To those of you wondering what to do if this is happening to you? Play into it. Dance the dance, be playful back. Even if nothing comes of it at least it’s experience for the future. Don’t panic, don’t worry. Just relax and have fun.
@PotiusSeroQamNumquam
10 ай бұрын
222 likes, can't destroy the perfection :) Thank for this comment. You took stress from me. As an demisexual person, it's sometimes hard for me to even understand when someone is flirting.
@anderstermansen130
10 ай бұрын
Or even better, and hear me out. Go in absolute panic, and do worry. A lot. Take as well into account she is not actually "flirting" with you, she is just being polite and nothing else. We dont do this "dating", "flirting", and "relationships" anymore. People only want to hook up, nobody wants to commit anymore. Its far eaiser to get seually satisfied with a stranger you can just dump afterwards. Zero responsibilities. Just like how women like it.
@buggus0034
10 ай бұрын
That’s why I said to not get emotionally invested. I just implied to flirt and hone your craft, I really don’t care if people are sexual heathens. Just go out and flirt a bit, have fun with it. At least have fun, even if someone is being polite, flirt a little bit. If they aren’t married it’s fine. I’m married, but I could just as easily be out there hitting it off and hooking it up. I know i can pull because I’ve practiced it and I’m competent at it.
@undyingfaith9897
10 ай бұрын
@anderstermansen130 ur kinda sad huh
@anderstermansen130
10 ай бұрын
@@undyingfaith9897you mean im kinda right. Nobody cares for actual relationships in this time and age.
@A55a551n
10 ай бұрын
Timestamps 1). Playful teasing 0:33 2). Eye contact 1:15 3). Social media 1:44 4). Increased attentiveness 2:21 5). Deep compliments 2:49 6). Fidgeting 3:19 7). Using nicknames 3:51 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
@debbieochoa8525
10 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@Kumo_st4r
10 ай бұрын
I’m actually flirting with someone that I don’t like and I don’t even notice 💀💀💀💀
@Kumo_st4r
10 ай бұрын
But my teasing kind of teasing might make u cry
@samchiu9918
10 ай бұрын
@@Kumo_st4r No you're not, don't treat these videos as gospel.
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10 ай бұрын
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@Psykel
10 ай бұрын
All of these are signs of friendliness though, that MIGHT mean flirting. It all comes down to the personality and relationship of the person sending the ”signals”
@spacecat8511
10 ай бұрын
Yes. This. Sometimes it can be both. But unless there’s actually asking someone out or directly asking if there’s attraction or declaring it directly…it…really doesn’t matter? There are reasons beyond a fear of rejection for choosing not to date and choosing to be friendly instead
@Psykel
10 ай бұрын
@@spacecat8511 My point is they’re not 100% certain flirting. I’ve got several friends that act like this towards me, and it just means we’re close. It doesn’t have to mean anything romantic at all, and people who interpret these ”signs” as such might get the wrong idea.
@justsomegirlwithamoustache
10 ай бұрын
yeah like I do this to everyone regardless if I like them or not
@imnotsure4864
10 ай бұрын
I agree, everything that was stated is just something i do when im comfortable, not to flirt or express hidden feelings... the first psych2go vid that i was so confused abt..
@anderstermansen130
10 ай бұрын
Nobody does flirting anymore pal. This isnt year 1974😂
@SirSlayto
10 ай бұрын
Idk, I do this with my female friends, but im just trying to pick them up and compliment them. I love my friends and they deserve to hear compliments, given a good laugh, and given appropriate attention. But hey, call it what you want. If it makes my friends feel good about themselves and puts a smile on their face, you can call it whatever you like. =)
@adamwarlock2099
10 ай бұрын
I get told a lot. Especially with female co-workers. "Oh you have a crush on her?" Like no I just paid her a compliment. I just walked her to her car because she didn't have an umbrella. I find that in younger generations that chivalry and manners are so foreign to young men, because of all the gender propaganda going on, that when you do treat a lady with the respect that a man should it comes off as having an ulterior motive, not just because it is the right thing to do as a man.
@Jequette.
10 ай бұрын
aw thats so sweet of u to do!
@girlhesgotthatbde1355
10 ай бұрын
hmm liar i know u like them 😏
@AJKurano
10 ай бұрын
I can relate to you so bad, but everytime I do do that with someone. They start getting a few wrong ideas about me wanting to date them or something. In most cases it is alright but in some it really puts my friends out of the mood so yeah. Glad to know I am not the only one doing this tho! Keep up the good work pal.
@wesleyballard6217
10 ай бұрын
I did this with a girl I work with the other day and now she talks a little too much if you know what I mean . The problem is she doesn't realize that I'm like 5-10 yrs younger than her 😂
@samchiu9918
10 ай бұрын
0:33: Playful teasing 1:14: Eye contact 1:44: Social Media 2:21: Increased attentiveness 2:49: Deep compliments 3:19: Fidgeting 3:51: Using Nicknames That's 7, not 8...
