I don't know how anyone could explain and portray this disorder better than these two have done. This video is very well produced and edited. It allowed me to believe them.
@vickythefist7062
Жыл бұрын
Don't believe them . Not for a minute . The fact that they are so lots of interviews and KZitem makes me very suspicious. Why wouldn't you just keep this to yourself you don't have to show this aspect of your life to everyone .it's like they think they would be nothing without this diagn5
@mysterywarriorcat4750
11 ай бұрын
@@vickythefist7062 you saying that it's not medically proved? It is
@tabitas.2719
3 ай бұрын
@@vickythefist7062 So a women's advocate is not to be believed because she "broadcasts" her struggles (as portrayal of what a group she belongs to encounters)?? Apply your argument to other situations to see if it holds up - I find that a very useful method I've been made aware of recently. :)
@manlyunicorns1999
Ай бұрын
@@vickythefist7062did you even watch the interview before spouting nonsense? They literally say that being open about it has helped them heal
@sherryd.3425
3 жыл бұрын
It is so lovely to hear you both speak. I have worked with teenage girls with similar experiences and the essence of their alters seemed to be to protect themselves at their most vulnerable. DID is not classified as a mental illness. It is described as a highly adaptive skill that occurs in childhood to protect developing personalities from repeated trauma. God bless the brain because we are obviously not protecting our babies well enough. Bless you both and may you experience happiness.
@chelseapoet3664
3 жыл бұрын
It's a disorder. It's even in the name. This is not to stigmatise or judge people who have it.
@kleineoOoStern
Жыл бұрын
@@hi-ve1cw exactly !
@qwandary
Жыл бұрын
@@hi-ve1cw I'd argue that's the case of every 'disorder'. They all grow out of what could be healthy coping mechanisms that go wonky. The fix should be making them functional as possible, so in DID it could be helping communication and reducing anmesia between alters (not getting rid of them all unless they want to fuse). Same with many other conditions. They all come from normal, potentially healthy systems and functions we all have but sometimes they go awry. (Good example is psychosis, everyone gets hallucinations but most of them aren't pathological, it's only a disorder when it's causing problems. So none-pathological hallcinations can be migraine aura, seeing shadows when falling asleep or hearing someone say your name as you're falling asleep. Stuff like that.)
@ChakkyCharizard
10 ай бұрын
@@hi-ve1cwok but mental illness isn't inherently a bad thing😭😭
@BayouBellePhDBe
2 жыл бұрын
You are an excellent interviewer. You are so sensitive, respectful and aware of those questions that may be uncomfortable.
@jillianoconnell862
3 жыл бұрын
This was enlightening. When Scarlett said alters aren't hallucinations, so it's not something that can be validated, rather, they are parts of that person. So not validating an alter would be like not validating the person. Good way to put it.
@Walczyk
2 жыл бұрын
I think it's not real
@TheKatarinaGiselle
2 жыл бұрын
Can’t you meant to say
@TheKatarinaGiselle
2 жыл бұрын
@@Walczyk science has already proven that it’s real, so you are incorrect.
@Walczyk
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheKatarinaGiselle that's not true at all, it is an highly debated topic. why aren't any of the "alters" ever intelligent or interesting? make believe
@Walczyk
2 жыл бұрын
@Addie L. many have been caught lying, and psychologists still debate if it is real. so i think skepticism is okay here
@Moonshadowad
2 жыл бұрын
You were so brave during this interview. We see you, we hear you, we accept you. 🙏
@kassycox5327
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for letting us get to know about you all. This definitely helped me to understand D.I.D better.
@jenniferj1870
Ай бұрын
They were both so articulate--especially Scarlett with how she explained terms of DID. And I love the analogies that she gave of the pizza and driving in a car. Childhood trauma can rewire your brain. Trauma on top of that trauma can make your brain dysfunction. That is my experience. I am not diagnosed with DID, but am diagnosed with c-PTSD, major depressive disorder, and ADHD. The major trauma that I experienced in my early 30's (the first trauma was as a young child) affected me so severely that I began at one point to frequently dissociate. I didn't have alters, but I did have two of me. Even with only these two it was very confusing, frightening, and surreal. I cannot imagine having an actual alter, let lone more than one. Yet Scarlett seems to have come to an understanding of herself and her system, be comfortable with and accept her reality. I admire her. It was not easy to bring the two of me back together and even every once in a while will reappear. My best wishes to both Scarlett and Max as they continue in therapy, grow their self-understanding, and hopefully continue to share their experiences.
@eliselaughlin1886
3 жыл бұрын
I believe u. I’m so happy u 2 found each other. I wish u all the happiness in the world.
@connierohena5170
Жыл бұрын
Me too 🙏❤️
@lizmillinor8681
Жыл бұрын
You all did a great job of explaining DID to the masses. Really great job! I have a childhood friend with DID. I reconnected with her several years back, but lost contact. I found out from her brother that she was in an institution. I have struggled with whether or not to try and contact her. I’m concerned that because we were friends when she was experiencing the trauma that caused her to have alters, that it might upset her system. Sigh. It is so sad to me that she hasn’t experienced what you guys have long term. Her second husband seemed to be such a rock for her, but they divorced and then she ended up in the institution. That made me so sad for her. I want her to be happy. I’m still so pissed that she had to go through the stuff she went through as a child and ended up not being able to manage as these folks have. I truly hope that she is able to find balance with her alters and live life in a better place. She still has many more years on this earth and I know that it is possible!
