I *love* this message. Thank you so much for sharing.
@michelleriess7563
Жыл бұрын
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@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching. Have a wonderful weekend. Hugs Cindy
@AnneTaylor-kk8ze
Жыл бұрын
Im alone no children no friends to comfort me,but I’m not sad because i always have my Heavenly Father God as my companion you are blessed you have family,may God Bless you
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, yes God is good and always with us. You are here and I hope we can be friends. Have a blessed weekend. Hugs Cindy❤️
@AnneTaylor-kk8ze
Жыл бұрын
@@cindynok yes we can be friends,i have now subscribed to your channel God Bless you ❤️😘
@susanmorgan4151
Жыл бұрын
What an interesting story. Thank you. I think 🤔 the respite you experienced may have been a gift from God.
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
I am sure it was. My sadness and grief has been terrible, but for a brief time there was peace. Have a Happy Holiday ❤️❤️❤️
@janniebee9501
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
You are welcome, it is a blessing for me to be able to share. Hopefully things with improve daily. Hugs, Cindy
@juliepangborn7282
Жыл бұрын
God is always blessing us in every moment but so often I'm rushing through the next responsibility on my list of things to take care of not realizing that sitting still and breathing and finding gratitude is taking care of me. My husband is in end stage renal disease and suffered a stroke that took him off the transplant list. Its hard watching someone you love lose hope. Taking care of myself is the best thing i can do for him. Be Still and Know that I AM. 💚
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Oh Julie, I am so sorry about your husband. And you are correct it is so easy to forget to pray, express gratitude, and cherish time alone in prayer with our Father. I have been so guilty of that, sometimes exhausted I say a quick prayer, mainly an apology for not putting God first. I know as a care giver the loneliness started setting in. He was mentally slipping away and I knew too soon I would be alone. I am here, I am wanting to build a community so we can all be of support to one another. Selfishly trying to help others gives me purpose Hugs and happy 4th of July❤❤❤❤
@Decgyrrl
Жыл бұрын
Both of my parents, are no longer with me. I was realitively young, when they died. I never married, and never had kids, so I'm alone. But i have friends & family, that i visit in Maryland, where my mom was orignally from. It's not easy after all these yrs. But somehow, u learn to cope & live ur new normal, as i have for many yrs. God bless u. And may ur husband rest in peace.🪽🙏🏽🕊🪷
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Thank you❤️ I am an only child of older parents, they have been gone for almost 30 years. I love my husbands family, they are my family. We have two children, their spouses and 4 grandchildren. But youngest is 14, the rest older. Two live in Texas, two here in Oklahoma. We do have to recreate our lives. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@jburnett8152
Жыл бұрын
My husband has been gone fourteen years now. This life is something we are never ready for. There is no closure, only learning to live with it. Somehow we find a way and a new way to live. Many times of peace and many blessings to you.
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
The longer he is gone the more I realize, this is permanent. After he died I just wanted to be with him. Slowly I have learned nothing will change except my attitude. I am trying hard, that is why I started filming. Input from KZitem friends like you are making a difference. I appreciate you coming in, thank you. Have a blessed weekend. Hugs❤❤❤
@DorothyakaCookieD_49
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your moment of PEACE!! ♥️🙏☺️
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Oh thank you for your support. I just had to share, it was one of those things I will never forget. Please have a wonderful weekend. Hugs Cindy❤❤❤❤
@DorothyakaCookieD_49
Жыл бұрын
@@cindynok You have a great weekend and HaPpY FoRtH of JULY!! ☺️
@karenpreston8663
Жыл бұрын
Your life changes overnight people that, you thought were friends are suddenly not available
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
True they disappear, some anyway. I think for many the whole situation is uncomfortable , they don’t know what to say. Some people get on with their lives, and they should, but that leaves us to recreate our existence. Today is the first day in a long time that I did not cry. It was a great feeling. Have a great 4th of July! ❤️❤️❤️
@teresaburke1868
Жыл бұрын
I happy as a widow❤
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
I am so happy you are happy! Can you give me any tips on how you reached this. I have a friend who has lost her two adult sons and her husband and she is happy alone. Thank you for stopping in Hugs Cindy
@maries3609
Жыл бұрын
Having a hobby to sink your mind into and also meditation really helps. Love you ❤😊
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Yes hobbies, I used to have them and enjoyed them, one even turned into a LLC (company). But then my grandchildren came along and as I described myself I was a blissful stay at home grandma.😊 I need to get busy again, youngest grandson is 14 yrs and in his own world😂 Please have a blessed weekend and a wonderful 4th of July! Hugs Cindy❤❤
@live_the_lifeyoulove
Жыл бұрын
So glad they were wonderful with you 🧡
@cozycomfy589
Жыл бұрын
Glad u had some peace. Dealing with cancer and chemo, I get some peace through knitting. It helps distract me and quiets my mind.
