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@Keichoula
4 ай бұрын
"We're all trapped in our own prisons, trying to escape. Just because someone hasn't escaped doesn't mean they're not trying. They deserve respect for that. So what's the fear? Everyone's on your side. What's the threat in letting loose and telling the truth?"
@dallinhubbard3302
3 ай бұрын
Probably one of the best quotes of all time tbh.
@AlexMoraru25
4 ай бұрын
Lifechanging tier content. And this guy just puts it here for free. We should be so grateful!
@JulienHimself
4 ай бұрын
Thank you! I'm glad my content has been so impactful for you! 🙏
@JTG313
4 ай бұрын
Its honestly changed my life and my outlook I would join your program if i had the money because if these videos can eo this, i could only imagine what what would happen if i got specific help @JulienHimself
@lloydwatkins1057
4 ай бұрын
100%. Julian and his content is a blessing for sure 💎💯
@levi5468
3 ай бұрын
I am very grateful for that, thank you for reminding me i am!
@NinaRoad
4 ай бұрын
3:00 I really appreciate that you’re sensitive and protective to your audience. Greetings from Siberia.
@UselesStranger
4 ай бұрын
Привет из Петербурга)
@NinaRoad
4 ай бұрын
@@UselesStranger круто, спасибо, обожаю Питер!
@daryatislenko4651
3 ай бұрын
Привет из Москвы, Гагарина и Намангана😅 This content is so great.
@NinaRoad
3 ай бұрын
@@daryatislenko4651 большой светлый привет!!)☀️
@NinaRoad
3 ай бұрын
Москва, большой светлый привет!!)☀️
@krakenhood
4 ай бұрын
That death meditation was such a memorable and powerful part of the event that night. It's beautiful to see how many other people could visibly dive deep and tear up despite being in a room full of strangers. I think the loving, trusted, open atmosphere you created in the time before gave people permission. Thank you for the show, Julien & Team! ❤
@Ventus277
Ай бұрын
Honnestly this just made me more depressed, i dont have friends anymore nor a partner nor family, so basically no one would come to my funeral, no one would take that call. My family is dead, my friends are gone, haven't been in a relationship for 3 years and honnestly imagining that i was dead just made me feel better, I didn't want that second chance.
@bushraa6527
Ай бұрын
I hope your are ok
@Noxumbra1
Ай бұрын
I understand you, but hey, it's never too late to get better, you are not invisible, you matter! ❤
@benl4568
Ай бұрын
I will be ur friend :D (M24) lmk.
@niftyszn9469
Ай бұрын
I don't know if this is a bad attitude. But fuck em. You don't need to survive off validation. I was at a point we're I had no friends, and had a family that was mentally really taxing on me. It caused incredible anxiety but I realized I survived. I was ok without constant need of validation, and now I have a better outlook on my life and confidence.
@brandonrothsman2665
13 күн бұрын
Bro.. GO CREATE YOUR FAMILY, YOUR NEW LIFE. CMON DUDE YOU LITERALLY GOT THIS.
@jankaufmann4197
4 ай бұрын
Let go of negativity Overcome self sabotage Nourish your confidence by Going through your fears Desire no physical possessions Investigate your inner being Cause happiness in others through Kindness
@InTheAir-qu5tu
4 ай бұрын
Thanks btw, I think it's probably your videos that planted the seed in my mind that I may start being honest and authentic with people instead of trying to get lost in the world I'm trying to portray to others (spoiler: it doesn't work). I used to be ashamed of me not having many relationships and starting doing something with girls much later than other people and I'd always try to avoid conversations about relationships and shit. Recently, I shared things with a few friends and it's freeing (feels like being invincible in some way), turned out with one of them we even had a similar story of the first sex, for both of us it was a hookup. I used to think I was different, weird and not at all like others but looks like I have the same struggles as everybody else.
@InTheAir-qu5tu
4 ай бұрын
The meditation made me realize I don't really have anybody except my family, parents and siblings, and I've gone through the quarter of life already.. and totally it's all my fault, partly cuz I'm hiding from connecting with people
@mrjookoon
4 ай бұрын
Your videos have helped immensely, bringing a lot of light to myself. I honestly thought I needed to improve myself to have better, meaningful relationships and be confident, rather than learning to love, accept and myself for who I am. I have a deep fear of rejection, which causes me to put a front and people please, and try to improve myself and be better, thinking that will give me validation. I know not to push the feeling away, but to feel and process. I will definitely join your online coaching soon.