@insertname1857
3 ай бұрын
i just want to give my perspective as someone with DID. it may trigger her to see someone from that time of her life, but it may also be comforting. to know that theres someone from her past that cares about how she's doing, that recognises her pain and was there with her through it. and not all alters will react the same- some may be very triggered, but some may see you and only remember the good times you had together, and sometimes we REALLY need those memories to be reignited. i often dont remember anything good about my childhood until im reminded by someone, and then i feel a lot lighter knowing that i did have good times in my life. theres all sorts of possibilities, but if she's in an institution, she likely has the support system around her to cope with any bad reminders you may bring. its up to you to reach out, but just know that as triggering as it could be, it could also be really healing ❤
@kristinamastroianni1930
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, I didn't understand D.I.D. untill now. It's pretty amazing to learn about. Thank you so much for sharing your world with us. ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
@rhiannonmcewen6653
3 жыл бұрын
Bless you all. The brain is an amazing unit.
@SithMami
Жыл бұрын
They are so interesting and beautiful. Humans are such amazing creatures. The mind is incredible--how it can protect itself in the face of trauma.
3 жыл бұрын
I got a friend that can relate to this and it's good to know people with disorders can still inspire and bring joy to others!💯💙
@Blasfamous8
Жыл бұрын
Mental illness and PTSD manifests in so many ways- whether these folk have awareness and conscious control of their alters or not is really irrelevant. What IS relevant is that this is how they interface with the world and one another, and this is how their trauma/repression manifests itself. I wish them well, they seem very bright and articulate, hopefully their journey stays on a healthy path.
@kantnergirl08
Жыл бұрын
You should know whatever happened to you, is NOT YOUR FAULT. When people get hurt over and over when they are young, it changes the brain. You 2 are strong and loved!!!! You just want to be safe and loved
@angrydoggy9170
2 жыл бұрын
It sure makes a relationship more interesting. Not trying to be funny but in a way it sounds like dating several people at once. That being said, it takes some dedication and mental training/discipline to make it work. All my respect to everyone in this relationship.
@cryschanel32
2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what it's like. We've been with our wife for 15yrs. We all have different relationships with her. 100% honesty and communication makes it work. She's incredible.
@mckennasweda3614
11 ай бұрын
I wouldn't have been allowed to believe you three years ago but I believe you now. You did an amazing job at explaining. Thankyou for your contribution
@delsings
3 жыл бұрын
To both of the guests. I believe you, and wishing y'all wellness n safety during all this added pandemic stress.
@sandrasaunt6441
4 ай бұрын
Hi, You are both amazing and should be so proud of yourselves, i am in awe of the strengths that you and your DID alters have created, everyone that lives in your body deserves to be happy, and i wish that for you all too. ❤❤❤ xx
@chloejablonka4553
Жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking, I can't imagine not having personal privacy like this. I really hope they have good life's.
@sagea4623
Жыл бұрын
Scarlet and Max, you are an admirable couple. I was recently diagnosed with DID. My therapist and I cannot find a core personality. I roladex too much. I became aware of it last year, but remember strange events that occurred as a child that make it clear I always had DID.
@yuuokami2156
9 ай бұрын
Hey there, just to clear up something. With OSDD1/DID there is no core personality because long term trauma causes dissociative walls and amnesiac barriers to form between ego states. So you can't find a core because one was never able to form. This is one of the key differences in DID and PTSD. In PTSD/CPTSD there's enough of a gap between the trauma event(s) to allow the ego states to fuse into a single Personality. A traumatized person but still a person with a single, whole personality.
@insertname1857
3 ай бұрын
there is no "core" personality in DID. see, children are born with many different parts. happy part, hungry part, sad part, sleepy part. at around ages 6-9 (estimates, could be higher) these parts all come together and integrate into a single personality. but with DID, trauma happens and dissociative barriers go up between the parts, preventing them from integrating into a single personality. instead, they all develop individually. there is no "core" or "original" or "real" one. each are just as real as the next.
@andersonsystem2
3 жыл бұрын
We have DID we totally understand this . Our system takes a while to trust people. We switch only when we feel safe. We have 14 alters in our system at this point. We decided to do a KZitem channel as well.
@SieMiezekatze
3 жыл бұрын
Isn't it normal thou? Like my brain is wired to think everyone wants to hurts us, even people that I know for years like 10+ I can't trust them fully
@andersonsystem2
3 жыл бұрын
@@SieMiezekatze yes it’s normal feel with DID because your brain is on higher level of alert because of past experiences.
@SieMiezekatze
3 жыл бұрын
@@andersonsystem2 somehow I still feel bad like I just can't get my brain to think that we are not in the past anymore, deep down I just can't feel safe...... Do you have any advice to feel better? Or are you also struggling with this?
