1. Spend time wisely 2. Choose a career path aligned to you 3. Move away from your hometown 4. Have strong boundaries 5. Being selfish when choosing your partner 6. Protect your peace 7. Remove toxic friendships 8. Take risks and invest in yourself
@dancinginthepurplereign4126
Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@Curtis.Carpenter
Жыл бұрын
tips on how to hit the wall before 31***
@alex_is_out
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@time4advancement244
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, saved me 18 minutes.
@VibinWithBantu
Жыл бұрын
Comments like this is why I even make effort to watch “things you need to do….” Vlogs thanks for the time saved
@Nyangara.
Жыл бұрын
Letting go of some friendships is a difficult phase in your 20s and I'm surprised we are not warned about it enough
@roselinededua
Жыл бұрын
Girl, moving out of one's comfort zone is a blessing! Thank you so much for this video
@MontelleBee
Жыл бұрын
Definitely!!! 👏🏾
@KayTheKat
Жыл бұрын
i really needed this. on a journey to figuring out myself and reinventing my life. currently visiting new york and i want to move to turn my life around for the better. Love your videos!
@CreativepreneurJourney
Жыл бұрын
I agree moving from childhood hometown and not worrying about people opinions.
@Kydanibaby
Жыл бұрын
I really need this reassurance that I’m on the right path. I’ve started ALL over with my life from scratch because I was so unhappy with my relationship (4 yrs) my job (also 4 years) and I felt so lonely. I had to leave everything to find myself and take care of me!
@germyah1603
Жыл бұрын
I needed this!!! It came right on time! I’ve been feeling so wrong saying NO to people. It seems as if I say No more than YES, but it allows me to put time and love back into myself and goals. I’m 25, I really wish my friends would understand I don’t have to be around them 24/7 to be friends. I need my space, respectfully !😂❤
@mariannakonstantopoulou3778
Жыл бұрын
I relate so much with this! It's so hard for my friends to understand this..they keep distancing themselves from me calling me out for not having them as a priority..
@lifegoeson1007
Жыл бұрын
Great advice. I’m in my late 20’s, I’ll listen to someone’s problems, maybe give them advice or just wish them luck but, they’re problems will not become my problems and vice versa
@shirleyebuka
Жыл бұрын
Omg! I’m literally living every point mentioned. It’s like you been watching my life play out and came to tell the world! I’m sharing this to every loved one. They should know. Thanks for making it easier to spread the word. Geezzz! Like…😂 Call me selfish, I don’t careee😅
@babymandy
Жыл бұрын
The one for moving away got to me like me, I've been thinking about it I'm like I just turned 25, and here I am still living with my family I'm grateful but I'm tired of pleasing them I want to be able to explore different things!
@chiomamaduka5726
Жыл бұрын
My biggest struggles is my friends and my time. Other that fall into that, but if I can work on my boundaries I won’t be hitting those same walls.
@TysonMichael77
Жыл бұрын
YESS moving and choosing your own career is sooo worth it. Yes family and some friends may jab you for it but trust me it is worth it 100% to stand on and go after what u desire
@claudiacollado3170
Жыл бұрын
Moving out and start saying no more often, sometimes we are way too soft for non worthy situations
@aaliyahmichelle7227
Жыл бұрын
Right now, planning to move to NY. It’s only 2 hours from me but it’s so scary. But I’m doing it I’m doing it.
@LadyMaree
Жыл бұрын
I love this video 💕💕 Lots of people around me call me, selfish because I want a good life and I'm making decision that look selfish but if you want it good, you gotta be a little selfish. I mean, why carry the whole world on your shoulders? You really don't have to!
@_highlytransplanted
Жыл бұрын
Whew Montelle! You got right to the point on this topic. Thank you for including the importance of moving out of your hometown/state and experiencing the world. It was a life changing decision for me when I was 21 ❤ Great video Montelle! 🎉
@dave_thebrave
Жыл бұрын
you guys are incredible!! i'm here for the majority of these!!
