Step #1: Don't do anything. *They tend to fall in love quickly.*
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
True
@greyvil
4 жыл бұрын
Very true
@maijapoppanen218
4 жыл бұрын
Lol true
@acharich
4 жыл бұрын
😭😂😭
@IsaacV2001
4 жыл бұрын
Sigh. Yeah.
@Sargaxon
3 жыл бұрын
1. Be an active listener 2. Be encouraging and willing to take risks (be their number one fan) 3. Be independent 4. Keep it simple, be easy going (don't have rules) 5. Be a consistent person, have thick skin (don't be offended easily) 6. Be silly, don't take yourself too seriously
@TheRealThomas1993
3 жыл бұрын
Bonus points if they're a little awkward - an Enfp
@acemoises8991
2 жыл бұрын
InstaBlaster
@kaleb.carvalho
Жыл бұрын
You skipped the last advice: Sometimes you need to start coming into their face with a flashlight, you really need to get their attention, especially when they got a lot of stuff going on. Don't give up!
@cory99998
Ай бұрын
fine ill just date another enfp
@TheKyoung213
4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I (ENFP) fell in love with my husband. He would listen to me and then could repeat back to me everything I said on a later date. He loved going to the park with me and to theme parks without complaint. I’m 42 now and he still does all the childlike things with me. He is also independent. He is seriously my perfect match and we have been together for 25 years. Perfect marriage. You are spot on.
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
That’s fantastic! Congrats
@wowskaterchick
4 жыл бұрын
Kat Young what’s his mbpt type?
@acharich
4 жыл бұрын
💥❤💥
@user-fz7nt5ge3o
4 жыл бұрын
So happy for you. 😊
@sacredwaters9
3 жыл бұрын
Cool! What is his MBTI type?
@DanaKrystle
4 жыл бұрын
yup, as an ENFP, boredom is my nightmare.
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
TRUE. DAT.
@DanaKrystle
4 жыл бұрын
@@Sweeneytv lol, if people only knew ... totally considering sending exactly this video to make it easier to date me, what do you think ? too easy ?
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
@@DanaKrystle Nah. I mean. Why play games right? haha
@DanaKrystle
4 жыл бұрын
@@Sweeneytv hehe, good point. But I wasn't going to play games, I just feel like no one understand me you know :/ , I didn't realize It was coming across as playing games ....
@TestaRosssa_
4 жыл бұрын
@@DanaKrystle I think he was saying, "Nah, you're not making it too easy." So I think he agreed that you should send the video, which would be straight up, rather than playing games to get them to give you love how you want.
@mmonalysa
4 жыл бұрын
i, as an infj, fit all the things you have said. now i just need an enfp lol
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
you have my blessing. good luck in your search lol
@phoebesanchez8915
4 жыл бұрын
Enfp volunteer
@realloud999
4 жыл бұрын
As an enfp, Good luck!
@acharich
4 жыл бұрын
Haha, I keep hearing that they're perfect matches.. 🔥
@TadTalkss
4 жыл бұрын
There are heaps of us
@annetownet
4 жыл бұрын
Great listener, encourager, independent etc. , you're exactly looking for an INFJ
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
this pleases me
@JonasAnandaKristiansson
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! It was never a single time in my life where the click wasn't reeeeaal between me and a ENFP, not only "romantically" and such, but in all ways thus far.
@phoebesanchez8915
4 жыл бұрын
@@JonasAnandaKristiansson really hm I've always had connections with intj I've never met an infj
@clairedixon5471
4 жыл бұрын
my boyfriend and I have been together for years, high school sweethearts, and it wasn’t until recently that I found out why we clicked so well: he’s an INFJ! We really got lucky just stumbling upon one another
@yayaahmad6876
4 жыл бұрын
@@phoebesanchez8915 enfps perfect companions are infjs and intjs. I've read somewhere that intjs tend to be possesive towards enfps which made them stressed more, compared to infjs that knows the boundary and usually giving enfps their time they need. It may vary tho i didn't mean any hate
@mattr2961
4 жыл бұрын
The being good listener is by far most important thing. You have to love my mind, cuz I love yours. Enfp love is deep.
@juvilynseva4708
15 күн бұрын
Agree but I didn't get it in return, very sad for an ENFP
@iknowwhatsup2880
4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I think my quietness is mistaken for disinterest when really I'm rolling around in my head for days with what people have said.
