It’s crazy how different being in a healthy relationship does to you. I was in a toxic one before and I really thought that being yelled at, humiliated, lied to bc i ‘deserve’ it, and all of the bad things were normal, and that it was my fault for making things worse by asking questions or getting my feelings involved. Bro now I’m in such a healthy relationship that we don’t argue because we TALK. Arguing and talking are two completely different things, did yall know that!?? Lmao it’s just so crazy how my partner actually wants to know how I feel and what my love language is so she can treat me better. I am so attracted to my partner physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally..geez all of the above. She’s even got me here wanting to fix my family problems too! Don’t settle for less yall, because there IS someone better.
@RedRoseSeptember22
4 жыл бұрын
That's good!!!
@ElizRued
4 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for u. I'm experiencing the same with my current partner. Cheers and may god blessed all of us more!!!
@soundaryamenmozhiyal
4 жыл бұрын
I am happy that you found the right one!!😊
@selenehernandez8279
4 жыл бұрын
I relate and I'm happy for you ❤️ that's progress
@gnarthdarkanen7464
4 жыл бұрын
Maybe... JUST maybe... an argument can still be an argument, BUT the methods of PROposing an argument are different from IMposing that same argument...You can still argue the least popular Point of View in the room, BUT while proposing well, you do NOT have to impose your personal POV nor engage in a shouting match... A genuinely "good" partner can draw that from you. ;o)
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
4 жыл бұрын
"You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." --Dr. Seuss
@mariunfabregas7533
3 жыл бұрын
Lmao I bet that's what he felt for his mistress while his wife was battling cancer
@mrspiral13
3 жыл бұрын
not being able to fall asleep sounds so healthy
@herticate8579
3 жыл бұрын
@@mariunfabregas7533 haahahahaa, that was so spot on.
@catnap6966
3 жыл бұрын
@@mariunfabregas7533 DAMMM
@aiyanawalker2793
3 жыл бұрын
@@herticate8579 Mm M
@natashamerline
2 жыл бұрын
When you're in a wrong relationship, 6 months relationship will feel like forever. When you're in a right relationship, a 5 year relationship will feel like a few weeks.
@LifeisaBeautifulting
Жыл бұрын
Nope it's the opposite. In the beginning stages of my relationship, it felt like we were together for at least a year. We're seven months in and it feels like I've known him for years, so many fond memories already ❤️
@brbcryingrn
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I remember in my past relationship I wasn't happy at all. It felt like as if it's been long we're dating each other but we did break up because it didn't last long but now I'm in a happy relationship with someone I know since 3 years
@Whimmery
Жыл бұрын
Thiiiiiiis
@nightbrite2595
4 ай бұрын
@@LifeisaBeautifultingme and my fiancé make 5 years this summer! We felt the same way when we started dating and it went by so fast
@DineshSingh-ei8bo
4 ай бұрын
I don't have a partner but I'm still watching
@barakucerova987
2 жыл бұрын
For anyone out there who's confused and unsure how a strong, healthy relationship looks like, I'd add to this video one thing: true love comes in the small, everyday things. When I was tired one day but failed to fall asleep, my dearest brought me warm milk with honey out of the blue to help me fall asleep. That's better than thousand gifts and thousand roses followed by silence.
@ralphisxamida8533
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. I would like to add: Little compromises. Like I love long spaghetti and my husband doesn't. But from time to time he says: "We hadn't the long spaghetti for a while. Come we use them this time."
@jmiod2819
2 жыл бұрын
Aww that was rlly sweet of them, and youre right it really is about those littls things every day
@benladeb
2 жыл бұрын
Shit my gf dislike milk... We will never be happy ;-;
@mogy6492
2 жыл бұрын
Aww, my bf has a supperrr long day and was exhausted but still took the time to ask how my day was and comfort me since I had had a bad day before sleeping, it might be simple, but it meant a lot to me. And the other day i brought him his favorite snacks when he was at work. It really is the small things
@mogy6492
2 жыл бұрын
@@ralphisxamida8533 thats adoraaaabllleee! My bf is picky and if i wanted something he doesnt like i'd just end up making it for myself and he'd make himself a sandwich or something 😂
@BeastlyBadWolf
4 жыл бұрын
Respect her, make her your best friend and never lie to her. That’s how I treat my Girlfriend
@kaylamaebaccay447
4 жыл бұрын
She’s a special girl 🥺♥️
@kassey9475
4 жыл бұрын
Aww ❤️
@Averytv100
4 жыл бұрын
Awwe shoutout to youu u-u✨
@sararoseallard868
4 жыл бұрын
Someone get this man an award. Thank you!
@kaar951
4 жыл бұрын
Awwwww
@claire9320
2 жыл бұрын
Communication is absolutely key. Communicate how you're feeling, what you think about things, when you're happy, when you're sad. I've found 9/10 arguments or misunderstandings are solved by just talking to one another like equals. Sounds basic & obvious, but you'd be surprised how little some people do it.
@eaaeeeea
2 ай бұрын
Communication's ability to heal a relationship comes crashing down when 1) you withold your feelings, concerns and wishes because the other person "should know this already" 2) you withold your feelings, concerns and wishes because the other person "never listens" and 3) you withold your feelings, concerns and wishes. Nobody is a mind reader.
@TynishaWilbourn
28 күн бұрын
Also it's important to be transparent, receptive, proactive to solve the issues, also not to be dismissive of your partners feelings. Must be that comfort place to be open with each other and understanding and respecting differences, perspectives though validate each other's concerns. Do not be in competition with each other but a strong team, best friends, lovers and partners.
@fruitypatchouli
4 жыл бұрын
I write my fiance love letters out of the blue to remind him that he's the one for me. I also like to give him massages after a long day of work without the pressure of sex. Sometimes it's nice to know that you can just relax without having to worry about that stuff. Especially when you're tired. He buys me flowers out of the blue, and when we have low funds, he picks them for me. 🌷 He's also a chef who makes beautiful meals for us, and introduces me to foods I've never had. 👨🍳😍
@topazjas
4 жыл бұрын
food is such an awesome way to connect people. my fiancé and i love to cook together. it’s some of my most cherished moments i have with him.
