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@patticlark7870
Жыл бұрын
I am 65 and spent my whole life (so far) taking care of everyone else -- my crazy mother, all the kids she had, my kids and now my husband. My husband would rather D.I.E. than do something he doesn't want to. The "live for yourself" advice is spot on. I intend to spend the rest of my life doing what I have always wanted to. He is welcome to join me any time he wants ... But I have things to do!! 😊
@jimnelson9775
Жыл бұрын
Go you! Your comment made my day, and I wish you all the best!
@NewCreation6123
Жыл бұрын
I am 62 and spent my like taking care of other including my fur babies. I don't do anything for myself, I am drowning here
@patticlark7870
Жыл бұрын
@@NewCreation6123 I feel ya girl!! Right now I have a half dozen rabbits (mostly for the butt nuggets they give me for the garden 😁), 10 chickens (for eggs for me, the old man, and a couple of neighbors), a dog that was dumped at a nearby lake who followed me home 8-9 years ago, 2 kittens I rescued from under a porch, and a baby sparrow that was trapped in the automatic door at Walgreens a few days ago. 😬😬😬 But they are different. They love me no matter what and they are what keeps me from being a real psycho. 😉 I was severely injured in an accident 3 years ago and thought my life was over. But ... I've made some MAJOR changes in the last few months. Quit a job I couldn't handle (too physical for the injuries I have), quit worrying about everyone else and started taking care of me. I still have a LONG way to go but you can get out. The trick for me was baby steps. I never get EVERYTHING on my list done but I get SOMETHING done every day. And I've finally scared the old man into believing he will die a slow painful death if he doesn't leave a room EXACTLY like he found it. 😁😉🤣 I love that man but DAMN he is a slob. 🤷🤷🤷
@sjchan3199
Жыл бұрын
Good on you!, time to have some me time. You deserve it.
@lindalacey9671
Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness you sound like me. But I no longer have a husband😂. Life is so short live life to the fullest!
@craigrussell2045
Жыл бұрын
The secret to wealth is saving for a better investment. I feel exceptionally lucky I started investing in my early 40s and compounded my income to create more cash flow. I grew to a 7 figure well-diversified portfolio having exposure to different prolific investments mainly blue chip stocks, bonds and high yield dividend funds. ever grateful to Trisha Jean Webb my F.A... Now house and cars all paid off and no other debt.
@lucyAngletont
Жыл бұрын
I started investing a little while ago and I've come to realize that nothing beats first hand experience.
@CliffWarrensmith
Жыл бұрын
Did a quick web search, she has a pretty decent bio, I wrote her and I'm waiting on her reply.
@RandyPelletier
Жыл бұрын
That's quite impressive, you've surely made a good bit of money.
@danicegewiss862
Жыл бұрын
As a minimalist, I can wash our dishes in five minutes. I can fold our laundry in five minutes, too. It takes me about an hour to clean the whole house.
@MsArtistwannabe
Жыл бұрын
I’m just working on small sustainable changes to my lifestyle to improve it. One year in. Learned to make some awesome homemade artisan sour dough breads. Started walking,biking and yoga. It’s been awesome. I’m stronger, thinner and hoping my stats at my next physical have changed a bit.
@wanderinghome9979
Жыл бұрын
Instead of a countdown, I like to say, “ and… Now, for my next trick…”. As I walk off to do the next necessary mom thing.
@janettapearl332
7 ай бұрын
Lol, I love this. 😆
@justagirl665
7 ай бұрын
Love it!
@clairekirkwood8939
Жыл бұрын
Create systems, not goals. Great advice. 👍
@jemmapage1826
Жыл бұрын
I'm 33, 34 in December and I've always looked after others. I was my mum's unpaid carer since I was about 7/8, mainly to keep her happy and make sure she felt loved. I do everything I can to help the environment and do right for others. I'm always happy to look after my fur babies and help someone else's as well.
@ibdam1
Жыл бұрын
Love this. I’ve used a 12 minute rule for my sons as they grew up. Today as adults they still use it. The 5 minute rule is nice for an adult individual.
