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@jackiesmith-searcy8094
2 жыл бұрын
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@georgannkingsland767
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but this is not for me I'm meant to be alone me I'm to emotional and I care to the depts .ofy soul which most do not I'm sorry but ty
@user-ie4yw6hf9i
2 жыл бұрын
👍
@laurenlens928
2 жыл бұрын
J jj
@starlove2647
2 жыл бұрын
Hey can you do a video about reason guys play hot and cold text you when feel like it and watch Instagram stories, but doesn’t want to talk. Thank you
@midnight2508
2 жыл бұрын
“ You never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.” ~ Midnight
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@Dana-rk2hc
2 жыл бұрын
Luv this!!
@midnight2508
2 жыл бұрын
@@Dana-rk2hc Thank You so much ❤️
@sharonshim5046
2 жыл бұрын
So true
@katherinemercader123
2 жыл бұрын
So true
@samanthamichelle7219
2 жыл бұрын
I'm just at that point in my life where I don't even want to have to prove or show someone my worth . I'll just keep working in being the best version of myself that way when the time comes I'll be in a healthy place to attract a healthy partnership ❤️ Equal give and take ! Divine masculine +Divine feminine
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@lanedowhaniuk6758
2 жыл бұрын
Awe same girl exactly
@MassyMars
2 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@mzlo2057
2 жыл бұрын
I agree 👍
@yolandaperry86
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I would rather have a mature relationship without all of the games.
@marystellarosetarot5700
2 жыл бұрын
You are so spot on about women getting emotionally checked out "at that point" aka past the point of no return. That's why I don't waste my time with men who don't show and sustain their interest in me. I rip the relationship bandaid off quickly, so to speak. We're all at different stages of the journey and there's nothing wrong with that. Thanks for all the work you do. Love and light ✨
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback!
@ragga7862
2 жыл бұрын
At least, beyond the point of no return, it takes substational consistent real effort over a looong period of time, in form of him working on himself when noone is watching, the results will speak for themselves if he really is working on himself to be a better man and genuinly wants to change his life and still wants this woman in his life.
@splitraven7060
2 жыл бұрын
Happen to me. Left the guy I was with for another guy. I was neglected in the relationship
@NicoleDaniella001
Жыл бұрын
It’s sucks that In this era you have to careless in order for them to care more. I’m sure God didn’t plan for us to treat eachother this way either, So I think building my relationship with God is the best thing to ever happen to me.
@juliagulia4197
Жыл бұрын
That’s what Lauryn Hill wants us to do. Turn our energy away from him and towards Him. It’s the only way to gain back our wholeness and sanity.
@TheOtherSlipper
Жыл бұрын
my ex husband literally told me he hated me and then that I must’ve came out of Gods (profanity) when I told him i’m a child of God and God loves me after he told me he hates me. It was in that moment I knew he was under possession of the devil and I began working on my faith in God and self care even during the darkest of times.
@bellaandthebooks6368
Жыл бұрын
I am in a hard point of my relationship when i have enough of my partner lies and careless. And i thought about the same thing that i should renew my relationship with God who truly love me and never let me feel alone or worthless and now I don't care what will happen with me and my partner when he begin to see why I don't care about him anymore. If he will want to go then I let him go. I believe that God work for our good so JESUS please teach us how to be a good persons for each others and how to share care and TRUE love to others. AMEN ❤🙏
@JamaicaLove876
2 жыл бұрын
When a man starts to care when you stop caring is a man who is taking your love for granted. He does not truly recognize the value in you. If you express to a man whatever issues you have then a man who loves you will be motivated to change. Quite simply, love is effort. Mind games, such as "stepping up & than pull away" is an unhealthy cycle and creates toxic energy. To stop caring as a tactic to prove a point never works. It creates wasted energy and negative vibes. If he is willing to risk losing you then you were never the one he deemed worthy of his energy & effort. A man who changes out of fear & desperation is Not the one. He is usually just reacting to benefit his needs in some way. A man willing to give his time, effort, attention & genuinely listen to your issues and adjust himself accordingly, that's a keeper. Excellent video, as always. Blessings of abundance to you. "If the relationship does not uplift, encourage & inspire you to greatness, than that is not the one".
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@JamaicaLove876
2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Always my pleasure, keep up the great work. ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
@@MsShoward0 💯 Yes!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
@Naomi Thank you, I will ❤ 🙏
@JamaicaLove876
2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks "An eagle will always soar to greater heights when the vision is clear & the skies are unlimited". May you soar like the eagle. ❤ 🙏
@maxineadderley5378
2 жыл бұрын
Lack of standards is what can get us in trouble.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Most definitely!
@aaliyahsashabrookes7952
2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@UnapologeticallyKay25
2 жыл бұрын
Big facts!!! 🙌🏽😩🤦🏽♀️
@amnotfightingalone8462
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. A woman cares so much and she's ignored. She stops caring and he starts being caring. When her mind is made up not to look back, no matter how hard he tries, nothing will make her look back but move on. EVERY OPPORTUNITY HAS A SHELF LIFE AND EXPIRES WHEN THE OPPORTUNITY IS DISRESPECTED OR IGNORED
@jenntmjenn
Жыл бұрын
OMG yes & somehow i feel bad and think that i should give hil a chancee! this is so hard
@lucylucy2171
Жыл бұрын
@@jenntmjenn same here. I waited and waited and never got what I wanted and when he decided to start showing, I was already checked out. And now, I feel guilty and ask if I should give it a chance 🤔
@jenntmjenn
Жыл бұрын
@@lucylucy2171 One month later girl I have to tell you DONT DO IT - I am divorcing him. I just listen to the things he said & accept them. And i see the things that he showed me & accept them. I accept of what he was capable of & this tells me that i cannot see a future with him knowing that he might do it all over again (manipulation, gaslighting, lying - in the end I was right about all the „crazy, sick things I made up in my mind“ funny)
@lucylucy2171
Жыл бұрын
@@jenntmjenn oh man. I'm sorry you had to go through that and I hope you find some clarity within your situation so that you could start to heal. I know it may take some time. The thing is with mine, after years of feeling abandoned, I kinda just stopped caring and now, I feel guilty that we've separated when he finally started to show his caring part. I pray I, too find some kind of clarity. We definitely have a long road ahead.
