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@rihanaramburn697
12 күн бұрын
@@SaveTheMessenger Good morning Am frm 🇦🇲Mauritius indien oceans iles maurice 🇦🇲
@athi771
15 күн бұрын
The more I see these type of videos, the more I think being in a relationship must be exhausting😢
@braininjurydiy
13 күн бұрын
yea made me want to give up completely and they say women are high maintenance
@nahtsch
12 күн бұрын
Being in a relationship with men*
@nahtsch
12 күн бұрын
@@braininjurydiywomen?
@trishhh7
11 күн бұрын
It is…. It’s really best we stay single
@Press2GetTheCookie
8 күн бұрын
These videos are bs don’t worry
@biancabianca6800
20 күн бұрын
my personal conclusion from the video never text him, because no matter what you write it is wrong anyway 😂
@empoweringrelaxation8321
20 күн бұрын
and Men are men!
@FaithEwemade-rz5me
16 күн бұрын
Funny you😂
@braininjurydiy
13 күн бұрын
Yea I got that just felt like you're shit women no matter what you do.
@WooHoo_0
9 күн бұрын
Exactly 😂 if I write less there's a problem if I write more there's a problem. Like wth. And my problem is I'm a text girl
@artlover783
7 күн бұрын
Girl what we do 😂
@josina5302
21 күн бұрын
My daughter is 19. She was upset that this boy didn't text her back. I told her, never initiate texts with a boy, unless you're saying the following: see you in a bit, I'm on my way, I got home safe. Never text hi, hey, wyd. It screams, I have nothing better to do and I want your attention.
@1trueloveforever
21 күн бұрын
Well to be honest this depends on the nature of the relationship . If its her boyfriend, I see no reason why she cant check in to see what or how he's doing . If its early days but the guy shows keen and respectful interest I dont see why not either because it goes both ways and the guy might say, oh well she's not interested in me at all because I am always the one having to initiate conversation . She never messages to see how Im doing etc.
@lubnan08
21 күн бұрын
100
@lmusima3275
20 күн бұрын
Guys aren’t into the texting small talk
@lunatantri
20 күн бұрын
My mom always told me there's no need to text a guy i got home safe or im on my way too, unless he asked. And to always end chat first. Sometimes I defer, but I always feel better when I have the upper hand.
@jenshaw8085
20 күн бұрын
Nah. Not all guys are like that. Bad advice.
@jml2241
20 күн бұрын
Some men need to get over themselves. If a man wants you he will pursue you, forget those who do not .👍🏽
@SaveTheMessenger
20 күн бұрын
Wonderfully put, thanks for sharing your thoughts!
@fahmidaseraji369
14 күн бұрын
The mistakes: 1. Trying to create deep connection over text 2. Always initiating conversation 3. Trying to be funny always 4. Grammar and spelling mistakes 5. Texting again when not replied 6. Discussing serious issues 7. Sharing intimate pictures 8. Texting late every night when people are gonna unwind 9. Always starting with a question
@janewasson4845
12 күн бұрын
Grammar, otherwise-excellent points!! ❤️
@fahmidaseraji369
11 күн бұрын
@@janewasson4845 Oops. Thanks for pointing out. I am correcting it.
@aloodyamarante9991
3 күн бұрын
so basically all we do are wrong
@chinasamcclean5821
2 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@justinael
21 күн бұрын
Thank you for posting this, although I feel like I'm done texting men if they react this way. It seems like a woman can't be authentic around men. It turns me off, you know? If I have to wait too long for him to read my message, I don't think he is interested. Women work as well, we get tired as well, introverted women stay in their caves as well. But I will always respond to someone I care about. I expect the same thing. We can all respond and text we are very tired and will interact later. If it feels too hard, it means it's time to look for someone who can communicate more clearly. I'm disappointed.
@lunatantri
20 күн бұрын
Men are born different I think. If we want a man who react like a woman maybe we should just date a woman?
@justinael
20 күн бұрын
@@lunatantri Basic respect and communication should not be a sex feature, but a human feature. I like my personal space a lot but I can express that. It's women who justify men's crappy behaviour so maybe that's what we should stop doing.
@SaveTheMessenger
19 күн бұрын
I'm a man and I always respond right away to people I care about. Also authenticity is extremely attractive. If it turns someone off, it means they're not compatible with you and you should move on.
@angie001
15 күн бұрын
I agree with you 100%.
@braininjurydiy
13 күн бұрын
Yea I'm like well stuff it then I won't communicate at all. And it did come across like we need to supress every instinct we have so it was like sounds too hard.