@JulienHimself
4 ай бұрын
Glad my free content has been so helpful for you! Looking forward to getting to know you better in the coaching!
@UselesStranger
4 ай бұрын
Meditation was overwhelming. For me it was very painful. I haven't cried so much for several years, I think. But I have realised, that I feel extremely lonely and friendless. I've been hiding from myself the depth of it. I've pretended to like being alone most of the time, I've been people pleaser just to have a little bit of attention and care. I didn't realised how much I've gaslight myself, that I'm OK and everything in my life is fine. Thank you so much.
@ivanblazevic9353
3 ай бұрын
Same story for me. Isolated myself for 10 years lying to myself that I like it, but I was afraid and I kind of always knew it but went aIong and I'm 33 now. Sad 😢 What is your next move??
@marty7887
4 ай бұрын
Meditation starts 10:42
@janrydlo2645
3 ай бұрын
Upvote this for people who want to meditate repeatedly
@sharonrachel9487
4 ай бұрын
6 mins in I noticed his shoes! 😂 omg
@JulienHimself
4 ай бұрын
🕺🕺
@thomaskatje14
4 ай бұрын
Lmao same exact time I saw them as well🤣
@Oystein.Amundsen
2 ай бұрын
Same, lmao 😆
@samiiromaar
2 ай бұрын
I noticed immediately 😂
@paolo3779
4 ай бұрын
Youve helped me become so brave julien. Thank you for the reminder to remmeber who i am before the conditioning. ❤ Do you have more of the live demonstrations/ audience work somewhere else? These have been helping me tremendously.
@kingcharizardakaCX
Ай бұрын
“No one is gonna tell you who you are” I love that!
@jamesonvparker
7 күн бұрын
Hi Julien, man I wish I was a personal friend of yours. I could really use this kind of encouragement in my life. I grew up taught to never toot my own horn, to be humble and let my work speak for myself. I get where that was coming from, but man it stifles me as an adult. Always over thinking. Way more expressive in my head than when I express it outwardly. Idk if online coaching alone would do the trick for me, but being forced to live it in a structured way might. I’m going to check out more of your content. This is good stuff.
@ahsolm
2 ай бұрын
Beautiful I love this, everyone needs this meditation the medicine of being present of our reality. I’m Muslim so I am obligated to do this meditation 5 times a day. And this is exactly how it feels like. And this will help me with that meditation. ❤
@captainaktual
4 ай бұрын
One of the best Julien Himself videos !!! Really triggered me by high-value or low-value frame independence!
@nishadhande1263
4 ай бұрын
Hey Julien, I only watched your few videos but it help me to heal my trauma.. Thankyou so much for that extremely GRATEFUL to have such good people in the world 🌎.
@shottasam
2 ай бұрын
i feel the anxious pain through the screen
@BlakeCurtis-gk5cw
4 ай бұрын
Saved and downloaded with KZitem premium! Appreciate you Julien!
@eyjele
4 ай бұрын
I just want to thank you, Julien, from the bottom of my heart, for you are truly a wizard. I already managed to get rid of all my most prominent blocks and stresses, but there was something else that I failed again and again to put my finger on. I felt I am calm, I am being myself, I am being kind to myself, but still I was willingly isolating myself from the world when such possibility existed. I supposed that is just how my character is. But life was still kinda bland, even though it felt pleasant to be isolated from all stresses. And I couldn't see much pleasant outside anyway. But the death meditation finally did it for me. I realized how much I actually miss being SEEN. How I want people to see ME , real me, and I wasn't seeking attention just because I had no faith it'll ever happen. No faith that it's possible for me. But in the end it's just a stupid belief, created from unfortunate experiences.
@milanminostrnad
4 ай бұрын
i feel so much love for you for what you do in this world
@biljanamilakovic2661
3 ай бұрын
I believe people are not stiff or ashamed; they simply lack the context to scream as loud as they can. With some effort, they can create the psychological connections needed to naturally and freely scream.
@dragus2904
4 ай бұрын
Its crazy how relatable your content is Julian. Im trying to take action, but according to my therapist theres a few traumas I need to overcome before I truly get better (mental paralysis takes over). Did you work with anyone who had trauma induced mental paralysis and if so do you have any tips on how to overcome it ?