@jenntmjenn
Жыл бұрын
@@lucylucy2171 Thanks so much kind stranger!!! I really wish you clarity & i know i was also unsure for such a long time, it is so draining! this dilemma of whether or not to give someone that chance. in the end you can do it one last time if it will bring you peace at the end of the road - however it ends :)
@ОоалддещЗгкшццпэмьпй
2 жыл бұрын
Breadcrumbing is narcissistic and very destructive .. Security is paramount in every relationship. Let go and move on
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@snowwpea
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like in relationships or dating, I give so much more than I get. All I want is good intentions, consistency and honesty. I seem to attract narcissistic men for some reason. It’s exhausting, I’m tired. I don’t chase anyone anymore, if someone wants to leave, I’ll show him the door. A man who is truly interested, will make an effort.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@snowwpea
2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you, that means a lot 🙏🏻 God is my only hope.
@sharonshim5046
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. 🙏
@ARS-fn6px
2 жыл бұрын
Same here, i just want to lay in bed and let life pass me by. Just rest and quit the world where you win by just being born a man.
@gabrielarusu2651
7 ай бұрын
I was in the same situation. It's true that it's very exhausting. But I'm done with this. I give what I receive from now on.
@sophiaf.
2 жыл бұрын
I have one ☝🏾 more comment by Maya Angelou … “When people show you who they are believe them”.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@zeal4god402
2 жыл бұрын
One of my all-time favorite quotes!
@sophiaf.
2 жыл бұрын
@@zeal4god402 Yes 🙌🏾 So True.
@marqann
2 жыл бұрын
I always think about that, even if I had great difficulty breaking up... 😆
@crystalchavez6968
2 жыл бұрын
“Afraid to accept this man wasn’t for you”. That hit my spirit 🥺 I never really considered that before… I tend to pour myself into those I love and am loyal to a fault. I didn’t accept my ex wasn’t for me when he was disrespectful because I was afraid him not being for me somehow meant it was my fault, I wasn’t enough or wasn’t trying hard enough 😔
@crystaldecena2318
2 жыл бұрын
Why this is so timely. I feel you ..😭
@jayc5756
2 жыл бұрын
Why and how could that be your fault?? Everyone isn't for everyone, so it is what it is
@crystalchavez6968
2 жыл бұрын
@@crystaldecena2318 I’m sorry to hear you’re going through things 🤗 Remember you are strong 💪 and will overcome and thrive ❤️
@crystalchavez6968
2 жыл бұрын
@@jayc5756 Oh, it’s complicated Jay… Have you heard of killing a frog by putting them in tepid water then slowly increasing the heat? Well, I was the frog in a 5+ year relationship 😬😔
@jayc5756
2 жыл бұрын
@@crystalchavez6968 Yeah, I heard that. I understand. Mann. But you live and you learn right? Know better...do better. So glad you're doing better and learning from these experiences...well hopefully. I don't want to assume. But you sound like you are and have.
@MaishPosh
2 жыл бұрын
You are so spot on Beware of men who want you back bc you serve a purpose in his life, I left my ex bcuz he wasn’t treating me well, when he wanted me back he kept saying “I need you back bcuz you make me feel good, you’re there for me, you make me a better person” everything was how I served him! never once did he say he’ll change and treat me like a priority. Me leaving him didn’t teach him anything, he was just selfish & focused on what I did for him… I poured into him but he was oblivious to pour into me A man being distant with his woman except during sex speaks volumes if he really was into her theyd be all over each other, you shouldn’t have to beg someone to show affection & treat you like a priority, it would become a chore to them
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️
@toniwilson8212
2 жыл бұрын
Don't fall for it , its all about him , everything he mention is focus toward him , " YOU MAKE ME A BETTER PERSON " , read between his words sis Maisha G
@KIMBERLY-er9yk
2 жыл бұрын
If you have to tell someone to show affection, you are with the wrong person. If you have to communicate that you need attention and it doesn't come naturally, you'd be better off by yourself. You're alone anyway.
@innedbystephanspeaks8004
2 жыл бұрын
THANKS FOR WATCHING 🤍🤍WRITE🤍🤍ME🤍🤍ON🤍🤍ωнατѕαρρ🤍🤍➕1𝟕𝟎𝟕𝟗𝟐𝟓𝟐𝟓𝟏𝟑▫️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@amaragrace94
2 жыл бұрын
100%
@Mooksz
Жыл бұрын
I think communication is important and i don’t believe in assuming that after you tell them you think they’re not showing you enough attention it’s the wrong person… they may not be use to it or will listen and try to compromise… so voicing how you feel to him is actually a good think but only if you start seeing more efforts to show affection until it quickly starts becoming natural.. it takes both partners to give and understand affection to each other for it to be natural.
@carmolina
Жыл бұрын
Alone anyway!!!
@fosterjanine5112
2 жыл бұрын
They start to care when you STOP 🤚 caring because they know they can no longer benefit from your life so their disloyalty leaves. Be someone's PRIORITY not an OPTION.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@TheModernAlchemix
2 жыл бұрын
The accuracy is mind blowing. No blame, no victims. Straight responsibility for our own crappy habits
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@josephinempundu4205
2 жыл бұрын
After being widowed two years ago, we were getting friendly with an old widower friend. Initially we used to chat on fone, text regularly over time. Through discussion of where we were at in our lives, i learnt he could not give a clear picture of what he wanted. I was very specific of what i wanted/expected if we were to move from the friend zone. From then on he stared cuting short conversations on fone and text was never replied to days on end. I expressed my dislike of this but When he finally answered i never acknowledged. Its now three weeks and its all silent. Tommorow is his birthday and i will stay mute. CHAPTER CLOSED!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about that, I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best 🙏
@angiep8217
2 жыл бұрын
His loss right? Ghosting is not right period!
