@justalpha9138
4 жыл бұрын
If you are able to admit your guilt and self hatred, that's a sign that you absolutely can recover.
@a-lonley-box3657
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my thank fckin god.... I thought I was alone! You are not alone! I know, its like some kind of demon takes over, those negative thoughts become you, like a bomb on self-destruct. Its crazy and even harder to explain... I'm sending my best of wishes and pray that you can break that addiction, it'll take time and it'll be hard but you can do it.
@tin1724
4 жыл бұрын
Same, it was just something that happend and kept doing and couldn't understand or relate to other people that would self harm, their reasoning I mean. I'm still trying to figure it out why I do it . I hope you keep safe 💛💛 wishing the best fo you.
@yo8989
4 жыл бұрын
You can't stop because when you're physically your brain produce healing stuff that makes you feel better mentally after being hurt (not while hurting though). And you are addict to to that stuff your brain release cuz it also makes you feel better mentally. So, you should work therapeutically on your mental health (internet is full of tips if you don't have enough money or bc of the pandemic). It's not easy to stop but you can do it gradually :) Good luck 💗
@wanderingonionn
4 жыл бұрын
Hey, I also self harm, and the reason I do wasn't mentioned here, so I thought I'd reply in case it was the same as yours. But I feel like it validates my pain, as if having the tangible evidence of scars/burns/whatever proves that my suffering is real, and without having those marks, I felt like maybe what I was feeling wasn't real. But the scars were the proof. For a lot of people, myself included, the reason why you start is usually simple - like "I heard it might help" or "I want to feel something", but the reason you don't stop is what you really have to unpack - and what makes it so hard to get help for
@grimreaperxxx13
2 жыл бұрын
For me, it’s a euphoric feeling. It makes me feel powerful, it makes me feel good to look down and see the scars because it means I’m strong. It is about control for me, always has been, and even when I’m in a good and stable place I still have a need to do it.
@wrathrat
2 жыл бұрын
I do it a lot because of that as well.
@ihateschool5161
6 ай бұрын
thats exactly what happen to me too
@Chevalier.D.Artagnan
5 ай бұрын
Top o’ the day to you my good fellow. This was helpful for me, thank you.
@who_knows_idk
4 ай бұрын
I do it cause I like seeing the blood. I'm almost training my brain to not react badly to seeing blood. Also I just wanna be emotionally numb
@LuckyCloverWCUE
4 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh. Finally someone who can explain why I do it. Thanks. 💙
@Lillyyss63
11 ай бұрын
one of my favourite people on earth started self harm lately and here i am in tears trying to understand her behaviour as i'm trying to be as understanding and as comprehending as i can be. she's my favourite person.
@not_juice_man9867
4 жыл бұрын
I have a girlfriend who does self harm, and this video is really helpful
@lpshalfbreed5965
4 жыл бұрын
I hope she gets better💕
@shirleneng2647
4 жыл бұрын
be there for her! it is very important :)
@bellisimabebe0060
4 жыл бұрын
wholesome that you watched this video for her :')
@suprstaarzz
4 жыл бұрын
I hope that she stops soon self harm isn't good, I've done it and it changed things
@coffeelovermar
4 жыл бұрын
@@shirleneng2647 You know that those words hurt a lot like a million bricks. My boyfriend told me the EXACT same thing and I do you know what the video talks about and my boyfriend found out. He got sad and then a few days later...he broke up with me and that made me worse than I was already. But everyone is different so I do hope that she gets better and that you help her.
