"Dating is mostly about being patient enough to let her attraction catch up to yours." 1. To be the selector also. Women choose first, and then we choose. Unless a woman is at least open to you, there's nothing you can do to attract her. All you can do is make them more interested. - instead of being completely sold on her, be skeptical! Look for personality and internal traits. This mindset is actually really attractive to her. Takes 6-9 dates for her interest to surpass yours; to fall in love. Use the first 9 dates as her first impression of you. 2. Use indirect communication. Women love to read between the lines. To play detective. Women communication is more indirect, which is what they often like. That's one more reason NOT to tell her how you feel. Let her wonder and figure out on her own. - tell stories about your life instead of just directly telling her stuff - talk in general terms about your relationship; "Hey, I read an article about couples eating healthy together. I have a few ideas." Use with sensitive subjects to improve chance of positive response. - show her how you feel: go for a kiss, don't tell her, Hey, I really like you. Let her figure it out. 3. Tease her playfully! Teasing is flirting. She must know you're being playful, not hurtful. Always respond to her teasing as if it's a huge compliment! - even if it's negative attention, always interpret as if it's flirting. Don't get hung up on the actual words 4. Do NOT bring gifts or flowers before she's your girlfriend--i.e., before first 3 months / 9 dates. Fine for her to bring stuff to you; it makes her like you more. - doing stuff for her doesn't make her like you more. When she does something for you, it makes her like you more. 5. Let a woman touch YOU for the most part. If you want to filter for women who want to hook up, then fine: touch frequently. - if you're too busy touching her, she won't have the opportunity to touch you - if you do touch her, be innocent; withdraw them before she's uncomfortable - touch is a very strong indicator of her interest! - EXCEPTION: going for a kiss. That's your job. Should definitely go for a kiss before end of a second date. 6. Take a step backward when you're getting physical with her sometimes. - make HER beg for you to finally gratify her (i.e., put some of her clothes back on her; make her say please; go forward...then stop and do something else) 7. Use common female lines on HER. - after she gives you a compliment, say, "I bet you say that to all the guys." - geeze, is that all you girls think about? (anytime she makes a sexual reference) - hey, listen, I'm not a piece of meat. I'm a person with feelings! Still must lead. Start conversation. Get her number. Plan date and ask her out. Go for a kiss. But between those checkpoints, flip the frame and play the role of selector.
@johnbockmann
4 жыл бұрын
@@glaubenix1179 That's a synopsis of the video. You're welcome.
@johnbockmann
4 жыл бұрын
@LEO2001 it's a summary of the video.
@Razorwirez
4 жыл бұрын
2nd date she brought me homemade brownies, I ate alot of brownies and we made out alot, I think it's working out so far.
@PBRStreetgang
4 жыл бұрын
Once they start cooking for you, that should be a clue.
@rogerbuschmann8161
4 жыл бұрын
how turned it out so far ?
@Razorwirez
4 жыл бұрын
@@rogerbuschmann8161 We've been together 5 months and it couldn't be better
@rogerbuschmann8161
4 жыл бұрын
@@Razorwirez Dang ! Congrats man !
@Jackgritty28
4 жыл бұрын
Dumb comment,fool⏳
@exposingproxystalkingorgan4164
4 жыл бұрын
This interesting info was not mentioned by some of the other dating coaches. This puzzle pieces fills in some of the missing pieces.
@costarica3014
5 жыл бұрын
My mind is tuning slowly in the right position about that difficult subject
@thededicatedguild7442
3 жыл бұрын
once you understand MBTI and theory of mind - the blindness becomes very visable and understandable
@danielgutierrez4832
3 жыл бұрын
How many dates is before asking a woman to be girlfriend? It's because alot of us think that a long wait can become late and think someone else can beat us in getting her first, how do we take care of that?
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226
3 жыл бұрын
it takes quite some time until she allows you inside her. The persuasion process can take a few weeks, especially if we date a quality women. She needs to see us in a lot of different situations and watch us how we handle them. Mine watched me deal with a difficult waiter and slowly got attracted. Then she still needed to test me personally. They really demand a stoic man and a man who understands social cues enough to know how to respond in such a way that the interaction doesn´t escalate.
@robertharper3003
Жыл бұрын
Thankyou Jim. You are so insightful. You've helped me tremendously ! Thankyou!