@eugenieholmes5769
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to know that you're in the same situation as me at the moment. I prayed and ask the Lord to let me not bow to him because I know he's coming back.
@min_blogs28landing32
2 жыл бұрын
Proud of you
@misselle1430
2 жыл бұрын
He's with other women. Forget him.
@aunttonyaboveriaandrassy5663
2 жыл бұрын
This video was truly for me.., my man cheated on me broke me down and I told him I don't care what he does now and had a guy to tell me how to play the game but not play games.... Now he's calling more texting more and I'm not on that page anymore I'm purging a lot of things in my life and not letting History repeat itself in my life!!!!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help 🙏
@angiep8217
2 жыл бұрын
You know what you want that’s important
@rebeccasanti4777
2 жыл бұрын
I can't agree more when you said that too many people are growing up in a disfunctional relationship/family that they start normalizing it. I believe it's not too late to break the cycle and pass on an example of a healthier relationship.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it would really help when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing ❤ 🙏
@Amatullah.574
2 жыл бұрын
Yes but know and be ready for work. Takes a lot of patience.
@gracemitchell373
2 жыл бұрын
@@Amatullah.574 I had was to walk away from my son father it was too much of childhood trauma which he claims he needs no help and I was becoming sick so I had was to go my way
@BBlongstroke1
2 жыл бұрын
Both men and women need to be straightforward with their needs and wants. People are not mind or emotional readers.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
@rosameijering5161
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@CHOSENWOMAN777
2 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@Amatullah.574
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing a man's point of view.
@deirdredenise2689
2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks but isn't that a more masculine trait??
@yoshinkawestern2797
2 жыл бұрын
This situation is now in my life. I've checked out and now I see that he is noticing me distancing myself from him. But I at least realize that it's not working and it hasn't been years of dealing with the nonsense. I went to God and what I need is to be in a relationship with myself and that's exactly what I'm going to do. Remaining abstinent and focusing on myself is the best thing thing for me. When God knows I'm ready he will send who is destined to be in my life.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@shannondearman2
2 жыл бұрын
I believe a clear indication of whether or not a man really loves/cares about her is that they wouldn’t let it get to the point of her NOT caring! They would see/feel the disconnect before it got to the point of her not caring. Some Men will see the signs but choose to ignore or dismiss until it gets to that point of no return, then those reasons kick in! It takes a lot for a woman to NOT care once she is emotionally invested. If it gets to that point, usually it has been happening for a while. Just my opinion😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@angel-mq2mo
2 жыл бұрын
It's all about personal boundaries ladies. If you don't have any, or you break your own boundaries or let a man break them, you will get played and used at every turn. Decide firmly what you want and need in your life and don't accept anything less that that into your life. Pray and stay close to the Heavenly Father and he will provide for you abundantly❤️
@cynthiapereira8403
2 жыл бұрын
My ex did that. As soon as I checked out he started doing EVERYTHING I had been asking for after 22 years of denying me. Him not being aware of what I wanted and needed wasn’t the problem.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@janinec544
2 жыл бұрын
Mine did too. He even asked me “why didn’t you tell me ages ago” I did.
@gabbymontoya2085
2 жыл бұрын
After saying many times I’d rather be in a relationship and not a friendship with benefits .. he would dismiss it .. and when I was done and frustrated.. he played a victim saying I knew what he wanted .. I said “I will not be played or used by you!! “ and the argument kept going .. until I changed my number and blocked THE USER
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@elsakamga4007
2 жыл бұрын
Good lady
@GuidetteExpert
2 жыл бұрын
Ew let your male family member answer his phone call and show him.
@yolandabeene8269
2 жыл бұрын
That "hit the spirit" moment was for me!... That part about being a Nurturer is so true of me. I learned from my last relationship to stop allowing that side of me to be taken advantage of. I won't stop being me but only someone that's worth it will experience that blessing.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@kaylam1252
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Valyonga
2 жыл бұрын
Great points thank you. For my part, I've learnt {the hard way) never to look back after I've been ignored, abused or disrespected. Some things hurt so deeply, a sorry or about-turn cannot fix them. There are things which never would have happened in the first place, if a man cared. Us women need to accept that it's possible to spend years with a man who simply never cared. Recognise it and check out. A woman should pack her bags once only - it cannot be a repeat scenario. Ladies please, repeatedly excusing cruelty and heartlessness will only break you into a billion fragments.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@carloshasabighead
2 жыл бұрын
I think the reason why it’s no excuse for a man to be oblivious about showing affection or giving attention is because men always know to play that game when they are single to get into a new woman’s pants or woo her to fall in love…so they can’t possibly be that oblivious that it takes that same effort to KEEP her in love…same goes for women who don’t keep themselves up when they are in a relationship but the second they are single they put on their best outfits and makeup and hair done to attract a new partner…people know better they just choose not to do better because it’s all about the fun of the chase people don’t want long term love because they get bored. It doesn’t make them feel alive to have the same thing everyday…a lot of people struggle with being content. Always needing a dopamine rush because they are void of self esteem and self awareness. Broken people are never consistent because the people who programmed them growing up were not consistent and unreliable…I’ve had to tell men on dates don’t do anything now that you won’t be consistently doing later ie. Opening my door..because I will hold you to that effort later on
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@misselle1430
2 жыл бұрын
Good one. Hold him to that effort later. What's changed now u suddenly don't do that anymore
@shaylaahava6413
2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Perfectly said! .. A lot of this is highly common with both men and women! ... Well put! 💯 My thoughts are about consistency... the concern that a person can string you along, doing everything you wanted and needed for them to do-- only to change up after marriage and kids... ;( There is no absolute 💯 certainty in any relationship!