@ajizel13
10 ай бұрын
You doing God's work, good Samaritan
@silentlion_zer0562
10 ай бұрын
Thank you great hero
@suilcker
10 ай бұрын
4:38 : à
@aishatheashal
10 ай бұрын
@@suilcker😂😂
@jrichard88
10 ай бұрын
Neurodivergent (autism + ADHD) here. My lack of social awareness pretty much means I need a friend with me to let me know if someone’s flirting with me, because it will absolutely fly over my head if I’m alone. Especially the sort of subtle flirting mentioned here.
@zimtyy7204
10 ай бұрын
haha same. I hope people don't think I'm flirting with them because of my stimming, I didn't know this was a thing 😳
@dikkie1000
10 ай бұрын
That's familiar. Flirting seems to be one of those tings that appear to be invisible to me. You want to flirt, bring a foghorn, one of those blinking traffic arrows and a poster sized note with named references so i don't think it's meant for someone else. last time someone flirted with me i figured it out after 7 years when i got near a similar situation and it was explained how it was supposed to work.
@Nothereforit174
8 ай бұрын
@initialNadiait’s not abnormal or special lol, I am. Don’t be weird about it like we’re a dog breed
@charliebell5584
8 ай бұрын
This right here. The number of times I've been out with a friend and they wait till we are on the way home to tell me that there were women staring me down. It's so frustrating like if you don't tell me right at that very moment, I'm never gonna realize it on my own.
@Eiowen0
10 ай бұрын
As I am asexual, it's always difficult to know if it's a flirt or no. I never consider flirting, so I'm surprised and rarely realise it until someone told me directly that it's one 😅
@@AwakenedAvocadoAsexual is someone who feels little to no romantic attraction
@perilousloki4712
10 ай бұрын
@@TheUltimateLOL-jx3esNo, not really. Its when someone experiences reduced or no sexual attraction hence the “asexual” part.
@SerasXHarkonnen
10 ай бұрын
I do a lot of these even when I have no interest in the person and don't want to flirt with them. Teasing comes naturally to me, I do it with everyone. When I give compliments I never go for vague or generic compliments because it feels weird to me, I always personalise it or go into more detail, even if it's just wanting to compliment their hair because I noticed they made a change to it, I'll tell them I like their hair cut and why I think it looks nice for them. I also give loads of people nicknames, it's just fun and often helps me remember new names. I think these things can be flirting but I think it really depends on the person and it's important to establish a baseline for that person.
@__-tp4tm
10 ай бұрын
I myself am sexually and romantically uninterested, the times women spread lies about me because they 1.Think I was trying to get in their pants or 2.I rejected their approach and told people I'm gay when I'm really just not feeling these connections myself... Annoying.
@dressingforrevenge.
10 ай бұрын
@@__-tp4tmfeel you. i make friends with guys just to be friendly, but like half the time they end up catching feelings. it is pretty annoying when i just wanna make friends with other people but they just see me as a “crush” or smthn like that. i dont date and i’ve made that clear to a bunch of people, but it doesn’t stop. just gotta deal with it ig.
@__-tp4tm
10 ай бұрын
@@dressingforrevenge. Can't see my first answer, so just in case - Yeah people catching feelings out of nowhere and betting friendships on their hope that somehow they'll get their way... it's annoying at best with potential to be worse. I guess you did have it harder tho - boys/men can be very pressing with their desires and while I don't want to assume anything, I myself can atleast imagine that one does not always feel safe around them, especially if you'd get some feeling that they might put their wishes above friendship... Of course I hope you weren't overrun with annoyances. Anyhow, best luck with the friends you can count on for sure, they might not be many but they sure are a pillar in life :)
@dressingforrevenge.
10 ай бұрын
@@__-tp4tm thank you, you’re so kind. thankfully it hasnt gotten to the worse but there is one guy who wont leave me alone. his friends are my “friends” though, so they kinda tease him about it and try to keep him going. im in my senior year and they are all in my 4th period. my teacher is also no help as he keeps sitting me next to him even when we switch seating charts every month or so, but he doesnt know (i think) so i cant blame him. my best friend helps a lot tho and im so grateful for her. i’ve dealt with worse, but it does get pretty annoying. i wish you best of luck and I hope everything is okay, even with the lies spread about you. people can be rude when they dont get their way.
@sportsfanjw559
10 ай бұрын
This confirms it peeps I'm not even microscopily flirted with
@itssoritojangru
10 ай бұрын
Same here same
@peachydoodles
10 ай бұрын
Oh really
@madeline1206
10 ай бұрын
Microscopically*
@sportsfanjw559
10 ай бұрын
@@madeline1206 you must be bored
@stevethomas9320
10 ай бұрын
With how I've been treated in life it is really hard to tell if a woman likes me or is just being nice. Most of the time it's hard to catch those subtle cues.
