A huge part of my slow living routine is saying no to things I don’t want to do; I honour the commitments I make to friends and family but I don’t commit to anything without some forethought. I am content spending time by myself. I don’t allow people into my orbit who are toxic. I’ve kicked all that to the curb,
@kerryjames6312
Жыл бұрын
Same
@SheeneArca
Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@Mac16111
10 ай бұрын
It is a small word, but one of the most important. No.
@JehanineMelmoth
Жыл бұрын
Disability forced me to learn slow living. I have to rest a lot, and I can’t multitask at all. I have to pace myself carefully. But it works! When I first became ill I overdid things all the time, and it would knock me flat for weeks. I’m having wrist surgery next week and I’m going to miss cooking so much! My husband has to help chop the vegetables, but I love all the other parts of creating a beautiful, healthy meal. Cooking isn’t just a useful skill - it’s a joy and it saves money. Most people who hate cooking have never learned properly and go at it too fast, get dehydrated and headachy. Anyway - good advice from you as usual!
@schuylergeery-zink1923
8 ай бұрын
We can learn a lot of Zen from our pets… my cat of 20 years just passed away. She really taught me the key to longevity is to be a bit cheeky and demanding at times with what you want and need - and to live simply and slow. All that really mattered was right here, right now.
@aliciafaith1343
Жыл бұрын
❤ I agree 100%, I hate to feel I’m living too fast not enjoying the moment.
@NikSawyer
Жыл бұрын
Watching your content is part of my Slow Sunday routine. 🙂 I have a hard time focusing during the work week. I’m working on it though…
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
Honoured to be a part of your Slow Sunday 🥰
@phmiii
9 ай бұрын
I agree, Life should have less Stress!
@seajayami
8 ай бұрын
World: listen to this woman's advice!
@cynthiabromback8854
Жыл бұрын
Yes, do a day in the life including the food you eat. My hobby of collecting a few vintage sylvanian homes, furniture, critters and accessories and having them set up to look at and change around every so often is a nice way to relax and take the weekends slow.
@mht5875
Жыл бұрын
I work a rather fast-paced job so I full know and understand the importance of slowing the pace of life when possible. And congratulations on hitting almost 20K subscribers.
@pjlacey3990
Жыл бұрын
I have never heard of slow living before. Thank you for bringing it to my attention.
@bex438
Жыл бұрын
This video really resonated with me and I'd love to see a day in the life video 👍
@christineweatherford5852
Жыл бұрын
I love the topic of this video!!!!!! This is perfect timing!!!
@cyclingonplants7444
Жыл бұрын
Hi Nicole and Levi 🤗 great topic! Would like to see a day in the life video for sure. I do the same as you and take a walk every morning and just take in the sights and sounds. I like to incorporate as much slow living as I can on a daily basis - it's not always possible but I'm getting better at just focusing on one task at a time and not burning myself out. My job is pretty chill now but it wasn't always that way and I remember those feelings of being so scattered and worn out. We like to take vacations where we go canoe portaging in the wilderness for a week at a time or go Winter camping. This really forces us to focus on one thing at a time and we really feel like our batteries have been recharged after a trip like that.
@intertubicular
Жыл бұрын
I totally respect and admire your lifestyle. Absolutely and unequivocally! You however give me the vibe that you are single with no children and are a trite selfish to your own needs and material things. It's okay. It's what makes you happy. However Not all of us are capable of living a "slow life" living in a family environment. You got the world by the ball's young lady. Don't get knocked up or it's all over!!!!!!
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
Getting knocked up is my 3rd biggest fear in life after 1) developing gluten intolerance, and 2) spiders.
@intertubicular
Жыл бұрын
@@AccordingtoNicole HAHA. I hear ya!
@KurtHalfyard
7 ай бұрын
I am 100% with you on COOKING with no distractions, and enjoying the process, the smell, and the feeling of preparing food. It can be very relaxing for me.
