Such high expectations for ur daughters my goodness. Now if they were all boys would they have accomplish ur dads dreams? Smh... having 9 daughters is such a huge blessing bc some dont have any. Appreciate what u have
@pengvang5831
3 жыл бұрын
I understand your father's desperation and need. I'm glad your father was a great father to all you daughters, and a great husband for your mother unlike many people out there in the same situation.
@realmemobile8865
Ай бұрын
9บชๆๆขๆลีลาลชล
@windyflower10
3 жыл бұрын
My parents had 11 of us daughters. He respects us and never speaks low of us. He’s never married another and always stayed with my mother.
@maihmoob3646
3 жыл бұрын
A real gentleman. ❤🧡💛
@magicalunicorn5853
3 жыл бұрын
I have all girls and my husband doesn’t care for more. He’s never thought of who going to hold his head at the funeral because that sh- don’t matter when he’s gone. What matters is us in this moment. He’s concentrating on living a full life full of happiness, joy, purpose for his daughters and me and grateful for what we have. 30+ years of marriage.
@SXIONG
3 жыл бұрын
🥲🥲🥲🥲❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@kanetoews7747
3 жыл бұрын
You guys are so lucky.
@lauj5805
3 жыл бұрын
@@magicalunicorn5853 my husband said the same thing too! Btw we have 6 girls and married for 14 years.
@pvp503
3 жыл бұрын
That is a wonderful story, so happy that you sisters has one heart..Nej tseem muaj ib pab viv ncaus sib hlub txawm tsi muaj nus. Zoo tshaj kuv maj!!! Tu siab tsis cuag li kuv o,, nus los tsi muaj, viv ncaus los tsi muaj ib leeg li tus ntseeb ya luj les tsi muaj chaw tso pa os lawv..
@kellielee9829
3 жыл бұрын
Now imagine if your father had all sons. Probably just a few out of those 9 will love your parents. Why? Because daughters work together to get things done. For the sons, their wives will control them and tell them how much to spend and threaten them of divorce if they cross their wives. Possibly fight over sunshine money and insurance money. It’s great to have daughters. You sisters did great!
@pojxeemvaj8703
3 жыл бұрын
Totally agreed!!! Not gonna lie!
@teesong8503
3 жыл бұрын
OMFG the best comment frfr!!!! And ya talking bout only girls hear the words”ua siab tev” guys get threaten of divorce. Bet ya never had to choose between cut your family off or never get to see your kids again.
@kellielee9829
3 жыл бұрын
@@teesong8503 my thoughts exactly. Idk why some women like to make their husband choose between them and their family. When you’re a guy and you’re married, there’s always greed because of the wife in most case. Not saying all sons are like that, but most I know of are especially the old middle age ones. But you can always fight for your kids and you can replace a wife; not your parents or siblings.
@teesong8503
3 жыл бұрын
@@kellielee9829 yesss exactly !!!! Girls get butt hurt saying “if you have to think twice between choosing your wife or family then u shouldn’t even married her in the first place” like tf!???? Dood I know people who choose their wife and then later on the wife left. Girls be like “ well maybe cause he wasn’t treating her good or he isn’t what she wanted” smh. If guys use that line on a girl, girls be all OH HELLL NAHHH HELLL NAHHH HE A JERK WHY WOULD HE EVEN ASK YOU TO CHOOSE.
@vangthao7012
3 жыл бұрын
Kellie lee : totally agree 100%
@maileeyang1905
3 жыл бұрын
Beauitful story. Got me a little tear for a bit. Thank you sister for sharing your story. May your mom continue to live many many more years with you all.
@magicalunicorn5853
3 жыл бұрын
Hmong people like to concentrate on what they don’t have vs. what they have infront of their eyes. Need to switch the mindset to concentrate on living life fully and loving vs dying and always the funeral. Anyone can put your body into the ground, especially if it’s the ones that love you despite being a daughter. Old traditions set up barriers!
@szs9549
3 жыл бұрын
Kv mloog mas kv quaj2 tab tom noj mov thiab mas noj g taus mov li os tus me niam tsev aw kj txoj neej neeg no nas
@missysmart8620
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story. Zoo mloog kawg os.