@mariamoses2666
Жыл бұрын
I think the hardest one for me would be to be able to say no especially when I'm uncomfortable
@laurene1913
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! Leaving my hometown in a couple of months and am so nervous but this video was great confirmation that’s it’s the best decision😊
@yvesfuala3392
Жыл бұрын
This is a great video! So many gems on here. Really hit the nail on the head about moving out of your home town. That's very true, if done right it can lead to massive growth and personal development. It improves your drive, focus and so much more! 🔥🔥🔥💪🏿
@mac_attack8302
Жыл бұрын
I feel like im to old to do anything anymore and im only 25.
@cloudanity
Жыл бұрын
25 is still so young tho 😭I'm about to be 25 & haven't even done half of these but I'm not giving up
@tamarabello
Жыл бұрын
You are young. Do it now!
@dreampriestess7538
Жыл бұрын
I'm 31 and I get that way too. The only way to let that feeling go is to do it anyway. No regrets 😇
@iamtyanna
Жыл бұрын
I needed this
@VrajaVilasini
Жыл бұрын
These decisions really apply to any age. Thank you!
@thehoodoraclecarmencatalin4521
Жыл бұрын
These were good tips. I’m enjoying your videos. I’m turning 30 on the 17th of October. I’m wanting to move to nyc or LA. I just need figure out how I’m gonna get money and make more friends. Definitely protecting my peace. Definitely going to nyc or LA to visit and look at places. Definitely want find part time job and save.
@rituuuurr
Жыл бұрын
I’m going to turn 20 next year and I’m not ready for it. My family tells me I’m going to be an adult now but they treat me like a kid. Although I want to change my life :”)
@tessafeeney9395
Жыл бұрын
I feel u on dusty relationship - no time for that bs in our 20s - it is time for elevating and expansion.
@intentionallyjudy
Жыл бұрын
Moving changed my life, over and over. Great points
@Notavilable123
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for all the tips, will be revisiting this often 💗
@judyq3022
Жыл бұрын
thank youuuu, definitely been thinking about leaving your hometown.
@WendyLiving
Жыл бұрын
I really resonate with decision 3, I’m going to take that decision
@gabriellachitamu5096
Жыл бұрын
I took a risk not to do what I truly want to do and I can't help but think that I've made a mistake.
@ARaaaa777
Жыл бұрын
Definitely working on decisions 2, 7 and 8 right now and I definitely been telling myself ALL these things lately and I agree wholeheartedly
@calicat366
Жыл бұрын
Never did any of them, and im fine with everything, why is everything so serious with people.. ?! Just do whatever the fcuk makes u happy!
@najmaali2563
Жыл бұрын
Really needed this rn, love your channel sm🥹
@joshuaekpo5294
Жыл бұрын
Oh my dear, you're REALLY CORRECT, when I was much YOUNGER, I BLEW IT FOR ME, BIG TIME, because I was advised, "You're not gonna do this, you're gonna do that..." And if you're somewhere, on a LIFE/FUTURE/CAREER BUILDING PATH, which the POSITIVE OUTCOMES are gonna ENORMOUSLY REWARDING, but as a MATTER OF FACT, someone could WAKE UP 1 MORNING, saying and advising, "I had a DREAM, and something BAD happened to you, you gotta leave that ENVIRONMENT/INSTITUTION..!" REALLY, so just imagine, if you are BEING PRESSURIZED by they, inviting a 'BIG UNCLE/AUNTIE, as if 'UNDER DURESS' to COERCE you to act against your WILL; and, can you imagine consenting to their INTIMIDATION, and I tell you, they have taken from you, YOUR WILLPOWER, CHOICE-POWER and DECISION POWER; So, when this occurs, you may not be able to fulfil your FUTURE or execute your PLANS and PROPOSALS as you've purposed in your MIND and HEART, and trust ME, YOU, it may end up RUININ YOUR ENTIRE PROSPECTS and turning it UPSIDEDOWN!!!
