@@ceilconstante640 it's a paradise in Japan, because they don't seek to change the behavior, but protect the perpetrator, they're remedy a ladies only train...
@k_c9060
Ай бұрын
if all introverts gather in one place , it would be Japan
@PickleRicksFATASSCOUSIN
Ай бұрын
Isn't that what defeats the purpose of being introverted by doing a big gathering in one place?...
@jonedog2567
Ай бұрын
After 7 pm it’s different lol
@user-qm7jw
Ай бұрын
Even though Japan is a paradise for introverts, people with social anxiety who can't even communicate with others will have a hard time in Japan. A certain level of sociability is of course necessary for school, work and other aspects of life in Japan. I live in Japan and people who are too introverted are called "陰キャ" and they are isolated and disliked in Japan too. The Japanese are only quiet in public and quite extroverted when talking to friends and family.
@tohaason
Ай бұрын
That's not what "introvert" means. An extrovert recharges his/her batteries by being with others, an introvert recharges by being away from others. Anyone from both of those groups may or may not be a little social, "normal" social, or very social. I can assure you that a great many people in Japan need other people to recharge. That's being extrovert. And included in that is my SO.
@creditwhereitsdue2299
Ай бұрын
A total misconception of the meaning of the word introvert.On the hand,"introverted behavior"is in the main, an accepted Japanese behavior on the whole when in public.However,in private,you can be as expressive as you like.
@mymusic6384
27 күн бұрын
Silence in trains is true GOLD. I hate when people in my country talking to the phone or eachother like they are on the two sides of the street.
@user-td6gd1by8q
Ай бұрын
I am a silent and calm person, sometimes i go a full day without making noises, so japan sounds good for me❤
@andrewtol8756
27 күн бұрын
When you do make noises, what do they sound like?
@carolyne803
26 күн бұрын
You would love it there then Super easy to just listen to podcasts and go for a walk or ride the Shinkansen all day
@clinton4161
12 күн бұрын
You can basically be a mute and get by just nodding or shaking your head to communicate. You should still learn Japanese so you know what people are saying to you though.
@Zabiru-
29 күн бұрын
Swede here, I spent 3 weeks in Tokyo recently. My only real complaint (if that's the right word) is how it can be difficult to communicate if you don't speak Japanese. I had studied it for about a year and a half prior to my trip, but I still had some issues with making myself understood occasionally. What I can say is that the Japanese were some of the most courteous and welcoming people I've ever met though and I'd love to come back some day. Maybe not to live there since the working culture seems a bit too intense for me, but most definitely to visit 🙂
@crypticreality8484
23 күн бұрын
Sweden always seemed like a cool place to me. I always liked Swedish rock artists. Half of my favorite bands are Swedish. I have heard of rising crime problems from migrants recently. Hopefully people feel safe.
@Jurozaiten
28 күн бұрын
If they're quiet and respectful, I'm ballin'.
@ohyeah1067
22 күн бұрын
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@sampathn4429
25 күн бұрын
She is beautiful!
@ykjo5613
29 күн бұрын
She nailed it!
@jklmnoqr
Ай бұрын
Excellent assessment! I loved the respect and quietness during my 4 years there!!!😊
@CruzRosa-kk1nl
Ай бұрын
Japan and Scandinavia is an Introvert's ✨PARADISE✨
@marizildacandela3923
Ай бұрын
Japan is, Scandinavia no. There is an enormous difference between Silence and Indifference.
@AmbiCahira
Ай бұрын
@marizildacandela3923 When you say indifference I wonder if your only experience is a large city because large city life is not the same as the country as a whole. All introverts of Scandinavia stay tf away from the large cities because it isn't introvert friendly but the other places are.
@Appaddict01
29 күн бұрын
@@marizildacandela3923Both collectivist cultures. The main difference being there is a strong independent streak in Scandinavian cultures.
@Zabiru-
29 күн бұрын
@@Appaddict01 A fair enough description I'd say. An important difference if you are visiting is that on average we're (Scandinavians) far better at English so communication is much less of an issue. That said I still liked Japan just as much if not a bit more than my native Sweden. It's certainly not without its issues, but it's a great country overall.