@rayallen7627
Жыл бұрын
Awesome information
@vb2409
4 жыл бұрын
How to be a great conversationalist
@sustainf
3 жыл бұрын
You are a genius. Great tips! : )
@adegbenroagoro5180
3 жыл бұрын
You should have ebooks of all your products that we can pay for and download. I can't buy it where I live
@compassandradio6261
4 жыл бұрын
My only problem with this angle of advice is this: while men and women think differently, we live in a time when both sexes are trying to communicate like the other. For example, if I approach a woman in a way that comes natural to me as a man, a natural woman may not understand. Yet, if she's informed about masculinity she'll see that I'm masculine. However, if I am equally informed about femininity, and approach her empathetically, she may see that as less masculine. I believe it's best to be masculine and only resort to the empathetic approach to gain traction when needed. To me it's like switching to 4 wheel drive 😏
@patrickvidal2946
4 жыл бұрын
Are you a poker player?. You may be over thinking
@compassandradio6261
4 жыл бұрын
@@patrickvidal2946 definitely 😆
@mr.e7541
2 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure you're extremely wrong. Most men do not understand how women think nor care and most women do not understand how men think nor care to. More than that we live in a time where we're told that we're all the same. We live in a time where we don't understand other people at all. We don't try to understand other genders other religions other races other political beliefs other ideologies. We pretty much assumed that we're right and that everyone thinks like we do. We are not anywhere near is Advanced as we think we are in my opinion. In fact I would say a lot of our ideas of our society are backwards. I would agree that it's best to be masculine this advice says the same thing. All masculine means in my mind is to act in a way that's congruent with the Manor that men tend to act in which if you're a woman and attracted to men make sense that that is what would be attractive to you. Having empathy is not contradictory to masculinity. Would you think any less of a benevolent king if he were empathetic towards their people
@compassandradio6261
2 жыл бұрын
@@mr.e7541 are YOU a poker player? I think we need one more guy.
@mhill88ify
Жыл бұрын
The solution is: Do whatever the fuck feel right to you and forget what other people think...If she doesn't like you, fuck it, it's fine.
@rayallen7627
Жыл бұрын
Awww Mr Wolf
@aruvielevenstar3944
4 жыл бұрын
This is sooooo true
@davidkamwanga6926
5 жыл бұрын
MAKE A video that talks on what to do when you are now in a relationship with the woman you love.
@erdnati
4 жыл бұрын
Constantly increase your SMV as the years progress by doing something long lasting throughout each year. Learn different martial arts, different skills etc. In other words, confidently focus on YOUR self development. Nothing else should really matter in YOUR life tbh.
@coolas11140
4 жыл бұрын
Be focused on her rather than relationship,rest she will look after it,have a life dude,she wants to be the part of your journey and you are part of her journey that's it !! Also never keep her on pedestal, And be an ideal love partner,go deeper and build emotional understanding with her and ther is a process, attraction - comfort- seduduction after that she is yours now you don't need to chase her anymore,but she is not an object now that you open the box and tame her around neither you are to her,never suplicate,don't let her tame you around,Women want constant love and attention time to time to grow your relationship with her...that's it !!
@derekgrimes6544
3 жыл бұрын
SUBSCRIBED.. ! great advice thanks :)
@kaizenborntowin
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@fredfeldmeier8228
4 жыл бұрын
Amazing.!! Where did lern so much.?? Obviously translates ur spiritual advance.. love ur high-end psychology.. Keep up the good work.. thanx..
@rascal211
Жыл бұрын
Wow you have to do this and do that just exactly this way or that way or else you're likely to strike out.
@principlesofmoney2555
2 жыл бұрын
She always help in my college work because she is intelligent Should you ask her for help Or it is a weakness for man
@PumaM90
3 жыл бұрын
5:29 It fucking sucks when only fat women and single mom's are my only options.
@costarica3014
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for that advice, very powerful and right never tought in what way, please more videos like that
@luizperezdacosta1726
4 жыл бұрын
Good video, just desagree with the step back in the bedroom, i'm good in short term, but always screw long term relatioships. But i have a lot of women friends and i know some funny moments when guys with then took a stepback in the bedroom and it tottally kill atraction they tought he was gay.
@luizperezdacosta1726
4 жыл бұрын
Most than once actually, as i hooked up with some of my best women friends, they even said to me! Why the good guys can't be like u . And i'm pretty foward into sex and sexual conversation
@AlefaBenjamin
25 күн бұрын
Watching these videos is making me want to let her go, because of the mistakes I'm making.
@milochamp1586
5 ай бұрын
I disagree with one thing because yours is only a basic principal. Giving inexpensive gifts or something that has no dollar value to women has made many men that I know made women falling in love with them because women found that romantic at start. But giving expensive gifts or dinners that you cannot afford can backfire.