@fruitypatchouli
4 жыл бұрын
@RudGrl lmao hell yeah
@Sol-rk7ze
4 жыл бұрын
this comment made my day :)
@yang9214
3 жыл бұрын
SanaoL
@angela-ol9rd
3 жыл бұрын
That's really sweet. 💛
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
4 жыл бұрын
"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." --Maya Angelou
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
what do you do to someone "like me" who has no real emotion and instead acts like they do
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
@@vanillahibiscus486 forget, I forgot what a happy memory is ps i love how i watch these with my mental heath being unhealthy and doing nothing
@RedRoseSeptember22
4 жыл бұрын
Yep ♥
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
@@RedRoseSeptember22 oh and i had girlfriend. . . for 5 weeks and 3 days
@soniiabaybee
4 жыл бұрын
Not true.. I remember what they did what was said etc and how it made me feel and how I walked away. X)
@ObsidianHearts
2 жыл бұрын
1.) You show your affection 2.) You are able to communicate 3.) You emotional bond with them 4.) You make up after arguments 5.) You appreciate each other 6.) See a future together 7.) Balance housework 8.) Give each other personal space
@XJBaerCub
2 жыл бұрын
@Riverz Wyte oh I see, you're a spammer
@unpopularskyler7494
2 жыл бұрын
@Riverz Wyte I lost a few braincells reading this
@Gunngirl
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you👍🏿
@Angel-gc1gn
2 жыл бұрын
We both have all of those but sometimes 2.) we struggle with when were both sad at the same time
@scandicgamer3071
2 жыл бұрын
Hmm sounds like a relationship I am about to go into has all of those qualities
@danielladesio5110
3 жыл бұрын
what i've learned being in my healthy relationship: - give each other room to grow/change/mature. always love the person for who they are, not who you want them to be - walk away from arguments so no one says anything hurtful in the moment, and come back when both partners are calmer - jealousy and suffocation often go hand in hand. let them be. if they really love you, they'll never hurt you. - remind them how loved they are every chance you get - tell them you're proud of them. they might not be hearing it from other people - choose them every single day, especially during difficult times - let them pick the restaurant every once in awhile ;)
@donnahardy7629
3 жыл бұрын
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@deniserobles4603
2 жыл бұрын
Love this comment! Thanks for sharing 💕
@diegoanimations9504
2 жыл бұрын
Okay I do all these but wait a minute. The moment we get to picking the restaurant it always turns out whatever you want babe, coupled with the fact that I'm the most indecisive human on earth and we just end up not eating LMFAO
@tenacdur447
2 жыл бұрын
Some of us are so sensitive that they can hurt us while still having good intentions.
@why_sojaded
2 жыл бұрын
@@diegoanimations9504 I watched a TikTok about this a bit ago. They suggested keeping a list of your favorite restaurants. If it's her turn, ask her what food she's craving, look through the list, and then give her the top three restaurants that fit that.
@annap-g2184
4 жыл бұрын
I would add - helping each other grow, and sometimes it means discussing hindering habits, which hurt the ego. People who enable each other in their bad habits can seem happy but in reality have a very stagnant relationship.
@vaibhavsagar117
3 жыл бұрын
I put all my time and am open to share my knowledge and resources with her .. I want to grow together but what if all she wants is someone to talk to and wastes all her time online ?
@annap-g2184
3 жыл бұрын
@@vaibhavsagar117 ask her what she wants 🌻
@vaibhavsagar117
3 жыл бұрын
All she wants is someone to text her every few hours and do small talks like did you eat , what are you doin , where are you ... I would like to have some educational combo too but nah ... She doesn't do that
@annap-g2184
3 жыл бұрын
@@vaibhavsagar117 it seems like you guys value different things in relationships and it seems like it makes you feel frustrated. I get it, too much small talk makes me feel completely depleated. Why don’t you keep her as an acquaintance and give her less of your precious time. When that happens you will have more time to invest in a person who also values growth in a relationship.
@bigsmokiee55
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! There’s intangible constructs too in a relationship. It can dwindle, then what do you do to make your relationship stronger? Get married. Happens again? Have kids. Kids moved out? Now those responsibilities are gone, and there’s more time for the relationship. Has there been a spark the whole time? Have you made your partner feel chases the entire time? Commitment doesn’t correlate to love in a relationship, but love in a relationship has effortless commitment.
@WiseMysticMotivation
2 жыл бұрын
You deserve a soul-to-soul relationship. Your soulmate will vibe with you, heal with you, grow with you, evolve with you and make you love yourself more.❤
@imgoodkinda
Ай бұрын
If I have one but I don't unfortunately 😢
@ReMiLase
4 жыл бұрын
*Watching these videos so I can take notes because I’m single.*
@-aboodfrost-2779
4 жыл бұрын
You’re not the only one, you know
@JorgeFoxHounder
4 жыл бұрын
me too
@omura00
4 жыл бұрын
Same 🤣
@queensaharaice7376
4 жыл бұрын
Aye, single sqaud!😎
@fucktheilluminati502
4 жыл бұрын
Aye...
@ginny5937
4 жыл бұрын
A good sense of humour is essential!😉 ( my hubby and I are in our 38 th year of marriage).
@jerene6804
4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@priscillajimenez27
4 жыл бұрын
Awwww ☺️
@angxlkitty753
4 жыл бұрын
♥️
@kitharaj
4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!! 💕
@chlloehorne
4 жыл бұрын
can u give more advice/tips about how you stayed together for 38 years.
@hobodoge2630
2 жыл бұрын
I have been in a long distance relationship for more than 2 years now, it can be incredibly difficult at times but every summer we make an effort to see each other in person. We have every one of these habits but I still feel like theres a distance when we’re apart. Advice I have for anybody who is going into or is already in a long distance relationship is that after the initial lovey dovey phase and somewhere between the 8-12 month mark take a trip to see them. This can really solidify the relationship between you two and can give you insight if you’ll be with them in the future. If you still love them with all your heart and you have to leave that feeling might be fade away or it may feel like the love gone. I want you to remember back to when you were with them in person and remember how you felt. This always helps me get through a day where I have a lot of anxiety, I know when I’m next to my lover I’m going to feel that same love in the future. It may sound weird but this really helps, at least for me anyway. Feel free to share your experiences with online relationships or if you need advice I can try my best to help!
@SharonSabol
Жыл бұрын
I do need advice
@silentcape890
11 ай бұрын
Me to
@jurenlopio6301
11 ай бұрын
Going through this now 😅
@hauntedheartss
4 жыл бұрын
I wish they showed theses videos at school instead of those other ones. I have learned more about my mental health here than I have in school.
@elinehegrand5487
4 жыл бұрын
Periodt
@cjohnson3684
3 жыл бұрын
Slow clap. Yes
@springtrap8434
3 жыл бұрын
i mean schools just want you to learn what is traditional and for this kind of stuff ig you are the one who shld learn them and they don't care if u learn this kinda mental health stuff or not at schl :(
@oddity4353
2 жыл бұрын
Never judge a book by it's cover. When I met my boyfriend, he was smoking and drinking a lot, but as we began dating and I expressed my wish that he would quit smoking and lessen drinking, he did. It took some time and at some point it looked like we weren't meant to be and he just wasn't ready to let go of that, but he proved to me that he was able to do it for the sake of our relationship. I too have things he wanted me to improve on and I'm working on them as well! We've been together for 4 years now.
@rewa6946
2 жыл бұрын
That gave me hope🌼 I wish u guys the best :-)
@gamerwithnoobskill7660
2 жыл бұрын
I hope that you will be together till death. Amen.
@gamerwithnoobskill7660
2 жыл бұрын
BTW how are you guys doing now.
@gamerwithnoobskill7660
2 жыл бұрын
Are you still together. I HOPE SO.
@SuhFrosty
2 жыл бұрын
Same here! How are you both??
@OMGSHEENA
2 жыл бұрын
It is so nice to finally be in a healthy relationship that checks these boxes. ❤️ We trust each other, respect each other, show affection and appreciation, we are truly a team and I've never felt more loved. I wish this kind of love for everyone! 💗
@Gabriel_99834
3 ай бұрын
Same here!