@maivlaujthoj7711
3 жыл бұрын
Me niam hluas koj hais neej neeg zoo mloog kawg peb tsev neeg nyiam mloog koj hais kawg os
@maivpaxiongandjulie9721
Жыл бұрын
Zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu saib dhau lawm nas mi viv n ❤❤❤❤
@pogtxawjtshiavchannel4659
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! So proud of you 9 daughters. Blessed to all the superb daughters
@ncohlubxwb5318
3 жыл бұрын
Proud all of your girls respected your parents decision. Definitely all of you will be successful life.
@kangvang8651
3 жыл бұрын
Niam laus aw koj hais li ko los yeej yog thiab os koj txiv yeej zoo siab rau qhov nej ua tau tab nej tsi yog tub es koj txiv tias zoo no los tseem tshuav ib nplooj siab mob vim tsi muaj tub no os yog koj txiv muaj tub tej yaum koj txiv txoj sia ntev dua thiab os mog
@พิรีพรแซ่วื่อ-ฝ1ภ
3 жыл бұрын
Cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li thiab lau
@MrsYaj-ei2io
3 жыл бұрын
Glad your dad is thoughtful. This story makes me so sad. Hlub koj niam thiab koj txiv kawg.
@youtubingdiva
3 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard being born as a Hmong daughter. The expectations and disrespect are among the greatest. This is such a sad story. I feel like the expectations of these daughter are so highly regarded that the daughters are being held as captives to chase their parents’ dream instead of them chasing and living freely as themselves. I hope Hmong parents out there understand the stress they put upon their children with such high expectations. Be glad for what you have and support your children for who they are and their dreams. Thank goodness these daughters did their best to keep up with their parents. God bless!
@msi.l.v4464
3 жыл бұрын
Peb niam thiab txiv yug tau peb 7 leej ntxais 1 leeg tub peb txiv hlub peb tsaj plaw thiab os peb txiv tag sim neej xyoo 2019 mas peb nco peb niam thiab txiv tsaj plaws li os aw😢😢😢
@kongmengsuavllee8387
3 жыл бұрын
Zoo kawg ua nej niam nej txiv txawm yug tau nej 9 leeg ntxhais los nej yeej hlub nej niam nej txiv tsim nyog lawm . Tej laus yeej ntshaw cov tub los nej hlub tau tsim nyog lawm lub neej pen suab nej yuav tau txais koob hmoov yam nplua miss rau yav tom ntej thiab yav thaum nej laus los nej tej tub ki yuav hlub nej li nej hlub nej niam nej txiv thiab. Kuv li kuv niam kuv txiv yug tau kuv ib leeg xwb los kuv yeej tubsiab npaum li nej thiab nej niam nej txiv yuav tso koob hmoov rau nej . Ua tsaug tau hnov nej zaj story no ua tau kuv nco kuv niam kuv txiv . kuv twb yog tus tub los kuv twb ua tsis tau li nej ua thov qhuas nej cov viv ncaus os.
@meileevaj
3 жыл бұрын
My father has no sons either. Wished I had more sisters. It’s just me and my older sister and my father was very sad like your story here too. My father passed away this April and it was very sad but we as his daughters made a simple beautiful funeral celebration for him. No matter if it’s girls or boys, parents should continue to love on their kids...
@chowe3494
3 жыл бұрын
So sad for your dad but glad that your guys were good kids and honered your parents.
@choryang9860
3 жыл бұрын
Tus. I niam laus aw..koj zaj mi neej neeg kom ces kuv yog ib tug thiab kuv muag 8 viv ncaus tsis muaj ib leej nws li thiab kv txoj kev tu siab ib yam os...
@tongyang6314
3 жыл бұрын
Nej 9 leej ntxhais ua tau zoo kawg nkaus li lawm nawb kuv thov qhuas nej, txawm koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv yug tau nej ib pab ntxhais xwb los yeej tsis khuv xim kiag vim nej yeej ua tau li cov tub ua rau nkawv lawm, nrog koj niam koj txiv zoo siab kawg li nawb pab me ntxhais aw....
@kichang1005
3 жыл бұрын
You lady did the right thing. Hmong culture need to be change everyone are born equal and should have the right to do as a man.