@katestigsdotter
14 күн бұрын
All men and boys out there… Never ask a woman or girl for nude pictures because that indicates that I’m not the first one you’re asking (no matter what you say)
@SaveTheMessenger
2 күн бұрын
Completely agree, respect and boundaries are key in any relationship.
@shonamiller5340
19 күн бұрын
'Taking the sun for granted ...' not if you live in England, mate! 😂
@SaveTheMessenger
19 күн бұрын
Hahaha good one
@myendlesslove5120
12 күн бұрын
😂
@mysterygirl2881
10 күн бұрын
Same in Canada, Vancouver. 😂
@ioanaspb8751
5 күн бұрын
I'm always so happy and cheerful when I see the sun in the morning, or a beautiful sunset in the evening❤😊I always say the words of prayer for the sun! Saint-Petersburg, Russia.
@rebeccawhite9395
21 күн бұрын
Not letting a person know when the convo is over such as saying goodbye, goodnight or even just I got to go now.
@andreiamendes9116
20 күн бұрын
@@rebeccawhite9395 Yes!! This is a very, very important one! Terribly annoying (and rude). Very good to remind it! 💯👏👏
@andreiamendes9116
20 күн бұрын
@@rebeccawhite9395 Yes!! This is a terrible one (and very rude). Thank you for reminding it 💯👏👏
@NaIn-cu8zz
14 күн бұрын
I understood that she wants to wait in silence. My excuse is I want her to be a part of my daily life already because I never take Sun in the morning for granted. (I appreciate Sun every single day.) But, I can wait in silence for her. Will do. I think she needs to be focused on her life now. And I must respect that for her. Many thanks to all.
@braininjurydiy
13 күн бұрын
I struggle with that one, but I do have mild autism and a brain injury.
@janewasson4845
20 күн бұрын
Short message ladies: isn't it better when he calls or texts you? Don't chase, beg, be needy or desparate. You devalue yourself, and he will treat you accordingly.
@nahtsch
12 күн бұрын
And that’s how I have become single for a long time now 😂 the moment I start to chase men and do all that stuff I get a boyfriend
@janewasson4845
12 күн бұрын
Good! Now, quit, and let him chase you awhile.
@TLR1219
6 күн бұрын
Exactly
@YM-wj2dr
6 күн бұрын
The guys can do these same things to the point of turning off women.... too many calls, texts, chasing.
@yourbossismyslave3409
Күн бұрын
@@nahtschMaybe so, but pursuing men rarely works out for anything longer than a brief window of time. They are wired to be repelled by females pursuing them the same way that women are wired to be repelled by men who refuse to protect them. Hope it works out for you nonetheless
@braininjurydiy
13 күн бұрын
I used to think that about grammar, now I have a brain injury I do make mistakes in grammar and not notice, I learned society needs to take a chill pill on that one.
@benji_waz_heree
4 күн бұрын
yeah same here. im dyslexic so its bound to happen. plus we're all humans, no ones perfect lol
@kristyshada473
5 күн бұрын
I have three sons, and I raised them to NEVER be rude, "superior," or demanding to a girl!! There's absolutely no excuse! Thankfully, they are amazingly kind, respectful, and caring. I say it's because they were raised by their divorced single mother since before any of them were old enough for kindergarten (who's had 35 serious surgeries and counting). I taught them to have mutual respect, not her submission!
@masha_kudriaha
18 күн бұрын
care less. text whatever you really want😂🎉that works
@SsssSsss-ik8ty
4 күн бұрын
Absolutely!! Confident women do what the hell she wants!!😅 thinking too much.. shall i write or what to write just reveal fear of rejection and cut your authenticity 😢 energy is important and man can feel it 😁 so.. be yourself, be vulnerable, do what you love and if the man doesn’t recognise you, then he is not your type or he is not confident and cant be attracted by a confident women 🤨
@andreiamendes9116
21 күн бұрын
Okay, I'm glad I just have to reduce my smiling emojis. But here's texting habits from men that annoy me: 1 - Trying to have naughty convos without having asked your number previously or knowing you better. 2 - Not wanting to stop the convo even if it's late and you say you want to sleep. 3 - Being very enthusiastic one day and cold as ice the next one. 4 - Posting pics of him with other girls when there's no need. 5 - And as @rebeccawhite9395 said, ending suddenly the conversation without saying good night or I have to go now (Terrible, bloody terrible. And rude. Please, Ismael "educate" those men on this one.)