@mrboogiethecat4187
4 жыл бұрын
If anyone feels like they need a hug currently, me and my cat are watching together and she says *meow, virtual cat hug meow *
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
I don't need a hug I need a life
@ihavenolife7032
4 жыл бұрын
Enchanted Ink Welcome to the club m8 :/
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
@@ihavenolife7032 and maybe a real personality
@dutawe
4 жыл бұрын
Enchanted Ink haha, yeah, i dont have a personality
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
@@dutawe i can't be all mad after all my persona makes it so people don't offer help, pity me, or say just be happy and lets just say my second persona isn't one that should be shown oh and i dumped a girl after a few weeks
@kenny-nk5db
4 жыл бұрын
summary: 1. You show your affection 1:01 2. You are able to communicate with each other 1:25 3. You emotionally bond with them 1:48 4. You make up after arguments 2:12 5. You appreciate each other 2:37 6. You see a future together 3:01 7. You balance housework 3:24 8. You give each other personal space 3:52 Recommend watching to learn more 💕
@peggz223
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks chief 🙏
@l-3832
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@anubisd613
4 жыл бұрын
Impossible
@Papigeoh
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother I appreciate this from you !
@jaywatson6261
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the summary 👍🏿
@sudarshanv7246
3 жыл бұрын
After every argument, we take turns and tell at least 3 things that we like about each other. It keeps the balance in the right point.
@sahar1213
2 жыл бұрын
that sounds like a great idea
@emayan06
2 жыл бұрын
I like this.
@danyagha5654
2 жыл бұрын
Plot twist, u r inconceivable 🏴🏴🏴
@divya_sancheti04
Жыл бұрын
Nice
@angelespadilla6497
Жыл бұрын
@@danyagha5654 u just want to ruin relationships don’t you? I know that you’re jealous, but go to hell.
@jennyjacobsen6537
4 жыл бұрын
I have been married 23 years and our relationship has been flourishing. We have 2 grown men! I think trust, affection and forgiveness are crucial In a relationship. I loved this list and agree.
@fu3g0100
3 жыл бұрын
Im totally agree, overall with "forgiveness" my ex wife (we're divorcing right now) told me that she can't and won't never forgive me for my mistakes (I've never cheated on her or something like that, I recognize my defaults) while I Forgave her for punching me, split my face, say that I'm useless , I deserve to die and all other stuff when we were discussing... Anyways, even if I didn't wanted to divorce I'm starting to see the toxic relationship that I was having with her. In her own words " I'm too resentful and I'll never be available to forgive you" ...
@jimmoriarty4530
2 жыл бұрын
@@fu3g0100 😂 you let her do that to you? how can a man become such spineless? No wonder she left you
@jimmoriarty4530
2 жыл бұрын
@bree A man wouldn't get treated like that he would make her learn her place. She is clearly a narcissist women and he was her best victim. She would not be able to treat a normal guy with such an attitude. Any normal guy would have left the relationship earlier , so this guy has severe insecurity issues and lack testosterone I guess, there is no ounce of masculinity in him maybe thats why she treated him this way majority of woman hate such men and have a tendency to shame them or punish them. Men are attracted to feminity and woman are attracted to masculinity. This guy lacks masculinity maybe due to lack of strong male role models and that resulted in low confidence and low self esteem. Men need masculine energy, without it men are lost, they become unpredictable, insecure or dangerous. Look at all the rapists and psychos out there almost all of them lack male role models and have narcissist single mothers. Men with good male role models have good self esteem and do good things in society and have more confidence He may have copied some females in his childhood, that is ok for a woman but it is not healthy for a man. Best thing he could do is having more company with men, go to gym and have fight (i mean boxing training). If you are a woman you wouldn't understand its postive effect on men, but for men its a great relief.
@Natalie-Cornacchione
2 жыл бұрын
Goals right there
@rosyrose4763
2 жыл бұрын
@@jimmoriarty4530 you are literally the definition of “ boys don’t cry” men and woman, in fact ANY gender is aloud to have emotions and saying the he wasn’t masculine enough and that, that was the reason that woman left is shameful honestly 😕 I know you were just stating your opinion but please be considerate of other’s feelings before you post something, being in a toxic relationship is really hard whether it is romantically or not it’s toxic either way, it’s not easy to get away from it, they manipulate you to think that what their doing is normal and because you love them you believe them and go along with it I’m sorry if I offended you but please don’t comment things like this
@bengie2015
Жыл бұрын
I’m currently talking to a girl and I realized last night that I had the potential to make it unhealthy because I’ve never had something where Personal Space is a thing and she doesn’t need to depend on me ALL the time. My last relationship was toxic in that sense. She has a bestie and she has her own friends and so do I, but I always tried to be with her all the time. This video just made me realize that she needs boundaries, but really I do too. And that I could also use light therapy because my last relationship was traumatic 😭
@SydneyBrooks1
Жыл бұрын
Therapy may seem scary but actually helps a lot! You can pick your therapist and treat them like an old friend when you meet with them.
@chief_teep
Жыл бұрын
This hit me hard, man. I’m in the same situation and realized the same thing about myself last night. It’s uplifting to see someone else is experiencing the same thing and working to create their own boundaries. You’ve got this, friend!
@user-kx6fw8ub9g
Жыл бұрын
What do I do when all I can think about is them. I have my own friends, do my own shit, but I’d always think about them. We are far apart and whenever they take too long to respond, I always overthink and get so emotional. I know there are boundaries yet still I am a very emotional person.
@moujayay
Жыл бұрын
@@user-kx6fw8ub9g I think it is not always bad to feel alone being without the other. Boundaries can be something really simple as your own bank account, going for walks or groceries without the other. having your own space in a room the other don't clean up without asking. Or simply being able to read a book without getting interrupted. Not all boundaries need to be physical or hard drawn. I live with my bf for 6/7 years now and we shared his room at his parent's before that for way too long ( 14 years relationship). Some boundaries aren't possible space wise and others aren't wanted depending on the persons. Just talk with your partner what boundaries you expect and what they expect. You should find a middleground for you individually.
@andrewdijoseph9296
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry Bengie, you will be okay my man. Let the past be the past, and form new habits that better your life, take it as a lesson :)
@arielm1374
2 жыл бұрын
Our 6-year anniversary is next month... time really flies when your partner is also your best friend. We've been through some craziness together but I think it's only made us stronger and taught us a lot of life lessons.
@shaneekrichely8445
2 жыл бұрын
Wow congratulations I’m so happy for you. I hope me and my girlfriend last that long
@gamerwithnoobskill7660
2 жыл бұрын
Hello I will pray for your best and may you and your husband/wife stay together till death. BTW how are you guys doing now.
@FaithWasntTaken
2 жыл бұрын
@@shaneekrichely8445 Did you guys last?
@shaneekrichely8445
2 жыл бұрын
@@FaithWasntTaken lmao were only at 9 months rn… but it’s going good so I hope
@chlo5233
2 жыл бұрын
how have yall lived each other for so long? i feel as if my bf is getting bored of me, he doesnt really ask yo hang out anymore and hes gotten dry… how do i fix that?
@Rima27ify
4 жыл бұрын
How me and my boyfriend keep a healthy relationship we communicate we have conversations and talk about making our relationship stronger and working things out
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
that must be nice, always follow your dreams, if you don't follow your dreams someone will heir you to build there's Tony A. Gaskins Jr.