@Me-rd7po
4 жыл бұрын
as an ENFP I think one thing that makes the realationship better is quality time. I love speading time around someone I love and doing that more it fills me with energy and love :))
@noh4933
3 жыл бұрын
Yuppp same that's the best thing I can have
@gidzboxbox8839
4 жыл бұрын
I'm an enfp. I feel that other people have so much general knowledge that I don't. I am high in emotional intelligence but don't have general knowledge such as street knowledge etc. It's attractive when the guy knows stuff about his area etc. And everything you said is true. Hate rules, hate fake people, I also don't like goody two shoes that look down on rule breakers. I love it when people are fun and badass but in a good way. I love it when guys show confidence in what's right and stand up for themselves actively and not let anyone mess with them. And you're right about rule breaking. I love it when people break rules for us. It makes me get their exciting side out I'm so bored of people who like routine and afraid to step out of it. It's true that thick skin is attractive
@marianna4066
4 жыл бұрын
God this is so me
@melo3744
4 жыл бұрын
Sameeee
@TamakiCherry
4 жыл бұрын
YES YOU JUST EXPLAINED EVERYTHING PERFECT FOR MEEE
@PGOuma
3 жыл бұрын
I need help from an enfp to break some rules around this town. I don't really like em lol but I'm looked down upon each time I go against the grain. I need a partner in crime, haha
@gidzboxbox8839
3 жыл бұрын
@@TamakiCherry may we find our men 🤣
@ladyk131
3 жыл бұрын
My ENFP husband said early on in our relationship that he's looking for a "partner in crime". I take him out in public, release him into the wild, and watch him go! (while cheerleading and feeding into his antics from the sidelines) **
@Sweeneytv
3 жыл бұрын
That’s all we really need
@favoredbookcovers4634
4 жыл бұрын
I the more I learn about ENFPs I'm coming to the conclusion that they're kind of like introvert/extrovert hybrids- much like their mirrored counterpart INFJ. Most extroverts don't even sense people sapping their energy, but every ENFP I know needs time alone to recharge like an introvert and has mistyped as INFJ at times, simply because of a need for more alone time during that season of their life. On the flipside, INFJs though introverted admittedly LOVE people and connections more than most introverts. Before I ever typed as an INFJ I thought I was extroverted, but just extremely shy. It wasn't until I started working as a dispatcher and had to talk to people all day every day that I realized how drained I was after months of minimal recharging.
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
I've been saying ENFPs are the most introverted extrovert. but everyone laughed at me. no ones laughing now... lol
@IndigoBellyDance
4 жыл бұрын
HB Pen ENFP’s r the most introverted of the extroverts. So yeah we love our research time But we want all our friends in the next room:)
@katielui131
4 жыл бұрын
totally with you on the "need time to recharge" part
@sacredwaters9
3 жыл бұрын
Enfp are the ONLY extrovert/introvert according to the Myers Briggs. I 👍
@marklowery8193
3 жыл бұрын
I’d never have to recharge from people and go think things through if the joy never dies.. that’s when I go quite and get tired
@alu9360
4 жыл бұрын
I spot many Infj's in the comments. I want to meet you in real life, guys and not on KZitem :'(
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
Haha good luck getting em outside
@voyance4elle
4 жыл бұрын
@@Sweeneytv hahah 😂 good answere 👍
@Nina21_
3 жыл бұрын
Austin's answer is so funny 😂 but also truue 😂
@christina2311
3 жыл бұрын
I’m an ENFP dating an INFP. It’s total harmonious bliss. I’ve never met someone who understands me more than him. Perfect match.
@Alyssa-im8tg
3 жыл бұрын
omg me too!! im an enfp and my s/o is an infp and honestly we literally fit along so well, im convinced we're soulmates.
@larsswig912
3 жыл бұрын
I'm also female enfp dating an infp! we get along so well although some of our inner values are different. but, we have a lot in common and when we first started dating we both had to say several times, "am I you?"
@ganapa3350
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP having a crush on ENFP. I feel connected the first time we talked! It's crazy. Just wish me luck guys, please. And what should I do now? Help!
