The fact that nobody talks about the book Casanova Playbook of Magnetism speaks volumes about how people are stuck in life
@Star_Jewel_Realm
4 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@PrgressiveHouse
Ай бұрын
What
@brist0pher
28 күн бұрын
This shit is fake. Don't bother yall
@motina2960
Жыл бұрын
1.Lead the conversation make it smooth 2.Make her laugh/smile, more the better 3. Tell her something that will make her embarrassed but in a good way
@jim2376
Жыл бұрын
Re point 3: Something like, "Nice outfit. Too bad they didn't have your size." Or, "Does your hair always look that messed up?" The situational opener (American version): "That's gunfire! Take cover!" Direct opener: You: "I know this is completely random, but I think you're really cute." She: look of disgust or alarm, turns and walks away. If you flunked her physical attraction test, none of Marni's lines will work.
@mikewillett5076
6 күн бұрын
I've done this with about 30 women in the past couple of months. Got a couple of numbers. One stopped messaging after the first couple of texts. The other decided that her being 39 and me 49 was too much of an age difference. Yet there are countless Mr Dorkmasters out there with beautiful women. And no they aren't good looking or have a dynamic personality. SMH
@gottrekk5798
2 жыл бұрын
I would add: 1. maintain eye contact, 2. pay attention to what she's saying 3. keep your back strait, keep confident posture. 4. learn compliments, learn how to flirt and practise it anytime you can.
@alpet67
2 жыл бұрын
Most guys totally miss the importance of eye contact, it is POWERFUL! Great point.
@yeshagoyal2966
2 жыл бұрын
And i know many people who are like "for how long should I maintain eye contact?" When you first meet here's look into their eyes like directly into her eyes once you know what color and shade her eyes are look somewhere else like anywhere else just not their eyes. I suggest you look behind her. Then after looking behind for 1 second look at her just not her eyes. And then strike up a conversation and when she tells you something intersting, look into her eyes for like 2-3 seconds. When you laugh you could either look down to the side to appear more of a gentleman or laugh while looking directly into her eyes to appear more of a confident bad boy. This is horrible advice but it might just work
@VesproDBA
2 жыл бұрын
@@yeshagoyal2966 I'm going to do it as i hold my phone up to the side for reference throughout the process and point to each stage with my finger as i execute these instructions
@Syrin23
2 жыл бұрын
Even more importantly, learn to read her body signals. Some women have shut you down before you opened your mouth and are signaling as such
@pedrosilvaproductions
Жыл бұрын
Big mistake is to overly compliment. I've seen so many girls complaining that they always get complimented way too much. It's like you're treating them like a celebrity. "oh but shouldn't I treat her nicely?" - yes of course, you don't need to compliment her all the time. Big opener is to compliment her clothes or something like that on a date. The last date I had when I complimented her clothes after like 2 hours she was like "oh finally you say that, I was waiting for that all night" obviously she said that in a joking tone ofc
@pgplanas
2 жыл бұрын
Use those lines, but don't forget these simple rules: 1. Be handsome 2. Be attractive 3. Don't be unattractive
@GenXMusicMan
2 жыл бұрын
That just sounds like a dumb straw man counterpoint…
@tonym2513
2 жыл бұрын
@@GenXMusicMan possibly, but I can tell you that he’s also 100% correct.
@grumblesa10
2 жыл бұрын
..or show WEALTH. This sets jaws in the "dating coach" community, but it is EVOLUTIONARY reality. "A woman will accept a less attractive man if he appears to be wealthy/financially secure". Actual study BTW. Confirmed by 2 studies in Australia. Women were asked to rate male subjects in everyday "guy" clothes and with a small house and cheap car. THEN the same men were rated in upscale clothes/house car. Yep, MORE attractive by an AVERAGE of 2.5 points. Mythbusters did a show on this for goodness sake that showed EXACTLY the same results with a similar test subject composition.
@MrTbraida23
2 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty sure a beautiful woman will reflexively say “not interested” to these lines. Probably happens to her 5 times every day.
@Dissenter
2 жыл бұрын
Got all of that, just shit game lol. And honestly looks are good bait, but they are not everything. You won't get past that stage with shit game, specially with attractive women that can get other good looking guys.
@thailanduncensored2669
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been driving Uber part time(after work) for 3 years and I can tell you that I have learned with trial and error how to talk to everyone including flirting with women. Forget formula’s and just be fun , relaxed and cheeky with a smile.
@grumblesa10
2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY. "formulas" implies memorization. Which means guys will start getting in their heads, "what did she mean by that? Can I initiate touch? Did I maintain/not maintain eye contact?"
@pedrosilvaproductions
Жыл бұрын
If they are into you, it's very unlikely she will stop, unless you say something stupid, like a racist comment or something of that nature
@Víctor-c9g8u
8 ай бұрын
You said it bro, You summed it all nice and simple package, but it is funny to SEE these type of videos because they play the complicated Game to wrap their víctimas that believe in this type of content, humans are great when treated nicely most of the time.
@barrymanning6554
2 ай бұрын
5 stars!
@isaaccarnellkingiv2624
2 жыл бұрын
1. Disarming Question 2. Prop based Statement or Question (Ask or Comment on a near by Prop)! 3. Situational Opener (Ask or Comment about the Situation your in)! 4. Opinion Opener (Ask her about her Opinion on something)! 5. The Cold Read (Make a General Statement about her) 6. The Social Opener (I don't think I met you yet) 7. The Direct Opener (this is random, but I saw you from over there, and I thought you were hot, so I wanted to say "Hey, I'm ____",)
@grumblesa10
2 жыл бұрын
Except that actual WOMEN have replied to this and said, "in today's environment I'd find that a little off-putting. How about a simple, ' I don't believe we've met. I'm jim". It's what I use; frankly some of what she suggests is like gossiping which you do NOT want to do: women see that as a FEMININE behavior. Simple intro, and take it from there. Note the "in today's environment" phrase (which is a direct quote BTW). Essentially I interpret that to mean Marni is a: out of touch (by about 10yrs which ALSO just happens to be how old her book is); and b: isn't REALLY interested anymore and is on autopilot. In fairness, she's married and has a kid so while I understand her family is her priority she could at least BE HONEST. That's what chaps my ass about her and "dating coaches" in general. Sorry for the rant, jc
@isaaccarnellkingiv2624
2 жыл бұрын
@@grumblesa10You're basically advocating number 6: "The Social Opener" this one is Good and you'll get the conversation off to a good start.