@amrdel2730
27 күн бұрын
And medeteranean is the whole opposite
@elkekerr9680
29 күн бұрын
I left in the end because it's all about maintaining relationships and no one could/would tell me the rules and I kept offending people. I'm super respectful but there are so many rules and it is super easy to offend people/make them lose face. It was fine in the beginning when I didn't really know anyone but after five years that changed. I couldn't maintain that face either myself so decided it was best to leave
@AJL_90
27 күн бұрын
Would you mind giving an example of a certain scenario you experienced? If not, no worries.
@drago7238
26 күн бұрын
This post is super disrespectful. Jk😊
@TenYen4796
7 күн бұрын
The group is more important than the individual and the individual is more concerned about pleasing the group. Your happiness is not for yourself but for others. Yeah that will get old quick.
@ruthstorm8905
Ай бұрын
I once told a japanese girl ( in tokio) that I loved how it was so quiet in the subway and she got upset with me as if I had said something really wrong; told me that they are repressed and they MUST be quiet...I could not understand why she was so upset about, probably she did not know how annoying is to ride on a train with somebody listening to reggaeton next to you on the speaker or just talking loud for an hour right to your ear.
@pizzeo
26 күн бұрын
yup. grass is always greener. I think both sides of this convo are true and valid stances.
@whitekiki
24 күн бұрын
Some japanese people dont like that kind of discipline, rules, pressure so much. Some of them want to experience loud, extrovertness, huging and touching, talk harshly etc. It is unbalanced if you asked me. Probably thats why that persın upset from your comment
@justsomeguywithhalfamustac4600
22 күн бұрын
Funny how we humans always crave the opposite/something we don't have. But u already stated the reason which is "they MUST be quiet". Not to say they wanna speak like the person is 2 blocks away or blast their punk music on full blast, but instead have the freedom to just be normal without being started at as if ur acting obnoxiously in public
@ruthstorm8905
21 күн бұрын
@@justsomeguywithhalfamustac4600 yes I get it...but not to the point of feeling upset. I mean a country where rules are actually followed for the benefit of the collective is quite nice ( im sure there are some cons) . In other countries those rules also exist but people decide not to respect them for their own interest, and by doing so they overstep other people's rights to ' enjoy the ride'. Maybe something in between too strict and too lax could be the sweet spot ☺️ something like basic common sense/ empathy.
@clinton4161
12 күн бұрын
Must is a strong word. It's not illegal. I've never heard of anyone kicked off a train for it. At worst people stare. Though some people are deathly afraid of even silent judgement from others. She was probably a very sensitive person. I've noticed some Japanese teenagers can be a bit loud. Not common but definitely happens and no one did or said anything. 🤷♂️
@lylynft
Ай бұрын
Am from Paris suburb (Versailles), lived almost 10 years in Sweden. Japan was/is heaven to me, Ngl. 😂
@Tomi79Hun
Ай бұрын
What is your honest opinion of Sweden?
@anthonykim8122
22 күн бұрын
this woman is uncommonly beautiful and elegant.
@Seth6910
Ай бұрын
She's so pretty
@HoliGallistur1023
Ай бұрын
He's so simp
@IsaacGS774
Ай бұрын
Bro is picking mainly good looking people for interviews. He even said that a while ago... very superficial. If you want to know real opinions from regular people, you don't only pick good looking people, especially when it comes to certain topics...
@IsaacGS774
Ай бұрын
like mobbing for example
@haoweiguo8411
Ай бұрын
@@IsaacGS774do you remember which video did he say that?
@Top-Kek
Ай бұрын
@@IsaacGS774Not true. He connects with other people who have social media presence (influencers). Most of those people happen to be good-looking.
@carolyne803
26 күн бұрын
I love it in Japan I can be alone while also being surrounded by people, if that makes sense, so I feel like there's a lot of solidarity in people just doing their own thing and living their passion seperately
@dukeon
Ай бұрын
Sounds like I would love it!
