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@sandyfriedman169
5 жыл бұрын
Deepak chopra
@ellenarnett3527
5 жыл бұрын
Kim Saeed 9n
@Justjewels8436
5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou!
@barbarabongiovanni3471
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for your subtle sense of humour across this such painful thing. You made me smile and see him miserable. It really helps to heal.
@jonesnewyork7702
4 жыл бұрын
Can you kindly read my comment , I'm very confused
@ohh338
6 жыл бұрын
they don't apologize at all.. they make you seem like you are the cause of what they say to you
@ROCdevelopments
5 жыл бұрын
That's mostly correct. Sometimes they do "fauxpoligies". Faked apologies part of their manipulative scheme.
@efthimios
5 жыл бұрын
ohh this is 100 pct true never say anything positive about anything always you
@theartfulcodger7459
5 жыл бұрын
Just a thought.... maybe you are....
@SixStringsCovers
5 жыл бұрын
Same happened with my ex. My intuition tells me she was fake but I still have faith that she could change. A narcissist and a toxic person will never change because don't know how and need you to believe in him/her and your empathy. They don't have anything to offer you even though they want that.
@aries615
5 жыл бұрын
Right!! Do you really want to ruin our family??? 🙄😑
@divinecommerce6760
7 жыл бұрын
Our therapist saw right through him... He left to go to the bathroom and she told me he was the best pathological liar she had ever seen and she told me to RUN. I went no contact in July and never looked back at his lying cheating face. Learning self love ❤️❤️
@pn6528
6 жыл бұрын
Darius Washington You sound like a spokesperson for Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
@RK-pi9nu
6 жыл бұрын
@Raman D Great story!
@Barneyjo
6 жыл бұрын
That was very unprofessional of your therapist. Almost unbelievable
@dannac_8888
5 жыл бұрын
moonstruck believe it. I've seen a therapist with a PhD who was his therapist break confidentiality at least two times to the other party when it was the guys therapist he had been working with for 6 months. She was very blunt and candid and I never repeated what she said. Maybe you might want to take off the rose-colored glasses when it comes to therapists violating privacy instead of the commenter who has no reason to lie up here. Think about it. Forewarned is forearmed.
@dannac_8888
5 жыл бұрын
DIVINE COMMERCE Well firstly, bravo, you dodged a bullet thankfully. Secondly, he couldn't have been that good or she wouldn't have been able to spot it so easily. Wish we had mire to this scenario sounds like a victory for the honest, moral woman who has an angel on her shoulder. That's actually something I feel strongly about. When you are involved with someone who has always filled you with some odd level of anxiety and you just aren't sure if you are the one being overly sensitive, call in your higher power, angels, guides, deceased family members and give the task to them. Ask them very clearly, if this person is not who they say they are, or are deceiving you, have the person screw up majorly so there's no doubt that your intuition is working just fine and to remove them from your life safely, properly, gently, easily. And then just let go... Trust... If there's something you need to see it will reveal itself. An accidental butt dial conversation you'll hear. A text goes to you instead of someone it was intended to. A therapist will break confidentiality to keep you safe from harm. Trust, I have so many great stories. Russel Targ quoted the most gifted psychic ever in saying what people hide shines the brightest and is wanting to be seen. You see, it takes a lot of energy to hide something from people. I can explain in more detail but I think you get it. Glad you're ok! 👼
@gogop119
6 жыл бұрын
It is so hard to love someone so deeply and finally need to let go for your own good. It takes too much strength to do so.
@belindafuentes760
5 жыл бұрын
Gogo only and when you finally move on and are in a better place they come back begging you for another chance
@gothinav92
4 жыл бұрын
So much strength. It's so difficult. Weird thing is I still feel guilty about moving away. Sigh.
@AyanaSioux
4 жыл бұрын
Smh been there. My oldest romantic soulmate is a narcissist. I mean, we go back 1000s off years, many lifetimes together. I could feel the connection, we even became telepathic. He felt the connection but his poor, wretched narc heart couldn't come to terms with it, so he ghosted me for the 4th time in August. I went berserk. Sent him probably around 100 texts, called him about 30 times. Nothing. I finally decided to stop last month. Been crying on and off since August. Crazy thing is, we never dated. I've never loved someone so much, and never been so heart broken. But I'm sure no one else has driven him as crazy as i did lol. And to be honest, he's the nicest narcissists I've experienced. I'm a narc magnet because i'm an empath unfortunately, and the narcs I'm attracting now make him look like an angel.
@Salvatorus
4 жыл бұрын
But it takes more out of you to die one day knowing some one took your soul and used it for their own selfish reasons. FIGHT!!!! GET ANGRY AND FIGHT FOR YOURSELF!! You deserve it
@yeshaks
4 жыл бұрын
I know coz m dealing with one of these who I considered my DM... Let universe decide.. But for now it's time to let go
@chaitea3912
6 жыл бұрын
they love to tell you that "your crazy".
@arnelevans25
5 жыл бұрын
I went through that, in reality, my ex is a narcissist
@BrotherTree1
5 жыл бұрын
That's called reflection. When the say "you're crazy", they're telling themselves that, aka. "I'm crazy".
@arnelevans25
5 жыл бұрын
@@BrotherTree1 Exactly
@cristinap273
5 жыл бұрын
I told him "why you call me crazy if you're more crazy than I". He didn't respond but he was boiling with rage. He called me ugly the day after (after he praised my looks) lol. Glad he's gone for a while
@yael-atiamoses3657
5 жыл бұрын
They love to say: I didnt say that
@EuropeanGeisha
5 жыл бұрын
"You will never bi in control of your self-esteem or your emotions as long as the Narcissist is in your life." - that hit me hard as hell. :(
@inalignment5800
4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow now everything make sense why I feel more peaceful when I'm not around some people
@udhiw.4663
4 жыл бұрын
The Narcissist generates adequate self respect by latching onto more humble persons and mentally degrading them. Small imperfections are blown out of proportion and used to prove superiority; supply is created when the victim buys into it. And why shouldn't they. Narcissists are thriving in America.
@stargirlfan5824
4 жыл бұрын
I am clinically depressed since 3 years due to Narc ex. I am so much depressed due to the fact that he has some pictures of me. I am always scared if he will defame me by using them.. Please how do I protect my reputation if he tries to do wrong to my reputation?
@pujabidhan9533
3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@niconico4114
Жыл бұрын
it also happens to be a false and disempowering statement for any therapist to make. mentally and emotionally healthy people can maintain their integrity in any situation because they dont rely on the validation of others to regulate themselves. that is what psychological health looks like. blaming another person is disempowering, even if it might be a band aid on the short term for people with their own mental dysfunction called codependency.
@bethleycooper9907
6 жыл бұрын
Narcissist dont acknowledged they are broken. so they cannot be fixed
@mscrystalmochi
5 жыл бұрын
Bethley Cooper so sad 😭 Makes you want to help them more.... but helpless
@oliviacstevens3398
5 жыл бұрын
So true but - they are more than capable of appearing to be broken and of appearing to be sorry, regretful etc....BUT only as a temporary ploy to say what you want to hear to hoik you back in! I found it so hard to accept the lack of authenticity to how they appear. Heartbreaking.
@billyandrew
5 жыл бұрын
To admit they are broken would bring their belief system crashing down on their heads. They believe they are always right and for them to accept otherwise would destroy their sense of identity...and, probably, their minds.
@thirstyboots6205
5 жыл бұрын
And they think they are special kind of human, often some kind of half goddess or half god, they have some kind of superpower and not like other people.
@TheJfsalazar271
5 жыл бұрын
Many narc are like that but some have traits and do see and want to change. But its not easy and sometime to late for relationship to work because of the pain they have caused. But to call them as hopless is to much i believe. I am a narc and realize what I am and dont like it one bit. Work on myself to fight this condition. I dont want to believe I am void of Love.
@missionimpossible4869
7 жыл бұрын
The world is full of these sick people.
@steventhury8366
5 жыл бұрын
Our Satanic culture that seems so docile produces this Godlessness. We are by nature sinners and must seek God's help through His Word in order to be conformed to His image of holiness, righteousness, and knowledge.
@billyandrew
5 жыл бұрын
@Yellow Mustardgas Define _disabled_ for me, please, as the term is more than a little ambiguous.
@yael-atiamoses3657
5 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, you are right. If they are there, change your attitude towards yourself.
@KellyMNicke
5 жыл бұрын
Mission Impossible My own brother....classic narcissist
@billyandrew
5 жыл бұрын
@@KellyMNicke I really can't believe how dense I can be at times. Your comment regarding your brother immediately brought my stepbrother to mind. Thanks for the wake up call.