@kennethleib7731
2 жыл бұрын
Or just go fin for the kill and approach her and say, " I typically don't do this because of today's social stigmas but I couldn't live with myself if I didn't introduce myself and say how breathe taking I find you. I'm Ken BTW it's nice to meet you" yes it takes balls with this one. But, I'm in sales so like the saying goes, what's the worst that could happen????? She says, NO !!!! B. F. D !!!!
@kennethleib7731
2 жыл бұрын
@@grumblesa10 interesting Mr. Grumbles. I saw her ring but didn't know her whole story. I find her incredibly sexy. Lucky man her husband
@Syrin23
2 жыл бұрын
Disarming question: Do you know where the bathroom is cause I'm about to have explosive diarrhea? Prop based: Are you a shoplifter because there is no way you can afford that? Situational: Can you distract that guy? He's my parole officer Opinion: Should I beat my dog with my left hand or my right hand? Cold read: You must be related to Stalin cause you look like you have a high body count Social opener: I know I haven't met you because I have a body cam hidden in the woman's restroom, and you've never been in the live feed Direct opener: Hey, will you give me your number or do I have to use the chloroform? Bonus: Did you fall from Heaven because your face looks like it's suffered serious trauma?
@ThePremiumChicken
2 жыл бұрын
I've using the "I don't think we've met/been introduced" at every social gathering and it's like magic. Some people are more reserved so I usually have a backup question or anecdote in mind.
@grumblesa10
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, same here. The key is not over-thinking it. The potential problem with this is if it's not something you normally would do/say-it will come off as well a "line". That could end it right there.
@pmoran7971
2 жыл бұрын
The premiumChicken Glad the video has been of great benefit to you but apart from the 'I think we've met 'line another good opening taking point is 'Body count' so you could introduce this into the conversation to speed things along so as a pointer if she is under twenty two a safe guess would be is that she has only slept with about 60 to 70 men not including threesomes and by asking her how many men she has slept with will definitely get her attention fast and get you well on the way to success! even id it just for one night!
@andrews993
2 жыл бұрын
Hey, wanna go for a moustache ride?
@manonshadowfax2482
2 жыл бұрын
I use this on people that I already know, works like a charm...
@lukelindenthal306
2 жыл бұрын
But sometimes you don't know how old a lady is
@maximiliendelhusa4093
Жыл бұрын
This is the best channel for tips in this area by a mile, you are amazing. Thank you very much. I am a 34 years old single father, widowed for almost 2 years and totally lost confidence in myself eventhough i used to be good at these things but inlost my touch totally. Now im motivated to try all these things out, you have no idea how motivated i am now. Hands down 1 of the best content creators of this area. ❤❤
@abemoyo7064
2 жыл бұрын
The way you deliver this phrases is key, it’s far more important than the context itself.
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
That is a fact
@timrogers2638
2 жыл бұрын
I didn't realize it until watching this video, but I've used 1, 2, 3, and 6 before and it's worked like a charm, leading to longer term involvement. I didn't know until now WHY those openers worked.
@proffeine2383
2 жыл бұрын
1. Simple directions, then introduce yourselves 2. Comment on something on her 3. Say something about what's happening around you 4. Ask for her opinion on something situational 5. Make a prediction about her personality 6. "I don't think I've met you" 7. Straight up let her know you like her
@awesumpowerz6805
2 жыл бұрын
@Proffeine ... THANKS!!!
@pmoran7971
2 жыл бұрын
Women are not that stupid she will only engage in conversation if she likes you otherwise forget it! Always go for an ugly girl they are never approached it also helps if they are fat you can mention food and this will get her attention so a good prediction is telling her how much she weighs and add two stone!
@gamerboii0566
2 жыл бұрын
@@pmoran7971 wtf lol....... now this is funny to read.
@proffeine2383
2 жыл бұрын
@@pmoran7971 LMAFAFAFO
@jasond626
2 жыл бұрын
Cheers for that man.. jeez she waffles on and a longggg intro.. Just get to the gold..
@TeamFish15
Жыл бұрын
“Hey, feel this shirt sleeve.” “Do you know what it’s made of?” “Boyfriend material.”
@Rexxtothekay
5 ай бұрын
Smoooth 😂😅
@datipadisdick2462
2 жыл бұрын
This is honestly huge to someone like me who has trouble starting conversation. I legit go dumb after, “thank you for your service.”
@beloglavisup2
2 жыл бұрын
"Hi, what's your name? - Jill." Will you keep it going? Is she interested?
@aprilbehling498
2 жыл бұрын
What ? 😂😂
@grumblesa10
2 жыл бұрын
As a veteran myself, that is a perfect window for a follow-on. Most civilians are clueless about the military (sadly); and if you follow up with, "Thank you. Yeah I was in the Army/AF/Navy/Marines for xxxx. What do you do?" Believe me, women will start the questions, unless they are woke/anti-military chicks but you really don't want to waste time on women like that anyway...
@Treefork
Жыл бұрын
How many of you guys watched all these videos and accidentally fell for Marni instead? 😂 This is good info for guys new to dating or guys who find themselves single after 20 years of marriage. Appreciate the info.