@ladyfoxwf1075
4 жыл бұрын
I'm an ENFP watching this to see what the guy has to say XD Edit: These points are all correct, except, I can see myself with either an introvert or an extrovert :) Some extra tips from me: 1. Don't be afraid of eye contact, because if you are, I will think either you're not interested in what I'm saying, that there's something wrong with how I look, that you're scared of me, or that you won't be able to connect properly in a relationship. 2. Don't do things to impress me that YOU don't want to do, I don't want pretence, one REALLY important thing to me is truth from a significant other. 3. Don't hold back on talking about things you're interested in, just because you think I might find it boring or insulting, I want to hear everything you have to say, good or bad, like I said I want to be truthful, and so I would want to know you properly.
@marias7328
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, the eye contact thing. So important.
@ladyfoxwf1075
4 жыл бұрын
@@marias7328 Ikr, it's so awkward when everytime your eyes meet, they look away as far as they can and I'm just like... what's wrong? D: XD
@TheColdCreature
4 жыл бұрын
My inner INFJ is lowkey proud that most of these things seem to come naturally to me ♡ As long as my ENFP isn't hurt when I try to give advice on their passions- I'll be happy ♡ All I want is for the people I care about to be happy and be the best they can be ♡
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
I bet some of my closest friends are INFJs.
@TheColdCreature
4 жыл бұрын
@@Sweeneytv Sounds like you've got good mates :) Mind you- I'm bias
@IndigoBellyDance
4 жыл бұрын
ENFP spiderweb of thoughts 💭 😂😂😃😄😁😆 Oh so true!!! I feel bad for people who have to listen to me.... man do we get sidetracked and combine 8 things at once and forget not everyone is in our heads :)
@acharich
4 жыл бұрын
😭😂😭 I've done this..!
@TadTalkss
4 жыл бұрын
Same haha
@TeraHammer
3 жыл бұрын
INFJ here: it is so nice to not need to seek any underlying thoughts of you ENFPs. We understand what you mean with your words, and you put our thoughts/feelings into words.
@GUYEDITINGS
3 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHHAHA ME AND MY BEST FRIENDS HAHAH HOLY SHIT
@AshJae
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤦♀️
@PS-xb9hc
4 жыл бұрын
Practical? Steady? Consistent? Able to laugh at nonsense ....sounds like INFJ! Hello!😁💕
@stephynuts3924
4 жыл бұрын
one day I told my fiance I wanted 4 different careers (one being an ASTRONAUT!). I did this because I noticed he was ready to support me in any I dream I had. He, of course, was on board for every single career I randomly picked. That was when I knew he was the one lol
@dreamluvr1600
4 жыл бұрын
Just Me that’s so cute! 😭
@stephynuts3924
3 жыл бұрын
@Brooke Testi We just got married yesterday :D
@kyutiepiejay
3 жыл бұрын
@@stephynuts3924 oh congrats!!! 🥳
@SolidSiren
4 жыл бұрын
INFJs are fiercely committed, also. We want our partner to come to US for their needs. Personal, intimate needs. Also INFJs are VERY able to just go with the flow. Spontaneity with a solid solid foundation.
@NikiBThatsMe
3 жыл бұрын
The moment he mentioned the spontaneous singing of Disney songs.... Yup, that's me in a nutshell haha
@bartz5641
4 жыл бұрын
An overlapping property we like as ENFPs is TOLERANCE , let us be who we are! We fall in love, just let us be.
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Just love me already
@amandawagers4462
4 жыл бұрын
INFJ here, I love this video because these are all things that I as an INFJ just naturally do lol, I've been getting to know and ENFP man here lately and it's like honey to him, or at least that's how he acts (watching some ENFP videos to better understand him)
@SolidSiren
4 жыл бұрын
Wow communication is really valuable to ENFPs
@nompumelelostoffberg5492
4 жыл бұрын
As an INTJ I always thought ENTP's are the best match for us. Then I soon learned it's actually ENFP... Hoping your channel will enlighten me on ENFP. I am all ears! You doing a great job though very informative!
@phoebesanchez8915
4 жыл бұрын
Hey intj😸😉🙂🙃
@nompumelelostoffberg5492
4 жыл бұрын
Hey how are you
@dreamluvr1600
4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE INTJs!
@jesssss12
20 күн бұрын
I disagree. It’s a good match initially, because “opposites attract” but you’ll soon find out ENFPs are much more focused on validation from their external world. That goes very far away from INTJ lone wolf standard. That said I have dated so many ENFPs that I noticed some are more in need of validation than others, it is not a standard. Personality isn’t a standard truly. Entj, Entp or a very relaxed ENFP is a good match. Dig into the person not just the surface face value. I noticed working with personality people come in all flavors and colors, while there are some super independent ENFPs there might be some super dependent ENFPs and match with a certain set of people better than others.