@cj3420
4 ай бұрын
Julien I remember back in the day you used to teach principles (be real, offer value, make yourself feel good, etc). Do those still serve a place in what you teach because letting go is a longer term project, or do you just view principles as ‘scamming. Thank you, grateful for you! 💪🏼
@bruh-nk6hi
3 ай бұрын
Do you have any of his pre 2015 programs? A lot of it is exctint, thank u.
@Andrewcb112
2 ай бұрын
I guess you remember julien and maybe even owen from the RSD days. I think the only think that would be different would be in their teachings is that it seems now theyve both embraced a spiritual self healing element to their teachings, rather than teaching these principles and practices with the agenda of being more attractive. Tbh, as valuable as their content, Todd valentine as well even, in this day and age, we need more self healing and feeling in order to make our relationships more fulfilling, connected and genuinely loving
@TheKasheefalir
3 ай бұрын
Be who you are and let the weight of worrying about what other people think fall ofg your shoulders and give it back to other people. Don't think or judge who you be,just be
@abdul.arif2000
2 ай бұрын
6:50 knowing that you’re OK in yourself no matter what happens externally, that’s invincibility
@xaeverr
10 күн бұрын
First dude definitely screamed as loud as he could the second time. Some people have naturally low tolerance tones? Pitches? Voices?
@safiibraheem2617
3 ай бұрын
Well that was freakin. SCARY. The meditation I mean. I felt bad for my family, but other than that I didn't care what anyone felt or thought about me, I only cared about what would happen to me, will I go to heaven or to hell and I was SO scared I wouldn't make it
@StefanChristen-nh9ht
4 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this. Game-changing!
@Aleks_Mechanics
4 ай бұрын
Notification Squad!🔥🔥🔥
@JulienHimself
4 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@LuqmanUAE
15 күн бұрын
Everyone was noticing what he was saying. But i was looking at his shoes 😂
@Ahmed_R_46
4 ай бұрын
Those shoes are wild
@JulienHimself
4 ай бұрын
Thanks! 🕺
@charlestheking0955
4 ай бұрын
I need those shoes😮
@thefeelgreatsystem
Ай бұрын
I Honor Your Victory
@vision_lg
4 ай бұрын
im glad im not the only one who cried lol
@zerolikeproduction
3 ай бұрын
I want someone to ask for a scream , and i scream with a depth of my true truth pain where my parents cant listen to it
@katherinebentley1012
4 ай бұрын
Julien, you're so fit. Just saying
@mathori-133
2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@nicholasadamski4995
3 ай бұрын
Lol the shoes are killing me
@janelyventocilla9517
3 ай бұрын
Gran meditación . Ojala hubiera en español para guiarme
@xndr_mrw
4 ай бұрын
How can self confidence help overcome perceived fears?
@Poopdog312
3 ай бұрын
well that was a weird feeling when he pointed to the camera and said "people watching at home" lol
@bebeserio6072
2 ай бұрын
The worst case scenario that bothers me is they thinking that I'm going crazy or insane and that's making my mind goes blank and i dont even know what to do and how to act normally when this scenario pops up in my mind.
@EranMesilati
2 ай бұрын
Meditation starts 10:42 :)
@Oden309
4 ай бұрын
I have a question. I've been trying to let go of someone for a very long time.And I still can't do it for some reason.The more I tried to let go , the more l feel attached why?
@andresssdaniel472
3 ай бұрын
You are awesome
@Im-lost-pleaese-help
4 ай бұрын
Already in my playlist, I know this is gonna be a good one
@JulienHimself
4 ай бұрын
Nice! Enjoy!
@Im-lost-pleaese-help
4 ай бұрын
Julien, I hate asking for stuff when I can never do anything for you back but please I need some advice, I'm going to collage soon and I have always had terrible social anxiety, to the point where I can't even think of anything around people but when I'm back home I can think of everything I could ever say, I've watched alot of your social anxiety videos but I still haven't changed. What am I supposed to do man 😭🙏
@taniweiss
3 ай бұрын
10:40 start the meditation
@Randomclips1653
4 ай бұрын
10:42
@lusteen6318
3 ай бұрын
Holy fuck, thanks so much for sharing this, litteraly you are a legend!
@vincentcollado8924
2 ай бұрын
I thought he is one of those stand up comedians.