@the300club8
2 жыл бұрын
I have unknowingly used all of these without even thinking about it. She is dead on accurate! Great video, Marni! 👍🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@bulldawg986
2 жыл бұрын
Lost in the friend zone advice more like it
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
@@bulldawg986 im stuck in the friend zone
@bulldawg986
2 жыл бұрын
@@travisandrews3909 dont use her cringe pickup lines anymore that 90's pick up shit is dead!
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
@@bulldawg986 then what lines should i use??
@bulldawg986
2 жыл бұрын
@@travisandrews3909 its not about the lines it about how you convey your words
@harryhawk7700
2 жыл бұрын
I have no problem starting a conversation with women , I tell some of my male friends who struggle to just practice speaking to total strangers and it soon becomes second nature you then just start conversations with women you are attracted to , it's not that difficult once you get a bit of confidence .
@inorite4553
2 жыл бұрын
So great tip, tell them to practice on store clerks who work in sales. That's because they're already paid to be nice to you so they won't immediately reject you. You can practice your conversation techniques and take notes on what parts get her to volunteer information or try to continue the convo.
@Syrin23
2 жыл бұрын
That's good. Can you close the deal and get a contact?
@Kevon420
Жыл бұрын
The problem is just I have no interest or anything to say to most random people, they are so boring lol.
@pedrosilvaproductions
Жыл бұрын
@@inorite4553 Big tip this one of the store clerks. Actually, many will thank you for doing that, you're being nice to them, it's a good way for them to spend their job. Not chit chatting but a friendly 1min conversation can make someone's day. it's good for you and good for them
@pedrosilvaproductions
Жыл бұрын
@@Kevon420 Then you have to find something that's interesting in them. If you're just having small talk it's not interesting to anyone. I've come up with the most random things, and if you're confident and fun they'll most likely talk to you. I've met girls in parties just by saying "ok, I have a very very important question to you... pasta on a salad yes or no?" Something stupid like that, most girls love that lol
@thelitepredator
2 жыл бұрын
Mari I love you!!!!! Please do a video on women at work!!! I can’t tell if they like me or just being nice ! How do I professionally hit on women that’s the real challenge 😭😭
@grumblesa10
2 жыл бұрын
In a single word, don't. Here's three REAL reasons, (not "dating coach" reasons) why that's a bad idea: 1- Harassment. You may think of it as being persistent, but she may see it otherwise; because she's at work. You will have a quick trip to HR, and then a quick trip to Unemployment. 2- Related to #1 above. If you do a search on something like, "where do women NOT want to be approached"; you'll find again UNLIKE "dating coaches" its a- AT WORK b- Grocery Shopping c- At the gym Yep, I was surprised too and ran these past my nieces who are 38 and 31 now. They agreed. 3- Let's assume that you do it anyway and you are going out with her. The AVERAGE relationship in the US/UK/AUS/CAN (I suspect the rest of Europe would be close) is only 3 -6mos. That means you will face an ex EVERY DAY; and deal with all the crap she's going to spew about you to her work buds.
@jasonhoffman9083
Жыл бұрын
After watching this video and the “Two Words”. I wanted to say thank you! Today I was able to get the number from a very attractive blonde. Usually I have no problems talking to women but your advice helped lead to getting her number.
@Bboyredmoon
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been listening to the Ask woman podcast and man I’m learning a lot lol Thanks for all you do
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
I haven't
@camilohiche4475
2 жыл бұрын
With the obvious exception of the last one, this is not just to attract women, this is essentially a basic guideline to initiate social interaction in general.
@omarbarragan7926
2 жыл бұрын
I've used a line " I didn't know Brittany Spears works here! " " Accually your alot prettier than her!" It worked on this girl I just met! She fell for me.
@frostedcupcakes2670
2 жыл бұрын
Just as long as you fell for her too :)
@joshpatrick8809
2 жыл бұрын
Splitney beers...
@yogi9631
11 ай бұрын
My cutie niece use to say hi my name is Rachel, what’s your name. That was the most cutest n sweetest thing I have heard…. So just use that line…. Always works like a charm.
@skylinerunner1695
2 жыл бұрын
When I lived in Canada, women always asked about my finances and height (if I was sat down). It may have seemed practical in their view, but being asked such questions before even exchanging names dampened any romantic spark.
@66crush9
Жыл бұрын
I think women like that are Gold diggers quite frankly...
@thevision4734
2 жыл бұрын
I find the most seamless the comments I make the more receptive women are. So context in your environment are important. You won't say at church what you might say at a bar or at a party. I also have come to think that women at some level need to find you attractive but it's also a test of our social skills. The better we are with social skills even when we're just pretending to have social skills, the safer women feel and the more open they become regardless of age. The only difference in age is that women who are older are little more sophisticated and they know the games so the more authentic you can be the easier just to pick up older women and by older you know 40 50 60 or whatever
@Storesdavidal
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Marni For All Your Informative Videos.
@samir175
Жыл бұрын
I liked the direct method, after all, words build our reality. We just only need to know what we want and just put it in simple words to make things happens
@andrewpoole160
2 жыл бұрын
Marni is Brilliant beyond words! Thanks much for educating men like me.
@mopbrothers
Жыл бұрын
These are great. I used to say, “based on how you’re dressed I’d say you work in psychology/art/teaching/etc”. It worked well.
@GaryArmstrongmacgh
2 жыл бұрын
Marni..I'm older. I'd be happy just to have nice women talk to me. Recently a woman hugged me. It simply melted me.
@IseahJelani
2 жыл бұрын
Delete this (no disrespect) and begin your deep work.