@nelsikegaming
22 күн бұрын
I loved visiting Japan but I can see myself falling into a deep lonely depression there. The politeness and respect is nice and all but it doesn't seem sincere. I had a great time but would probably not live there.
@missplainjane3905
21 күн бұрын
Being polite and respectful is good too right
@florkgagga
21 күн бұрын
I would in a flash, to jell with sincere or not, so easy to talk to people, the food, so good...
@Mwoods2272
6 күн бұрын
Japanese people are fake. They will laugh with you but on the inside they are laughing about you.
@maliarei528
Ай бұрын
alley!!!! omg. takashi x alley moment... i love thisssss
@tewkewl
13 күн бұрын
best collab ever!
@Pe4nutButter
27 күн бұрын
I understand a lot of people think Japan is Japan is great for introverts but it's not about being introvert Japanese people just understand what it is to be in a society that's free and civilized just because you could do something doesn't mean you should out a respect for others
@shamrockschool6406
Ай бұрын
Sounds like living in Japan is filled with respect and dignity overall… not too difficult to adjust to…!
@dreamcore
22 күн бұрын
Gosh, even without seeking them out, just randomly in the background of a short like this
@jimireynoldsmusic
24 күн бұрын
I travelled Japan for 3 weeks a few years ago, from as far south as Nagasaki and as far north as Hokkaido, and one of my favourite experiences was sitting through Avengers Infinity War on opening weekend and then marvelling at how, despite there being a packed audience, everyone just stayed in their seats in total silence until the credits finished. It was an amazing movie made so much better by a unique moviegoing experience, at least compared to what I'm used to.
@Mwoods2272
6 күн бұрын
On the opposite end, when there are funny parts in a movie people don't laugh or cheer during a spirited moment. At the end of the movie, you won't know if the audience liked the movie or not.
@A.Montgomery
Ай бұрын
Sounds like a dream country
@isabelreinhold1476
Ай бұрын
I want to visit Japan!
@toshiyuki885
Ай бұрын
By all means, If you learn some basically Japanese word, you could enjoy more. I recommend to visit here spring or Autumn.
@mlondon1157
26 күн бұрын
One of the things I liked most about Japan was the quietness on trains, I really missed that yesterday on the train to Berlin where people wouldn't shut the f*** up :D
@iidrbubbles
Ай бұрын
Japanese pubs tho. Gawd dayum there they get all the loudness out
@MelRackley
29 күн бұрын
I wanna live there because it’s so chill:
@kyukim8571
21 күн бұрын
why is it that when i see this guy's content his interviewees are always pretty af or hot. makes me curious how he's able to recruit these ppl in his interviews
@LePatronDuSlip
20 күн бұрын
get out of the 4th world country called usa and people starts to take care of themselves
@tellibear
29 күн бұрын
Everybody in the world should be as respectful as Japan, New Yorkers are just rude. We know that we accept that.
@ChantelStays
Ай бұрын
She is so well spoken Japan sounds like the perfect place for me... An introverts heaven
@billking8843
Ай бұрын
Many introverts march to the beat of their own drums. That isn't approved of in Japan. A lot of Japanese people spend time in Western countries and then can never go back, because they decide it is worth trading off some good things about Japan for the good things in the West. Here in Australia, people will help complete strangers when they need help. Fall down in the street in Japan and people will walk right past you, because it isn't their responsibility.
@thisismonitor4099
Ай бұрын
I found it super easy to adapt to Japanese culture. 4 decades ago Europe was similar....
@mymusic6384
27 күн бұрын
Exactly! I don't know, what happened to us ;( But in the Eastern Europe you can still find hospitalty, respect.
@jamesbadham3872
26 күн бұрын
@@mymusic6384 all the 3rd world imports maybe? It was never going to work in reality
@JoeKing-_i_am_not_joking
Ай бұрын
So Beautiful eyes ❤
@moniquessaved777
27 күн бұрын
Sounds like my place
@XDDF__
Ай бұрын
Welllllll said 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@kaiki8318
20 күн бұрын
If you understand that when you visit a foreign country you need to assimilate to how people communicate and conduct themselves as well as if you can survive in your own headspace then you'll be fine in Japan.
