I wish I found this video when I was in my early 20s. Never date when you have low self esteem. When you're in such an unhealthy state of mind, manipulative men will seek you out & take advantage of you to satisfy their own sick needs.
@A-Ls1
5 жыл бұрын
AnastaziaU not exactly. He forgot to mention women who hold back and are shy are so attractive. If a woman I like has low self esteem, even as a reserved and stern young man, I would go out of my way to raise my woman up to reach her true potential. I’m naturally not really emotional but if I like her a lot I’ll do anything.
@kathy2trips
5 жыл бұрын
This goes for men too. There are women who see manipulating and destroying men as some kind of power trip or sport. Always heal completely from your last relationship first.
@mssummerrose1
4 жыл бұрын
...in your 20ies was not the time for you, obviously... it was never possible in your life path... so don't conjure up sadness trying to live in your own fabricated dreamworld... bc if he has "sick needs", obviously you have sick needs, too, if you "need" s.o. to behave a certain way in order to be happy and tolerate unacceptable behaviour ;)... speaking from own experience... check out Byron Katie, The Work...
@daliabrowneyes
5 жыл бұрын
#1 - Self Respect - {invest to the level he invests} #2 - Cultivate our own, exciting life - {Just be yourself and enjoy life} #3 - Genuinely see yourself as his equal {relax} #4 - Take responsibility - {be adult} #5 - Positive exchange with the world #6 - Sexual confidence {build desire} #7 - Positive attitude towards men #8 - You take your standards seriously {learn to walk away, if you have too}
@Aritul
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@lizbethcaceres0824
5 жыл бұрын
Aritul onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn n nml
@nofybn7794
5 жыл бұрын
Relax? What does that even mean? We ARE EQUAL, BUT MOST GUYS DON'T THINK THAT.
@ShinjineeDas
3 жыл бұрын
Did all these, but still he left lol
@myyoutubechannel2503
5 жыл бұрын
1. Self Respect 2. Cultivate your own exciting life 3. See Yourself As His Equal 4. Personal Responsibility
@emmafrost280
6 жыл бұрын
I love how positive you speak about you former girlfriends and how you call them your "former girlfriends" rather than your "ex girlfriends" it's so positive!
@busylizzy9095
7 жыл бұрын
Ugh can't we just got back to the way things were back in the day when men used to pick up the phone and just call you, if they liked you. This would save us so many headaches and lessons on texting 🙂
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Circumstances made a lot of standards automatic back in the day Busy. Men would HAVE to call by default. Things that used to be mandatory are not options - they're 'active' skills we need to learn :) All the convenient technology we've craved hasn't come without side effects. A video on calling for you - kzitem.info/news/bejne/z6mV3oKXenmhh5w
@busylizzy9095
7 жыл бұрын
Mark Rosenfeld very true ! Guess it's time for me to adapt.
@howboutthat9430
6 жыл бұрын
Never heard of women "waiting by the phone for hi to call but he never does"? And not daring to go to the grocery store because they might miss "the call"? Things were not easier back in the days, it was just done in a different manner :)
@marylsanz
5 жыл бұрын
@@Markrosenfeld lol the video for calling, no one is going to be excuse, this case is now in session.
@barbilove1698
5 жыл бұрын
@@Markrosenfeld bc pill has destroyed humanity
@EnticeMindSex
7 жыл бұрын
This is so refreshing to hear this type of advice coming from a man. It gives women a chance to really know what men are looking for and what they are thinking so we are not assuming things as well as allowing the women to be free to embrace the 8 things that you mention and not feel as if she has to get rid of those things in order to get a man to like her. I came across one of you videos yesterday and instantly subscribed to your channel. I so look forward to seeing more of your advice videos. Thank you so very much!!!!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Arw what an absolutely lovely comment Mona. Thanks so much - I'm keeping it because it's so lovely! Lots of great content coming on the channel on its way for you.
@LIONESSOFZION
5 жыл бұрын
Your a dude
@Markrosenfeld
5 жыл бұрын
Who's here now still watching this video on 8 Sexy Things Girls Do That Turn Guys On (Without Being Sexual)?? If so, hit 'reply' to let me know your thoughts on the video! You can also DM me on insta @makehimyours and come behind the scenes on filming! And don't forget your FREE download via www.makehimyours.com.au/book
@bhavanaruth1336
4 жыл бұрын
It's very good... Thank you...