@philipw4849
Жыл бұрын
I am getting better at waking up earlier and the first thing I do is empty the dishwasher, scoop the litter, and prepare the morning coffee all within 5 minutes.
@agus__sanchezz
Жыл бұрын
- SUMMARY - - Set a timer for 5 minutes and then clean - Make terrible stuff (do something is better than do nothing) - 5 seconds rules (countdown from 5 and then DO IT) - Live for yourself - Set systems not goals - Talking to professionals (therapist) - How can this be positive? (find a positive pov in all situations) - Be a criminal (breack some rules)
@sovereign_soul_2024
Жыл бұрын
and - Experiment with it! Thanks for this list btw!
@rubyus7332
Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir! I like to have a list, it’s a part of the system! 😊 I wish Gabe stars to make a list for his videos, would be so helpful!😊
@angelamarie222
Жыл бұрын
Thank you love! ❤
@Liugreenslade
Жыл бұрын
Quality not quantity when it comes to friends
@norahdenovan8658
Жыл бұрын
Just discovered this guy, He’s so lovely. I’m in my 60’s& have had my up’s& downs’s, I have my problems at the moment& it’s making me angry as it’s out of my hands 🤦♀️aa a I feel time is running away& I’m trapped , will look up what you recommended , thank you, you have cheered mmm e up ❤
@christinenichols8637
Жыл бұрын
I love find the positive because it means everything is a win somehow.
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
It is! You win or you learn
@BOOMBiggityBam
Жыл бұрын
5 minute rule is brilliant! I set 5 minutes on my watch timer with it auto restarting indefinitely. 5 minutes to put away wash, 5 minutes in bathroom, 5 minutes in kitchen now I'm 5 minutes to watch youtube and then I goto the living room. Having my watch go off and vibrate is the perfect reminder to "just keep moving"
@rebeccastanley3152
7 ай бұрын
Five minutes timer to clean is “life changing”. I get so much done in just five minutes and use this method all throughout my day. My toddlers have even caught on and will say “Alexa, set a timer for five minutes” and will pick up there toys.
@riaware7747
Жыл бұрын
"Be a Criminal", my Dad was a big proponent of just doing things (never to intentionally hurt anyone) and he would say, 'if you don't kill anyone, than it's fine":)
@granitemoss1451
Жыл бұрын
I am a people-pleaser sort. Over the years I have worked on making the person I aim to please ME and it has made all the difference.
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
👏
@sunshine9016
Жыл бұрын
Good advice!! I have a 1 is better than none rule which, in effect is very similar to what you're saying. I also have a rule (for myself) that demands that I do "quick things" such as 100 steps on my treadmill rather than standing around waiting for my toast to get brown ha! etc. I love your create systems advice. Setting goals doesn't mean just speaking them.
@gracecuff8515
Жыл бұрын
Doing something badly is my takeaway- THANKYOU - I heard this is anew way!
@user-ju8hk2wv2p
Жыл бұрын
What you say no to is just as impactful as opportunities you say yes to
@weslol9140
Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh I love you already please keep making videos I am in such a rut and so depressed and I don’t know why
@dinabentley1207
Жыл бұрын
🎉Thank you! You just gave me advice/inspiration that will help me change my life. 🎉
@teejay1650
Жыл бұрын
Looking for the positive in all things is very fun and so relaxing. If I miss a street when driving I believe I’m supposed to go a different way and it kept me safe… maybe it kept me out if an accident or getting a flat tire! I slightly disagree with the last idea. I had an ex that said, that wasted 2 minutes of my life. It’s like… RElax! It was so irritating. Plus, maybe you’re suppose to take the extra two minutes putting away dishes because it kept you from getting into a car accident later when you left the house (Remember? Lesson number 3! Look for the positive).