@jans.g6033
3 жыл бұрын
Step 1: be a good listener Me: okay... I can do that. Step 2: encourage them and help them even in their crazy passions Me (an INTJ): ....but I'm yet to learn the art of being optimistic.
@KaroGlazerMusic
4 жыл бұрын
Totally true. I'm an ENFP and YES we are really crazy!
@tishallabrownlee4190
4 жыл бұрын
You are spot on........ My husband and I have been married almost 17 years & he's a ENFP I'm a INFJ I've spent years analyzing him he's my best friend and you sound just like him and you are exactly right with those expectations when you do these things he's a infectious toddler in a candy store but if you do anything that are the don't he can be a nightmare 😂 which isn't him at heart...... Great video!!!!
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
6 WAY Time Stamps (show me dae wae austin plz, so long) yeh I'm sorry ok. I TALK. 1:17 - 1st way 4:08 - 2nd way 6:21 - 3rd way 11:44 - 4th way 16:12 - 5th way 18:50 - 6th way Want more ENFP and Life Advice, playlist right here take a look! kzitem.info/news/bejne/joB3xXqoinqDbKg Check out More Ireland videos here! Playlist just for you: kzitem.info/rock/krUbSFjoh-DLohKpQrs2HQplaylists?view_as=subscriber
@squidward9191
4 жыл бұрын
hi
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
@@squidward9191 yeah I would try to listen more than talk. For starters, if the ENFP is gonna be vulnerable to you, they need to know you gonna listen to them.
@delll372
4 жыл бұрын
hahaha i like your comment here so much
@justjenneli6367
4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ganymede242
3 жыл бұрын
So amusing listening as an INTJ. I do all of those things automatically and effortlessly. Come to me ENFPs!
@CinnamonCorndog
3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP and type 4 enneagram. I've realized that most of the time I want someone to be my number one fan, and encourage and support me, so that I can tell them they're wrong and disparage myself. Lol I'm working on it.
@ellier2018
3 жыл бұрын
OMG I thought I’d never find a fellow enfp type 4!! It’s weird, some days I feel like an energetic atomic bomb at a party and then disappear off somewhere to reflect on the meaning of life and death. 🤦♀️ pretty unstable combination LOL. Usually enfp are associated with 7’s but the enfp 4 is an interesting combo
@CinnamonCorndog
3 жыл бұрын
@@ellier2018 thats so interesting that your experience is so similar to mine. My right hand has an owl tattoo with a bunch of esoteric symbols and AASB (as above so below) on my knuckles, and my left hand has a neon flamingo in sunglasses, a neon pineapple and the word VIVA on my knuckles....illustrating the polarity of how I'm wired. Tons of energy, charismatic lover of life, and also extremely introspective, and sometimes unbearably melancholy. Lol!
@ellier2018
3 жыл бұрын
@@CinnamonCorndog those tats sound rlly 😎 cool. Enfp 4’s switch from Edgar Allen Poe poetry to dank memes so quickly 😆
@licyawatidewi1327
4 жыл бұрын
he mentioned a mathematician. meanwhile me: an ENFP mathematician 👀
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
You are a God among ENFPs
@bubbleartlive
3 жыл бұрын
As an enfp I'm very attracted, as a friend or romantic partner if someone adds interesting points and build offs an idea we are talking about..... omg I just wrote that as you said that bahahaha
@bloodrune329
4 жыл бұрын
A friend in my anatomy class once described me as a “tree” because we would be dissecting a cat and I would ask him what kind of car he drove
@gidzboxbox8839
4 жыл бұрын
This is the best video ever to describe what an enfp likes. I agree with every video. Never take this video down and keep on posting. New subscriber right here
@maryye3729
3 жыл бұрын
I am laughing about the rule part because as an INFJ there's no rules but we get irritated quite a lot and people sometimes demand that we "lay out the rules" and I am like... uh I am not trying to make you obey any rule... it's just I can sense it when you are not exactly being supportive and friendly, you think I can't tell, I get irritated and you try to accuse me of being unpredictable lol, but my ENFP friends have simply never pressed my button, and I am like "see there's a person who doesn't do rules but doesn't ever press my button, no need for rules hhhh"
@legendzfall
4 жыл бұрын
I think I need to find an ENFP asap. I do all of these things without even thinking about it. (ESTP)
@phoebesanchez8915
4 жыл бұрын
Well ya wanna hang sometime. Lol. Even if it is via internet haha. 😸😺
@gracegreyling2472
4 жыл бұрын
Welllll hello! hahaha
@amanifestasticlife842
4 жыл бұрын
That's so crazy - enfps looking for intjs hehe
@amanifestasticlife842
4 жыл бұрын
That's so crazy - enfps looking for intjs hehe
@sacredwaters9
3 жыл бұрын
👀👀👀
@SirJohnAlexander
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this content. As an ENFP this gave me great insight in both myself and my current relationship.