@rheinnahpendo4532
4 жыл бұрын
Watching it in 2020!
@harmonysaint9525
4 жыл бұрын
Mark Rosenfeld 2020 watcher. I think you have a gift and should continue. I think more videos of communication are in order. Broaden your situational helpfulness by being more specific. Thank you!
@audreychou5498
4 жыл бұрын
This is such a good video! LOVE the content, and I'll definitely rewatch it often! Thank you for this!
@lauren7228
7 жыл бұрын
Ah, Mark! I love the beautiful, honouring way you speak about your ex girlfriend. :) Gorgeous! xx
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lauren! Appreciate that.
@missbabyshoes
7 жыл бұрын
Already liked it before I've even watched - your advice and wisdom is always amazing!
@duneece
7 жыл бұрын
Agreed! I do the same. hehehe
@missbabyshoes
7 жыл бұрын
It's become a habit now! Haha x
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
@gabrijelaveric7710
7 жыл бұрын
Lauren Aldred I
@nurain8944
3 жыл бұрын
I miss you so much Mark
@melynn44
7 жыл бұрын
Hello, Mark! I have been seeing a guy for a few weeks now- nothing exclusive or anything, but we are quite close and care about each other, and I feel good about where things are right now. For a while we have done what many do, and exchanged random pictures at random times...selfies of course, our pets, food we're eating, places we'd like to travel, and so on and so forth. Well, he hasn't sent me a picture in 2 weeks. :( I, in turn, have dialed back the pictures I have been sending him to the point I no longer am either. I was happy to see your first tip confirming my action, as I felt I was playing games or being petty by doing so. We continue to see each other/talk as much as we ever have, no more or less. He still sends me GIFs and KZitem videos he thinks I would enjoy. The banter and flirting is fine. Nothing has really changed other than the pictures thing. My questions are as follows: is it worth addressing? Does it come across as insecure to bring it up? Is it just the normal course of events as people get to know each other? I miss our random "thinking of you" photos, but I don't want to come across as needy. Thanks for your help! You are the best.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
This is actually a really good question, because I had it happen personally once and had no idea what to do at the time. It's an indicator that ever so slightly the energy has shifted a little, but certainly nothing that's worth stressing over. I would bring it up playfully at the appropriate moment. If you make a big deal of it, yeh, it will be kinda weird and could easily come off insecure. Whereas if he (in person) starts talking about "I went on this trip on the weekend bla bla bla" you could for example (in person) say "Ahh that's so cool I'd love to see photos!! Send me piccy's of this stuff I loved the photo's you used to send!" and literally just leave it at that. If he doesn't step up and do it, it's an indicator to make sure you're not investing more in him a bit more than he is in you.
@melynn44
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Mark! I unfortunately had to take your advice (no offense) and broach the subject in a relatively casual way. His response was that he had actually been wanting to be sending pictures all along, but he was worried about coming across as desperate or "trying too hard." He said that he had gotten feedback in the past about over-sharing and scaring people away, and he didn't want that to happen again. Considering his personality, it's a believable thing. But, I will stay on my toes, and make sure the investment seems to be there on his part and balanced in our relationship.
@lolabrini3758
6 жыл бұрын
with his long hair and chiseled bod, i feel like he should be on a harlequin romance cover 😂😍
@Markrosenfeld
6 жыл бұрын
Ahahahahah brunette Fabio ftw
@barbilove1698
5 жыл бұрын
No. No 😢
@SatumainenOlento
4 жыл бұрын
Hahhhaaaa lol 😁 Those books are quite bad examples of real relationships tho. Cringe.
@heather9165
6 жыл бұрын
This was great! I have watched a few of your videos this morning and have realized 2 things that about myself that I started doing back when I was a teenager so that I would "fit in" with the guys. 1. That if I dress too feminine I wouldn't be able to keep up. A girl can't play football with the guys if she's wearing a dress! 2. If I was too in touch with my sexual side I was called a tease or would end up misleading a guy if I was flirtatious. So I learned how to shut that part of me off in order to still fit in with the guys. I love learning about this kind of stuff from a man. Somehow it feels more authentic than when it's coming from a female. You know - if you want to know what men want - ask a man! lol Thank you so much! It's time for some personal rewiring.