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Hello and thank you for coming by. I used to crochet but arthritis gets in the way. I never was able to knit, that took too much coordination. Hugs and have a blessed weekend! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@skatpak2967
Жыл бұрын
GOD BLESS you always thank you for this discussion..it really hit my heart after loosing my parents i felt like i was in another world for so long..and i turned to crochet now its my peaceful place and i really enjoy that time : ) you take care and much love to you
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Hello and thank you for being here! When I lost my parents three years apart I was devastated. I am an only child so really was alone, as far as siblings. I have two children, their spouses and 4 grandchildren. My family is my world. I so understand about the loss of your parents. I used to love to crochet, but nowadays my wrists just can’t do it very long. Have a great weekend! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@sxwrtr918
Жыл бұрын
Forty-nine years together; beautiful. So sorry for your loss. I've just come across this video and your 'still' projected such a warm calm sweetness and honesty that I was compelled to watch the video. That wonderful self-care you engaged in that absorbed you so completely I think is inspiration to those going through loss. I worked in eldercare and noticed that several of my lovely people increased their engagement in their hobbies or reached out to help others with their lives as a healthful way of helping to process their own grief. I know I will take your approach and theirs to heart during the inevitable losses that will inform my life. P.S. Ive heard that this kind of absorption in something, as you experienced, is called 'flow.' Just a tidbit. Be Well.
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
I had no idea what to call the experience, seemed odd but comforting. I just had to share it, especially for anyone totally enveloped in grief. I think it is a few baby steps forward. It is quiet ( and hot) out here in the country but renewal of life is constant. Please come back, so happy to have you. Hugs Cindy
@sxwrtr918
Жыл бұрын
@@cindynok Thank you for the warm welcome to your channel. I will certainly return. I hope we all see you even stronger from all the baby steps in your next video. Gotten quite toasty here in the Northwest too as the July 4th holiday approaches. Think I'll follow my cat's example and take a quick nap in a cool corner while I can.😉 Take Care
@smiller6925
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I lost my 32 year-old daughter about a year ago. And I get so anxious about losing my husband. He's my sweetheart too and he is not the healthiest and neither am I. So my take away is no matter what happens we will be alright. God will help us. I don't know what I would do without my Lord.
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
I am sorry for the loss of your daughter. I try to go with the thought that God loves me, he created grief so he also will help me embrace life as it is. Hugs❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@spookienewton
Жыл бұрын
I don't know where you came from just popping up on my KZitem recommendations. I needed to see this, thank you ❤️ God bless you. Hope that makes sense.