@kenny-nk5db
4 жыл бұрын
for me, i used to self harm as a way of punishment. as a way to punish myself for being who i am. i felt as though my feelings were invalid to everyone around me and that there was something wrong with me. i’ve never felt like a normal person ever since i was a child. i let other people’s words define me. i lived for them and not for me.. as of now, i want everyone to know that you are who you are and that’s okay. you don’t have to change for anyone. you’re beautiful and worthy of so much love. i know sometimes it may feel like you’re drowning, like you’re fighting a battle everyday in your head, and like there’s no in the world who loves you. but by me you are loved, and you are perfectly made. ❤️ be strong
@happyneko8760
3 жыл бұрын
😊
@1_imjsbtr
Жыл бұрын
I had used to hurt myself to get attention, and love that I had never gotten. I got help and now I'm better. 😌🥰
@dontmindme5290
4 жыл бұрын
TW: Mentions of self harm, suicide As a 13 year old who does/has self-harmed, it's hard to explain why you do it, unless you have just done it or are about to. I know I shouldn't do it, but it's hard. For some reason, the littlest thing's can make me suicidal or want to harm myself. Recently it's been getting worse these past 3 days, I don't know why or how. It got so bad that 2 days ago I constantly thought of suicide, and how I would do so either in the near future, or anytime soon. Yesterday, I harmed myself. It didn't quite fill the void. So then I attempted suicide. I was supposedly around a minute or 2 from being unconscious, but then I thought of my friend. I thought of the fact that they would never know I've done this, they would be concerned as to why I havent answered or seen any of their messages. Then I stopped, I stopped the attempt. I sat back and looked at what I had just done. That was when I started having a bad panic attack, one of the worst I've had. I couldnt stop crying, nor breathing rapidly. I grabbed my phone, I kept telling myself that I need to ask for help, and that I really was not ok and I needed to tell someone that. So I told my friend. They calmed me down, my panic attack stopped. I told them that I was scared, what if I did go through with it just because I wasn't in the right mindset? They told me that they're here for me, and to text them whenever I feel that way. The amount of guilt I felt that day was terrible. I felt selfish. The more I looked at my scars I regretted them like I always do. If there is anyone who feels like this then PLEASE remember, without you, reality will be altered. For example, if I had gone through with what I was doing then my family and friends lives wouldn't be their normal everyday life. I know it's hard, and sometimes you can't see or feel it, but people do care about you, they really do. People are there to support you. You can't keep it all to yourself, you need to ask for help, either of friends, family, therapist or anyone at all. Speaking out helps. It may be hard to find the right time to but trust me, once you've told someone and they help you, it's a huge weight lifted off of you. A relief that someone is here for you. Everyone is here to support you, no matter what you're going through. You are enough, you are amazing, talented, inspiring, strong and so many other things! Don't think that you're weak because you feel like this, when in reality you're incredibly strong. You've made it through your toughest days, you've pushed through them, and one day, all of this will get better. It might not completely go away, but you will start getting better. Just continue pushing through. You have everyone's support.
@cidercake4373
4 жыл бұрын
No one should feel guilty for asking for help, hope everyone feels okay💙💜💙💜
@teenoush7489
4 жыл бұрын
I really needed to read this...thank you so much...
@aubreygammon902
4 жыл бұрын
yeah but what if you cant let your self tell anyone i was talking to my today and she said she had done self harm once just to try and feel what it like i was thinking about telling her that i had been doing it for almost a year now to tell her to stop before she gets addicited like i did so she doesnt make the same mistake thhat i did i cant stop now and now i wish i never started but at the same time it feels so good after and now i have to wear scrunchies every where i go my mom has noteced some before and i just couldnt tel her i told her mamy the rubber bands were too tight -sorry bought all that i just needed t get it out
@glassypunstm7080
3 жыл бұрын
hope u feel better soon❤ today my mom saw it and asked me why i did it i was so surprised cuz i myself dont know i just dont feel ggod i feel a void
@tillyashton9705
3 жыл бұрын
sending love
@nash121
4 жыл бұрын
This makes me a little sad
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
It's definitely a sensitive topic :(
@TheBeaniestBean8675
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I agree...sensitive is definitely the word for it
@axelbratz
4 жыл бұрын
I feel nothing while watching this
@Blusagi
Жыл бұрын
I once read about how healing process boosts serotonin in our bodies. Then it suddenly hit me - my self harming for "no reason" was actually a desperate attempt to get this sweet, sweet serotonin boost! Crazy!
@mikey_m114
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been having thoughts of relapsing lately, so I’m watching this to try and better myself - it seems like educating myself is time better spent than hurting myself
@1lagarti
4 жыл бұрын
Mikey M :D ahaha same... life kinda sucks
@rockytanasichuk7981
4 жыл бұрын
Same but it gets better right??
@hansikadaswani7801
4 жыл бұрын
I am relapsing
@chip73731
4 жыл бұрын
Life can be painful sometimes...I wish you good luck❤️💛💙
@jennavivavavavoom8594
4 жыл бұрын
Same but please try not to we come so far
@patri_zzz5013
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my god guys, I'm going through some hard times and the timing of this video couldn't be better... thank you :') 💚
@Mii.2.0
4 жыл бұрын
Be strong! 💪
@whyyoulookin8770
4 жыл бұрын
GOsh
@patri_zzz5013
4 жыл бұрын
@@Mii.2.0 Thank you, I hope you're doing well too!
@swirlingfizz9990
4 жыл бұрын
💚
@Noname-i7k6f
4 жыл бұрын
Wish you luck,be strong,i believe in you.
@i_am_jayce
2 жыл бұрын
I stopped myself for a bit, but I have started again, and that's why I'm here, watching this video. I find it a better way for me to open up rather than talking to people, and so far it is working, I mean, I'm still here living, maybe not quite living mentally, but definitely living physically. Thanks for all the videos!