@Markrosenfeld
6 жыл бұрын
That's so beautiful Heather. Thankyou so much for sharing your lovely comment. Really appreciate you enjoying my content and taking the time to watch my videos :)
@nofybn7794
5 жыл бұрын
Women know about men. It is wrong to assume one knows better just because they are that thing. A man, or a person in a relationship as to being single. A person that is the opposite CAN have good insight. Be yourself, don't listen to STEREOTYPICAL SEXIST crap on being feminine. You ARE a woman! Period, You can like football. Yes you would be called a tease most likely but be yourself.
@falconslmn
7 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty happy that you mentioned "high standards taken seriously" because I would say that's me and I'm always hearing that we should lower our standards.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
True Michelley - just remember that standards do mean the things that MATTER to long term happiness (not to be confused with pickiness).
@jolantabona3050
7 жыл бұрын
It's a very professional lecture. I was watching it maybe 7 times. Nothing to add, nothing to take out. Thank you very much! Greetings from Reykjavik :)
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
How lovely of you! Thanks so much Jolanta
@13cuteme
7 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with all the points. 🙌🏻 I can say i have all those traits, and I'm happily single and taking my time to find the right guy. Thanksss 💚this video is on point 👌
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Shima - really appreciated!
@xdddd8597
4 жыл бұрын
Every dating video: "cultivate your own life" My 16 old self: *does exactly this without knowing that it's supposed to be a turn on* My boyfriend that time: *gets upset because I have my own life outside of him* Well... I left him. Haha
@SatumainenOlento
4 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! You are cool!!! Go girl!!! 👍👍👍
@reetkaur3247
7 жыл бұрын
Mark, in a very simple way you are able to describe big points.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Reet - that's actually a huge complement to me, so thankyou!
@reetkaur3247
7 жыл бұрын
Mark Rosenfeld 😊
@joannat1655
7 жыл бұрын
Mark, that goes both ways! High value men, the same thing we are interested in men.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
100% Joanna
@MsNobody
5 жыл бұрын
It's funny how my Now BF had lists of qualities on women. He kept dating but never gave up his single life. Because none of the women met his standards. He asked me to be his GF recently. I was hoping he'll court me for 3 months but once he found out he had competition on the line he asked me to be his GF after 1 month of courtship. Men do qualify women as well. They know what they are looking for. That is why every woman should realize that when a man claims you as his woman. You have the right to walk away anytime he does not meet your standards. If a quality man cannot wait for you to be his GF. It means you are a quality Woman. Keep getting better as an individual & never give up your life just because you have him in yours .
@duneece
7 жыл бұрын
Hey Mark! Awesome video! I've noticed that when I put myself first rather than dropping everything to spend time with the guy, the guy tends to be that much more interested in me. He realizes that I have my own life and that I'm very happy and fulfilled with it. This whole concept was hard for me to get at first but now it makes total sense. Women tend to think that the guy will lose interest if we don't drop everything when they call on us. Well, I'm learning that's not the case. I agree with all of the 8 turn ons that you have mentioned in this video and I am definitely keeping them in mind as I live my life. Thank you Mark!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
That's awesome Denise - so true and so great to hear you've found this first hand. Thanks as always for watching and commenting :)
@caffinnascreations6948
5 жыл бұрын
I was listening to Lizzo's song, "juice" then opened up KZitem and this post was waiting for me. Good empathic experience, thank you.
@mandaxcutiex
5 жыл бұрын
Ive just now realized all this by myself recently. Its taken me a lot of pain to get here 😂❤. Gatta see your worth no matter the past.
@brightphoebesays
5 жыл бұрын
The trouble is not to turn a guy on and make him your boyfriend, the trouble is getting him to marry you.
@LisaGemini
4 жыл бұрын
I love this, Mark. Stick to your standards, yes. Nobody wants to have low standards, that's true. You have to keep your eyes open for consistency and red flags. Recently, a guy who stopped texting me four months ago texted me again, out of the blue. I didn't even know who he was. At first, for a day or two, things were OK. Then one morning he texted me a naked torso photo. No head, no private parts. Just a naked torso. Ugh. I blocked and deleted him.