@abdelwakyl-benterki
2 ай бұрын
looks like jack nicholson from the shining meme
@Buffacado
2 ай бұрын
Nobody: Subtitles: young man screaming loud
@Happydays992
8 күн бұрын
I was wondering why his feet were so huge now i know, there footwear😂😂😂
@biljanamilakovic2661
3 ай бұрын
Why should anyone scream just because you told them to?
@samuelhernandez4135
2 ай бұрын
U know it’s not loud when they cut it off mid scream
@captainrocky5yt244
2 ай бұрын
the fact i can see the camera man sometimes bothers me and i honestly have no idea why😭
@reneeschke
2 ай бұрын
whats up with those shoes?
@hustlersplaybook
3 ай бұрын
Ah, found it
@josephneilhimself
4 ай бұрын
Are you wearing big feet?
@Jkonp423
8 күн бұрын
Broa git the cave man ones on 😂🦶🏼
@Aquacav
2 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ is coming back soon He loves you
@moveordievision
3 ай бұрын
+
@prosketch95
2 ай бұрын
Dude wants people to stand up and scream like a Dragonball Z character powering up
@steve00alt70
4 ай бұрын
The crying faces are for the camera c'mon
@jamiemorgan540
4 ай бұрын
???
@Randomclips1653
4 ай бұрын
What do you mean??
@jamiemorgan540
4 ай бұрын
@@Randomclips1653 That's what I am wondering as well lmao
@DjSostre7
17 күн бұрын
There's no chance those two girls sitting right next to each other are crying individually. One of them is legit crying because the other one is. 😅🤦🏽 Women, I swear.
@hei318
7 күн бұрын
What's negative about that?
@tripxmedia
3 ай бұрын
I NEED THOSE SHOES
@YoBoyTreasure
3 ай бұрын
I did the meditation along with you from my bedroom and I’ve cried a way I haven’t in years….. I still feel something heavy on my chest and I dunno what it is and I know that means I still have a long way to go but am thankful you’ve helped me finally open up
@InTheAir-qu5tu
4 ай бұрын
Oh man, I was installing windows on a vm in the background during your meditation and freaking Cortana started speaking, "Hi there", said her in a monotonic voice, I thought it was an angel for a moment :D
@NicholasAfari-Mintah
3 ай бұрын
LOL
@AmiraLongoria
2 ай бұрын
😮😊😊
@shivambehl937
7 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@akshat3825
2 ай бұрын
This man is Changing Lives! And, we're busy watching MrBeast videos! Damn❤❤ love you man
@ΠαναγιώτηςΓεωργίου-β4β
4 ай бұрын
Been struggling with social anxiety since forever. Last week I started going at a cafe and I started talking to the girl working there. I started joking and asking her about herself,her job etc. The 3rd time I went I kept the same tactic and at some point I asked her out but she ignored my offer. The other day, I met a girl via social media. We met in person she stayed for 30 minutes then when I asked her for our next date she said she was busy twice. I'm sad and angry at the same time. But I understand that I can do nothing about it. I just give up wear my sunglasses at all times and keep endorsing myself
@NinaRoad
4 ай бұрын
Great job! Keep going! If a girl doesn’t like you it doesn’t mean that there’s something wrong with you, it’s just mean that it’s not HER. It’s normal and ok! Sometimes it took time to find your friend! /sorry if I made grammatical mistakes/
@ΠαναγιώτηςΓεωργίου-β4β
4 ай бұрын
@@NinaRoad Yup. The thing is im 25 and I always keep hearing "no's"
@NinaRoad
4 ай бұрын
Believe me, I understand, I’m 35 and only get no’s…this is life. I just wanted to tell a good thing, to support, when saw your comment. You have so much time!
@reef2980
3 ай бұрын
one advice i can give you, don't try to hard, it's like Julien said you might come across as a tryhard, people can sense/feel that. Just be yourself and ppl will enjoy to be around you
@GraemeCox
2 ай бұрын
Treat it like a numbers game and you don’t care if you get a no. You may need 100 nos before a yes. It’s the same with selling something on a website. Typically only about 1% of visitors buy something.
@bandycreek-kennelsandfarm
4 ай бұрын
I just started listening to you, but I heard in one of your videos that you had heard that your doctors had found nodules in your throat and may be cancer, a few months ago, Just wondering how that’s going and if it’s better??