@abbzg
4 жыл бұрын
i’ve relapse once in the first part of quarantine and ive been feeling close to relapsing again but this video somehow helped me. i guess it’s the fact that i understand myself and what i’m thinking so it helps me come up with something to prevent me from relapsing again. thank you guys for this video💕 and you everyone out there who are also struggling, you can get through this. please please please please pleeeeaaasssee find someone to talk to. don’t isolate yourself and don’t lose hope. life is worth living. life has its bumps but you are stronger. i believe in you💕💕
@a-lonley-box3657
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment... It was really comforting. I have to isolate those thoughts and actions because last time my parents found out they told me off for being selfish and ungreatful for the life I have. I haven't relapsed but I wish I could sometimes, my head gets too heavy and it feels like a deadweight sometimes... Stay strong ❤️💕
@pao6207
4 жыл бұрын
Aabia Aamir first of all you did not waste my time I chose to read your comment because I wanted to. I will not tell you to shut up because your feelings are completely valid and although it may not be good for you or your body you are still doing self harm and it’s for a reason. I have absolutely no idea what your life is like but I can tell you this. Please please please think about talking to someone even if you don’t mention the self harm part. You are not in this by yourself and you are not the only one experiencing these feelings. There are many different websites even that you could talk to someone if you don’t want to talk to a parent or guardian. Also friends or anyone in your family that you trust to you can talk to. You are not in this alone there are many people able and willing to help and people who love you. This goes for anyone reading this too and the comments above as well you guys are not alone. Talk to someone, find an outlet, or whatever you do don’t suffer in silence
@AngelicBreath1111
4 жыл бұрын
@@idkutellme-rp9qe Hey. I hate to say this, because I know it must be terrible to feel like you're going against your religion- but that is still self harm. If YOU are HURTING yourself, that is self harm. Cutting isn't the only way to hurt yourself. And, the quicker you notice it is self harm, the quicker you can stop. Don't feel bad for it, it's okay to feel this way. But, it isn't okay to keep doing it. No one will hate you or anything, don't feel ashamed for doing it. It just isnt healthy for you, that's why it isn't okay. I'm just worried for you. You have to stop self harming. It isn't healthy, and it doesn't change the pain. It just makes it physical and mental. It makes two problems. You have to tell you parents. I know you don't want to, but it's how you get help. Imagine if your dad finds out, he'll feel even worse knowing you didn't tell him. What if he finds you actively doing it? Point is- sometimes you have to do what's good for you and not other people. But, in this case, telling your parents benefits everyone involved. If you need help telling them, or anything else, I'm always here. :) Just reach out to me with questions and updates and stuff, and I'll help you. If you're comfortable with that, of course. And, also, I have a question. Why exactly do you self harm? Like...what is going on in life? Don't feel a need to answer it- don't even feel a need to have a reason. Depression is just a chemical imbalance. That's all Depression is. A imbalance. You don't need a reason to be Depressed. But if you do, I'd like to know, because it'd make it so much easier to help you over come it. Regards, Sunshine.
@isabellivingston4445
4 жыл бұрын
I've also relapsed since quarantine started. It's not a good feeling far from it. And I was also hospitalized again since quarantine. This whol e social distancing thing has really taken a tool in my mental health. I hope you get better!
@ssyncc1729
4 жыл бұрын
To all of you who relapse, it's okay to. It's part of the process to overcome the hurdle. Whatever happens I know you will all get through it because you are all strong. I believe in you all
@mynameisriyailikecheese2217
4 жыл бұрын
Everyone in the comments like “oh just try to be happy and keep going you are loved etc.” And as a 13 year old who does hit, bite, punch and ‘use’ scissors sometimes I just wanna say honey, no matter how much you comment that stuff it is not that easy. But thanks for trying.
@yamandacat4725
4 жыл бұрын
it still doesn't fix me.
@a-lonley-box3657
4 жыл бұрын
I'm in your boots right now. Its a sweet thing to say, but it's not exactly doing any miracles...
@felixthelemon978
4 жыл бұрын
It's all just stuff people have said a billion times before that they think is the thing they're supposed to say, but it isn't like hearing that it'll get better for the 101st time will help any more than it did at 100.
@cidercake4373
4 жыл бұрын
I really do hope I at least helped a bit, I know it won't work like a miracle, but I do hope, all that I know was I tried.
@lilycreason1774
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I hate it when people try to guilt trip you into not wanting to hurt yourself. I dont want them to talk about what we 'SHOULD' be happy for (such as family, friends, and education) ,but rather make us happy with the things that ACTUALLY MAKE US HAPPY. I wish they would understand that guilt just makes us feel worse rather than more appreciative.