@gnarthdarkanen7464
4 жыл бұрын
It's more about "Us versus the world" than "you and me versus anything"... ;o)
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
@@gnarthdarkanen7464 it is me and the voices in my head versus the world
@Rima27ify
4 жыл бұрын
@@Cat-_-Cat thank you so much for your wisdom
@umaruchadoahmed8182
3 жыл бұрын
I will forever be indebted to the great Dr Olu for fixing my broken relationship after my husband left me for his mistress for 6 months.I never believed in spells until my friend introduced me to him。At first , I was skeptical about him because I heard a lots about false spell casters but l put my doubts behind me for i was desperate to get my husband back and I did according to what he instructed me to do。Now my husband is back just within 22 hours of contacting him。
@Sherburtz
2 жыл бұрын
after so many toxic relationships, i finally understood what an actual healthy relationship is supposed to be like thanks to my current 🥰 i realised the things i used to worry and stress about when i was with my exes, no longer haunt me anymore. and i cant explain that feeling of relief and weight that has been lifted off my shoulders all bc of him. as much as its not his responsibility, he taught me to love myself again and i have no words to show how grateful and lucky i am to have him be part of my life.
@ashestoashes_beastobeas
2 жыл бұрын
Something me and my partner always do is that when we get into a scuffle, we take some time to cool off, then discuss the problem and solve it. It's always us against the problem, not against each other. Taking the time to figure out what's wrong and how to prevent something like that from happening has really helped us.
@clemenIemon
2 жыл бұрын
this is something i’m still trying to get used to, when he says he wants time to himself for a while after our fight it makes me think he doesn’t want me anymore. i’ve never done this kind of thing with anyone before so to know that it’s good to cool off then discuss the problem is very reassuring :)
@courtneyawalsh
2 жыл бұрын
“Us against the problem…not us against each other.” Well said.
@divya_sancheti04
Жыл бұрын
"Its always us against the problem and not us against e/o" Wow. Love that line nd mindset!!
@skellytits
Жыл бұрын
This sounds very healthy and helpful thank you
@ifrmics
Жыл бұрын
That sounds comforting.
@rzuue
3 жыл бұрын
For me the “showing affection” part is what really made the difference in the relationship I had with my boyfriend before we got together and other friends - and still sets it apart. I can become friends with people quickly and be open, but being affectionate or touching others has always been difficult for me. I’m not a very touchy person - except with my boyfriend. I’m also the most open about insecurities and showing my weaknesses, being vulnerable. And we both agree that talking is key in a relationship. He sometimes wants to hold back from telling me things because he doesn’t want to make me sad, but when I ask him to tell me, because I believe that I need to know if I did something wrong or if he doesn’t feel that good about something, he does. Yes, one time it really hurt me, but if he wouldn’t have told me, I might have hurt him again unknowingly. I’m also better at handling my anger. When I feel upset about something, I think about again and ask myself “If I do as I’m feeling and am all cranky - would that be worth the fight we might have? Would that help? Or don’t I just rather want to hug him and maybe calmly tell him what I didn’t like?” Usually it makes me calm down. Acting out of anger usually doesn’t help.
@userm180
2 жыл бұрын
proud of u
@katiekey4643
2 жыл бұрын
That's a really rational mindset. I can tell your consciencious-ness will serve you well
@johnchristianguevarra7320
2 жыл бұрын
what if your partner is happy with someone. and thinking that person is only making friends with her but actually flirting with her. but no matter how you warn her she still choose to make him her "forever bestfriend". and it creates so much anxiety on me and so many insecurities.
@rzuue
2 жыл бұрын
@@johnchristianguevarra7320 well, you try your best to communicate those exact feelings, how anxious it makes you. But I also believe it’s important to say, that you don’t intend to forbid her anything or force her to terminate the friendship. You just want to put your honest and true feelings out there and hope, you can figure something out together. Maybe she can try to imagine herself in your place to empathise with you. And I really recommend to make sure you’re as calm as possible before you start talking about it. You wouldn’t want a fight, but you want to be understood and you want your feelings to be considered too.
@blye879
Жыл бұрын
i can relate to u in terms of the emotional side and feeling sad and all. i personally am not good at thinking before acting so the questions you wrote out are super helpful, and i’ll probably use them in the future, so thank you ❤
@ZyCreatez
2 жыл бұрын
My Personal Experience in a Relationship: -Always be there for them -Write them letters or Express your feelings to them everyday -Tell them you love them everyday -Give them hugs when they need it or just give them all the time -Find enough quality time for each other -Don't focus on something else such as your phone or others while your with them (For me, It's a good way so you can have a good time rather than being distracted) -Treat them well and Smile everyday at them that your happy to see them -Hear their thoughts out and don't pressure or get mad at them unless you have a reason to -Say you won't ever leave them -Share a kiss every now and then -If they have mental breakdowns always comfort them, If they refuse or won't let you, Don't overreact and force yourself because they also need some alone time -Tell them what's wrong so they can help you or can talk it out -Don't text dry or talk less to them in person or online because they think your uninterested to them or they think you don't love them Hope some of these can make your relationship healthier and stronger with your partner. :) Edit: - Also love your partner for who they are and never change them and also be yourself to them. Be someone that's you that they will love and don't try to be cool because it makes them less interested and don't show off on anything you have and always be supportive towards them.
@Akiorinn
Жыл бұрын
She's all in here, she don't wanna help her out, she don't wanna talk about the problems we had, she usually dry text when I don't even know what's happening and what's wrong, I... don't fuckin understand love. I hate this trauma i had.
@terrortalks3037
4 жыл бұрын
Hold on, when issues come up, we can choose to say "can we talk about this?" rather than run away from the problem? ;)
@bri16042
4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@kiwistea
4 жыл бұрын
My best friend's bf runs away every time there's a problem with her or a arguerment, it's so annoying that he won't just talk about it with her :/
@baldihed4119
3 жыл бұрын
@@kiwistea He just needs..time? I'm not sure, but I think maybe your bestfriend can tell him that he can tell her anything, and that they can solve their problems together instead of running away from the issue.
@atreyuslilcottage4053
3 жыл бұрын
what do I do when its his fault but I apologize and he still runs away? even if he says hes not upset
@stabbamonroll
3 жыл бұрын
@@kiwistea I used to do that because confrontation gave me such bad anxiety it made me sick. Try to give him the benefit of the doubt
@bumblebeehappy
2 жыл бұрын
A huge thing is respecting and communicating boundaries as well, and coming together to a middle ground. If one person has boundaries that the other ignores, and said party has to just deal with it, it leads to a lot of arguments and pent up anger. Sometimes people can't accept that if someone doesn't want to respect your boundaries, no matter how much you love them, it's best to let them go and find someone who will.
@rhondaberrios8326
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Vaxfaxxal
7 ай бұрын
Amen
@Mistyfog.exe.1
Ай бұрын
2:37 I ALWAYS DO THIS WITH MY GF, I literally write her PARAGRAPHS of how much I appreciate her, her personality, her beauty, EVERYTHING. I'm SO happy to be in such a healthy relationship it's insane, she brightens up my day and I'm so greatful I met her, I can't wait for the day we meet in person
@JAVIMETALL
4 жыл бұрын
This explains why my last relationship was so bad. I was not comfortable with the idea of talking about my feelings because I was doing all the things at home, I had no personal space, she required all the attention in the world, everything about my life before I knew her was a problem... I didn't know what anxiety was until I was with her. It was so frustrating and self-consuming. It was like denying a part of me and denying most of my life because of her traumas. And I'm not putting all the shame on her, because she was working hard on fixing everything was wrong in her life. It was a situation to complicated we can't handle it in the proper way.