@idyllicallysweet403
4 жыл бұрын
Yesss I seem to be looking into everything of an enfp but the humour won me over! I always get misunderstood when I try to express my kind of humour but it seems to align with the enfp types. :'3
@Eponagirl0810
4 жыл бұрын
My intuition and feeling values have never changed over the years. They are the highest possible...like a person on a seesaw without anyone else on the other end...idealism with a large dose of realism attached. My intuition is very strong, and I am grateful for this. Hopefully I will find my soulmate...a true love, like my parents had, one that is not manipulative and without gaslighting. I want to experience the beauty of sharing myself in true intimacy with a trusted loving partner...I more than welcome the thought.
@larryclark9380
3 жыл бұрын
Worthwhile video. I was looking to better understand my genius and sometimes off-the-wall thirty year-old daughter. She is an ENFP 100%. I am an INTJ. Have a good day!
@NiiroTenshi
4 жыл бұрын
so true all you say, thanks and have a joyful year 2020!
@bananafanalll6651
4 жыл бұрын
I love this video oh so much!! You are too funny!! I’m an enfp woman and it’s so cool to see an enfp man! Everything you said was spot on!! it’s just funny to hear it from a male perspective
@jessicabrandt9611
4 жыл бұрын
I love it 100% spit out my drink with laughter at one point !!! 😂😂☺️🤗🎉
@zozezo9771
3 жыл бұрын
yes as myself an ENFP im trying to watch a video about loving myself
@MaxAigner
4 жыл бұрын
I hope you know how deeply helpful your videos are to my life. keep up the great work! #ENFP!
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that! Thank u.
@JonasAnandaKristiansson
4 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeees another video of you!!! :) And I think you are ON POINT from what I learned and intuited about my favorite type - ENFP. Bless man!!
@ruthlessruth4197
3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR THE TIME STAMPS
@davidhardy4419
4 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD! Literally just got read. So true about everything.
@kiznyctslyer6408
3 жыл бұрын
Why does keep seing these comments on how INFJ and ENFP find each other makes me so damn jealous and excited at the same time?🥺🥰😭 Like, where is my ENFP??
@JulietTheGirl
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks! So fun to learn about myself more!
@mattr2961
4 жыл бұрын
Honestly some great insights man.
@parsajeihoun1125
4 жыл бұрын
You are 100 percent true about the independence
@EtherealAthena
3 жыл бұрын
lmao fun fact his points on falling for an introvert that suck the energy out of you, and that we hate too many restrictions is why i broke up with my ex Revisiting the video 6 months later so glad i listened to him - i can NOT be your only source of sunshine!!
@TheAcrenshaw
4 жыл бұрын
Okay so I'm an INTJ and he's a ENFP. I have five of the six qualities that you explained. I'm hoping you said them in order of importance. But maybe not because that sixth one you listed, must be number for my ENFP because we've gone from dating to roommates, to boy/girl friend, to breaking up, and presently' roomates. Thanks for the video, it was enlightening.
@emolly93
3 жыл бұрын
SO TRUE! One of the top qualities that i look for in a partner is an "active" listener!
@daniellebriseno4078
3 жыл бұрын
This sounds exactly like him! And he has responded in the ways you described!! Its still in the early stages but im a INTP and so far it seems we are compatible. Iv never met anyone anywhere close to a match. ❤❤ Thanks dor ur insight!
@jasmineadrianolucht
4 жыл бұрын
I'm an ENFP and this video made me laugh. Everything is true for me!!! 😬😂
@Atlas-ck9vm
4 жыл бұрын
I am an INTJ and I find naturally myself in all of those traits.
@lenswatson
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Austin!