@davidshareefChTPhD
8 ай бұрын
Okay I used to be a pickup artist before I got married! And I'm going to give you one of my best pick-up lines. Look at the woman and say I'm sorry I didn't mean to stare at you, but I just realized you're almost as pretty as me! And walk away that will disorient her catch her off guard and make her laugh at the same time and believe me you are in there! I'm not saying this to be a joke but these types of lines work all the time😊
@stuartbailey9025
2 жыл бұрын
When I was at Uni i saw a girl in a nightclub looking pretty fed up. I asked her if everything was alright and she said she was missing home. I asked "what she was missing, her parents or her pet dog or something else?". She said no my boyfriend! That was the end of that!
@Nvbc14
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@faraz7490
2 жыл бұрын
Lolz 😅
@sacv2173
2 жыл бұрын
You could have been the lovely distraction she was looking for
@tevinmoss12
2 жыл бұрын
No on my watch! Lol
@kitcarson7447
2 жыл бұрын
You should have replied, well, he's not here right now, I'ii show you a good time sweetie until you get back home.
@johnswoodgadgets9819
Жыл бұрын
I never used lines. Honesty works. A relationship I had with a woman I met and dated for several months started with being honest. She asked me a complex question about registering for class, and I didn't hear a word she said. I was just too distracted by her good looks. I mean she just flat floored me! I told her that straight up, and said if she would repeat her question I would try to get myself together enough to give her a coherent answer, now that I had a minute to sort of get used to what she looked like. Whether she thought it was a line or not, we hit it off. R--e if you are out there reading this, I remember that moment vividly, over half a century ago. You still cross my mind now and then, and I hope life was kind to you.
@flowerinherhair8195
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂 You seem to have missed point a bit. It's not about "if women think this is a line or not" 😂😂😂
@johnswoodgadgets9819
Ай бұрын
@@flowerinherhair8195 do you really think I missed the point? Run it through your sarcasm detector
@arcbee007
2 жыл бұрын
Love your new set up Marni. Keep up the great videos 🙂
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
Defiantly
@robj2704
2 жыл бұрын
If her response is "why would you want to know where a Starbucks is" then she's a keeper.
@robertkoeppel5381
Жыл бұрын
I hate we share the same first name
@piratepete4322
Жыл бұрын
Cutting but correct.
@davidmckenzie3398
2 жыл бұрын
Last but not least.... #8 Hypnosis You take out your pocket watch & start swinging it ~ "You're getting sleepy....". Works like a charm 💯% of the time! LOL
@dae1925
2 жыл бұрын
You have achieved comedy
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
@@dae1925 yes he dose like me lmao
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@hotlantasb1629
2 жыл бұрын
I usually have no problem striking up a conversation. It’s knowing when to end it, ask for a number or to see if things actually may escalate to something that night.
@ashtonharsha5445
2 жыл бұрын
Try this: Listen, I really had a nice time talking to you and it was great meeting you. But I gotta get going. Maybe give me your number and we could catch up sometime?. Do this before the conversation runs dry.
@702cody
2 жыл бұрын
Wow
@SanVic
Жыл бұрын
Pull out a pad of paper that says "work order" and ask them when they want you to pick them up. Make sure you literally say, "This is a work order. I am to pick you up at what time on what day?" like a work job.
@lucachioatero3609
Жыл бұрын
So why writing it here?
@johndougherty1232
Жыл бұрын
NICE❤
@SkylerDouglas
2 жыл бұрын
I was walking through the grocery and a lady was talking about the prices to her self. She saw bad prices I saw an opportunity. Mission complete.
@JohnSmith-kq2ff
2 жыл бұрын
A woman talking to herself, and you saw opportunity? I woiuld have seen CRAZY LADY!
@skkrtskkrt-5210
Жыл бұрын
@@JohnSmith-kq2ff crazy can be good
@pooroldlu
18 күн бұрын
Several personalities to choose from
@oatmeal2265
2 жыл бұрын
It's difficult to converse with anyone these days. Everyone has their face buried in their phones all the time.
@danielrsson2171
Жыл бұрын
Yes it looks disgusting when you see it! Frustrating as hell sometimes!
@semprefidelis76
Жыл бұрын
Excuse
@danielrsson2171
Жыл бұрын
@@semprefidelis76 what do you recommend then if you think it's an excuse? Grab their phones, throw it away and tell them you want to talk to them?? Please I would love to know
@semprefidelis76
Жыл бұрын
@@danielrsson2171 say hi, smile and wait, they will see you want to speak. Same thing when they are on iPods, even they can’t hear you. Say hi smile and demand their time. They will take their iPods off and hear what you have to say. The fact is, you will do anything and everything to eliminate yourself from talking to them. It’s about confidence not fucking phone. Sorry to burst your bubble
@MikeManaMusic
Жыл бұрын
That’s a limiting belief. I feel the opposite, people are actually very happy if there is real human interaction because it became rare.
@justscratch2842
2 жыл бұрын
I see a beautiful woman I walk up to her and how yoooooou doin and she says I’m doing great I have mace 😂
@crwydryny
2 жыл бұрын
You have a mace? Cool i love medieval weapons 😆 🤣 😂
@kp-xq5nn
2 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant bcus if instead she’s interested then you know she prob psycho so you walk away
@MsPopo81
2 жыл бұрын
All the ''beautiful'' girls are tired of this youtuber forcing all the men only towards to nice looking chicks, lol. So sad lol
@brianarmstrong8264
Жыл бұрын
@@crwydryny good one 😂😂😂😂😂
@johntrojan9653
Жыл бұрын
@@crwydryny ✔️✔️✔️🤭
@Seasideboy1
2 жыл бұрын
AS USUAL, SIMPLY BRILLIANT! AND I HAVE TO CONFESS THAT I JUST CAN NOT GET MY EYES OFF YOU, MARNI! REALLY!
@ev25zv
4 ай бұрын
Ok, just don't use that line on anyone in real life
@victorsvoice7978
2 жыл бұрын
The best pickup line for women is:- "I'm rich."