@Psych2go
10 ай бұрын
It's still okay to communicate openly if you're unsure. 😊
@themanicman8458
10 ай бұрын
@@Psych2goI've done that before and always got ghosted
@spacecat8511
10 ай бұрын
As a woman, a lot of the time it really is just being friendly, even if we do like the person we’re interacting with romantically. Don’t try reading into “signs.” Just be honest with yourself if you think she’d be someone you’d like to try dating, and if you think your company is someone she’d like to date as well. Just be direct, be respectful, and if the answer is either a “no I don’t want to date her” or she instead rejects you romantically, accept that outcome with grace. Assuming things and getting yourself worked up about it instead of building honest communication about eachother’s expectations can quite literally get both parties hurt. (no, really. I’ve just gone through that myself. the sad thing is yes I did really like the other person BUT was also quite deliberately only trying to build a friendship for my own personal reasons and out of respect for their own boundaries that I’ve observed. And while I’m pretty sure the other likes me back despite neither of us really wanting to date right now, these assumptions alongside others butting in and involving themselves was quite frankly traumatic. (Seriously. Just be direct with her. DON’T go through what we did.)
@SasukeUchiha-di1zl
10 ай бұрын
@@spacecat8511yeah I agree with you,I gone through it myself I proposed a girl in my class thinking that she has a crush on me🥲,I thought I build up a good friendship with each other😢,I would be more happier if she atleast tell me the fact that she don't like me or hate me,instead she blocked without replying😭
@blablup1214
10 ай бұрын
As a person who is as good as a stone in noticing these hidden signs I can understand you. A woman should at least use a 3m neon sign so that my brain thinks , hmmm maybe she is showing me some hidden hints....
@rafagam02
10 ай бұрын
After a hard breakup a few years ago. I'm finally falling in love with somebody again. It doesn't matter if I'm reciprocated or not, I'm so happy I'm feeling this way again.
@chaoticspaz2354
10 ай бұрын
I never even heard of micro-flirting before, thanks for the video!
@christopherjared3624
10 ай бұрын
I'm still gonna end up clueless 😂
@the_Jimmyest_of_Jim
2 ай бұрын
Bro I'm the opposite, I actually do these signs but do them to everyone and alot of people are bamboozled cause they can't tell if I'm attracted or not. The fact that it's accidenta is the best part.
@PersonWhoAsked
Ай бұрын
he literally wrapped his arms around me and i still wonder if he's "just being friendly"
@breslinnbeck596
10 ай бұрын
I just want to say thank you for these videos! I have a really hard time with social cues and hints. Thank you for your help!
@supersillyme
10 ай бұрын
i know right, it’s so confusing for no reason.
@Psych2go
10 ай бұрын
Happy to help! 😊 Do you now feel more confident in picking up on those social cues and hints?
@supersillyme
10 ай бұрын
@breslinnbeck596
10 ай бұрын
@@Psych2go yes! Thank you 🤗
@kevinmad6099
10 ай бұрын
Wait a minute,how is this helpful if I don’t have any friends 📕😂
@Shadow_2-7
10 ай бұрын
To be honest I'm in highschool and girls normally stare at me and I can't tell if they are interested in me or they wanna be friends or they think I'm weird 😅
@thiccupcake
10 ай бұрын
based on pfp i'd say the latter
@Psych2go
10 ай бұрын
If you're curious, maybe try striking up a casual conversation and see how they respond. 😊
@yourmother12403
10 ай бұрын
@@thiccupcakedefinitely
@spacecat8511
10 ай бұрын
Just try talking to them as a friend. Whatever else is whatever else.
@MelachiDubNation2531
10 ай бұрын
@@thiccupcake you can’t judge just off a pfp 😅
@GhostlyGuardian
10 ай бұрын
For me, playful teasing, deep compliments, and the use of nicknames are common for me with friends as well. Although these are good points, this is not a guarantee! Best of luck to all!
@kgbutnot
10 ай бұрын
as i’m on the phone with my crush
@Therealgeorgekat
10 ай бұрын
I’m glad I’m not the only one
@slayermcrx7519
10 ай бұрын
I mean I find it hard to take my eyes off her because she's just that amazing. then I'll just whip my head away when she looks over, even when we're sitting together, I don't wanna make it obvious.
@juicylebron1094
10 ай бұрын
me after cashier lady smiling at me
@meidy__
10 ай бұрын
Me after my seatmate treated me softly lol
@Bangel911
10 ай бұрын
I'd also keep in mind that these signs also apply to people who would be awful partners in a relationship. For example, abusive partners, narcissistic partners, cheating partners, etc. Just because they display these signs does not mean they are good partners. These are general signs that apply to both good and bad potential partners. You're not obligated to flirt back or consider them a potential just because they flirt at you. After you acknowledge some flirting is happening and you're interested, find out if they'd make a good partner for YOU. Obvious basics of mutual respect of boundaries and self, give as much as receive, and share yourself as much as your problems and accomplishments. But also, whether or not you're compatible in terms of shared principles/morals, interests whether they be matching or opposite and in that case are you excited to share that experience with them. Not everything has to line up perfectly. As long you're excited about the future and agree to work together no matter what because you understand your relationship and each other are worth it.