@daovang7148
3 жыл бұрын
Hloog nej cov viv ncaus cov lus xwb kuv twb los 2 kua muag lawm ua li nej ua xwb zoo kawg tsis muaj nws los tsis ua cas yus niam yus txiv txoj kev hlub tsis muaj neeg muab nrog nej zoo siab kawg
@ນິທານບູຮານ
3 жыл бұрын
Koj zaj no zoo kawg os
@leexiong5741
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, now in America our daughters have gained equality and respect. You know what, daughters love parents more than sons. Bravo!
@khayang284
3 жыл бұрын
Koj txiv yog ib leej txiv hlub koj niam thiab hlub nej kawg nws thiaj li xum nrauj nws tus niam yau yog li ntawv yeej tsim nyog nej hlub nws mog zoo siab ua nej hlub nws kawg
@xmeivaj6976
3 жыл бұрын
This is how life should be. Txawj muaj tub tsis muaj los its okay. Thov cov txiv tso hwjchij thiaj es hlub kom sib npaug. Great story to learn..
@solomoua5520
3 жыл бұрын
It's not that our elders want us to be doctor or lawyer but that's the only two words they know 😁
@JRxwb
3 жыл бұрын
Because they were taught that Dr and Lawyers are the highest level of education. They just don’t know about the others that are just as high and makes even more $$ lol 😂
@chueyang5392
3 жыл бұрын
Ib zaj dab neeg tu siab heev.....thov ua tsaug ua nej muab nej zaj neej neeg tuaj share rau peb ua kev kawm os mog...
@laniebcx
3 жыл бұрын
Peb Hmoob txoj kev ntseeg muab saib loj dhau lawm. Me tub me ntxhais yog nyob ntawm tus txiv cov chromosomes. Txawm tub thiab ntxhais los yog hlub lawm yeej hlub ib yam. Tabsis txeej no ntxhais tseem hlub niam hlub txiv tshaj lawm os.
@hmoobxwb7119
3 жыл бұрын
Hmoob ruam2 yog muaj girls xwb ces hais tias tim tus pojniam
@sayhau1157
3 жыл бұрын
Cas tu siab ua luaj li os
@tinhsung5335
3 жыл бұрын
Kuv los yeej muaj 7leej vis ncaus, muaj ib leej nus tiam sis lub ntuj stis pab, kuv mej nus tau stoj peb xtes thaum nwg mua 16xyooj kv tu tu siab heev li os
@liagvuechannel8966
3 жыл бұрын
Txhob tu siab os
@kialythi1323
3 жыл бұрын
Lub neej tsis muaj nus tu siab kawg li os kuv yog ib tug thiab kv niam thb kuv txiv yug tau peb 7 leej ntshais tsis muaj ib tug nus li😭😭😭
@cneyxiong55
3 жыл бұрын
What a great story! Your dad is a great man on earth!
@mayvang5902
3 жыл бұрын
Tus viv ncaus tsis txhob tu siab mog .kuv los zoo ib yam li nej thiab kuv niam tsuas yug tau peb 3 tug viv ncaus thiab xwb peb kum nqa peb niam peb txiv ib yam li nej
@chaivue4754
3 жыл бұрын
Your story reminds me of my tais (my mom’s mom). She only have my mom and my two aunties so now she’s staying with my youngest aunty but in her own separate home. I wish she’s in America so we can get her a better living area. I am thankful and grateful that my yawn txiv never married a second for a son. You father is a sweet man.
@Nou1981
3 жыл бұрын
Peb yog huab tais 7 leej ntxhais kuv txiv yeej tu siab kawg li os...tab sis peb hlub hlub kuv niam thiab kuv txiv ces zoo li nkawv kuj tsis tshua tu siab lawm thiab....
@mailee7449
3 жыл бұрын
All I can do while listening to this is cry. I love my parents so much. I have 4 brothers but my mom always tells me, my daughters loves me and your dad the most.
@klyyoung2728
3 жыл бұрын
I wish there are more stories like this. Cheating stories are so dreadful to listen to.
@leemai8893
3 жыл бұрын
Muaj ntxhais tseem tau noj tau kev hlub tshiaj los ntawm Tus tub. Txhob tu siab mpg.