@RonnieMyers777
2 жыл бұрын
ISTG 🙏🤣🤣🤣
@michaelscales5996
2 жыл бұрын
Followed by " and well hung."
@goldschool9050
Жыл бұрын
Men want sex. Women want security.
@Rexxtothekay
5 ай бұрын
Big facts
@Crownedballer
Жыл бұрын
All your advice is fire. I’m doing the masculine frame right now and practicing the body language. Your advice is Lumbre 🔥
@nsasupporter7557
9 ай бұрын
None of these methods she’s suggesting is a conversation starter. The first one she said about asking where something is… the girl just tells you and keeps walking. Just because you wanna start a conversation with her doesn’t mean she wants a conversation with you
@KevinGonzalez-zr2kb
2 жыл бұрын
Wow! I literally watched the whole video just to find out that the last tip was exactly what was I planning to say.
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
I was going to tell her she cute
@siliconalleys
2 жыл бұрын
Good stuff!! You'll like this one. When I lived in Silicon Valley, I used this line and it worked every time with women I was really interested in, "Hi, you look rich and bored." Believe it or not, they all responded the same way... "Well, you're half right.: Then we'd both laugh. They got I was complimenting them on their appearance, style and dress.
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
I hope it works?
@siliconalleys
2 жыл бұрын
Travis, the right state of mind is important. I really didn't care how they responded, was just having fun. You want them to feel the fun, too. If she were really hot and I felt she was out of my league I wouldn't say it. But, when in a fun mood, NO ONE is out of your league. I had a SW3 mindset. That is, Some wiil, Some won't... SO WHAT! Just have fun and be respectful. Try it with no pressure, on ladies who would enjoy the attention. And don't try to pick them up. If they want more attention, they'll continue the conversation, while smiling and laughing at the clever line. Try it twice today and don't be concerned about the result. THAT gets the best result.
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
@@siliconalleys so if i dont try to pick them bye asking them on a date they where smile and talk to me ?.!
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
@@siliconalleys so the only way i should pick them up is if i smile at them and they smile back at me and when we both laugh.!
@JamesBond-zd5jx
2 жыл бұрын
@@siliconalleys actually before I got married I loved flirting with the girl who was out of my league. If you strike out then who cares. But you’d be surprised by how many super hot girls are interested in a good conversation. I did better than I had any expectation to. Of course, women today are a little different than they used to be. Instagram has ruined us all.
@gailmccall8489
2 жыл бұрын
As a woman, i would say the first 4 or 5 would be invasive or a little alarming in our present culture. I would prefer a man not try to "figure out" how to talk to me but rather, just talk to me. "Hi, how are you?" works just fine. If i don't want to engage with you, it will probably be obvious through the level of my response, my body language, my facial expression and/or the fact that if I'm not interested, i won't ask any follow-up questions. Rather than looking for a technique, look at me as a fellow human and approach from that shared commonality.
@teddyboehm9252
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯 coming across as trying to hard
@grumblesa10
2 жыл бұрын
Interesting. I did search over the holidays on "women's view on being approached". Unlike what every so-called "dating coach" espouses the gist was: not while shopping; NOT at work; not if I look otherwise occupied with something. Equally interesting is the fact that a WOMAN made that comment, and Marni didn't bother to answer her argument....just sayin' bros.
@grumblesa10
2 жыл бұрын
@@PatrickLivesPersona So a TV show is reality. I've said "hi" and walked over to women to say, "I don't believe we've introduced I'm jim", never had that reaction. Keep in mind, I think the majority of "dating coach" opinion (it's NOT advice according to their site disclaimers) has zero scientific basis. Maybe it's you, sir.
@SunwardRanger83
2 жыл бұрын
I've always found that starting a conversation with a woman I don't know isn't any different than starting one with a guy. You can start talking about just about anything that doesn't make you come across as a nutcase and or serial killer. Once the conversation's going I get a read on the vibe she's putting out and if it's good I go with some light flirting or a joke. Ask her questions because most people like to talk about themselves. Listen to what they say and respond to that because most people don't listen, they just wait for their turn to speak. You just have to pay attention to how she responds and if it's all good signs you take a shot and ask her out, if it's not you just have a pleasant conversation and go on your way.
@jamesjones2212
2 жыл бұрын
So, hi how are you? lol Are you bored yet?
@danielrsson2171
Жыл бұрын
Thank You Marni for this great video! Probably the best one I've seen on this channel! Normally I am not a big fan of most of your videos but this one was direct and gave some really hands on things to do!👍
@futureramatb2443
2 жыл бұрын
It was interesting to hear about a student who is bored in the class and starts hitting on a girl next to him. As a professor in college, I always give group projects to couples. It is very interesting to see how it goes at the end of the semester.
@dan_4531
2 жыл бұрын
Doing gods work😂🙏
@HS-hz5jt
2 жыл бұрын
Did it mostly go in a positive or negative direction?
@Getloose360
2 жыл бұрын
@@dan_4531 He absolutely is!!! Listen in this swipe left world, we need young people to interact with one another.
@dan_4531
2 жыл бұрын
@@Getloose360 for sure. The internet as much as it has helped, has also harmed other things and made them worse, in this case dating. Glad the teacher makes people interact with eachother!
@JohnSmith-kq2ff
2 жыл бұрын
Er, as their tutor/mentor, should your sole focus be educating them, rather than trying to be their Agony Uncle? No wonder that modern day education turns out twats, turnips and potatoes.
@mestopholies
Жыл бұрын
She’s absolutely right I use the same technique spent last 30years of my life with two women. Two because unfortunately one passed
@jayayyyyy
Жыл бұрын
Gas? Don't blame ya, dude!