@forgesoulfire1320
10 ай бұрын
Bit of a perspective dilemma. If someone had an interest but couldn't truthfully communicate it, is it that strong an interest?
@daniwilliams8054
10 ай бұрын
You must be extroverted because fear of rejection my guy
@ABDOUKH
10 ай бұрын
Fear of rejection most likely. I'm in that state because i have a crush on someone online and i'm guilty of doing pretty much all these signs but i don't see the girl interested back romantically. So i don't want to open up fearing i might lose her friendship alongside the almost 100% certainty that i'll be rejected.
@spacecat8511
10 ай бұрын
OR you can like someone romantically and have the emotional maturity to prioritize building a friendship instead. ALSO “standard” flirting can make people feel like they’re breaking out in hives. Seriously. Not everything is a “fear of rejection.” Sometimes people just want to see how friendly interactions go and THEN decide if they wanna try dating without that awful (for some-like me) objectification and pressuring of others’ attraction. Respect of boundaries and autonomy is romantic and sexy
@Psych2go
10 ай бұрын
It varies. Some might have difficulty expressing interest due to shyness, fear of rejection, or past experiences. Creating an open space for communication helps.
@randymarsh4748
10 ай бұрын
fear of rejection was already said but its even worse if its at ur workplace... imagine u get rejected but then have to work with them after would be way to awkward
@supersillyme
10 ай бұрын
oh wow, okay. i think i see why people think i’m flirting all the time then. also, as much as i love the og voice, it’s cool to hear another voice, especially a male. wasnt even sure this was the right channel for a sec!
@ModeBloxyStudio
10 ай бұрын
I was once with my Girlfriend Fliriting and Maybe this video can help me! Thanks Psych2go!
@fortbastion4436
10 ай бұрын
I just love that every vids from this channel has a soft voice, worth playing this in the background
@amanul_2474
10 ай бұрын
I got a warning for 'micro-flirting' with my Parole Officer :/
@NukeBlast321_
4 ай бұрын
😢
@kannraorhara
10 ай бұрын
As someone who is aroace and fidgets a lot in most circumstances- I feel like this sort of advice would make people get the wrong impression. I've already lost some friends when I tried explaining to them that I was aro after they confessed feelings for me, so I really wouldn't want them thinking that me giving them compliments, teasing them, giving them personal nicknames (not stuff like honey/sweetie), fidgeting when my mind wanders, is me wanting to date them. That's just me being close friends with someone. Could some people be doing these things to flirt? Sure, but if you have a crush on them, then of course you're going to interpret every little good thing they do for you as a sign of interest. Take a deep breath and confess first before making assumptions about their feelings about you.
@toslverr
10 ай бұрын
Was gonna say something along these lines as well. This video doesn't feel entirely right when I've had men misinterpret my behaviour as romantic interest more than once. I'm just trying to be nice and involved! And I love giving compliments when I genuinely like the thing I'm complimenting!
@phantomchef2217
10 ай бұрын
Can we get a follow-up on noticing the difference between this and signs of a stalker? Cause half sounds if it's unrequited could be seen as creepy.
@creativeusername237
10 ай бұрын
Being a stalker kind of means that they show heavy interest in you but are too shy to express it in any way
@phantomchef2217
10 ай бұрын
@creativeusername237 doesn't always have yo be heavy if they're a sociopath or a high functioning psychopath. If they're hot, it's micro flirting. If not, it's creepy and can be off-putting. As a guy who regularly is viewed as intimidating and overall quiet... its a bigger minefield to walk around the light teasing or constant eye contact being polite/ they're being wary of me vs. actually interested in me. In my last few relationships, I've made it a point to say unless told I wouldn't think they're interested and literally act like they're just being friendly. 3 women dated me for almost a year til paths separated. I know I miss many a chance but that's cause I'm exhausted from stepping on mines.
@ShaiLai
10 ай бұрын
@@phantomchef2217can y'all stop with yalls "it's harassment if you're not" be already? that is NOT how it works!!!! Anyone can be a flirt but the second you cross boundaries it becomes a problem. it's your behaviour, not your looks🙄😒
@phantomchef2217
10 ай бұрын
@ShaiLai ignorance is bliss, I guess. Not everyone has success in their search for a relationship. That's why I said if it's unrequited, it'll be seen as creepy. 2 people can be natural flirts and have no intention of seeing each other romantically. But the instant one crosses the line, it ruins the friendship. Seen both sides of the coin and lost good relationships cause of it.