@2davivadiva
Жыл бұрын
Your hair is beautiful
@katherineswart474
Жыл бұрын
I would be interested to hear a bit about the fish. I can tell you are an animal lover, i wonder if you've looked into the benefits of getting them some weed to hide in? on another topic, im nearly 60 and increasingly moving towards this way of living my life. I guess I'm interested in how you will develop the next 30 years, because you seem to be already there so to speak! (not 60 just wise).
@stefaniaoravecova7845
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Nicole for making these videos :) It helps me a lot in my life.
@OneDayWeAreFree
Жыл бұрын
I want to practice more slow-living. It's really really hard! I think it'll be easier when the children are grown and there's less financial stress, as I'll be able to spend less spoons on work hours and childrearing. Most children are not into slowness, lol.
@thegriffinwithin
Жыл бұрын
I did make.a conscious decision to get out in the garden after work to do things for me. I get smashed by work a lot and taking that time for me is really important.
@aragona360
8 күн бұрын
I know this is an old video but I would love to see you make that tofu dish.
@letsmakeamesstoday
Жыл бұрын
So happy that you have learned this at this stage i your life! Its key! Xo
@dogsareawomansbestfriend
Жыл бұрын
Wanting to take care of my dogs and the wild squirrels take time and I loose time in organizing my house.
@smartypants1980
Жыл бұрын
After watching the first film from the minimalists, I always had a question about slow living.
@ny2phillyholloway592
Жыл бұрын
Another informative and practical video. Thank you for the quality over quantity approach in your content. I learned about breathing and grounding myself 4yrs ago. I tend to do my least favorite task to music when possible first so that I can relax and read or walk. My walks are my therapy!! no music or distractions. Always with my cell for safety but never use it. Wishing everyone peace of mind, body, and soul. There's hope for you youngins yet🤭💖
@datura087
Жыл бұрын
I'm watching all these now so when I have my own place, I can put all this into action
@broughttoyoubynmblake
Жыл бұрын
Haha I was like ooo I want to hear what she played on the guitar , then BAM blink 182, seeing them in London this October. Some good tips, time to wind down for the evening.👌🏾
@billiespencer9670
10 ай бұрын
Good advice. However, I I've with a very disorganized and stressed individual. Too late to get rid of her after 56 years,but I've found a good center.
@robertspence831
4 ай бұрын
I know I was a lot more productive before I had the internet in my life.
@lorianbazley9088
2 ай бұрын
❤
@sheilam283
Жыл бұрын
Yes, please do make a "day in the life". Because I hear the phrase a lot and I wonder if it's just the same thing as being intentional? Also as someone trying to incorporate more meatless (and free of dairy/eggs) meals into our lives I would love for you to do any kind of videos that might help the transition. I am interested for both health reasons as well as frugal. My biggest problem is getting to feel full. I work and I can't be noshing all day long. I need to eat int he morning then have lunch at mid day. Can vegan food fill you up? Thank you, your videos are very unique and I like them a lot!
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
I eat a small lunch and a large dinner every day. That's it. No breakfast and no snacks. Sometimes a small desert after dinner but not usually.
@Playchoice3Net1
Жыл бұрын
Soul burps lol!
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
Sorry not sorry 😅
@TheREALJosephTurner
4 ай бұрын
Who all would be all in for a dash-mounted "Nicole burp cam." LOL Just kidding, but I'd definitely watch a "day in the life" video to see some of your advice used in practice. I may be older, but you've taught me a thing or two through your videos.
@awesomeladylight
Жыл бұрын
your adorable, driven and me thirty years ago....my best advice get out of the crab bucket, make sure your ok and stable, then reach back to help others, servants all but some take all...
@firstnamelastname3558
10 ай бұрын
What kind of business do you own?
@mimi1o8
Жыл бұрын
It sounds like, having a dog, isn’t much different from having a child. I’m probably an exception but don’t have time for that 😅
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
Yes, he’s needy like a little kid. But he doesn’t 💩 his pants or throw tantrums. And if I leave him home alone I don’t get arrested. So he’s actually way better.