@josiahv92
2 жыл бұрын
I literally just used the last on the most gorgeous girl at a bar and she was speechless and was stumbling all over herself. Called it cute, got her number and she’s very excited to hang out this week. Thanks for the great ice breaker!
@michaelnj700
2 жыл бұрын
How's situation developed?
@josiahv92
2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelnj700 were in an incredibly spontaneous relationship haha
@keithsada1380
2 жыл бұрын
How do you know so much about this? Do you get picked up by guys every weekend?
@brobidart
2 жыл бұрын
Marni, I am absolutely elated to have found your videos - love it!!! …subsequently added and subscribed. Keep ‘em coming :)
@ekcoylejr
Жыл бұрын
Yea, great Marni
@BillAdams-fb3jm
9 ай бұрын
I am a walking opening line for women because I don't look my age, have multiple sclerosis (and walk with a walker), but I "don't look sick." I've heard that more times than I can count. On the wrong day, I'll ask, "What does sick look like?" but, on the right day, I'll let a conversation develop.
@ankitchauhan8874
2 жыл бұрын
Clearly It's About Confidence, boldness also not only this you shall also have Expressions like Marmi, Your body language shall play vital role. to. add combining all with the methods of Marni you're gonna have magic... I'm not good at anything of above 😆😆
@isaaccarnellkingiv2624
2 жыл бұрын
Number 7 is the best one on the list! y'all make sure you stay and watch all the way to that one. don't just skip ahead. . . Trust me Bro!
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
Okay bro i wont skip any of them
@MzQTMcHotness
2 жыл бұрын
As an average looking guy, I have tried all of these lines. I have discovered the key ingredient that is missing here. I’ve used these with a little change up and it works perfectly every time. I leave with my name and then I told him I have a six-figure salary a house and my own car that are paid off. After that, I can get any girl to talk to me. If I don’t include the money the house and the car, normally I am told that they are not interested in talking with anyone. or that they have a boyfriend.
@Thon.Kuot.inspiration
Жыл бұрын
Marni, I love how you talk, you gestures, choice of words, and voice just stop me from leaving your videos.
@jasonhurst8599
2 жыл бұрын
Great suggestions. One question regarding the final one though; I get the idea, or theory behind showing confidence, or at least "acting" like you're all confident, etc; but then don't you have to keep up the "act" all the time if you really aren't "Mr. Confidence" 24/7? Aren't you just being someone fake JUST to meet that/a woman? Especially if you want to meet someone in hopes of maybe something more than just a "one night stand"? Wouldn't she catch on rather quickly?
@TheSteveBoyd
2 жыл бұрын
If you keep up the act long enough you just might start to believe it yourself!
@SunwardRanger83
2 жыл бұрын
Real confidence is born from demonstrating competence. The more you succeed at different things the more confident you will be in yourself, so that means you gotta practice. I used to be very shy, before I tried chatting up the girls I wanted to impress I just started practicing with random people. Once I knew I could talk to people without bursting into flame or getting maced I started to talk to girls I was more interested in. When they didn't run screaming, I knew I could try out some flirting. Eventually I got so confident in myself that I could talk to just about anyone about just about anything. All it takes is practice, and remembering that if one chat doesn't go well you can always try again with someone else.
@leestimsonjr2677
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 53 and 5 years divorced so had no idea what to do!!!!!!!! But please thank you hate being alone but was so afraid have to admit
@markmoore5404
2 жыл бұрын
You're so on point Marni! Been saying these things to my guy friends for years.. Outstanding!
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
Yes she is
@louisleon4419
Жыл бұрын
some of these I already knew about but this was a great refresher, thank u Marni
@philochristos
2 жыл бұрын
I like the opinion opener. I always say, "There's a question that's been troubling me lately. Tell me, do you believe that women have souls?" I got this from a movie called Cold Comfort Farm.
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
Im about to check that movie out
@bobmclaughlin4896
2 жыл бұрын
Marni, You are absolutely right. .... The reason I watch you for three reasons, 1- you're cute, 2- your bold, and 3- you're personally would be fun. ...I am Bob. Talk to you soon.
@EstevanTH
Жыл бұрын
What hurts me the most is that I feel like there are almost no girls of my age around. There are so few chances of engaging a conversation. And next comes my scare of what relationships imply. And also wanting no children from the bottom of my heart makes me feel like I must correspond to nobody's expectations. But I nonetheless enjoy talking to people, so I keep trying socializing. 😎
@EstevanTH
9 ай бұрын
@@dragonloops4267 as incredible as it seems, I think I have done a pretty good work with my inhibitions. I don't hide my true self. It takes time to see how unique I am, and I don't show it very much when I am with someone I don't know yet. I guess that after a few dates, I would be ready to be as weird as I really am. 🤪 Maybe I don't connect well with others because I might have Asperger's, maybe I'm just different. For now I need a female best friend. 😁 And being honest with this quest, I received 1 single Like on Tinder even though I am a more or less regular user of the app since I made my account a few weeks ago. I don't get it. IRL, ladies look away. Why is nobody curious about me? Okay walking like I'm a vehicle makes me look super odd... But what about the interesting side of it? 😁 Sorry for the rant, thank you for reading my comment. ❤
@lhighlanderscl
2 жыл бұрын
With all the Toxic, men going their own way, alpha males, and other junk on YT you are a very supportive and non-toxic YT influencer. I appreciate the positive nature of your post!!!
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
Im not a toxic men
@guimonsio
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much, love your videos and your confidence.
@jonprain412
Жыл бұрын
Marni, I've been watching some of your videos and actually trying them out in real life. And holy smokes girl, they work.
@easter_sunday
2 жыл бұрын
If you want to be miserable for the rest of your life, you've come to the right place!
@thecommenter9267
2 жыл бұрын
This woman literally just spouts random nonsense lol. "Just ask for a threesome" - way to ruin someone's chances and potentially damage their social life permanently. Please beware.