@MissO27
19 күн бұрын
I dislike everything you wrote here, especially the last one. I get so pissed
@andriavinithalobo5813
16 күн бұрын
5th one- guy telling il text you Tomorrow and hasnt contacted since 3 months 😂
@MM-em6ly
14 күн бұрын
Yes to everything! Wow can’t believe there are other men who do that. Men, level UP
@braininjurydiy
13 күн бұрын
oh so true, and naughty convos before you've even met them, i want to have adult/open factual discussions about all topics including sex because it seems like an adult thing to do to communicate and make sure all are on the same page and comfortable, but they seem to think it's an invite, so I don't know what to do there.
@itsuochiro8426
17 күн бұрын
I agree to all, except number 6. I am a person with slow mind. Whenever I try to discuss something serious orally, the other person misunderstands me, changes the subject or dismisses me altogether. So writing a long text is my only chance to explain myself and make myself clear.
@user-vl3ku5kh6b
20 күн бұрын
Thank you very much whoever said, how come there isn't anything about things men should and shouldn't do. I'm so tired of all these videos concerning what women should and shouldn't do concerning a MAN.
@maureencopeland5300
6 күн бұрын
A beautiful picture of my face and " I love you forever" is enough for my husband we have been married 17 years. Love your videos
@SaveTheMessenger
2 күн бұрын
That’s beautiful. It’s great that you both know what works for your relationship.
@marieguilmette6482
20 күн бұрын
I like your style of communication. You are straight forward and give aspects of a healthy relationship. I am grateful for your advice. Thank you
@SaveTheMessenger
20 күн бұрын
I’m so glad to hear that, your feedback made me smile!
@hollyslaz842
15 күн бұрын
Wish I could meet a great guy like Mr. Gomez. Glad to know there are men like you out here in this world!
@LornaOHagan
12 күн бұрын
@@hollyslaz842 you mention Mr Gomez what is his first name is it Eddie ?
@MrPeterISABELLA
3 күн бұрын
This man is teaching me that a man is only in it for himself and cant love
@lovinglife58
17 күн бұрын
You are so right on this! My long distance boyfriend hates texting because things get taken the wrong way, and we always end up arguing. I wish we could text without this happening, but unfortunately it can't. We have decided to only text very short texts, and not go on and on. It's hard, but we do see each other once a month and talk on the phone 5 nights a week, and that is much better for our relationship!
@SaveTheMessenger
2 күн бұрын
It’s tough when things get misinterpreted, but good thing you found what works for you. Thanks for sharing your experience.
@SickOfIttt
8 күн бұрын
Women love their solitude, too, especially in you're a sigma female. Also, there is a lot men need to learn regarding women and texting too ✌️
@LaylaMusic333
Күн бұрын
I'm a Sigma female.... I need time with myself to figure things out, deep thinking and problem solving.... I think I need a Sigma male 😂
@TheAyesha2009
21 күн бұрын
Texting mistake 9: I was always told it's good manners to check on someone how they are doing and how their day was (when you are talking almost every day). If it's a mistake, then what's the right way around it?
@andreiamendes9116
20 күн бұрын
@@TheAyesha2009 Just start with one topic from the previous day and discreetely, in the middle of the convo, ask how are they doing ☺️
@cfleagle1
7 күн бұрын
These tips sound like a great conversation with your teenager, boy or girl. Learning to communicate is so important, and it seems like kids just have online conversations in place of face-to-face ones anymore.
@d-0v0-b
21 күн бұрын
5:59 and that's the reason why he broke up with me ... For not sending those , not pleasing him, for not obeying his orders... But i know my self respect for which i never gonna do that! Ismael I really wanna Know , what do you think about the guys who are P0rn Addicted and in a Relationship? Are they ever even loyal to anyone, do they even have any genuine feeling? Watching this Video made me really realize some of my mistakes. And now never gonna Happen. But sometimes i still miss him 😞 Really hate to say this ....
@SaveTheMessenger
19 күн бұрын
Do you consider watching P*rn as cheating on you? I can tell you most guys don't feel that way. But if it bothers you, then you could find someone who doesn't watch it.
@angie001
15 күн бұрын
I mean watching that trash is a turn off anyway so...
@artlover783
7 күн бұрын
Im confuse,, what we girls do when they are in relationship,??,, I think we do what our heart says that's great ❤
@1trueloveforever
21 күн бұрын
As usual I appreciate and welcome your insight . Texts have their place for facilitating quick messages as a method of communication and that is it . Anything that requires serious and consistent back and forth dialogue should be done by the phone or in person so there is no miscommunication of what is being said . Texts cannot portray tone and emotion and therefore lends to a lot of assumptions being made which are not always good and creates misunderstandings.
