I’m the worst with mistaking rudeness for genuine interest!!! AHGGHHH SAME
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
What are we doing 😂😂
@nmg6248
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 it’s true! 😭 Although I also love just going with it sometimes because the other person gets so annoyed 😂
@Strassenkaetzchen
Ай бұрын
But when you think about it , it’s actually a great coping mechanism ! 🥇immune to rudeness
@marsy427
2 ай бұрын
Honestly I love that I mistake rudeness for genuine interest, because it really disarms people. It takes the power away from their rudeness because you didn’t receive it in the way they wanted you to. And then you’re less likely to be hurt by the conversation too
@jasminer.6721
2 ай бұрын
Lmao see i would love to do this, but I have a fear of my autism to be clocked if I answer too literal. That comes from years of torture in school though 😅😅
@langserv
Ай бұрын
The best way, is to try and stay calm and professional while at work
@langserv
Ай бұрын
The best way, is to try and stay calm and professional while at work
@gracep2910
Ай бұрын
“meeting stupid questions with patience” this is my life’s greatest challenge 😂
@TelainaMuir
10 ай бұрын
I do the pen thing too! Different colors and needing to switch colors and it helps me keep track too!
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
It’s so helpful to color code!!
@Bea-rq1uf
10 ай бұрын
I literally stayed in a really dangerous (transphobic) conversation for about 10mins last week because I mistook their rude and invasive questions for genuine questions:((
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
Hope you’re okay!!! It happens, I’m sorry
@jasminer.6721
2 ай бұрын
Im so glad you're okay. That's why I stay out of that stuff cause its so hard to tell genuine interest from hostility enough.....I don't talk about stuff like that to random people unless I trust them.
@Bea-rq1uf
2 ай бұрын
@@jasminer.6721 thank you! Yeah I think that's a good call I'm going to start doing that too
@Purplegoddess777
10 ай бұрын
"Gay pride" lmao!
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
I had to add the spice 😂
@sycoforever6809
10 ай бұрын
THATS FUR BABIES got me 😂😂🫶🏼
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
It just came out of my mouth. I bust out laughing afterwards
@sycoforever6809
10 ай бұрын
It made me subscribe, your hilarious 😂❤️
@thedogthatcandraw
Күн бұрын
At my cashier job a woman asked if she would “get a voucher” if she recommended the store to her friends. I explained that we don’t do that and she looks at me deadpan and says “that was a joke. A joke.” And it made me feel so stupid but like people ask those questions all the time how was I supposed to know 😭 sometimes retail is a *nightmare* for autistic people
@happyhiro
10 ай бұрын
love the background commentary 😭😭💀
@thabozzofficial
10 ай бұрын
Just discovered your channel today and your content is brilliant; so relatable and the way you deliver it is superb. Subbed for sure! 👍
@logan_rox2105
10 ай бұрын
i don't know if this is innapropriate or not, but i've been looking into autism a lot the past few months i've talked to my psychiatrist about it and my parents but i wanted to say i understood a lot of that. especially the joke thing. my parents make fun of how much i love dinosaurs by purposely getting things about them wrong and i can't tell until it makes me look dumb also i genuinely love your content! thank you for existing!
@logan_rox2105
10 ай бұрын
yeesh, that was long
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
Lol that’s not inappropriate - unless I have completely misunderstood what you just said 😂 I promise this is NOT a long comment. This is a SHORT comment compared to what our comment sections usually look like. That’s actually a very common occurrence! I don’t actually know why people do it so much
@logan_rox2105
10 ай бұрын
im not the sharpest light bulb in the ocean, whats a common occurrance???@@Aneva
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
@@logan_rox2105 my brain is crispy- my bad I didn’t use proper punctuation. I meant to say that NT people often find joy in trickery of us ND people!
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
And my brain is now crispier. I meant to say syntax
@rafaelalesniak8550
10 ай бұрын
Her life would be so much easier if just bought one pen that can change colors depending on which color you press down XD
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
The book fair pens! I’d set it down for .5 seconds and someone else would own it
@minkberrystudio
10 ай бұрын
In an ideal world. But those hardly work and they feel is too big, and the ink doesn’t come out the way you like. So no, not for everyone.
@amandawhite6932
3 ай бұрын
Not autistic, but shy and socially anxious and this is the first time I seen someone in real life on video that I relate to so much. People either think Im stupid, weird, or rude. Why can't they just see that Im nervous and uncomfortable?