@ShaiLai
10 ай бұрын
@@phantomchef2217 how am I ignorant? and what was the point of your "it's flirting if you're hot it's creepy if you're not" comment? y'all just love attacking women for rejecting you and your fragile egoes🤦🏾♀️
@beethebeanbag692
10 ай бұрын
BRO IM SO LONLEY SO I WATCH THESE AND I THINK IT ACTUALLY WORKED AS I SENT A RISKY TEXT AND THEY RESPONDED WELL!! THEY ARE DROPPING HINTS TOO!!❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰
@beethebeanbag692
10 ай бұрын
My crush is dropping hints and so flustered rn lmao
@eduardoherrera2368
10 ай бұрын
Oh thanks! This just confirmed what I thought! Not even microscopically flirted :)
@neofulcrum5013
10 ай бұрын
It’s hard to tell if it’s flirting or being nice.
@anderstermansen130
10 ай бұрын
Always default to "being nice" because nobody owns a heart or feelings anymore.
@whelkpeopleofdoom
10 ай бұрын
Always assume first they are just being nice. If a friendship develops, then you can re-evaluate things. If you truly cannot tell the difference, it's safer to let other people tell you their intentions than assuming.
@whelkpeopleofdoom
10 ай бұрын
@@anderstermansen130 people who are nice do not have a heart or feelings? What? 🤔
@Alexson_Mamed
10 ай бұрын
Bruh i just felt absolutely exposed in this video, you guys nailed every single bit of it 💀
@No_timezone77
10 ай бұрын
What is with you guys dropping these at the absolute worst time 😂😭 I been questioning everything now 😂
@G4KW
10 ай бұрын
Fr lowkey
@Psych2go
10 ай бұрын
Haha, timing can be tricky! 😄 What's been on your mind since watching the video?
@DanSteakMan
10 ай бұрын
I had a weight loss surgery a year ago And since loosing 220 lbs I noticed my own growth and have gradually started flirting more then when I was huge which is nice though I haven't asked anyone out,yet 😂
@Psych2go
10 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your incredible weight loss journey! It's inspiring to hear that you've noticed personal growth and increased confidence. When it comes to taking that step to ask someone out, remember to go at your own pace.🥰
@anderstermansen130
10 ай бұрын
Damn. Exactly 99 kilo and 660 gram. Thats precision.
@Me_and_my_goldfish_monster_lia
10 ай бұрын
Don’t worry I’m seeing it right now Edit: now I’m done and thank you for making it!😊
@derhamcohomology
10 ай бұрын
I have the impression that the problem with such materials is that if you need a film/book to analyze whether someone is giving you signals, there is a good chance that you are the one who has a crush on that person, so in his/her 5,000 behaviors and statements over the course of a day you search for the one that would give you confirmation that he/she thinks this way about you too, and you ignore the other 4,999. I think in general it's simpler: you either feel it or you don't feel it.
@RowanRiverstone
10 ай бұрын
Oh man. My entire social circle must think I'm in love. Lmao I always tease, give deep compliments and personal nicknames, am very direct with eye contact and have ADHD so fidget a ton. In my case, I just like for the people I'm with to feel special and listened to since it seems like so many people need that in their lives. But then I'm also really direct. If I'm interested in someone I just tell them.
@fazilasamardzic7368
10 ай бұрын
You should put a disclaimer though for people to not immediately think they're flirting, because that kind of thing ends up getting people hurt and sometimes killed.
@LorettaSzarban
10 ай бұрын
Psych2Go is literally keeping me out of my delulu rn thank y'all so much 😭
@Let_me_get_a_name.-_-
10 ай бұрын
I tease people specially when they're so easy to tease because why not😂 and also i like to see how people react to what i do.... specially pranks and stuff
@yourintrusivethoughts
10 ай бұрын
I don’t know about this one, maybe because I don’t like the term “micro-flirting”. Because if you think about it, almost anything that an act of kindness or any attention can be deemed as “micro-flirting”, when in actuality, they’re just friendly or being respectful. I just think this is going to get a lot of people to overthink more than they usually do about interactions, and try to read something in between the lines that is simply, not there. For instance, eye contact isn’t that unique I think. I was raised believing that if you don’t have eye contact with someone you’re speaking to, it’s seen as disrespectful. Or you could be perceived as not confident. Plus a lot of these actions on the list, you can easily do with a close platonic friend. I think it could be a sign of affection sure but flirting can be seen as a bit of a stretch. I just see a lot of people getting their hope up from this video and being pretty disappointed
@zoejane5563
10 ай бұрын
Agree
@alainakatie1377
10 ай бұрын
agreed. But I think he might have meant when you catch someone staring at you repeatedly or something of that sort, but in a flirtatious way?