@christinabthao8825
3 жыл бұрын
tsis muaj nyab muaj nus ma tu siab tshaj plaws os😭😭😭😭😭😭
@kayleenlee3993
3 жыл бұрын
My parents have 7 of us. 4 girls and 3 boys. All the girls are the ones doing everything for our parents. I truly believe we all strong enough to carry my dad's head casket at the end too. Girls are just as capable as boys.
@KuvTseemhlubkoj1
3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful story, thanks for sharing. I'm also a mother of 4 daughters w/o any sons, but we're blessed and contented of our girls. Nowadays, it doesn't matter anymore. You girls have done well and I''m sure your dad is so proud of you all.
@TrusCheng4797
3 жыл бұрын
Doctor American hais tias ntxhais yog leej txi txoj koob hmoov, thiab tus txiv cov xuab, ua tsis tau tub, nov tsis tim tus niam. Teb chaw meka ces cov ntxhais Hlub niam Hlub txiv dua lawm os. Pab nej cov me sister zoo siab hais tias nej ua tau koj txiv txoj npau suav lawm os mog
@hmoobxwb7119
3 жыл бұрын
Hmoob ruam2, yog muaj girls xwb ces liam tias yog tim tus pojniam -yug li cas los yog ntxhais xwb.
@Loves_GodSR
3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful story.
@bluelyvue4915
3 жыл бұрын
Txhob tu siab os cov muam zoo aw ne lub neej twb zoo lawm tsis ne thiaj tsi tsuav lawm qis cov me muam aw zoo rau ne cov muam lub pheev xwv zoo tsaj
@mollyt339
3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this story. When you have no brothers the relatives don’t care about you and your family. My parents too have 9 daughters no boys. This story makes me miss my dad so much. My parents are no longer with us anymore mas tu siab ua luaj os ytube phooj ywg!
@lpbmobile847
3 жыл бұрын
zoo zoo ma
@nikkivang9197
3 жыл бұрын
Tiam 21 no ntxhais hlub txiv hlub niam dua tub.
@hmoobkevkajsiabchannel1631
3 жыл бұрын
tu siab kawg li😔😔😭😭
@gamepitbull21
3 жыл бұрын
My father only had me as his only daughter of 4 boys. My parents always treated me differently but after 24 years of great loneliness, saddest and longing for a sister, my dad finally told me he wish he had more daughters who loved him and cared for him like me. Regardless, no matter what gender, your parents will always love you.
@kanetoews7747
3 жыл бұрын
I’m still waiting for my parents to appreciate me. At least yours acknowledge you. It’s very sad
@ninavang9062
3 жыл бұрын
Niam Tsuab Teev, ua li cas ib ntus no koj hais neej neeg zoo li tsaug tsaug zog tas li xwb, tej thaum koj hais lus yuam kev rhuav zoo li tsaug zog nris xwb. Cas koj tsis hais lus kom cuas plauws li yav tas los lawm.
@somman9639
3 жыл бұрын
Cov mi ntxhais zoo aw nej sawv daws yuav tau koob hmoov zoo mus tag ib sis mog
@paj235
3 жыл бұрын
These fruits are good
@paj235
3 жыл бұрын
The leaf are good for tea
@vuelor-yang7019
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story and sad at the same time. ❤️❤️
@kaciewanh1986
3 жыл бұрын
Nrog nej zoo siab uas hlub tau niam/txiv
@xuexiong2175
3 жыл бұрын
May aws..koj yuav tau so ib ntu tso os vim tia zoo li koj tsi muaj siab hai neej neeg li lawm na hai tom ntej tom qab es tsi zoo mloog li koj cov puag thaum ub lawm es pua yog koj nkee2 hai lawm os
@yerlorvang1939
3 жыл бұрын
My parents have us 7 daughters n 1 brothers my dad never marry second wife n he never complained that my mom only have daughters he always love us , when our parents pass away we are the one that take their funeral too, so this story touches me
@thedark-_-lord8285
3 жыл бұрын
When i think about it nowadays- alot of men think a son bare the last name thats all. Alot of boys nowadays are irresponsible, unmotivated to better himself, and/or don’t pursuit higher education. So therefore boy or girl in this country still hold the same values. So glad things have changed so much.