@celiaparra8515
2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@marisaking5982
2 жыл бұрын
‼️‼️‼️
@naturalbae
2 жыл бұрын
Very true about depression and anxiety. I'm on day 10 of a herbal fast and I have been so easy going, sleeping well, and no anxiety. Diet is very important
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@zeal4god402
2 жыл бұрын
Amen to natural herbs
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
@@zeal4god402 ❤ 🙏
@min_blogs28landing32
2 жыл бұрын
Can you share what herbs you are taking to help
@jennifermacauley2244
Жыл бұрын
What herbals are using and how are you using them?
@zobibaglobalMedia
2 жыл бұрын
Cut it off and let him figure out what he wants. That's when they need to grow up.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@zobibaglobalMedia
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephen. Please teach men how to communicate if they are interested in a woman.
@Iritaub3674
2 жыл бұрын
I will listen to this as a daily reminder. I'm trying my hardest to move on and never look back
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@valkyriesanborn189
2 жыл бұрын
This is such a great video. Men don't realize that they need to take it seriously when your girlfriend says there js an issue because by that point he is on borrowed time.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@daisyv9364
2 жыл бұрын
💯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
@AT-zl6dk
2 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to say thank you for always keeping it real. Over the years I’ve listened to your content. I’m married now , when I wasn’t even focus on dating my husband appeared out of the sky. It’s like God truly gifted me with my heart desires. I still tune in from time to time. Keep blessing us. ✨
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help 🙏
@nicolethompson9931
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, timely confirmation. I called out my partner in a long distance relationship this morning. Laid down my concerns in a voice note. Ball is in his court. Thanks for this video.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@jayc5756
2 жыл бұрын
Good!
@misselle1430
2 жыл бұрын
Lol. Stop with these time wasting ldr already. They go nowhere fast
@Michellemybell739
2 жыл бұрын
Nicole are you still in this relationship????
@feleciamoore8860
2 жыл бұрын
I Thank you for this 👏🏽👏🏽 My husband and his mother didn’t have a Good relationship so he treated women in his past relationships like crap… but i was raised by a mother that taught me to know my worth and being Independent as a woman where I Don’t Need a Man to take care of me, So 2 years after we were married we already were having issues in our marriage… it got so bad that I said, “I’m Done” so I just worked on me and we were living like strangers in our house.. then a year later he saw that I had made arrangements to move out and he’s been “The Real Man I married every since🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@drianak8175
2 жыл бұрын
Sir, allow me to say that you are incredible. You are indeed a woke man, a true gem for society at this day and age. Insanely rare. You are putting yourself in both the male and female perspectives with genuine understanding. Your videos leave my brain scrambled (in the best way possible). You provide your audience with priceless food for thought. Thank you so very much for all you do❤️
@pattysanchez9141
Жыл бұрын
So well written!! Thanks for that. I second this precise opinion. Stephan you ARE AMAZING!! Love you tons ! 💐
@maxineadderley5378
2 жыл бұрын
Lack of boundaries will cause constant compromise that does not benefit either party and is detrimental to a healthy relationship
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right!
@mskeepinit1hundred
2 жыл бұрын
This came right on time. I’m in a situation right now where dude is not showing he is interested in getting to know me on a deeper level…we met in December and grant it, things started off cool but went left…there was some mixed messages exchanged and I acknowledged my part however dude never acknowledged his part and at one point I was prepared to never hear from him again but after a few weeks passed he called and we briefly talked and ever since, he calls to “check the temperature” and after listening and watching your videos omg you are a heaven sent…I know God led me here cause I am ready to be in a committed relationship and don’t have time for the BS and as for this situation, I’m done…thanks for the great advice and teaching…many more blessings to you🙏🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and may you be blessed as well 🙏
I cared too much, and was checking in from time to time and not trying to take things too personal. I was not a priority even when he said I was. His actions and words were not lining up.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@originalgoldengoddess
2 жыл бұрын
In a relationship shouldn't it be a given that both people are in that relationship need to feel loved, respected, safe and peace? I don't know why people just don't remember that and apply that daily. I lose interest and fall out of love so fast when I don't feel love, peace, safe and understood... no matter who my partner is I lose interest... I might stick around for a while longer but my heart and my mind has already checked out and eventually my body follows.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@MsKB7
Жыл бұрын
I learned from a minister a long time ago to not only just pray but fast and pray before getting to deeply involved with a person. The holy spirit will reveal all and gives me so much wisdom. I’ve been free from male confusion a long time. I now have so much more clarity after fasting.I don’t ever worried about male confusion anymore I just fast and pray and talk to God about everything. Awesome video Stephan thank you for all what you do! God bless you☺️🙏🏽
@FoundElement
2 жыл бұрын
6 yrs in this relationship and I still run to Stephen for advice 💚 thanks
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help 🙏
@victoriaisabelndongmele6629
2 жыл бұрын
In my past, i invested so much in my romantic relationships and i have come to realised that it got men to take advantage of me; but i have learnt that i will still invest in my man fully but when he does not invest back, i know when and how to pull back without feeling cheated and if the man does not realised that i have pulled back, then it means that he is not for me; and i can move forward with no regret.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@victoriaisabelndongmele6629
2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you Stephan for your words of encouragement & wisdom and i am completely heal 😊😊😊. Now, I am wiser, stronger and courageous and i thank God through Christ for that. I was a "girl" before but now i can proudly say that i am now a "woman" and waiting for that man after God's heart. While i await, i am enjoying my season of singleness to the fullest.