@tranquility9325
7 жыл бұрын
Everything said in this vid is spot on. Dead in the center of reality, their brains are BROKEN and will never be fixed. No amount of logic, reasoning, getting angry, yelling NOTHING wakes them up. They never get an ah ha moment. Ever. Which is super frustrating for a person like me, who used logic on them only to be met with a blank stare afterwards. The world is breeding more narcs due to the natural selfishness that ppl have. I wonder how many mentally stable ppl there are left in the world.
@angelaelizabeth1754
7 жыл бұрын
tranquility It's also becoming tougher to detect these freaks! The amount of effort required to repel them is over the top, they seem to be a dime a dozen.
@angelaelizabeth1754
7 жыл бұрын
tranquility Haha you are hilarious! It's so true! I'm just at the beginning of this discovery and now we have one as president. It's going to be a fun 4 years!
@tranquility9325
7 жыл бұрын
Girl I hope his ass gets impeached. He is the epitome of Narc. And they do the exact opposite of what their advisors tell them to do. But dig this right....if he got impeached mama get ready for this one. He would say, they threw me out bec they were JEALOUS of my abilities. They knew that I was too intelligent and it threatened them. I was the best president this country has ever seen. Yawn, keep dreaming Ditzy Donald lol.
@marianne9485
7 жыл бұрын
You can imagine how frustrated I was when he told me that I AM illogical. My narc is interesting in a sense that he has tourette's - he tells me everything he thinks. Like the fact that he doesn't even like me or anyone else, he just wants to keep me! His brain is so twisted I can't believe he's the same species..
@tranquility9325
7 жыл бұрын
Oh. gotta love that projection. You you you...they really need to give it a rest. But at least he was honest when he said he doesn't like you or anyone else. They tend to not like themselves either. So why not destroy everyone else so that misery can have company. Sad existence they have.
@wellthatsinteresting1
4 жыл бұрын
1. "I've decided to go to counseling." 2. "I met them the last time we were broken up." 3."Can we just be friends" 4. "I knew you weren't right for me!" 5. "I'm sorry for hurting you and vow to make it up" 6. "I love only you" 7. "I've had an epiphany"
@CharlotteLeguy
3 жыл бұрын
I had the can we just be friends and I knew you weren’t right for me and I felt aweful about it for many years
@kateoloughlin8774
2 жыл бұрын
@@CharlotteLeguy Charlotte don't cast your Perils before swine. Those two lines are mind games. Hope you are doing well. Kind regards from Ireland Kate. 👱♀️💕☕☕
@Novideville
Жыл бұрын
😹
@carolloraine223
5 жыл бұрын
Best Revenge?? BE HAPPY!! They hate it!!! Ha Laugh Smile Feel Blessed and Move on! 😍💗💗💗💗😀
@sheilaphelan3574
5 жыл бұрын
SO true, they can’t mentally handle the fact that you could ever be happy without them!!
@nataliagitman6762
5 жыл бұрын
Carol Loraine how do you stay happy if it’s your only child
@mollyg4980
5 жыл бұрын
Yup any time I was excited or happy about something, he found a way to sabotage it.
@seanmclaughlin4395
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Carol very spirited and living words 💚☀️
@childofchrist7625
5 жыл бұрын
@@mollyg4980 Unfortunately..I know Exactly what you mean😞💩
@tanyadepoalo7033
7 жыл бұрын
My ex Narc came back one last time with a Revelation....he said "I had a Revelation...being with all those other girls made me realize how much I Loved you" WOW! GROSS!!
@KimSaeed
7 жыл бұрын
Hi Tanya! Yes, that's what I jokingly refer to as their having "The Divine Epiphany". :)
@christo3635
7 жыл бұрын
Tanya Depoalo The warped part about this revelation is that in his own sick delusional mind this type of behavior is acceptable..How twisted is that !!! This is how the mind of a psychopath operates, replacing all logic and rational reasoning with evil..
@laurenwilson7031
7 жыл бұрын
Christo so true
@SweetSiNNer87
7 жыл бұрын
Tanya Depoalo and mine got rejected by multiple women on Tinder and one he was dated for a few weeks before it didn't work out, he came back with how I was the one but also wanted me to feel sorry for him and what he sent through on Tinder and how that girl he dated for a few weeks trying to get over me really "hurt him".... Wtf!
@cindyh675
6 жыл бұрын
Mine says he fucks them but he only LOVES me...yup!
@robynhendrix3010
5 жыл бұрын
I've been in love with a narcissist for over 5 years and because of this video I think I can finally move on.Thank you so much..
@SosoWedge
4 жыл бұрын
me too
@princessconsuela9012
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been there. No contact will bring freedom like you wouldn’t believe. Totally worth it - you deserve to be happy.
@KeerthanaR22
3 жыл бұрын
You should. I did
@davidrivela9566
3 жыл бұрын
I'm on year 5 as well, I'm definitely in the discard stage 😂😂
@catherinewholey3630
3 жыл бұрын
Please do it Its difficult at first admittedly but you wont regret it. The freedom and peace is astounding. You connect with yourself again and learn self esteem,self love and boundaries.
@CE-wb9ek
7 жыл бұрын
He discarded me like I never existed yet still has anger and is behaving like I have dumped him..A true jackal and Hyde personality
@Happy_teacher16
7 жыл бұрын
C E the same happened to me!
@SweetSiNNer87
7 жыл бұрын
C E same with me right now!
@terrikinney4750
5 жыл бұрын
Same story
@carluvrsd9374
5 жыл бұрын
They're always the victim. I hope you're in a better place this year.
@alinesimon3330
5 жыл бұрын
When I left my narcissist x he was telling everyone he didn't know why I even left....
@mmommo2025
4 жыл бұрын
"cheating....making you think they are desirable while making your self esteem worse..." so true
@ReenieG1UK
5 жыл бұрын
“I was abused as a child” is another one they use..............
@alexcanning5383
4 жыл бұрын
Omg reading these comments is scaring me. If only I wasn’t so spineless
@hannahscott6604
4 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah my second ex used this!
@udhiw.4663
4 жыл бұрын
@@alexcanning5383 It takes real guts to face reality. You have the Right Stuff Alex.
@udhiw.4663
4 жыл бұрын
@Rod Walchly Do you mean by "two to tango" that we have a responsibility for being a Supplier of energy to narcs?
@JatnaRD
4 жыл бұрын
Sad
@andreacausley4611
7 жыл бұрын
Yes. The abuse is much worse when we go back! 😞
@angelbythewings
5 жыл бұрын
So true. They will pull you back just to humiliate you
@adrianarogeligo
5 жыл бұрын
Sadly true...
@miranda_444
6 жыл бұрын
I got depression while being in a relationship with a man I thought I truly loved, turned out his ego was so big it pushed me down and made me feel worthless. Boy are they good at getting their way
@shapiro9640
Жыл бұрын
Better off without him.
@iopakayalo3459
Жыл бұрын
I see you.
@redwoods7370
5 жыл бұрын
In my experience with narcissists, once you confront them and have it out with them and say no to the hoovering, they shrug, give up and go on to another victim. I'm talking really close relationships here. They just can't admit anything and blame everything on you.
@jenell_hanson
3 жыл бұрын
The same in my experience! The refusal to accept responsibility for what they do & how THEY make other people feel!!
@SharlenesJourney
2 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s draining
@Em-im1yz
Жыл бұрын
The last relationship i had found out at the end 3 women including me had dumped him within two years. He went from one to the other and still blames us his exs.
@kathydunn7838
7 жыл бұрын
Wow, he has said almost every item on this list. Eyes opening,😳 💔 Heart broken. Reality setting in😐 The sun will rise, I will heal. 😊
@kevinmcmenamin260
7 жыл бұрын
kathy dunn - Seeing as Mz Saeed has amazingly nearly successfully quoted almost every otherwise normally reasonable English language combination of apologies & attempts at romantic repair,-- then of course he has to have said whats on her list. She may as well have just said ANYTHING a Male says is proof of Narcissism - Kathy, when deciding about your life - please use only your OWN reasonable/sensible thoughts & feelings The ones she lends to people via her video etc. are all her own attempts of trying to ensure all other relationships are as horribly, hopelessly, irrepairable as her own have been. I wish you heartfelt, realistic contentment in what ever decision you make. Good luck. May God bless you.