@jaybaeluv92
4 жыл бұрын
You have restored my faith in ENFPs my dude! I'm an INFJ and lately I've been questioning if we actually do vibe like most people say we do. I've only met a couple ENFPs in my life and yeah, we've clicked somewhat. Over time I thought it just might be me, and just decided that it was OK and to move on with the fact that maybe you guys don't like INFJ's as much or maybe my INFJ-ness wasn't the right fit for you guys. But as you gave your points I was like, "DUDE, he's describing ME!!"--maybe minus the silly just a bit. (Going for my doctors in Psychology and sometimes I bypass silly a bit too much when I'm focused and in the zone to help people). And I guess it really didn't occur to me that you guys are basically US but flipped with a bit of different spice!! I was HOOKED when you said, "driving around town in onezies and singing Disney's Hercules!" A person like THAT- is DEFINITELY my ideal type!!! I value listening and nourishing others potential while sometimes needing that extra nudge to let the world see my crazy side too! Thank you for this video!!! You ROCK!!!!
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
haha. Glad I was able to give you the boost thanks for sharing
@nala1684
4 жыл бұрын
Fellow INFJ here Good luck for the doctors. I'm also going to study Psychology :)
@jaybaeluv92
4 жыл бұрын
Nala Nala That's awesome!! Good luck to you too!! It's NOT easy!
@TheCreeperBosses
4 жыл бұрын
Hey, my brother is INFJ, im ENFP, and its literally the best thing ever when were together, especially having grown up together were unstoppable and just keep generating ideas (both being graphic artists) and deep discussions, and stupid reactions and funny spontaneous jokes. Its that the compatibility is on so many different levels, that both share. Whereas other types may just like me depending on a phase or whatevs, my whole person is understood and executed only when im with him. And its a great feeling for both of us ! So feel better, i think INFJ are the best for us ENFP and vice versa ^^
@voyance4elle
4 жыл бұрын
From my experience as an ENFP with an INFJ boyfriend, I can tell you we are able to bring that sillyness out of you 🥰 it's magical. My bf is always soooo serious but somehow after many months in the relationship with me, he started to let his weirdness come out, his crazyness, his goofyness... All that good stuff was hiding in there all that time 💖 We are so happy 🙏 I am so in love... 🔥💕
@nancycole1128
4 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video it was helpful. Yes we have the personality types, but then there is the Sun Signs and the moon signs. My last boyfriend was an ENFP Pisces but his moon was in Taurus, so although he was adventurous, he was consistent and highly romantic. Currently I'm interested in another ENFP and he is Capricorn with moon sign of Gemini but this one seems to be a little bit more all over the place, of course because Gemini is an air sign. I am an infj sun in Leo moon in Aquarius.
@alejandrom.garcia7139
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, this absolutely describes me. You have given me words to understand what I am looking for.
@yoshyme9564
4 жыл бұрын
Fantastic episode 💘💓 Can you do about ENFP / ESFP my husband is an ENFP
@carawilliams1506
4 жыл бұрын
Super accurate! Im and ENFP and I love being random and silly. I literally called my bestfriend at 1 am to make homemade donuts then jump on the trampoline singing Disney songs lol...and that was a great night..morning? Ha 😄
@gretals9782
4 жыл бұрын
I'm the same way! Spontaneity is so fun
@MrZitrex
3 жыл бұрын
You are basically describing INTJ personality...
@txorchid0006
3 жыл бұрын
Sweenytv, you seem to describe my ENFP boyfriend to a T. And guess what? I'm an ISTJ female. He and I are very happy together! Prior to watching this, I was puzzled about why my boyfriend enjoys my companionship so much. After all, aren't ISTJ's too stuffy and boring? lol Now I get it. Sweenytv, your 6 tips describes me. So THAT'S why just being my normal self seems to make my boyfriend so happy! :D It's my mission in life to be his heart's Safe Place. Your honesty about the way ENFP's react made a few light bulbs go off in my head. :) Thanks for helping me to better love and accept my ENFP in the way he needs. Reader, if you want to become your male ENFP's Safe Place, here's some key tips that work for me: --Despite his emotional ups and downs, I always accept him where he's at. --I fully engage in his fantasy adventures and his big dreams. For an ISTJ that takes adjustment, but it's worth it! --I love him when he shines bright--he's like a dolphin flipping through a rainbow. I love him when he gets dark--I simply call him my beloved "Dr. Crow," and roll with it! lol I give him room to be dark about the world. But when he's dark about himself, I listen, and lift him back up again. --I open up to him about my emotions, without him having to ask. It's hard for an ISTJ to make that leap of faith. But it's so worth it! For Sensors reading this, it gets easier and easier with practice. --I keep my rules simple with him. (And yes I do love rules, yet I ditch being a "rule Nazi.") --I accept our polar-opposite interests. As a Sensor, I don't have a love for the abstract. Yet, for my ENFP man's happiness, we talk regularly about philosophical dilemmas, social justice, existentialism, etc. We playfully debate. All this gives me more reasons everyday to marvel at his brilliant ENFP mind. --I listen when he lets me know I'm being too controlling, and we now negotiate much better than at the start. We treat each other as equal partners. --And prior to meeting him, I actively sought to become a better active listener and encourager. Sweenytv, thanks so much for this video!