@vashtikelly6837
2 жыл бұрын
8TH REASON MEN START CARING WHEN US WOMEN STOP.........THEY KNOW WE BEEN LISTENING TO STEPHAN AND THEY HATE THAT!!!!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@777-13G
2 жыл бұрын
Hah love this!!
@goddessoflight74
2 жыл бұрын
Everything you say is true. The pull back may be a person assessing their feelings and instead of communicating it, going into hermit mode for introspection is one way. Not saying it's an effective approach, but it does happen. They may be going through personal things that are a struggle. Maybe she doesn't want to seem overly possessive, thirsty, or pushy, especially in the beginning stages. A need for balance, and talks are necessary, before it gets to the point of confusion. Namaste❣
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@winkbyme8480
2 жыл бұрын
We have to be clear as to what we need. Then, ask your partner what they heard-in a non judgmental manor. This way all parties are in the same page. This video was great. Ty
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
@Sus-Annah
Жыл бұрын
“In reality for a lot of people, knew what they had and never thought they’d lose it.” Straight to my gut.
@turner2952
2 жыл бұрын
Outstanding vid! People have to prove themselves over time. If a person is consistent with their actions 80% of the time, they are worth keeping/working with. We all have faults and flaws; are all sinners saved by God's grace. We all need to take the time with God and allow Him to make us into the best person that we can be before we get into relationships with others. Too many people are getting into relationships expecting another person to "fix" them, provide everything they need, support them, etc. There are a lot of "takers" out there just looking for a meal ticket. Don't be unequally yoked. Thank you soooo much, Stephan, for your great wisdom, for all you do. You are helping so many people. God bless you.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!
@patzzyn77
2 жыл бұрын
I have been listening to your videos for more than 2 weeks now and I want to thank you that you just validated my decision to finally look into divorce. I have been married for 19 years now and been with him for 21 years. About 4 years ago, I already gave up. Now I want to be selfish and finallly find my own happiness.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help 🙏
@patzzyn77
2 жыл бұрын
@@GRITS251 Thank you for the encouragement. I have 3 kids that is why I didnt do anything about it before but hearing my oldest son (now 20 years old) tell me that he wants me to be happy was enough to make my decision.
@prettyme3150
2 жыл бұрын
@@patzzyn77 Hello Payzzy. Have you tried to communicate your needs to him? Speak to the Lord about it before you speak to him about your concerns. Keep walking in your feminity- you can check out Michelle Daf on this. I believe he'll change. May the Lord answer your prayers about your marriage 🙏 Remain blessed 💕
@atiyamolton6507
2 жыл бұрын
This whole video was so on point. I use to accept this and make excuses. Man . I thank God I woke up...
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
@crystalthomas-fearing319
2 жыл бұрын
I have been married for 25 years and struggle with in our marriage. Learned a lot from this video. Thanks for sharing your knowledge 🙏🏽
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
@innedbystephanspeaks8004
2 жыл бұрын
THANKS FOR WATCHING 🤍🤍WRITE🤍🤍ME🤍🤍ON🤍🤍ωнατѕαρρ🤍🤍➕1𝟕𝟎𝟕𝟗𝟐𝟓𝟐𝟓𝟏𝟑▫️
@michelerivers6818
Жыл бұрын
You know what!!! Stop excusing these men
@michelerivers6818
Жыл бұрын
I did listen to you at first..this dude knows his stuff. So what u are saying is we have to do and say stuff men understand ...so men are just dumb and ignorant. Please ladies all this HELP .. Is for men only. Lol
@kourtney101
2 жыл бұрын
You hit and never miss! 🎯 Some will fight love and want it at the same time. Patience rules, yet we have to know when to move too! 💡
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right!
@kawaiiuwu3148
2 жыл бұрын
I love how you pointed out the 'nurturing' people. It helped me realize that im caring and its hard to get points across when you've been loving and caring and 'wifey energy' so to say. I definitely have growing to do and definitely want to communicate without anger/negative emotions involved.
@virginiechristinemangaonan3012
9 ай бұрын
God loves you. Believe in the Strength HE puts in you. Daily, wake up, give thanks and make HIM happy through your behavior which favours True Love. Much love from a sister in Christ.
@francescalucien4058
Жыл бұрын
@16:21 I need these words Woww thanks for teaching what my dad couldn’t! I’m 21 and refuse to settle and repeat all these toxic relationships that my family normalizes … My mom cried for my ex bf of 6yrs because I choose self worth over abuse and manipulation only cause she want me to have a man😭😪😪I will break that cycle,and create a healthy home.
@charisselewis5401
Жыл бұрын
I am so happy you are learning early. I wasn't as smart as you at 21. I stayed and allowed myself to be used and abused.
@maxineadderley5378
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you for the most part, but sometimes they are intentionally dismissive of her point of view. I know of a couple where he popped the question after 7 years of a committed relationship. She never gave him an answer. After about a year, the relationship ended. He was surprised that she did not come running back to him I, as a woman was trying to analyze the issue and asked him if he ever asked her why she gave a response, (bearing in mind that she answered by not giving one) he was surprised that he never thought of it that way. I further asked him if he thought that she might have felt that she did not feel heard, she did not feel that she had a voice, you were dismissive, his response was” no I don't think that that was the case because she will raise hell if she is mad.” His response to me said a lot and that it is about what he feels and thinks and not about her feelings and concerns.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@sherronmatthews7917
2 жыл бұрын
Buyf
@alrosado08
2 жыл бұрын
Stephan, you are a Godsend, doing God's work...seriously, you are such an intuitive, caring being...I say this because your understanding transmits guidance in such an undeniably wholistic, spot on, loving, kind, respectful manner. 🙏 Thank you, lives are transformed, I am sure of it. Much respect. 🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
@renee167
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this topic! I’ve always wondered why some men, wait until it’s too late to start sharing how he truly feels. I’m definitely the kind of woman that once I’m checked out, that’s it. I’ll only give you so many chances, and then I have to move on. However, as you mentioned if you make your concerns known early on in the relationship, hopefully the man will catch on quickly before it’s too late. I’m also guilty of not speaking up on how I feel about certain things, but I will definitely do better! Great advice as always!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@jayc5756
2 жыл бұрын
Same. Except if I was really interested in the person, I would speak up my issues and stuff. They usually don't take heed, so f it. But these are not relationships. Just acquaintances I used to call my friends.