@userm180
2 жыл бұрын
are u ok now?
@Lu-br9xz
2 жыл бұрын
describing my own a bit too close
@currentweeb
Күн бұрын
we re the same
@avausleich2134
4 жыл бұрын
U know how cats head bonk people when they love them? I sent my best friend a meme about that and at the end of the vid she sent me a text saying, "bonk". I know it's silly but it made me feel happy
@stabbamonroll
3 жыл бұрын
that's so wholesome oh my gosh
@yvellebradley2502
2 жыл бұрын
@@stabbamonroll Awww! That comment made me so happy!😸
@86naiky
2 жыл бұрын
I think it's also very important to thank each other for the small thing they do, but also for chores they do etc. My mom never did that so I learned the value of it a long time ago and brought it in my relationship. You can't imagine how good it feels if your partner says: Well done, thank you for taking this of my hands/doing this.
@ogbm4338
4 жыл бұрын
Me: “It’s like these videos are directed at me.” Everyone else: “No, they’re directed to all of us lol.”
@azzz3212
4 жыл бұрын
Fellow communism
@dogie1070
4 жыл бұрын
Funny how they can create content that is so relatable to so many! Good job, Psych to Go!
@nalaatteloney3871
4 жыл бұрын
True
@iluvmylifesoreal
4 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@maddiemon7231
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for adding in “seeing a future together” my boyfriend and I are both 16, we’ve been together for about a year and a half now. I know I’m still young, and whenever I say “i see a future with him” to someone in my family , they make fun of me :(( I’m happy that it’s a sign of a healthy relationship
@gracekuhn2552
4 жыл бұрын
while marriage is the goal it’s not always the case. i’m sorry your parents invalidate your feelings. love doesn’t have an age. my grandparents were high school sweethearts and are now happily married! ❤️
@mogy6492
2 жыл бұрын
Im 18, my partner is 19. We've only been together for 7 months and i absolutely want a future with him. Saying you want/see a future doesnt mean like oh my god we're gonna get married, buy a house, get a dog, and have a baby next year. Its simply saying, that when you think of your future you want them in it. Ik dating to date is a thing and im not shaming anyone who does, but I personally date someone cuz i see a possibility for a long term relationship and i think people don't understand that and think young people are being reckless ya know? I thought the same thing as you when i was in a relationship at your age, and even tho it ended terribly and was a massive mistake, i still wouldn't shame you for thinking that way. I hope y'all are still together, and strong and healthy as ever.
@kiarahidalgo0730
2 жыл бұрын
I’m 24, my partner is 22 we’ve been together for 3 and a half years any day Spent with him is amazing ❤️❤️🥺🥺. Before we started dating we were best friends and we still are ❤️. We’ve known each other for 7 and a half years. Together in our friendship we formed a physical connection and in our relationship we formed an emotional connection. ❤️🥺🥰
@Mon-kv8tv
2 жыл бұрын
Met my partner at 16, we’ve been together 7 years now and plan to marry in the next few. It all depends on maturity imo. I’d say 90% of teenage relationships don’t last, and thats okay. Its important to have experienced the world while you’re young, if this person has the same goals as you, you both can grow and experience the world together. Its not always easy but its worth it for your person. Don’t bother with other peoples opinions. No one, other the the couple, knows the seriousness or extent of the relationship. My only advice, don’t rush it. You have a lifetime to get married, have children, etc. Enjoy the time spent growing, maturing, and figuring out life together. People change a lot from 16-25, so its important to have a strong foundation and understanding of yourself, your partner and each other, before jumping into things. ❤️
@lillymillard5279
2 жыл бұрын
I met my partner at 16 years old. He was 17. ALOT of people have doubted us. Especially my family. They actually don’t and still are not fond of him because he doesn’t fit their standards of wanting to become a doctor or some bs 🙄. It’s been 4 years this coming may and I still love him with all of my heart. Try to stay open minded and not be naive, but also enjoy the journey and don’t let others opinions and advice run YOUR relationship.
@blqerror7884
Жыл бұрын
Communication is very important and I learned that with my current relationship. I used to be emotionally immature but now I have improved although I’m still working on it. This is talking from a girl’s perspective and in my experience: guys are simple minded and can sometimes be a bit dense (ofc everyone is different). so when I act immature like being dry and give him a silent treatment whenever he ignores me for hours, I learned that it doesn’t benefit anybody because I would still feel shit and he wouldn’t pick that up most of the time. As we progressed into this relationship we both discussed about how we would communicate better. I tell him what bothers me and be straight forward in the most gentle way as possible because I don’t want to sound like a dramatic gf… and that works very well in my relationship. I became better with my emotional maturity as I progressed into this relationship and overall makes me slowly become a better person. What I’m trying to say is that If ur partner makes you become a better person, it shows ur in a healthy relationship :)
@taymason
Жыл бұрын
This is a powerful comment -- I admire your self awareness. Communication is paramount!!
@angeleecrespo7801
3 жыл бұрын
My partner and I have been together for quite some time now and one thing we’ve learned that best helps our relationship to flourish is by having no distractions before bed (phones, tv, books to read etc.) and really just lye together in bed and have a conversation. Trust me 10 min of each other’s time fulfills so much more than you’d think emotionally. Especially if other things take up most of your time without each other.
@-k1ts0-97
4 жыл бұрын
Everyone: **Talking about their lovers** Me: _u-umm, I do this with my friends--_
@milliestinks
4 жыл бұрын
can u be my frined
@marcellawerremusic
4 жыл бұрын
That’s great practice for the future! :D
@darkerskye4740
4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you’re a wonderful friend. In the end many things such as talking to each other and being content with one another crosses over into all types of relationships.
@basilsllfljelfks3622
4 жыл бұрын
Everyone:*Talking about their lover* Me:I don’t even have friends (T-T)
@nightfangs2910
4 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't, your problems unless their is clear abuse of any kind emotional, sexual, physical, should not be discussed with friends yours or your spouse, it always causes more problems then solutionsin your relationship, to many hands spoil the soup
@LexyInspired
Жыл бұрын
I was having a hard time the other day and was feeling really overwhelmed and my love just held me and listened to me talk. He had so much love in his eyes as he listened to me that I felt grateful for him just being there. And basically, when I was talking to him I figured out my own solution lol
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
I don't know why but the voice is so calming, that is probably the first time when i am actually feeling something, instead of acting
@piiinkDeluxe
4 жыл бұрын
tbh i don't like the voice too much
@grandma4514
4 жыл бұрын
I prefer the other voice
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
@@grandma4514 in the kindest way i really don't give a shit
@shirakumi5113
3 жыл бұрын
an actor is in his top performance when he's not acting all of them pretend to not act when on stage 😄
@Cat-_-Cat
3 жыл бұрын
@@shirakumi5113 yes well then I'm a full time actor
@johnriley7496
4 жыл бұрын
Listening, patience, and wanting to understand the other person
@IshaSharma11
3 жыл бұрын
True
@mr.x_veryfaceless3967
2 жыл бұрын
Im so happy my current relationship applies to all of this because i used to be in a pretty toxic relationship and i loves the girl so much but then found out she was cheating on me im so happy that i found someone who is just like me in a huge multitude of ways and understands me and can handle my wierd jokes. She is just like me. sometimes my friends like to joke around and say she is me from a different universe and others say i should marry her right away. And she is one of the first people to truly care for me. My own mother gave me such a rough childhood and i was going through depression but ever since i met my current girlfriend i have been feeling better every day and i feel like such a lucky guy.