@VClll
20 күн бұрын
We are. Get over it
@voodoo22
22 күн бұрын
I love the noise can't live without it
@arthurcorbett6225
Ай бұрын
It's true haha I've experienced both Tokyo and NYC lifestyle and it's a big culture shock in similarities and differences
@PatientPerspective
Ай бұрын
What are the similarities?
@arthurcorbett6225
Ай бұрын
@PatientPerspective both have trains running through the city and there's alot of entertainment.
@Zipfei_Kloatscher
21 күн бұрын
Why do people dance in the subway, why the hell would you consider that kind of decision?? 😅😅😅
@d0myoji
20 күн бұрын
It's about not being tied up by "social rules of acceptance". Same as something as easy as actually having a political opinion or being openly gay etc, bro, people just run on a invisible treadmill of life not being allowed to get off.
@petervansan1054
20 күн бұрын
@@d0myojijapan sounds like paradise then
@Zipfei_Kloatscher
20 күн бұрын
@@d0myoji There is absolutely no need to express your private stuff to others who don't care at all. Do whatever you like but don't bother me with your shit I give a bs about. It's all just a very selfish thing to do... If you're gay, keep it for you. If you're Jewish, why would you tell me. Let me alone... 😅😅😅
@Zipfei_Kloatscher
20 күн бұрын
@@d0myoji Just got cancelled by KZitem, great. Next try: Do whatever you want, but don't bother other people (sexually preference, religion, politics, whatever). It has nothing to do with "social rules of acceptance", just keep your private stuff private. Don't dance in the subway. Dance at home.
@d0myoji
19 күн бұрын
@@Zipfei_Kloatscher did u notice how they deleted what I wrote? 🥶🥶
@Yupyea
Ай бұрын
Japan home of the introverts 🇯🇵
@Simkets
Ай бұрын
This should apply to each and every country. If you want to move somewhere, you need to assimilate into the culture and laws. If you can't do that, and you instead want to push your own views and culture onto others, why are you there? The country is clearly not for you. Stop making the life of people around you worse because you don't like your life in the country.
@Guardian016
24 күн бұрын
If you go to Nishinari, Osaka, things will be totally different. It's not the prettiest neighbourhood in the country, but you can be anyone you want to be.
@VRTL_WRLD
29 күн бұрын
lol one of her shorts shows her literally dancing at the train station
@Emppu_T.
11 күн бұрын
I like quietness, reserve and respect. I think our cultures could be similar in many ways
@waynechan5067
29 күн бұрын
Ally!! Hope you're feeling better and can't wait to see more videos on your channel
@sumdude4281
28 күн бұрын
When in Rome...cliche that is an ancient truth.
@RealMACGamer
22 күн бұрын
When KZitemrs collide! She works on a cruise ship lol iykyk
@GM-id9nu
19 күн бұрын
I follow her. She now lives in Japan again. Was hurt on the ship. She was a former laker girl
@yukitamura9228
Ай бұрын
It's so great to see wonderland alley in Japan. Great transit and she looks great.😊
@andylucas8262
25 күн бұрын
If I could speak the language I would already be there!
@Manpreet-lv1eb
3 күн бұрын
I really like japnese culture Calmness , manners
@ninoellison7793
13 күн бұрын
After 10 years here, I still can’t acclimate… Mission impossible.
@mariafranco5756
24 күн бұрын
BEST explanation EVER!❤❤
@ammcd2012
22 күн бұрын
Basically if you have "main character syndrome ", and you believe everything in the universe revolves around you-then Japan is not ideal. Japan is for those who are kind and live under the radar.
@Here4TheHeckOfIt
20 күн бұрын
Humility is highly valued in Japan
@Here4TheHeckOfIt
20 күн бұрын
It's all about adaptability. And respect of your host culture. I'm always baffled by Americans who expect everything outside of America to be like it is at home.
@GM-id9nu
19 күн бұрын
Hey I follow her
@ricebowl3
Ай бұрын
Alley! she has a great you tube channel
@dukeon
Ай бұрын
Cool, thanks!