@renee167
2 жыл бұрын
@@jayc5756 Good for you! Speaking up is extremely important no matter what the nature of the relationship is.
@silentmakeup7176
2 жыл бұрын
WHEN I TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE ALWAYS ON TIME!!! I literally cut him off this morning, letting him know how I feel all of a sudden its calendar invites to schedule phone calls and zoom calls and if we can meet for dinner this week and im like 🙃🙃 wth just happened
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@beefaye6861
2 жыл бұрын
Right.....he scared now.....smh
@planetChristie
2 жыл бұрын
Screaming lmaooo be in total disbelief but you know what I blame us women too because if we are inconsistent with our standards then they will be inconsistent with their behavior 🤷🏾♀️.
@zeal4god402
2 жыл бұрын
When roots are not uprooted, foliage will eventually resurface, same for us when we don't uproot personal/relational issues. I agree that medications don't deal with root causes, but only the symptoms. So many are ineffectively medicating their relationship symptoms and not digging to, analyzing and addressing the source
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@amourelamonica8121
Жыл бұрын
It’s not only about the lack of communication…Sometimes individuals want to express themselves to you when your mind is on other things. If we really want someone’s attention, we need to make a space where both partners are fully in the moment and listen to each other. We have to choose our moments to express ourselves. If I desire to talk to my partner about something important to me…It’s important to ask for one on one attention where we’re both focused on each other. Example: If I’m getting the kids out the door for school in the morning I’m not going to be 100% focused on what my partner’s trying to express. We need to come from an emotional intelligent space, and be patient to create a space where we can get our partners undivided attention.
@user-ge6uo2ry2b
2 жыл бұрын
Everything you say is 💯Men must understand when a woman reaches the point of being done, just done, there is no going back. Especially after working on various issues that don’t seem to get resolved, a woman reaches the place of contempt. It’s a pivot and the point of no return because there is a loss of respect. This doesn’t happen overnight but once the respect is gone, so is she.
@4FlavorsOfMeCreoleMami
2 жыл бұрын
This is so exhausting cause I just wanna love this man 😩 he open up then go back into hermit mode the endless cycle
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
@misselle1430
2 жыл бұрын
Do the same thing and decide to cut him off. Time wasters
@Lulu-oi9ue
2 жыл бұрын
27:50 is exactly what my husband said to me last night after I said we aren’t having sex and that I won’t be having sex until I get my needs met. He asked me what I want so he can get sex. Told him it will take work it isn’t a instant thing. He slept on the sofa. A wise man once said if you don’t get what you need stop giving him what he wants.
@cheritalevonne7256
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Attention and Validation!!! That's it Stephan... I was asking for date & quality time. Our relationship was new-new. I moved to another state per his request, to only be dismissed😠🤬 When I brought it to his attention he would say, "It's been awhile since I've been in a relationship but I get it, we'll start doing things together" 👀) After the 100hundred + 1 conversation about his emotional neglect, I was packing my ish and boy was he surprised...
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@me-meluv6921
2 жыл бұрын
Good for you. Emotional neglect is real.
@cheritalevonne7256
2 жыл бұрын
@Belltown Daisy We dated for a year...That's new to me.
@cheritalevonne7256
2 жыл бұрын
@@me-meluv6921 Thank you😉
@thesoulonquest
2 жыл бұрын
I believe that mental issues like depression arises due to our mental mismanagement whenever we are beaten up by outside issues or some real crisis or anything like that. Now, if we don't change our thought pattern, do things to gain mental strength, do self-introspection and probably meditate, medication would just be a temporary chemical input that can only work for a while. Though therapy can work if you can't do things on your own.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@yuwawanable
5 ай бұрын
Thank you, Stephan, for your advices. I was in bad relationship for 18 years. The last five to eight years, my ex he was unemployed and he said he retired before he turned 43. He did not help around the house or financially. He was guilt me with that ‘thru thick and thin’ and requested me to also quit my job to take care of our two kids. The law, culture and society in my country were so paternal that I could not get divorce. I finally made it. This VDO helped alleviate that guilt I had for years. Thank you for this I am free.
@gameprey1777
Жыл бұрын
The problem with watching these videos: Answer below.... As we watch these videos, as women, we feel good knowing there is actually a man out there who understands us but...and a strong BUT.. It is sooo time consuming and hard waiting for a needle in the haystack! I know there are men out there with just as much knowledge, maybe even more, but it truly feels like they are few and far in-between...May our Lord guide us and make us sincere through this journey...aameen ♥️♥️♥️From a women healing her soul ♥️♥️♥️
@beautifulblessedandbeloved659
2 жыл бұрын
What he said about the emotional check-out is straight facts
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@aunttonyaboveriaandrassy5663
2 жыл бұрын
Stringing me along hit me to the core... I told him that string has been Cut.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@sophiaf.
2 жыл бұрын
Yes Stephan you hit it on the nose 👃🏾 game playing is exhausting. I wish everybody well.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@brittaniiman5760
2 жыл бұрын
This was exactly what I needed to hear, especially the part about being the nurturing person and giving too many chances/enabling. I’m consistently torn between being ready to leave and feeling guilty for even thinking about it. We have a 3yo who loves his dad and the thought of changing his routine kills me. I doubt this man has ever truly loved me and believe he is here for the benefits. I’m stuck and don’t know which way to go. Anyone have any advice? ❤️
@brittaniiman5760
2 жыл бұрын
Correction: I know which way to go, I just feel guilty for considering divorce.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation but you need to focus on doing what is truly best 🙏
@brittaniiman5760
2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you! Your videos are so much more helpful than I can explain. I am seeing a lot of what you speak on to be true and have been able to start setting myself up to depart. I appreciate you, Stephan!