@bnb0510
21 күн бұрын
The spelling and abbreviations drive me nuts if it’s consistent. Ur, K, etc And if someone doesn’t know the difference between your, you’re, they’re, etc 🤨
@char2723
20 күн бұрын
Exactly ugh, that’s elementary level type s
@chandreshwaripoojari2571
20 күн бұрын
Me too...I feel annoyed when someone sends K instead of Ok.. u instead of you. One fellow used to send S instead of Yes🤣
@andriavinithalobo5813
16 күн бұрын
Its such a turn off thingy for me. Kk, S,hw r u, etc etc.
@lmusima3275
20 күн бұрын
I’m so glad I’ve detached from this texting conversation business. I no longer consider it to be effective communication. I don’t text like that anymore. In the other hand long story short, I recently blocked 🚫 a guy who kept texting me often, late and wanted deep connection when I’d already told him I’m not interested in that. I muted his texts but noticed them in my WhatsApp. It was so annoying. I decided to put an end to it
@SaveTheMessenger
20 күн бұрын
I’m incredibly proud of you, may good things come your way!
@denisehiggins6038
21 күн бұрын
Why aren’t there any videos out there instructing men on what women want???? Like, the opposite of this advice….
@kyrakardia2165
21 күн бұрын
There are a few bur it is not that they do not know they just do not care !
@JB-yy3ld
19 күн бұрын
Yeah, really all the time I see how fragile men🙂🙂🙂
@leigh310
8 күн бұрын
This was interesting and valuable! Thank you. Here's two complaints I have for men texting women: 1. I don't like it if a man texts me using AI. I don't want to talk to a bot. I can't get to know him and feel that his text doesn't mean anything to me because he's not giving me his feelings or reponses if he has to has to use a bot. I can always tell. 2. Grammar means a lot to me. If I haven't met a man yet, then his texts show me if we are going to be compatable or are too different. I'm not saying I would look down on him, it's just that I'm a teacher and mistakes are fine but not when his grammar is always wrong.
@SaveTheMessenger
4 сағат бұрын
I’m glad you found the content valuable. I completely understand your concerns.
@user-sc4zn6cz8j
7 күн бұрын
My man broke up with me via text message. I felt compromised and angry he couldn't at least do it face to face!😢
@SaveTheMessenger
4 сағат бұрын
I’m really sorry to hear that. It’s understandable to feel hurt and frustrated when a breakup happens over text. You deserved a more respectful and personal conversation
@pamelasimone5084
18 күн бұрын
This really helped me. I was raised when things were just beginning to change. It took me a while to get used to calling boys when I was a teenager. But then I developed the habit of getting too clingy. I appreciate these guidelines so I can restrain myself.
@wwhyk1459
21 күн бұрын
I've always texted him with a question. Late at night. Lol. I don't mind texting him first every time. Cuz I can walk away any time I wish.
@lynndurbin9476
6 күн бұрын
In texting back and forth between guy friends (just friends mind you) I get discouraged about writing a lengthy text...& when I call no answer so I end up leaving a message stating I know you are there so why didn't you pick up the phone? Texting is another level of controlling someone. It's a lazy relationship binder. There's no give & take.
@christina4018
15 күн бұрын
I got really overdosed with Gifs lately from a guy. Cat gifs do amuse me, but I wasn’t getting much else, tho the aim was to make me laugh which wasn’t a bad motive. So I just sent very short answers or none at all and eventually he asked if I was ok and got very worried.so that got a swift reassurance from me saying “yes’m ok , too many gifs” and he made the effort to call and talk. He genuinely does struggle with spelling, but now makes much more effort to send a proper message. My advice is, if in doubt don’t text at all, and absolutely not to get his attention or check up on him. It looks desperate so a turn off. He will get in touch you when he’s ready, and if he doesn’t, ignore him and get busy with other things in life which make you a more diverse and interesting person. Always good to be just a little elusive without being rude or cold. A fine line sometimes.
@Self-ExaminingMyself
5 күн бұрын
I admit I need to make changes, but when there are people pretending and truly being fake and acting as if they are perfect that they don't ever need to take on any accountability, that everything they ever told me and that they are presenting to others is nothing but a lie, (and you know exactly who he is)! I have a problem with this! I'd say sorry about putting this long text on here but you know exactly why I have to!