@xrtjebyd1105
23 күн бұрын
When takashi-san talks at the beginning, i feel really impatient to see how look the interviewee
@dwk8081
26 күн бұрын
Lived there 16 yrs. I’d go back tomorrow
@Someone-te5ws
20 күн бұрын
She's so freaking beautiful!!
@zacharyahshupe8506
28 күн бұрын
Alley is awesome and her content is just as awesome 💯 You can learn a lot from her 👍
@ysg4528
Ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏 ❤Japan
@redgumtreeiv5956
28 күн бұрын
Well said
@tewkewl
13 күн бұрын
AHHHHH! OMG you're here! wow. I was so sad when you had to leave your cruise life! great job!
@guyroth5726
29 күн бұрын
This bro be finding all the rockets in Japan
@PRLIBRE_SOBERANO
26 күн бұрын
Well we all know were she came from. Respect is basic, and she’s in awe
@funduclasses3211
Ай бұрын
stunning beauty
@RichardsGameStudio
11 күн бұрын
Just returned from a 3-week trip to Japan. Be aware that the Japanese people can be very loud in the trains or on the streets. This was one of the first things I noticed that were different from my expectations from watching videos like this. And it were not only the young people. We were at shrines where there were seniors talking very loud to each others and this happened quite often.
@alphakakcmeddlakadoofahkii3362
25 күн бұрын
Japan sounds like heaven. Could be the demographic composition
@hassletanaka9195
Ай бұрын
Oh yeah, not being able to dance in the subway is just so hard , who could possibly endure that, it would drive a person crazy not being able to dance in the subway, guys guys nobody could possibly put up with that
@tuquanvinh
Ай бұрын
This reminds me of a group of Japanese dancing to rock and roll music in a park. I didn't that's bizarre until I saw this interview.
@H4nik0rei
13 күн бұрын
this is why to all those foreign people that want to visit Japan; i really suggest that you learn their language (日本語) “Nihongo” (There is Hiragana(common Japanese), Katakana(borrowed words from foreign countries), and Kanji(Borrowed Chinese Characters) visiting Japan. Hanabi event is on July! 🎆🎇
@NOUBSTA
24 күн бұрын
Ok, I’m on my way. Thank you!
@DreYeon
Ай бұрын
Literally a germans dream 😂
@Rustsamurai1
Ай бұрын
😂😂❤
@herrgodfrey9563
Ай бұрын
The boys are back in town!
@BummerKid
24 күн бұрын
Omg it’s alley!!!
@djled1013
26 күн бұрын
I work in the city (New York). I feel that Tokyo would be a nice change.
@a1990sGamer
17 күн бұрын
Japan is a place for people who follow the rules and don't think for themselves, mostly anyway because obviously there's some crime in Japan, but anyone who is a conformist will love Japan
@zibbitybibbitybop
Ай бұрын
Keep your head down in general and don't bother other people. You do that, you'll probably be fine in Japan overall.
@weissefabrik
24 күн бұрын
she needed two hundred "like"s and fifty five seconds to say: be respectful
@saharastar8336
23 күн бұрын
Rudeness and ill manners in Japan are not surprising when it comes to social media comments. Some Japanese can be extremely rude and trash/attack others who have different opinions or out of jealousy. Some victims of the constant social media attack have committed sui_ _ _e. There are people who feel that in real life, the requirement of being well mannered in public are very confining. As a result, they release frustration and anger on social media where they can do it anonymously.
