Sounds like hubby had a fetish for a long time and finally acted on it, the fact he left while OP was pregnant and now again, leaving OP to deal with the kids on her own, truly shady and disgusting
@Sai0912
4 ай бұрын
He has someone there👀
@psychoticreations121
4 ай бұрын
I dont understand why she stayed with him after that show. He has always been obsessive to go there making you and his kids 5 priority because you aren't his first, second, and third priority. Should have left when he did it the first time. But i know love is blinding an thought he could be fixed. Gambled wnd lost so take your leave, gather your assets because i imagine once you leave he be gone to Japan to get citizenship.
@ethrixhd7081
4 ай бұрын
does he have a secret family there or smthn?!
@NotMyOwn-jl6rh
4 ай бұрын
THATS WHAT IM THINKING??
@GachaCoockie
4 ай бұрын
Idk if some of the people who commented here have seen the original post, or if they’ve just been listening to a bit to many of this types of videos- but people who are learning a language typically do stay/study in that country that the language is mostly used, (like someone learning German would go to Germany, or someone learning Spanish would go to for example Mexico). Even so, him having left her while she was pregnant was bad, but now the kids are old enough to where they can take mostly care of themselves (they aren’t toddlers anymore, they mostly just need to be reminded about school and doing chores, and as long as they get food and clean clothes they’ll be fine) So, he WAS THA *when* he left her alone while pregnant, but now it’s probably mostly for more educational purposes. But I do feel like there are some things op hasn’t mentioned, (like it would strain there finances or that one of there kids need more help then most there age).
@expressodepresso___
4 ай бұрын
1st time he was TAH, this time the kids are old enough to know what's good or not for them, I don't think this time is really that bad, the worst thing was him leaving you while preg but the kids should be just fine and understanding
@torianatwinfire1913
4 ай бұрын
I would think the greater issue is making your spouse a single parent for 3 months for a non emergent / career related reason which are generally the only reasons you'd leave your entire family for 3 months... he is for sure being shady.
@expressodepresso___
4 ай бұрын
@@torianatwinfire1913 yeah, I guess but I'd also understand not being able to do something that's like a dream to you specially since you know your family will be just fine, it's kinda limiting in a way and some relationships end for that same reason
@torianatwinfire1913
4 ай бұрын
@expressodepresso___ well I mean then don't have a family. Like straight up ya it sucks that once you choose to have a kids that life gets limiting. Does mom get to just up and leave for 3 months for her own desires? No she has no choice but to be the responsible one. Marriage is a partnership. Children are a dual responsibility.
@expressodepresso___
4 ай бұрын
@@torianatwinfire1913 idk, it's become quite "normal" for me, my parents aren't together yet my father (the one taking care of me and my lil sis) goes on trips and leaves me and my sis alone, we still see our mother from time to time but she's not even sending us money or being responsible with her part so idk, maybe I kinda normalized irresponsible parents 🤷
@milissadaniels2727
4 ай бұрын
Pregnancy is not a disease, so that part is lame but staying for three months alone is nuts
@shanayamehta9108
4 ай бұрын
Dude 😂 it's not a disease but you would still like your partner to support you and not just leave you to deal with everything alone
@MichealRealman
4 ай бұрын
Yup but miscarriages happen as well as other complications and it’s really shitty to leave whilst someone’s going through that especially if they don’t want you too and it’s not a limited opportunity
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