@marielim8224
6 күн бұрын
What I feel is different my man wants me to text him all the time if not he would think I ignored him or talk to other man n we are long distance relationship....when we talk we always joke around he makes me laugh n always tease me n sometimes I tease him back..he called me everyday n we facetime everyday unless he work long hours..we always miss each other
@artistevivien
20 күн бұрын
“9 texting mistakes that make a woman lose interest in you”
@khushboogupta2051
21 күн бұрын
Hey ismael I'm from India (west bengal) ❤ love ur videos ❤
@Calmingrainsounds3163
21 күн бұрын
Omg this video is so educating, thank you so much for always helping us to be a better version of ourselves in a relationship
@LornaOHagan
17 күн бұрын
Men who expect you to keep the conversation going even if you ask them if there's anything they would like to know or what interests them to talk about and they leave you hanging
@nahtsch
12 күн бұрын
Men ☕️
@ykt4343
21 күн бұрын
I don't mind texting first to be honest. I'm confident with who I am and I don't like thinking or planning too much about when I should text or not. I think when we begin to plan too much then we aren't authentic anymore. But if you see the person does not really respond then respect yourself enough to pull back. I feel I am a sociable person and I like to make an effort as i don't expect a guy to be the only one making an effort. It should be equal. But yes, I definitely do not believe in sending nude images. There's no need when those things are more special in real when you're with the person. The things that annoy me about a guy in texts would be when he plays the hot and cold game and also when he is trying to be extra intelligent with his vocabulary if that is not who he really is.
@Discovering_world-jj1yj
21 күн бұрын
I agree… we should not spend too much time overthinking, it just makes things awkward and is anxious. Worst case scenario, he won’t reply. If a potential relationship fails because of who texted who first, then it would never work anyway.
@marshaphonda7057
21 күн бұрын
Since real and masculine men are "Hunters" let them hunt you. If you don`t give them the chance to hunt you, they will lose their interesst in you. Otherwise only very feminine men will fall for you. And who wants to be with a feminine man?
@ykt4343
21 күн бұрын
@@Discovering_world-jj1yj I agree.
@braininjurydiy
13 күн бұрын
Yea talk about mixed messages, another guy was saying 'we have to be our authentic selves' and now this one sounds like games don't send this or that. Trying to be ourselves while changing ourselves to fit what guys want, na, I'll be me and they are on board or not, there's no point changing ourselves to keep a guy around, if he wouldn't stay around for the authentic us, better to know sooner right.
@nahtsch
12 күн бұрын
@@braininjurydiy I think pretending to be someone else is common for men, but for women it’s very hard. That’s why we can’t put up with these games for long, but men do it all the time.
@LaylaMusic333
Күн бұрын
I love hearing a male speak with such insightfulness and has obviously thought deeply about this subject. Being a sigma woman, i appreciate any mind that considers topics so thoughtfully and gives respect to it. I agree with all you've shared on this video. Thank you for taking the time to create your content, i appreciate hearing a man's perspective treated with such care. 😊
@SaveTheMessenger
4 сағат бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. I'm glad the content resonated with you and that you appreciate the thoughtful perspective. Your feedback means a lot.
@NIKI888SUCCESS
11 күн бұрын
Grammar and spelling is everything! Thank you for pointing this out
@SaveTheMessenger
2 күн бұрын
Glad you found it helpful, and yes, grammar can make a big difference.
@inneelvina6614
21 күн бұрын
Ismael, the way you explained on every points are brilliant, always love your teachings.
@SaveTheMessenger
20 күн бұрын
Your thoughtful words made my day, thank you so much!
@nishatchougule4660
21 күн бұрын
It was really helpful. 💯💯 Thankks
@WorthlessFemale
9 күн бұрын
Ok, too many funnies. Thats hard because i am funny. But i think i can try harder to keep my jokes in my head and not spill them out. I only do abbreviations when I'm in a hurry, sometimes spelling gets past me because of auto correct most times, but i try to fix it when i see it. I also use emojis. I think sometimes i text something and then a person will think I'm being serious and im not for example, so i put emojis so I don't have to fight anyone but i also don't want to run a guy off because of it so I'll work something out so i don't ruin my chances anymore than i probably already have.. Thanks for the advice!
@DivyaSingh-mm1pk
21 күн бұрын
I have no words to say thank you for this wonderful video. ❤ Feeling blessed to connect with you (Love you ismael) God bless you dear 😊🥰 I would like to share that never ever easily get attracted by their romantic & overshow love because its difficult to understand someone's intention . Always remember - Action speaks louder than words 👍
@SaveTheMessenger
20 күн бұрын
Thank you for your heartwarming feedback, it made me really happy!
@Lisalee-xj1xb
21 күн бұрын
Can you please make a video about how do you know you're in love with a man or like or crushing on him, cause I am always the last one to find out until the other person says it or I find out when I'm in too deep and end up getting too attached and hurt :(
@Kimsangte07
14 күн бұрын
Yes please make it . I would like to know as well
@Lisalee-xj1xb
14 күн бұрын
@@Kimsangte07 haha
@Kimsangte07
13 күн бұрын
@@Lisalee-xj1xb what haha? ... It's true
@Lisalee-xj1xb
13 күн бұрын
@@Kimsangte07 Yeah
@donnameyerssister2018
4 күн бұрын
Thanks. I learned some valuable things just now from your audio. I realize that women like questions better than men such as "how was your day?". Men DO like their cave time for sure, especially late at night, they are unwinding. I'm 57 years old and NEVER too old to learn about men!