@E.Pierro.Artist
2 ай бұрын
Yeah nah I just call people out for being rude a**holes, personally.
@JINNAMONSTER12
2 ай бұрын
Cracker barrel was my first job lol
@taylorgoodin3513
3 ай бұрын
Lmao. I was watching a movie in the break room with the lights down and plus I enjoy eating lunch that way anyway / break Someone came and turned the lights on which is fine but they made a big deal outta it like “ what are you doing crying in here “
@Slipping_thru_the_Seams
10 ай бұрын
tbh i think you handled it really well
@naturalscratcher9498
4 ай бұрын
Had no idea that over apologizing was a part of autism and my mom makes fun of me all the time why do you keep saying sorry why are you keep thinking people why do you keep saying sorry you don’t have to keep saying you’re sorry to people stop saying you’re sorry it’s not on purpose mom I can’t help it I’m trying not to😢
@Thebluegirl-ve5ys
10 ай бұрын
When the women said keto deit . . . There are too many memories Read more ...
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
I fell for the Read More People trying the keto diet and then cheating on it by eating ungodly amounts of bread always gives me a good giggle.
@Thebluegirl-ve5ys
10 ай бұрын
@Aneva first : me too 🤣 Second: it's my second time putting the read more so you are the first person to fall for it, lol 🤣🩷
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
@@Thebluegirl-ve5ysI’m a boomer 😂
@langserv
Ай бұрын
Just get one pen with multiple colors
@Engeleyez94
10 ай бұрын
Am i autistic 😅
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
I posted this to TikTok too and ALOT of people told me they’re not autistic and experience the same things! Basically, other mental disorders/learning disabilities can mimic autism! It’s been nice seeing so many different people share! A big part of this is that someone with autism might find it completely unbearable, while someone with “ a bit of anxiety “ might find it to be more of a simple challenge. Or someone with severe adhd might also feel this way, but not meet criteria for ASD
@TurBecky
10 ай бұрын
Have you genuinely been diagnosed with autism? Just asking
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
Yes! I was diagnosed by a psychologist who works in a school for only autistic children. She was legally able to administer the ADOS test and IQ exams!
@nmg6248
10 ай бұрын
Why are you asking?
@TurBecky
10 ай бұрын
@@nmg6248 Because it's a tread on tiktok and some people say they're autistic without a genuine diagnosis. I'm not insinuating she's faking it, but I also was genuinely curious because this is also how I function while at work.
@TurBecky
10 ай бұрын
@@Aneva How do I get this test done, this is how I act at work. I don't know if it's ADHD, bipolar, or autism. All of which runs in my family....One of these things is ruining my adult life :( My parents never believed in medicating a child so I learned to cope, but coping isn't enough anymore.
@Aneva
10 ай бұрын
@@TurBecky although it costs money, I highly recommend beginning by seeing a psychologist (not a psychiatrist just yet). A psychologist’s focus is more-so counseling. A psychiatrist’s focus is medicating based on symptoms you’re exhibiting. You can mention adhd or bipolar , by telling them it runs in your family. They’ll consider this and counsel you. Then you might want to speak to a nurse practitioner or a psychiatrist for another opinion. You want to speak to several professionals and take the consensus into consideration. Then, they may recommend medication. A psychiatrist, general practitioner, or nurse practitioner (and others) can write you prescriptions. It will be helpful to have something in writing from your psychologist that explains that you have been formally diagnosed with (for example) ADHD or Bipolar or something different. It is then your decision if you’d like to try medication. You can even explain to them that you want to just try and see if it works If you don’t have ADHD, meds might not work. You’ll start out on one medication. It might not work. If you’re open to it, you can try other adhd meds. If those don’t work, you can personally consider (and also communicate this to your doctor/therapist) that you might not have ADHD. Then they can re-evaluate you (for this example) bipolar disorder. The treatment for that is VERY important. It’s a big responsibility, but meds are not for everyone. But if you’re ready, explain this to your doctor. If the meds don’t work at first, wait until the specified time your doctor recommends. After a month or two, if you feel normal for the first time ever- You probably have bipolar (for example). Basically- it takes sometimes MONTHS to years to get it right. I’ve been misdiagnosed and almost misdiagnosed several times. I tried meds. I kept going back until someone got it right. Now I feel more “normal” than ever! Don’t get discouraged, I hope this helps 💗
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