@bigsexyhair4557
7 жыл бұрын
Well delivered as usual Mark! Bravo! 👏👏👏 I've been told by guys in my past and present that they were so attracted to my confidence it was intimidating...lol...then after they got to know me, said they thought I was cool as shit and so down to earth, and it made them like me even more lol..😂 so another one to add to the list for me is just being humble and down to earth as well!! That traits sexy in ANYONE😁 Having your standards is great too, but I've told my friends before that are in the dating scene, just remember everyone has flaws, so just don't create a list so high, that you realize after you're done with it, you think Damn, this person I'm seeking is even too good for my ass! LMAO!!! 😂😂😂 great vid Mark!!
@lifetobelived9102
7 жыл бұрын
Just curious since you said keep your list short what would be on your list of expectations for a dateable man.
@bigsexyhair4557
7 жыл бұрын
Life tobelived just someone who is real, authentic, humble down to earth ya know? not trying to be someone they are not. Sense of humor i LOVE ..lol... laid back. I don't like cockyness that's for sure! so in a nutshell..... GENUINE😁
@lifetobelived9102
7 жыл бұрын
I jokingly say I want a boring man after leaving my marriage. I don't mean mind numbing boring but just easy going not much drama. Someone willing to hang out but who is not very demanding who likes a little attention and gives a little attention back. I am not someone who needs to be bound at the hip but I'd like to have someone who would maybe wait up for me to make sure I got home safe at night. Honest, trustworthy and able to laugh off my quirkiness. And to be honest a man who is healthy enough to have sex on a regular basis or knows how to work it if he has limitations. I say that because I am in my 50s and that is a concern of mine. No real experience on the last part just a fear of mine...
@bigsexyhair4557
7 жыл бұрын
Life tobelived lol..... you're too funny! lol... but Amen to that! Just remember, beauty comes in ALL ages, shapes 'n sizes! 😉 I mean what would this world be without diversity?? very boring I'd say! lol... There's ALWAYS someone out there for everyone! The least on my list is looks...because no matter how beautiful that red shiny apple 🍎 looks on the outside, if its rotted on the inside, noone will want to eat it. 😊 Being proud and your true self, and less concerned about impressing others or worried about what they think of u, is the SEXIEST thing of all on this list!! 😊😊😊 #GENUINE.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeees unrealistic standards is actually a defence mechanism - a huge turnoff! We see imperfections in others and reject them because we can't accept the imperfections in ourselves. You'll like the video we've got coming out soon - "How to be down to earth" ;)
@R2Livestock
7 жыл бұрын
Mark, I really enjoy your videos and find them on track. I love the way you are straight forward, and not into game playing. You have the best videos on KZitem of any of the others. Also you don't just mumble jumble a bunch of words that really have no content, you deliver with strong and powerful content, that a women if she is listening can take stock in and improve themselves or feel confident in what they are doing and where they are going. Keep up the good job! I watch all your videos now as they hit my mailbox. You give me food for thought. Thank you Mark!!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Joan! That was an absolutely lovely comment. Haha today's video is a bit longer so I hope I haven't rambled too much. Thanks so much for supporting my channel!
@priyapoken5481
7 жыл бұрын
amazing videos! Really helpful. keep doing what you do because you help woman to feel more confident about themselves and feel happier inside with who they are
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
That's great - what a lovely comment. Thanks so much Priya - I certainly shall.
@mariageorghiades9420
5 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. Although men have so many options nowadays they call a woman with standards hard work. Guess you only value what you worked hard for. Besides this gets rid of the time wasters. Thanks Mark 😘😘😘
@maringotkazuzi
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Yes I completly agree :-) it's good to hear things that men usually never tell but feel inside. (I hope my English is understandable...) Have a great time dear.
@elenasalvatore832
6 жыл бұрын
Your videos Mark are so addictive. I can't stop watching! I agree on everything you said.
@Markrosenfeld
6 жыл бұрын
Why thankyou Elana 😘 Please do!!