@SaveTheMessenger
4 күн бұрын
Never too old indeed.
@breezeh1127
9 күн бұрын
I say these works only for a certain type of connection. Most of the men i I talk to..LIKE late night convo starters. Also most I deal with can only get deep in text, due to not being available during the day or in person. Also, the pic thing..sometimes thats all they want and you want from them. I say figure out what type of relationship you both want and then proceed. The double text thing is always a no. The grammer, sure. The always being funny..also depend on what you want. The guys I chat with are always making jokes..the differences is they send it and dont need to laugh react their own jokes. It also depends on the culture. I find these don't fit as well, if you are talking to someone in the UK..so keep that in mind. I think these are mostly for the younger generation and those looking for love. We dont all want that.
@lindafish2789
13 күн бұрын
I don't text. I CALL HIM, respectful of his time, his privacy, and his person.
@lindafish2789
13 күн бұрын
We arrange future dates in his presence.
@mysterygirl2881
10 күн бұрын
How about funny pictures or jokes I share from Internet? Once in a while I send him hilarious statements or dialogs that I find humorous and his reaction is always 😂
@bec7839
20 күн бұрын
Sending a nice text to wish well on an important second interview, or Happy Birthday text and never says any gratitude response.
@lubnan08
21 күн бұрын
Thanks, as women, we need to hear these
@maix139
8 күн бұрын
I used to text long paragraphs lol now I just keep it short and simple like a man haha when you do the same thing back to them you will see the same reaction you had when they treat you the same way. I learned to treat a man how he treats me. If he goes on days without a reply he better not expect me to reply right away when he finally gets back to me. If he don't reply in a reasonable amount of time and just start replying back like nothing happened and have no reasonable explaination then he is getting ignored too.
@SaveTheMessenger
4 сағат бұрын
That’s a practical approach. Mirroring communication styles can be a good way to set boundaries and ensure you’re treated with the same respect you offer. It’s fair to expect consistency and timely responses from others if that’s what you’re giving in return.
@SKahani
3 күн бұрын
Whenever ever a notification pops, i just hope to his text... Nvr got that lucky till nw😂
@peterpisspotty3052
19 күн бұрын
I'm so glad I came across this video because I thought it was only me that was really put off by all this rubbish and it seems to be endemic. Out of over 2,000 men I've talked to online, only about 5 didn't follow the pattern you describe in this video - that's pretty abysmal isn't it!
@nahtsch
12 күн бұрын
That’s horrible. I guess I’m gonna stick to being single, I'm going to love my family, my friends and my pets, and use my time to help people. I thought true love was a thing, but with men I guess that doesn’t exist
@zimjun7
2 күн бұрын
Number 6: I SO agree!! And for heavens sake, Not #7. Goes without saying.... Agree with #8, too. In fact, I agree with ALL!!!
@lynneakalynno
14 күн бұрын
I am perceived as slightly cold over text. He is the long texting Voice msg sender. Pic sharer etc. I think my coolness is like some kind of challenge so he's always trying to get me to open up ❤
@SaveTheMessenger
4 сағат бұрын
Sometimes, different communication styles can lead to interesting dynamics, but it’s important to stay true to your own way of connecting. If you’re comfortable, you might consider discussing your preferences with him to find a balance that works for both of you.
@Self-ExaminingMyself
5 күн бұрын
At least I know I have faults, I'm not placing myself on a pedestal
@AiSakurai
20 күн бұрын
Here's my question for being the one who always takes the initiative to text: my BF work at night shift so his time is different from mine. But in the morning, I always take the initiative to text because it is the time he is out of work especially I learn recently how he looks forward to seeing my messages after he works. My messages are always random: anything I know that I can say so he will forget the stress in his work (TSR work is so stressful). My question is, should I stop this habit given your advice in no.2?
@SaveTheMessenger
19 күн бұрын
This is a peculiar scenario. If he shows up every day for you in other ways then I think a text message like that every morning is appreciated. Still, I' d personally not do it every few weeks to see if he reaches out first.