@petramagyar9217
4 жыл бұрын
Reasons why i like psych2go: 1. They understand emotions and stuff 2.Helps me (idk how) 3.Its always really calm and never mean and stuff like that
@eryn1837
4 жыл бұрын
TW: ⚠️ i’ve never actually self harmed with more sharper blades i almost did but i stopped myself. i always did end up digging my nails in different parts of my body of scratching my legs because i was always so stressed, frustrated whatever. i get episodes where my entire body turns dead cold and my hands won’t stop shaking. doing something to my body helped and that’s most likely not good 💀
@name5599
4 жыл бұрын
What you doing is still damaging i hope everything gets better also good on you for not cutting with shape blades.
@alanatrene
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly me to I can't explain the feeling. Like I would hurt myself with scissors and there is this feeling I get that makes me wanna do it
@Isabel-sr8ep
4 жыл бұрын
@@alanatrene pls don't cut yourself anymore ❤🙏🏼🙏🏼
@sarawatson8756
4 жыл бұрын
What you are doing is still self harm, there are more ways than just cutting. I hope you feel better soon 💕💕
@kaseyactis7848
4 жыл бұрын
That’s still a form of self harm. I hope you get through it. Lots of love ❤️ ❤️
@kneecaps3892
4 жыл бұрын
I've had experience self harming but I'm officially getting therapy 😊 so I hope to get better soon (Edit) For everyone wishing me luck I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for all your kind words and wishing luck. I wish you all luck on your journeys getting better! I hope that one day we can finally be free from any pain that we are suffering from ❤
@youremostage9217
4 жыл бұрын
I also hope you get better
@name5599
4 жыл бұрын
Good luck hope it gets better
@kneecaps3892
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks :)
@thatgirl5630
4 жыл бұрын
So happy for you bb ❤️
@UnlicensedThinker
4 жыл бұрын
We have a society that lacks purpose and control. I have learned to take those back for myself and am teaching others to not need the crutches we are so used to.
@j.r.stringer5852
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been self harming since I was 8 and y’all I have been clean for about 9 years now and I’m 22, this video was spot on.!!!
@ssnowee6144
4 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear you're clean! Keep it up! 💖💕🌟
@Aiko_63194
4 жыл бұрын
That’s one hell of a streak! Glad to hear!💖
@keiron.4612
4 жыл бұрын
Since you was 8 realy you self harmed at 8 I find that hard to believe
@name5599
4 жыл бұрын
NINE YEARS my goodness that is Fantastic i'm so happy for you
@j.r.stringer5852
4 жыл бұрын
David Parkinson I knew what cutting was at a very early age when I was diagnosed with depression fairly young I knew what it was please don’t invalidate my experience because you don’t know me personally and obviously there are ways of self harm that you and I maybe talking about
@janetlandaker9913
Жыл бұрын
I use to say when I was young I can hurt myself more than you can hurt me. That’s when I started to hurt myself
@reginawidya7599
4 жыл бұрын
I can relate. I cut myself to distract me from my emotion, and to punish myself for having such a bad thought. But whatever it is, don't harm yourself. Talk to your loved ones. Distract yourself with positive things. I know it's hard, but you'll figure it out.
@Mel-tx6in
4 жыл бұрын
me :sees title :0 yes I need this do bad for my online friend he's struggling trough anxiety and depression like me im finding a way to be happy so he dosent hurt himself and dosent try to die edit: it's 3 in the morning and after five hours i get 35 like this is most I had if anyone is struggling through anything im here to listen you can aways talk to me and please dont be afraid to seek for help
@rockytanasichuk7981
4 жыл бұрын
Same Your a good friend
@iiantixsocial
4 жыл бұрын
Same.
@Snackaboy
4 жыл бұрын
I wish there were more people like you
@aidenorsomething4002
4 жыл бұрын
wow you are a good friend...when my friend noticed that I was self harming she was like " You are a teenager it is your hormones"
@Mel-tx6in
4 жыл бұрын
@@aidenorsomething4002 well im not a teenager yet but my friend is 13
@vvvnokk8309
4 жыл бұрын
0:10 look out if you're wearing headphones
@user-yl7dd4qq7g
4 жыл бұрын
I started because I thought if there was a physical representation of my pain it would be more tangible, and prove that there was a legitimate problem and that it wasn't all in my head. I continued because I didn't have the will to stop
@duchi882
4 жыл бұрын
*Next Video:* How to prevent other people from doing Self-Harm
@nem0men_901
4 жыл бұрын
I don't think you can
@jam8493
4 жыл бұрын
Try to calm them down before they actually do it. As someone who does self harm, it all started when my friend was ignoring me and I thought I wasn’t good enough for her. I hit myself in the head. And it only got worse from then.
@yamandacat4725
4 жыл бұрын
Y E S N ' T
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
We might do a video if we can on our new channel by inviting a professional to cover the topic or someone with experience. You can stay tune for it.