@sia1127
7 жыл бұрын
Hi Mark!!! I totally agree... Have a great day... see you soon
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Harseeta :)
@lynnyb
6 жыл бұрын
#4 is so truuuue! I stopped taking responsibility for my words and actions and my life. I have become this massive immovable stubborn rock. I was weighing my bf down and it pushed him to his breaking point. He got fed up and just tired of lugging me around. Him wanting to leave made me realize that I gotta get my shit together because I can't expect someone else to do it for me. Why is it that we only realize our mistakes when it's too late? Sometimes it's only then that we decide to make a change in our lives. Thank you for this video and awesome topics!
@irina315
7 жыл бұрын
What were the reasons that made you break up with your girlfriends..? It would be a great video 😊 Thank you so mcuh for this amazing advices, as always!! ^^
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
A hard lesson in chemistry without compatibility, Irene
@eva1780
6 жыл бұрын
Why isn't he married?
@SatumainenOlento
4 жыл бұрын
@@Markrosenfeld It is great to hear nippets of your formed relationships, because it makes you relatable and vulnerable. And that tells how balanced and strong you are as a man. And shows real integrity. You live what you speak! And that makes me listen you, because it all comes from a real person. You are pretty amazing human being! Thank you for all the help that you are giving to us! I highly appreciate you and your videos! 💗💗💗
@rheannapagan2619
3 жыл бұрын
I've been told my standards are too high 😅
@lriver5766
3 жыл бұрын
Go watch MJ Harris he has awesome advice. You’ll love him❤️
@cissyzhang6258
6 жыл бұрын
Hi Mark, one of your articles on Thought Catalog took me here. I like your dating advice! Full of positive energy.
@carolinejones1977
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your time and effort in making this resourceful video!
@Markrosenfeld
3 жыл бұрын
The pleasure's mine, Caroline. Thanks for watching! x
@faisaadan8911
7 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm finally back from my one month break so excited to join the fam I have missed watching your awesome advices! People don't be stingy with the 👍 it's so easy! I have one question is there such thing as too high of standards? I have been told that by many people including my own parents! You're probably wondering what kind of standards does she have?! I think they're very simple: religious, ambitious, good dancer, educated, and kind good hearted human being! If he can't dance is he willing to learn? Answer is no goodbye! Is he the kind of person that likes to work on himself answer is no goodbye! Are you ambitious and have things you wanna accomplish answer is no goodbye! I hate lazy men it's so unattractive! I love smart men that's sexy! I might sound intimidating but really I'm very clear about what I want and I don't like to settle for less!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Hahah Faisa - these all look important values to look for... except dancing!! That one seems more superficial than all the others. If he has ALL those other wonderful qualities would you really care that he wasn't such a great dancer and it wasn't an interest of his?? That seems a bit superficial/picky to me. Mark.
@faisaadan8911
7 жыл бұрын
Mark Rosenfeld True it's picky! 😂 To be honest I wouldn't care it was just humorous thing that I throw guys at! Some get uncomfortable right away and it's really hilarious! But I meant as fun loving person that has some sort of hobby, it doesn't have to be dancing! But a good dancer will be given more preference over other guys tho! Only if they have other qualities I'm looking for!
@LuminousLife1
7 жыл бұрын
Agree... gave me a few things to think about. Another great vid thanks Mark.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Luminous - really glad you enjoyed.
@missm3131
7 жыл бұрын
probably your best vlog yet! really loved hearing this...thanks! 🌟 would also love to hear some specific examples /phrases that you can keep using throughout a relationship to help keep that eternal desire to 'qualify/impress' up that is to not slack off now that they know they have won you over. top work as always Mark! 👌👌
@jezabel279
7 жыл бұрын
Love the video!!! Specially the whole "lightning up people around you". I totally agree with that concept and how attractive is when everybody loves that person". Greetings Mark!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
That's great! Thanks for watching and commenting J FM
@User25064
7 жыл бұрын
but when i do unconsciouly some of these stuff some of my guy friends miss understand me and try to get closer to me and i find it a bit disturbing putting them in the friendzone i really don't want to what should i do to not lose their friendship and not putting them in this uncomfortable situation?
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Aya I'll put this on Ask Mark :)
@marlym942
7 жыл бұрын
Great video Mark like always 😁. I feel like I have the majority of these things but there is 1 I need to work on a bit more. Your insight as a male is so helpful.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Marly - that's awesome :) Good stuff!
@bellabow5210
7 жыл бұрын
once again such brilliant advice and understanding everything you say Mark 😊
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Helen! Lovely of you to say.