@icandoeddiething
10 ай бұрын
Nah because this made me realize I'VE been micro-flirting with my crush 😭 Playful teasing: Absolutely. I always take a chance to joke or lightly tease him about something that I know won't offend him. When he laughs at it, I know I've succeeded. Eye contact: Yes, but no? I hold prolonged eye contact with EVERYONE. It just feels awkward to me to not do that unless I'm doing something while talking to them. But if it's an across the room staring kind of thing, then definitely not. I REFUSE to be an open book! Social Media: Not this one, I don't even have his number lol. Increased attentiveness: Me, no. I'm the same with everyone lol. Him, yes. He seems so chill and smooth with me, but then with his friends and/or sister, he seems like a totally different guy! Deep compliments: Ish? I try to compliment him once in a while, but it's hard because we don't talk often enough for it to not be weird that I'm complimenting him. And when I do get a chance, it's more like the playful teasing than a compliment. Fidgeting: Depends on the situation totally. If I'm sitting down just chillin then I'm absolutely gonna fidget while talking with him, I'm just the type that needs something to do with my hands (hence my current pen-spinning skill). If I'm doing something else (for instance, giving out bulletins was the scenario of when we last talked), then I'm already busy, so there's no time fidgeting. I also don't like fidgeting, so I try to avoid it when I can. Using nicknames: Nope! I wouldn't dare use a nickname yet. Though maybe I'll try referring to him as his last name once in a while, that might be fun :P Though he usually calls me "What's up?" once in a while, especially when starting a conversation 🤣
@nelliebellie2222
10 ай бұрын
I do most of these with almost every friend I make and I feel bad if they assumed its micro flirting cuz I didnt intend to 💀
@spacecat8511
10 ай бұрын
Don’t. If they do and either feel awkward or take offense, that’s on them. If you aren’t directly asking them out, and if they’re not directly asking what your intentions are or asking you to change your behavior, it really is *fine.* I act this way too. There’s only a *slight* increase when I’m romantically attracted to someone. However. If I truly wanted to act on it, then I would. I shouldn’t have to deal with people being nosy about how I feel privately, nor making assumptions over behavior that doesn’t have a facet of romantic attraction to it whatsoever.
@nelliebellie2222
10 ай бұрын
@@spacecat8511 Ur right thx u
@TKBarnes
10 ай бұрын
As a man in my 30s I have absolutely no intention on "following up" on micro cues. If you're interested in me - you tell me that. I will not play games, I will not respond to anything other than a clear "I am interested" (whatever direct form it might take). Partly because I'm bad at meaningful social interaction. But *mostly* because I will not risk getting labelled a creep, perv or worse because I misread something.
@SilverLight___
3 ай бұрын
Once again I feel exposed by my behavior with no clue if the feeling is mutual😂 I'll find out in time, thanks for the amazing helpful videos😃
@HesRightBehindMeIsntHe
10 ай бұрын
Hallo, I haven’t watched the video yet but this gon be helpful I can alr tell.✨
@fade2241
10 ай бұрын
Good list and I think they could add making excuses to talk to you for little to no reason :)
@spacecat8511
10 ай бұрын
Yes but also consider: it’s also pretty normal friendly behavior for some, and it only really matters if the intent is there. I…really don’t change how I interact with people I’m trying to build community with or think I might be falling in love with and I don’t intend to. If there’s no direct request to try dating or to be left alone then…yeah. It’s JUST friendly behavior and anything else is subconcious and nunya, sorrynotsorry lmao
@Nothereforit174
8 ай бұрын
Consequences and affect matter over your intent, if i burn your home out of love, you still fuckin lost it and don’t have to be enthused nor is what I did acceptable. This is why y’all will get respect last out of everyone and be ridiculed the most. You will learn to respect human psychology under our social norms or suffer for it,so laugh it off lol because that’s what is gonna happen next time you get hurt for being ace. Everyone will laugh it off
@Japanthewoman
10 ай бұрын
About to warch the video. My guesses: eye contact, leaning in, mirroring, finding excuses to spend time with you, change in tone of voice. Watch enough psych 2 go vids and they all start ro blur together. Let's see how I do...
@thegreatbamboozle8857
10 ай бұрын
Im autistic and eye contact is the worst. I know its a huge social cue and I wonder if thats why i struggle with finding footing in dating. Do i come off as disinterested? Also the fidgeting... Its usually just stimming or not being able to do so. Fidgetting is so normal for me that I can't think of a time i would have noticed anyone else doing it. I am confusion
@ej_matthewsart
4 ай бұрын
2:39 "dont underestimate the importance of BODY LANGUAGE!!" Lolol well timed visual
@hopesjourneyVA
10 ай бұрын
I just learned what tone indicators meant this year... Like /pla for platonic and /t for tease. We should normalize them more often. And if they are normal, then hell, I'd be able to tell what the hell's going on LMAO 3:00
@Siniset
10 ай бұрын
I have a crush and I'm analyzing whether I do these things mentioned 1 - yes 2 - yes 3 - Following a lot but not interacting that much 4 - I see her too rarely to say anything on this one. But I don't want to look like a fool when she's around. 5 - Yes 6 - Partly yes 7 - No
@BeanieDoesAJ
10 ай бұрын
For me fidgeting is just my anxiety 😘
@Eric_Gurt
Ай бұрын
Hmm
@potato.pudding
10 ай бұрын
Me with ADHD fidgeting 24/7 👁 👄 👁
@TheRevivist
10 ай бұрын
I would appreciate any and all replies to my situation. This exact thing happened to me at my workplace back in May-June. Eye contact, playful teasing, etc. I thought she was being friendly, but all my co-workers were asking when I was going to ask her out, saying she was flirting with me, etc. When someone does these things to me, I tend to match their energy, because it's fun. Weeks go by and I eventually ask if they want to hang out outside of work. I only asked them twice in between 2 weeks. She declined both occasions, so I gave up, some days later my boss tells me that she had called me a creep behind my back and tried reporting me for sexual harassment. The exact same thing is happening again, except she's touchier when it comes to teasing. Just more physical interactions so to speak. I'm stuck between completely blowing them off and ignoring them in fear of this happening again or just not making the move. It's a complicated situation because on one hand, we've already hung out outside of work, she asked me to. But on the other hand she has a boyfriend. I'm just so confused y'all, it's not fair.
