Men prefers young women who are beautiful and fertile. They don't want single mothers or older women with attitude.
@McRooster
Жыл бұрын
Problem with older women, 25+ is that they can have a lot of baggage. E.g failed marriage, kids, not over long term ex-boyfriend etc. And 30+ women, their looks decline rapidly especially here in the west, Asian women not as much :)
@anonymousperson2345
Жыл бұрын
I think some older men just simply enjoy being around younger women for the youthfulness and beauty of the younger ladies. 😊
@ADRAGONSLIFE
Жыл бұрын
10 years together , 8 years married . I'm 54 , she's 34
@peelypeelmeister6432
Жыл бұрын
I'm 56. My wife is 35. We have a great relationship. We work well together. She's very frugal with money, she's a fantastic business partner. Loyal, focussed, and she listens. The main thing that attracted me to her in the beginning is that she's a school teacher and works hard. I've honestly never met a more sincere and honest woman ever. Western women don't do anything for me.
@MrDanaful
Жыл бұрын
I almost got hooked (on-line) with a 40 y/o and I’m 70. I saw where it was going and knew it wouldn’t last.
@seantwentyfour471
Жыл бұрын
I don't know how this is relevant, but many times I've walked around, arm-in-arm with a 20 yr-old gal (I'm 54), carrying a bunch of her shopping bags, and gotten "disgusted" looks and comment behind my back about what a pervert I must be, or worse... I gave up trying to explain... it's my frickin daughter, and yeah, I'll spoil her when I can. My ideal woman would be in her early to mid-40's (certainly mature, employed, and doesn't "need" me, but "wants" me).
@Polleej
Жыл бұрын
Let's say you were a 54 yo man with a 20 yo woman who wasn't your daughter. iy would still be no-one's business and you should still not have to explain. The disgusted looks are from jealous older women and men who are keen to simp for them. IMHO, condemning an older man with a younger woman is the last acceptable prejudice. Human beings being what they are, are loath to let go of a good prejudice.
@masamangtao6417
Жыл бұрын
@@Polleej I agree there's nothing immoral about dating between two legal adults of any age. The video was just suggesting that 10+ years will often be a transactional relationship where she's with you for your money, so just be aware of that and how expensive it can get.
@markking3755
8 ай бұрын
i do not give a dam what you think about dating with girls at all i like to know what the girls them self think about dating and what they think about age gap dating too. not your thoughts on this.
@mrlong6267
Жыл бұрын
Everything Chris explained in this video is 💯 correct. Avoid transactional relationships. Financial danger ⛔️
@TuanNguyen-dl5iw
Жыл бұрын
"Age is a matter of the mind, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter." Mark Twain. I get what you said homie & you're not entirely wrong. Everybody have their value system. As a Viet Kieu, I'm tired of US' bigotry; agism, racism, etc. Life for the most part IS a tradeoff. Culturally, Asia favor gifts & securities for the women vs. age discrimination.
@SiqFix
Жыл бұрын
I’m from Arizona. I’m 34 turning 35. My Vietnamese girlfriend is 24. So yeah I think 10-15 age gap is fine.
@fatandbroke
Жыл бұрын
10 years max
@sebastiangeorge7714
Жыл бұрын
Your age/2+7 under that it’s questionable 😅
@jaredtheboss
Жыл бұрын
How did u guys meet
@SiqFix
Жыл бұрын
@@jaredtheboss funny enough through Facebook friend suggestions lol. I have been with her since the end of 2020. FaceTime from 2020 until now. I officially met her in Ho Chi Minh July 2022.
@SiqFix
Жыл бұрын
@@fatandbroke so you don’t think a 30 year should be with a 45 year old? That’s wild
@TrevorMelbourne-ef1in
9 ай бұрын
Excellent video. My ex-wife and I were 25 years apart. Never had a single “stink eye” or cross word mumbled towards me while we were together. Our divorce had zero to do with our age gap. Nonetheless, Chris is spot-on re the potential pitfalls and the reality of a major age-gap relationship. Question: Where and how does one meet younger hotties in VN? Are the women Chris refers to in this video synonymous with bar girls? Asking for a friend…
@peten409
Жыл бұрын
To be 40 again. Never go crazy on gifts they don't respect it.
@tobias193
Жыл бұрын
I am 36 and confident I can get girls who are 21,22 in Vietnam without buying shit. Of course there will be some who will try to finess you but just listen your intuition and avoid red flags. Cut them off right away. Never paid for box in my life and it will continue like that. The real dimes are especially the one's who don't go to parties and are more introverted.
@SuperRyuusei
Жыл бұрын
I am 37 and my Viet-Chinese girlfriend is 35. She sent me a random friend request and things are looking great right now. If all goes well, I will be tying the knot in Saigon next year. I am obese and she is a bit on the side of chubby but not fat. So far, we have done video chat a few times and normally, text chat. She told me she is not pretty but I think she is hot. Our age gap is somewhat just 2.5 years. Since she is over 35 years old, I think this is a legit relationship.
@REDBUDDA66
Жыл бұрын
I’m 17 years between me n my gf in Vietnam.. she buys herself things
@werthersoriginal
4 ай бұрын
The Age Gap formula is half your age plus 7. So if someone is 40 years old the formula is: 40/2 + 7 = 27
@user-xz6ot7wf4j
Ай бұрын
Sounds good
@jerryhughes9970
Жыл бұрын
strange,,,,do you as you please....know many people who had big age difference no real issues. maybe all you young people have just lost it!!!!