@andersonsystem2
3 жыл бұрын
@@SieMiezekatze living in the past is hard because we live there too unfortunately because of the past events that has happened. Our therapist tells us to live in the now. He told us the way to do that is to learn how to be a gatekeeper of our mind. He said meditation can help with this. We do small meditations because we’d can easily disassociate during it .
@andersonsystem2
3 жыл бұрын
@@SieMiezekatze I hope this advice helps you friend.
@carleenmejzastrumunderthes4130
Жыл бұрын
Very articulate and awesome people. I would love to learn a year from know how they are doing!
@seatherny_y
2 жыл бұрын
They are such an adorable couple.
@LeeSouthgate
Жыл бұрын
Some of these comments are disappointing, if you don't believe it's real, either try to learn about it or don't bother commenting invalidating and quite mean comments. DID systems have gone through enough. They said it themselves in the video the stigma is one of the hardest things they go through so maybe try avoid adding to it in the comments? You're not all doctors and even if you are your not theirs so be kind or say nothing.
@kaylabarnes
3 жыл бұрын
Love you Labyrinth!!!
@MirkwoodPrince21
2 жыл бұрын
What type of medical treatment did they get? Who diagnosed them? Why isn't that ever made clear in some stories. Self diagnoses isn't real and shouldn't be encouraged
@timeghostband9594
2 жыл бұрын
They diagnosed themselves by watching tiktok.
@pathumdilhara7831
2 жыл бұрын
Do not make fun of disabilities of other people. They know what they are going through. A doctor would not tell them what they have or not. Doctors are here to help us through medication or other possible ways. If they cannot detect or identified something they will declare it's nothing in there. This is what they do.
@katarinabruso9852
2 жыл бұрын
I would love to know the process to get a interview with you.
@cryschanel32
2 жыл бұрын
As someone who lives with DID, and has been with their wife for 15yrs, it's nice to see multiplicity reflected like this. Thank you 🖤 🖤
@ronanevans3661
Жыл бұрын
whqt a lovley guy max is i honestly love both of you such beautiful individuals I love you all guys 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯💯
@o.osupbro9331
2 жыл бұрын
This is a much better representation then the other DID video I saw from this channel. Glad he got a better idea about people like us.
@duckledoodledooser7551
2 жыл бұрын
And why do you think that? Why do you think this one is better than the other? Is it just because this aligns more with what *you* think it is? Because you’ve seen more of this than the other?
@tTheParakeet
8 ай бұрын
I think DID is so fascinating. I wish more people believed in it rather than making fun of those who have it.
@casey.rob.
2 жыл бұрын
These are the diagnosis that is very difficult to pinpoint. Is it delusion, ptsd, attention deficiencies, etc.
@frydemwingz
3 жыл бұрын
Has anyone ever heard that Final Fantasy 7 house story?
@nevenshadoenew503
2 жыл бұрын
Out of all the interviews I’ve watched on this channel, this is the only one that I call nonsense. I’m sorry if I offend anyone but from what I understand people with multiple personalities don’t recognize and “interact” with the other personalities, when they’re the other identity, that’s who they are and they aren’t aware their identities are changing, but with this, they’re fully aware of the other “characters” and they all know so much about the others thus showing that although they’re this “different person” the consciousness is the same so they’re really just the same person clearly pretending to be another… this is just attention seeking in my opinion and the people are enablers that go along with it….again sorry if I’ve offended anyone, just stating my personal view on this
@VHSRADIO
2 жыл бұрын
you watched moon night
@xmr.ai-emixc2918
2 жыл бұрын
Then you have a very incorrect understanding of D.I.D.
@xmr.ai-emixc2918
2 жыл бұрын
@@VHSRADIO Moonlight isn't exactly like DID, but it sort of imitates it.
@VHSRADIO
2 жыл бұрын
@@xmr.ai-emixc2918 I was joking
@cryschanel32
2 жыл бұрын
It takes a LOT of work to get to this point. This is where a lot of folks living with DID aim to get to. Functional multiplicity is a way of healing with DID, without the need to attempt to fuse/combine your selves. It takes YEARS of figuring out how to communicate. I promise you, those living with DID are aware something is going on - it just takes a very long time to eliminate every other possibility (physical and mental tests/attempts/medical providers). Example: I have found myself 3hrs away from my house at about 1am on a work night just driving alone in a town I don't know anyone in. I'm usually in bed by 9pm. Did that alter know it was because another part drove them there? No - but they definitely knew something was happening when they had no idea what they were doing or why they were there. Yesterday, I found myself in the shower 3 times. Why? No clue. It took me almost 30yrs to figure out what exactly it was, and I'm going on another 7 still working on learning to communicate with my parts. Are there fakers out there? Of course- just like everything else. But, this diagnosis is 100% real, and has a HUGE impact on every single part of your life for those who live with it.
@starfishsayshello
3 жыл бұрын
I believe you! 🖤
@orlyg.5508
Жыл бұрын
Fluid thinking. I'm just me
@nayfernandes798
Жыл бұрын
Muito vídeos não estão traduzidos para o português do Brasil, traduza por favor.