@meemeezong1827
3 жыл бұрын
This story makes me sad.😢I wish my dad was still here to see my success too.
@LovacDNZ
3 жыл бұрын
Tub yog niam hmoov, ntxhais yog txiv hmoov. Tub thiab ntxhais los hlub ib yam vim yog yus roj yus tshav os mog.
@82Brightstar
3 жыл бұрын
Nej paub hlub niam hlub txiv kawg li lawm os cov mi ntxhais!! Mloog mas los kua muag heev Kheev lam Lwm hnub yus laus es yus cov mi nyuam lam paub xav Paub hlub yus ib nrab li nej xwb mas Yus twb yuav zoo siab lawm os 😭🤧
@mayvaungh5377
3 жыл бұрын
Smart man with an excellent choice😍
@chuayang4234
3 жыл бұрын
Old saying..it's his luck to have all girls..
@qhovtseebqhovcuav3389
3 жыл бұрын
Hmong people are funny
@daovang7148
3 жыл бұрын
Txhob tu siab lawv cov mus tsis deb li nej lawv twb khib 2 lawv thiaj ua tug tsis paub nej to tawb kom deb 2 mog
@sudieyang4390
3 жыл бұрын
Muaj ntxhais xwb los yeej zoo vim teb chaws no ntxhais txawj hlub niam tais yawm txiv dua tab sis yus tu noob lawm xwb os
@mv.3dfsm715
3 жыл бұрын
Zoo lawm qhov koj txiv xaiv koj niam nej yog xaiv niam yau xyov pua tseem yuav yug tau tub thiab yog yug tau lo xyov pua tau txawj nqa koj txiv li taub hau os vim koj txiv twb to tsi tau nej tu niam hlua yau kawm tiav niam yau mam xeem lo yug ce ntshe nyuab lawm
@yuayua8986
3 жыл бұрын
Hlub nej pab viv ncauv heev os niam txiv xam tias yog niam txiv nyob rau ntawv tab si hlub nej os yog dhua ob tug laus xws li koj txiv lawm es nej lub neej tsam qee zaus es lub neej muaj kev ji sib es tshe yuav ji muaj ib tug nus pab yus daw yus lub neej kho yus lub neej los yog kom tu txiv los yog lwm tu ho jeem muaj qho tshai tias jeem tshuav tus nus los yog tu dab laug nyob muaj neej muaj nus thiab no
So sad plus so happy 4 he made 9 daughters of 0 son if he made 9 son without a daughter then they both end up in to the nursing home no one go visit all they wife want nyiaj sunshine and insurance
@maivxeemthoj2344
3 жыл бұрын
Fc
@tuszoo
3 жыл бұрын
😢
@amazinggrace8136
3 жыл бұрын
Mark 36 For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?
@maivpaxiongandjulie9721
Жыл бұрын
She sad 😭😭😭😭
@hlinagsiabhaam4169
3 жыл бұрын
Txhob ntshaw tias lawv tsis hu nej mus nrog lawv noj os. Twb muaj nej cov viv ncaus xwb txaus lawm. Lawv tsis hlub nej nej thiaj tsis Tshuav lawv nqi os.
@norrisxiong9660
3 жыл бұрын
Tiam 21 no txawm tub, txawm ntxhais los yeej zoo tib yam. (Tub tsuas yog tub cag xwb).
@katieher9172
3 жыл бұрын
I want alot of sisters, only have 2 😔
@PHvaj90
3 жыл бұрын
My parents have 11 of us girls no boys. He loves all of us and will say he has our husbands as his sons. They all get along and my dad is really open with them. He will talk to them about his hobbies and will hang out with them. My husband will miss my dad if we haven’t visit him for a while.
@thaevang5369
3 жыл бұрын
Kuv muaj 3 tug muam uas yog niam loj yug. Hos nyob li ntawm kuv niam yug tau peb 5 kwv tij tsis muaj ib tug muam li thiab tab sis ua tsis tau txoj hauv kev twg.