@jennifermolina1344
7 жыл бұрын
Amazing topic! Loved it. Thank you Mark!! I was just wondering though that some women, I for one spend time thinking and searching(that's why I arrived here)if what are those things that turn guys on. I would like to ask if do also men spend time wondering how and what they'll gonna do to turn on women??🤔🤔
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
They absolutely do Jennifer. I promise you! Have a search for it in google and look how many results there are!!
@nofybn7794
5 жыл бұрын
@@Markrosenfeld Like none.
@thesalsalady173
6 жыл бұрын
A woman with a an attractive paycheck it’s what men really find very attractive. Since the day I got laid off my job my idiot ex been telling me to get the F$&@ our the house, glad I found your videos now I got a new job and hopefully soon a new life.
@Markrosenfeld
6 жыл бұрын
Hahhaa I'm glad you found them too curious!
@aliciadaniels8672
6 жыл бұрын
When man meets me he has met his match I see through his games
@Dwightinho56
7 жыл бұрын
You make great videos with great topics. This came in particularly handy.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Dwight - glad to hear
@charleenhopkins5206
7 жыл бұрын
well, yea hes needs to show that hes.... honest mature , loyal, reliable , kind.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Definitely all important Charleen
@tidamcc7345
5 жыл бұрын
Why can't us woman just chill out and be ourselves, instead of "trying" hard to get a man. If you're being honest to yourself, then it doesn't matter if you have a bf or not, you will be happy with whatever situation 🤷 It isn't that hard to live life happily with or without a man! Keep it real.
@Markrosenfeld
5 жыл бұрын
Important advice Tida. I'm a big fan of change/changing yourself, as long as it's in ways you like. I'm proud to say I've changed a lot in ways I like so I can better relate to women. Thanks for the comment xx
@tidamcc7345
5 жыл бұрын
Yes Mark, I agreed, change our own attitude and everything around us will naturally change. I have been single for a while haa, but hey a right man is one out there, but I'm not focus on that, in fact I focus on my own life. It isn't about "love", I think it's about being yourself and love yourself. Are you in the UK?
@NoviaEverton
7 жыл бұрын
I feel like these are not only turn ons, but tips on how to be as a person. Subscribed immediately!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Funny how often those two go together Novia :)
@NDiaz-et6hc
7 жыл бұрын
Hi Mark! Gosh how I've missed your videos :) this video is so helpful on so many levels. To your point, it feels so key to invest as much or as little as the guy is investing in us, thereby showing ourselves respect. Well put and it hits home. Also #7. Ouch! Guilty! I totally agree that a guy who doesn't like women is a big no-no and it shows often quite early on in conversation. However, I am guilty here too and that's where I need to take responsibility. I never was able to connect with my dad and as an adult am taking care of him in his old age. As counter-intuitive as that sounds, I feel like I am still trying to get his approval, in my 40's! He is a misogynist and unfortunately I have had to endure and battle his comments all my life. So here's the deal, I am not sure that my resentment towards him isn't putting guys off, because they must be picking up on it. So I'm at that stage where I am aware of this resentment/fear of men due to my past/current relationship with my dad. But how do I turn this around? I will be re-watching this video, because so many of your points hit a nerve. Gracias and Cheers Mark!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Love it Nat - I'll put this on Ask Mark!
@fanyada7
7 жыл бұрын
Nat Diaz. hola! perdona a tu papa and u will recover the love u deserve .
@aneliea.ngitngit1382
3 жыл бұрын
Excellent vedio Marky😊😊😊keep it up and stay safe....God bless you mmmmmmwuah.
@one-day-at-a-time9317
5 жыл бұрын
That was great 😀 ! All the points were good, and I particularly liked the fact that good men appreciate a woman who has good standards in that she knows what will qualify a man to be in a close relationship with her. This woman will also keep weighing up whether he is worthy of being in a relationship with her by the way he treats her. I made a huge mistake in qualifying a guy way too soon in a relationship & therefore I ignored some pretty serious red flags 🚩 down the road before we were married, but I have learned a lot as a result of this & won’t make that mistake/those mistakes again.