@kelcmartinsaysfu
2 жыл бұрын
“I have purple hair and golden eyes” smh tumblr and it’s consequences
@ashleygray3744
Жыл бұрын
The brain is such a fascinating & complicated thing. I don’t understand why there are so many stigmas. Some of the most intelligent ppl in the world have a brain that operates differently. I mean what is really considered normal anyway🤣🤣
@americanmade-1
3 жыл бұрын
DID is so extremely rare, the likelihood that two true DID would find eachother is like a needle in a haystack.
@InHisSservice
3 жыл бұрын
Completely disagree. Not often diagnosed, few can treat it well, and those who live with it hide it--especially because they are often falsely accused of malingering.
@daisysummer514
3 жыл бұрын
It’s diagnosed rarely but it’s everywhere. Most people spend most of their time hiding this.
@klarag7059
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry but that’s garbage. Psychiatric medicine has much to answer for.
@katarinabruso9852
2 жыл бұрын
I highly disagree with this you can easily look up another person with this disorder on Facebook and hook up with them like tomorrow I'm in that group on Facebook because I have dissociative identity disorder so now there's three people and you can look down the list to see how many other people have it. It may be rare but we will find each other look at how many other Chris videos he's done with people with rare conditions and then they meet other people with the same conditions through social media so they can meet up and have someone who understands them. I've never met another person with dissociative identity disorder in person but definitely have talked to many online social media watching videos on KZitem like this.
@KylaRose2082
2 жыл бұрын
Less rare than you think! It’s about the same percentage of people with ginger hair, and think about how many gingers you know! :)
@flaviapinna3679
2 жыл бұрын
Perfavore potete tradurlo in italiano
@Walczyk
2 жыл бұрын
IS THAT JENNY NOVA
@MenacingRabbit
2 жыл бұрын
This is ridiculous. People looking for attention.
@amaranthiinez
2 жыл бұрын
how?
@MenacingRabbit
2 жыл бұрын
@@fudgysundaee did I offend you?
@amaranthiinez
2 жыл бұрын
DID is a real thing luv sorry to tell u this
@aidancrawford4615
2 жыл бұрын
This is a very real disorder it is caused by trauma go learn about it before saying something like that do your damn research
@blacksheepgirl
2 жыл бұрын
This is not true. i have found lately I have people inside. :'( They woke me up. I am a Christian. Jesus is helping me heal. :'( Please don't say that. 😢
@mushbrain1753
2 жыл бұрын
what a load of rubbish, they just want attention
@aidancrawford4615
2 жыл бұрын
Stop not true at all do your research DVD if you don't like what your watching just go to the next video please be respectful
@geprekbento7543
Жыл бұрын
Yeah esp when they're shaped like that lol
@digitalschool3672
2 жыл бұрын
He asked how many alters she had and she said 30. Is that for both. Because he just asked her .
@NKatz
2 жыл бұрын
This isn't real. This is just wanting to have an outlet to live as a different person. That's fine. But it's not real in the sense that it's truly multiple alter identities. Have you noticed there's always a protector? It's all about being able to cope.
@vomitsmegma
Жыл бұрын
Thats... the mental disorder. It's a coping mechanism as a response to trauma. Did you watch the video?
@peachsystem1024
Жыл бұрын
Um yeah there’s always a protector because that’s the point of the disorder. Protecting you from trauma. Amazing deduction there.
@junebugg045
Жыл бұрын
Is there a difference between D.I.D. and Multiple Personality Disorder?? I'm trying to learn lol
@junebugg045
Жыл бұрын
@serendipity I didn't know that, thank you!!
@insertname1857
3 ай бұрын
multiple personality disorder is the outdated name for DID. it hasnt been used since the 80s
@maximillian_666
2 жыл бұрын
oh yikes...
@reacting_to_stuff_
2 жыл бұрын
Lol it’s not real
@mushbrain1753
2 жыл бұрын
I know right, they're just attention seeking attempting to be "unique"
@Funxion_
3 жыл бұрын
i dont know man , seems kinda sus to me c:
@gsxr750dude
3 жыл бұрын
#1 Sus on the most wanted list lol
@wjsnactivist6141
3 жыл бұрын
...care to elaborate? You're just going to say you doubt the entire interview?
@duckledoodledooser7551
2 жыл бұрын
Well, a very large amount of psychologists would agree with you being sus. As people should no by now, the DSM is not gospel truth…
@timeghostband9594
2 жыл бұрын
It's very sus- that's why a lot of comments say "I believe you" ... one doth affirm too incessantly.
@Sindoku
3 жыл бұрын
DID makes wonder if each personality has a soul or if it’s just the main one?
@nyChannel09
3 жыл бұрын
You cant mix science with beliefs/religion
@gsxr750dude
3 жыл бұрын
@@nyChannel09 now a days feelings over facts
@lucasm7781
3 жыл бұрын
Just one. As she said. They are like a pizza, different slices but after all all they are just one single Human Being.
@zaza-pn5pn
2 жыл бұрын
@@nyChannel09 ?
@floatingdaisy3256
7 ай бұрын
In our system, we believe that we have a “complex soul”: one soul with many branches on it, like a tree.