@Polleej
Жыл бұрын
IMHO, condemning an older man with a younger woman is the last acceptable prejudice. Human beings being what they are, are loath to let go of a good prejudice.
@user-xz6ot7wf4j
Ай бұрын
Money makes the age gap disappear. Who cares if both are happy in their situation for whatever motive. Im 62 and im perfectly ok with a good looking 40 or 45 asian woman too if she looks like 25
@dorkeboye
2 ай бұрын
I just turned 37 and yes younger people call me uncle and I feel the age now 😂
@PatThePauper
Жыл бұрын
I rather enjoy your videos, I hate your sideburns, but you make solid content man. Thanks for being so real, the talks, the walks. So many YT creators just cater to the algo, stay a boss!
@fatandbroke
Жыл бұрын
My sideburns got me everything in life
@David-ws6do
Жыл бұрын
@@fatandbroke You did the right thing in shaving them. People take you seriously now
@wrx111
Жыл бұрын
@@fatandbroke Thought it was your charisma that got you everything.
@xdgs567z
Жыл бұрын
I think around 10 years difference is ok in Vietnam…..many women in their 30s who are divorced in Vietnam with kids looking for foreigners in their 40s 😊
@charleslough1245
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@barryforster5779
Жыл бұрын
Hey Chris l think your spot on my Vietnamese Fiance is 39 lm 50 l wouldnt want any younger we get each other shes amazing
@fredintexas8561
Жыл бұрын
Nha Trang woman and me 17 yrs.
@stephenalfredson2015
Жыл бұрын
Half your age plus seven years. Never any younger. Even when you’re 15.
@phatphil7836
Жыл бұрын
What about when you're 3?
@bardhenry6826
Ай бұрын
Thats fair
@ZiaKhan-ly2vq
Жыл бұрын
My wife and I are almost 5 years apart in age.
@masamangtao6417
Жыл бұрын
So you're not saying anyone is immoral for pursuing younger women, but just that an age gap over 10 years will usually be a transactional relationship where she's with you for money, not love-and that can get increasingly expensive as time goes on.
@bardhenry6826
Ай бұрын
He knows nothing. He just has an opinion. IMO
@peterclaydon9782
Жыл бұрын
I am 63 .. she is 42 Thai ..she is a dam site cheaper to run than any western wife would be
@Jagutt2
Жыл бұрын
cheeper to "rent" if you whant a 20 year old
@douggardner3170
Жыл бұрын
Hi my fiancee lives in siagon/ ho chi Minh city, our age gap is 14 years, she has spent her money to get a passport and will travel here later this year, I intend to immigrate to Vietnam in 2025 at 62 when I can collect social security!!!!😊. We love each other very much!!!
@johncantrell614
Жыл бұрын
I am four years older than my Vietnamese wife. And much like you say, we tend to have the same general outlook on things in many situations, because we come from the same era.
@ADRAGONSLIFE
Жыл бұрын
This video nailed it . I've known my wife's family for over 20 years
@porkepik32
Жыл бұрын
Agree on 10 age gap (mine is 4, 48-44,its love). Bigger age gap means your experience,state in life,...is too different to connect. Married for a year together for 4 now. All is good (both divorced prior with older teenagers/young adults). I would not have dated less than 35 when i was 45. And yes woman in their 30s are really hot. My wife looks much younger than 44 and still super sexy even after 2 kids. Tight and firm everywhere . When out with her older 17yo daughter they pass for sisters or younger aunt.
@rickyramone1350
Жыл бұрын
Don’t worry, love actually exists between a local VN girl and a farang. It works love love love is how to survive
@rickyramone1350
Жыл бұрын
Sorry forgot to say I’m 53 my wife is 40 , expecting my 1st child in September when I will be 54 , hell yeah come on
@CharlieVN
Жыл бұрын
Pure love…………..😂😂😂😂
@timothyy7
Жыл бұрын
me (31). the vn lady (34). 3 years apart. definitely not transactional.
@camohd3765
Жыл бұрын
I have heard and been told several times that western men dating asian women, you should halve your age and then add 7, so a 50 year old dating a 32 yo woman is acceptable. And as for transactional relationships, dating western women these days has become transactional. The man has to be a traditional man and organise and pay for dates etc but the women are not traditional women anymore, they’re boss bitches and “don’t need no man” unless you got money!!!
@drewcorry5056
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely Loved Every Minute
@MrDanaful
Жыл бұрын
And I’m a hot looking 70.😜
@jshlw
Жыл бұрын
Chris preaching in this video lol we need to hear this
@elevenseries6978
Жыл бұрын
I remember when this "Ageist" Term was actually referred to Preference. No Wars were ever fought over these older women...lol. There are many reasons as to why guys want younger women. The older a woman is the more potential consequences and complications there are for trying to conceive a child, At 35 and up it is considered a "geriatric pregnancy" if a woman gets pregnant.. This is obviously just 1 answer and scenario out of many. There are both Good and bad things to take into account with both younger or older women, From money to life experience to Emotional and personal maturity..etc...
@Polleej
Жыл бұрын
IMHO, condemning an older man with a younger woman is the last acceptable prejudice. Human beings being what they are, are loath to let go of a good prejudice.
@anoncal
Жыл бұрын
I'm landing in vietnam on the 13th I'll be there for 2 weeks 😄
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