@alishfn
4 жыл бұрын
Message to all fans: *you’re honestly intelligent talented and unique! have a wonderful day and and stay safe*
@feralb0i305
4 жыл бұрын
I subbed.
@optimisticdork8380
4 жыл бұрын
1 sub before 2021? Yeh me too :P
@erisbellocchio9308
4 жыл бұрын
Heh. Thx
@beth9603
3 жыл бұрын
this has just confirmed to me that my boyfriend and i have a very healthy relationship 1 year in.. :) i see our future together too. He is a gem, and i often feel undeserving of his goodness. i love you johnny
@letsjustdirtbike
2 жыл бұрын
Finally! A positive video! I’ve been scrolling for weeks and I kept seeing “Signs of a Narcissist” “Signs You’re In A Unhealthy Relationship” etc. This is so nice! :)
@Andrlz_
4 жыл бұрын
Due to quarantine here in Brazil, i can't see her now (i'm also a suspect case of covid) but i talk to her everyday, show affection, do jokes and say every single day how beautiful, awesome and especial she is
@리시나몬
4 жыл бұрын
André Luiz sounds like you have a healthy relationship👍
@4352sfs
4 жыл бұрын
mano eu to ha 4 meses sem ver meu namorado, e o nome dele também é Andre Luiz habsjnsjs to mt chocada aqui, tava vendo isso malzona de saudade e achei seu comentario do nada e ow melhoras!!! espero q vc consiga ver ela em segurança logo! 💕
@fenitp
3 жыл бұрын
it's amazing how my boyfriend and I have all of those habits. Having him besides me warms my heart 🐞🍃✨🌻🦋🌈
@ahmedbelkacem14
2 жыл бұрын
How's it going?
@fenitp
2 жыл бұрын
@@ahmedbelkacem14 we're 9 months into our relationship and everything is amazing! we have great communication, lots of trust and sooo much love to give to each other every day!!! definitely am super in love with him 🥰
@ahmedbelkacem14
2 жыл бұрын
@@fenitp omg, I'm so happy for you. I wish you all the best in your future together❤
@gamerwithnoobskill7660
2 жыл бұрын
May you guys live together without any problem till death. Amen. My prayers are with you.
@fenitp
2 жыл бұрын
@@gamerwithnoobskill7660 thank you so much for your good wishes 🙌 I hope the same for you 🙏💛
@zackp7027
Жыл бұрын
It sucks when your relationship was composed of almost all of these signs yet after 5 years you're left wondering where it all went wrong. I don't know what else I could have done.
@Cherrycreamsoda1
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that.. I know it hurts right now but one day you will realise there is a reason relationships break down, why people leave, or reject, or cheat. There is someone out there who is probably even more suitable than the last one! Hang in there and keep your chin up bro 🤗❤
@zackp7027
Жыл бұрын
Just following up for any who comes across this, the comment replying to me is right. I've been through a winding journey the last few weeks taking me through a ridiculous range of content and self discoveries. I'd have to say there were definitely factors in play, differences between love languages, attachment styles and long term goals. With being so Conscientious I'm very emotionally aware/receptive, while my now ex has always acted on impulse including a bad spending problem/habbit. There were so many amazing things and moments it's hard to acknowledge, but if you truly want to get over someone, look at the situation as it truly is, not as you want to see it.
@jackthecommenter2768
Жыл бұрын
@@Cherrycreamsoda1 is it weird to find someone that you JUST KNOW you are going to stay with for a long time because after I got dumped my best friend was there for me and I started to realize how relatable we are and how goofy and funny we can be and later we now started dating and HONESTLY I’m just so happy because we want to stick together!
@jackthecommenter2768
Жыл бұрын
@@Cherrycreamsoda1 I didn’t mention everything but I’m telling you that we are absolutely so good for each-other and I just wonder if it’s normal to feel that way and be 100% confident and just find someone who is just that relatable and a good communicator and a good best friend and lover?
@danielagaraytorres8445
2 жыл бұрын
One extra habit that we should have is to respect each other time with friends or recreation time without us, it is important because we have to be able to spend and enjoy time without our partner, and then came around and talk about our experiences 💕
@divya_sancheti04
Жыл бұрын
💯
@devashrijoshi9079
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I really need to practice this
@dacnomana
Жыл бұрын
I too totally believe this is a healthy thing to do. I personally need my own time with friends or just on my own, to experience things as an individual, outside of the couple. Then when we see each other again is sweeter, cause we created the chance to miss each other 😊 and we have new things to share ❤
@OwenJames-cd5dd
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes giving your partner space can attract cheating, for the fact you both lives together, love and cherish each other closely
@radioactivetoast5177
4 жыл бұрын
Dude I love Psych2Go Its just great The animation, The way they help you cope with things like being lonely, having anxiety or depression. Its great
@anniecrouch7779
2 жыл бұрын
The soothing voice & solution based education 👌 😌 🙌
@lilaruff7653
Жыл бұрын
im much more comfortable with talking about my feelings than the person i’m talking to is, and it’s hard at times but they’re getting the hang of it. communication is so important and being able to express how you feel is truly what holds relationships together.
@seokjinismalisticenthusias7434
3 жыл бұрын
I've been in a relationship with my man for almost 3 years now, and yes, we've been through a lot of fights and arguments. At first, I thought it was all very unnecessary until I learned that those fights are as inportant as the happy moments we've had. Now, we've learned along the way how to compromise and make way at the same time without having to discourage our own selves.
@zhuotongchen6449
3 жыл бұрын
Me and my partner have been together for 11 months, we ended high school together, and we have both been very close but not clingy with one another. He lets himself be vulnerable with me, something that he finds pretty hard to do, same with me, but we have both promised each other to never hide things from each other if it's hurting us. He also is just my anchor at the worst of times when my anxiety gets out of hand, he reassures me that mistakes are normal. We hope this relationship lasts! xx Have a lovely day~
@eviekros
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I have the exact same. 11 months together in 3 weeks and the rest is exactly me and my boyfriend. Cute :)
@begonefosh
2 жыл бұрын
Yo hope you and your partner are doing well!
@userm180
2 жыл бұрын
@@lukenitemare depends what kind of woman
@userm180
2 жыл бұрын
@@lukenitemare who told u that?
@userm180
2 жыл бұрын
@@lukenitemare i understand, but u can allow urself to show emotion to someone from time to time.theres nothing wrong w that, really :)
@aaliyahnaranjo8510
2 жыл бұрын
Something I have learned in all of my relationships is to understand each other's love languages, and always communicate, even if you are worried of the reaction.