@AiSakurai
19 күн бұрын
@@SaveTheMessenger yeah, we have our "day" every week and most of the time, he is already excited to see me to the point that he will buy things or do something so he can pass by to our house. That's why I decided to match his effort even by giving him encouragement before going and after work as his work is so stressful. Thanks for your reply by the way
@user-ds8fq8cp2f
2 күн бұрын
What alot of work,when u have to worry what u say,every minute. Either one cares,or they don't.
@jadalevi
21 күн бұрын
This was really good Ismael. Thank you!
@SaveTheMessenger
20 күн бұрын
I really appreciate it.
@nahtsch
12 күн бұрын
So basically never text or talk to men ever 😂 that’s the only way you’ll never make any mistakes and live a happy life.
@Emillyy94
17 күн бұрын
I was in a long distance relationship so we did a lot of texting and sometimes a phone call but then my ex told me he hated his phone and he’d like to throw it out the window.. I was confused because I was thinking .. thats the way we have to communicate mostly so does that mean you don’t want to talk to me? After we broke up I found out he’s an avoidant so that explains a lot.
@nahtsch
12 күн бұрын
Every men I’ve met told me they hate their phones and hate texting, but guess what? They’re always on-line, their likes are always on the pictures of pretty girls, they’re always posting stories, they talk to a bunch of people, so what is up with men? What do they want in the end of the day? Lately all I see is lies comming out of their mouths
@Emillyy94
12 күн бұрын
@@nahtsch so true. My ex was the same, he would never post us on social media or comment on posts I made about us, he was on IG all the time and would like things. One day I posted a pic of us and he liked it and then 2 days later he was commenting on a bartenders pic saying “love you ❤️❤️” but he couldn’t do that to his own girlfriend? I asked him about it and he just “you’re reading too much into it and how he hates social media and it’s his own personal hell.” I was like then why are you using social media if you hate it so much? I’m sick of guys words not matching their actions.
@user-hn9nx3un4j
4 күн бұрын
Thank you for teaching ❤❤
@mi-ct4mllllllllllllll
16 күн бұрын
This channel is a blessing
@SaveTheMessenger
4 сағат бұрын
I’m really glad to hear that. Thank you for your kind words.
@MyDarling572
7 күн бұрын
One thing very annoying that boys tend to text : " You were in my dreams last night ". Me in my mind: " And?? "
@peterpisspotty3052
19 күн бұрын
I'm female and I can't stand the "lol" men, the "haha/hehe" brigade, the semi literates and abbreviators, those conducting their own census - when, how, what etc, the never ending interviewer
@sakhashree9723
14 сағат бұрын
If the things which are coming out from yourself spontaneously is annoying for others.... Dear girls, PlZ be yourself.... Don't try to be someone who is pleasing others.... Be the girl that pleases you... A friend is a person who will never be judging you..never take you for granted......and that friend if exist anywhere... Universe will bring that person to you... U don't have to try....and someone taking you granted was never ever your frnd... And mind it men understand nothing bt sex...it may hear harsh bt... they are with you u only for that... they will go wherever they get that...they will do whatever...say whatever... is only and only to achieve that physical intimacy....they always like to see them better over you... They can never accept your success over them... and believe me no men is an exception... everyone is a sex hunter... I am not blaming them... Bt organically they are that.. They too have nothing to do with it.... Emotion is something quarternary or even nowhere for them... Where as for girls emotion is the basis of everything...I don't know how two opposites stay together gor so long... probably they act to be happy... Actually no couple is happy ... rather in fear of insecurity at oldage.. they just adjust everything for ownsake meeting own purpose...though being selfish too is very organic.... Bdw sorry for writing a length...
@sakhashree9723
14 сағат бұрын
And another thing is that attraction is the basis of interaction for girls too.... Bt after that attraction girls get emotionally attached bt guys get no attachment at all..... Attachment is nowhere in their genes.. they just have temporary hunger for sex
@NoorSabah-ob9wx
15 күн бұрын
Wow I really benefit from you Thank you so much Ismail we love you!!💗
@SaveTheMessenger
4 сағат бұрын
I’m glad to hear that you’re finding it helpful. Thank you for the support and kind words.
@NoorSabah-ob9wx
4 сағат бұрын
@@SaveTheMessenger You're welcome😍
@marlagoodrum4783
4 күн бұрын
Using the Sun for an example is not a good example if you live in the northern hemisphere. We are always thankful when the sun comes out! Never can we take it for granted!
@angelatillman4323
21 күн бұрын
Tested not texting. He never texted back. Not for two months
@nahtsch
12 күн бұрын
Men ☕️
@YM-wj2dr
6 күн бұрын
All sounds fair and reasonable to me.