@jeffsmith9793
7 жыл бұрын
kathy dunn. hi kathy sorry your going throw that ..u. sound nice
@jbeck6560
7 жыл бұрын
It's very broad almost anyone could look like a sociopath after watching this broad realm of "problems"
@jaymiemarrow7631
7 жыл бұрын
YES GIRL GO GO GO👏👏👏
@Charlie-yi8hq
7 жыл бұрын
kathy dunn life's not always fair, I know, be strong because over time your wounds will heal, and your reality will set in that dogs are better than most people. I keep saying to myself "omg I miss the closeness of a woman" do like I do turn on P hub and handle it! W/out your dog watching. : )
@yahymaqueen4660
7 жыл бұрын
Im still trying to recover from the mind games my narc played on me. I feel angry that i would allow him to treat me so bad for so long.
@abigailwilliams5302
6 жыл бұрын
Yahyma Queen this comment is old but I'm just now seeing this video and completely agree! I'm mad at myself for sticking around for so long and letting him continuously mistreat me.
@pn6528
6 жыл бұрын
Yahyma Queen My Narcissist was in the form of a so called "best friend " and yes I am also angry with myself for ignoring the signs that date back to the beginning of the relationship. I am so grateful that it is over.
@tiazsacorpening
6 жыл бұрын
Yahyma Queen girl me too! I have kids with MINE! I also have another child who he tried to continue to be in her life also😩. He discarded me and abandoned us for another girl at work. The healing process was hard but getting better. How have you been?
@karleerankmore363
5 жыл бұрын
Yahyma i feel for you I too am angry at myself he was also verbal towards my teenage daughter n violent towards me i used to tell him all the time if he ever put a finger on my daughter i would kill him
@sylviasimpson7076
5 жыл бұрын
+@@abigailwilliams5302 . Does any normal person expect to meet up with a demon ?
@angelbythewings
5 жыл бұрын
And one more thing, you will know my worth when I leave you
@Traceyi1000
7 жыл бұрын
Trust your intuition! It's a blessing and always right.
@CheAubrey
7 жыл бұрын
I wish I had. The sad part is they come off as the calmest, most kindest and understanding being until you are not longer beneficial to them. I'm literally so grateful he found a new supplier and someone to use.
@mastermind4965
7 жыл бұрын
OMG THE TRUTH HURTS....I was shaken through out the entire video. Need to get this mother - f**** out of my life for good.
@arineteg9752
7 жыл бұрын
okereke catia hope you got away!
@kevinmcmenamin260
7 жыл бұрын
If you do get him out of your life. For your own sake as you reflect later, be sure its the way he really is that gets to you as a bad place to be, Not the false symptoms this damaged author has thrown out there as bait to all the hurt people who need to make some sense of what has happened. Ensure - if you get rid if him that it is really because he is bad for you, not because this woman is cruelly clever with words. You'll sleep better when you know your decisions are based on your own conclusions not based on this vipers recipe for killing all relationships having hard times to ease her own history of pain. Either way, maybe pray, & think of all real scenarios & your own needs now & in the future before your final decisions. Good luck whatever path you choose - sincerely !.
@CheAubrey
7 жыл бұрын
Wish I seen this while I was with my ex or even after the break up, I won't have fallen for "Let's fix it, I want to marry you , let's go to therapy" and his none stop lies. Run and never look back
@brokenrise9519
6 жыл бұрын
Honey I am toying with mine as I type this to test out a video called how to dissarm a narrsist key words are you are entitled to your opinion, I accept i can't controller your perception. Everything you say is right. I realized fully and completely of mine and his patterns when I allowed him back only this time I played the old me reacted the same only in words but calmer just to see the patterns I was blind to before. So his last approach was to with hold from our child despite of me accept the actuality is anytime in the pasr I did tyebtibest thing he didn't like it called him out on it he would disappear not giving two fucks if our new born needs anything or if I need anything for I just gave birth how about when I was pregnant or prior when weren't married when I first met him I called him a narrsist only when I got to know he was charming
@karleerankmore363
5 жыл бұрын
Mater mind i hope you did that i only left mine in march this year n have never looked back yet wish i have the guts to do it the first time he hit me
@brooke2426
4 жыл бұрын
Gotta love this line "What are you talking about" lol
@mikeshamorgan5365
4 жыл бұрын
My ex love saying that and I didn't say that
@rachp5176
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I got "I don't know what you're talking about" , it was his classic line when I called him out on his BS. I would then show him proof . I'd then get "I can't remember" , typical narc amnesia 🤦
@brooke2426
3 жыл бұрын
@@rachp5176 or say "trust me " after having a debate\opinionated conversation about a 25min subject that he thinks he is always right about what he says. Lol or throws in an educated guess without factual information.
@sheepdoginbozrah4411
7 жыл бұрын
One word for my narc...DEMONIC.
@christo3635
7 жыл бұрын
23 Psalm I second that !!
@redheadedfreckles2
7 жыл бұрын
23 Psalm yes and amen ..just like Judas Iscariot get away
@niinabiina7147
5 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS! Thought I was the only one who thought this
@natashapaige8401
5 жыл бұрын
23 Psalm TRUE now RUN!!!
@snap2114
5 жыл бұрын
23 Psalm Mine too. I realized like 4 1/2 yrs ago that too many awful things were happening to me & my family. Our daughter had become ill & required brain surgery to remove tumor. She was left disabled. Almost ten yrs later my husband became seriously ill in early 2016 then passed away a day after thanksgiving. Then early last year I felt ill. I had injured my back. After seeking help from drs, therapists, neuro surgeons, chiropractor. All said it wasn't serious, recommended physical therapy, prescribed medication & sent me home. Pain continued despite this so I asked God for help. He led me to a spiritual healer. With help from SH & my late husbands spirit he revealed it was my demonic narc ex & his wicked mother who had put a curse on me & my family WAYYY back in early 80s. I discovered physical evidence that left NO DOUBT! They caused my daughters illness, late hubbies death & too much to mention here. They wish for me & my daughter/relatives to lose health, lose job, lose house. Basically to be left out in the street, flat broke, alone & finally death. All because I abandoned abusive narc bf back in 1978. He was an alcoholic, smoker & drug addict & I married someone from their own hometown. Spell has been broken. I am NOT afraid of them! I had NO idea evil sorcery even existed & I held NO ill will towards these sick individuals, but God opened my eyes & showed me the way in order to protect me & my loved ones. Praise God our KING of Kings! He and ONLY HE is our Saviour! Amen.
@K.D-Gaia
5 жыл бұрын
So sad being an empath can get you in and keep you in a situation like this 👀
@BettyRuthie
4 жыл бұрын
I can relate.
@michaeljackson7361
4 жыл бұрын
Who would have thought
@dejamesola
4 жыл бұрын
I know... However, being an empath is a gift...One that must be mastered, as to avoid such situations! 👍💚
@ivancannon7465
5 жыл бұрын
Wanting to be loved is a neurosis. Pay your own bills, do your own thing and stop caring about who loves you. If you can do this, almost everyone will love you.
@michellerenee5028
4 жыл бұрын
Good one Ivan. That's exactly what I do
@nbanu2296
4 жыл бұрын
But you have to do it for your own sake ..peace of mind and safety. .and happiness
@BGfootballfan
4 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with wanting to be loved and cared for. Dont let yourself become negative and calous because of some trash.
@sowmyaparthasarathy9955
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this comment,it can change a lot of lives👍
@angelwings241
7 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh. Been through all this. Never again! Spot the signs NOW. and GET OUT. you cannot change or inspire them.
@lacrossslounge5403
7 жыл бұрын
Ziggy Lu 2022 nope... your right
@alinesimon3330
5 жыл бұрын
Don't ever stay they never change
@kimberlygabaldon3260
4 жыл бұрын
I got a really bad knot in my stomach watching this.
@Chuleta_9
4 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Gabaldon hugs* :(
@ny__bandz5396
4 жыл бұрын
Sameeee
@stargirlfan5824
4 жыл бұрын
I am clinically depressed since 3 years due to Narc ex. I am so much depressed due to the fact that he has some pictures of me. I am always scared if he will defame me by using them.. Please how do I protect my reputation if he tries to do wrong to my reputation?
@lauralusk6292
3 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Gabaldon I had a good laugh!!! Yeah it’s ugly specially when it has been your reality ...😭 Accept the truth , grow and move on Become your best Self ....❤️❤️❤️❤️
@justice4all111
6 жыл бұрын
I watched plenty of videos on narcissism. just broke up two weeks ago w someone who did every last thing described on this list..and wow!!! Im shocked!!! My ex lied and said she went to counseling...haha. said she'd be ruined w/o me... cheated w over 30 ppl. men & women.went thru her found and whooooooaaaaa. 👀👥👥👥👤👥👤. one week after I found out i left. 2 weeks later I am regaining my strength w each passing day and I will never tolerate this behavior from a partner again. the betrayal was a blessing. I once was lost, but now I am found!!