@danagold7115
2 жыл бұрын
Same age my child was when I left her father. No one can give you advice, you will know when you’re ready to leave. I just knew. I wanted to do it while she was young, and not older. I knew that it was unhealthy to stay just for her. I was heart broken in so many ways, but it was the best decision I EVER made. When I lifted that weight off me, I was light as feather. He didn’t know how to love, he was doing the best he could. I said to myself, is his best, what I want for the rest of our life, and the answer was no then; and it still is today.
@AnTia_Bri_Anna
2 жыл бұрын
My kids were 2 and 3 they were little enough not to understand. But like @dana gold said you will know when you’re good and ready. No one can tell you trust me you will know. My dad told me the same exact thing. I was scared but then I knew when to leave, I had power and courage in me I didn’t know I had! Praying for you 💕
@oyellascreation151
2 жыл бұрын
Am the kinda nurturing type and been hurt a number of times.. watching this video has helped me alot. Thanks Stephan for the good message and advice...love watching you videos.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
@BAM4_
2 жыл бұрын
If a person doesn't really want you, why would you waste there time and yours?
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@breannabaldridge6547
Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with depression & anxiety. I was prescribed a cocktail of disaster! I decided I wasn’t going to start the medication but I was going to do something about it. I went online and researched how to cure depression & anxiety naturally. I kept finding that our diet and exercise was a huge factor in healing. So I said what the hell do I have to lose, I started intermittent fasting & exercising! I’m a completely different person.
@Valyonga
2 жыл бұрын
Very valuable points Steph. And more often than not, once we women emotionally check out, a million roses and a million apologies won't bring us back; it's a million moments too late. Where we sometimes err, as you rightly say, is in succinctly explaining what the issue is, what the hurt is about. Which often is because we ask ourselves, how can the one I love not see my heart?
@ninaduncan2463
Жыл бұрын
PREACH! If you gave it all you had communicated made changes yourself and that person still is not putting effort into the relationship it’s clear that they aren’t interested. Walk away knowing you did all you could 😢
@tobeapearl
2 жыл бұрын
Comprehension is the right word Steven. It’s literally insane the most basic simplest sentences that men cannot grasp because they are just not listening or I don’t even know.
@mddavis4585
2 жыл бұрын
I agree w U. This is why i am breaking away from the way i saw growing up. Having my own mindset letting my pain be my lesson. Along w making better decision myself and being transparent w the Next Real Man I meet by God.🙏🏾 This is very important information. Im going to keep REJECTING my X.😌 Tell them Mr. Stephan,🙏🏾🦅
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help 🙏
@dynamitemidlight422
2 жыл бұрын
Hello, I recently found your channel by accident and I have been enjoying the videos and some advice is helpful, I'm currently in a relationship and it is a long-distance relationship, and it is hard and didn't know how else to keep the love in the relationship alive. So I did watch some of your videos as it was in my recommendations on youtube and I'm glad I did, some tips really helped me to understand my partner's point of view better which helped me find better ways in communicating things clearly. This really helped me and my partner stay stronger together and we now spend even more time with each other. and I just want to say thank you so much.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy my videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to subscribe and click the notification bell to be notified each time I upload a new video ❤ 🙏
@dynamitemidlight422
2 жыл бұрын
I did thank you so much, your videos are a true blessing 😊
@fanahamilton5635
2 жыл бұрын
You are so right about all of those points. I know a few of them by experience 😊. I'm teaching my teenage daughters about relationships and I have already informed them about you videos. I can question your knowledge but I would not, because I understand the power of gifts. Keep teaching with the drive and passion in your calling and know that I love you for the dedication with all honesty in this.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
@mclean2099
Жыл бұрын
We are intelligent and we have a lot going on (job, several businesses, gym, personal struggles, trying to provide for your mate for the future, etc.). We are not mind readers. Verbal, direct communication is vital (emphasis on direct).
@midoscent
2 жыл бұрын
This is where I am right now.... he wanted to slow the relationship down, I didn't, he simple fell all the way back and I proceeded to fall apart...I became desperate.. I was clear with how he was making me feel and he was cold asf ...welp I'm great at being single so I reverted back into that mindset and began to get love and attention from guy's who are crazy about be... now that I'm not fussing and crying and begging for time..... he is expressing feeling... and wanting time and I don't have it... there are 2 other guys who are loving on me and I ain't about to dismiss them like he dismissed me... I'm gonna fed his ego the desperate, lonely whatever he wants for another month...then become the lesson that I guess he was trying to teach me. I'm gonna ghost his ass... and leave him in the middle of a riddle because he was really trying to damage me or break me down or something... either way he picked the right one... leave single women alone if you know you are still playing cause some of us are with the shits, too...
@annekajordan6952
2 жыл бұрын
I love when you have those hitting your spirit moments ☺️. Great video.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that and thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@annekajordan6952
2 жыл бұрын
🙏
@sophiacalon3463
2 жыл бұрын
I now will have better standards because of you❤️ I still have a long way to go but I now can believe myself when I say I am worthy of unconditional love. Thanks!