@Mel-tx6in
4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I love you your content is very helpful
@Couldntcare_bear
2 жыл бұрын
“Don’t be afraid to speak up” that hit me hard cause when I tried to tell my parents that I wanted to talk to a therapist about it and the fact that I self harm cause it’s not normal or oaky, my parents told me to move on that its just a phase and that its normal for a teenager. It hurts a lot to hear that, at least ell me that everything is okay or try to help me :(
@fahimsafi9867
Жыл бұрын
same bro and one dsy when i'm no longer in this world the will get to know that it wasn't normal but
@WolfDaughterOfApollo19
3 ай бұрын
my parents don't like self harm.they just say love yourself,or treat yourself well any time i even bring the topic up.i'm a damn 11 year old,by the way.i don't want to go to therapy,becouse my parents are financially struggling at the moment,though the won't admit it.i don't even have a reason to harm myself either.not one i can see,anyways.i even do it in public alot,and no one bats an eye.
@jupiter_scribbles
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for clarifying this. I've struggled with this for a long time and haven't even known the reason why. This really helped me
@PINKROUND
4 жыл бұрын
*I'M WORKING SO HARD EVERY DAY TO MAKE MY CHANNEL AS GOOD AS YOURS, I'M NEW ON KZitem BUT I BELIEVE IN MYSELF, thanks for being an example* ♥♥♥
@Chelaysiahsaturn
4 жыл бұрын
Ill subscribe
@Aiko_63194
4 жыл бұрын
Do you really have the audacity to self promote in the comments on a video about people self harming? Shameless.
@user-gh2ow4sg7u
Жыл бұрын
I never knew people did it to feel satisfied, if always done it as a punishment to myself
@ryfrymush
4 жыл бұрын
I just want to say that your voice is super calming and it really adds to the video.
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! We will let Amanda know!
@sketchead6616
4 жыл бұрын
1. to feel something 2. to feel anything at all 3. to have a sense of control 4. for relief 5. its a form of self-punishment 6. its a way to communicate without words i relate :,) edit as of 2021: ive healed :D edit as of 2023: ^ idk why i said i've healed. it still occurs to me haha, a lot less often but yeah
@jja120
3 жыл бұрын
i relate to number five, i’ve been feeling a tremendous amount of guilt, so i feel that if i punish myself, that i’ll become a better person, and that it’ll atone for the hurt i may have caused other people.
@sketchead6616
3 жыл бұрын
@@jja120 im here rn if u want someone to talk to about it :)
@brianmaxwell8615
4 жыл бұрын
Number five is why I've cut from the age 13-32. There have been bouts where I've gone 5 years without self punishment, but it always comes back around. I've learned that a part of my depression cycle is self punishment. For me, it's a cycle that I can only embrace until I understand enough to move forward. One day I will not punish myself for "bad" actions or misdeads. I'm still working towards that day and I know it will come, but I can not punish myself for punishing myself.
@thisuser1728
4 жыл бұрын
I am talking to everyone who self harms. I can feel what you are feeling, I have seen the dark side too. But please, do it for yourselves, for those whoove you and you love, for me, just try. I know it is not easy to stop right now, but seek advice, search for ways you can stop, and make small steps and progress. Just don't be alone in this. Talk about it. It is NOT a shame. I promise, when you finnaly manage to stop, you will feel so proud, and you will have the whole life ahead of you to live free of this demon. Just discuss it, as hard as it may be, accept help for people, you will feel great, see a professional so that it can be more efficient, pray. I will be praying for you. You have strength and we all know it.
@MASKACID
4 жыл бұрын
I love your channel so much 🧡🧡🧡
@Mii.2.0
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support! Are there any other topics you would like to see?
@shubhamsharma-pc7fe
3 жыл бұрын
Reasons multiple, solution.... 1 warm hug ✨
@simp3851
4 жыл бұрын
I started doing it for all of these reasons, eventually I just used it so I wouldn't feel sad or numb, it helped what I was feeling in that moment, I also used it as a punishment. It's still something I'm working on, but it's gotten alot better. I'm 2 months clean 💓
@lexeemaine2823
4 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for you. I wish I could do that.
@noatmealcookie02
4 жыл бұрын
also it's important to remember that though physical injuries are the 1st thing that comes to mind when you think of selfharm eating disorders, starving or sleep-deprivation on your own will is also self-harm~
@tolerance711
4 жыл бұрын
...
@driphearts8035
Жыл бұрын
I do this frequently. No other coping mechanisms work. I know it will ruin my life and end in me either leading a miserable life for decades, or an early death due to severe injury, but I have earned this. I accept my fate. I understand the consequences, and due to the lack of punishment from my parents of my previous actions, I will punish myself in its stead. I will whip my back with my belt until I am fully scarred.