@helenwilliams6366
4 жыл бұрын
TRIGGA TRESE TV TTT. God bless
@latoyawatts168
4 жыл бұрын
Omg say what’s this ex name I’m trying see something
@puffdebi
4 жыл бұрын
Make sure you heal yourself internally so you never attract that type of abuser again! I recommend NARP
@michaeljackson7361
4 жыл бұрын
Amazing how they all operate the same
@janetdaily8995
4 жыл бұрын
Oh good for you. My narc is my mom . Currently balancing maintaining respectful boundaries with dear friend who is just now realizing he is victim of narc abuse from semi estranged wife who has twice tried to injure or kill him. I am in training to be a spiritual counselor in my fifties just finally living my life my own way. God bless and help all victims of narc abuse.
@tbd5082
4 жыл бұрын
I laughed in the clown’s face when he suggested we be friends...
@byanyothernameisarose3310
6 жыл бұрын
I literally cried watching this. The whole video was the last four weeks of my relationship. It was killing me.
@devinatalia8241
5 жыл бұрын
Also, a few characteristic from a narc i’ve encountered with: 1. They like to boast or bluff about their achievement and what they can do 2. They know what you want to hear and they will manipulate you with it 3. Love bombing. If you feel sudden and intense attention from him/her out of nowhere, Run. 4. They almost never apologize, anything that happen to their life is bcs of external force, nothing to do with theirselves. 5. They will shower you with tons of compliment, sugarcoating everything. 6. They will tell you why their brother/sister/friend isnt as good as himself 7. See how they treat someone preferably in service job like waiter, etc. That’s their true mask
@joeybraendli818
4 жыл бұрын
Devi Natalia wow you nailed that’s exactly how they act characteristically fits there ego l hate them 😰😰
@Chuleta_9
4 жыл бұрын
Mine treated customer service employees with kindness. He treated everyone with kindness. It’s not always so ugly on the surface. They can be godly cunning.
@michaeljackson7361
4 жыл бұрын
Seems they all like to name drop also. And gossip alot. Snoop alot in others business. Ignore your messages. They think it's all funny. Lol. I know so many signs now. It's amazing. They have to be worn out.
@donnadubois6308
4 жыл бұрын
Hi I'm
@stargirlfan5824
4 жыл бұрын
I am clinically depressed since 3 years due to Narc ex. I am so much depressed due to the fact that he has some pictures of me. I am always scared if he will defame me by using them.. Please how do I protect my reputation if he tries to do wrong to my reputation?
@mejay4771
7 жыл бұрын
Reality has hit but I'm more mad at myself for accepting abuse now I'm healing and moving on and I'm happy I'm not arguing everyday I'm looking forward to the future.
@asseyez-vous6492
5 жыл бұрын
MeJay I felt the same way as you, angry at MYSELF for being suckered in and accepting the abuse. It was not our fault, I know that now. Lots of love in your healing xx
@ellenberg1901
5 жыл бұрын
Me too; you aren't alone. I can't believe I put up with his crap for so long.
@Nash0303
4 жыл бұрын
My ex nearly drove me insane. I'm still so angry with myself and so broken by it all
@naghidevendersingh9678
5 ай бұрын
You are healing and moving just remember 3 things 1 Don't think past.....isthe best medicine 2 Don't hope your feature Depend ??? Self Realyence is a big hope. 3 Most important Tonic Wow always be in present. Plan your day you will be happy at the end of the day. Most important wow have a good sleep without Dream God will take care Regards
@sylvestina53poetwriter.17
7 жыл бұрын
I want change. I no longer wish to meet and befriend these demonic personality types. No Thank You!!! I want peace and I WANT TO BE ABLE TO RELAX IN MY LIFE.....
@brialyn337
5 жыл бұрын
sylvestina 53, poet/writer. Be that
@broomaidia
5 жыл бұрын
They forgot to mention #8. “I’ll kill myself if you don’t come back”
@lanesblitz
5 жыл бұрын
The right answear is "please, go ahead".
@kittkatt032
5 жыл бұрын
Ok, well say "Do what u feel u gotta do and never talk to em again."
@dnw75
5 жыл бұрын
My cousin's ex husband tried that with her once. I told her to call his bluff.
@Handsoflight7766
5 жыл бұрын
Can I help you choose the tools you’ll need to do that?
@olgahorvathova5876
5 жыл бұрын
yes, exactly, this is another trick and I felt it difficult not to panic and go back to save him...
@Shortana
7 жыл бұрын
When you see both the truth about yourself and the "narc" the whole game stops.
@mspixiedust100
7 жыл бұрын
mine sent a text "have a great Christmas, I forgive you." I asked, forgive me for what? he said, for your mistrust in me. I had no response to that. stupid narc.
@SM-mc1ti
7 жыл бұрын
mspixiedust100 ha ha ha ha how arrogant of him
@angelwings241
7 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha!!! They always say,"I forgive you". Lol. Since they don't see their own faults. Well they do they just try as much as possible to avoid the fact they are SO MESSED UP!
@corsicanlulu
7 жыл бұрын
ugh, their arrogance knows no bounds
@Ok-xw4el
7 жыл бұрын
Yes, he "forgave" me for a lot of crap too. It was crazy weird.
@hazeldorsey36
7 жыл бұрын
mspixiedust100 n
@memyselfi7292
5 жыл бұрын
I would rather be alone. I'm buying a house 2000 miles away. That is a great buffer zone.
@joannbyrd6324
4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@memyselfi7292
4 жыл бұрын
@@joannbyrd6324 it's been a year! Life is getting better everyday! I have myself back and the ability to grow and change again. They steal your life. You feel like you can't breath and you are stagnant! No more!
@jenheart914
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me realize. Im 20 weeks pregnant and now a single mom. My ex was abusive and im sleeping on a friends couch untill i find a place. Scared but better off.
@shani50
3 жыл бұрын
God🙏 Bless you both on the new journey...stay strong!! Know yourself worth!!
@DrJMW
3 жыл бұрын
God will protect you & provide for you
@bhavyasrivastava8072
3 жыл бұрын
Hope you and your baby are doing well?
@Traceyi1000
7 жыл бұрын
Let's grow old together.. Barf. How about you grow old and I continue to become awesome
@corsicanlulu
7 жыл бұрын
:)
@lacrossslounge5403
7 жыл бұрын
MaryLynn 😊😊😫😩
@outofthegoldfishbowletcete762
7 жыл бұрын
No Contact I for one am proud of you. many if not most people who spent that long with a narc never get the courage to leave. but you know, God helps those who help themselves...
@jamesa.3325
7 жыл бұрын
MaryLynn i love your narcississtic comment
@katherynhill2372
7 жыл бұрын
No Contact .
@TheTitofan1
6 жыл бұрын
I'm watching these videos to try to change myself . I hate the way my mind works
@V_Hayden7
5 жыл бұрын
Good for you Frederick. You've already taken the most important step - seeing there is a problem and wanting to heal. And it is possible to heal yourself, with help. These videos that demonize (and label) people with narcissistic behaviors might reflect some of yours but they can also deepen your shame and paralyze you. Stop watching these kind of videos, find a therapist you can trust, then look to your childhood and find the wounds you suffered. You will see where these behaviors came from and know that none of it was your fault. No one is born this way, but it is important to go back in order to move forward. (Check out Dr. David Dawkins' videos.) I've been married to a man for 30 years who displayed several behaviors - only two of which were mentioned here - and it took me a long time and at great cost to my physical and emotional health but I came to see that all his behaviors stemmed directly from what had happened to him as a child and from then on he never believed anyone could truly love him. And this is true of everyone to one degree or another. All children are forced to give up/deny the most precious parts of themselves to live in a culture that is in itself, narcissistic. We are all somewhere on that spectrum. So go back, find, and reclaim who you were before you were so deeply wounded. It is something you have to do for yourself rather than looking for other's to save you/fill that need in you. Your salvation lies within and it will only be real when you find it for yourself - when you love that little child in you that was so deeply traumatized when you were too young to be able to defend yourself. My husband has made an amazing transformation by doing just that. Don't give up!
@V_Hayden7
5 жыл бұрын
oops, sorry I meant check out David Hawkins, not Dawkins :)
@nobody3888
5 жыл бұрын
Me too I need help
@timothytate637
4 жыл бұрын
Everyone has their own problems we just need to recognize what they are in our own selfs... Do not rely on personal options, see a Doctor...