@ghostlylookin
4 жыл бұрын
I love this animation style! it's so adorable and I love the characters! Thank you for making this video! 💜
@yeonjunsdeadhair7511
4 жыл бұрын
i honestly don’t even know y i’m watching this- i’m not even in a relationship lmao 😂
@sil3ntang3l53
4 жыл бұрын
Haha I'm aroace beat that lmaoo XD
@Shitpost-gamin
4 жыл бұрын
Lmao same
@taekookie6403
4 жыл бұрын
LMAO ME SAME
@odd-ysseusdoesstuff6347
4 жыл бұрын
Same.
@loonatheverse
4 жыл бұрын
maybe just in case you meet yeonjun then he says he likes you then you go to bighit and join txt and you get married and then you wake up :’)
@faithalonday508
Жыл бұрын
Before, I had a toxic relationship. On and off. I wasn't able to determine that it was totally a bad decision to stay a relationship like that. But right now, I had a healthy relationship, though it's not perfect but we always do this thing as what the video mentioned. Hoping for the best in our relationship ❤️
@Luna..44400
2 жыл бұрын
12 years with my hubby it definitely was a challenge there were a lot of ups and downs now we are more mature and talk about situations instead of argueing like we used to back in our early twenties our love has grown stronger that's for sure
@lulabiebyi8999
4 жыл бұрын
I do all of these things!! I’m so grateful to have my boyfriend in my life, I only wish I could say I cuddle a lot and trust them. Due to my PTSD I’m not able to cuddle them for long periods of time or I’ll get scared. He understands but I know deep inside it upsets him that we can’t cuddle or kiss nonchalantly, I have to be warned or I’ll get an anxiety attack. I hope to go to therapy soon
@rebeccaemma6293
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been with my fiancé for going on 4 years. We started out with a rocky relationship, there was distrust in each other because of past relationships. We worked through those walls that we put up, fell in love, and here we are, years later planning our wedding & future family. An amazing realization from this video is that I’m in a super healthy relationship. We argue about house chores, occasionally, but that’s it. I’m so proud to be in a healthy relationship, I see myself with him for the rest of my life ☺️☺️
@snaakie
3 ай бұрын
That gives me hope! Thanks ❤
@_mvryi3021
4 жыл бұрын
The fact that me and my partner are different is what makes our relationship so interesting and fun. We have the same sense of humour but we have different perspectives of many things. It’s interesting to discuss it while keeping an open mind ☺️
@sonybunnies8526
4 жыл бұрын
I thank this channel cause my girlfriend and I are more close thank you love your channel :D
@-aboodfrost-2779
4 жыл бұрын
Good :)
@Akaria.Luvs1
7 ай бұрын
Listen, I came here to do research for a story I’m doing…but I took a step back after hearing the last one….I have done all of the other things so effortlessly…but that straight up made me cry. I remember when I was a young girl first going into the dating world because of peer pressure. It felt like I was pushed into a world I didn’t know…I wish I knew these things before…I always thought relationships were about the pure love and joy, but the truth is…it isn’t that. At the end of the day it is two or more individuals with thoughts…feelings…dreams and desires coming together and trying to build a world of their own *together.* Not by relying on the other to put all the hard work… I wish I knew the last one….but sometimes when you love someone so much, you fear of loosing them..and if you cling onto them…*That fear will soon become nothing but the truth…and you have to accept when it happens..* Because that is just life. ❤
@saliadel5238
4 жыл бұрын
Not in a relationship but still watch this to prepare for future 😂😂
@Shikaru101_
2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to say that my relationship reflects all of these habits. It's a struggle now that he's stationed far away with the military, but I think we're doing amazingly well and going strong after 8 years. :)
@thelordconstantine1464
2 жыл бұрын
It's been a great ride and I've largely been there for her. The difficulty for me is working with insecurities from my childhood either from trauma (and working through that on top of everything) or mental configuration solidified by social construct and interactions, as well as rewiring myself into how to work to make things healthy. I sometimes get "off" and feel the connection is a little shaky, moments of being unsure of what is real and how to come back to what I feel for her. Everything is genuine and passionate and there is a lot of work, but I make sure I tell her how much I appreciate her and live her and am proud. It's long distance too, so there's the extra obstacle that takes surmounting. But my difficulties lie in going through this for the first time, waking up spiritually, healing and simply just understanding traumas, and reworking my configured mental framework to be conducive in a healthy relationship. She is everything to me.
@vanessagarcia8059
3 жыл бұрын
My current bf has really taught me how to be healthier. My last relationship was really toxic and my current partner really makes me feel so special. He actually listens and wants to know how I feel. He’s really had to push at times to get me to talk about how i feel because I was so used to keeping it myself. He doesn’t judge me and we’re really there for each other. Things just feel very equal in what we give to each other.
@m4rc3l0fl0r3s
4 жыл бұрын
I'm not in a relationship and I don't know if I ever will, but I'm taking notes
@mzuggy
2 жыл бұрын
All great habits! 😊 I know with my girlfriend we encourage and reward when either of us ask for reassurance of any kind. We acknowledge that asking for reassurance is not innately attacking, but rather that it is innately loving to provide your partner with reassurance when needed. This leads to a very healthy and open dynamic for us 😊
@sunny_rains
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I'm in a relationship....But she's far away--- i cri-
@-aboodfrost-2779
4 жыл бұрын
But you are a girl :/
@Cat-_-Cat
4 жыл бұрын
sometimes I read these comments and I think "why are people so emotional" then I remember, I don't have real emotions
@blahblahhhhhaaaa7601
4 жыл бұрын
@@-aboodfrost-2779 ppl can be bi
@vm560
4 жыл бұрын
Yo i watched your ‘they don’t know about us’ video and i love it!! Ugh I feel that way w my girl, nobody knows and nobody has to know. And it sucks you’re away from your girl but you guys will hopefully see each other soon :)
@sunny_rains
4 жыл бұрын
@@vm560 ohhh... thank you ^^
@NenaLavonne
4 жыл бұрын
If you have one, cherish it ♥️
@kikimalla5456
2 жыл бұрын
I always try to remind my husband how much we appreciate him. He does a lot for us and he keeps the routine in the house going. He helps with all outside errands while I stay home with the toddler and expecting our second. If I ask him to do the dishes he’ll do that AND fold the laundry and whatever else he sees that needs to get done. I always remind him he keeps the wheel going with us. He’s a huge part of our team that keeps us going.
@blueaine
3 жыл бұрын
I was in a very toxic relationship before, so I had difficulty in a healthy one at first, which is why I thought arguing was all normal. This really helped, thanks.
@mogy6492
2 жыл бұрын
I was in a really bad and toxic relationship two years ago and still have to confront those old thoughts and habits in my current super healthy one, my partners great at encouraging me to grow and be the best person i can
@fmblasso1664
2 жыл бұрын
Me
@odessawales
2 жыл бұрын
Is interracial relationships okay? I just got out of another relationship and it was toxic and as you can see I was trauma dumping. Alot on this channel due to the toxic relationship affects on me
@low_fat_yogurt
Жыл бұрын
Well, arguing is normal, but if they use dirty tactics like gaslighting or guilt tripping or such, then you’re in a bad relationship
@minju3492
4 жыл бұрын
My partner and I do almost all of these! It takes humility and work though. One thing I could do better is to handle disagreements in a calm manner and non-attacking manner. Its something I've grown up doing with my family but I realize it's not good.