@livip5764
2 жыл бұрын
After 23 yrs I’ve finally heard something that makes sense and #6 hit home for me. OMG I was packing his stuff at ur 5 but he never took me seriously. Had other issues and after 10 years more he back to his old self again and I am no longer able to tolerate or accept. Forget the folk who think u have to be a doormat. We don’t have conversations anymore without - he don’t make any effort to work it out but my threats will become evident soon enuf. U hit every single situation I’m in besides he ain’t going for help from a doctor but he self medicates and that’s not fixing a damn thing
@tinker2217
2 жыл бұрын
I swear it's like you're on my journey with me in my relationship lol. This was right on time.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
@marqann
2 жыл бұрын
This video is so good, puts into words what we know deep down... "He's just not that into you"
@hairtutorial1342
2 жыл бұрын
OMG!!!!! You got this 100% correct!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
@sigma20xx
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had found this video a long time ago. Sadly, I'll be getting divorced probably in less than a year. I was guilty of a lot of these things and didn't even know it. I think back to a lot of our conversations and I can hear her tell me what was wrong. Now I wonder if I ever really loved her. I know I felt like I did. But I've come to realize that I was just a good provider. She told me that I'm a good person, but not a good husband. 11 years, gone...
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@misselle1430
2 жыл бұрын
Well. You should have listened to your wife. No excuse. Men think that just coz they are nice that's it. Doesn't work like that. Just coz he cooks on cleans or provides but he's not a support system to her in every way Doesn't make a man husband material. The work has to be put in
@shalalala868
2 жыл бұрын
One of the most painful things as a woman is to have explicitly stated your needs and pleaded with your husband, only to find he took you for granted and never took your needs seriously. I am divorcing my husband now, due in part to this, year after year, after year. Good women are in short supply, so it's best to hold on tight when you find a real one, cause these dating streets are ROUGH! The good news is perhaps you'll learn to do better next time, with the next woman.
@sigma20xx
2 жыл бұрын
@@shalalala868 I don't think there'll be a next time. I know what type of person I am. I'm too self destructive, I procrastinate a lot and willing to deal with the consequences, I'm selfish and only volunteer assistance for anything detrimental. Example. I'll get up to get myself something to drink without offering to get you something. If you ask me to get you something, I'll do it happily with no problem. If you say nothing, you get nothing. But if someone tells me you need something, or I have to search for you in the dessert to make sure you get water and don't die, I'll do that to. But I rarely ever do the little things that add up. I don't memorize you. And I was told that's what love is.
@e.williams13
2 жыл бұрын
@@sigma20xx don't be so hard on yourself. The fact that you would do something to help someone if they asked you says a lot about your heart. You just need to work on thinking about other people's needs as well as your own.
@yukkonlamuzikaria
2 жыл бұрын
You know I try that to write things down and what I was told was we're not little kids or grown people so I said it were grown people how come you can't have a stable conversation without getting so defensive I believe that people that act like that are undeniable to accept that they need professional help and sometimes because they don't seek for the help they lose the most precious people in their life
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@yukkonlamuzikaria
2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I cant change who's not willing to change and that's what US woman have expectations on some situations are harder than others but with God everything is possible I never lose faith cuz I'm a strong believer
@lawannaduerson9
2 жыл бұрын
Clear communication is 🔐 🙏🏿❤️🕊
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Communication is definitely key!
@kenishahoward7431
2 жыл бұрын
What about the times when you’re in a relationship where they don’t show they care but in their next relationship that same guy gets into a relationship and they are doing EVERYTHING that you were asking for for that person ?
@loqueniabenson8860
2 жыл бұрын
You were not the one for him..
@GTO.007
2 жыл бұрын
You never know what's behind the closed door. No point to compare how our ex treats their current partner. Focus on ourselves, heal and the right person will come.
@gi4752
2 жыл бұрын
Every time I listen to your speech, I’m so shock because you are talking about really my situation I’m in right now!! I feel good and better better!!! Thank you for your wonderful speech!!❤️❤️❤️ Stephen you are God gift🙏🙏🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you very much I appreciate that 🙏
@cheritalevonne7256
2 жыл бұрын
No Stephan...I was crystal clear okay best friend! 😂 Lol...I get it though 🤷🏾♀️ He was lacking skills and being prideful in the same breath. Now, he wants me back but I'm still empty. I was so angry at first, however all is forgiven but I have nothing left to give. I still care about his well-being but I believe we make better friends.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@cheritalevonne7256
2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Sure thing! How does one go about booking you for a guest appearance on a podcast?
@damonteforney8076
Жыл бұрын
I think that when it comes to a person doing better, they have to realize that changing isn’t about you proving to someone else that you can do better. But that it’s about you proving it to yourself that you can do better. Even if we told our partners why we choose to do better. Most of the time they wouldn’t believe us or doubt us. So it’s better to prove it to yourself that you can do better, rather than to someone else who would just doubt you anyway
@lamaja19
2 жыл бұрын
So true what you said. Dated a man whose contract wasn't renewed just kept assuming they'd call him back. Interviewed for only 3 jobs in a year, whenever I'd ask in conversation on how's the job hunting going, he'd always deflect. Said he may have to go live with his daughter. That should have been my que to walk away because he was looking for a woman of convenience & no way was I going to let a man with no job live off me. He just didn't seem to care or look for ways to network or enhance his skills, very depressing he got comfortable not working living off his meager savings.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
@myGodmycreator
Жыл бұрын
Can anyone relate? So during lovebombing stage, I really didn't like the clinginess, and when he pulled back( now I know as devalue) I was relieved, I preferred his watered down version of love. That relief, that side of us that recognize I'm not loved 100% and yet I'm okay with it for now!...... is what still makes me ask! Why? Why dear love? Why would you accept such inadequacy? I guess I'm still learning to forgive myself! Inshaallah 🙏🏽 thanks Mr Speaks, for this video allowed me to see that side of myself😄
@medusagorgon8432
2 жыл бұрын
Stephen this is gold! One of your best videos! This should have been a special broadcast. No joke. Well done.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you very much I appreciate that 🙏
@kenneshalawrence3261
2 жыл бұрын
So agree with you about depression, not a fan medicating for this issue.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
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