@kerryjames6312
Жыл бұрын
Please slow down when speaking your rushing your speach slow down
I never comment on KZitem. But I’ve felt compelled to let you know your amazing and I love and enjoy your videos.
@GirlytheCorgi
Жыл бұрын
For reals.
@richardsanty9063
Жыл бұрын
I once had a job packaging decals. on my first day on the job, my boss told me to work faster. I walked over to the time clock and clocked out and went home. I don't rush for anybody.
@briancates4758
Жыл бұрын
Good for you Richard! 😊
@marcellemayer4772
Жыл бұрын
I would like to see “A day in the life” video. I’m 66 and retired, surrounded by 4’ of snow. If my life was any slower I’d be going backwards. When I lie in bed in the morning waiting to get up I think about what I have to do. I’m at that point when I’m glad if I have laundry to do or cleaning or a good book to read or a vegetable soup to make or my favourite KZitem channels to watch (According to Nicole being one of them). I’m also a minimalist so I go around the house looking for things to get rid of. Some things are hard to part with. But that is actually my favourite thing to do. Is that boring?
@janecopeland2306
Жыл бұрын
I laughed out loud at your comment about going backwards. I am exactly the same. Retired, living slow and loving it. I don't think it is boring. It's awesome!
@marycharlebois6627
Жыл бұрын
Multitasking is completely 💯 over-rated (imho). Doing one thing at a time whilst being fully present is key to slow living. I, too, enjoy cooking with intentionality… “mise en place” is part of my cooking experience every time. Thanks for the great discussion today. Ⓜ️ary
@Kimbopolo
Жыл бұрын
One thing I love about your content - you always give concrete examples.
@christineweatherford5852
Жыл бұрын
I would love a day in the life video! Or even your morning and evening routines! That would be so helpful to see an example of slow living routines
@tracymizerny3894
Жыл бұрын
Would love more on slow living. Thank you, Nicole!
@dumpsterchicken6287
11 ай бұрын
I function the same way you do. The difference is, it took me 67 years to figure it out.
@marksule0
Жыл бұрын
Been here since you had less than 1k subscribers. Love you! The slow cooking is definitely something I like doing as well!
@codyleeser392
Жыл бұрын
I stopped wearing a watch eons ago because I noticed it changed my behavior. Everything became about how long a task would take. I do not own a cell phone either. reception here in the mountains is poor and I hate chatting on the phone. I would rather be face to face. (not screen face either).
@NettieFIRE
Жыл бұрын
My hubby & I have taken to ‘speaking about the nature we see on our morning walks’; little birds building their nest or eating bugs; dogs ‘fun barking’ in the park; ducklings scurrying after their mothers; the change in the leaf colours; the coolness of the breeze; the warmth of the morning sun. Nature and the weather - they are ‘things of beauty and wonder’ - if only we take a small amount of time to notice them. Now, we do notice things individually anyway but when someone share it verbally (or a passer by does) it’s like you get more ‘bang for your buck’; they notice things that you might miss. And when you notice them both ‘at once’ - that’s a little bit of magic right there! 😮 Walking outside is so, so underrated!
@festiva93
Жыл бұрын
Almost 20k 🎉 so happy for you! Thank you for this important reminder. I needed to hear it.
@BackroadMoney
Жыл бұрын
New subscriber here, Money Mom sent me, and I'm so glad she did! I love your channel!
@pageless273
Жыл бұрын
Advice everyone should live by I think. Decluttering, living intentionally and slowing down has done wonders for my mental health. When I started several years ago I had severe anxiety and depression. No motivation to do anything really, but when the first round of stuff I didn't need was gone it felt freeing and I felt better with every next intentional step. Now I'm helping my 86 year old grandmother do the same because she wants to move to a space that suits her needs better.