@anjaleenuwani5302
14 күн бұрын
My husband cheated me.but I don't want to lose he..I want to give a chance.. but I always check him online last seen. And I hope always he will care me . I love him but I don't feel love from him.but I need .how can I live with him without anything getting back😢😢
@natasha2877
14 күн бұрын
Why would u give him a chance after he cheated on you. 🤔
@anjaleenuwani5302
13 күн бұрын
@@natasha2877 bcz I love him and he doesn't give me devose
@aupc8258
4 күн бұрын
Thankyou..great help 👍
@SaveTheMessenger
2 күн бұрын
Appreciate it. Glad we’re on the same wavelength.
@umaasankarinatarajan817
4 күн бұрын
Spot on.
@lorettalewis4203
4 күн бұрын
Very good insight.
@SaveTheMessenger
2 күн бұрын
Appreciate that. Always aiming for the truth.
@supremelotus6227
20 күн бұрын
Texting is not a sturdy tool, for 90% of communication is nonverbal
@Lisalee-xj1xb
21 күн бұрын
I agree with all what you said lol
@nataliefrinchaboy5483
7 күн бұрын
fantastic info. I do all of that.. ugh
@vikki4now
19 күн бұрын
Why would a guy expect me to respond to...Hey....I get this almost everyday when I'm on a dating sight and exchange numbers....so so irritating.
@Self-ExaminingMyself
5 күн бұрын
I'm not a vengeful person. Now that I'm gone, it will be known
@RR-kv1zj
21 күн бұрын
Wonderful topic and absolutely 100% true points discussed
@SaveTheMessenger
20 күн бұрын
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@aarifdiwan1959
17 күн бұрын
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
@MilaABS-k2d
21 күн бұрын
I'm really satistied with your videos thanks ismael
@HephzibahBeulah68
3 күн бұрын
I’m gen X and it sure would be nice to get an actual old-school phone call. 🐓
@Ray-h1v
20 күн бұрын
Listening to learn English ❤
@rianiputri5257
18 күн бұрын
Same with me😂😂
@Ray-h1v
17 күн бұрын
@@rianiputri5257 wish you success in your journey
@TrimaleenRayphand-zn8wx
Күн бұрын
So that means im not gonna use joke in our conversation especially in a long distance relationship?
@rihanaramburn697
20 күн бұрын
Thank you Coach so true
@atramentMJ
21 күн бұрын
Thank you, your video's changed my life. Now MEN are aproaching me and I do nothing, there wre texting first
@SaveTheMessenger
21 күн бұрын
Look at that 👏
@misssarah8086
21 күн бұрын
Absolutely love your content ❤ Question: How do a woman get a man interested in her again after she pushed him away with her insecurities. She constantly assumed bad of him like texting other women etc and now he pulled away. It's a long distance relationship. They only met once. And the meeting didn't go as expected but the feelings for each other are still there. How does she apologize for her pettiness and get him back 😅
@mirelarajic579
20 күн бұрын
Tell him your story and why are you now so insecure. Open up to him and that will help you to build that trust.
@misssarah8086
20 күн бұрын
@@mirelarajic579 He's seems like an overall dismissive person and uninterested in what you have to say. Will still try though. Thanks much 🌸
@mirelarajic579
20 күн бұрын
@@misssarah8086 it's not needy to apologize, it's the right thing to do. I'm sure he'll appreciate it. 😉
@mirelarajic579
20 күн бұрын
@@misssarah8086 maybe you being vulnerable will lead to him doing the same as time goes on. It's hard for men to do so, so it's up to us to show them that we trust them and they will begin to trust us.
@misssarah8086
12 күн бұрын
@SaveTheMessenger-3 How do I get you privately sir ? Lol
@johanahare4326
7 күн бұрын
When a guy texts you a question and you answer right away or with in 15 mins and no reply for hours. Annoying, lol!
@crystalbowland8093
19 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@SsssSsss-ik8ty
4 күн бұрын
I am texting with a guy now and he speaks about serious topics and say he wants something serious, but when he starts the conversation few times it was with a question Did you find new boyfriend? Or I didn’t hear you long time. Or It seems you don’t have same intentions. So I started to write him first. but now it seems is if i don’t write him, it will be days without communication.. he is Virgo with moon in Leo.. so i guess he is passive and with much need of attention.. the question is now shall i stop doing that or shall i say something openly to him, because i want attention too!!!😂 once when i said..it seems this relationship exists because of me.. he said But I am replying every time, why do you say so.. 🤪 what do you, guys think? We speak more then 1 month, and met once few days ago. 😃 so it is very first stage of our serious relationship 😂😂
@annaalm18
19 күн бұрын
I loved nr 3 about being funny all the time
@user-ge6ht5oo8g
17 күн бұрын
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
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