@lelelovesjesusmon8312
4 жыл бұрын
@@V_Hayden7 I agree with you 100%. I don't understand how anyone can label a person as a narcissist, but never mention that these symptoms could be the result of an open wound that the person may be guarding or just bad learned behavior. God loves everyone and if you are going to define a person you must know that we have to turn the mirror first. Most of this sounds like it comes from the stronghold of fear and has anyone stopped to take the time to pray for these people?
@daniellenepinak5392
7 жыл бұрын
I love these videos soooooooo much it makes me feel sane again. after dating a narcissist for 3 years my mind felt backwards and upside down.
@daniellelindsey555
7 жыл бұрын
danielle Nepinak I relate so much :/
@eugenewilliams170
6 жыл бұрын
Danielle Nepinak yes I can relate also after going though a device and I took care of her for 9 years and six mounts and we had a five year old son together and I still take care of my son until this day
@calvineshalee717
6 жыл бұрын
Danielle Nepinak same here smh
@valerielanier8116
6 жыл бұрын
Alex Sage you are the narcissist! Look how you just turned that around and blamed the whole situation on her! You are a gas lighter. Typical abuser behavior. Get outta here man! I you don't like American women then don't talk to us.
@valerielanier8116
6 жыл бұрын
I was married to a narcissist for 5 years. After the last 3 yrs in and out of therapy and hospital visits I was finally diagnosed with PTSD from living through his hell. We have finally seperated for nearly a year now. But truthfully, he still pursues me, tries to shower me with gifts and money and pays my bills without my consent. If you watch this video and see this as your partner, run while you can because you will never believe how hard it is to completely break away after time. It's nearly impossible without the help of people who genuinely live and care about you.
@cr4228
6 жыл бұрын
It is a gift if they respond to your no contact with nada. A gift if they no contact you.
@nandinibandhini
4 жыл бұрын
@Cecelia Russo Indeed! Mine became a fanatic, overzealous, twistminded stalker.
@denisep6450
5 жыл бұрын
Be careful I made mistake after going no contact for 10 years Yes 10 years ...we reconnected and it ended up worse I thought hed change Mistake Hell never change
@mikaelium192
5 жыл бұрын
I know why you reconnected, you have a SOUL TIE AND YOU NEED TO GET RID OF IT! kzitem.info/news/bejne/tZWktap5gqKcfIY
@king-nick2023
5 жыл бұрын
lol how do you keep in contact with someone after 10 years? That’s interesting.
@Isochest
4 жыл бұрын
They don't. Finished means Finished. A reminder for us all
@davemontemayor3995
4 жыл бұрын
Damn
@trishm7527
4 жыл бұрын
Wow that's a long time to go no contact then connect again? Wth. I was married to a covert narcissist for 10 yrs, just recently left him 4 months ago. He moved on after 1 month and has a baby on the way 🤣. Then tells everyone I'm the toxic one. I've been no contact. He tried to love bomb me back but it didn't work. I completely ignored him. We have 3 kids together so its hard sometimes so if we have to talk its about the kids only
@hipposarekool
5 жыл бұрын
The infidelity part where “you weren’t showing me attention” brought me to tears. I was told I was to blame for him going elsewhere (I was suffering from PTSD at the time). Thank you for this video, it has helped me greatly.
@VincentHexx
4 жыл бұрын
Same thing for me.. it has completely crushed my self esteem, and I used to feel really attractive and charming. Just ruined it. When we show said affection, they don't want it or are too busy. I'm starting to document the patterns and lies.
@bebetigre1252
4 жыл бұрын
The old "you got a wake up call"---
@frostbyte9770
3 жыл бұрын
@@VincentHexx same
@brendamcdaniel5742
2 жыл бұрын
that's another thing! narcs do not care if you hurt physically or mentally...like they get mad your crying like a baby..
@tammyhollis1519
Жыл бұрын
Hey. The narcissist was projecting onto you what HE does to you. A narcissist is incapable of giving anyone attention because he cannot afford to give any part of himself away. A narcissist is shriveled and empty on the inside, devoid of love or empathy for anyone except for himself. The narcissist cares only about protecting his FALSE image of himself.
@Joe-xo4yg
6 жыл бұрын
None of it was ever real, not to them. All your effort, love & tears just goes to prove they’re right for thinking so highly of themselves and therefore can never be wrong. Their thirst for vengance when you disagree (period!) more boundless than your love could ever be. Break, devalue, discard is the m.o. Still not sure which was the most painfull part. Thank you for the video! cried trough the whole thing, none of it was real.
@jermaineprice3748
3 жыл бұрын
Geez im scared she's been my world for 19yrs. I keep saying she has to know I love her but I guess not which makes me sick.
@richardm.4997
4 жыл бұрын
Mine tried the "I thought we could still be friends" ,I basically told her,"HELL NO!!!!"
@edwardkirshenbaum3827
7 жыл бұрын
i gotta go cry now. But thank you.
@AppleofGodseye6543
5 жыл бұрын
Pray God keeps these horrible evil people away from u
@emmavink
7 жыл бұрын
One of my favourite quotes in the world is "sometimes the brightest light comes from a burning bridge" 😂
@reneemellott8612
Жыл бұрын
Wow, that video was right on and exactly what everyone who is in a relationship with a narcissist needs to hear!! THANK YOU for making this!! Good information!!
@VV-lx6eg
6 жыл бұрын
I am literally living this out right now. But I am going to educate and heal myself and forget him so he can not hurt me again
@RaiseYourVibes333
5 жыл бұрын
Melanie Tania Evans
@pigglywiggly3488
5 жыл бұрын
Me too. Prayers for you
@MrGuy-cp1gt
5 жыл бұрын
Forgive but don't forget , it's a pattern ,neither return to it, be wise, be vigilant , for all spirits"evil" will test again , only for more of a prize your soul , and to iniliat your love for GOD, ITS WHOLE INTENTION
@divyakhanna9261
5 жыл бұрын
Sme situation . 😑 Wish u the best
@RichM0410
5 жыл бұрын
A A good for you! 👍
@oliviaginsbourg6541
7 жыл бұрын
The narcissist can no longer drain your energy that was previously needed to combat the fear, dread of having to deal with them. The day i told my narcissist empathy was no longer in stock.....magic happened. No contact, no guilt. Got my Life back and enjoy my HAPPY way of seeing things.
@Elizabeth_Elizabeth_Elizabeth
7 жыл бұрын
did the same... :)
@teresajohnson5528
5 жыл бұрын
This is the first video I’ve watched on narcissism that was straight up! Don’t sugarcoat! They are evil! You have validated me!!!!!
@verastamper814
Жыл бұрын
Yes, very evil.My ex is a pastor now😀😀.
@midnightrider7648
6 жыл бұрын
Extremely accurate. In addition to all of this, it was ALMOST impossible for me to get away from one of these relationships because she was so beautiful and so good in bed. My self respect finally made me pull away for good. Thank god.
@AdrienneShianne
7 жыл бұрын
you forgot "you don't know nothing..*laughing* you don't know anything about me." Or... "I don't know why I married you.. you can't help me so I'll marry someone else who can." or he blames everything on you and pretends as if you're crazy in front of your family when they know the truth..
@vontrycyayarborough3178
4 жыл бұрын
They hide your items..nd then after a while it appears ..oh I found it..nd you kno it wasnt there when u looked!!!👀 =DANGEROUS👿
@Silverwings2012
4 жыл бұрын
Vontrycya Yarbrough- my sisters husband does that to her,
@kyleray9633
4 жыл бұрын
My daughter does this to me. It's a form of gaslighting
@susanjohn2039
4 жыл бұрын
Mine kept some clothes and the keys he had because he thought I would visit for them. I totally blocked him and went no contact. He dropped them off at my sister in law when he saw that I ignored him. It is really really stressful being with them
@aliciabee2781
4 жыл бұрын
It took me a while to realize that its so true and scandalous 😳😳😳😳😳😳.
@jg3102
4 жыл бұрын
OMG YES my NARCISSIST will steal my stuff and hide it just to make me crazy! So weird. 13yrs....have a 2 year old daughter and its impossible 2 co parent with a NARCISSIST!
@kevindavis1281
7 жыл бұрын
bang on. didn't know this type of 'person' could be sleeping beside me. yup. such an overall waste of time and effort. creepy to the bones. why did i have to go through that?