@lexiev
2 жыл бұрын
1. You show your affection. 2. You are able to communicate with each other. 3. You emotionally bond with them. 4. You make up after arguments. 5. You appreciate each other. 6. You see a future together. 7. You balance housework. 8. You give each other personal space.
@missingteeth
4 жыл бұрын
this animation style is so pretty!
@eazygoingtwo
10 ай бұрын
Everyday I work on bettering myself for their sake. This has taught me much, thank you!
@riaanvanniekerk3519
3 жыл бұрын
I am in a bad relationship and agree with this list. I would say time to be yourself is good but also deal with your problems and don't make them part of your relationship dynamic. Each person should be able to fill their place and have the relationship add to who they are.
@_scoutfinch
2 жыл бұрын
Never experienced these in my past abusive relationship. Now, I'm experiencing most of these with my current boyfriend. It's kinda overwhelming at first because I thought I did not deserve to be respected and all. But he always remind me that I deserve the world and I should be treated with all the love and care. It really takes time to find that someone who will make you feel everything.
@LuckyL0ki
6 ай бұрын
i was in several abusive relationships in my early 20s. when i finally entered my first healthy relationship 3 years ago, the difference i felt was undeniable. my soul just knows. this is the way it should be 💛
@BOOKTOOK
4 жыл бұрын
Remember a line from Stephen covey that is apt for building relationships Love is not an adjective but a verb. It needs loving work and constant nurturing. Great suggestions 👍
@B3XBP0
4 жыл бұрын
I have a super healthy relationship with my girlfriend then :)
@theboyz735
4 жыл бұрын
Radical, Hope You Continue Like That :’)
@B3XBP0
4 жыл бұрын
@@theboyz735 thanks :)
@komaedakat1583
4 жыл бұрын
me too :0 :D
@B3XBP0
4 жыл бұрын
@@komaedakat1583 :D
@B3XBP0
4 жыл бұрын
@Elijah Mason I never asked for praise I was just sharing that I have a healthy relationship :)
@Hcollins371
2 жыл бұрын
This is my first healthy relationship. I've been in toxic relationships basically since I started the dating scene. And this video backs up that this is healthy as can be. I love him to death and he feels the same way. ❤
@baileylosse5562
4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend and I are coming up on our 9 month anniversary and we have yet to have a single argument or anything close to one. I know that’s it’s healthy for couples to fight every once in a while and so it makes me slightly nervous that it’s been so long without one... it could be because we both have extremely open communication with one another and so we go to each other when we’re upset and need comfort/support or need to vent our emotions so there isn’t as much of a chance to argue if we lay everything out in the open already... is that possible?
@mikaylafunck9821
4 жыл бұрын
I and the hubby are the same, going on 4 years ... He is my best friend ❤
@kkibela
3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for your comment..this is exactly the kind of relationship I want.
@morganbright1892
3 жыл бұрын
It’s very possible, and it’s good that you and your SO have such good communication with one another,
@Casxa
3 жыл бұрын
Same, I've gotten into 2 arguments with my bf in the 2 years we've been together. The rest of the time we talk and discuss :)
@userm180
2 жыл бұрын
i mean, communication is really the key. i feel like since u guys communicate a lot, that helps for u to not have fights. so its definitely normal :)
@tommybuchanan8084
4 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go, thank you so much! I've learned a lot from this channel and it has allowed me to be there for other people which is what I've always wanted ever since i was little
@crxzycxctus2901
2 жыл бұрын
No matter how hard it's important to be able to talk to your partner about everything. Being open and honest with each other is Numero uno
@Mich291
4 жыл бұрын
I really love the content, it's so useful!! BUT can we take a moment to appreciate the visuals for the videos as well?! Like wow they make the information so much more understandable!
@milaki7722
4 жыл бұрын
Why is the video not public? 🤔
@Psych2go
4 жыл бұрын
It is now!
@-aboodfrost-2779
4 жыл бұрын
You’re like an angel with invisible wings but also with a big heart, Psych2go
@blossomatnight2864
4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I just now got a notif ty!
@alphamax115
3 ай бұрын
I'm happy for people that has a healthy relationship. I never would get a girlfriend even if I wanted too. But I am very happy for you guys that got a boyfriend/girlfriend! I hope you people live life with no struggles.
@nada_2123
4 жыл бұрын
not in a romantic relationship, but i want to know i have a healthy relationship with my family or my friends
@lemonqvartz
4 жыл бұрын
these things apply to it too, just on a less personal level.
@gen9250
4 жыл бұрын
Sooo true! I’ve been with my current boyfriend for almost 6 months now. And it wasn’t until recently that we started opening up to each other. We started becoming more vulnerable with each other. After that, we naturally just became more affectionate toward each other, and I think it’s because we were able to see each others soft spots and appreciate each other more after sharing intimate thoughts and feelings. at this point I feel like our relationship has gotten stronger by the day :)
@NitrousOXD-wt7qe
Ай бұрын
I just got into my first relationship last month and it brings me strength to watch this because me and my girlfriend have basically all of these things. Thanks for bringing to light the sighs that it’s going well, it really gives my confidence that this will last.
@thesaddestpikachu
2 жыл бұрын
This reminds me the relationship I'm in now is very healthy. We still fight at times but always make up after, actually genuinely make up not just with sex. My exes didn't do any of these things, especially helping with housework, communicating and affection that wasn't sex
@confuzzled1302
4 жыл бұрын
I just realized that this is for ~partners~ welp, time to pack up and head out.
@ruthiehauser1867
2 жыл бұрын
Being able to communicate effectively and calmly is probably the #1 thing that keeps my relationship healthy:)
@madcatness2958
4 жыл бұрын
Based on the way it feels, and this video really backed it up... I am in a healthy relationship. It feels amazing 🥰 He is amazing, sweet, funny, we are alike but also very different... We can be comfortably silent together, have deep and meaningful conversations, and be silly and laugh together. We respect eachothers boundaries, and have been able to overcome our first small obstacles and arguments in a healthy way. We mainly see eachother in the weekends because of work and there being 2 households. However, sometimes we love a weekend to ourselves... That's the way we have some distance every now and then. A weekend where I can watch movies, enjoy my own (and my 2 cats) company for a bit, or do something fun with friends or family... He has a mild form of autism and he just needs to recharge sometimes too, so that's what he does in a weekend like that. Mostly we see each other 2 or 3 weekends in a row, and then followed by one where we don't. It's hard for the first week but it gets a little easier after that. And an awesome bonus is that you can really tell we've missed one another, when we see each other again. And even though each weekend we spend together is amazing, that weekend after not seeing eachother for 2 weeks is always just a teeny tiny bit better ☺️ And that's really in the most positive way possible, because what it does is that it really reminds us of how crazy we are about one another each and everytime ❤
@minashireley2616
2 жыл бұрын
I remember I saw this couple on tik tok and they said that they do this every time they get angry or upset at each other. They would hug each other and like jumó and stomp on the floor together and it was so cute and funny. They said it works and it just warms my heart that they found their way to make it work! 😂🥰
@lexiconlover
3 жыл бұрын
I'm just gonna play this on repeat every night of my life...
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