@mattsiems870
2 жыл бұрын
If you know your crazy are u really crazy??
@ИльяИльич-х5ъ
3 жыл бұрын
Что за дичь я сейчас посмотрел?)
@usernamesrtoostupid
Жыл бұрын
Really like the driving analogy.
@MichaelOrthodoxChristian
3 жыл бұрын
The acceptance of multiple personalities seems to be a trap that enables childhood abuse to somehow define the sufferer forever. If the goal is self-integration and liberation from the identity of oneself with traumatic events (which is the object of disassociation in survival terms), then DID will paradoxically serve the opposite and make this path impossible. Of all possible survival mechanisms of abuse this one comes with a heavy sentence. Is it not possible I wonder to come to a stage of inviting the alternative 'identities' to go, i.e, 'thank you, you served a purpose but are no longer needed, I want to reclaim the one whole person I was born to be before the abuse occurred' ?
@summer6100
3 жыл бұрын
no, the whole person you're meant to be is all of them together. just like you cant consciously decide to delete memories or opinions, there's nowhere for a part to go to other than elsewhere in the mind. its not the addition of more parts, is the fragmenting of the whole, you wont be whole without them ALL.
@MichaelOrthodoxChristian
3 жыл бұрын
@@summer6100 It's called a disorder for a reason.
@summer6100
3 жыл бұрын
@@MichaelOrthodoxChristian yes, because they shouldn't be separated, they should all be connected into a whole. you cant heal that by telling them to go somewhere else, you heal that by connecting with them again until they fuse back together.
@lorainisrael
2 жыл бұрын
You totally can invite everyone to integrate, but who should be that "main" person? Your assumption is that one of these personalities is real and others just some fantasies, which is not the case. Also, while DID developes during childhood, later in life it no longer needs to be related to the initial trauma. It is just a skill, which you keep using. When a new type of challenge needs to be solved, a new personality can be developed. I'm pretty sure that most people with did and osdd just want to be happy, and being happy as a multiple is totally possible.
@katarinabruso9852
2 жыл бұрын
There is a thing called integration but you will never be completely hold not really they never really fully go away and most systems like myself don't want to integrate also it's not as easy as hey I don't need you anymore go away you have to go through painful memories you have to go through a process years of therapy medication the whole nine yards a whole support system in order to do that. Also have to have people around you a support system love.
@sowhatitsjustme
2 жыл бұрын
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
@isimonsez
2 жыл бұрын
Nonsense fairytale
@z08840
3 жыл бұрын
Max, have you heard of Billy Milligan? :)
@Checkmyplaylist-nl7dk
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly i just can not believe this disorder i have studied counselling but still… this was the only mental disorder that i couldn’t believe I mean in a college and in a university i mean these are can be both College for a diploma : graduated University for a graduate diploma? : ungraduated Not continuous different course first uni to college
@peachsystem1024
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe do some independent research since clearly your university failed you
@jamie5392
3 жыл бұрын
I believe everyone has different personalities, we just don't name them. I can in a way believe that they believe. Also these games with avatars, that is a part of there personality.
@overgrownkudzu
3 жыл бұрын
no, not everyone does. every person has different aspects to their personality, but for most people these aspects are still just forming one personality. DID makes someone split these up for example to have a protector endure harmful situations because the person is sensitive and can't deal with the trauma. saying this is just what everyone has is really insensitive, it's a real disorder, just like not "everyone is a little OCD" or "everyone's depressed sometimes". that's really invalidating of people's actual struggles
@suzannep
3 жыл бұрын
@@overgrownkudzu thank you for standing up for those of us who have DID, It is so hurtful to hear people say things like everyone has different personalities but just doesn't name them... Like you said having different aspects of the same personality is very different from having distinct different identities within oneself, and the resulting turmoil that can come from this disorder. It makes me sad when individuals who do not have a disorder or disease of condition decide they will comment about it as if they know better than the people who have the disorder... or as if they know better than actual professionals who treat the disorder. Please keep spreading the good information and helping others understand the reality of things, I hope it helped the op understand better and change their thinking.
@hungabunga513
3 жыл бұрын
Please don't spread false information.
@losopalos9943
2 жыл бұрын
I see where you’re coming from in that everyone does have different sides to themselves. But DID is not a lifestyle choice where someone assigns distinct names and faces those standard parts of self - its visceral automatic switches between drastically different self-states, who tend to automatically “come with” their own separate appearances and names. It’s usually born of very extreme trauma and it’s a correspondingly extreme intensification of identity fragmentation.
@o_p0tterhead
2 жыл бұрын
Adding to what the others have already correctly stated: People with DID don't "believe" in DID or different alters. They simply have DID and different alters. It is a reality the same way 1+1 equals 2. DID isn't a believe system, it's a very real disorder that cannot be argued or believed away.
@timg978
Жыл бұрын
The devil loves to change people God given identity’s. Find your core identity and leave the rest behind. Find some help do deal with the childhood trauma. I recommend psychiatrist Richard Gallagher he can do online zoom with insurance, he is a Christian and has dealt ALOT with Identity disorders
@jy5996
Жыл бұрын
Hey theres something wrong with me. Therefore I do not need to wear makeup or take care of my body.