@angelaelizabeth1754
7 жыл бұрын
Kevin Davis I believe we all go thru these experiences as a lesson in life. It is important to seek understanding about the Narcissist but you must also take a closer look at what caused you to attract that type of person. Many times it's our unresolved inner conflicts and childhood traumas we need to let go of and the Narcissist shows up all charming to show us what we need to see the hard way. Take to your inner world and do some introspective soul searching, this is a healing lesson for you.
@kevindavis1281
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Angela, it's a harsh truth, yes. I also think this narc showed up at a random time in my life when I happened to be available, not necessarily vulnerable. I was indeed blind sided by the initial charm. I was under the belief of the 'birds of a feather' theory but I guess that doesn't always fly..lol. I have made much stronger boundaries since then. Now she is annoying me because I set new ones for her and she doesn't like it. I hate to see someone I really cared about flopping around like a fish out of water. Nothing I can do for her now.
@angelaelizabeth1754
7 жыл бұрын
Kevin Davis I also set boundaries for my life and it's been quite a struggle with my main narcissistic, but it also affected several others I have been living with in my immediate family that I never suspected. It's amazing what boundaries can do in time, when you stick to them. Many things have opened up for me in terms of stepping back into my own power, you just have to remain strong!
@shirleydeane4082
6 жыл бұрын
Angela Elizabeth loo
@karleerankmore363
5 жыл бұрын
Kevin davis it got that bad i would sleep with next to him with a knife tucked between my side of our mattresse so i know where your coming from
@whosaskin2469
7 жыл бұрын
Married to a covert NPD for 5 yrs. She selected a counselor, he diagnosed her as NPD. As soon as she felt he was looking at her, she bolted and left counseling. Six months later she found another counselor, we went together. She tried to intimate that I had all of these problems and she was a sweet little lamb. He saw through it and he too diagnosed her as NPD independent of the first counselor, I never told him. Soon after this she bolted again. They cannot stay because by definition there can be nothing wrong with them. She then went to a female Pastor friend of hers to counsel us. I was sceptical of her bias and met with her alone to insure that she could be impartial. The so-called woman of God secretly allowed my then wife to listen to the entire 90 minute session on her hidden cell phone. A brutal betrayal for which she has never apologized. I went complete "no contact" with the NPD and that upset her bigtime. I never spoke to her for 2 1/2 years. Now married to a wonderful woman, hang in there. God Bless.
@lauriej.3544
5 жыл бұрын
I would try to take legal action against this pastor due to the confidentiality breach.
@cutechiangels
5 жыл бұрын
Wow! That's a story you went through! Great you kept you own health. And so glad for you that you found a better person. I'm getting out of an abusive relationship, as he does seem to always want to blame on me... not even considering his big behavioral mistakes. (This vid is wrong, they don't excuse themselves)... Take care. 🤗
@stephenstephenson3942
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your story
@steventhury8366
5 жыл бұрын
It is forbidden in Scripture for woman to be pastors.
@jacquehutson5337
4 жыл бұрын
One of my favorites... "no one will ever love you like I do". Let's hope not!!!
@debbiefreeman9481
3 жыл бұрын
You need me! Ugh! It’s such a relief to be away from a narc. You feel like you have your life back.
@shaayj18
4 жыл бұрын
Damn this video explained my whole “relationship” to the T 🤦🏽♀️ it’s crazy to see things that I already know explained by someone else
@barbarahenderson7611
4 жыл бұрын
Deep down jnside you already know the answer you need confirmation.
@memphisjuju3361
4 жыл бұрын
Shaay Jordan exactly. My narc is everything she is sayn in this video. That’s how u know this is a real thing.
@ticiao
2 жыл бұрын
So sad that so many men are like this.
@sylviecaouette2247
7 жыл бұрын
About the one I heard yesterday; our relationship is broken because you can't forgive and move on. If you could, we would be back and love each other like before. Am I the only one that heard that?
@KimSaeed
7 жыл бұрын
Hi Sylvie! Yes, that is another of their blueprint comebacks. I'm getting ready to post an article on my site in just a bit. You should go check it out because I think it will help you gain clarity. www.LetMeReach.com :)
@suzihazlove4979
7 жыл бұрын
Sylvie Caouette totally got same dialogue... uggg
@kellysohn9265
7 жыл бұрын
No. It was apparently my fault we are having problems because I decided not to go running back. I do forgive him; I'm just no longer willing to be his victim. Forgiveness does not equal putting yourself back into harm's way.
@outofthegoldfishbowletcete762
7 жыл бұрын
Kelly Sohn exactly. you don't forgive prople for their benefit. you forgive them so you can move on permanently.
@joecaruso9990
7 жыл бұрын
Sylvie Caouette Yes, I've heard that one many times. I need to live in the present and not the past. She told me once while pregnant by someone else "if it takes the rest of my life to make it up to you". Guess who's gone again and I'm raising this fantastic daughter!
@tbd5082
4 жыл бұрын
“I couldn’t stop thinking about you.” 🤮
@vava8545
3 жыл бұрын
"I miss you"🤮
@esmeraelillywing612
7 жыл бұрын
I am in tears, Thank you for this video. Sometimes (almost always) it takes an objective viewpoint to see the truth. You've provided that for me. I am so grateful.
@SimplisticallyDigital
7 жыл бұрын
This video was spot on! I am amazed at how all of them do the same thing without rehearsing it with each other. It comes naturally. That is the scary part because that confirms that fact that their behavior and actions are mental!
@CatherineElizzabeth
7 жыл бұрын
Swarthy Daisy me too!
@VV-lx6eg
6 жыл бұрын
It's so true this actually makes me realize I can move on bc it's not me
@nobodyshome4195
6 жыл бұрын
A A that took me a While. But I'm free. 🌞
@iam7049
6 жыл бұрын
Swarthy Daisy I find it strange too. If it is mental, then who or what uploaded the narcissistic programing that allows so many to be "the same"? To say, what are the universal or common circumstances revolving around us that creates the narcissist?
@VitaleHZG
6 жыл бұрын
I AM I uploaded it, available for £2.99 online.
@jb9905
5 жыл бұрын
My favorite line from my narc.... “I went to 4 sessions of counseling... He said I was all better so I don’t need to go back and I’m healed” 😂😂😂😂😂
@cyndimoring9389
6 жыл бұрын
"I'm sorry you feel that way"
@TheIndemir
4 жыл бұрын
Cyndi Moring omg yes
@udhiw.4663
4 жыл бұрын
Magic words that out the narcissist for all who have ears..."I'm sorry you feel that way"
@lx2495
4 жыл бұрын
My ex literally said this to me 😂
@davidii3895
4 жыл бұрын
It is a demonic spoirit brought on by disobedience=rebellion, no longer connected to God's Blessings. Opems the door to rebelious evil spirits like the old snake in the Garden, the Father of lies and fg. Fjlies. The World is in conffusion.
@davidii3895
4 жыл бұрын
@@udhiw.4663 noot everybody subscribes to Academic commentaries. I vdefinateklly agree it is spiritual.
@CoD_Maj3st1k
6 жыл бұрын
Jesus it's like a play by play of my previous relationship. She was a clear-cut narcissistic sociopath. Luckily it only lasted a year before I got myself out; it felt like a four year relationship. But I didn't get out unscathed. Emotionally and mentally it screwed me up. I did not listen to my intuition or gut when there were signs.
@Crushhhed
6 жыл бұрын
This video is on point and it actually made me cry. It sucks when you realize how much time and energy you wasted on someone like this and you‘ll never really know what was genuine or fake all these years you spent together.
@MightyMako
7 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one shocked to hear the word "douchebaggery" in an otherwise informative, professional video? Seriously hilarious.
@tcgraham386
7 жыл бұрын
Skye if you at any time truly believed this was a seriously professional article after hearing the sarcasm in the narrator's voice, than you are a douchebag narc. fyi
@gabrielletollerson6818
6 жыл бұрын
Skye Ikr,loool
@fallonstone2080
6 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing girl
@ttoyas
6 жыл бұрын
And “secrete a few years”, lol
@ttoyas
6 жыл бұрын
Humdinger
@sylviecaouette2247
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks I will listen again to remind me not to fall back with my ex
@cataclysmic911
6 жыл бұрын
Notice not a single NPD ever comments on this or any other video on this subject. No NPD ever chimes in to defend themselves or their actions. Interesting. Great video and spot on. Thank you.
@karadiberlino
5 жыл бұрын
That‘s because they want to be SEEN as good ppl. Only few of them are bold enough to be blunt about their intentions. But usually they are cowards, so don‘t date a male pussy or cocky douchebagger. They lead to nowhere in life! 🤷🏻♀️
@sheilaphelan3574
5 жыл бұрын
I believe it’s also because narcs never think there is anything wrong with themselves so why would they even think of watching a video on this topic anyways?! It’s always everyone else’s fault and they’re the victim. ALWAYS!