@FaithAnnNB
Жыл бұрын
I aim for slow living in my evenings, to make up for my psychotic workday. I have many friends who seem to make a competition of “making memories” and constant activities for their children or themselves. After dinner is cleaned up, I like to light a couple of candles, prepare a mug of loose leaf tea and sit with my sketchbook for a bit. I really don’t need to sign myself up for a million things and be on the go constantly to feel fulfilled or enjoy myself. As for cooking/baking, I definitely view it as one of my hobbies. It’s also still a chore at times, definitely not saying that I always love doing it, but I do enjoy making an effort and preparing things from scratch. I love baking bread, desserts, making homemade pasta, etc. and consider that to be a relaxing way to spend time.
@Thehappyhomemaker
Жыл бұрын
Multi tasking stresses me out and I end up messing up. 🙃 one thing at a time works for me for sure
@JaneGo
Жыл бұрын
I prefer to do one big task per day. I'm tired of fast-paced working.
@cyandiana
Жыл бұрын
Yes, a day in the life, a morning routine, an evening routine, would love to see any of these vids coming from you Nicole. Do you experience anxiety when something big at work depends on you? is it difficult for you to self-manage and organize? I find working for myself sometimes comes with periods of high anxiety due to my poor self-organization skills.
@kerryjames6312
Жыл бұрын
I shop cooking clean all household try taking care of my self near 55 year old woman 26 year old twins at home with heart conditions do feel exhausted run down I pray for a slower peaceful life I care about peace
@JohnEnergy2012
Жыл бұрын
All of this, and taking it a few steps further... that's me. Up to the point I've no financial obligations so I don't need much money neither. Taking it from here and adding stuff slowly but very controlled. I'm not going to be a slave of stuff anymore.
@JohnEnergy2012
Жыл бұрын
To come to this point did cost some energy... now I'm looking for a new purpose. Walking the dogs is a good start.
@tofersiefken
10 ай бұрын
I'm new to your channel, and this video made me subscribe. I retired a couple years ago and began to focus on my mental health, which up to that point had been sorely neglected. I found a great therapist, matched up with my E.S.A., Chewie, and began to shift from always preparing for the "next thing" or dwelling in past trauma to grounding myself in the present moment. (Full disclosure, I'm neurodivergent as well.) I find that literally going into a slow-motion mode, physically slowing my movements and focusing on each one, sometimes even mentally narrating the experience or narrating aloud to Chewie helps me slow down. I look forward to checking out your other content.
@cj222100
Жыл бұрын
Getting close to 20k, congrats!
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼
@madamemaigret1508
Жыл бұрын
No worries about being gross. When I get into the car after a day at work I usually do a giant fart. My husband used to work in an all male environment and everyone broke wind as and when. I work with all women and it's a real no-no. As soon as I'm in my car I can relax...
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
🤣
@savedgez
Жыл бұрын
I want to have a wife like you.
@joeshmoe7899
11 ай бұрын
>human peeing on curb, arrested for indescent exposure/ health violation. >dog peeing on curb, awwwww cute.
@peterowen4456
Жыл бұрын
Found this video very helpful. I am retired so actually have a lot of spare time but I can often feel "overwhelm" when I have a number of tasks that need doing. I often dwell on the number of tasks rather than take a deep breath and sort out an order in which to do them. Intentionality is a key word - for some reason you don't hear it used often in the UK in this context - and a good thing to start getting things under control.
@libbyannstew8775
Жыл бұрын
Great video Nicole; I’m exactly the same with respect to clutter. It really agitates me and that reaction is worsening as I get older. I cycle through my home every month continuing to find things I can get rid of (which doesn’t mean discard - I donate as much as I can). I keep a large bin in the basement and when it’s full I offload the stuff. Slow living is something to strive for but difficult to achieve with a young family. Keep up the great work - love your vids.