@purelife9000
2 жыл бұрын
The ONLY permanent solution for these precious souls is to submit to Jesus Christ and receive spiritual healing. Jesus can cure any illness, physical, mental or spiritual.
@Cerealbox352
2 жыл бұрын
okay but can jesus fix my kidneys that i sold to the mexican mafia
@KylaRose2082
2 жыл бұрын
Hm
@autisticzuko2750
2 жыл бұрын
You're spewing harm. Delete your account.
@isimonsez
2 жыл бұрын
Yap yap yap…. And santa brings gifts
@purelife9000
2 жыл бұрын
@@isimonsez See ya soon.
@DanielSalter-c1g
9 ай бұрын
Too much drama, it seems. Why not focus on yourself?
@Skittlefarts983
Жыл бұрын
Question : if our brain creates this illness how can it not heal itself & get rid of the alters and be their self as one? Or is it irreversible? Like if we’re creating it, can’t we do the same control to make it go away?! The brain is so strong to see another person inside of us, then how how they not use that power to make them go away or “shut down.” Also next question: do ppl want to keep their several identities or do they want to be one? And If not, wouldn’t it be just like any other mental illness that ppl are ignoring to get help ? Like having therapy etc etc to help cognitively being aware & be one! Undo the trauma. Like getting trauma-therapy. Why are there so many ppl with DID and not getting it to go away ? These are serious questions -- no jackass responses
@peachsystem1024
Жыл бұрын
DID develops when you are very young and that is how your brain develops. Like if you look at a scan of a “normal” brain and a DID brain, you would see differences in certain parts. You can’t just make those parts better or different magically. Healing from DID means healing from years and years of trauma, often abuse. That is not an easy thing to do. And even when you are healing from that trauma, your brain has used dissociation to the point of having more than one identity, along with having amnesia, and you have lived most your life that way. It’s very hard to change that because it doesn’t happen on purpose. People can eventually become “one identity” instead of several but it’s not only difficult, it takes a long time and it’s not a guarantee because if you experience trauma again you could very easily split a new alter since that’s been your brains coping mechanism for so long. Hope this was a helpful explanation
@insertname1857
3 ай бұрын
we aren't conciously creating DID, so no, you can't just "make it go away." you cant do that with any illness. no illness can just heal itself, you need treatment to do that. there IS trauma therapy, and most systems who are aware of their DID go through it. but the goal of that therapy is not to get rid of alters, but to process trauma and heal from trauma. what happens to alters is just a side effect of healing. for some, healing does mean becoming one, called "final fusion." its not always permanent, though. dissociation and alters is the brain's main coping mechanism, so if you experience more trauma or prolonged stress, it is possible for a final fusion to be undone and alters to develop again. but thats not the only option. the other option is "functional multiplicity," where alters are still separate, but the dissociative and amnesia barriers are so low that each part can work seamlessly with each other. neither option is more correct than the other. its a very personal choice based on healing, the individual, and also what the brain does. i know of systems who planned for functional multiplicity, but final fusion happened all on its own. its not always a choice, but every outcome should be respected.
@ratedr8490
Жыл бұрын
I think of all the people hes interviewed....i like these people the least. Actually not at all They them are mental, just not one that matters.
@LadyLeo15
2 жыл бұрын
I had a girlfriend with d.i.d she was butch, one of her alters, as she called them, was a feminine lady like me, the first time I saw the femme, who was really comfortable around me, being with her taught me a lot because they're so many rude people out there who do not believe in this mental health disorder, when in fact it does, exist. Everyone needs to just be nice.
@salma_the_love_system
3 жыл бұрын
This video is a very good representation of DID and can help a lot to reduce misunderstanding and stigma around DID... thanks the lovely couple and the interviewer for making such a valuable video❤👍🙏
@haydenanderson2121
2 жыл бұрын
Speaking as someone who has never lived, or known anyone with D.I.D., I learned something watching this video. Prior, I had a jaded, but ultimately harmless perception that every separate individual in a “person’s” system is spectrum of good or evil. I think this originated from the way media portrays “multiple personality disorder”. I’m very happy to have watched this, because it helped me, and hopefully others, realize that these systems can be full of good hearted people. Wonderful interview.
@autisticzuko2750
2 жыл бұрын
Uh, that is *not* harmless. It's incredibly harmful. Glad you learned better though.
@haydenanderson2121
2 жыл бұрын
@@autisticzuko2750 the only reason I said it was harmless is because I’d never think less of a person or outwardly portray that view to another. It’s just not how I am, but yeah I guess it is kinda messed up in hindsight to this comment.
