It's great that you doing this kind of reflection at age 25! It took me much longer. Here's a quotation about "vocation" (or "true life's work-- maybe 天職 in Japanese) that helped me. It's by novelist Frederick Buechner: "Vocation is the place your deep gladness meets the world’s deep hunger."
@retronova_official
Ай бұрын
Good to know there's a fellow nature love! I've seen that Japan has some pretty spectacular sights and my goal is to visit the country one day.
@NaoyafromJapan250
Ай бұрын
Yeah!! Come to the countryside of Japan☺️
@EatnAllMyBunk
Ай бұрын
I find that I can get through a process that's not enjoyable as long as the result is something that I'm truly personally invested in. If my goal is something that I'm genuinely enthusiastic about, then my satisfaction isn't dependent on other people giving me validation or compliments. I already know that the time and effort spent achieving that result was worth it.
@josephhuang1163
Ай бұрын
You look like Keito Nakamura. You should do modelling.
@slangelands4255
Ай бұрын
Ask yourself whether you like the compliments because you genuinely like successfully helping people or because you need self-justification or self-reinforcement. The former will add meaning to your life, the latter will only contribute to your being more insecure. Ultimately, any profession gets boring after awhile, even surgery! If you truly get joy from helping people, then anything you do can make your life joyous. Some quotes for you. 1. "Only infinite patience produces immediate results." -from A Course in Miracles. My friend, you are very young still; it takes decades to know what one really wants in life. Be patient with yourself and allow yourself to make mistakes. Our goal is exploration, not results. Having the goal to have the freedom to explore is very worthy. Second quote: "The quality of your thoughts determines the quality of your life." - Marcus Aurelius. Harboring negative thoughts towards anyone will in the end, hurt you more than them. Negative thoughts eat at your psychological energy. This does not mean that you should allow anyone to take advantage of you; it means you forgive and forget them and immerse yourself fully in the immediate present. Best wishes to you. ❤
@NaoyafromJapan250
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing the quotes and your elaborations. The second quote hit different. I'll explore and learn to be ok with making mistakes. Making mistakes comes with exploration and it's inevitable anyway.
@LDDiscovery3
Ай бұрын
Introspection is good. Self-doubt goes hand-in-hand with intellectuality. Improving on yourself at such a young age, hats off to you. I am relieved to hear that the 'smaller things' in life does appeal to you. Nature is so important for our sanity. Find a good balance between making a financial living and living a rich life in terms of appreciating your health and what surrounds you. Creativity is probably the best way to find yourself. Your are going to be ok!
@justinestrem1090
Ай бұрын
I am a new subscriber and he made me think so much already, all about life.🤔 I think this chanel would be his records of his, before success. Hehe. I'll be waiting.
@hiroshiya_
Ай бұрын
You are brave enough to share your weakness on the Internet. Maybe you don't even realize that. I'm not here to tell you what to do or what not to do. At the end of the day, it's your life, and you get to make your own decisions. I do want you to know that very few people get to do what they like as their career. I'm sure you have many classmates who enjoy playing soccer/football or basketball during high school. Most of them don't get to play their favorite sports as their professions though. Having hobbies is one thing, having professions is a totally different story. I'm also finding my way. Hope you will find yours. ご武運を。
@DavidIdeaMachine
Ай бұрын
Hey brother, just wanted you to know - you're doing well, and everyone in this world will feel the way you're feeling sometimes! I have gone through similar thoughts, especially lately - I felt so stuck. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with everyone. I hope you continue to put in effort to understand your own feelings, and I wish you'll find your peace soon! You deserve it :)
@nmtviola
Ай бұрын
I wonder if you aren’t giving yourself enough credit for doing the job you currently do. I know that you said that you started a cram school because you wanted money and you like doing the job because you like complements but after watching the whole video it seems like there could be other reasons why you chose that job. I imagine that if you just wanted money, you could have possibly looked for a job with a company that paid well. Instead you decided to start a business where you could help students learn a language that you enjoy speaking. I know you said that you don’t enjoy the process of teaching but it sounds like you are a good communicator and that is why your students are able to understand concepts that they had trouble with learning at school. It is cool to watch you figure out what you want to do next in your career. I hope that you are being kind to yourself during the process and see how your current career choices also align with some of the things you enjoy doing but you are just ready for a change.