@danad401
4 жыл бұрын
I’m a very extroverted ENFJ that’s been in love with a very extroverted ENFP for years. I know we aren’t ultimately compatible but the feels just don’t go. He’s pretty amazing!
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
Aing and katara are that combo from avatar the last air bender
@danad401
4 жыл бұрын
Sweeneytv I may have to check that out.
@gretals9782
4 жыл бұрын
Don't worry if MBTI says you're not compatible. Make that decision yourself☺
@manojjainism
3 жыл бұрын
I am an enfp and enfj is my most favourite personality type
@danad401
3 жыл бұрын
Manoj Jain 💕 Oh wow! That’s awesome! Do you have any tips for me since you have some understanding of my personality type?
@Allulathepoodle
3 жыл бұрын
Okay but as an Enfp did other Enfps kept getting distracted by the stuff in the background... I just kept thinking that his garage looked as cluttered as my room after I said I cleaned it lol 😂 ( What I did try 🤦🏻♀️)
@pileofgay101
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with most except with the "I'm the most important" part. I do tend to get jealous if they give someone more attention than me but if I don't trust them to not like idk cheat on me I don't want to be with them, There needs to be mutual trust between both so we can both have our friends, our best friends and just people that we can consider family. I don't want someone to give ONLY attention to me.
@cassandramessenger631
4 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP, I totally agree about the independent part... I was in a relationship with a guy who I thought was independent and had his own friends- but then he had a falling out with them so when I went and did my own things with my friends he got insanely jealous and couldn’t handle it. It was just a big turn off and I didn’t know how to tell him cause when I tried he got defensive...
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
yup. It's hard when that is coupled with no trust and they are a little co dependent.
@Professa06
Жыл бұрын
Everytime I hear info on ENFP's it's so amazing how it speaks to all of my quirky ways. As an ENFP, I have to say the moment I feel like an option verses a priority I'm giving side eyes and eventually I fall off....like Casper sometimes unfortunately.
@JanKatrinaGuanzon
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. I'm independent and I don't want anyone to depend on me so much like emotionally, physically or mentally. Like we really do care and we can give it freely to anyone who's needing it but when someone always needing us and attending to their needs always can be very draining for us.
@raratey
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha the Micheal Scott comparison hurts a little but it's true.
@justjenneli6367
4 жыл бұрын
I missed watching you!
@girlextasy
3 жыл бұрын
who doesn't like women/men attention? I'm ENFP and I like flirting with guys if I'm out at the bar and I would hope that my second half was the same as me or else I would find him boring or insincere. What you've mentioned (girl running to other boys when you're busy just to get your attention) sounded like a low esteem issue or just being very immature. Love what you said about being a no 1 fan.
@soulfulspec
3 жыл бұрын
I've been a silent viewer for about 7 months but I can't anymore. I so have a crush on you. Sincerely, - infj
@RichAloha
3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP myself, I can totally vouch for what you say at 10:37 so FIRE! :)
@zhariaorume7935
4 жыл бұрын
goshh im craying ,...😲😭 i need ENFP asap,.. He is definitely the one for me
@colleen1396
3 жыл бұрын
I have been in a relationship with an ENFP for almost two years as an INFJ
@lolo-dp4rl
3 жыл бұрын
wowww that was soo intresting!!!