@cryschanel32
2 жыл бұрын
@@haydenanderson2121 I've literally had an HR manager follow me into the restroom at work, because she thought I was a murderer. After disclosing my diagnosis for ADA accommodations, she replied with "OH! Like the movie Split!" I work in a professional setting (which shouldn't matter), and she was privy to my clean criminal record (required for hire). Movies like that do real damage. 4yrs later with no work issues and great performance, I still get treated like a science specimen - like I can turn at any moment and just become dangerous. It's extremely uncomfortable, and I'm never considered for advancement, or anything beyond my job duties. I've been a certified professional in my field since 2007. Acclaimed by folks who don't know my DID status, disregarded as dangerous or mentally unstable by those who do (related only to the diagnosis, not by behavior). Thank you (sincerely) for taking the time to better understand. It matters 🖤🖤
@insertname1857
3 ай бұрын
that is NOT a harmless perception. its a very dangerous one that puts those of us with the disorder in danger, at risk, makes us face discrimination, and also makes us afraid to seek help for our trauma in fear of being treated as dangerous.
@h.marie1998
3 жыл бұрын
so glad comments are back!! wanted to say that my boyfriend and i both have d.i.d, so it's really awesome to see this! thank you for taking the time to interview people like us and being understanding and kind!
@Taquinqua
3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@thetechnoking
3 жыл бұрын
we have a community of people who aren't neorotypical so we can feel comfortable Everytime we come to this channel, it's nice to always come here and see people who faces a different reality like me, I'm autistic(Asperger's) and ADHD.
@ghg76vhfyg11
3 жыл бұрын
Impressive and beautiful
@SieMiezekatze
3 жыл бұрын
Wow I would love to date someone with DID like I feel so alone
@Taquinqua
3 жыл бұрын
@@SieMiezekatze finding friends and relationships with people in other systems is important for systems 💛 believe me, you’re not alone
@LetsgoLeeLee
3 жыл бұрын
We believe you! And we’re very appreciative of learning more about you and your systems :)) 💕
@z08840
3 жыл бұрын
Billy approves :)
@goatlps
2 жыл бұрын
We don't.
@doug3596
3 жыл бұрын
This was really helpful and insightful. Thanks so much. Patiently and clearly explained by both of them. They would be interesting to revisit after the 3 years of therapy since this video. Wishing many years of happiness to both of them.
@cryschanel32
2 жыл бұрын
They have their own KZitem channel 🙂
@mizushirokanon9174
3 жыл бұрын
That is so great that you took your time to educate people, thank you!
@the_gerber_place
2 жыл бұрын
very late to the party with when this video came out, but i’m very happy to see something like it exist. i have OSDD-1b and my boyfriend has DID, in a few ways we are similar to this couple so it makes me feel comforted that me and my boyfriend aren’t alone and there are many other plural couples out there!
@halvfabrikat1
Жыл бұрын
Plural couple is such a lovely term to use! I didn’t really know much about DID before watching this, and to be honest I still struggle to wrap my mind around some things. When I read ”plural couple” something just immediately clicked for me, so thank you for that! I hope I can learn more about this and understand other people even better in the future. The human brain is truly something!
@toni-leeblair5869
3 жыл бұрын
I believe you! I believe you! I believe you!.... 💯🌈
@victoriaboerschinger2891
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Everything made so much more sense when we learned about did. It feels good to know we are not alone.
@suzannep
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed! It all made so much sense once we got diagnosed and once we all became aware of the diagnosis... It took me personally 20 years to become aware of the others whereas they had all known about one another for a long time. All the other diagnoses that I got during the time that I was fronting and seeking mental health care just couldn't seem to explain everything I experienced. I just felt like mental healthcare was not helping me. Once I personally realized all my headmates were in here it finally made sense what I was experiencing, and I am finally getting treatment to help deal with it all and to work together. It is good to see the disorder explained and talked about more.
@victoriaboerschinger2891
3 жыл бұрын
@@suzannep thank you for sharing your experience.
@poot-poot
3 жыл бұрын
Can one person in the system have a personality or mood disorder and the others not? Like, could one have BPD but not all of them?
@margieohara
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Absolutely
@gsxr750dude
3 жыл бұрын
i see what you did right there.... high five
@suzannep
3 жыл бұрын
It kind of feels like it sometimes, but I don't know technically speaking. I have some alters who seem to have the symptoms of BPD but others who do not. I also have some who are very socially fearful and would probably be considered to have an anxiety disorder if they were out front more often in our life. Some of us are very paranoid about things while others are not... but I don't really know if that would be considered each of us having different diagnosis. I have also been diagnosed with bipolar, and I know some alters come out front during manic episodes, but we all experience the manic episode, it's just some of us enjoy being manic a lot and I guess they want to be out front during it more than others.
@katarinabruso9852
2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has this disorder I can answer this for you yes other Alters in the system can have other disorders. I have 23 Alters at the moment and I can say that I have one alter that has OCD extreme OCD. I haven't another one who has crippling anxiety attacks panic attacks PTSD. Each altar is completely different with a completely different personality I also have healthy personality Alters that didn't experience as much trauma. The altars that experience more trauma are more likely to have other disorders the ones that did not experience any trauma you know decently normal people I have a few of them they come out usually when I'm out and about with my friends to kind of help me keep confident and bubbly with them so I don't crumble. They also helped me a lot at work.
@losopalos9943
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, one could have all the emotional and behavioral patterns we classify as BPD or another disorder while others don’t. It’d be likely that that alter would (partly) serve to contain that distress so other parts can function without it.