@jiminioppa4life853
7 жыл бұрын
Words that are stuck in my head by MARK " IT'S A MASSIVE TURN ON FOR MEN" loll I can't take'em out of my head now ahhahh
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeeh I say that a lot
@moomson
7 жыл бұрын
lol!
@t0xicg3m4
7 жыл бұрын
JiminiOppa 4life I CANT GET AWAY FROM ARMY 😂 we everywhere
@anitaanita-vy5fp
6 жыл бұрын
thanks so much for these videos. I just stumbled on one of ur videos and am immediately interested in all of them.. I have been struggling to understand the male specie since I started dating seriously. am so grateful for your videos. finally something I can exhaust my data on and have no regrets.. The part about taking my standards seriously, is my favourite. Especially that part on giving men time to qualify themselves to meet those standards... itz actually working out for me. thanks
@darlenemyles9375
2 жыл бұрын
Wow...amazing points Mark..thanks 😊
@Tracks777
7 жыл бұрын
Keep it up!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mister
@1nita390
7 жыл бұрын
Hi Mark!Big like Of course !loved it!:) Thank You!Greetings from Hungary!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Anita - Greeeeeetings from Australia!!
@lunadu9175
5 жыл бұрын
Self-respect, self-love and self- cultivate are the most important things in life, we have these, and then we would have our real happy life 🌷🌸♥️
@Markrosenfeld
5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Luna Du! xx
@kellystone1535
7 жыл бұрын
Mark you seem to understand both men and women's needs very well. Are you a practising psychologist? How did you glean all this valuable knowledge?
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Kelly! I have studied some psychology along the way, but no, I'm not a practicing psych. I do a LOT of research and apply concept with clients (as well as with previous male clients) which teaches me a lot. I do hear that question from a lot of people and clients though :)
@yvonnetatalovich4485
3 жыл бұрын
Mark, as always you are so right! Love to listen to your show and try to follow your advice! I have a wonderful guy and want to show him how much🥰
@ashleybowen3805
7 жыл бұрын
its 2am and i just binged like 7 of your videos. so glad i found your channel and i love listening to you!!
@eddajustice8345
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for these wonderful readings Mark they’re always inspiring
@Markrosenfeld
6 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate that Edda
@aliciadaniels8672
6 жыл бұрын
I dont hide myself iam who iam imperfect with flaws but I love to lol
@andreabrown4417
2 жыл бұрын
I like how positive that you are Mark?
@Markrosenfeld
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Andrea! x
@aurelius210
6 жыл бұрын
Mark, your insights are absolutely amazing. I respect and admire your wisdom so much. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
@luisimasis8656
5 жыл бұрын
Very good vídeo. You gave me important information I was needing...thanks! Costa Rica
@pamiewatkins7354
5 жыл бұрын
I need appreciation for men and women God I've been so blessed thank you for what you're going to teach me how I'm going to learn and what I'm going to work I'm sorry if I offended anyone who
@welcomebuddy4985
7 жыл бұрын
Amazing video as always!!! i wish i could met a guy like u😥
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Depy. Remember they're out there! Use what's on the channel to help find one :)
@adev9764
7 жыл бұрын
Mark could you give some advice on opening your heart up to dating and relationships after a difficult break up. You're my favourite love "expert"
@megkarugi9665
4 жыл бұрын
Number 7 has touched me coz I personally ave negative attitude towards men simply because my dad left is when we were young and since then I hate men but I try as much as I can but stl now working, I even get scared of getting married 😭😭😭🙆♀️
@Markrosenfeld
4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to know that, maggie karugi. It's a good thing you're aware so you can do something about it. Thanks for sharing your story.
@nkechiofurum3182
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks love it I just keep watching your videos and I learn a lot am from Nigeria
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Nkechi -
@marjanend
7 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you said ... :) ... you summarized them so well.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Marjan - really appreciate that
@Tracks777
7 жыл бұрын
Excellent video
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mister!
@susanjones4470
6 жыл бұрын
Mark you have positive energy .very inspiring.qualification target.