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
I am so glad to have you! I used to be active on this channel, but when hubby got sick things changed so much. I hope to see you again! Thank you for being here. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@SimplethingswithTamiVlogs
Жыл бұрын
I just found you! I have subscribed! 💖 you sound so sweet my new friend. Yes we all long for peace ✝️
@irenemccoubrey7360
Жыл бұрын
Your a lovely lady thank you xx
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching. It feels great to be able to start communicating again. I want to help others with their journey. Happy 4th of July ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@junbug1029
Жыл бұрын
Hiya Cindy, it’s great to see you. You’re looking very well. I have a few friends who are widows and a couple of them struggle with loneliness even around family and friends. I find diamond painting very relaxing too. Thank you for sharing your story. I used to take care of terminally I’ll people and I’m happy that George was in a good rehab center. I love you! 💕 xoxo Joan
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Hey Joan, so good to see you. Making these two videos brought bake so many memories of all our wig videos. Gosh that seems so long ago..😊 Today is the first day in probably two months that I didn’t start crying and I was not so emotional today. Was a good day. I like the diamond painting, something easy to start and stop. I hope you have a wonderful 4th of July. I bet there the fireworks are amazing! Hugs❤️❤️❤️
@RumduolAngkor
Жыл бұрын
nice sharing
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I feel better addressing these issues with KZitem friends. Have a wonderful weekend! Hugs Cindy
@joanne3799
Жыл бұрын
First of all I am so sorry for your loss. You two would always go places, out to eat, and you'd always have a beautiful wig on for the occasion. I know your heart feels like it will never get better, but in time the pain will fade a bit. Nothing will ever replace your love and sweet memories of George. I am happy that you are making videos again. When you get used to watching someone and then they go away it leaves a tiny darkness in my heart. I have watching you for a long time and maybe someday you will get into wigs again but for now, know that I care for you and your well being. Joanne from Ohio
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Oh thank you Joanne, You are correct, I loved those days after he retired even if it was as simple as a trip to the hardware store. I am so happy he retired at 60 so we had 8 years together all the time. The last two were very hard but I am honored to have been by his side until the end. I hope I am back here on KZitem for good. I missed my friends. Thank you for your support. Hugs Cindy❤❤❤
@sheilam7587
Жыл бұрын
I am so happy you had that moment of peace. Hopefully it will continue.
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I just had to share. There is always hope and faith to carry us through the best and worst of times. Hugs, Happy 4th of July ❤️❤️❤️
@PlainVanillaGrandmaCarol
Жыл бұрын
Cindy, You are just a treasure. ❤
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Carol Hugs❤️❤️❤️❤️
@SimplethingswithTamiVlogs
Жыл бұрын
I love podcasts. Which is your favorite?
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Hello, I love the pod cast Family Ghosts. It isn’t really about ghosts but different family stories, different places and times. Many different peoples stories. I love to listen to it. Have a great Friday evening. Hugs Cindy
@SimplethingswithTamiVlogs
Жыл бұрын
@@cindynokI’ll check it out! God bless you 🙏♥️
@loiscampbell3510
Жыл бұрын
I'll check it out too.
@JerryAndJulieMusic
Жыл бұрын
I wanted to say that I'm so deeply sorry about your husbands passing. I dont know how you feel but I have compassion for you.
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kindness. Being a widow is something I had no idea would come with so many emotions. Hey anyone feeling alone or hopeless is an over load of emotions. I am hoping I will be able to open all our minds to these hard subjects, just from an old woman and how the world looks to her. Have a fantastic holiday Hugs❤❤❤❤
@johnkizziah108
11 ай бұрын
My wife recently died (long cancel fight) I'm so sad like most people would be.. i got out on the front porch with a cup of coffee in the morning. And sometimes i know its Jesus who gives me a few minutes of comfort. Im so grateful for him doin that for me..come to me that are heavily burdened and i will give you rest. Only last a short time then im back to crying but its at least a little comfort
@NonaMaryGrace1952
9 ай бұрын
Hello Cindy, I love seeing you. wish you would make new videos soon. I can tell you really miss George. I use my husbands name all the time. Glad your using yours. 💕NonnaGrace🐓
@OneBraveWoman
Жыл бұрын
Praise God, Cindy! Sounds like God showed up at your house!
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
Yes it was! Oh I started to call you when I crashed emotionally a couple weeks ago. I was so hopeless. But I didn’t figure you could understand me while I sobbed. I love you❤❤❤
@justuschickens10
Жыл бұрын
My elderly neighbor told me that when her husband passed it was the best thing that ever happened to her 🤷 she said don't get me wrong I love him we were married 42 years but now I am free no cooking no shopping for two I can travel buy what I want eat what I want when I want - I was speechless 😂
@cindynok
Жыл бұрын
I agree speechless, but some people don’t have a good relationships and some people are just selfish. I was so honored to take care of my husband and I miss him so much. Have a wonderful 4th of July, Hugs Cindy❤️
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