@zakariaslayer715
3 жыл бұрын
the best thing that i'm as an INTJ i do all of that without even thinking of it except making rules . because rules guides us to better result in our works
@SaM-el2sr
3 жыл бұрын
Well covered! Lol I've seen all of this in full display w ENFPs
@thefilipinojoe
Ай бұрын
ENFP here.. Extremely picky and not at all interested in having a serious romantic relationship with anyone unless I’ve known them for a very long time and fully know, unconditionally love and trust them, and vice versa. There’s just way too many creepy people in this world to be rushing into any type of relationship, whether work pals, friends, casual flings, or more. Staying single is perfectly fine for me and maybe the best scenario, as my independence, alone time, and freedom are a must. I agree that a life partner would need to be independent and a positive influence, but also always learning, growing and improving, as well as adventurous enough to be willing to join me on my adventures, which are never ending and thus requires a very special person to keep up. Realistically not expecting to meet such a person 😂 and that’s perfectly fine. My life is a fun and fantastic adventure as is. As for my ideal partner, that is an ESFJ (male).
@Clark0907
4 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP this is SO TRUE every single point was on par and as I was watching this I was telling my boyfriend what he was saying and he was like that is so you☠️
@Yamengo1
4 жыл бұрын
Everything is right. Rule #4 - nightmare I lived in. I as ENFP was in relationship with ISTJ...
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry
@manojjainism
3 жыл бұрын
Don't be with istj
@robertzsombok7661
4 жыл бұрын
Seeking attention and sapping energy has nothing to do with being an introvert. There just are people like that.
@fiorellabelle
4 жыл бұрын
Good to know, thanks :D
@snowyung9516
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my God I’m half way into the video and I’m checking off all the points😱 I’m an INFJ btw 😂
@let_it_sin_kin
4 жыл бұрын
Okay I watched until the end - so I'd say I don't really drawn to be crazy and be easy-going(all the time) but I'd say I am really the one who can decide that WE NEED TO GO TO NEW ZELAND. NOW. I DON'T CARE. But it wouldn't be like.. I can't really get as excited as ENFP does but that's why I'm so attracted to them. So it seems to work and fill in the gaps :) Thank you for the video it helped a lot! (sorry for typos as I am not English)
@let_it_sin_kin
4 жыл бұрын
I meant being crazy as you described that in the video😂
@zugarglider3603
3 жыл бұрын
1. Share your opinions and interests with us( BUT DON'T ,I REPEAT DO NOT TRY TO PUSH UR BELIEFS ON US) 2. Be passionate 3. Don't view us as someone who can fix you 4. be mature but don't take yourself to seriously 5. TELL US ( we are oblivious and may not even have noticed you and will tell u straight up if we feel the same, even if we don't like you we will be impressed with your bravery, honesty and communication skills) 6. Be interested in and value what we have to say and what we think about things At least for me personally if I like someone I'll just tell them but ik other ENFPs in my life who don't
@let_it_sin_kin
4 жыл бұрын
YAS that's what I needed! (I am an infj lol)
@Sweeneytv
4 жыл бұрын
you are welcome
@melissajanssen9431
3 жыл бұрын
The rules! Especially hearing about them right off the bat. As an EFNP it seems too hard to live up to the pressure of all the rules, not to mention no fun.
@rmxlabs
3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP you have summarized my dream woman!
@irisloveadventures
4 жыл бұрын
I love watching your videos! Btw your really cute! ^_^ And also wish to meet an ENFP! #infj
@tracyolexys8356
4 жыл бұрын
Bro, you’ve got this ENFP situation down. This helps me understand me more 👍🏽 Respect! P.s. We are Sarcastic chameleons 🔥🔥
@angalarockz
3 жыл бұрын
We hate rules because we hate routines. If you are the type to plan every hour of every day or you like to have a routine, you are a turn off for us (ENFP). We like new and exciting things. We like to go with the flow and see the possibilities. We get bored doing things over and over.
@XaZtheDismember666
3 жыл бұрын
party chameleon just like infj (if they party) xD damn so similar but so different :D
@juangal7569
3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFJ, and I suspect my crush is probably and ENFP, or at least on the extrovert at least. I can message them, but she's in another state and moved years ago here in Texas. I've seen her highlights from her family to her friends, and I want to talk to her, I've talked to her this Wednesday, but last responded them a day or two ago. And so far I want her to recognize me and not just someone from elementary she knew. I'm considering to just let it all out with nothing holding back of what I think of them, what do you E's think? I could tell more for those that I want to ask for advice.
@dimassantikaning9650
3 жыл бұрын
Go for it! Say it as honestly and sincerely as you can. Ya know like from your deep heart. He deffo will respond. - Enfp
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