@owens.studios
4 жыл бұрын
What do I do about random negative thoughts? I could be fine one minute and feeling like I'm despised by everyone the next
@name5599
4 жыл бұрын
Distracts your self with things that make you happy that are not negative (hope this helps)
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
Distractions is definitely one of the many strategies if you have things like hobbies, work or friends/family to keep yourself busy. Maybe you can give this video a watch Owen and see if there's anything useful? kzitem.info/news/bejne/tnetyXegfKyBnqg
@glassypunstm7080
3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go i agree! i distract myself a lot but once in a while that day comes when im just laying down and think about how pathetic my life is and what a useless dumb human i am and then i overthink and start crying. but yeah distraction helps! i read books and watch movies for distracting haha
@itsvintage50s57
4 жыл бұрын
I relate to this video so much. I've been crying, yelling, and overall feeling terrible over multiple things that are happening to me. I haven't harmed myself and instead do things that are more productive like walking but I still have those days where I feel like giving up even though I'm staying strong.
@glassypunstm7080
3 жыл бұрын
❤
@tessareine
3 жыл бұрын
I’m constantly blocking myself off, making myself feel numb to avoid emotional pain. Sometimes self harm seems like the only way to feel anything without facing myself.
@chavseni6469
3 жыл бұрын
Continue being strong, do not give up, always give yourself another chance and some more years get help with people you know and therapy
@jokerisinthememe5852
4 жыл бұрын
1:05 “Sometimes I let matches burn down to my fingertips to feel something, anything.” -Nicholas Cage/ Spider-Man Noir
@MelB868
4 жыл бұрын
What?
@Chelaysiahsaturn
4 жыл бұрын
I remembee that from the movie
@jokerisinthememe5852
4 жыл бұрын
It’s a movie quote.
@sharonc5778
4 жыл бұрын
Dang she really be attacking us-
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
Who's she? LOL
@sharonc5778
4 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go Oml you replied!! Ahh I always loved your channel it’s amazing 💕💕
@zahraabdullah3947
3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@gh0sty_269
4 жыл бұрын
I used to self-harm, until a 'certain event', where I forced myslef away from my mental health. Not only did I force suicidal thoughts, selfharming, and 'bad thoughts', I forced away things that actually helped me cope, like drawing my feelings, and talking about them, all so that everyone would stop worrying and stop feeling bad for me. (Sorry for my bad grammar, I speak english much better than I do writing it, or typing it down.)
@MamzelleRylo
4 жыл бұрын
As a concussion/brain trauma survivor... I would let (way too) hot water run on my hand, just to feel pain somewhere else than my head. And I suddenly understood why people would do that. Luckily, it didn’t grow into a habit, and I was well supported for the ptsd that comes with the tbi. Wishing everyone a good week, and reach out to someone instead of those harmful tools. You deserve to feel wellness, not pain, no matter what.
@lizard5426
4 жыл бұрын
I stopped self harming 2 years ago. It was really hard to quit but I'm so proud I could do it :D Nobody in real life cares about this and I wanted to tell someone. So here I go
@metra8604
4 жыл бұрын
I'm proud of you! 😁
@cidercake4373
4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you are okay now! You are very strong and I'm proud of you! 💙💜💙💜
@rosexfletcher
4 жыл бұрын
I have been clean from self-harming for almost a year and I'm really proud of myself
@ArcadeEraBeats
4 жыл бұрын
That's awesome! I'm happy to hear that
@NenaLavonne
4 жыл бұрын
Just sending out so much love. We forget how difficult life can be for others, and it is important that we seek to understand them and to help when we can. It can be really rough out there.
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind message and energy Nena!
@NenaLavonne
4 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go ♥️♥️♥️
@SamDguez
4 жыл бұрын
When I'm angry and feel I'm about to exploit, I bite my right hand, and that boiling rage disappears... Until I remember what makes me angry and bite myself again. I've been writing down my anger instead of biting myself... and there's a long way to go.
@name5599
4 жыл бұрын
But hay you are improving good on you for finding a good way to cope
@katiaromero7149
4 жыл бұрын
I remember when you made the poll about why we self-harm. It is hard. It is really hard to break the circle of pain. Especially when you still feel you deserve all of it. Asking for help it's never easy, I feel shame that people sees me as someone weak, even after I was "cured" from my depression.
@Devinfrbs
4 жыл бұрын
A lot of this video could be valid if you swap "Self harm" with "Binge Eating" or all kinds of other coping mechanisms. It's hard to get out of a pattern.
@hopeless_turkey2735
4 жыл бұрын
Eating disorders in general are considered self harm if I'm not wrong ^-^
@ENNEARTS
4 жыл бұрын
Stuck in the starve binge cycle since April. I feel attacked
@teddybear_cloudy6864
4 жыл бұрын
I love this thank you for sharing I want to make sure my friends don’t harm themselves I have depression but I don’t self harm I have gloves on 24/7 but I don’t do self harm
@lagroad
4 жыл бұрын
A thing about self hatred. If you hate yourself, your body will literally try to end itself. Prolonged feelings of wanting to die and feeling guilty about being a waste of space, slowly, over time lowers your immune system, you’ll get sick more or develop allergies, or it can even shut down your organs if it gets bad enough.