@nigeldonaldson1647
Жыл бұрын
Another tip might be to just speak as you find. If I like her looks, I tell her that, on a few occasions ive had compliments made to me (which is a bit of role reversal) & I felt...a little embarrased, but admittedly flattered at the same time, turn that on it;s head, & you get a sense of how SHE must feel to when you compliment her, also speak as you find when it comes to personality & charisma to. most of the battle is NOT seeing your own side, but theirs and then you get somewhere (provided they are interested in the first place of course) its being on auto pilot, things have a natural ebb and flow to them when things are working out, all you need to do is recognise this, when your him & not walk around blind folded. women are great hinters, that's why observation & listening, is so important
@philschiavone101
2 жыл бұрын
My wife came to me and simply said, hi my name is Graciela and I think you are handsome. Game over.
@walterdmello8811
2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the efforts you put in, Marni, to make your videos interesting. Very informative! I love watching your videos.
@bobbyparsell9959
2 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@takaetono6773
5 ай бұрын
"Dont say John, if its not your name" was the smartest advice here And it changed my life!
@Bodycomp101
2 жыл бұрын
Great video Marni, usually I find myself having closed body language even though I'm trying to be mindful of it. Would you be able to make a video and show what open body language looks like in different situations. I have been getting better though as soon as I notice it I try to fix it
@patrickmcdonald8513
2 жыл бұрын
As a security guard I learned when you're trying not to be intimidating adopt what is called a bladed stance. You have one shoulder towards the person and your chest is facing away so it isn't directed at them and doesn't appear as confrontational. It's more laid back. When you're sitting with somebody like in a booth at a restaurant try leaning back because it puts less pressure on.
@GeoffYoungspage
2 жыл бұрын
Love your channel, Love your name and love #6! I recently realized the secret to happiness AND discovered the fountain of youth HA! Not kidding either and they are both great and true openers!
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
I like # 6 too
@darksoulnj
2 жыл бұрын
Too complicated. At this point, I just go with the "Do you like being eaten like a 3 course meal" approach. Now THAT'S an opener! 💯😉
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
It's a good opener
@bootyjoel
2 жыл бұрын
Say "What are you all dressed up looking so cute for?" has worked for me every time I've used it
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
That is a good point
@bootyjoel
2 жыл бұрын
@@travisandrews3909 They usually say something like "going to the beach" or "my parents house" then you ask if you can follow them. They ask why and you say "because my parents always told me to follow my dreams. My name is..."
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
@@bootyjoel girls like to go to the beach ⛱️
@endorphinzz
2 жыл бұрын
I never thought finding a woman attractive was reason enough to start talking to her lol...
@rickreigert8305
Жыл бұрын
Love the Pink Floyd Shirt ,,, what’s your favorite song ??
@danlindley1594
2 жыл бұрын
She's right about all of these.. but missing the important factor, can't leave out the fact you have to also be attractive
@jonasmcmillan
2 жыл бұрын
try it on ten women, one of them is bound to find you attractive
@troytruong8246
Жыл бұрын
Not all cases. Many hot and pretty chicks dont get approached that often! If an average dude with confidence and humor, he will get rhe number nd date her later.
@greenghost6416
Жыл бұрын
@@troytruong8246 That doesnt happen my guy.
@ForceUniversal
2 жыл бұрын
I once asked a lady (in london) .." hey can you tell me where the restroom is ? " She pointed and said "that way, ... piss off" Hahahaha.. I love british humour.
@markpence8387
Жыл бұрын
My advice is very simple and always works: Don't make the first move, let the woman break the ice. By doing that, a man is less likely to be rejected and can better determine how interested she is in him. Keep in mind, however, that I never get any dates. For any guys who have an absolute fear of rejection, this never fails. Don't say anything until she speaks to you, and then begin speaking to her until there is nothing left to say. This is a rare occurrence, but you are less likely to be shot down.
@greenghost6416
Жыл бұрын
Problem with this is they almost will never make the first move.
@titussoke9685
11 ай бұрын
:/ that's if they even see you. Most of us are invisible to them.
@josephhudson7378
Жыл бұрын
I don't know what tolls are here for. Those actually help others. These help me. Thank you for sharing.
@nathan2813
2 жыл бұрын
Another good tip is to realize a girl's interested if SHE asks any of these questions of YOU! Marni, how should a man respond if she DOES?? Should we say, "Duh! The Starbucks is right THERE! Are you trying to get in my pants??" :oD
@griffinreitz7041
2 жыл бұрын
" Bartender/ waiter, do you have change for a million" Works pretty much every time. Even more so the older you get... ;) Followed by a close second, " I have a really big check book"... :)
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha 😂
@davidsimons5944
2 жыл бұрын
I have always found that with long established male friends I am relaxed & can be myself enough to come out with funny things he thinks are hilarious, but with women I'm so terrified of being judged I freeze, hesitate & play safe, which of course is a surefire way of getting in her friend zone! Do you think I should try just enough Dutch courage so she doesn't think I'm a lush?!
@Juggernaut1972
2 жыл бұрын
I was the same way in high school up until 12th grade. Very nervous around girls. I wasn't very good with women until i started talking more to them. Where i worked after high school was mostly women so i got a lot of practice. Try the Dutch courage if you need to. Just enough to relax yourself, not to get plastered. In time, you won't need it anymore.
@SunwardRanger83
2 жыл бұрын
No, you just need practice. Start out talking to women without any goal other than having a good conversation. With nothing at stake you can relax and just be yourself. Once you're used to talking to the ladies you can work towards using your humor and confidence to get more than just a nice chat.
@daryndyer9003
Жыл бұрын
@Pablo GP, looks only get you so far. Women find confidence, strength, competence and mystery over looks.