@theglen85
5 жыл бұрын
To be honest I think they just come on here to read about people's experiences just to get more fuelled up and discover something they haven't tried.. Guys I have never ever "hated" someone this much
@anaguerrerosholisticwellbe2788
4 жыл бұрын
I just saw someone admitting to it. 3 comments followed saying the same (one was called A PERSON, the other one NOBODY). Sad isn't it? I feel so sorry for the ones who realise their disconnect. It must be a terrible reality. I do believe these can improve but they need digging very deep into their childhood. It's just so freaking sad. I feel more sorry for their victims though.
@CadillacBunner
4 жыл бұрын
Self-reflection is work. Many people are not able to self-reflect. That is a key indication of sociopathy and psychopathy. And yet, you went to labeling others as your first comment.
@lynblisso2880
7 жыл бұрын
Im sorry if i hurt you More like Im sorry if you think i hurt you haha
@angelaelizabeth1754
7 жыл бұрын
Lyn Blisso You're lucky to get an "I'm sorry" at all. I just get the "you're too sensitive or delusional" invalidating response.
@lynblisso2880
7 жыл бұрын
Angela Elizabeth Your actually forced to be sensitive ! You end up realizing they are a walking crime scene your forever processing and examining what they've said or do driving you nuts
@angelaelizabeth1754
7 жыл бұрын
Lyn Blisso Yes it is crazy but I also extremely intuitive and happen to be an empath so I am hypersensitive naturally. The toxic pattern between empaths and narcissists is like a heroine addiction, it is truly the worst experience.
@lynblisso2880
7 жыл бұрын
Angela Elizabeth Yes I am too very much so like yourself. my brain has shut down because of anxiety and i can no longer drive but also just found my children were not off limit to my mil's crap. so i pinned her with statements of it nailed her she was a deer in headlights caught out. im not taking the crap anymore
@Traceyi1000
7 жыл бұрын
+Angela Elizabeth said sorry during a hoovering attempt. When I turned him down I went from the love of his life to a thoughtless witch among many other insults.
@stclairkaleb
7 жыл бұрын
This video is good - finding changes in a narc is like expecting a fish could breathe on land- thats not gonna happen ...
@jeffreysweeney182
7 жыл бұрын
Lol...as if people hadn't chosen to the belief of "reincarnation." Trippy stuff, though at the phase of acceptance on the behalf to such information. Alike the learning of materials, no more trespassing, because plenty of people live to done had lit the path of history. And narvo's crumbs became algae. You're knew heaven. Boastfully, Thanks.
@ciliciamarie1084
4 жыл бұрын
Girrrrrrl, “you and them against the world”.. that line hit home lol.. leave narcissists tf alone!!!
@joecaruso9990
7 жыл бұрын
Wow! 25 Years married to a woman like this. Everytime she "leaves" it's my fault for not treating her right. finds a boyfriend that lasts about 6 months and always sucks me back. I notice she never loses contact with her past flings. Talks crap about them then yo-yo's back and forth. I'm finally done after 25 years. I'm a slow learner I guess. even our daughters can't stand their mom and tell me to stop being so sweet. 😖
@rolandleupold3403
6 жыл бұрын
Joe Caruso everything you said sounds like me my two boys have easier time with no contact with their mom and I do. She's still hovering over and he even to this day was texting I've attempted no contact so many times I must try again. But I know exactly how we're feeling
@magical571
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's always you who neglected them, you who caused them to be abusive, you who left them no option, or any other excuse to be assholes with you and blame it all on you
@AppleofGodseye6543
5 жыл бұрын
omg 25 wow im way sorry you wasted so much life on this horrible women God bless you
@frankreynolds7404
5 жыл бұрын
You're not a slow learner Joe Caruso you just loved your wife a lot, she did not deserve a guy like you
@klausthiel7162
5 жыл бұрын
dude you take the words right out of my mind,, find a boyfriend and that lasts 6 month or a year and then she tricked herself into my life again. and she KNEW EXACTLY WHAT BOTTOMS SHE HAD TO PRESS;TO TAKE HER BACK: SHE WAS SICK ; BUT ME TOO: NEVER AGAIN its also too late. idont hate woman dont get me wrong. i hate narcissists sick or not, they know exactly what they do, otherwise they couldnt be SO TRICKY. hold on brothe , you are not alone a bitter LOL
@ceftomapothelyamburcsvlafr2734
6 жыл бұрын
The Let's Be Friends, is the most common and too easy to spot one my ex uses I don't even know why he sees me as a victim I look strong and too hot for him anyway .
@wandamanuel4582
5 жыл бұрын
After being married to a narcissist for nearly 26 yrs and separated for 15 years I am only just learning what sort of man I was married to .These sessions have been a tremendous help to me. I would like to say a big THANK you.
@VKolibab
7 жыл бұрын
100% Truth! Great job with this video! Now that I have broken free for nearly a year and healed from a relationship with a narcissistic person, I actually laughed out loud at some of the things that are so true and apparently the common acts of all narcissists. It's amazing how accurate this video is! Thank you for sharing. I am so grateful to be OUT of the relationship and have my life back. The person is completely out of my life - ZERO contact - and I am keeping it that way. That's the only way because the narcissists will ALWAYS try to manipulate you back into their sick relationship filled with lies and deceit. They are masterful liars and masterful manipulators. Stay as far away from them as you can and your life will be healthy, whole and complete again. YES our intuition always tells us and we need to trust and listen. I knew I shouldn't have entered into the relationship but allowed myself to be manipulated into it and it was traumatic mentally, emotionally and physically. That will NEVER happen again so thank you to my ex-narcissist for the lesson. The big lesson was VALUE - when we value ourselves, we wont draw in the narcissist. When we are not valuing ourselves is when the narcissist has an opportunity to sneak in.
@schalazeal07
4 жыл бұрын
Don't ignore your intuition. You don't really know a person that well especially when it's just an online relationship.
@sunidhisharma7071
3 жыл бұрын
Another one is.. " You've said exactly what my heart needed to hear "
@michaelali7151
6 жыл бұрын
How about " Dont ever say anything to me in life again ".
@christinewarren8134
5 жыл бұрын
"I wont never bother you again"
@ellenberg1901
5 жыл бұрын
YES.
@aliseluvin
4 жыл бұрын
or "Take me to home" when you call them out on the issues
@mikemadmusic
4 жыл бұрын
All these are spot on 🎯 :Mike Mad GA
@michaeljackson7361
4 жыл бұрын
I've said that a few times myself
@romsrequest
7 жыл бұрын
Yes. When they realize you're on to them they do their best to buy time until they find their new supply. They either suck up or try to confuse you as much as possible with fake feelings. They can't afford to lose and being discarded by the victim going no contact is the ultimate defeat of the narcissist. So they buy time so they can plan the discard drop on you.
@heathernewman5272
3 жыл бұрын
Nothing he could say would work. There is no way I'd take him back!! I value my peace and happiness.
@gabbygirl3951
5 жыл бұрын
I feel like I've questioned my situation for so long that I don't even know what's real and what's not. I question if I'm the crazy one but then I see I'm being treating awful but then I question if I'm just overeacting...
@Silvia-jy8zc
4 жыл бұрын
Gabby Girl Don’t! You’re not overreacting! Ask yourself this - would you ever act the way a narc does and have absolutely no guilt whatsoever? No? Good.
@debbiefreeman9481
3 жыл бұрын
Narcissists have you doubting yourself.
@felicitybele9554
3 жыл бұрын
I'm about to be 40. I have been with my husband for 18 yrs married 12 years. We share a daughter. He doesn't help me financially with our daughter but won't divorce me. He is currently with another woman which I want it to end to help focus on raising our daughter and show more love. I do have more emotional feelings for him, and I don't want him feeling for anyone else but just his family,, I want him to pay spousal support and child support. I want him to realize what a good woman he had in me and lost and eventually be back in love with me. When I contacted PROPHET EHIAGWINA he was able to restore the love and support and he brought my husband back home and today our love has increased, P.E bind us together. my advise to women is that don't be too rush out of marriage if you still love your partner, fight to have him back by prayers from P.E his hear for you... Do you want your Ex back, kill your enimy, clear bad energy, or divorce or make someone love you, then contact P.E today by reaching him out on email below Thank you Email (prophetehiagwina@gmail.com)
@avanellehansen4525
3 жыл бұрын
You're OK. A Narcissist never asks themselves if they are a Narcissist!