@rijd2304
4 ай бұрын
I had to start accepting, and not rejecting, who I really was. So many of us are trying to live according to rules and expectations that don't align with who we truly are. I like that meditation book called 30 Days to Overcome Rejection by Harper Daniels, and the Tao Te Ching. Helps me remember we are not who we "think" we are.
@theregularfolks1723
2 ай бұрын
As a black person from a major black city… I needed this…
@librastellium185
2 ай бұрын
One video and I'm already sold, instantly subscribing. I need to be like this man.
@Lygjugujkh9876
2 ай бұрын
10:40
@Marie-or7mf
4 ай бұрын
Your feet shoes are awesome! Are they comfortable? ❤😊
@stormied.9952
20 күн бұрын
This is a great video but a lil jokey joke. When he said “..this is the end” I would’ve opened my eyes like are you about to kill all of us ? 🤣
@MartinCuticchio
2 ай бұрын
Regarding the screaming girl, I think Common sense is preventing her from doing something that will inevitably cause distress and embarrassment among the present (especially the closer ones) no matter how much you try to push her into your agenda. So it is less embarrassing to have you ask it repeatedly to create progressive increase in order that the common mean is progressively getting closer to your weird (abnormal, out of place) request. Her next answer "it was better" shows to me that she has good common sense, because she has brought the situation back to a comfortable place. So it is not "you are the cause of your own anxiety" but rather "there are many things influencing the dynamics including herd behavior". Now whether you want to be unreactive to the herd is a different matter. In that case you must accept to be considered weird from the perspective of the herd. Or you must be able to transform "escaping the herd" into a cool thing, in other words you have to be cool doing it. I think that is what happens with revolutionaries and visionaries that push the herd beyond their common center of gravity to a better place.
@gjorinykreim6477
2 ай бұрын
Sus
@user-pe5xv4ev7d
4 ай бұрын
that was intense
@Rafaelo1812
3 ай бұрын
I love your shoes man. Anti-Anxiety Edition. When's the Merch dropping? 👀🔥
@jeremyraves5814
4 ай бұрын
I would love to assist with supplying piano mediation music to assist! Let’s connect
@alexvfirehead
6 күн бұрын
I would’ve yelled the loudest bruh
@Arston010
3 ай бұрын
Thenk you so much Juilen, Words cant describe how you have assisted me in improving myself
@superganger4383
2 ай бұрын
4:13 someone is clapping but no one support 😔
@kiz__
2 ай бұрын
This video gave me social anxiety
@casandrahanson3838
2 күн бұрын
His feet scare me
@elusive7565
2 ай бұрын
lovely shoe’s sir
@هاشممتولي-ف7و
13 күн бұрын
Is it bad that i wanted to stay dead
@itsrubydee
8 күн бұрын
I watched this on my bed, I’m a college student and really thought at the meditation point I wouldn’t be triggered. But I cried. And I don’t know why but I feel like work needs to be done. I’ll be researching on this.
@svenphil8879
4 ай бұрын
It would be great to add which place the event was in in the description.
@krakenhood
4 ай бұрын
this one was in Vienna, Austria
@Quebonitoeslobonito123
2 ай бұрын
5:02 commenting as I watch: I think what we think will happen if we stop conforming to what society expects of us (or what we think they expect from us), and to the current version of who we currently are… we think we will be rejected from society because we aren’t confirming to what they want and/or who we currently are. Even if you don’t like where you fit (or think/believe you fit) into society, you *still* will feel uncomfortable trying to step out of that mold. You could currently have the belief that you’re not very social or charismatic, and even if you hate staying on the sidelines and not being social, you will keep doing it because you’re afraid that if you step out of that mold, people will stop, look at you, and tell you to go back to your mold. We are so afraid of being judged, rejected, outcasted (even if you are already being the outcast! Even then you wanna conform to that!) You’re afraid to get hurt and/or have your ego challenged. You’re basically afraid of being told by others, what you *yourself* is thinking of yourself already.
@NoahFlemingConsulting
4 ай бұрын
Powerful content.
@loctran803
4 ай бұрын
Nice shoes
@JulienHimself
4 ай бұрын
Thanks! 🙃
@Ramounskee
3 ай бұрын
i would watch this live if I live in the same country as his
@EricK-nm2gg
4 ай бұрын
Wasn’t bad at the start. But by 20 mins you’re pushing it.
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