@Gurlhmong
3 жыл бұрын
Wow… who is this man that his wife needed to please him? Allow him to remarried, that she felt like a failure.. that she needed to beg her daughters to fulfill their father’s dream. His daughters needed to graduate with high degree. What has HE done for them? Where there is expectations, then he should be feeding their needs as well. So sad. I couldn’t finish this story, it angered me.
@posyaj2037
3 жыл бұрын
So sad story
@tsimuajkevhlub
3 жыл бұрын
Cov ntxhais hlub nam tais tawm txiv tabsis yuav tsum ncu ntsuv tas yuav tsum hlub nam puj txiv yawm hab vim koj twb tas cov tub tes ua le cov nyaab has tsis hlub Mej nam txiv. Yog le mas Mej cov ntxhais hlub nam tais yawm txiv npaum Caag yuav tsum hlub nam puj txiv yawm npaum ntawv hab.
@lauj5805
3 жыл бұрын
Tsis Muaj tub yeek zoo lawg tab miam txiv tuag tag ces niam txiv tsis tag lawm os
@saixiong7244
3 жыл бұрын
Nyob zoo rau koj os nyab ntsuab teev
@hlubkojforever1901
3 жыл бұрын
I very HATE OG people that discriminate girls! I came from a family of girls too but my dad isnt like your dad.
@bchang227
3 жыл бұрын
Asian parents needs to stop forcing their children to live their dreams, trying to live meticulously through their children. Let them be who they want to be so they would be happy instead of living miserably. As a parent myself, there are tons of things I wished I did in my younger years but I don't force my kids to do what I want them to do. As a result of my parents forcing me to become who they wanted me to be, I've been lost ever since. Still trying to figure out who I am, what I want to do.
@KueVue
3 жыл бұрын
Seriously! There's much more than being a doctor or lawyer out there -_- They need to stop with their tunnel vision.
@vangthao7012
3 жыл бұрын
Son nowadays are useless. They do what they wife say.
@Mai1nOnly
3 жыл бұрын
Sad that they only see a son as a doctor. Daughters are just as valuable as sons if not maybe even more
@hmoobtxojlwthegoldenpathchanne
3 жыл бұрын
Cas kuv nyuam qhuav hnov tias neb nrog Hmoob tua mus "ua dab tsis los kom tawg paj" lawm thiab no yom. Tawg paj thiaj tau muag ov.
@hmongremark2686
3 жыл бұрын
Tub thiab ntxhais los nyob ntawm lawv txawj ua neej thaum lawv muab cuab yig tas lawm xwb. Yog lawv tsis txawj ua neej, tus twg los yeej tsis txawj hlub niam thiab txiv li. Tab sis caj ces ntws mus yog muaj at least ib tug tub thiaj khaws tau noob txuas caj ces. Cov ntxhais tsis mua kev txuas caj ces rau niam thiab txiv thiab tsuas nyob ib tiam nkaus xwb. Yog li no niam thiab txiv thiaj tsav ntshaw kom muaj tub.
@vdrtkrato1115
3 жыл бұрын
Not like the old days anymore daughters are the best they love their parents way more and will do anything for them the boys can’t do shit if their wife’s say no it mean no
@minecraftboy2676
3 жыл бұрын
Men just think about themselves and wanted to cheat. Nowadays daughters or sons should be treated equally and it depends on an individual to love and care about the parents was they are old. The ways I see it personally, as a daughter, we love and care more about our parents than the sons the way I do it in my life and my other relative's.
@puayang2506
3 жыл бұрын
so typical of hmong men... so demanding... they don't expect so much for the boys. glad he turned around.
@souavang4072
3 жыл бұрын
Very Sad.
@kaxiong957
3 жыл бұрын
I’m sad. I wish I could have more sisters and brothers. I’m the only child.
@suavaj8723
3 жыл бұрын
ab cas lub ntuj ho tsis pub ib tug tub rau koj niam thiab koj ntxiv nkawv os ua rau nej sawv daws ntshaw kawg nkaug li os yog lam muaj ib tug mas ntshe nej sawv daws yuav hlub heev li os tab sis muaj ib txhia ces muaj ib leeg tub ib leeg nyab xwb los lawv yeej g hlub li os
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