@ilovetreestd
7 жыл бұрын
I have been no contact for almost a year now and I still check the parking lot before I go into a public establishment. Once I realized that he never loved me and never could it was easy to stop contact but the damage is deep.
@RealLadi228
7 жыл бұрын
ilovetreestd yes they teach us the real world im actually grateful...Ive learned what boundaries are for and how they protect us
@kuttychitty2233
6 жыл бұрын
From one year I felt depression confusion and at last crying crying crying only. Now I realise their intention through this vedio. Thanks a lot🙏
@cannotmisseverblack9035
6 жыл бұрын
Trust me when I say as soon as I broke up with my narcissist bf, I regained control and freedom after 7 years!
@dlwilliamson5644
7 жыл бұрын
I am watching this a second time because your list is spot on with regards to what I am going through.
@Ultamami
7 жыл бұрын
same!
@kimzarnowski9473
7 жыл бұрын
deanna williamson stay strong and don't give up!! iv been two years free from my situation with friend with benefits and he finally broke me and I had enough of his selfish minipulations. 😊
@DespairDoctor
6 жыл бұрын
I had a "friend" that tried to get me in an intimate relationship with him. He was a Christian besides, so being just friends with benefits wasn't good enough, he wanted a full commitment. He did a lot of this stuff, unfortunately it got so bad I had to get a restraining order, but I've been better without him.
@craigkierulff
6 жыл бұрын
Despair Doctor. Good for you, hang tuff, your stronger than you know.
@THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG
6 жыл бұрын
SAME
@jahazielvazquez7264
5 жыл бұрын
I was actually a Narcisist. A huge one. I did all these things to multiple people, in particular to this one girl. I went through absolute hell, and decided to drop every relationship in my life, and went through near suicidal depression. I went through such hell. Somehow, after all this hell, all those toxic thoughts and feelings dissapeared. I've been slowly dating again. I've become distant from social relationships, but I feel so much calmer. Now looking at this video, I realize even more how damaged I was, and how much pain I've caused
@hamstergal643
5 жыл бұрын
I was told they cant change?
@incogb6696
5 жыл бұрын
not true...especially with the influx of info on the web I feel like more people realize it sooner
@incogb6696
5 жыл бұрын
@hamstergal
@jahazielvazquez7264
5 жыл бұрын
@@hamstergal643 It's hard to change, but I'm a living testimony. I changed forever. And my life is so much happier now because of it
@EVSmith-by9no
5 жыл бұрын
I think you’re more likely an idiot who self diagnoses illnesses to make up for a deficit in personality.
@Wahcawatoglawin
6 жыл бұрын
Traumatizing douchbagery..... love it! Can't wait to use this phrase in conversation, humorously of course. 😉
@buddydew101
5 жыл бұрын
The “I’ll kill myself if you break up with me” is my favorite line my ex used on me many times
@yael-atiamoses3657
5 жыл бұрын
My ex didnt kill himself, he didnt love me, he just loved the fact Im good towards him, understanding, tolerate, good for his prestige, knows foreign langugaes, riding bike, and he found a new/old Yoga fan, beside two or three exe Friends. Was never a dull moment, was very nervous, and Im glad to discover his real ugly face behind the mask, and to run very quicly out of him and his surrounding. He surely needs help, but he dont want to admit he has a problem, and he used to say "Im too old for a therapy". When I left him he wrote me: "you were good to me". Because he is a liar, I dont believe him that he means it, but meant to influence me to return to him. I did not. Im free, I am cautious, and want no intim relationship.
@MaryD79
4 жыл бұрын
Emotional manipulative move.
@callsignblaze4388
4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha I’ve always called them in it. Fucking do it pussy haha
@ascendednightingale2456
4 жыл бұрын
I have tried to kill myself after a breakup before, but I didn’t tell the person I was going to do it. I didn’t tell anyone, actually.
@judysuprtrkr3423
4 жыл бұрын
No Hope For Humanity m
@rlwings
6 жыл бұрын
Frustrating beyond belief. The narcissist will take your heart, your trust, and your faith, as well as all things good, wholesome, and balanced in your life and crush you until you can't get up. Your otherwise logical brain will be rendered completely defenseless against their charms, manipulation and trickery. They lack any sense of empathy. They are a horrible breed bent only on pleasing themselves at your expense... Stay clear peeps! Seriously, learn how to spot them, then run like hell!
@theartfulcodger7459
5 жыл бұрын
Randy,... whether you know it or not,... you have just described....." ALL".... women....(the good news) moving forward,....(using this knowledge, the BAD news)✌️.
@kittkatt032
5 жыл бұрын
@@theartfulcodger7459" ALL WOMEN" and here i thought this article described "ALL MEN"
@theartfulcodger7459
5 жыл бұрын
@@kittkatt032 Of course you thought that... The narcissist.... will always turn the situation away from themselves...😂
@kittkatt032
5 жыл бұрын
@@theartfulcodger7459 Dayum! Sounds like me and you might be a narcassist! 😂
@theartfulcodger7459
5 жыл бұрын
@@kittkatt032 Perhaps... But of course I would be too modestly humble to ever admit to such .😛
@anewloveofficial9137
6 жыл бұрын
Narcissistic behavior of one's partner is too hard to handle because instead of helping resolving the problem, they do blame you even if you don't do wrong at all. You really need to know the personality of a person first before jumping right into a relationship because once you get there it will be too hard for you to get out.
@totoh82
5 жыл бұрын
This is so painfully true.
@GigiDrummond
5 жыл бұрын
I've experienced everything in this video exactly in that order. It took me so long to understand that what I've experienced with this man is beyond vile. He has destroyed my family. I've lost everything in the time that I have been with him. He delights in seeing me struggle. Outright lies and laziness. No such thing as a compromise. He's said horrible things and done worse. All the while telling me that I was "nuts" "too sensitive" or "crazy." Turns out those are all pretty accurate descriptions for him. These videos and support groups have been very helpful. For anyone going thru this if you have to communicate as much as you can by text/email. That way when they deny having said something or being told something you can pull up proof. It took me years to figure this out. Also, the narrator in this video is right. If you find yourself having been sucked back into one of their fateful arguments- forgive yourself and move on. They will always have the upper hand because they are not capable of caring for or about anyone other than themselves. Love yourself! Educate yourself. I have a child (that I cherish) with this man so going "no contact" isn't really an option. Still, it calls for firm boundaries that they will bulldoze thru. Just keep putting them in place. Pray, meditate, and most of all know that one day YOU will be JUST FINE❤❤❤
@shani50
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and strong!😍 Well said!!
@xxkissmeketutxx
6 жыл бұрын
I knew something is wrong with my husband but didn't know what it is. Thankyou from the bottom of my heart for this video, you've detailed almost everything he does and finally I can see what he is. Thankyou xx
@KimSaeed
6 жыл бұрын
So glad to know you feel validated :) Kim XoXo
@deborahetheridge5105
6 жыл бұрын
Having a relationship with a narrcissist is like: going to a serene beach (love bombing), then, you get sucked in - thinking this is the perfect mate, as you place your feet in the serene waters.....you start feeling discontent, not quite able to pinpoint the back and forth odd behavior (control tactics, ignoring, sneaky, lying), as you go deeper into the waters...the under current is so strong....you know it's time to get the hell out...because you know you can't handle swimmimg against the undercurrent.
@bettyflipkowski235
4 жыл бұрын
Deborah Etheridge w
@labellamafia4539
6 жыл бұрын
They are not human beings, they lack the basic key components that make a person human. Stay away from them by all means necessary or else they will break you down and spit you out like the nothing they think you are. Be strong and stick to your guns, I had to do it and I know if I can you can too.
@pattybazos1739
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@billyandrew
5 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, they are humans, just not fully functioning ones, therefore a grave danger to the rest of us on the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual levels. We are ridiculed for our positive traits, which they see as further signs of our weaknesses.
@MrGuy-cp1gt
5 жыл бұрын
@@billyandrew we are wheat they are chaffe
@gracetablada5840
4 жыл бұрын
PLEASE GO TO MY KZitem CHANNEL
@Chuleta_9
4 жыл бұрын
I believe there IS something spiritually negative connected, but not exactly them not being human. Brain scans have shown blockages in the brain’s section that gives the empathy function. I don’t know what it is exactly, but those black spots are manifestations of what is happening spiritually. I’m not saying possessed, but to be capable of such cruelty comes with a lot of thick, dense darkness. I still cannot fathom that there are people so empty, and capable of such cruelty. They eat light and spit out darkness. How in the hell does that even happen?
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