@babalwabango2102
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful. I was skeptical about the topic initially because I am too a selfless person. Also me looking at you getting to 100k followers, reaching your goal🤗🤗🤗🤗
@jaydahstone9913
Жыл бұрын
subscribed and post notifications on! just found this channel tonight
@ideaaddict923
Жыл бұрын
0. Don't be selfish, be better.
@EleHeath12
Жыл бұрын
Wise words that I needed to hear. Such a beautiful message. Thank you
@yolandamoise3719
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, definitely helping with finalizing my decision in the future
@glamwithtrika
Жыл бұрын
One of my favorite videos ive watched on KZitem. This really hits home to me. I really needed this! and starting October 1st, implementing all of this. I have bad habits of keeping toxic people in my life, not going after my goals and dreams, not protecting my peace, not accepting change.. all of that is going to change 🤍
@soapsuds4472
Жыл бұрын
I think some of this can apply to anyone at any age.
@keirradixon9122
Жыл бұрын
I definitely love #3.
@kimaiko6141
Жыл бұрын
Moving out... I really want to do that but my parents are very strict and won't let me go anywhere. It's really making me feel like I'm in jell, there are many times when I want to be alone without them cause all they do is making my life worse than it seems. College is the only place that I can go to and feel a bit relaxed because I'm out of the house. + I've never traveled before 😂💔💔💔💔
@kaitlinsonnendecker5971
Жыл бұрын
needed this! thank you!
@ceciliatucker7671
Жыл бұрын
Ma’am YOU are what I’ve been searching for. Thank you b
@faithseleke
Жыл бұрын
New subscriber!!!❤️ I love love and appreciate your content!
@lesleyvivien2876
Жыл бұрын
If you leave your home town, let it be *your* decision. Don't let anyone else make it for you.
@elliot2857
Жыл бұрын
Humanity needs less selfish people. That's why we are soo easily controlled as humans. If we worked together to become less dependant on corporations and the government we could all be soo much happier and all have a better quality of life. But instead we all chase money that is a fictional concept like religion. People worship money instead of trying to build a world where we can all be happy and healthy.
@Hairwith_D
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!
@tarynbirdon
Жыл бұрын
Never been this early! ❤
@ElenaDenisaOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Your videos are just the best ❤
@Akothhayker
Жыл бұрын
Hey, your content has seen me through rainy days thank you so much
@MontelleBee
Жыл бұрын
Aww this comment made me smile 🥰
@Akothhayker
Жыл бұрын
@@MontelleBee you have done more for me than you know
@bythewater1963
Жыл бұрын
This is genuinely the most helpful and hope giving video I have ever seen on KZitem. Thank you so so much Montelle
@micbetancur9131
Жыл бұрын
girl thank you, well said
@meamade
Жыл бұрын
Girl, you are so beautiful ❤
@justheretocomment9869
Жыл бұрын
Off topic but where is your top from? I love the collar and cut!
@Rolandesperspective
Жыл бұрын
thank you!
@joankyalo3169
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on getting to 100K proud of you
@kristinandj
Жыл бұрын
Good advices !
@seyramvinyo991
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@leggylasse6044
Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@ayd7330
Жыл бұрын
I want to move away but I don’t have money, I’m trying to save up to get a car 😢
@lukeandrew3335
Жыл бұрын
"We are born alone, we die alone." I would add, 'We are born with nothing and we leave with nothing.' Pondering these two truths will give you all the wisdom you need to know how to proceed.
@fcshadow5793
Жыл бұрын
Ok
@tessafeeney9395
Жыл бұрын
YES TO EVERYTHING! Amazing content xx
@741abid
Жыл бұрын
Comon advices ۔ before watching the video thought may be will hear something big ۔۔ But no problem keep it up sometimes for some people Comon things happen first time that's why they subject it as " Big advices ۔ Anyways keep it up۔۔۔
@MontelleBee
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comment. What kind of advice would you have liked to see?
@tinkipy
Жыл бұрын
The decision that makes you the happiest is the decision you deserve.
@hossel1079
Жыл бұрын
Are you trying to tell other people what their non-negotiales are?
@allanmuiruri7175
Жыл бұрын
Is too late if am 24. To improve and perfect on these non-negotiables?
@mariannakonstantopoulou3778
Жыл бұрын
no way! You have plenty of time to work on these! You are still so young :)
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