@bsings7928
2 жыл бұрын
This is so interesting. I’m so glad I learned more about this disorder. I believe those with D.I.D. You are valid.
@divyashe_her5377
2 жыл бұрын
thankyou so much for taking so much effort to communicate all this, to articulate sure is difficult in a 'judgey' world
@jj_397
3 жыл бұрын
I have a close friend with DID and there's actually one alter who both physically and verbally hurts everyone around them... I've been told she's there to protect the system from people getting too close but she's so agressive and toxic that it's actually hard for others to be there for the system... I didn't know that having an alter like this is actually uncommon
@namename8923
3 жыл бұрын
Try researching persecutor alters. DissociaDID's youtubr channel is a great place to start. :)
@AppleJuiceKiller
3 жыл бұрын
Research "persecutor alteres". Persecutors are usally based off of the abuser. Persecutor alters tend to be harmful to the host, other alters in the headspace and towards other people as well. I have a persecutor alter as well and he likes to co-host a lot of the time. My persecutor alter is the semi-exact same as what your friend is dealing with. Dealing with persecutor alters can be stressful since they can force other alters to front, and be verbally abusive towards your loved ones and friends. Persecutor alters forcing the other alters to front can be really harmful to you and the alters. I've dealt with it before a lot of tne times. Apologising A LOT for harm you didnt do can be tiring, well, for me. He usally fronts when i am over stressed and when a argument is happening, trying to push the person away from me, so they can leave me alone. He tries his best to push people out of my life so i can live with out stress of overthinking that the person is going to leave me. Its hard dealing with him, and just persecutors in general. I wish your friend the best.
@SieMiezekatze
3 жыл бұрын
That is very common and I had the same make a contract and everyone must sign on it ' the contract must imply that you can't physically or mentally hurt one another" ,also putting them in prison for their crimes is another good idea, this should be easy to achieve if they have a safe place, it worked for me is been three years without hurting me :D
@SieMiezekatze
3 жыл бұрын
The book' coping with trauma related dissociation " also helps us and C-PTSD workbook as well
@cryschanel32
2 жыл бұрын
We had a persecutor alter who usually would take out that pain and aggression on herself. After helping her heal, and many years of patience, she is finally seeing value and hope in this life. She has taken so much pain so the rest of us didn't have to. Many times, these alters/parts need help - a professional who understands the DID brain.
@twistedcryptid
Жыл бұрын
Utterly fascinating! Thank you SO much for opening up to us in the KZitem world.
@glorisol3805
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, this interview was really helpful, it helped me understand D.I.D
@beanboy5315
2 жыл бұрын
I'll be polite and say I just didn't understand them. I'm thankful for Chris showing compassion and love to everyone he meets. It was interesting to see their point of view regardless of my opinion.
@pepsimann2038
2 жыл бұрын
basically when childhood trauma takes place some people get amnesia and dissociations to keep their mind coping with said trauma and avoiding having to cope with it again. eventually the amnesia happens enough that the side of the person that remembers certain things and the other side that remembers other things have completely different life experiences and grow into their own beings with their own mental traits. it all sorta just expands from there if that makes sense.
@trumpdrago517
Жыл бұрын
I’m curious as to how a 6 year old alter would work. Like me as a grown man would it be appropriate for me to have tea time with another 6 year old
@bkk1996
7 ай бұрын
This was very illuminating. Max and Scarlet articulated their experience so well. I hope they are doing well in 2024 ❤
@ms2507
2 жыл бұрын
God ✨💛✨bless you
@spookytyster4712
2 жыл бұрын
This is very real, thank you.
@TurcoAmericana
Жыл бұрын
Let me guess, they are self diagnosed
@desdemona950
Жыл бұрын
everyone on here provides medical proof to Chris. he's said that before
@bravebeard6225
Жыл бұрын
@@desdemona950 Not these two.
@desdemona950
Жыл бұрын
@@bravebeard6225 you're just assuming that because how they look?
@emilycharles8913
Жыл бұрын
May God bless and watch over you both
@garbageday587
Жыл бұрын
Imaginary friends don't bless shity.
@곽윤희-z6k
Жыл бұрын
Thanx for sharing your stories
@aronlelenora9572
2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@ToniaLenza-bs5cv
Ай бұрын
She would look great with purple hair
@F4TiMA.
2 жыл бұрын
🦋
@jornsyy
2 жыл бұрын
This was one of my favorite interviews to date! Everyone, particularly Scarlet, was so well spoken and they did an amazing job of sharing their perspective
@beautifulbonnie3463
2 жыл бұрын
How incredibly brave of y'all are for speaking on D.I.D. Y'all are beautiful & Very strong. Be proud of You. ❤️❤️
@sheenawilson2930
Жыл бұрын
This was one of my favorite interviews. Very intriguing and insightful. Two beautiful souls. May God bless you both.
@Foreskin-Forest
Жыл бұрын
God bless both of them, my name is also max! The slavic spelling, but still.
@Thecollectoristheruler
9 ай бұрын
I have DID and i have 11 alters, i really liked this video, i have a friend who has nesrly 30 alters and the body is only 15
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