@despabikes
4 жыл бұрын
A This channel is blackpilled. He says he discusses this topic all the time on this channel: 5:52
@kiwispam84
2 жыл бұрын
Am I the only guy who would be creeped out by a woman, no matter how beautiful, immediately wanting to be my girlfriend? That's a red flag...
@jimcrowley1709
3 жыл бұрын
Since it can take a while for a woman to show interest in a man, this is probably a good reason for a man to have a few irons in the fire. This way a man can make a better decision on who he wants. Is this the right way to think about this?
@richarddobos264
4 жыл бұрын
If a girl ask me to be her boyfriend after one date, i would block her and never think of her again.... Super red flag!
@jamesscott9712
2 жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen Boldly to U js
@topsyturvy1873
2 жыл бұрын
Great news! There is this deliciously pretty girl who is interested in me now, the problem is my shyness.
@Machielovic
2 жыл бұрын
if you make it a problem it will be if you can be radically honest about it and step into it, own it, don't run away from it. If you can just tell her "hey I'm really nervous and shy but still had to ask you out on a date, let's do it then and then. If your certain she already she will help make it happen.
@cryptoearning4561
5 жыл бұрын
The second comment haha
@kirilmihaylov1934
5 жыл бұрын
At the end it is up to the woman....
@wanderlei_pipkin
5 жыл бұрын
the third
@imamea7946
4 жыл бұрын
75 years? I’m 38
@SS-ly2bn
3 жыл бұрын
Some of this “advice” is going to piss women off. Like asking her to say “please” for sex? Oh, hell no. Men are the accelerator, women are the brakes.
@Increzrdy
4 жыл бұрын
I really see a lot of good information here but, I hope you don't mind if I say, "I would rather have an unattractive lady rather than be something I'm not." Again though, I believe much of what is said here and wish I could have been this way. Thank you, for this amazing bit of insight and God Bless you for sharing it.
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226
3 жыл бұрын
the problem with unattractive ladies is that we have a hard time to get a hard-on. It is very difficult to become intimate with her. You basically need porn all the time. Do you really want this?
@ctaigwoolsey3471
3 жыл бұрын
I know they f****** don't want me that's what God damn sure
@matthewmay2250
5 жыл бұрын
eighth? Hahaha
@wanderlei_pipkin
5 жыл бұрын
the fourth
@wanderlei_pipkin
5 жыл бұрын
the fifth
@wanderlei_pipkin
5 жыл бұрын
the sixth
@wanderlei_pipkin
5 жыл бұрын
the seventh
@fredjohnson3183
3 жыл бұрын
6-9 dates? The fuck.. find another woman/ spin more plates
@txbob5978
2 жыл бұрын
This is what you need to do for a long term relationship. We must weed out the ones that are not worth our investment.
@RachelGerrard
3 жыл бұрын
That bed room stuff was gross and sounds really girly. I'd be so turned off.
@arsjth
5 жыл бұрын
first comment haha
@36gustavo
Жыл бұрын
Simp advice
@jonahware5396
4 жыл бұрын
Women fall in love slower?! I think not! After they have sex they basically looking at the dude as a bf!
@armin38822
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah...something happens after sex.
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226
3 жыл бұрын
yes but it takes quite some time until she allows you inside her. The persuasion process can take a few weeks, especially if we date a quality women. She needs to see us in a lot of different situations and watch us how we handle them. Mine watched me deal with a difficult waiter and slowly got attracted. Then she still needed to test me personally. They really demand a stoic man and a man who understands social cues enough to know how to respond in such a way that the interaction doesn´t escalate.
@josemamani1246
5 жыл бұрын
The tenth
@gregthompson9434
4 жыл бұрын
If you just go on a date with an escort all this happens so naturally , it’s awesome and in the long run it will save you $$$ , no divorce losing most of your assets remember 60 % will ask for a divorce in two years
@icanhasbase
3 жыл бұрын
....and you will never be truly happy.
@gregthompson9434
3 жыл бұрын
@@icanhasbase there is no difference between a wife and an escort, they both want your resources , they both will sleep with other men , it’s just how they are wired. Remember it’s just your turn I’m red pilled and understand it and very happy. If your blue pilled I also understand your comment . The right escort can be a beautiful thing for today’s men. I see some of the most beautiful well taken care of women , I have the most incredible dates with escorts Am I truly happy ?? yes I am !!
@icanhasbase
3 жыл бұрын
@@gregthompson9434 Ahhh yes. Reject everything and pretend that you are informed. The "neauveau woke". I hope the red pills come in big bottles.
@PumaM90
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with Greg or even a good friends with benefits is all we really need to get satisfied and move on with our goals.
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