@suyoungsy
Жыл бұрын
I guess I've been slow living all my life then. I have a single track mind so I only focus on one thing at any period in time i.e. my education when I was a student, work temporary jobs only during school vacations, and my job after graduation. I just get rid of whatever that makes my life hectic. I don't like going for gatherings, keep a pet, and things like that. I'm lucky that my family doesn't give me trouble so I can maintain my leisure. I find it much easier and more relaxing to do everything on my own. I've always wondered how people juggle so many things in their lives without breaking down. I sure can't handle that. I'm used to having my time all to myself. It's really a blessing to not have my time taken away from me.
@dustinreynolds1552
Жыл бұрын
being single with no one to help with anything is exhausting
@johenderson3742
10 ай бұрын
Yes, but imagine the alternative! Someone living with you, being dirty, lazy, loud, annoying... Better off on your own I say!❤
@BeFree-BeFrugal
Жыл бұрын
I knew a doctor who bought a fountain pen, as opposed to using a ball point pen in order to write more mindfully
@sharanjitsaroya8494
Жыл бұрын
Nicole you are becoming popular everyday🎉so glad to see you growing so fast .. not long ago I see you having subscribers in hundreds growing in thousands.. Money mom also referred people to your channel
@karenayochim9137
Жыл бұрын
Id love to know some of the podcast topics you are into.
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
Mostly Dateline NBC and some punk shows.
@maryl8210
Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!!!! I lived most of my life feeling rushed, muscles tight, always feeling as if I were in a 'fight or flight' readiness, always pulled in so many directions. Now I have the single word 'simplify' placed several places in my home, moving ever closer to minimalism in possessions, relationships, responsibility. I slowly work on home repairs and upgrades as well as healthy living to 'upgrade' my health. I have learned the word 'no' and use it more often when another job is more than I can handle. When I see your videos, I feel uplifted, validated, and more calm. I totally understand being so involved that we forget to breathe, been there, done that. Changing to this simplified and intentional way of living, I feel younger, more hopeful, and am even with less physical pain. The quiet in my home is so blissful as I start each day with prayer and meditation that then energizes me for whatever comes.
@karenayochim9137
Жыл бұрын
I love the outsourcing comment.I clean houses and people I know judge my clients for spending money this way and I reply every time with "maybe they made a conscience choice to buy back the limited time we have on earth"
@lorritucker6264
Жыл бұрын
I would love to see some cooking videos. I know it goes against what you just said in this video as far as you don’t like to be distracted in the kitchen but it might be a fun & different kind of video to try. The tofu noodle dish you made looked delicious & you are more amazing & special than you realize. Thanks for sharing your life & your ideas with us.
@sharonfarnsworth3325
Жыл бұрын
We don’t turn in the fireplace because it costs too much but we enjoy a KZitem video of a fireplace & snow coming down in a coffee shop with jazz. I kind of watch it while cooking but don’t like to watch t.v. while cooking. Good video, Nicole!! Thanks!
@madamemaigret1508
Жыл бұрын
We have the KZitem fireplace on too! Really relaxing and I swear the room gets warmer albeit psychologically...
@kerryjames6312
Жыл бұрын
Guilty I take my phone to bed drink coffee late and my main meal it's bit late
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
Same to be honest, but I’m trying 😅
@joshua.butler
Жыл бұрын
I'm a little intrigued by the soul burp. I'd watch the day in the life of According to Nicole. 👌
@mavielfelizenacor3694
11 ай бұрын
Hi Nicole❤ love all your videos
@cmk1626
Жыл бұрын
I love slow and I love quiet. I struggle to fend off the opinions of so many of my associates who scoff at not doing more. I am always perplexed when people tell me their plans for their days off from a hectic work schedule.....and the day off is way more filled with activities than the work day that they are so exhausted by! I thought I was the only "slacker" around so thanks for the video.... at least it's not just me.
@melissalee333
Жыл бұрын
Breathing is something I have to intentionally tell myself to do. I find I hold my breath often especially when I’m stressed. I’m trying to slow down today and just relax but my mind keeps telling me I should be doing something. I’m going to really try to just breathe and relax the rest of today. Tomorrow will be here too soon and there will be no time to rest.