@sarahpalm7661
Жыл бұрын
Ok got the cringey KZitem video channel started✔️ Got everyone involved in cleaning the house for 5 minutes ✔️ Reread Atomic Habits and am on a 9 day streak of building a better system. Positively enjoyed watching your new video ❤️ Bent the rules a little by going on a morning stroll at work today while waiting for my machines to warm up. Great video, loved the sheep footage from your vacation.
@ReadMore-tz4nz
Жыл бұрын
So weird to see my thoughts reflected twice in this video. I literally have cut everything and live to make myself happy.
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
That’s great!
@marywilliamson2559
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the new video. I haven't watched in awhile, and I realized I've been missing out. Gonna try the countdown suggestion, sounds good
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for coming back!
@awomanofvalueandworth5936
Жыл бұрын
Awesome stuff Gabe! Don’t be disheartened if I don’t comment as much, Life is busy. ❤
@roshashton8173
10 ай бұрын
thank you Gabe, watching you inspired me to pick up a copy of Atomic Habits, and slowly change the way i live and think
@maryokeefe2144
Жыл бұрын
Gabe, love your channel. I actually met you and your lovely wife in 2019 at The Elms. I scanned your tickets and assured you it was OK to take pics on the lawn. I only worked there one year. I only realized this when I saw the video clip of you on the lawn of the property, I didn't know your name or anything, youtube just presented you in a minimalist search. :) Gosh it is a small world. You and your wife were polite and kind. Wishing you all a lovely life.
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
Wow that’s super cool! Thank you so much!
@vivicadesign
Жыл бұрын
The 'don' t be afraid to make crappy KZitem videos' really resonated with me as I was so afraid to upload my first video 😊 But I took your advice to set up systems, not goals, and now I'm planning to upload one video each week. Thank you so much ❤
@andrewbieger5004
Жыл бұрын
Great stuff. I am gonna jump start a few things this weekend regarding systematizing the 'goals', setting deadlines for the individual steps of the process. Having a detailed, yet manageable, list of such tasks seems much more doable than looking at the gargantuan 'end goal'. Also just ordered a couple digital timers to minimize the wasted time in front of the computer when supposedly 'working'. I have found that the total hours of wasted time in an evening can be HUUUGE. That translates to MUCH lost opportunities.
@carolannegodding9518
11 ай бұрын
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@carolannegodding9518
11 ай бұрын
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@allyboballymomally7440
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching you since before your hair was gray!
@gymsanctuary4020
Жыл бұрын
A guy was telling me he doesn’t go to the gym because he thinks people are looking at him. No one cares I told him. Honestly people got themselves to work on and no one cares so just do it.
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
For sure! No one cares just do you
@gymsanctuary4020
Жыл бұрын
@@GabeBult He has such a loss for where he could be.
@jramirez6150
Жыл бұрын
Gabe makes Monday fun-day!! Thanks Gabe!
@yessumify
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the very wise advice. I hope you are doing well.
@SuperUpgrades
Жыл бұрын
Change your life like me (at my worst, I had so much tableware /mugs/cups, spoons knives forks -- I even bought a trolley for placing stuff on while stuff was in the dishwasher!). Now - I have 1 bowl, 1 plate, 1 mug, 1 spoon,1 knife, 1 fork - I wash up using only water right away after ... unless oil based residue - life changer
@Linda-fg2rz
Жыл бұрын
Love all these ideas. Thanks!
@yeseniasplace
Жыл бұрын
Your vibe is epic and I will break some rules! Love. Your advice
@DIYStangsandFreedom
Жыл бұрын
This is great to get me out of the way mood. Love the 5 min ruel
@denisemcdougal6445
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤I needed this today
@jimnelson9775
Жыл бұрын
Gabe, my “homework” from my therapist was to (basically) break the rules…like not always immediately clear up, or going outside my comfort zone. I enjoy your videos, and have shared with my sister and my niece. 😊
@Immanuelmsa
9 ай бұрын
Thank you Gabe 🙏🏻
@dravengore9475
Жыл бұрын
Definitely one of the best videos so far. Good work.