@meidy__
10 ай бұрын
Your not alone IM ALSO CONFUSED. She's a bummer how could she! lolol she called you a creep 😭 and also has a boyfriend! HAHAHHAHA but just sayin' maybe she found it fun or maybe being flirty is her normal behavior (??😭)
@TheRevivist
10 ай бұрын
@@meidy__ Sorry I guess I should have specified its happening again but with a different woman. The first one got fired for reasons not related to this.
@meidy__
10 ай бұрын
@@TheRevivist its happening AGAIN???! Man you gotta be handsome irl
@venomousbluefrog
10 ай бұрын
@@meidy__ At work? Has a boyfriend already? HARD PASS
@meidy__
10 ай бұрын
@@venomousbluefrog agree
@jamaul1391
10 ай бұрын
I've experienced all of those, only sad part is, I'm the one doing them😭
@meidy__
10 ай бұрын
💀💀💀💀💀 LOLOLOLOLOL
@MaskedViolinist07
10 ай бұрын
Only one point missing-no one I’ve ever had a crush on or feelings for has flirted, even microscopically back with me. Sure I’ve been flirted with, but it’s insignificant to me and disheartening to have never had my feelings reciprocated. I don’t know if I’ll ever experience that flirtation you can’t stop dreaming about. 💔
@slytherindork8459
10 ай бұрын
Ok but like..I think he’s just flirty/friendly with everyone. He’s touchy and talkative and keeps eye contact and he has a GIRLFRIEND. Like idk what his deal is. Like he pays me attention but I’m not special so like, idk. And there’s this guy who almost always likes my instagram stories but doesn’t comment. And he’s always hanging out with this other girl and I’m 90% sure they’re dating…
@Casedork
10 ай бұрын
Question: is it actually healthy to spend so much time reading into other people’s often very ambiguous behavior?
@arian_the_worm
10 ай бұрын
I also want to know
@venomousbluefrog
10 ай бұрын
@@arian_the_worm that's a different video perhaps.
@supertron6039
10 ай бұрын
Psych2go: posts a video about something called "micro-flirting" Me: _"is it possible to learn this power?"_
@karenneico
10 ай бұрын
Any chance can do a video on intuition vs trauma
@ceriseq143
10 ай бұрын
I like how these are short and have so much useful information!
@MayasPoppyFlower
10 ай бұрын
Thanks now I know how to avoid people!
@Stephanie-rf9xs
10 ай бұрын
Overall, I found this video caused me great stress especially the social media because that would make me feel like I was being stalked!
@steveguti6452
10 ай бұрын
Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for elderly couple Suzy and husband desvasted leaks that flooded entire apartment which is not livable they desperately need your prayers for a solution please pray for them God bless you all
@rain2269
9 ай бұрын
I didnt intend to fall. He threw the hook, caught me, then let me go. Now I'm all wounded.
@a-goblin
10 ай бұрын
i'm not being flirty here, i just want to say brandon's voice is so relaxing.
@NYCTOSEE
10 ай бұрын
0:22 is that Yuno & Yuki? That’s so cute omg! Edit: not them being under Toxic Relationship LMFAOOOOO edit 2: Love all the Yuno cameos in this one!! the RED FLAG ones are the best
@Ayacchi
10 ай бұрын
They are, hahaha! Thank you so much for noticing! 💖
@NYCTOSEE
10 ай бұрын
@@Ayacchi Of course!! Tysm for commenting!! Your art style is so amazing! You make these vids to me! 🫶🏽🥰
@idc4163
10 ай бұрын
Don’t support my delusions
@Divyanshi-q9n
10 ай бұрын
Can you do signs for micro-flirting as an online friend ? I really need to know if someone likes me back . By the wayy , I love ur videos , there's just so much to know from them !! I'll always support u!
@steveguti6452
10 ай бұрын
Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for neighbor Cheryl having alot difficult situations she said she needs Jesus and desperately needs your prayers for a miracle please pray for her praying for everyone everyday God bless you all
@cyber_farce
10 ай бұрын
The background music is very relaxing and enjoying
@Moonlightmagic28
10 ай бұрын
I genuinely love your videos! They are so relatable! I have a question... what can one text to their crush that they don't know that much; and how would they start their conversation? I have a crush, but I don't really know them. How should I text them?