@carolynstewart8465
8 ай бұрын
Cutest dog! Glad you allow yourself the luxury of a pet. Such a comfort! You are amazing!
@elleh3495
Жыл бұрын
alot of the problem is major life choices you make; they affect everything. if you married an unhelpful person or a selfish person and have small children, its not a recipe for a calm and contented life. If you take a job that forced you to work over 50 hours a week in a high stress atmosphere, its also not going to help. In both scenarios you become burned out and too tired to focus and probably use some unhealthy habit to cope. Single, low stress job, time outside, etc can be some steps to take. I love this video.
@paulrumohr
Жыл бұрын
Great video, Nicole, but I’m not sure that I would describe your life as slow living. You’ve got too much stuff packed into it.
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
Bill to pay, mouths to feed. 🤷🏼♀️ I strive for balance however I can.
@Playchoice3Net1
Жыл бұрын
Great content as always!
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏼
@xkristixx
Жыл бұрын
More guitar playing in that genre is needed at the end of every video please. 👍
@AccordingtoNicole
Жыл бұрын
Nobody likes you when you're 23.
@hafsaiqbal343
Жыл бұрын
Hi Nicole, your videos are so amazing I love them and you are same as what you say👍. Really wise in young age. Keep up !
@donnadevine5864
Жыл бұрын
'Spirit burp', indeed! I'll remember this description and image forever. 😄 I love the good sense in this video, and can relate to everything you've mentioned. As regards sleep hygiene, I'm in fact focusing on this very thing at the moment, and with some success (though I've just recently begun). I'd like to see a video of your own practices. Thank you for the time you take and for the care and energy you bring to these videos.
@lilwarrioraleena
Жыл бұрын
You should make a morning and night routine, and some DITL vids.
@coffeecupconversations
Жыл бұрын
I stay under stress for long periods of time, and I often have the burps at night. This has made me re-think breathing!
@GoingGoingGoneCraigWyatt
Жыл бұрын
I find watching your videos very relaxing, keep the good work. Watching from the UK 🇬🇧
@joeshmoe7899
11 ай бұрын
Work is where you accumulate memories that will haunt your dreams forever.
@robertspence831
4 ай бұрын
I miss it now that I'm retired. Hard to believe, but true. In my my dreams I'm still young, running giant machines that were long ago cut up for scrap...Weird.
@hellocolor101llo5
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to make these helpful videos. :)
@amandakovacs111
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I would love to see a day in the life video. Also interested in the morning and evening routines! Great video today, thanks!
@danabarnebey7258
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Just discovered your site and glad I did.
@brendadunston9895
Жыл бұрын
Hi Nicole. Yes more on slow living please. :)
@bonnielizarraga7941
Жыл бұрын
I would like to practice slow living but I work Alot I got sick with breast cancer and am healing from surgury I don’t want to get sick just to have time off but in truth that is my life I am going to change and work a little less so I can actually remember my life having another birthday in a couple of months and can’t remember the year just know I was rushing though itThank you for your insight workaholism is valued in this country but not at the expense of your mental and Physical health
@Val__609
Ай бұрын
I am autistic and ADD (inattentive but not hyperactive). I was only diagnosed about a year and a half ago. But over the last decade or so, I have actually implemented many of the strategies you have outlined here. The declutter one is amazing. I learned long ago that our brains rarely multi-task, but rather task-switch. I am much more efficient when I focus on one task at a time. Routine is also quite good for my brain. Anyway, this slow living lifestyle works really well for my brain. And I would love to see a day in the life video. 😊
@messyludo1269
Жыл бұрын
We need a morning/night routine 😍😍😍😍😍😍
@Michelle-bk5uq
Жыл бұрын
Yes to a day in the life, morning and an evening routine video! I'd also love a what I eat in a day video.
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