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏 appreciate it
@hazieeasy
Жыл бұрын
i really like all of your videos. ive been listening to your videos every of my driving to work. so how come u havent post any of your video sounds on spotify? ❤
@sherrymeurer
Жыл бұрын
As I lay on the couch watching another video and the washing machine is done...5..4..3..2..1....🤷♀️
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
Lol 😂
@blauerfisch
Жыл бұрын
Great video! Thanks a lot😊!!! 🙏👏😃🎯
@clarencehershberger2058
Жыл бұрын
Brother, you are such a blessing. Thank you and keep up the good advice!
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@kayleestevens95
Жыл бұрын
Wait so is it faster putting the dishes out on the counter first or directly away?
@katbunn957
Жыл бұрын
I have found that putting dishes on counter first IS better 😊 I can now stack dishes, bowls, plastics cups, take cups with handles - all at same time to their destination !! Only exception-I take silverware rack to it's area and unload from that counter 😊❤ Have a blessed day 😊
@grtoocool
Жыл бұрын
The countdown thing is interesting. I never thought about it that way. I have done it randomly when turning off a hot shower that is so damn comfortable but I'll have to try it when waking up from a nap. I'm often annoyed with myself, knowing I want to nap for 30 minutes and even setting an alarm won't get me up. I often take a second nap immediately and the next thing I realized, I wasted my whole afternoon napping for 2-3 hours. I'll definitely try the countdown stuff to apply to more things in life.
@LivingProcess
Жыл бұрын
Apsolitly brilliant (as always) Love Live for yourself. Always look on the bright side of life.
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
Definitely agree!
@kennethbailey9853
Жыл бұрын
Thank You.
@rubyus7332
Жыл бұрын
Brilliant as always! 😊 Mundane things? It’s what in your mind. Tell yourself “I’m not just unloading a dishwasher, I’m doing stretching and it’s not boring, it’s fun instead!” And it feels good already, isn’t it?! 😊😊😊
@pattymcgee2
Жыл бұрын
Enjoy the channel, thanks for putting in the time.
@chapternext3518
Жыл бұрын
I love this video and I love our crappy videos! (They're wonderful memories of amazing things we've done). I'm practicing a lot of what you've mentioned here these days and for the first time in longer than I can remember, I'm truly at peace and happy.
@jennyjenkins877
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing some words of motivation during your family's trip!
@Zdlifestyle
Жыл бұрын
Love this !
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@poppyred7865
6 ай бұрын
Need to store your cups/ glasses upside down. Stops spiders crawling in them and dying because they can’t get out.
@johncabrera3126
Жыл бұрын
Awesome tip's 🎉🎉❤
@doreentrees6000
Жыл бұрын
Simplicity= true freedom to be your Self. 💫
@LaurenOKane-kd5tw
Жыл бұрын
I just had to come back around and make it be known that I called Gabe out on a recent video for negative self talk, and now he’s profiting off of it. RESPECT! Where’s my cut 👀 jkjk I hope you practice more positive affirmations tho. Thanks for all you do!!
@Obiersf
Жыл бұрын
'Be A Criminal' is very risky one and can lead to many problems.
@philipw4849
Жыл бұрын
You don't know until you try it.
@SirMopy
Жыл бұрын
@@philipw4849try it in texas and just go to a property you don’t own. get shot and then what?! daaaaang i broke the rules, but it was my „right“ to do so..?!
@carolinemarie44
Жыл бұрын
I've done this my whole life❤
@dosomethingwithyourlifeh3987
Жыл бұрын
“ Drama” I tell people who cares? I stay away from it.
@doitsimply6628
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Gabe for this valuable information. I want to experiment with 'don't have to ask for permission for everything'.
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
It’s a life-changing mindset
@Katrix516Gaming
Жыл бұрын
Would love to see the Video...
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
What video?
@kartikyadav5704
Жыл бұрын
@@GabeBult This one...
@MrGilperc
Жыл бұрын
"Don't follow the rules" to a point. I wouldn't say bomb while I'm on the TSA line at the airport.