@Markrosenfeld
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Susan - really appreciate that :)
@sula1529
5 жыл бұрын
self respect, invests in him when he invests cultivate your own life because you want to, being with you is more exciting for him see yourself as his equal relax banter have your own opinions. communicate as his equal, dont hide yourself, dont put on a pedestal, she doesn't have to impress anyone, take responsibility for your own life where you are, who you are , responsible for yourself engage positively with the world, light up the people around you sexual confidence , touch , eyes linger, how you move, no need for sex positive attitudes towards men, men should have positive attitude to women, appreciate what he can bring to your life. take your standards seriously, constantly qualifying to make sure he is the right match,
@srilanka96
4 жыл бұрын
As a man, I strongly agree with all of it!
@Markrosenfeld
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, srilanka96!
@romonasalas122
7 жыл бұрын
Hi! some great advice. Been listening to your videos
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Romona. Great to have you on here :)
@Helenheaven22
6 жыл бұрын
So great! Loving all of your videos!
@Markrosenfeld
6 жыл бұрын
Cheers Helen! I'll have a bunch more for you coming up this week :)
@manie54321
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your help. I love your advice and hope to watch all your videos. I just discovered you enjoyed and instantly subscribed. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽✌🏽
@Markrosenfeld
5 жыл бұрын
Arw, thanks a lot Manie! I'm glad that you're enjoying my videos, I hope it does help you xx
@monicaortiz2920
6 жыл бұрын
Mark your the best. Keep it up..love it😉 you make since all the time.
@emilyv6345
7 жыл бұрын
Hi Mark! As you emphasise the importance of standards, I've been wondering if you have any tips on how to communicate those in a polite, classy (and sexy) way whilst still making them clear? Btw: Love your videos, they are so useful as well as simple, nicely short and straight forward!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Hey Emily! Thanks for watching. Have a look at this one and let me know if it answers your question :) kzitem.info/news/bejne/wKqEnZyih3OGdag
@emilyv6345
7 жыл бұрын
Mark Rosenfeld ah didn't see that, thanks a lot! 😉
@jena7996
6 жыл бұрын
I completely agree! I think this also applies to men.
@Markrosenfeld
6 жыл бұрын
Yeh I agree with that 100% Jena
@natitanata6283
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reminder! I loved this video!
@bora8393
7 жыл бұрын
great video mark !
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks bo ra!
@sandrawinans6547
6 жыл бұрын
Really love your videos...teaching me important points about being the best partner i can😚❤
@susiedurr9067
6 жыл бұрын
Great advice Mark, Thank You
@Cantetinza17
4 жыл бұрын
My sister has low standards. Thankfully my parents taught me about having high standards. I always stayed to my standards, it's the man that realized that they didn't measure up.
@amyrawitv
6 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you and I do all in my relationship with my boyfriend. I'm going a bride :)
@margiebanosong
4 жыл бұрын
Nice idea! Thank you for this video sir, I like it . I'm getting ready to get partner
@Markrosenfeld
4 жыл бұрын
Arw Margie, always appreciate your lovely comments. Thanks for being on the channel! xx
@margiebanosong
4 жыл бұрын
@@Markrosenfeld you are welcome ,sir! Your video inspired me as well
@lenatutowa5181
7 жыл бұрын
Great tips, as always!! Thank you :D
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lena!
@serenasweeney3081
3 жыл бұрын
Love these mate! Good to see im doing most of these already 😊
@martinscamila1611
7 жыл бұрын
Awesome video as always!!
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Arw thanks so much Camila - really appreciate that!
@rosylucas1438
7 жыл бұрын
You are really sweet and I like your advice.
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Rosy
@jonaselias7729
7 жыл бұрын
You make being a new woman... God bless welcome to Africa I wanna prepare a conference to you so as to meet different women and change their life as you changed mine...once more God bless you...
@Markrosenfeld
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Jonas
@lesliedennis2947
4 жыл бұрын
You are so right, Mark. This kind of self confidence in women also helps separate the men who just want a quick piece of tail, from those that are truly interesting in you as a person. I just wish I had know this earlier in my life, as I spent many horrible years with a man that destroyed every ounce of self esteem that I had. I was a huge climb back to self respect. Don't do it to yourself ladies - you don't need a man - get a vibrator if there is nothing out there that meets your standards right now. ;0)
@Markrosenfeld
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahah glad you liked the video, Leslie. Great to know that part of your life is over! xx
@lesliedennis2947
4 жыл бұрын
@@Markrosenfeld Oops, sorry for all the typos - damn spell check!
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