@sahkhr
Ай бұрын
Good job 👏
@TylerTompas-gx7oh
Ай бұрын
I’m an American trying to figure out his life aswell
@VeganAFperth
Ай бұрын
Have you ever thought about psychology and counselling? Or even philosophy? You can communicate with people in a deeper sense. You may enjoy the process of learning them very much and also you may get good money out of the knowledge in the future.
@NaoyafromJapan250
Ай бұрын
Actually I'm intersted in psychology, but I've never thought about being a counseller. Now I really want to grab some books about phychology. Thank you.
@VeganAFperth
Ай бұрын
@@NaoyafromJapan250 it could be a great online business. Counselling may not be affordable for everyone. But if you can utilise it online, you can create affordable programmes once you are professional. My partner has mild depression and he found the psychologist not very helpful yet really expensive. I guess the techniques taught by her was actually helpful to a certain extent but the price had added the stress so he couldn’t find himself continuing with his therapy. He had since joined a very affordable program created by a KOL and qualified psychologist in China and it helped him a lot mentally and really moving on with his life.
@VeganAFperth
Ай бұрын
@@NaoyafromJapan250no worries! I can tell you are very good at communication if it’s not a fake and superficial setting.
@MaskedVigilante-gw4jx
29 күн бұрын
I do have an answer to you. Your problem is a country problem. Not your personal problem. I understand that to you it may look like your personal failure to not be able to hold on a particular job at hand and enjoy it too. But what you do not understand, is that no matter what job you will hold, it wont give you any satisfaction. This is a country problem, not person problem. I am pretty sure that you have alot of interests in doing many things, but when you reach that interest and realize that it is not satisfying in monetary sense, you will give up. And since there is not that many things you will really want to do...as an interest wise, you will eventually start giving up on searching new things to do. I am 43 year old. I had the same feeling as you did back at your age, and just like you thought that there must be something wrong with me. But know this, from someone who has alot of experience in this, it is not your wrong. You are just trying to live in a dead society.
@Humor-Activity-Club
Ай бұрын
Interesting. You are good at being open and thinking about feedback. Do you like a certain type of humor or comedy?
@NaoyafromJapan250
Ай бұрын
I don't know what kind of comedy you call it, but I enjoy Key & Peele.
@googleeyes4182
24 күн бұрын
You need to ask the "32 yo average Korean guy" channel nxt to you.
@lilypse_Wu
Ай бұрын
Day 4: it's basically the same day but more exhausting. We had guests today and we played badminton. I didn't talked to them because im shy i didn't had thw courage to talk to them the whole time we were playing i was very quiet. After we're done playing badminton my friwnd and i went cycling again, it's more fun today because the road is empty.after i got home i immediately layed on my bed to rest. I forgot to practice piano today im too exhausted to get up. (Any tips to be less shy?)
@justinestrem1090
Ай бұрын
For me, it is best to still try to talk to them even if a small talk would do. I have been in a badminton group and I am not a friend of any of my team members, in order to make it less awkward, I talked to them and somehow I feel less shy or worry about talking with other people.😊Thank you.
@ssstuuu
Ай бұрын
I like to think that every person is good natured and willing to talk to me until I am proven wrong. Of course it's not going to be true at all times but it really helped me with my shyness when I was younger.
@lilypse_Wu
Ай бұрын
@@justinestrem1090 yeah ty, I'll try to talk to them if they come back and visit, I'll build up my courage to talk to them. I was just waiting for them to talk to me first because I'm too shy to talk first. Thank you
@lilypse_Wu
Ай бұрын
@@ssstuuu the only time they talked to me is when my friend introduced me to them. Im a very awkward and shy person that's probably why they won't talk to me. But thanks I'll remember your words since I am still a teen and still have a lot of time to improve as a human being.
@justinestrem1090
Ай бұрын
@@lilypse_Wu I believe in you! 😄
@i3abed7
Ай бұрын
man , life is easy but you guys make it complicating things.
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