@doronuzanhebrew
8 ай бұрын
astonishing
@chadnature81
Жыл бұрын
The more I improve my life I see more gray hair growing 😂
@nuggetsss2526
Жыл бұрын
I’m a weirdo and I’m loving it
@teejay1650
Жыл бұрын
Lesson number 6… don’t get caught (or arrested) 😂😂😂
@NervousSimetimes
Жыл бұрын
Oh you amuse me.
@x9872
Жыл бұрын
願意從小的地方開始做,開始改變 才能讓我們的人生有最好的轉變~~
@christielafountain8121
Жыл бұрын
When you talked about being a weirdo and describing yourself you totally described me and I laughed. Thank you for this and for the great start to my day!
@BLK2000
Жыл бұрын
Why do ppl ALWAYS say this????? I estimate the time it will take.....and its always takes LONGER!!! I cant be the only one??????
@glendarowland9396
Жыл бұрын
Hi Gabe , where do you buy your t shirts ?
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
They are no longer for sale
@teenoso4069
Жыл бұрын
It sounds like you are paraphasing Eckhart Tolle in some parts here
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
I have read him so it’s possible lol
@user-ju8hk2wv2p
Жыл бұрын
Improve with Studying Who God is and Who he says you are. We have unique skills no one else does.
@freezemanfrost
Жыл бұрын
😁 You showed the text about breaking rules, not the law so quick! Good nudging not speedwatch!!! 😆
@Vero.does.better
Жыл бұрын
Wait... So you are not going to tell me what the best way to empty the dishwasher is? Whyyyyyyyyy
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
I’m still working that out I will get back to you when I have the definitive answer
@kenlasky3904
Жыл бұрын
There were 9 things mentioned, but the title says 8. Was this a test? Should number 10 be “Be Attentive?” 😀😀😀
@MsRockingIt
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! This really motivated me to want to write my first novel! 🎉
@chadbutler3277
10 ай бұрын
Ok Gabe what are you doing with all these minutes hours and days that you are freeing up? :)
@triumfant2
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I don’t agree with be a criminal doing what you want. You really said that? Not ok with you telling people it’s ok!
@hngrc.u
Жыл бұрын
♥️
@JackTheRipper-nw6wk
Жыл бұрын
Do you still play video games Gabe?
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
With friends yeah
@jimsouthlondon7061
Жыл бұрын
The 5 minute rule video ,it’s 7 minutes 42 seconds long
@julianharrington7262
Жыл бұрын
Promo`SM
@margaretek5350
Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌
@debby-lynjessop8936
Жыл бұрын
Better up equals HARRY AND MEGAN. NO THANK YOU
@tanisemmello
Жыл бұрын
❤
@milenateodorescu5450
Жыл бұрын
For me it worked for me the 2 minutes rule, that’s different from the rule in this video, this video explains how it works: kzitem.info/news/bejne/womer2eKf3SKqJw
@user-uw1dj6pq8l
Жыл бұрын
Second
@GabeBult
Жыл бұрын
Wicked fast 🔥
@mart1n10601
Жыл бұрын
I will enver like a vide of yours that doens't have the timestamps/breaks in your video for lsits like this. just lazy. disliked.
@xiaosha1558
Жыл бұрын
I will never like a comment of yours that is in dire need of a proofreader and is factually inaccurate…
@mart1n10601
Жыл бұрын
@@xiaosha1558 didn't even read your comment bro. lmfao idc what u say
@earthwyrm6756
Жыл бұрын
Timestamps ARE at bottom of Description section.
@sarahr6089
Жыл бұрын
Ooh the countdown is a new idea for me, i am going to try it right now to get up out of bed! 5...4...3...2...1... 😊
@LaurenOKane-kd5tw
Жыл бұрын
I learned the countdown (I count up) as a youngin and, when I remember to do it, “123 go” does the trick. Going to be more mindful about this now! Currently experiencing a breakthrough about responsibility thanks for the growth Gabe I appreciate you for being a token of motivation!!
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