@Moonlightmagic28
10 ай бұрын
or start the text conversation? thanks!
@lisat273
10 ай бұрын
I guess the first question is, do you have their number?
@thegreatbamboozle8857
10 ай бұрын
If you're friends on social you could try something they seem interested in. I once asked someone who was a huge movie goer for some suggestions, we had a short conversation that I followed up later to talk about the movie. A simple conversation is a good way to feel out whether or not they're willing to reciprocate.
@anderstermansen130
10 ай бұрын
How many people is your crush exactly?
@Moonlightmagic28
10 ай бұрын
@@anderstermansen130 one... lol
@AnReisNOTASIGMA7777
10 ай бұрын
step 1: *Talk to your crush 🫡*
@heavensfield494
10 ай бұрын
I notice how some people will try to semi flirt with you because they are unsure about advancing the relationship, so if you go in before they are ready, they would just leave or say no. It’s like friedship but you would feel like you are dating
@kiarita6495
10 ай бұрын
SOMEONE HELP so he likes me and he already told me he liked me, but he says hes not ready for dating, and i respect, BUT IDK HOW I FEEL BC IVE NEVER LIKED ANYONE AND NO ONE HAS EVER LIKED ME LIKE THAT BEFORE 😭 some one help idk what to do 😭
@mirolarana
10 ай бұрын
How old are u?
@DeSeannMaye
10 ай бұрын
You just have to accept it for what it is right now. Either focus on yourself or start seeing other people. Don’t wait for anyone. Just relax and let things be what it is for your own sanity
@jujuoof174
10 ай бұрын
Loved the Little Mermaid and others cameo!
@jeterf3649
9 ай бұрын
I personally use social media flirting like on here on KZitem
@pinacolada3952
10 ай бұрын
I'm in love lol
@venomousbluefrog
10 ай бұрын
Some people do all of these things because they like the attention and get off on leading you on. "Simulation of interest" I call it. It's not always the case but it's enough of a thing that you should not attach too much importance to vague "micro" signs.
@akoaykilalamo
10 ай бұрын
Micro-floating 💀
@Casual_Goof
10 ай бұрын
I’m not sure why, but my brain has never comprehended flirting of any kind. Kind of like how some folks can’t comprehend sarcasm.
@twagg1484
10 ай бұрын
👍
@dwightturner1339
10 ай бұрын
I am myself have a weird habit to look at people in their eyes for couple minutes n maintain eye contact while give a slight smile. I just realized that sometimes people feel uncomfortoble because of me
@steveguti6452
10 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he was Buried and that he rose again the third day praise God praying for everyone everyday God bless you all 🙏
@kiarita6495
10 ай бұрын
Amen 🥰🥰❤️
@priscillajimenez27
10 ай бұрын
The Ursula reference to body language 😂
@Ayacchi
10 ай бұрын
Hahaha, thank you for noticing! 🤣 I knew it has to be in the video the moment body language is mentioned~
@ID_Kevin
10 ай бұрын
Best to be intentional with your feelings. Flirting is so much easier when the feelings are out
@Exvinnittyy-CC
10 ай бұрын
As a loner I see this as a Huge W.
@spicymemes7458
10 ай бұрын
Its like microaggressions, but in a good way
@MusicalGirl2311
10 ай бұрын
It’s a good thing that I’m not interested in relationships or dating, because I’m autistic. I can make eye contact, but it’s very uncomfortable, and I fidget when I’m not even thinking about anything. Everything else in this video, I can’t stand.
@vivianelaisdefarias
10 ай бұрын
Crushing on this voice ✨
@crow3370
10 ай бұрын
I have 0 flirting skills let alone know when someone is flirting with me like I said before the only way I know if someone tells me
@DanielSilva-gc4xz
10 ай бұрын
As someone who never "talked" to a woman, I hope this becomes usefull in the future.
@litpotat5601
Ай бұрын
I'm starting to think I might just be weird because I always hold eye contact in conversation no matter who I'm talking to. If anything, I give less eye contact when I like someone because I don't want them to read me. They say eyes are the window to the soul, and I didn't believe it until I looked someone in the eyes and suddenly knew exactly what she wanted. No words were exchanged, she couldn't have hidden it if she wanted to. That's why I avoid prolonged eye contact with people I secretly admire. I won't be able to hide my feelings until I'm ready if they can just see it in my soul
@Jacob.Seth.Pulcifer.
4 ай бұрын
Okay.
@mspaulsonn7807
10 ай бұрын
my crush told me that I was smart and hard working. And she told me to trust myself because she did
@marcodalu5494
10 ай бұрын
2:40 wonderful quote 🥲
@danteblamberti
10 ай бұрын
The "Body Language" reference from The Little Mermaid, I love you
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