@daydewi
2 жыл бұрын
I do it for the relief, but sometimes also for punishing myself because of self hatred. I honestly used to think I was a little attention seeker but seeing so many people that actually can relate makes me feel a litter bit happier and more relieved. Stay strong whoever reads this, your not alone in your suffering. There's people out there that feel for you. I love you
@nina-go2vi
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this. My parents can now better understand my depression.
@true_canadian1015
6 ай бұрын
Cutting is one of those things where “if you know you know” it’s almost like ecstasy and that you’re in complete control of the experience. The physical pain overpowers any emotional pain giving you something to completely focus on whether you want to or not, in that sense it’s similar to an orgasm. It’s not that I like the pain and it just cuts out the emotional pain so completely I don’t have to feel it as long as the physical pain is present
@why-do-i-breathe8359
4 жыл бұрын
whenever I want to feel pain, I use duct tape and not an actual blade
@TheBeaniestBean8675
4 жыл бұрын
jess the lesbian Very clever. You don’t leave marks with duct tape
@TheBeaniestBean8675
4 жыл бұрын
And it hurts less...
@FatallyParasocial
4 жыл бұрын
Holy shit you're a genius
@Inamichan
4 жыл бұрын
I don’t even remember why I started in middle school but I kept doing it until 11th grade when a teacher finally noticed. I just remembered it feeling like a release. Like emotions were building up and it felt freeing I guess. 🤷🏾♀️
@theangryblonde00s
4 жыл бұрын
I've been self harming for 7 years now... and although these 6 things were the reasons I started.. The reason I can't stop, is because it feels like a part of me now... It's weird seeing my body without cuts and it's so hard to stop....
@akuto5341
4 жыл бұрын
Irk I cut my hand when I’m bored for some reason and because I like the pay. The bad thing it that some kids at bug me about it
@taqi5675
4 жыл бұрын
I almost self harming today due to extreme pain in chest and mind for weeks now. But bashing your head with glass cup wouldn't be a good idea hoping to have a good relief or just faint.
@cidercake4373
4 жыл бұрын
Please don't hurt yourself, it's not good, and I hope you are okay, feel better soon, I wish I could hug so many of you all. 💙💜💙💜 You all deserve so much love, please don't hurt yourself, whoever you know and trust, they're there for you.
@rockytanasichuk7981
4 жыл бұрын
Please don't do that please stay alive...
@mannyflo209
4 жыл бұрын
I love you everyone please be safe and knew that we are all here together and to help each other I love you all 😌
@Lisabpp
2 жыл бұрын
💕✨🥺
@SkylerDragon
7 ай бұрын
thank you so much. i know im late to comment but it helped me understand more about myself. i feel like the worst person every day of my life, but since i love knowledge, just watching your videos fill me with joy. thank you
@angEl.dust.13.
2 ай бұрын
i hope you find peace one day ❤
@SkylerDragon
2 ай бұрын
@@angEl.dust.13. Thank you so much. I am doing better now!
@angEl.dust.13.
2 ай бұрын
@@SkylerDragon im glad to hear that
@Mii.2.0
4 жыл бұрын
Anime: Omae ma mou shindeiu. Me: 1:17
@13DarknessGirl666
4 жыл бұрын
Actually, the correct spelling is "Omae wa mou shindeiru". But anyways, I hope you are okay. Please do not already be dead. There is still hope for a better future. You can make a better future.
@caz7363
4 жыл бұрын
You missed one ☝️ Boredom - u hate where u r and wat you’re doing so much that you just want to get out of the situation. That was my take on it anyways. ✂️
@13DarknessGirl666
4 жыл бұрын
This may be my life right now...but I will never go back to those times. I have too much to live for. I refuse to be that person again. I don't like who I am right now...but I know I'll like who I am in the future. The pain is worth it. It's all worth it.
@joemama-nm4sf
3 жыл бұрын
exsctlu
@taexeab4335
3 жыл бұрын
I run away from the fact that whenever I’m angry or hating myself to the point that I have suicidal thoughts I tend to let it out on my arms. I always thought that it’s not that serious this behaviour will somehow vanish so that I don’t have to face the problem because it’s so overwhelming for me to deal with. I try, I just feel like I don’t deserve to live at all, I’m a living problem, I’m a burden, people would be better without me :’) I don’t know who I can talk to so I’m writing this, I don’t want to worry the people that are important to me...