@missplainjane3905
21 күн бұрын
This can apply anywhere
@saharastar8336
21 күн бұрын
@@missplainjane3905 Yes, unfortunately
@missplainjane3905
20 күн бұрын
@@saharastar8336 😥😥😥
@Msal19
Ай бұрын
I love Japan because I am an ambivert/introvert but I would never live there. As a foreigner you feel like an alien
@letswin5944
11 күн бұрын
I want to live in the complete opposite of New York. So Japan sounds amazing
@Eric_Casteel
25 күн бұрын
She’s a baddie
@ObsidianFrog
26 күн бұрын
" A - CLIME - A - TIZE "
@cherryhazard8002
Ай бұрын
Lol my boyfriend and I went to Boston and when my boyfriend asked a guy that worked in the subway directions he literally told him to f*ck off and that he wasn't very bright and whatnot, we were shocked. Another day, some canadian dude didn't let us go through when we were suppossed to pass and he just drove off, almost hitting us. Same thing happened another day and dude literally asked "Did I hit you?". We then went to more rural areas (Within Maine and New Hampshire) and everything seemed more calm. It's a big city problem, not a country problem. It's like that everywhere lol. I don't think I could be able to live in Japan, as you'll always be an outsider in a way, plus it's a bit too judgemental from what I've heard.
@zeeshawnali4078
Ай бұрын
How do you know he was Canadian? We're usually more polite.
@cherryhazard8002
Ай бұрын
@@zeeshawnali4078 Canadian license plate
@aj2563
Ай бұрын
Big city so scary!!!!
@NoctLightCloud
Ай бұрын
Tokyo is also a bit city, yet you don't see such behaviour there
@Punk3rGirl
Ай бұрын
no it's a culture problem of the places you mentioned. you say it's a big city problem which makes no sense when the video is talking about people being quiet and polite in tokyo (a big city).
@winstonmontag586
18 күн бұрын
New York, a place where animals are more civilized than so-called people.
@Hytension
8 күн бұрын
Listening to east coast people is funny enough in itself.
@aleks-33
26 күн бұрын
On expat/Japanese twitter a couple weeks back it was chaos because someone took a photo of some White (Australian?) Tourists in the tokyo train and one was doing a pull-up on the handlebar or something. And everyone was acting like he murdered someone lmao. Whats funny is that all these weebs were saying no Japanese person woULD EVER do that and juat the other day a Japanese POLITICIAN had to apologize for hanging off the handlebars on the subway cuz he was drunk lol.
@marizildacandela3923
Ай бұрын
In my soul i am japanese. Love them.
@ianslazinik2264
26 күн бұрын
hell nah paid actor
@Alex-hm7nt
24 күн бұрын
My take could be a little slanted since I was stationed in Okinawa (being military and Okinawa is different than the mainland): Japanese is very respectful, but it CAN BE kinda rude, ie "smile to your face, talk sh*t behind your back", privately of course. Now, I was military (on Okinawa) and I'm also Korean, so that could play a factor too. Its like they just tolerate me being there for business, pleasure whatever, but make it respectful, in public anyways But I do feel like the culture leans towards xenophobic
@JB-gt5no
22 күн бұрын
Sounds like this person doesn’t have real world experience with people being respectful or “dancing on a subway/train” lives in a bubble
@dylanpreciado4110
21 күн бұрын
I thought something similar
@GM-id9nu
19 күн бұрын
You have no clue she has a travel website
@jr8472
Ай бұрын
Id rather have japanese culture than any other culture
@instantpug7036
27 күн бұрын
only two countries - Japan and America. as someone who grew up in Germany not everything is so black and white different. but the irrationality of the rule-keeping is what is the most frustrating, no humanity in customer service whatsoever (I know why but it’s still a little wild). also having little to no greenery and parks in cities is probably the most depressing thing to us, idk how much Americans really miss that (Americans aren’t a monolith either I know I just never saw anyone mention that ever)
@thetravelingboulderer
26 күн бұрын
No Show Time in Japanese subways 😂
@kidrn4u
Ай бұрын
Yes, true!
@RetiredFreeBird
Ай бұрын
Like
@kareta24
25 күн бұрын
How can I move to Japan? Native New Yorker who regrets coming back after being abroad for 7 years.
@calmo14
27 күн бұрын
americans are so individualized that it’s so hard for some to even fathom conforming to another’s way of living. it’s not a bad thing, it’s respectful!
@drago7238
26 күн бұрын
Giving Dancing in busses vs being mugged by future scientists. Tough thing to give up
@zatomb2574
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She looks like @wanderlust alley but looks less bouncy 😀
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