@m00njaguar
2 жыл бұрын
Marni, I absolutely love your shirt! It is a very creative version of the "Dark Side of the Moon" album cover, the best that I have seen. I'm jealous, I want one! Can you give a link for where to buy it? (If it's on Amazon, maybe you could make some cash off the link)
@Juggernaut1972
2 жыл бұрын
That is a cool shirt. I'll have to look for it too. That's by far my favorite album from Pink Floyd.
@kbrewski1
2 жыл бұрын
@@Juggernaut1972 You and millions and millions of other people. It was on the Billboard charts for about 30 years. I'll take Wish You Were Here over it anyway.
@Juggernaut1972
2 жыл бұрын
@@kbrewski1 The Wall was another favorite of mine. The movie was awesome too. Wish you were here was really good too. However, Dogs of war was my favorite song by Floyd. It had, I guess for lack of a better word, an ominous sound
@jamesritch5245
2 жыл бұрын
Chances are she has no clue who the band is
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
I like her shirt too
@giancarlomannella85
4 ай бұрын
Love your shirt, you rock!
@joseabad2552
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the lesson you rock keep up the good work ❤
@jarcadipane2849
2 жыл бұрын
Hope you don't mind. i listen to your videos while i do some planks in the morning and the evening. I really focus your voice and the video. Really getting into your voice !!! It's very soothing.
@georgeross4384
2 жыл бұрын
I saw a guy use a line like 5-6 times and it worked everytime. He said "hey are you a Capricorn?" They would say no I'm a whatever. He would laugh and say I saw a documentary about zodiac signs and how to tell people's signs. I guess I need more practice huh and they would both laugh.
@travisandrews3909
2 жыл бұрын
Bro this is boring
@ALEMAYEHUDAKITA
Жыл бұрын
thank you sister keep it up
@thatguy1475
2 жыл бұрын
These lines can only work on emotionally mature women!
@claycthesunburntband7750
2 жыл бұрын
Those are the ones we want.
@thatguy1475
2 жыл бұрын
@@claycthesunburntband7750 well, we all do. The issue is, only 1 in every 100 women are emotionally mature!
@bubbajay7522
Жыл бұрын
my favorite - compliment her somehow. we all want to look attractive, especially girls. compliment her on her choices to be attractive. compliment her on her nails, ask to look at them especially if they have cool designs on them or tell her those nails are a cool color. tell her she made a great choice. if she is wearing glasses, compliment her choice, tell her they look great on her. look at Marni - nails done, Pink Floyd shirt, whats the story behind those rings she is wearing? opportunities are everywhere. compliment, BUT - YOU HAVE TO BE SINCERE ABOUT IT.
@hyedefinition1080
2 жыл бұрын
These tips may pique interest but doesn't determine true attraction. You're just stroking her ego for no reason otherwise. It's a recipe to chase tail and if she doesn't have true desire besides you applying these PUA tips, you will get burned in the long term. The girl has to have true desire. These tips are purely subjective and depends on the subjective desire of the girl.
@davidgolf3245
Жыл бұрын
Random thoughts from Australia. Here is a line that works on ALL women: want to see my portfolio and bank account!!!!! Thanks I am here all week. Works ALL the time.
@silkyjay869
2 жыл бұрын
Marni’s bleached bhole brings all the high status guys to the yard!
@bumpdunlop
Жыл бұрын
I don't remember when, but at some point I became really comfortable with women. I'm not particularly handsome, or physically fit. I just accidently became really confident and, I'm thinking, maybe a little charming too. It's a little bit like real estate. Location, location, location. Confidence, confidence, confidence.
@anthonykamm1007
2 жыл бұрын
I always heard in the PUA Community that you never give up your name right away because by letting her know your name your giving up a way for a woman to show interest by asking you your name. Does that make sense? Granted, in the movies every man is giving up their name right away. But I find when you do that right away they already forgotten your name so why waste it. Most people in general forget our names super fast unless they've train their mind to remember somehow maybe through association or repeating it a few times in the conversation. Anyway, love your videos. Very inspiring information. And your cute, too... Now go away!! :)
@Syrin23
2 жыл бұрын
I think the main thing the PUA stress, and they are right, is not to over flatter and come across as desperate. You lose all value and give her unearned praise. The details aren't as important
@flowerinherhair8195
Ай бұрын
Not very good advice. Introducing yourself doesn't only show your charm, it does also shift you straight away from a "complete random stranger" to a new acquaintance "John from L.A." (for example).
@rudyonduty
2 жыл бұрын
Cold read… “Hey there…I’ll bet you’ve never actually listened to a Pink Floyd album” ;)
@rarellc4791
2 жыл бұрын
Let's please keep in mind, that none of this stuff works unless that girl is feeling you or is attracted to you. In most cases, women will let you know they are feeling you. If you don't fit what she is looking for or attracted to...none of this stuff will work ...period. So please let these guys understand that they just can't walk up to any girl and say these lines and bamn...instant date. Not happening.
@johnvermicelli5649
2 жыл бұрын
True to what you wrote! Most girls are lying C__TS! My ex is! After 2 decades she Hooked up with my ex friend. Both of them think I didn't know what was going on! I hope they are miserable! I only dated one girl in 22 years. Another wacko! Carma's a bitch! They will pay. God has a plan! LMAO. I'm staying away from all of them!
@Winchester441
2 жыл бұрын
@johnvermicelli damn bro that’s rough I’m sorry man
@johnvermicelli5649
2 жыл бұрын
@@Winchester441 The way of some women ☹️
@mantistoboggan7228
2 жыл бұрын
@@johnvermicelli5649 I guess this god's plan was to mess you up then huh. Wow.
@johnvermicelli5649
2 жыл бұрын
@@mantistoboggan7228 No, not God. Just them! LMFAO !
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