@lucidlucille7972
2 жыл бұрын
For me, it makes my emotions feel easier to control when I feel pain caused by myself
@juliobee
4 жыл бұрын
When you depression but you don’t want to hurt ur blood cell because they did nothing to u
@Lisabpp
2 жыл бұрын
Ohh yes poor blood cells :(
@ash0473
3 жыл бұрын
ive never spoken about this before but i was looking at the comments, people telling their stories so i thought i would give it a a try. i self harm because its a feeling of relief, sometimes as a punishment or to actually to keep me from going numb again. i am gonna try and get better buts its just difficult. its not an everyday thing but when things get too much or ive done something like binge eat i do it. anyone who ever feels like this you are not alone, when you are ready please seek help.
@strangeentities
4 жыл бұрын
OMG I just relapsed about an hour ago...I feel like the universe is trying to tell me something.
@monarchberry1107
4 жыл бұрын
"Ya shouldn't have did that" -Vegeta, Prince of all Saiyans
@simplyhuman479
3 жыл бұрын
Ooooohhh.... Makes sense... Now I understand why a character self harmed in one fanfiction I read.... Poor people who have to do this... I wish I could squish they pain out with a hug O^O
@vanesasteves6922
4 жыл бұрын
It was very hard for me to explain to my loved ones why I used to self harm, in this video you have made it clear and simple, thank you for that
@distinguisheddorito754
2 жыл бұрын
I have been free from self harm for about a month now... in case anyone is currently self harming, I would like to share what got me here: I went to a doctor, he prescribed medication for my severe anxiety, (this does not mean I have no anxiety, It just means that my anxiety is much more manageable.) I started to learn more about mental health and I started exercising every day and eating healthier...these things won't necessarily work for everyone, but you WILL get through this, I believe in you.
@papermache5605
4 жыл бұрын
Love this channel
@dylanbrowne262
2 жыл бұрын
I used to self harm when I would get super sad over something (usually a person) and it kinda made me calm down but regretted every time I did it
@Eye-m7f
4 жыл бұрын
Welp its actually not fun arriving at videos with no funny comments to like .-. Edit: (I mean I clicked the notification too fast there was no comments to like)
@errorfox6871
4 жыл бұрын
Finally a funny comment to like
@ravioli726
4 жыл бұрын
It says in the video to be careful about what we say. Okay goodbye! Have a nice day/time
@Eye-m7f
4 жыл бұрын
@@ravioli726 aaah, I'm sorry I think I made some misunderstanding, I arrived too early that's why there was no comments to like😅
@tdog4423
4 жыл бұрын
I want to do it but I’m to scared. So if I’m going to do harm to myself I rather not wake back up. Anyone else going through a whole bunch of stuff but won’t tell anyone?
@destinyjones7511
4 жыл бұрын
Ummm hi, if u don't mind me asking, why do u feel the need too?
@tdog4423
4 жыл бұрын
destiny Jones honestly I’m just tired of things and I just feel not wanted. I’m not going to until my friends and family are good and taken care of. Also I appreciate your comment 🙂
@destinyjones7511
4 жыл бұрын
@@tdog4423 no problem, it's just u sounded like u needed somebody to talk to u so I was just checking. But I hope u feel better, and plz don't start, my friends who self harmed said that it was an addiction and very hard to stop, so I don't think u want to add on the extra pain. But I hope u feel better
@tdog4423
4 жыл бұрын
destiny Jones thanks I’ll try not to. Also wish you all the happiness in the world 🙂
@destinyjones7511
4 жыл бұрын
@@tdog4423 thank u I appreciate it
@mempotato3189
2 жыл бұрын
I bite my arms with extreme force whenever I’m frustrated. This is mainly at school. I enjoy lessons as I do not find them hard compared to others, but I get frustrated when I don’t finish a lesson. This also happens when I see particular individuals which I don’t like. It’s a massive overreaction, and I do it away from others, but I have hidden this from everyone in my life. It’s refreshing to know others suffer from self harm, and I am not alone. My biting happens on many other occasions, but school is an example. I have done this since I was 8. I’m trying to stop.
@M4ximum_pow3r
3 жыл бұрын
I do it for a few reasons. 1. I like the feeling of pain. 2. It calms me down when I have a mental breakdown or panic attack. I also kinda want people to know so they don't treat me so badly.
@heaterpastel9997
3 жыл бұрын
Your skin isn't a paper, don't cut it Your face isn't a mask, don't cover it Your body isn't a book, don't judge it Your life isn't a movie, don't end it Your heart isn't a door, don't lock it Copy and paste this to others that sad Edit: this is copy and pasted
@audreyflynn9597
3 жыл бұрын
I have the chance to talk to someone about self harming but I don’t take it, not because I’m afraid or feel like a burden, it’s because I don’t want to stop. Self harm gives me happiness, yes I know it sounds weird but I feel relieved from all stress and I enjoy feeling the freedom and seeing my -/cuts/-
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